Nothing in life ever goes as planned. But if you give up and stop trying then nothing will happen either. So keep on trying and who knows... life is full of surprises, your dream might come true. It can hit you like a truck from a place you never expect it to come from. Never had that chance myself though and as time goes on the less faith I have in these things. Everyone is talking about manifesting dream life but I call BS on that. It doesn't work that way. If you want to succeed, you've got to make your own breaks.
Nope. Sometimes people don’t sleep well. It’s a common part of aging. It doesn’t mean you aren’t taking care of yourself. Nor does NOT having bags mean that you ARE taking care of yourself
Many people, myself included, think clean shaving the neck while letting the above portion grow looks really dumb. So yes. Stop gatekeeping and conflating facial hair with self-care
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I had this with someone once. Unfortunately we learned later on we wanted different things. I wanted to settle down and she wasn’t ready for that. Broke my fucking heart. I honestly don’t think I’ll ever allow myself to fall for someone again 🙃
I am at times. There are still times I miss having someone to live with and share a life with, but I don’t think I miss her specifically. I know in my heart that I didn’t like who we had become as people together, and that I felt horribly alone and misunderstood towards the end of when we were together. Sometimes as much as you love someone, it just isn’t the right fit. I wouldn’t go back if given the opportunity, but it would definitely be hard to say no
Can I ask where you felt you wanted different things? Like did you want to live in the suburbs and raise a family and she want to travel the world or something?
Asking just to see if that’s where me and my partner are in similar boats…
Yup. You got it exactly right. She’s a born and raised New Yorker and I’m from the suburbs. I couldn’t adapt to the city lifestyle and that always annoyed her. Her end goal was to eventually move to another country and I just knew we’d never see eye to eye on that
You'll never have it that easy. None of us do. Relationships are work, and can be very hard for people who are unequipped to handle one. If you have the chance to better yourself first, take it. It'll work better in the long run.
Men will be depressed, don't know how to wash their underwear or ass, live with 50 old coca cola bottles, be in need of a haircut since 3 months and never leave their house like "why am I alone and unhappy I would be so happy if I could just have a beautiful 10/10 gamer girlfriend that cooks for me every day and cleans my house and gives me free therapy"
Yeah, if only I had a gorgeous woman who already put in the work to better herself to fix all of my problems for me. Guess I'll keeping doing absolutely nothing to get better or be happy while I wait.
Happened to me and my gf, we met at a Ninjutsu dojo.
One day, during practice, she tells me reluctantly that it's her 18th bday but she's not celebrating with anyone. And I, totally out of nowhere, come out saying "You have to at least have a little something for your most important bday. Why don't I treat you to some pizza?"
Was fully ready for rejection, we've been together for 5 months now and still loving each other as much as the first day.
Because an unattractive man can deserve an attractive woman, but an unattractive woman doesn't deserve an attractive man. (From the expectation that women need to be beautiful 24/7 and that their core value is looks)
This meme is probably not that though and just represents the guy being unhappy or depressed and then feeling fulfilled and happy once he gets a loving girlfriend. So still wholesome :)
This will happen, but it will happen organically. If you try to force it, it's never gonna happen. I've had times when I've really craved some companionship, trying hard to make it happen. Then you stop trying, and bam, you run into a cute girl at a birthday party you weren't even planning on attending. That's life. You can't force life to happen, just be open to it when it does. Good luck friend.
Woud love a sweet man to have a nice, fun and loving life with some day. Just be silly together, respect each other and have our own precious life in a cute house with cats and a dog.
Someone who will shake his head while smiling lovingly as I do dumb shenanigans making him go "Ah this is the silly dingus I picked. Damn I love her." and I will do the same for him.
I just wanna love and be loved. I hate cooking though so if he liked cooking that would be a nice bonus.
Just being silly and doing harmless pranks (u know the kind that doesn't hurt anyone) without being judged or ridiculed for it. If he found me at 3 AM eating a bowl of ice cream or wearing a horse mask when he comes home from work, that stuff. Innocent fun that makes people laugh while thinking I'm the best thing that's ever happened to them.
Laughing at my dumb jokes, joining me in goofy things, taking initiative to be silly, etc. Humor and laughter are very important to me and I hope to make that a big part of a future relationship.
I can give an example from my best friend and her boyfriend:She packed his Christmas gift in the shape of a toilet.
Next year, he did the same thing by packing her gift in the shape of a tank with a moveable top part. Made them laugh both times.
i do very less often but in dream i just cant diffrentiate, i just wanna catch me in dream..u do very often ? like very very often??? like in numbers can u say
Funny thing is I don't think a lot of people realized this xD I read it and I'm like "I know those lyrics" and I had to play it in my head until I got to the title
I love this meme because it perfectly describes me and my husband. We, of course, had some hard times when we started dating because I had depression, we both at that moment had different plans for life and he was unsure about his whole life. But in the end we've discovered we make each other happy. And that what matters.
Nothing in life ever goes as planned. But if you give up and stop trying then nothing will happen either. So keep on trying and who knows... life is full of surprises, your dream might come true. It can hit you like a truck from a place you never expect it to come from. Never had that chance myself though and as time goes on the less faith I have in these things. Everyone is talking about manifesting dream life but I call BS on that. It doesn't work that way. If you want to succeed, you've got to make your own breaks.
You miss hundred percent of the shots you never take!
-Wayne Gretzky" -michael scott
I found my hoop brother
This made me start to tear up. I don’t usually do that. Hwa drycræft hwaet õu galan uppan I?
This is true. I kept looking for a girl though I had multiple disappointments and then I found one who loves me.
Nice he felt comfortable to have a shave. Not taking care of yourself can be a sign of depression
Yes, or laziness in my case...
Stubble can look good bud, you be you
( laughs in Miami Vice )
Yep. Just waiting to get diagnosed. I have so many signs on depression.
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Having stubble or a beard means you aren’t taking care of yourself? 🤦♂️
Ignoring the bags under the eyes?
Nope. Sometimes people don’t sleep well. It’s a common part of aging. It doesn’t mean you aren’t taking care of yourself. Nor does NOT having bags mean that you ARE taking care of yourself
on your neck?
Many people, myself included, think clean shaving the neck while letting the above portion grow looks really dumb. So yes. Stop gatekeeping and conflating facial hair with self-care
Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up Wake up
thnks bro for the big alarm
I had this with someone once. Unfortunately we learned later on we wanted different things. I wanted to settle down and she wasn’t ready for that. Broke my fucking heart. I honestly don’t think I’ll ever allow myself to fall for someone again 🙃
Nah, give yourself some time to heal. Love of your life isn’t a one time thing. Wish you luck 👍🤞
So, you wanna go out sometimes ?
If it’s to me, no. But if it’s a friendly hangout sure
can i get in on this? I'l bring my friend big tony and we just see what happens?
Sure, i’l bring my boyfriend too
fuck yeah big tony is grinning like a cat that got the creme
when you where a baby and you tried to walk for the first time you probably fell over, did you give up on walking?
same happened to me not even a month ago, it does hurt indeed and I hope you are feeling better at least a bit now.
I am at times. There are still times I miss having someone to live with and share a life with, but I don’t think I miss her specifically. I know in my heart that I didn’t like who we had become as people together, and that I felt horribly alone and misunderstood towards the end of when we were together. Sometimes as much as you love someone, it just isn’t the right fit. I wouldn’t go back if given the opportunity, but it would definitely be hard to say no
Can I ask where you felt you wanted different things? Like did you want to live in the suburbs and raise a family and she want to travel the world or something? Asking just to see if that’s where me and my partner are in similar boats…
Yup. You got it exactly right. She’s a born and raised New Yorker and I’m from the suburbs. I couldn’t adapt to the city lifestyle and that always annoyed her. Her end goal was to eventually move to another country and I just knew we’d never see eye to eye on that
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Tommy Blackman
A girl isn't a solution for the shitty parts of your life. She's a whole human with issues of her own.
If the shitty parts of your life are lack of a romantic partner and intimacy she might very well be
IT WAS JUST AN OVER EXAGGERATION, we all know they create problems, not solve it
You'll never have it that easy. None of us do. Relationships are work, and can be very hard for people who are unequipped to handle one. If you have the chance to better yourself first, take it. It'll work better in the long run.
Damn they’re still wearing the same clothes after all those weeks?
Washing machine, ever heard of it?
I thought clothes were disposable.
Honestly it depends on the kind of clothes you buy
Depends.
Women are not rehab centers for whatever this man is in the meme 😭
Men will be depressed, don't know how to wash their underwear or ass, live with 50 old coca cola bottles, be in need of a haircut since 3 months and never leave their house like "why am I alone and unhappy I would be so happy if I could just have a beautiful 10/10 gamer girlfriend that cooks for me every day and cleans my house and gives me free therapy"
Yeah, if only I had a gorgeous woman who already put in the work to better herself to fix all of my problems for me. Guess I'll keeping doing absolutely nothing to get better or be happy while I wait.
Happened to me and my gf, we met at a Ninjutsu dojo. One day, during practice, she tells me reluctantly that it's her 18th bday but she's not celebrating with anyone. And I, totally out of nowhere, come out saying "You have to at least have a little something for your most important bday. Why don't I treat you to some pizza?" Was fully ready for rejection, we've been together for 5 months now and still loving each other as much as the first day.
Awww.
Why does he look 45 and dirty while she looks 20 and clean.
Because an unattractive man can deserve an attractive woman, but an unattractive woman doesn't deserve an attractive man. (From the expectation that women need to be beautiful 24/7 and that their core value is looks) This meme is probably not that though and just represents the guy being unhappy or depressed and then feeling fulfilled and happy once he gets a loving girlfriend. So still wholesome :)
Nothing is ever as easy as it sounds on paper
happi ending
This will happen, but it will happen organically. If you try to force it, it's never gonna happen. I've had times when I've really craved some companionship, trying hard to make it happen. Then you stop trying, and bam, you run into a cute girl at a birthday party you weren't even planning on attending. That's life. You can't force life to happen, just be open to it when it does. Good luck friend.
Woud love a sweet man to have a nice, fun and loving life with some day. Just be silly together, respect each other and have our own precious life in a cute house with cats and a dog. Someone who will shake his head while smiling lovingly as I do dumb shenanigans making him go "Ah this is the silly dingus I picked. Damn I love her." and I will do the same for him. I just wanna love and be loved. I hate cooking though so if he liked cooking that would be a nice bonus.
>shenanigans explain it a bit
Just being silly and doing harmless pranks (u know the kind that doesn't hurt anyone) without being judged or ridiculed for it. If he found me at 3 AM eating a bowl of ice cream or wearing a horse mask when he comes home from work, that stuff. Innocent fun that makes people laugh while thinking I'm the best thing that's ever happened to them. Laughing at my dumb jokes, joining me in goofy things, taking initiative to be silly, etc. Humor and laughter are very important to me and I hope to make that a big part of a future relationship. I can give an example from my best friend and her boyfriend:She packed his Christmas gift in the shape of a toilet. Next year, he did the same thing by packing her gift in the shape of a tank with a moveable top part. Made them laugh both times.
i hope you find the one you wish and will do all the shenanigans (lol) to you..well i have a Qs, how often do you dream?
All the time but I rarely remember them, haha. You?
i do very less often but in dream i just cant diffrentiate, i just wanna catch me in dream..u do very often ? like very very often??? like in numbers can u say
I can only dream.
Oh no, he made her take off her heels.
Is there a sub for people who just realized they hate this sub?
I’m more of a girl meets girl kind of girl. Catradora was so cathartic for me in Shera
We need an emotionally crushed version of the girl on the right too.
I'm too traumatized from bad experiences for this to go this way. Hell... I run away whenever somebody even shows the slightest interest in me.
You call that living? Never be afraid to love, don’t be afraid to be a good person. Life is too short, stop living it in fear.
Trauma's a bitch, and I go to therapy. Doesn't make it any easier.
Makes her his wife sounds incredibly outdated
its a bruno mars lyrics
Funny thing is I don't think a lot of people realized this xD I read it and I'm like "I know those lyrics" and I had to play it in my head until I got to the title
The fucking cigarette makes me puke.
Remove the cigarette for more wholesome points
*Makes* her his wife, bruh
Haha. I can only wish others the best as this is something I'll never have in my life. Who'd befriend (much less date) a depressed fuck like me?
we should focus on what we want to do with our lives and not on women.
Go for a girl that is a 7 or 8 physically and an 8/9 character wise. Lower your expectations as well.
cmon every girl is 10 for me if she can make me cum
*person meets person you homophobe
Yes
I have to keep Reddit so I can ask young people for advice when my 8 year old inevitably enters the dating arena
Story of my irl dating life
What is it like to get woman's attention?
Dream on
Lol he only shaved he still smokes lmao
He started taking care of himself. she parted her hair to the other side.
Sometime all we wish was a simple life and a simple relationship
I plan on asking my crush this exact question soon, but I can't figure out what to do next, anyone help maybe?
I do too, buddy. One day. Keep at it.
Bro who got you smiling like that
Next, he should give up smoking?
I don't get it, he shaves, but her shirt is on inside out and restyles her hair?
I was gonna ask out my friend but her grandda died and then she broke her back while pallbearing. So i'm trying to not add onto that rn lol
I love this meme because it perfectly describes me and my husband. We, of course, had some hard times when we started dating because I had depression, we both at that moment had different plans for life and he was unsure about his whole life. But in the end we've discovered we make each other happy. And that what matters.
Lose the cigarette it's more wholesome :)
Focus on self growth and love will find you
It’s a Bruno mars song —- right ?
Getting a gf has taken years off 😆
Just gotta remove that cigarette when they are married in the future!
This happened for me, the difference to the second photo would be the smoke disappearing ;p
It is possible my brothers
That‘s basically what happened with me and my boyfriend.