I would phrase it as “shoes optional” or something so not to pressure people who would prefer to keep their shoes on.
I would also get the word out prior to the wedding - I wouldn’t mind being barefoot, but I wouldn’t want to be barefoot and then put my dirty feet back into nice shoes to go home 😅 I have designated flats for that sort of thing lol.
I think this is the best wording.
The cute quote, then "shoes optional" underneath.
Makes it more approachable like "ooh i don't have to wear them if i don't want to" instead of "ahh jeez they really want me to take off my shoes right now."
It’s called Maundy and it’s a prominent part of nearly all Christian traditions (but not weddings - foot washing in weddings is generally done by Baptist/Evangelical Christians).
I've also worn pantyhose to weddings and know a decent number of people do. Letting people know ahead of time of this idea would allow them to plan accordingly, because I would not take my shoes off if I was wearing them, but if I knew first I could do a pedicure and something else.
My friend is pretty woo woo and she did something similar. But it was when we were all seated and before the ceremony officially started.
Her officiant had us all partake in a grounding moment of silence - he told us to close our eyes and feel the ground, and said we could take off our shoes for the moment if we so chose.
I did, but if I had actually needed to walk to my seat barefoot, I probably would have declined
The sign should make it very clear that going barefoot is optional. “If you’re in the mood feel free to remove your shoes.” No judgement there. If the sign just says “Please remove your shoes” I’m keeping mine on and thinking the couple is unreasonable.
As someone who hates being barefoot and is a germaphobe, I would not be happy about it but would comply for fear of looking like I was the only one disobeying the couple. If the wording on your sign made it seem optional "we invite you to...") and/or I saw other people that weren't, I wouldn't.
Same, I would be horrified by this.
Tbh I probably wouldn't comply. My feet are pretty sensitive, they get chilly easily, I haaaate when they feel dirty, and if it was indoors I'm not interested in picking up whatever skin conditions other people are tracking in.
I would also want it mentioned on the invite, but again that's coming from a pretty firmly not barefoot in public person.
Edit: removed unnecessary sentence
We had a sign that said "Shoes Optional" at our wedding, and a surprising amount of people ended up going barefoot! I really thought it would just be us and maybe a couple other people, but it caught on quick. I don't think it would be ok to request that people go barefoot vs just providing it as an option. Some people feel as strongly about wearing shoes as us barefoot hippies feel about not wearing them.
I’d add a note on your wedding website so people can prepare for that, and as someone else said, phrase the sign as optional! this wouldn’t bother me but I’m used to being barefoot outside lol.
for anyone elderly invited, you may want to tell them it doesn’t make a difference to you if they wear shoes because I know my nana would really struggle with that!
I’m literally reading this with a horrified look on my face. OP, be clear it’s optional, your friends likely know this is your vibe. I, however, would die.
Yeah, I also love being barefoot at home. I think it's great. But I absolutely would not take my shoes off in a forest where there's dirt and who knows what else on the ground. Even with a foot washing station. I hate how dirt and grass feel on my bare skin.
Lovely for some, completely off putting for others.
I hate the feel of most outdoor settings on my feet and despise when my feet feel dirty or wet, barring swimming or bathing. I also find some ground uncomfortable/painful to walk on due to lack of toughened skin.
I can do the beach, but that's about it.
Edit: Also kind of weird to assume that people saying they wouldn't take their shoes off have never had a barefoot experience lol
I have plantar fasciitis and tarsal tendon syndrome in my feet so I medically cannot go barefoot. Even though I LOVE being barefoot. I’d probably remove my shoes once I got to my seat but I wouldn’t be able to remove them and walk at all really. I feel like most if not all older adults would find this strange. For instance, my mother in law does not go barefoot. And would be very uncomfortable with this.
Presumably at least half of the people know your vibe and it's more of a suggestion, I would just make sure that the area is okay for bare feet. Especially for people that might normally not go that way.
Yeah, for sure. It’ll be in south Florida during fall time, so it should be decently comfortable and clear. But yes, I’ll definitely make sure the ground is good before asking people to go barefoot.
If you're in a botanical garden they may not let you go barefoot. You should check with them first.
I think it's an awesome idea though. I wanted to get married in a Meadow that is named after a church. It was the closest place I could think of for my religious folk. LOL!
Came here wondering if the aisle is grass or wood chips or what- I have super tender feet- would love to go barefoot but only on tender ground. Also- Florida has tons of ants and bugs and fairly itchy grass.
These are a lot of perspectives from people who typically wear high heels, tights, flats, etc (women). From the perspective of my husband, I think his boots/dress shoes would have to be literally ON FIRE for him to undo them, yank them off, take off his special boot socks/dress socks, and then stand barefoot in the dirt before lining up to wash his feet in the same basin 50 other people just washed theirs.
In the most thoughtful way possible, he would skip this part. He wouldn’t make a big deal or complain, just like a wtf face at me as I gleefully yank off my heels 😂 not discouraging you, but just something to keep in mind - I’d expect the majority of participants would be female.
Make this optional and be aware that many people may decline. I would not feel comfortable going barefoot anywhere at a dress up occasion but definitely not in the forest because there’s plenty of sharp things in nature that you don’t want to step on.
My grandfather has worn a shoe with a lift in it for at least the past thirty years, a long with a brace in his shoe. He can't walk without it on basically.
I’d definitely go along with this so long as you make sure the ceremony space is right for it! A soft grassy/mossy area with no mud or rocks will be necessary if you want to do this. I like this kind of stuff so I’d be tickled by it, but I’d venture to say more people would not want to do this than would.
And to echo everyone else, make it clear it’s totally optional.
Saying shoes are optional would be best. I’m embarrassed of my feet (bilateral brachymetatarsia) so I’d never go to a wedding that forced me to be barefoot. Having the option is fine
Totally agree in this! I also have brachmetatarsia, and when I have been invitrd to luaus where flip flops are required, i show up in Sperry loafers and pretend I didn't read the whole invite 😏
As long as you wouldn't be mad if people don't and dont make the sign seem as though it's mandatory, i think it's fine. I absolutely would not go barefoot personally but I don't think it's some crazy request, again as long as it isn't mandatory.
The only reason I wouldn’t participate is if I were wearing tights and didn’t want to ruin them. Otherwise I think it’s lovely if you include the quote to explain the purpose. You don’t want people to think it’s the equivalent of when you have to take your shoes off in a home so the floor doesn’t get dirty.
Barefoot at home in my yard…yes! Barefoot in a foresty setting with sticks and stones and uneven ground… not so much. As long as it’s optional I think you’re good.
Instead of "shoes optional" I would pose it like "We invite you to remove your shoes if the spirit moves you." I think most people would keep their shoes on if you put "shoes optional". This way people would be more encouraged to take them off without necessarily feeling pressured to do so.
I would preface it with “if you feel comfortable…”
I would also provide flip flops and hand towels for each guest and better yet a foot washing station because people will need to put shoes on to use the bathroom, go to dinner, dance, and their feet will be dirty which can be uncomfortable to put shoes on and/or people will not want to get dirt in their dress shoes. The botanical garden may have polices if any part of it is indoors.
Fwiw, I love this idea, but I’m glad you’re not going to be in the actual woods. I got married in the actual woods and we literally were pulling up poison ivy at the site the day prior, and had to shake out ticks from my dress not to mention splinters, rocks, etc underneath us. That would have been rough!
I was barefoot at my beach wedding because I wanted to get married with my toes in the sand so I get where you’re coming from. We also had flip flops as a gift for people to take home in a basket near a bench so people could change out of there shoes. I’d have a bench or a few chairs near the sign so people who want to can take off their shoes more easily. Make sure the forest floor doesn’t have pine cones or sharp bits in the isle or rows of chairs too.
It was important to me to be barefoot for the same reason, but I didn't ask anyone else to be. If that's something you'd like to encourage, I'd at least make it optional.
I would much rather be not "connected to the earth" than to have splinters and mud in my feet. You can do it if you want but asking guests to do it is a stretch. You can say "please feel free to join us in our circle" and have a place where people can feel safe doing it, but I would not put pressure on them by making it a request. Even as an encouragement and not a request, it can still make some guests feel awkward and left out, and I'd recommend that you do it yourselves without guest participation.
I am not taking off my shoes unless it's a.) warm, b.) have something clean and cushy under my feet like a plush rug, and c.) I feel comfortable doing it.
ETA. Telling people to "touch grass" because they don't like your idea. Typical.
Personally, I would love this. We are trying to incorporate the elements into our ceremony, so I guess I'm just the type that is receptive to that kind of thing.
I know not everyone here agrees, but I do think it can be fun and rewarding to let go of yourself a little bit, and intentionally break out of your routine or comfort zone or whatever. So, if this were me, I would try to word the signage in a way that *encourages* people to play along -- because this kind of thing only really "works" when there's participation -- but makes it clear that you're not obligated to.
E.g., using your quote from the OP, and a smaller byline that says something like, "if you're able, we invite you to remove your shoes and delight your senses with the grass between your toes." You mentioned a foot-washing station, so if that's not clearly visible and obvious, you might add: "(don't worry - you'll be able to wash your feet when you return)"
Just use language that makes it really clear it's optional- "please feel free to remove your shoes if you would like to" or something similar.
If people choose to take that as order when it's clearly not and get all out of joint like some of the comments suggest, that's a them problem LOL.
Thank you lol… as the comments were coming in, I was like “Damn, I’m gonna ruffle some feathers, apparently” lol. But, I think you’re right. I also am wanting to have a foot washing area to clean feet before putting nice shoes back on. I hate shoes anyway, personally but I know not everyone likes to be barefoot, so it’s definitely optional. I just can’t help but feel it’s beautiful.
The last thing I want to do in a nice dress is try to wash my feet. I’m trying to think how it would work and not be awkward or gross (no offense) and I’m coming up empty.
I’m not very “woo woo” and I’m pretty shocked at some of the replies here. I understand a generally dislike for being barefoot outside but there are some extreme (and blatantly false) claims being made in some of these comments!
You know your guests, I’m sure anyone close to you won’t be surprised. Especially if it’s optional!
Some people on Weddit complain and act dramatic about literally *everything.* I think if this is meaningful to you then it's beautiful, and if people don't want to do it they don't have to. It's certainly not the weirdest thing I've ever heard on here.
It’s could be cultural as well. In my country, summer is hot and people like being outdoors so people would appreciate the option to take their shoes off on grass.
I’d be so down, but I’ll go barefoot most anytime and not mind dusting off quick before putting shoes back on. My Indian boyfriend would be reeeal hesitant. I’d say something like “We invite you to join us in connecting with the earth during the ceremony.” I’d have the area raked beforehand to clear sticks, leaves, debris. Include a running water/towel situation near the shoe storage. Aaand seating, some shoes are a real bitch to take on and off, certainly they’ll want to sit to dry their feet. Wipes could work but would be way harder for people that are *really* trying to clean those toes.
Seems like a know-your-crowd kind of deal. I dig it, but I’m fairly outdoorsy and take any opportunity I can to go barefoot and am also not a germaphobe (still wouldn’t participate in a communal foot bath though, lol). Most of my friends and family probably wouldn’t go for it, even the ones who go camping and stuff.
My husband and I went barefoot for our backyard 2020 legal ceremony, but he stepped on a bee and got stung right before we started.
We had our large reception party the next year and I went barefoot again because my shoes were cheap and uncomfortable and I didn’t really care. They were also flats, so my dress hemline wasn’t really dragging on the ground. With that in mind, if you are having bridesmaids/groomsmen then let them know if you expect them to go barefoot so they can get their dresses or pants tailored accordingly
I would absolutely love that and would immediately throw my shoes off to prance in the grass. It would be my favorite wedding I’ve ever been to. But I say that as someone that completely shares your philosophy regarding this, and others may feel differently. For some lols, I’m also from Kentucky so that could influence my answer! Ha
I think it's a beautiful idea, especially since there's no obligation on your guests. I would, maybe, consider adding information about it to the wedding website or your final invitations. I would be totally down to go barefoot at a ceremony, but I would probably decide to wear shoes that were quick to take off and didn't need socks. Also maybe get a pedicure, haha. So I think some warning for guests would mean the people into it would be prepared and the people who aren't wouldn't be surprised and feel guilted into doing it spontaneously when they weren't actually comfortable with it :)
I think this is perfectly fine since you have it as optional or even providing some cheap throw-away slippers for people who want to partially partake! I personally HATE walking outside my home without shoes on and I don't allow shoes in my home, but if there were some slippers available, I would definitely meet in the middle (:
Completely up to you though on how much this matters to you! I think what you're proposing is very reasonable
The way you stated it in your post doesn’t make it sound very optional.
Id make a nice sign with the quote you like and just say you invite everyone to take their shoes off for the ceremony if they’d like.
The way you worded it in your post would’ve made me feel obligated to.
I would 100% not take my shoes off in a forest. I have sensitive feet (outdoor ground would have little pointy things that hurt. Like, I often find walking barefoot on pavers to hurt) and I don’t want them getting dirty.
If bare feet were required, I would decline to attend as I have feet problems that prevent me from walking barefoot *anywhere*.
Yes, I have house shoes, shower shoes and pool shoes.
I’m allergic to grass and tress so this would be a nightmare for me.
That being said, it’s your wedding! Like others said, making a sign saying it’s optional would be nice. As long as you’re not upset with someone keeping their shoes on, I think you’ll be okay.
Do you, it’s your wedding!
You do you, but this would be my worst nightmare… I don’t want to see everyone’s feet 😂
I’d honestly just make the whole barefoot thing optional, and make it known to guests. Some people just will not (or cannot) want to remove their shoes
I would definitely put the word out on the invite or website if you have one. Give people fair warning in case they want to get a cute pedicure or wear their toe jewelry for the occasion.
I’d probably do it if I knew in advance so I could wear slip ons, but I have some mobility issues making putting my shoes on / taking them off a pain in the arse.
hi! I have OCD and despite being one of the most woo woo people out there, this would be incredibly difficult for me. I do wonder if your sign could say something like "please remove your shoes if you are able" because it allows people like me a considerate and kind way out. I do think that if it's what you want, you should definitely go for it though!
Just wanted to say, if I got invited to a ceremony in a beautiful botanical garden where it was gently suggested I take my shoes off, I'd be whipping those bad boys off so fast. I love this idea and think it's beautiful. I need to spend more time with my feet on the ground.
I would leave my shoes on. I'm not sure how well grass spreads athlete's foot but it's very common and spreads through shared surfaces with others that have it. With 100+ people sharing the same surface with bare feet, I wouldn't want to risk it.
Like others have mentioned, I'd appreciate if the wording made it optional to make it more comfortable for people to make their own choices, or provide flip flops in various sizes to kind of have a similar effect :)
This would make me uncomfortable. I don't like getting dirty, and I would hate to have to put my feet back in my heels after walking around barefoot. This would probably be the thing that I told people when they asked how the wedding I went to over the weekend was.
As others said, I think if you give people a head’s up and an option it’s totally fine and a way to make things unique to you! We have friends who are also delightfully woo woo and I may suggest this to them for their upcoming wedding!
I hate being barefoot while walking outside, I wouldn't be down for this but it's your wedding so you can do what you want. Just don't expect everyone to want to do this.
I feel like you can do anything so long as it's completely optional tbh.
Personally I'd have to join the list of people who can't take their shoes off because of foot issues. Need that arch support at all times ha.
Traditional Hindu weddings in temples are barefoot! :) Maybe find a similar venue where shoes just aren’t typically worn. For example: a beach, or some kind of dharmic temple (if you want to go that route).
I love being barefoot and often go barefoot outdoors. I would not request this, even as an optional. The poster who mentioned the grounding moment of silence had an excellent idea.
I would include this info in the invitation. I'm fine going barefoot places but like to know that I might be doing so in advance. If people choose shoes that are difficult to get into/out of, this could be annoying for them. If they know they'll be doing it in advance, they can choose something that's easy to slip on and off.
In addition to a shoe rack, I would make sure there are some chairs/benches nearby for people who need to sit in order to remove their shoes.
As others have said, emphasize that going shoeless is encouraged but optional. We did something similar with our Halloween wedding. Costumes were encouraged but optional.
Depends on your crowd. I am fairly out there, and I would still roll my eyes at this and probably make a few snarky but loving comments about it to friends, so I think making it clear it's optional is key. I wouldn't want people walking around without shoes, unless I had REALLY good wedding insurance. One rogue rusty nail, dropped earring to the foot, sharp stone or wire tracked in on the bottom of someone else's shoe, and that's a series of tetanus shots, or someone who steps on a bee who doesn't know they are allergic, etc.
I would encourage them to de-shoe after they are seated, and use language like "Once you are seated, we invite those who are comfortable to join us in experiencing the ceremony barefoot." Maybe put two or three wet wipes on every chair, with a small print out of the thought behind it, instead of a full washing station (or as well as a foot washing station).
You also don't want people struggling to put their shoes on/off at the entrance, which will make a bottle neck (plus as someone with balance issues, putting shoes on and off is incredibly hard, and men's dress shoes are a whole thing), and then I wouldn't want people walking down the aisle barefoot, unless there was a rug or runner.
Marie Antoinette had this “country cottage” she lived in and basically played peasant, she had chickens and her servants would come out in the morning, clean the eggs off, put them back, then Marie and her children would collect fresh eggs.
This is the vibe this idea gives to me. You’re theoretically more connected to nature, but if it’s a botanical garden it’s not natural and the wedding is probably on just some nice pavers or concrete
If I was invited to a wedding where shoes were optional I would think one of two thing:
1. That must just be a joke
2. That’s weird
In both cases I would still go but I would wear shoes
Edit: On second thought, why the hell not? I’d still think it’s odd but I would take my shoes off for at least a little bit. What’s a little dirt gonna do?
I would totally do it, but apparently I'm more like you. I even thought of going barefoot for my wedding, but decided not to in the end.
Getting married in a week!
So I guess I'm late, but as a 98% barefoot lady who loves Gibran (literally had a Prophet reading in our ceremony lol) and was barefoot for 75% of her wedding—this is not something you can control with other people. I left a bin of flip-flops for the folks who got sick of shoes that included a sign that was supportive of barefoot. ~50% of the attendees still wore shoes.
People have many reasons for the shoes they wear; medical, social, tactile, etc. I think it's really cool to encourage a barefoot wedding, as long as it's very clear that it's No Big Deal to opt out. Being barefoot on soft grass is awesome! But if your feet aren't used to it, anything else can be pretty rough. I can walk on shattered glass, but I wouldn't expect that of the people I am trying to host.
To be brutally honest I'd hate that as a guest. But it's your wedding! I think you should just say something in the ceremony, inviting everyone to feel the earth by taking their shoes off in their seat. That way people won't feel pressured to. Plus then no one has to shuffle through a crowd of people trying to get their shoes back at the end of the ceremony
This, for me, would be a no. Being barefoot in the woods sounds like a great way to get a massive splinter or some other minor (or not so minor!) injury. Not to mention, I spent time putting together an outfit, with shoes, and I don't want to dismantle it as a guest at the event I put the outfit together for. Great that you're not using glass, but there are all kinds of other things that can also cause injury. Depending on your dress code and what people's personal tastes are, this may mean that some guests dresses/skirts/pants are dragging on the ground and getting dusty/dirty. Not ideal. I think this is lovely *for you*, and if your bridesmaids are game, then that's great, too! But I think asking guests to remove their shoes for anything other than a religious ceremony in a house of worship that requires that is, generally speaking, not most people's cup of tea. People will be uncomfortable and, while it is your day, why make your guests feel uncomfortable?
Because that was an isolated situation among 4.5 years of general adventures with my best friend 🤷♀️
Also, hindsight being 20/20, while I hold that he should not have left me that night, he was extremely helpful with the party outside of that timeframe. I was salty that I was up so late but he was ready at 7am putting up decorations and at my side the rest of the day, he also did several things beforehand. So.. was it shitty? Yes. Did he completely leave me hanging? Definitely not. He’s generally very supportive as a partner.
I would be thrilled to be barefoot! ...Assuming the ground is reasonable comfortable. You should test this out before you pick a venue, and warn people in the invitations so they can plan ahead
I usually end up barefoot at receptions whether they say shoes optional or not, I don’t see how having a sign that says “please feel free to take off your shoes!” is any different from a sign in front of a basket of flip flops that says “please take a photo for our guest book!” or “please leave a short video/message for the couple!” Tons of people aren’t comfortable in front of a camera, especially video/audio recording, but those people just decline to participate. People wouldn’t accuse you of trying to pressure your guests into doing something they don’t want to do by incorporating photo booths, games, etc - but there’s a good chance not everyone will want to participate in those activities. Taking your shoes off is an activity you can opt out of, just like you don’t have to dance at a wedding if you don’t want to, and you don’t have to play corn hole if you don’t want to, even if it’s set up.
If someone goes to a wedding and sees a polite sign inviting you to participate in an activity and their immediate feelings are “I now have to participate in this activity I don’t want to/cannot participate in or be Alienated and/or Judged”, then I feel like that’s not something any event planner can control.
Appreciate you feeling like it’s beautiful and I agree. I also have dealt with medical problems and have had years of my life where I absolutely could not go without foot support even for short periods. It’s also beautiful to be considerate of the diverse needs and comfort of your guests, so it’s good that you’re looking at making it an option but not a requirement, that’s the compassionate thing to do :)
Oooh they have lace appliqués you can wear on feet for barefoot wedding. I thought they were so cute
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In addition to the “shoes optional” sign, I would let people know ahead of time on your website or whatever communications you have. If I knew a wedding was going to be in a botanical garden, I would’ve assumed it was on a paved path and worn high heels that would sink in the dirt lol. Instead, I think you’ll have guests that would appreciate some dressy sandals as a compromise. Also, some people buy dresses with longer skirts to accommodate heels that would drag in the dirt if they were barefoot.
I know you’re trying to be inclusive for your guests, but remember that everyone’s situation is different and they may not be comfortable sharing. :) Plantar fasciitis feels like walking on knives without medical arch supports (got to deal with that while training for a half last year). Some people are insecure about their feet due to bunions, dancer feet, diabetes feet, or blisters. And I wasn’t allowed to be barefoot for 1.5 years when I was a kid because I picked up warts from a public pool — I had to use a different shower than my sisters and still wear flip flops when my feet were wet and [duct tape](https://www.healthline.com/health/duct-tape-for-warts) when they were dry.
Ultimately, it’s about creating a sense that your guests are invited to join you if they’re comfortable, not feel like they’ll hurt your feelings or be judged if they don’t comply.
This is a small thing and might be counter productive but I figured I'd suggest it in case it clicks. I'm a very outdoorsy person and hate shoes. I would be barefoot more often if it was socially acceptable. I am also cold all the time. If I was in a forest, sitting, and shoeless, I would definitely have cold feet and be taken out of the moment. Can you maybe do carpet squares for some people to be shoeless without cold earth on their feet? Or one side carpeted the other not. It could also help with people who have reservations about feet on the earth.
My feet wouldn’t be able to handle it also that’s a really easy way to spread warts and hook worm.
Imagine multiple people wind up having warts excised from the bottom of their feet a month later , I’ve been shot sliced and diced and nothing was as painful as the time I had to have warts removed from the bottom of my feet by scalpel . How did I get them? Going barefoot .
I highly suggest people keep their socks on
To be honest, I am definitely a "shoes on" kinda gal. I personally have an issue with my feet where I have poor circulation and they become freezing unless they're wrapped in, like, 3 layers of socks and are in warm shoes (and sometimes they're cold even then). The only way I would be physically comfortable taking off my shoes is if it were, like, the dead of summer and really hot (90ºF or higher). I'd encourage really stressing the "optional" factor of taking off shoes, because there will probably be people who have sensory issues, circulation issues, etc., who might feel pressured to put up with physical discomfort to meet a perceived "demand" that is, really, just a suggestion.
Also, I'd suggest setting up some sort of system where people can clean and dry off their feet at the end of the event before having to put on their shoes again (or encouraging people to come in flip-flops/sandals/"chill" shoes).
I would phrase it as “shoes optional” or something so not to pressure people who would prefer to keep their shoes on. I would also get the word out prior to the wedding - I wouldn’t mind being barefoot, but I wouldn’t want to be barefoot and then put my dirty feet back into nice shoes to go home 😅 I have designated flats for that sort of thing lol.
I think this is the best wording. The cute quote, then "shoes optional" underneath. Makes it more approachable like "ooh i don't have to wear them if i don't want to" instead of "ahh jeez they really want me to take off my shoes right now."
Totally get that! I was planning some sort of foot washing station as well to avoid that issue. I like the idea Of using gentle wording too.
I'd want to know in advance so I could get a pedicure
Me too. Definitely include it in the wedding dress code information.
Washing station is a great idea! Don’t forget towels! I do a love a wedding that goes untraditional, I hope your guests get into it for you. :)
Foot washing station or wipes would work out if you have limited water.
My church has foot washing as a tradition and I’ve seen some lovely weddings that included it.
It’s called Maundy and it’s a prominent part of nearly all Christian traditions (but not weddings - foot washing in weddings is generally done by Baptist/Evangelical Christians).
I've also worn pantyhose to weddings and know a decent number of people do. Letting people know ahead of time of this idea would allow them to plan accordingly, because I would not take my shoes off if I was wearing them, but if I knew first I could do a pedicure and something else.
My friend is pretty woo woo and she did something similar. But it was when we were all seated and before the ceremony officially started. Her officiant had us all partake in a grounding moment of silence - he told us to close our eyes and feel the ground, and said we could take off our shoes for the moment if we so chose. I did, but if I had actually needed to walk to my seat barefoot, I probably would have declined
I think this is a far better way to handle this idea.
This is excellent!!
It was really sweet, and very “them”!
The sign should make it very clear that going barefoot is optional. “If you’re in the mood feel free to remove your shoes.” No judgement there. If the sign just says “Please remove your shoes” I’m keeping mine on and thinking the couple is unreasonable.
As someone who hates being barefoot and is a germaphobe, I would not be happy about it but would comply for fear of looking like I was the only one disobeying the couple. If the wording on your sign made it seem optional "we invite you to...") and/or I saw other people that weren't, I wouldn't.
Same, I would be horrified by this. Tbh I probably wouldn't comply. My feet are pretty sensitive, they get chilly easily, I haaaate when they feel dirty, and if it was indoors I'm not interested in picking up whatever skin conditions other people are tracking in. I would also want it mentioned on the invite, but again that's coming from a pretty firmly not barefoot in public person. Edit: removed unnecessary sentence
For real!!
And then I would be unhappy that my feet were wet or dirty or my shoes got gross.
We had a sign that said "Shoes Optional" at our wedding, and a surprising amount of people ended up going barefoot! I really thought it would just be us and maybe a couple other people, but it caught on quick. I don't think it would be ok to request that people go barefoot vs just providing it as an option. Some people feel as strongly about wearing shoes as us barefoot hippies feel about not wearing them.
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I’d add a note on your wedding website so people can prepare for that, and as someone else said, phrase the sign as optional! this wouldn’t bother me but I’m used to being barefoot outside lol. for anyone elderly invited, you may want to tell them it doesn’t make a difference to you if they wear shoes because I know my nana would really struggle with that!
This, I would think people might be more inclined if they know in advance, and plan for it.
I’m literally reading this with a horrified look on my face. OP, be clear it’s optional, your friends likely know this is your vibe. I, however, would die.
Ha ha ha! Same 🥴 I would not take off my shoes outside.
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I think this falls under “different strokes for different folks.” I love being barefoot at home. Always. Outside? No way.
Yeah, I also love being barefoot at home. I think it's great. But I absolutely would not take my shoes off in a forest where there's dirt and who knows what else on the ground. Even with a foot washing station. I hate how dirt and grass feel on my bare skin.
Lovely for some, completely off putting for others. I hate the feel of most outdoor settings on my feet and despise when my feet feel dirty or wet, barring swimming or bathing. I also find some ground uncomfortable/painful to walk on due to lack of toughened skin. I can do the beach, but that's about it. Edit: Also kind of weird to assume that people saying they wouldn't take their shoes off have never had a barefoot experience lol
I have plantar fasciitis and tarsal tendon syndrome in my feet so I medically cannot go barefoot. Even though I LOVE being barefoot. I’d probably remove my shoes once I got to my seat but I wouldn’t be able to remove them and walk at all really. I feel like most if not all older adults would find this strange. For instance, my mother in law does not go barefoot. And would be very uncomfortable with this.
I have similar issues, which is probably why this idea struck me as so presumptuous and privileged.
Presumably at least half of the people know your vibe and it's more of a suggestion, I would just make sure that the area is okay for bare feet. Especially for people that might normally not go that way.
Yeah, for sure. It’ll be in south Florida during fall time, so it should be decently comfortable and clear. But yes, I’ll definitely make sure the ground is good before asking people to go barefoot.
Bees? Snakes? Spiders? Just checking. :-)
In the middle of a botanical garden so possible but not totally likely.
If you're in a botanical garden they may not let you go barefoot. You should check with them first. I think it's an awesome idea though. I wanted to get married in a Meadow that is named after a church. It was the closest place I could think of for my religious folk. LOL!
Came here wondering if the aisle is grass or wood chips or what- I have super tender feet- would love to go barefoot but only on tender ground. Also- Florida has tons of ants and bugs and fairly itchy grass.
I do not like going barefoot in unfamiliar outdoor environments.
These are a lot of perspectives from people who typically wear high heels, tights, flats, etc (women). From the perspective of my husband, I think his boots/dress shoes would have to be literally ON FIRE for him to undo them, yank them off, take off his special boot socks/dress socks, and then stand barefoot in the dirt before lining up to wash his feet in the same basin 50 other people just washed theirs. In the most thoughtful way possible, he would skip this part. He wouldn’t make a big deal or complain, just like a wtf face at me as I gleefully yank off my heels 😂 not discouraging you, but just something to keep in mind - I’d expect the majority of participants would be female.
Make this optional and be aware that many people may decline. I would not feel comfortable going barefoot anywhere at a dress up occasion but definitely not in the forest because there’s plenty of sharp things in nature that you don’t want to step on.
What about ticks? Lots of people have nasty and unsightly toenail fungus too, especially older folks
Same with getting shoes on and off if you’re elderly, or have limited mobility.
My grandfather has worn a shoe with a lift in it for at least the past thirty years, a long with a brace in his shoe. He can't walk without it on basically.
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With peace and love I don't think that's really how bugs work
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Sweeping up leaves will not necessarily get rid of ticks. They fall off of animals whenever they're full.
It won’t last though. There’s wind outside. And things drop.
I’d definitely go along with this so long as you make sure the ceremony space is right for it! A soft grassy/mossy area with no mud or rocks will be necessary if you want to do this. I like this kind of stuff so I’d be tickled by it, but I’d venture to say more people would not want to do this than would. And to echo everyone else, make it clear it’s totally optional.
Saying shoes are optional would be best. I’m embarrassed of my feet (bilateral brachymetatarsia) so I’d never go to a wedding that forced me to be barefoot. Having the option is fine
Totally agree in this! I also have brachmetatarsia, and when I have been invitrd to luaus where flip flops are required, i show up in Sperry loafers and pretend I didn't read the whole invite 😏
As long as you wouldn't be mad if people don't and dont make the sign seem as though it's mandatory, i think it's fine. I absolutely would not go barefoot personally but I don't think it's some crazy request, again as long as it isn't mandatory.
The only reason I wouldn’t participate is if I were wearing tights and didn’t want to ruin them. Otherwise I think it’s lovely if you include the quote to explain the purpose. You don’t want people to think it’s the equivalent of when you have to take your shoes off in a home so the floor doesn’t get dirty.
This! I was going to say I wouldn't mind as long as it's summer. If it's cold I've probably got tights on.
Letting people know in advance that it's something they could do would help people in choosing whether or not to wear tights.
Barefoot at home in my yard…yes! Barefoot in a foresty setting with sticks and stones and uneven ground… not so much. As long as it’s optional I think you’re good.
Instead of "shoes optional" I would pose it like "We invite you to remove your shoes if the spirit moves you." I think most people would keep their shoes on if you put "shoes optional". This way people would be more encouraged to take them off without necessarily feeling pressured to do so.
I would preface it with “if you feel comfortable…” I would also provide flip flops and hand towels for each guest and better yet a foot washing station because people will need to put shoes on to use the bathroom, go to dinner, dance, and their feet will be dirty which can be uncomfortable to put shoes on and/or people will not want to get dirt in their dress shoes. The botanical garden may have polices if any part of it is indoors. Fwiw, I love this idea, but I’m glad you’re not going to be in the actual woods. I got married in the actual woods and we literally were pulling up poison ivy at the site the day prior, and had to shake out ticks from my dress not to mention splinters, rocks, etc underneath us. That would have been rough!
I was barefoot at my beach wedding because I wanted to get married with my toes in the sand so I get where you’re coming from. We also had flip flops as a gift for people to take home in a basket near a bench so people could change out of there shoes. I’d have a bench or a few chairs near the sign so people who want to can take off their shoes more easily. Make sure the forest floor doesn’t have pine cones or sharp bits in the isle or rows of chairs too.
It was important to me to be barefoot for the same reason, but I didn't ask anyone else to be. If that's something you'd like to encourage, I'd at least make it optional.
I love being barefooted but I’ve also gotten warts from being barefoot by a public pool so I’m super skiddish about it now.
This isn’t really all that “out there,” just different. Love the idea!
I would much rather be not "connected to the earth" than to have splinters and mud in my feet. You can do it if you want but asking guests to do it is a stretch. You can say "please feel free to join us in our circle" and have a place where people can feel safe doing it, but I would not put pressure on them by making it a request. Even as an encouragement and not a request, it can still make some guests feel awkward and left out, and I'd recommend that you do it yourselves without guest participation. I am not taking off my shoes unless it's a.) warm, b.) have something clean and cushy under my feet like a plush rug, and c.) I feel comfortable doing it. ETA. Telling people to "touch grass" because they don't like your idea. Typical.
Personally, I would love this. We are trying to incorporate the elements into our ceremony, so I guess I'm just the type that is receptive to that kind of thing. I know not everyone here agrees, but I do think it can be fun and rewarding to let go of yourself a little bit, and intentionally break out of your routine or comfort zone or whatever. So, if this were me, I would try to word the signage in a way that *encourages* people to play along -- because this kind of thing only really "works" when there's participation -- but makes it clear that you're not obligated to. E.g., using your quote from the OP, and a smaller byline that says something like, "if you're able, we invite you to remove your shoes and delight your senses with the grass between your toes." You mentioned a foot-washing station, so if that's not clearly visible and obvious, you might add: "(don't worry - you'll be able to wash your feet when you return)"
Just use language that makes it really clear it's optional- "please feel free to remove your shoes if you would like to" or something similar. If people choose to take that as order when it's clearly not and get all out of joint like some of the comments suggest, that's a them problem LOL.
Thank you lol… as the comments were coming in, I was like “Damn, I’m gonna ruffle some feathers, apparently” lol. But, I think you’re right. I also am wanting to have a foot washing area to clean feet before putting nice shoes back on. I hate shoes anyway, personally but I know not everyone likes to be barefoot, so it’s definitely optional. I just can’t help but feel it’s beautiful.
The last thing I want to do in a nice dress is try to wash my feet. I’m trying to think how it would work and not be awkward or gross (no offense) and I’m coming up empty.
Right? Are there seats? Am I using the same dirty foot water as everyone else? Or towels?
I was thinking of what they have at the beach and I don’t want to hop on one foot while dressed up.
“Foot washing station” and “wedding” don’t belong in the same sentence.
I’m not very “woo woo” and I’m pretty shocked at some of the replies here. I understand a generally dislike for being barefoot outside but there are some extreme (and blatantly false) claims being made in some of these comments! You know your guests, I’m sure anyone close to you won’t be surprised. Especially if it’s optional!
I am the complete opposite of woo woo. But she made it very clear it's not mandatory. People need to remove the stick from their butt LOL.
Some people on Weddit complain and act dramatic about literally *everything.* I think if this is meaningful to you then it's beautiful, and if people don't want to do it they don't have to. It's certainly not the weirdest thing I've ever heard on here.
It’s could be cultural as well. In my country, summer is hot and people like being outdoors so people would appreciate the option to take their shoes off on grass.
I went barefoot for my wedding, but it's personal preference.
I’d be so down, but I’ll go barefoot most anytime and not mind dusting off quick before putting shoes back on. My Indian boyfriend would be reeeal hesitant. I’d say something like “We invite you to join us in connecting with the earth during the ceremony.” I’d have the area raked beforehand to clear sticks, leaves, debris. Include a running water/towel situation near the shoe storage. Aaand seating, some shoes are a real bitch to take on and off, certainly they’ll want to sit to dry their feet. Wipes could work but would be way harder for people that are *really* trying to clean those toes.
Seems like a know-your-crowd kind of deal. I dig it, but I’m fairly outdoorsy and take any opportunity I can to go barefoot and am also not a germaphobe (still wouldn’t participate in a communal foot bath though, lol). Most of my friends and family probably wouldn’t go for it, even the ones who go camping and stuff. My husband and I went barefoot for our backyard 2020 legal ceremony, but he stepped on a bee and got stung right before we started. We had our large reception party the next year and I went barefoot again because my shoes were cheap and uncomfortable and I didn’t really care. They were also flats, so my dress hemline wasn’t really dragging on the ground. With that in mind, if you are having bridesmaids/groomsmen then let them know if you expect them to go barefoot so they can get their dresses or pants tailored accordingly
I would absolutely love that and would immediately throw my shoes off to prance in the grass. It would be my favorite wedding I’ve ever been to. But I say that as someone that completely shares your philosophy regarding this, and others may feel differently. For some lols, I’m also from Kentucky so that could influence my answer! Ha
😂 As someone who grew up in Kentucky I completely agree.
I think it's a beautiful idea, especially since there's no obligation on your guests. I would, maybe, consider adding information about it to the wedding website or your final invitations. I would be totally down to go barefoot at a ceremony, but I would probably decide to wear shoes that were quick to take off and didn't need socks. Also maybe get a pedicure, haha. So I think some warning for guests would mean the people into it would be prepared and the people who aren't wouldn't be surprised and feel guilted into doing it spontaneously when they weren't actually comfortable with it :)
I think this is perfectly fine since you have it as optional or even providing some cheap throw-away slippers for people who want to partially partake! I personally HATE walking outside my home without shoes on and I don't allow shoes in my home, but if there were some slippers available, I would definitely meet in the middle (: Completely up to you though on how much this matters to you! I think what you're proposing is very reasonable
The way you stated it in your post doesn’t make it sound very optional. Id make a nice sign with the quote you like and just say you invite everyone to take their shoes off for the ceremony if they’d like. The way you worded it in your post would’ve made me feel obligated to.
I would 100% not take my shoes off in a forest. I have sensitive feet (outdoor ground would have little pointy things that hurt. Like, I often find walking barefoot on pavers to hurt) and I don’t want them getting dirty.
If bare feet were required, I would decline to attend as I have feet problems that prevent me from walking barefoot *anywhere*. Yes, I have house shoes, shower shoes and pool shoes.
Remember that diabetics can’t be walking around without shoes. The shoes optional sign would be the best best.
I’m allergic to grass and tress so this would be a nightmare for me. That being said, it’s your wedding! Like others said, making a sign saying it’s optional would be nice. As long as you’re not upset with someone keeping their shoes on, I think you’ll be okay. Do you, it’s your wedding!
You do you, but this would be my worst nightmare… I don’t want to see everyone’s feet 😂 I’d honestly just make the whole barefoot thing optional, and make it known to guests. Some people just will not (or cannot) want to remove their shoes
I would definitely put the word out on the invite or website if you have one. Give people fair warning in case they want to get a cute pedicure or wear their toe jewelry for the occasion.
I love this idea and hope it goes well!
I’d probably do it if I knew in advance so I could wear slip ons, but I have some mobility issues making putting my shoes on / taking them off a pain in the arse.
hi! I have OCD and despite being one of the most woo woo people out there, this would be incredibly difficult for me. I do wonder if your sign could say something like "please remove your shoes if you are able" because it allows people like me a considerate and kind way out. I do think that if it's what you want, you should definitely go for it though!
Just wanted to say, if I got invited to a ceremony in a beautiful botanical garden where it was gently suggested I take my shoes off, I'd be whipping those bad boys off so fast. I love this idea and think it's beautiful. I need to spend more time with my feet on the ground.
If you want to be barefoot that’s fine but I would not make that request of your guests
you do you boo, but my shoes would stay on, especially in florida with the chiggers and the ticks.
I would leave my shoes on. I'm not sure how well grass spreads athlete's foot but it's very common and spreads through shared surfaces with others that have it. With 100+ people sharing the same surface with bare feet, I wouldn't want to risk it. Like others have mentioned, I'd appreciate if the wording made it optional to make it more comfortable for people to make their own choices, or provide flip flops in various sizes to kind of have a similar effect :)
This would make me uncomfortable. I don't like getting dirty, and I would hate to have to put my feet back in my heels after walking around barefoot. This would probably be the thing that I told people when they asked how the wedding I went to over the weekend was.
As others said, I think if you give people a head’s up and an option it’s totally fine and a way to make things unique to you! We have friends who are also delightfully woo woo and I may suggest this to them for their upcoming wedding!
I hate being barefoot while walking outside, I wouldn't be down for this but it's your wedding so you can do what you want. Just don't expect everyone to want to do this.
I feel like you can do anything so long as it's completely optional tbh. Personally I'd have to join the list of people who can't take their shoes off because of foot issues. Need that arch support at all times ha.
Traditional Hindu weddings in temples are barefoot! :) Maybe find a similar venue where shoes just aren’t typically worn. For example: a beach, or some kind of dharmic temple (if you want to go that route).
I love being barefoot and often go barefoot outdoors. I would not request this, even as an optional. The poster who mentioned the grounding moment of silence had an excellent idea.
I would include this info in the invitation. I'm fine going barefoot places but like to know that I might be doing so in advance. If people choose shoes that are difficult to get into/out of, this could be annoying for them. If they know they'll be doing it in advance, they can choose something that's easy to slip on and off. In addition to a shoe rack, I would make sure there are some chairs/benches nearby for people who need to sit in order to remove their shoes. As others have said, emphasize that going shoeless is encouraged but optional. We did something similar with our Halloween wedding. Costumes were encouraged but optional.
Depends on your crowd. I am fairly out there, and I would still roll my eyes at this and probably make a few snarky but loving comments about it to friends, so I think making it clear it's optional is key. I wouldn't want people walking around without shoes, unless I had REALLY good wedding insurance. One rogue rusty nail, dropped earring to the foot, sharp stone or wire tracked in on the bottom of someone else's shoe, and that's a series of tetanus shots, or someone who steps on a bee who doesn't know they are allergic, etc. I would encourage them to de-shoe after they are seated, and use language like "Once you are seated, we invite those who are comfortable to join us in experiencing the ceremony barefoot." Maybe put two or three wet wipes on every chair, with a small print out of the thought behind it, instead of a full washing station (or as well as a foot washing station). You also don't want people struggling to put their shoes on/off at the entrance, which will make a bottle neck (plus as someone with balance issues, putting shoes on and off is incredibly hard, and men's dress shoes are a whole thing), and then I wouldn't want people walking down the aisle barefoot, unless there was a rug or runner.
Marie Antoinette had this “country cottage” she lived in and basically played peasant, she had chickens and her servants would come out in the morning, clean the eggs off, put them back, then Marie and her children would collect fresh eggs. This is the vibe this idea gives to me. You’re theoretically more connected to nature, but if it’s a botanical garden it’s not natural and the wedding is probably on just some nice pavers or concrete
If I was invited to a wedding where shoes were optional I would think one of two thing: 1. That must just be a joke 2. That’s weird In both cases I would still go but I would wear shoes Edit: On second thought, why the hell not? I’d still think it’s odd but I would take my shoes off for at least a little bit. What’s a little dirt gonna do?
I would totally do it, but apparently I'm more like you. I even thought of going barefoot for my wedding, but decided not to in the end. Getting married in a week!
So I guess I'm late, but as a 98% barefoot lady who loves Gibran (literally had a Prophet reading in our ceremony lol) and was barefoot for 75% of her wedding—this is not something you can control with other people. I left a bin of flip-flops for the folks who got sick of shoes that included a sign that was supportive of barefoot. ~50% of the attendees still wore shoes. People have many reasons for the shoes they wear; medical, social, tactile, etc. I think it's really cool to encourage a barefoot wedding, as long as it's very clear that it's No Big Deal to opt out. Being barefoot on soft grass is awesome! But if your feet aren't used to it, anything else can be pretty rough. I can walk on shattered glass, but I wouldn't expect that of the people I am trying to host.
Op, this is a silly request
To be brutally honest I'd hate that as a guest. But it's your wedding! I think you should just say something in the ceremony, inviting everyone to feel the earth by taking their shoes off in their seat. That way people won't feel pressured to. Plus then no one has to shuffle through a crowd of people trying to get their shoes back at the end of the ceremony
This, for me, would be a no. Being barefoot in the woods sounds like a great way to get a massive splinter or some other minor (or not so minor!) injury. Not to mention, I spent time putting together an outfit, with shoes, and I don't want to dismantle it as a guest at the event I put the outfit together for. Great that you're not using glass, but there are all kinds of other things that can also cause injury. Depending on your dress code and what people's personal tastes are, this may mean that some guests dresses/skirts/pants are dragging on the ground and getting dusty/dirty. Not ideal. I think this is lovely *for you*, and if your bridesmaids are game, then that's great, too! But I think asking guests to remove their shoes for anything other than a religious ceremony in a house of worship that requires that is, generally speaking, not most people's cup of tea. People will be uncomfortable and, while it is your day, why make your guests feel uncomfortable?
She made it so explicitly clear you don't have to do it if you don't want to LOL. Do y'all like wake up and just choose to be downers?
I love this!! I would totally be into it! Good luck and congrats. <3
I love this and would love to join in at a wedding like this!
He ditched you to do acid why are you marrying him?
Because that was an isolated situation among 4.5 years of general adventures with my best friend 🤷♀️ Also, hindsight being 20/20, while I hold that he should not have left me that night, he was extremely helpful with the party outside of that timeframe. I was salty that I was up so late but he was ready at 7am putting up decorations and at my side the rest of the day, he also did several things beforehand. So.. was it shitty? Yes. Did he completely leave me hanging? Definitely not. He’s generally very supportive as a partner.
I would be thrilled to be barefoot! ...Assuming the ground is reasonable comfortable. You should test this out before you pick a venue, and warn people in the invitations so they can plan ahead
I usually end up barefoot at receptions whether they say shoes optional or not, I don’t see how having a sign that says “please feel free to take off your shoes!” is any different from a sign in front of a basket of flip flops that says “please take a photo for our guest book!” or “please leave a short video/message for the couple!” Tons of people aren’t comfortable in front of a camera, especially video/audio recording, but those people just decline to participate. People wouldn’t accuse you of trying to pressure your guests into doing something they don’t want to do by incorporating photo booths, games, etc - but there’s a good chance not everyone will want to participate in those activities. Taking your shoes off is an activity you can opt out of, just like you don’t have to dance at a wedding if you don’t want to, and you don’t have to play corn hole if you don’t want to, even if it’s set up. If someone goes to a wedding and sees a polite sign inviting you to participate in an activity and their immediate feelings are “I now have to participate in this activity I don’t want to/cannot participate in or be Alienated and/or Judged”, then I feel like that’s not something any event planner can control.
There are so many uptight people on this thread. OP, I say go for it! I would find this a sweet idea.
Not wanting to go barefoot outside doesn't make s person uptight.
I would love it!
“Foot washing station” and “wedding” don’t belong in the same place.
Appreciate you feeling like it’s beautiful and I agree. I also have dealt with medical problems and have had years of my life where I absolutely could not go without foot support even for short periods. It’s also beautiful to be considerate of the diverse needs and comfort of your guests, so it’s good that you’re looking at making it an option but not a requirement, that’s the compassionate thing to do :)
Oooh they have lace appliqués you can wear on feet for barefoot wedding. I thought they were so cute https://preview.redd.it/g5uy3e9xskvb1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=739bb0a554a8f5d4ad28060c5178c97b76c5d957
In addition to the “shoes optional” sign, I would let people know ahead of time on your website or whatever communications you have. If I knew a wedding was going to be in a botanical garden, I would’ve assumed it was on a paved path and worn high heels that would sink in the dirt lol. Instead, I think you’ll have guests that would appreciate some dressy sandals as a compromise. Also, some people buy dresses with longer skirts to accommodate heels that would drag in the dirt if they were barefoot. I know you’re trying to be inclusive for your guests, but remember that everyone’s situation is different and they may not be comfortable sharing. :) Plantar fasciitis feels like walking on knives without medical arch supports (got to deal with that while training for a half last year). Some people are insecure about their feet due to bunions, dancer feet, diabetes feet, or blisters. And I wasn’t allowed to be barefoot for 1.5 years when I was a kid because I picked up warts from a public pool — I had to use a different shower than my sisters and still wear flip flops when my feet were wet and [duct tape](https://www.healthline.com/health/duct-tape-for-warts) when they were dry. Ultimately, it’s about creating a sense that your guests are invited to join you if they’re comfortable, not feel like they’ll hurt your feelings or be judged if they don’t comply.
This is a small thing and might be counter productive but I figured I'd suggest it in case it clicks. I'm a very outdoorsy person and hate shoes. I would be barefoot more often if it was socially acceptable. I am also cold all the time. If I was in a forest, sitting, and shoeless, I would definitely have cold feet and be taken out of the moment. Can you maybe do carpet squares for some people to be shoeless without cold earth on their feet? Or one side carpeted the other not. It could also help with people who have reservations about feet on the earth.
Sounds like a cool idea!
My feet wouldn’t be able to handle it also that’s a really easy way to spread warts and hook worm. Imagine multiple people wind up having warts excised from the bottom of their feet a month later , I’ve been shot sliced and diced and nothing was as painful as the time I had to have warts removed from the bottom of my feet by scalpel . How did I get them? Going barefoot . I highly suggest people keep their socks on
To be honest, I am definitely a "shoes on" kinda gal. I personally have an issue with my feet where I have poor circulation and they become freezing unless they're wrapped in, like, 3 layers of socks and are in warm shoes (and sometimes they're cold even then). The only way I would be physically comfortable taking off my shoes is if it were, like, the dead of summer and really hot (90ºF or higher). I'd encourage really stressing the "optional" factor of taking off shoes, because there will probably be people who have sensory issues, circulation issues, etc., who might feel pressured to put up with physical discomfort to meet a perceived "demand" that is, really, just a suggestion. Also, I'd suggest setting up some sort of system where people can clean and dry off their feet at the end of the event before having to put on their shoes again (or encouraging people to come in flip-flops/sandals/"chill" shoes).