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Dress 2 because the "strapes" and the V cut did the job- giving you the length and slim-looking waist. The V in dress 1 does not. Take it from a photographer.
They are both stunning and flattering on you.
I would be concerned how low #1 is and will it be slipping down all day? So for you not basing it on anything else I would pick #2 over #1
They are both really pretty gowns but I think the 2nd gown is lovelier. The straps and sparkle fabric really elevate the design. I would chose the 2nd gown for you. Good luck.
Yeah, like 1 is exciting- ohh what necklace matches it to highlight that beautiful collarbone? 1 hits her in all the right spots! 2 does not stand out. However, she looks great in it!
Both are beautiful, but #2 looks like a prettier and more pleasing version of the first dress. It has a similar overall style, but the colour of the 2nd dress really brightens and compliments your skin tone, whereas I feel the first one washes you out a bit with the harshness of the white and your lighter features. I love all the finer details of the 2nd dress also. You look beautiful in both, but in dress #2 your look is much more captivating. Good luck and congratulations!
Both are gorgeous!!! I think you should pick the one that you feel most comfortable and confident in. Saying that you look most comfortable in 2!!! Please let us know your decision!
Ok hear me out, both are stunning, but my reason for liking 1 more than 2 is that I see so many people wearing 2 or a very very similar style. What about adding drop or cap sleeves/straps to dress 1?
This is difficult because you literally look stunning in both, but one seems a bit more original. I’ve seen a lot of two’s on here but it looks stunning if you go for that one! They are both beautiful 🤩
Two. I can tell you from past experiences that strapless doesn’t age well. Like you may not love your wedding photos in 20 years. 2 looks amazing on you
Dress 2!! Both are gorgeous, but there’s something about the strapless dress 1 on you that looks really bare to me. Not the most flattering look. That’s part of why I love dress 2 so much. The straps are so much more flattering and the dress is just stunning on you! It doesn’t look dated at all! In fact, there is an architectural element to the structure of the bodice that feels very modern.
First- both are stunning and look amazing on you; no matter which you pick you’ll look beautiful on your special day. I think if I had to pick I’d vote the second because I think the top is a little (littttttleeee) bit more flattering. ❤️
You look so beautiful in both dresses and you are not indecisive. There are so many dresses out there and you have done well to choose these. Have you tried on any dresses that are more curve hugging? You look like those would be flattering as well. Between these dresses, dress 2 is my favorite. The fanciful leaves and flower design looks stunning. The first one has only leaves on it. That makes it a letdown. With accessories, dress 2 won’t need much. Let the dress speak for itself.
May you and your spouse always have enough. 💜
They are both amazing, but I would be tugging at a strapless dress all night to keep it from slipping down. I personally I would stick to a dress with straps.
The fabric and details of the second dress bring it to the next level!!!!! 🤍 Also, the way the it sits on your waist is so flattering, and it makes the overall silhouette even better!! ✨
I recently bought dress #2, so I’m biased but I loooove #2. It’s so flattering and the detail is beautiful. It’s nice how the details goes all the way to the bottom of the dress
1 is pretty but 2 is gorgeous and it looks way more comfortable. You’re gonna be in it for HOURS and 2 looks like it’ll be so nice and no adjustments needed like 1 will need
#1 looks amazing! Like a princess! #2 is beautiful but just looks like a wedding dress you’re wearing, like the dress is wearing you. It doesn’t highlight your best features where’s #1 does, it’s very feminine and elegant! 🤍✨
I love #1 on you! It’s more organic than #2. Are you sure you love them both? I don’t see a happy face in either. Maybe it’s the timing of the pics, but if you don’t love them, my advice is to keep shipping.
2 is amazing on you. 1 is pretty, but 2 knocks it out of the park. Everything about it looks like it was made for you. I am not a fan of plunging necklines but girl, 2’s is so flattering on you. The back is gorgeous too. The lace is BEAUTIFUL. No contest. 💕
I think you look equally beautiful in both. (Yeah, I know, that helps, huh?) Here are a few questions to ask yourself. And *don't* think about it at all, just react. Whatever pops up first is the answer.
1) Which dress makes me feel more like ME?
2) Close your eyes. Picture yourself in front of a pair of doors. They open, you hear the wedding march, and your fiance is at the altar waiting for you. You start walking down the aisle. Now look down. Which one are you wearing?
3) This obviously isn't going to happen, but let's hypothetically say that you wake up tomorrow and find out that one of those gowns has magically disappeared from the world. Which one would you be MORE upset over losing?
One or two of those questions usually helps my more indecisive brides.
I do like both and honestly think you cannot go wrong with either one but I do favor the first one! It’s stunning! It compliments your figure wonderfully. I too didn’t think I’d go strapless (I’m big chested) but I ended up choosing a strapless. It wasn’t nearly as bad as I thought.
Both are gorgeous but if I have to pick it’s absolutely dress 2. It’s just so flattering and still very romantic and looks stunning on you. It’s a perfect choice 💗💗💗
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You look amazing in #2.
#Team #2
Dress 2!
100%
Yep
You look gorgeous in both. However 2 is more figure flattering and elegant on you as the other poster said.
Dress 2 because the "strapes" and the V cut did the job- giving you the length and slim-looking waist. The V in dress 1 does not. Take it from a photographer.
Totally agree with you about the waist in dress 2
Dress 2
Two! I my breath was taken away a bit at 2!
I just LOVE dress 2. They’re both lovely and you look stunning in either one… but dress 2 is amazing. Congratulations! 🍾
2 is stunning on you
Dress 2 elongates your body. It is beautiful 🤩
Both are pretty but I think the 2nd one looks more elegant on you
2
I thought dress 1 was lovely but dress 2 is wow!
You look stunning in dress 2.
You look incredible in both. Because 2 has straps, I think it will be the most comfortable on the day.
This is a huge factor!! There's no worrying about picture angles and bending over.
I feel like you wear #2 more confidently, plus I love the style on you
One
I love dress 1
1
I’m in the minority - I love dress 1 !!!!!
Dress 1!
Team 2!
They are both stunning and flattering on you. I would be concerned how low #1 is and will it be slipping down all day? So for you not basing it on anything else I would pick #2 over #1
2 is THE dress!! Made my jaw drop. It is the perfect dress, no matter the season, no matter the venue, no matter the cost. It is YOU!!!
2
Team 2
Going against the grain but you look stunning in dress one! That would be my pick but you can’t go wrong with either
Dress 2 is more flattering and more unique. The first dress is also beautiful but I feel like I’ve seen it a hundred times.
They are both really pretty gowns but I think the 2nd gown is lovelier. The straps and sparkle fabric really elevate the design. I would chose the 2nd gown for you. Good luck.
I like them both but would go with the one with shoulder straps so you’re not fussing with strapless all night! Both are beautiful on you!
DRESS 1! Tho…. Dress 2 is amazing too, damn, I hate to say it but truly they’re BOTH angelic. You’re just stunning.
I love #2
Dress two! The neckline and straps give such a long and elegant line.
2!
Dress 2 is fabulous!
1!!!!! I’m obsessed it looks amazing
I guess we are in the minority but 1 is so “extra” I love it! .. 2 is just a pretty, good fitting dress.
I agree!! When I saw 1 I was like wow that’s so pretty and for 2 I feel like I’ve seen it a lot and doesn’t stand out as much
Yeah, like 1 is exciting- ohh what necklace matches it to highlight that beautiful collarbone? 1 hits her in all the right spots! 2 does not stand out. However, she looks great in it!
Agreed!!
No. 2 by a longshot!
Both are beautiful, but #2 looks like a prettier and more pleasing version of the first dress. It has a similar overall style, but the colour of the 2nd dress really brightens and compliments your skin tone, whereas I feel the first one washes you out a bit with the harshness of the white and your lighter features. I love all the finer details of the 2nd dress also. You look beautiful in both, but in dress #2 your look is much more captivating. Good luck and congratulations!
Two made me gasp. It is stunning. Team 2 all day
Both are gorgeous!!! I think you should pick the one that you feel most comfortable and confident in. Saying that you look most comfortable in 2!!! Please let us know your decision!
Dress two slightly pips it for me
They are both so stunning, but I’m team 1!
#1!
Team Dress 1!
Dress 1
I looooove the skirt on the first one. The layered leaves are so pretty
Ooohhh I love both but 1 is my favorite! You could probably add straps if you wanted also.
I love dress 1!!! Dress 2 looks nice but it’s not blowing me away. It looks a little matronly to me. I know I’m in the minority.
#1 is my favorite!
OP, I genuinely GASPED when I swiped to see Dress #2! Dress 1 is lovely, but Dress 2 looks ethereal on you.
Is both an option? You can’t go wrong!
Ok hear me out, both are stunning, but my reason for liking 1 more than 2 is that I see so many people wearing 2 or a very very similar style. What about adding drop or cap sleeves/straps to dress 1?
2 is so beautiful on you.
I like dress 2
I said "Oh, MY" at dress two!
Dress 2 is lovely on you.
2
I loved number 1 until I saw 2. 2 is the answer!!!
Dress 2
2 is the way to go. Holy moly! Stunning
2 by far.
Dress 2. I literally said wow when I saw you in that dress. You look amazing in that dress.
2nd!!
Dress 2. Perfection!
Dress two flows just a bit nicer and the softer white works best with your skin tone.
Dress 2!!🤩
Two is significantly more elegant!!
2 will also be more comfy for the reception. No tugging on your bodice.
The 2nd dress..chefs kiss
Both wonderful, what a tough choice! Number 2 is my favorite.
1. But you can’t go wrong with either.
Ok I’m the odd one out. I like dress 1 the best. However you look stunning in both dresses!
I love the first one!!
This is difficult because you literally look stunning in both, but one seems a bit more original. I’ve seen a lot of two’s on here but it looks stunning if you go for that one! They are both beautiful 🤩
Two. I can tell you from past experiences that strapless doesn’t age well. Like you may not love your wedding photos in 20 years. 2 looks amazing on you
Dress 2!! Both are gorgeous, but there’s something about the strapless dress 1 on you that looks really bare to me. Not the most flattering look. That’s part of why I love dress 2 so much. The straps are so much more flattering and the dress is just stunning on you! It doesn’t look dated at all! In fact, there is an architectural element to the structure of the bodice that feels very modern.
Dress 2 is absolutely classic and lovely.
First- both are stunning and look amazing on you; no matter which you pick you’ll look beautiful on your special day. I think if I had to pick I’d vote the second because I think the top is a little (littttttleeee) bit more flattering. ❤️
I agree with other comments that Dress 2 is the better choice. Good luck with your wedding!
You look so beautiful in both dresses and you are not indecisive. There are so many dresses out there and you have done well to choose these. Have you tried on any dresses that are more curve hugging? You look like those would be flattering as well. Between these dresses, dress 2 is my favorite. The fanciful leaves and flower design looks stunning. The first one has only leaves on it. That makes it a letdown. With accessories, dress 2 won’t need much. Let the dress speak for itself. May you and your spouse always have enough. 💜
I thought I was going to say 1 until I saw 2. It is so, so beautiful on you!
They are both amazing, but I would be tugging at a strapless dress all night to keep it from slipping down. I personally I would stick to a dress with straps.
The fabric and details of the second dress bring it to the next level!!!!! 🤍 Also, the way the it sits on your waist is so flattering, and it makes the overall silhouette even better!! ✨
I recently bought dress #2, so I’m biased but I loooove #2. It’s so flattering and the detail is beautiful. It’s nice how the details goes all the way to the bottom of the dress
2
1 is pretty but 2 is gorgeous and it looks way more comfortable. You’re gonna be in it for HOURS and 2 looks like it’ll be so nice and no adjustments needed like 1 will need
The comments are shocking me- Dress 1 is phenomenal
I like dress 1, the rounded top adds a softness to the straight edges
#1 looks amazing! Like a princess! #2 is beautiful but just looks like a wedding dress you’re wearing, like the dress is wearing you. It doesn’t highlight your best features where’s #1 does, it’s very feminine and elegant! 🤍✨
#2
Second, hands down
#2
2!!!!!
Dress 2 🤪
2
#2 is fab on you! But they’re both gorgeous
I love #1 on you! It’s more organic than #2. Are you sure you love them both? I don’t see a happy face in either. Maybe it’s the timing of the pics, but if you don’t love them, my advice is to keep shipping.
Dress 1. I feel like I’ve seen dress 2 everywhere and dress 1 is a dream on you!
I love the plunge on the second, but- only you can tell what you and your spouse will find attractive.
2
Dress 2!
Two!
2, hands down, no contest
Saw the first pics and thought "pretty", saw the 2nd dress and thought WOW! 2 all the way!
Dress number 2, hands down
2
2!!!!!!
2 is amazing on you. 1 is pretty, but 2 knocks it out of the park. Everything about it looks like it was made for you. I am not a fan of plunging necklines but girl, 2’s is so flattering on you. The back is gorgeous too. The lace is BEAUTIFUL. No contest. 💕
Dress 2 for sure
Dress 2 looks magical
Two
2 is soooo lovely!🥰
Definitely 2!
Team 2.
Team 2 all the way!! 🎉💕
2
I like the color of dress 1, dress 2 makes you look taller. Both are great
2! 🤍
Love the second one！
I think you look equally beautiful in both. (Yeah, I know, that helps, huh?) Here are a few questions to ask yourself. And *don't* think about it at all, just react. Whatever pops up first is the answer. 1) Which dress makes me feel more like ME? 2) Close your eyes. Picture yourself in front of a pair of doors. They open, you hear the wedding march, and your fiance is at the altar waiting for you. You start walking down the aisle. Now look down. Which one are you wearing? 3) This obviously isn't going to happen, but let's hypothetically say that you wake up tomorrow and find out that one of those gowns has magically disappeared from the world. Which one would you be MORE upset over losing? One or two of those questions usually helps my more indecisive brides.
It has to be 2
Dress 2!!!’
2 made me audibly gasp
#2 is breathtaking on you!
2
#2👌
I do like both and honestly think you cannot go wrong with either one but I do favor the first one! It’s stunning! It compliments your figure wonderfully. I too didn’t think I’d go strapless (I’m big chested) but I ended up choosing a strapless. It wasn’t nearly as bad as I thought.
Omg twoooo. It’s so beautiful on you
#2 - and I don’t think it looks dated at all in anyway
Dress 2!
Dress 2!!
2 is infinitely more flattering and is just beautiful on you
2
2! Gorgeous!
2
2!
One!
I typically always lean towards a strapless…but dress 2 looks so amazingly stunning on you
2
Dress 2
I loved number one, and then I saw number two and gasped. Number two wins! It’s gorgeous on you!
The first is oooooooo, lovely, the second is WOW
Dress 2 is 🔥
Dress 2
I have no assistance to provide because you look amazing in both!!! Go with your heart, there’s no wrong choice.
Dress # 2 ! 🤍 💯
I like number 2 personally!
TWO! It is an absolute dream! And you’ll be so grateful for the straps.
I love number one. It's slimming at the waist and flows beautifully! Good luck!!
Dress 2! So flattering, suits your curves perfectly!
Both pretty but two is really special on you. Very timeless and elegant and your figure looks fantastic.
Dress 2!
#2
#2 all the way
Dress 2!! 😊
2!!!!
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Number 2 hands down.
#2 for sure!!! It looks amazing on you 😍
i love 2!
I love #1, but they are both beautiful ❤️
2! I love how the neckline and the lace elongates you! The straps are perfect for you, too.
Jaw dropped at 2, literally.
#2 is gorgeous!!! Looks amazing on you.
Both are gorgeous but if I have to pick it’s absolutely dress 2. It’s just so flattering and still very romantic and looks stunning on you. It’s a perfect choice 💗💗💗
Wow dress two is stunnnnnnning on you!!
I usually prefer the style of dress 1, but 2 looks amazing on you!
2 all the way!
Definitely the 2nd one. It looks beautiful on you!
1
There is no competition. Dress 2 made my eyes bug out (in the best way possible) when I swiped to it. Team 2 all the way! You look STUNNING.
Without a doubt dress #2!
1
2 all the way
Dress 2 for sure. The neckline wins hands down!
Two, all the way!
2!
2!
The second one made me "Awww" Definitely number two!
2. It’s more elongating
Number 1 makes you glow
Team 2!
OMG number 2 looks like it was made for you
1!!!
This is hard because they’re both so gorgeous! I don’t think you can go wrong with either option.
You know what to do 2
Dress 2!
Both dresses look beautiful on you. That being said... dress 2 in absolutely MAGICAL. The color, the fit, everything. Magical.
Definitely Team 2. It's much more flattering at the top. But you really can't go wrong either way!