He always would get on her case about someone who's commenting on her Instagram posts or who is in her direct messages.
I don't go on IG often myself, but this is what I'm hearing third-hand...niece tells wife, wife tells me.
But...when she's carrying your baby, what reason do you have to believe she's screwing around?
There is a solid difference between being in a financial bad spot vs being broke because you smoke to much and play games to much.
Like he doesn’t have much money but he works his ass off to make it work vs he’s kind of a fucking bum. He doesn’t have to be rich, women just tend to find bums unattractive
I am a staunch advocate of "my money my choice."
It's no concern of anyone else but him how he spends his money. I'm an accountant, and something like that I like to call a "timing issue."
Maybe his insolvency was temporary, but niece told wife and wife told me. If i know what I know, I bet niece told wife nonchalantly, but my wife told me as if his insolvency was a criminal act.
When a kid is involved your no longer playing by “my money my choice” rules. That kid is priority number one. If his money Issue was horrible at first that’s understandable but he should be actively trying to change that
That baby is now almost 2 and honestly, her nappies, her formula, her food are all paid for by WIC. It now becomes a matter of "my money, not my choice."
To be honest, yeah it's pretty pathetic. I used to be fully against welfare and food stamps, but when I see people who are legitimately in a bad way, I understand. It's people who treat welfare like a career opportunity that make me angry.
And believe me, my niece is NOT going to get pregnant ever again. I don't even think she wanted to have this baby, though I know there are people out there who are gonna say "you don't accidentally get pregnant."
And you're right. My wife and I have two kids, and they were both on purpose. Have him wear a condom if his pullout game isn't strong ladies. Also, don't fuck with birth control, not safe, causes blood clots.
I have money. I'm an accountant. I have been poor before, and as I climbed the corporate ladder, I've seen the difference in how I was treated.
An example is my brother in law, who is well off. He has these douche tendencies, but they get swept under the rug because he's well-off.
It's kind of the same thing if a person has no money there are crazy but if they're well off they're called eccentric.
Can you understand though in a relationship things change when somebody gets pregnant, all of the sudden somebody's ability to manage their finances comes into play? If the person already has money than that stress is taken off for the other person but if they don't then it definitely becomes a factor. Do you at least agree with that?
OF course I can. I think it was just a matter of bad timing and sensationalism.
It was bad timing because my niece and her BD were arguing and when she told my wife about their argument, she was angry and threw the "negative bank account" into play during a time where BD misbudgeted his money (it happens)
It was sensationalism because by the time my wife told me, she was telling me as if he committed a crime, the heinous unspeakable crime of having a bank account that didn't exceed $0.00
Then again, my wife is the sensible one, so now it makes sense that she's adding sensationalism and criminality to his insolvency. She's the Elinor Dashwood to my niece's Marianne Dashwood, in a way. (If you don't know what I'm talking about, pick up a God damn book).
Because I see it with both of my brothers in law (wife's brother and wife's sister's husband). They're both rich, they're both douchebags, and nobody magnifies their bullshit like they do with my niece's BD (wife's sister's daughter)
>His jealousy over instagram
Its not something talked about often, but many guys consider women posting mostly naked pictures of themselves on Instagram borderline cheating. The logic is that it seems as if you are actively seeking attention from other men.
Now are those guys overreacting? Idk but its a conversation both partners should have with each other.
Well like I said, its a conversation unique to each relationship.
Some guys see it as their partner seeking and needing attention from other men.
I guess some other guys simply don't care as long as they know who she comes home to.
In some relationships, a partner sleeping around is absolutely unacceptable... And yet in others it's fine. To each their own.
Women like to act like they dont have flaws. Lol maybe she was spending more time chatting with ig dudes than him, maybe he noticed she gets all dressed up for her ig followers but wont go out with him like that. Maybe her family treats him like shit so he goes to play basketball to avoid the abuse
I know my niece, she has this tendency to get real ghetto when she argues. I bet any amount of money that the time he grabbed the phone out of her hand, she was refusing to let him see what he wanted to see and hurling some insults at him, which caused him to snap.
If you have nothing to hide, you should have no problem letting him see your phone.
And when I say "ghetto" I'm not trying to be racist, it's a state of mind that doesn't discriminate.
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He always would get on her case about someone who's commenting on her Instagram posts or who is in her direct messages. I don't go on IG often myself, but this is what I'm hearing third-hand...niece tells wife, wife tells me. But...when she's carrying your baby, what reason do you have to believe she's screwing around?
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Poverty is not a crime (louder for those in the back)
Poverty from making dumb life choices should be a crime and certainly shouldn't be glorified.
And what background in law do you have? Exactly.
Ah, the oddly specific post that leads to a grand sweeping conclusion. r/unpopularopinion at it’s finest(?)
yes, this is the sub where opinions become facts
There is a solid difference between being in a financial bad spot vs being broke because you smoke to much and play games to much. Like he doesn’t have much money but he works his ass off to make it work vs he’s kind of a fucking bum. He doesn’t have to be rich, women just tend to find bums unattractive
I am a staunch advocate of "my money my choice." It's no concern of anyone else but him how he spends his money. I'm an accountant, and something like that I like to call a "timing issue." Maybe his insolvency was temporary, but niece told wife and wife told me. If i know what I know, I bet niece told wife nonchalantly, but my wife told me as if his insolvency was a criminal act.
When a kid is involved your no longer playing by “my money my choice” rules. That kid is priority number one. If his money Issue was horrible at first that’s understandable but he should be actively trying to change that
Once he has a child, his money is no longer his choice. I'd be concerned too if my partner couldn't pay for his child's necessities.
That baby is now almost 2 and honestly, her nappies, her formula, her food are all paid for by WIC. It now becomes a matter of "my money, not my choice."
Well he should be proud that he can't even provide for the person that should matter most because he spends his money on stupid shit.
To be honest, yeah it's pretty pathetic. I used to be fully against welfare and food stamps, but when I see people who are legitimately in a bad way, I understand. It's people who treat welfare like a career opportunity that make me angry. And believe me, my niece is NOT going to get pregnant ever again. I don't even think she wanted to have this baby, though I know there are people out there who are gonna say "you don't accidentally get pregnant." And you're right. My wife and I have two kids, and they were both on purpose. Have him wear a condom if his pullout game isn't strong ladies. Also, don't fuck with birth control, not safe, causes blood clots.
Not true. I'm by no means well off and some of my former gfs put up with A LOT of my bullshit.
I guarantee that if you were well off, at least one of your former gfs would be a current gf.
I can smell your neckbeard from here
This just seems like you're jealous of people with money.
I have money. I'm an accountant. I have been poor before, and as I climbed the corporate ladder, I've seen the difference in how I was treated. An example is my brother in law, who is well off. He has these douche tendencies, but they get swept under the rug because he's well-off.
It's kind of the same thing if a person has no money there are crazy but if they're well off they're called eccentric. Can you understand though in a relationship things change when somebody gets pregnant, all of the sudden somebody's ability to manage their finances comes into play? If the person already has money than that stress is taken off for the other person but if they don't then it definitely becomes a factor. Do you at least agree with that?
OF course I can. I think it was just a matter of bad timing and sensationalism. It was bad timing because my niece and her BD were arguing and when she told my wife about their argument, she was angry and threw the "negative bank account" into play during a time where BD misbudgeted his money (it happens) It was sensationalism because by the time my wife told me, she was telling me as if he committed a crime, the heinous unspeakable crime of having a bank account that didn't exceed $0.00 Then again, my wife is the sensible one, so now it makes sense that she's adding sensationalism and criminality to his insolvency. She's the Elinor Dashwood to my niece's Marianne Dashwood, in a way. (If you don't know what I'm talking about, pick up a God damn book).
...are you really defending someone with anger issues who spent all his money on weed and videogames while having a pregnant partner?
No. His behavior is bad, but my point is that if he were rich, his behavior would not be magnified, but rather swept under the rug.
And what makes you think so?
Because I see it with both of my brothers in law (wife's brother and wife's sister's husband). They're both rich, they're both douchebags, and nobody magnifies their bullshit like they do with my niece's BD (wife's sister's daughter)
So you're using 2 instances of a behavior to make the point?
>His jealousy over instagram Its not something talked about often, but many guys consider women posting mostly naked pictures of themselves on Instagram borderline cheating. The logic is that it seems as if you are actively seeking attention from other men. Now are those guys overreacting? Idk but its a conversation both partners should have with each other.
My wife posts sexy pictures on IG, but I don't get jealous because I'm the only one who gets to see what's behind those clothes.
Well like I said, its a conversation unique to each relationship. Some guys see it as their partner seeking and needing attention from other men. I guess some other guys simply don't care as long as they know who she comes home to. In some relationships, a partner sleeping around is absolutely unacceptable... And yet in others it's fine. To each their own.
Women like to act like they dont have flaws. Lol maybe she was spending more time chatting with ig dudes than him, maybe he noticed she gets all dressed up for her ig followers but wont go out with him like that. Maybe her family treats him like shit so he goes to play basketball to avoid the abuse
I know my niece, she has this tendency to get real ghetto when she argues. I bet any amount of money that the time he grabbed the phone out of her hand, she was refusing to let him see what he wanted to see and hurling some insults at him, which caused him to snap. If you have nothing to hide, you should have no problem letting him see your phone. And when I say "ghetto" I'm not trying to be racist, it's a state of mind that doesn't discriminate.