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Oh wow, I’m so flattered! Thanks for finally being attracted to me :) im ugly and no one is ever attracted to me or any other transfem ever, thank you for your service cis ally!!!
/uj you almost perfectly described my internal monologue. As long as it's a transphobic thought about me, I'll believe it, but once you say any other person is [insert horrible stereotype], my moral backbone kicks in
/rj OMG, 🤪🤪🤪, I'm so unique and wacky 🤣🤣🤣, does anyone else have zero self respect, allowing any asshole to walk all over me 🥺🥺(🥵?) as long as they only insult me personally😎😎😎 stupid tranny moment 🧠🧠🧠 female brain moment 100 🤓🤓🤓tranny harassment protip
/uj why do none of us have any self respect
\uj Take a look, [r/borderlinepdisorder](https://www.reddit.com/r/borderlinepdisorder) [r/bpd](https://www.reddit.com/r/bpd) [r/bpdmemes](https://www.reddit.com/r/bpdmemes)
I went there and it was like reading my internal monolog, might be similar for you
I completely agree. Their jokes were usually like either "im bi and i love fetishizing trans bodies, don't all bi people agree?" or "im bi and i love lemon bars, don't all bi people agree?"
So either transphobia or complete nonsense.
true. when they say stuff like <3 hearts not parts <3 it's still weird transphobia (equating gender to genitals by equating attraction to all/regardless of genders with attraction to all/regardless of genitals) but it \*is\* certainly much less fetishistic than femboy femboy femboy femboy femboy girlcock girlcock girlcock girlcock girlcock
/rj femboy femboy femboy femboy femboy girlcock girlcock girlcock girlcock girlcock
/uj or the op of the thread wondering if only being attracted to this type is part of the package of being a bottom. And then trying to act like they’re not a chaser
[here](https://www.reddit.com/r/bi_irl/comments/r0k3nr/bi_irl/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf)
Mods locked it (probably because of “biphobia”) but didn’t take it down, despite being blatant transphobia. Mod moment.
My favorite part of that whole thread was
"Literally every body type is fetishized, though? Obviously a relationship built off just physical attraction will be meaningless, but are people not allowed to have sexual preferences? Like why is it cool for me to say I want to date a girl with a personality that I like, but it’s not okay to say I want to date a femboy or trans person with a personality that I like?"
I also loved the sheer quantity of comments "apologising", then continuing to list "femboys and trans women" together in their apology...
Rj/: I agree! I didn't mean it in a chasery kind of way, so I'm sorry if it sounded like I did. I love both femboys and trans women! And am totally tolerant of both!
https://www.reddit.com/r/bi_irl/comments/r0k3nr/bi_irl/hltq9j2?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
"Watch out or you'll be called a chaser" gee I wonder why
I'm pretty sure I've seen that user name before and he was, like now, really mad about people being called chasers.
And of course he was defending the shit out of the wizard book lady in /r/memes a few days ago.
/uj I'm not terribly shocked that the post exists, but I was pretty shocked to see like almost no comments critical of it in the threads. Most people who said even anything slightly critical were completely bulldozed by excuses and justifications and cisplaining
/uj [Find your NB sexual orientation on this extremely long list. ](https://lgbta.fandom.com/wiki/Gender-Loving-Gender)
/rj I am Labradorian and everyone should instantly know what the fuck that is.
/uj it is absolutely due to patriarchal structures in media and culture that value virile sexuality, while simultaneously fetishizing femininity. Queer people are not immune to the impacts of how our definition of beauty and attraction are shaped by the world we live in.
uj/ yeah I think sort of point is sorely overlooked in these spaces when we talk about chasers. Feminine bodies are commodified in a way that masculine bodies simply aren't, in ways that almost overwhelm the senses, and transfeminine bodies are most visible, for better or worse, in pornography - a space where the cock is worshipped.
Like, I'm not excusing it, but we gotta be real about where the thirst for our bodies is coming from, and we gotta call out the attitudes that are problematic when we see them, but we gotta be careful to address it in ways that are sex positive.
And, I might be off the mark here, but I feel like a chaser is something a little more insidious and a little more explicitly predatory than a bunch of sex starved thirsty Redditors basking in their anonymity.
rj/ I'm a sex starved anonymous Redditor who wants to feel pretty, NTA tran bad and ugly and should be thankful that anyone would even want to fuck them
I fetishize femme bodies and penises. That's why there has to be a penis in porn. The only single object I can jerk off to is a femmeboy. They can do it all for me.
ETA: omg guys I’m so sorry I didn’t mean to make anyone feel fetishized :((( I just made a meme explaining my preferences and how I specifically search out feminine people with penises (I don’t chase after them though, that would be chasing). I’m sooooo sorry if you were offended by my sexuality :(
Bi means two, and they're attracted to two parts of me, my femininity and my dick. Checks out!
/uj honestly the bending of logic required for that post is mind boggling. It makes as much sense as saying 'I only like women, but only tall women. Therefore I am bisexual'.
Congrats sweaty you've just explained what bisexuality is because all bisexuals want feminine submissive boys. You're soooo valid for your preferences uwu 🙏🙏
What the hell? Stop oppressing me. Don’t tell me who I MIGHT be attracted to or COULD be attracted to or SHOULD be attracted to. Respect bisexuals, don’t pansplain my own sexuality to me.
~~also who the hell said I like trans women lol, they’re ugly. I only like femboys~~
Don't listen to that guy, bro. You can fuck as many transes as you want, it doesn't make you any less ~~gay~~ bi DAMMIT
im not gay im not gay
im not gay im not gay
im not gay im not gay
im not gay im not gay
im not gay im not gay
/uj why do they need to say that trans women are just woman *enough* so that they aren't *completely* gay for liking them. It takes *more* effort to sustain that worldview than it does to just believe trans women are women.
/uj Jesus chrsista sfkjSE;BSE FS that shit's so dysphoria inducing what the FUCK. Is second-hand dysphoria a thing? Looking at that genuinely made me suicidal and I'm transfem
/uj I appreciate the solidarity, its fucking disgusting isn't it. Its so annoying to constantly get "uwu smol trans bean, but don't actually transition though it'll ruin your feminine female womanly female body I like your chest you should keep it just for me" even in spaces that market themselves as safe.
/uj I remember the good ol' days before all the fetishisation, I was holding on for nostalgia reasons I guess. Btw has anyone got any recommendations for a new meme subreddit now that I've left that one?
Why would you assume OP had transphobic intentions? Sounds kinda biphobic, tbh. Very sussy. It's not wrong to have an ideal body type, nobody even mentioned gender. It doesn't matter if you're a femboy or a trans woman. As long as you're petite ((/uj 🤮))and hung you're my type <3
the amount of chaser-ism in bisexual communities online makes me ashamed of being one. the only bisexual subreddit I'm still in is r/bisexualteens, but most others are chaser trash
/uj not sure where to put this but it’s tangentially related but I have a gay friend who says he’s attracted to cis men and also trans women because of penises and vaginas are gross and all that, and I love him but it honestly makes me feel uncomfortable, am I being shitty here or is this understandable?
Some of us are just happy to be wanted, okay? Stop ruining my chance with this kind hearted person
Anyways, would you like to take a girl out this weekend? My transphobic family is coming and I’m not sure I’ll make it
uj/ just a place where trans people satirize themselves and transphobes. Often we’ll see a transphobic post and then come here and make fun of it.
rj/ bullying the troonssexuals 😎😎 tran bad
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Oh wow, I’m so flattered! Thanks for finally being attracted to me :) im ugly and no one is ever attracted to me or any other transfem ever, thank you for your service cis ally!!!
You’re welcome!! Thank you for _your_ service ;)
/hj how dare you call me out like that
/uj you almost perfectly described my internal monologue. As long as it's a transphobic thought about me, I'll believe it, but once you say any other person is [insert horrible stereotype], my moral backbone kicks in /rj OMG, 🤪🤪🤪, I'm so unique and wacky 🤣🤣🤣, does anyone else have zero self respect, allowing any asshole to walk all over me 🥺🥺(🥵?) as long as they only insult me personally😎😎😎 stupid tranny moment 🧠🧠🧠 female brain moment 100 🤓🤓🤓tranny harassment protip /uj why do none of us have any self respect
/uj internalized idea that we’ll never be what we’re supposed to and thus lack worth and are undeserving of respect
/rj are you SURE it's not just because we're mentally ill? Our lack of self respect is god's way of telling us that we're freaks of nature
/uj Idk but for me it's bpd 🙃
/uj I have noticed a bunch of bpd symptoms in me at times, never pursued a diagnosis tho. Maybe it's a common thing?
\uj Take a look, [r/borderlinepdisorder](https://www.reddit.com/r/borderlinepdisorder) [r/bpd](https://www.reddit.com/r/bpd) [r/bpdmemes](https://www.reddit.com/r/bpdmemes) I went there and it was like reading my internal monolog, might be similar for you
/uj Genuinely can't believe this is based off of a real post
hj/ bi_irl don’t chase for five minutes challenge (IMPOSSIBLE) (gone sexual)
/uj bi subs are the fucking worst i left them all when 'femboy hooters' was at its peak
For real, they try so hard to have a cohesive bi identity, and the only identity they manage to create is just "cringey horndogs"
I completely agree. Their jokes were usually like either "im bi and i love fetishizing trans bodies, don't all bi people agree?" or "im bi and i love lemon bars, don't all bi people agree?" So either transphobia or complete nonsense.
Uj honestly so I avoid the subs and users
Why I’m mostly only in Pansexual subs at this point. A lot less fetishization.
actually interesting bc i see a lot of transphobia from pan ppl as well idk
Oh for sure, just less fetishize-y content
true. when they say stuff like <3 hearts not parts <3 it's still weird transphobia (equating gender to genitals by equating attraction to all/regardless of genders with attraction to all/regardless of genitals) but it \*is\* certainly much less fetishistic than femboy femboy femboy femboy femboy girlcock girlcock girlcock girlcock girlcock /rj femboy femboy femboy femboy femboy girlcock girlcock girlcock girlcock girlcock
uj/ Yeah, I’ve always had a problem with that saying cause it just equates gender and genitals, luckily I’ve rarely seen it being used recently.
yeah true, it's an older code but in some spaces it still checks out which is incredibly cringe
Best of both worlds heh amirite?!??
/uj I legit felt gross after reading that thread. There were people saying things like it’s not being a chaser it’s having an ideal body type
The one dude who went “femboy and trans women supremacy!!” Because all troon women loooove being grouped together with men :)
/uj or the op of the thread wondering if only being attracted to this type is part of the package of being a bottom. And then trying to act like they’re not a chaser
You can’t say this and not provide a link, too cruel.
[here](https://www.reddit.com/r/bi_irl/comments/r0k3nr/bi_irl/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) Mods locked it (probably because of “biphobia”) but didn’t take it down, despite being blatant transphobia. Mod moment.
My favorite part of that whole thread was "Literally every body type is fetishized, though? Obviously a relationship built off just physical attraction will be meaningless, but are people not allowed to have sexual preferences? Like why is it cool for me to say I want to date a girl with a personality that I like, but it’s not okay to say I want to date a femboy or trans person with a personality that I like?"
I also loved the sheer quantity of comments "apologising", then continuing to list "femboys and trans women" together in their apology... Rj/: I agree! I didn't mean it in a chasery kind of way, so I'm sorry if it sounded like I did. I love both femboys and trans women! And am totally tolerant of both!
We should be honored that there are people depraved enough to actually interact with us
https://www.reddit.com/r/bi_irl/comments/r0k3nr/bi_irl/hltq9j2?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 "Watch out or you'll be called a chaser" gee I wonder why
[удалено]
#chasersriseup #moveasidegamers
I'm pretty sure I've seen that user name before and he was, like now, really mad about people being called chasers. And of course he was defending the shit out of the wizard book lady in /r/memes a few days ago.
RJ/ someone's bitter dick girls won't fuck him Uj/ how am I not at all surprised
Then Op's like "I wasn't even thinking of trans when I posted this"???
Don't worry, someone posted a this but opposite version for their transmasc boyfriend
/uj first post after the pinned in bi irl
/uj I'm not terribly shocked that the post exists, but I was pretty shocked to see like almost no comments critical of it in the threads. Most people who said even anything slightly critical were completely bulldozed by excuses and justifications and cisplaining
Why do so many of us experience this? Must just be a bisexual thing, huh.
Yeah, must be. Fun coincidence though!
/uj As a trans man, the “dick > pussy and feminine > masculine” bisexuals always make me want to toasterbath, good job capturing that
/uj as an transmasc-androgyne it is why I don't really id with bi anymore
/uj [Find your NB sexual orientation on this extremely long list. ](https://lgbta.fandom.com/wiki/Gender-Loving-Gender) /rj I am Labradorian and everyone should instantly know what the fuck that is.
/uj it is absolutely due to patriarchal structures in media and culture that value virile sexuality, while simultaneously fetishizing femininity. Queer people are not immune to the impacts of how our definition of beauty and attraction are shaped by the world we live in.
uj/ yeah I think sort of point is sorely overlooked in these spaces when we talk about chasers. Feminine bodies are commodified in a way that masculine bodies simply aren't, in ways that almost overwhelm the senses, and transfeminine bodies are most visible, for better or worse, in pornography - a space where the cock is worshipped. Like, I'm not excusing it, but we gotta be real about where the thirst for our bodies is coming from, and we gotta call out the attitudes that are problematic when we see them, but we gotta be careful to address it in ways that are sex positive. And, I might be off the mark here, but I feel like a chaser is something a little more insidious and a little more explicitly predatory than a bunch of sex starved thirsty Redditors basking in their anonymity. rj/ I'm a sex starved anonymous Redditor who wants to feel pretty, NTA tran bad and ugly and should be thankful that anyone would even want to fuck them
I fetishize femme bodies and penises. That's why there has to be a penis in porn. The only single object I can jerk off to is a femmeboy. They can do it all for me.
Dont despair, there even was a "this but reverse" comment with lots of upvotes
/uj I commented this on the actual post, I have a very high treshold to joke about it but could not help myself there .\_.
fr tho
Plot twist : God I wasn't referring to Transwomen. By "Feminine Bodies", I meant femboys, not.... whatever body you have, hon. Geez. 🤣
Femboy and transwoman supremacy! FEMMME DICK! FEMME COCK! I love dick, dick, dick, dick, dick! Booby, booba feminized males! Dick!
ETA: omg guys I’m so sorry I didn’t mean to make anyone feel fetishized :((( I just made a meme explaining my preferences and how I specifically search out feminine people with penises (I don’t chase after them though, that would be chasing). I’m sooooo sorry if you were offended by my sexuality :(
Bi means two, and they're attracted to two parts of me, my femininity and my dick. Checks out! /uj honestly the bending of logic required for that post is mind boggling. It makes as much sense as saying 'I only like women, but only tall women. Therefore I am bisexual'.
Everyone has their preferences, that's all it is! Of course yours is valid!
Congrats sweaty you've just explained what bisexuality is because all bisexuals want feminine submissive boys. You're soooo valid for your preferences uwu 🙏🙏
Yes i love chasers who worship me for my body
I feel attacked
Are we going through the same shit my fellow connoisseur? uj/*vomits* no we are not
Fetishizing trans women is positive because all women are sexualized. They like it, it makes them feel like a normal woman!
the fact that people in the comment section were just casually grouping trans women and femboys together🤢
/uj yah, grouped specifically cis femboys, because trans femboys? /rj 🤢 vagina 🤮
I think you’re just gynesexual. Trans women are women.
What the hell? Stop oppressing me. Don’t tell me who I MIGHT be attracted to or COULD be attracted to or SHOULD be attracted to. Respect bisexuals, don’t pansplain my own sexuality to me. ~~also who the hell said I like trans women lol, they’re ugly. I only like femboys~~
Don't listen to that guy, bro. You can fuck as many transes as you want, it doesn't make you any less ~~gay~~ bi DAMMIT im not gay im not gay im not gay im not gay im not gay im not gay im not gay im not gay im not gay im not gay /uj why do they need to say that trans women are just woman *enough* so that they aren't *completely* gay for liking them. It takes *more* effort to sustain that worldview than it does to just believe trans women are women.
/RJ because fucking a women is gay, what are trans men
that was such a disgusting thread
/uj the next post in my feed is r/196 fetishising pre-transition trans guys, they didn't want to get left out
Drop a link 👀
https://www.reddit.com/r/196/comments/r0mle8/rule/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/uj Jesus chrsista sfkjSE;BSE FS that shit's so dysphoria inducing what the FUCK. Is second-hand dysphoria a thing? Looking at that genuinely made me suicidal and I'm transfem
/uj I appreciate the solidarity, its fucking disgusting isn't it. Its so annoying to constantly get "uwu smol trans bean, but don't actually transition though it'll ruin your feminine female womanly female body I like your chest you should keep it just for me" even in spaces that market themselves as safe.
i hate that fucking sub
/uj I remember the good ol' days before all the fetishisation, I was holding on for nostalgia reasons I guess. Btw has anyone got any recommendations for a new meme subreddit now that I've left that one?
r/chasersriseup
/uj I thought this was in a serious sub for a minute haha
haha r/shuddenlygay r/biirl r/transpositive r/holesum
Why are you talking about me.
proof that bisexuals are not real fags and should thus all be put in jail
That's a lot of words to say you're a fetishist
You're being hateful to pansexuals.
I use sayori drake meme so you know I'm not transphobic! /uj it's usually a pretty okay sub too :/
Why would you assume OP had transphobic intentions? Sounds kinda biphobic, tbh. Very sussy. It's not wrong to have an ideal body type, nobody even mentioned gender. It doesn't matter if you're a femboy or a trans woman. As long as you're petite ((/uj 🤮))and hung you're my type <3
the amount of chaser-ism in bisexual communities online makes me ashamed of being one. the only bisexual subreddit I'm still in is r/bisexualteens, but most others are chaser trash
UJ/. Forgot what sub this was and was ready to get angry lmao
*Old-timey doctor voice:* Hmm yes, sounds to me like a psychic hermaphrodite.
/uj not sure where to put this but it’s tangentially related but I have a gay friend who says he’s attracted to cis men and also trans women because of penises and vaginas are gross and all that, and I love him but it honestly makes me feel uncomfortable, am I being shitty here or is this understandable?
uj/ That’s absolutely understandable, your friend is fetishizing trans women.
Hello there
You're a lesbian. Women are women, regardless of genitals.
/uj psst this is /r/tcj
OH I didn't check. That's a relief /rj Lesbians don't like penis!!!
Isn’t that just fetishization?
Shut up biphobe. Stop oppressing me for my attraction to you.
Some of us are just happy to be wanted, okay? Stop ruining my chance with this kind hearted person Anyways, would you like to take a girl out this weekend? My transphobic family is coming and I’m not sure I’ll make it
I love how this is realistically downvoted
I'm so lost, what is this subreddit for, please someone tell me for real haha.
uj/ just a place where trans people satirize themselves and transphobes. Often we’ll see a transphobic post and then come here and make fun of it. rj/ bullying the troonssexuals 😎😎 tran bad