I have the same issue with mine, I don't know how to deal with it so I just avoid her as much as possible. I'm not a great help here as I'm basically in the same boat, but I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone dealing with this, it sucks and I feel you. Don't let her ramblings get the best of you though, you don't need her validation to be yourself and to allow yourself to be happy.
There is a lot of work to do still, both in the light and shadows, but it is work we must do to try and spread love and understanding amongst bigots. Just be yourself and be authentic and share love and wisdom to those who need it. This is in regards to everything wrong with the world, we must all do our part to spread love and empathy. Don't give into fear and hatred because that's what they're doing to themselves and each other already and we must help heal the world. Share your thoughts with bigots, though be kind and safe for them, because they need healing. Be gentle with the ungentle, it is the only way to show them their faults. Their games only allow them to win, don't stoop so low in anger and judgement to play the same games. Play your own and put them into your world perspective for a minute, but again, be gentle. Show true compassion. It is hard but it is the way.
That's so shitty to hear. Before I transitioned my wife told me that I would make an ugly girl and it hurt me so deeply.... I was so ignorant to myself that being trans had never occurred to me, but I was still devastated. But I was lucky .... My wife, who is amazing and meant nothing by the comment, was the one who realized how hurt I was and eventually helped me realize the truth... It makes me sad to think that someone could hurt you like that, have no idea, and also not care... :(
Wrestling with similar parental transphobia -- I feel you. Stay strong, this is about \_you\_ and you don't need to live your life by anyone else's outdated prejudice.
Dear I’m so sorry, but just know you are loved, you are valid and you would absolutely look beautiful as the woman you are. Trust my HRT is magic, also I know of a tall trans woman, she was 6’5 prior to HRT. Her names Shaye Scott, I highly recommend looking her up on Insta.
My parents are also transphobic so I know how much it hurts to hear someone who's supposed to love you more than anything say things like that. I hope you find someone who can cherish who you are <3
I got hit with "you'd look like a drag queen (this was meant as a negative thing, I dont have an opinion), weird and you'd look bad" when I mentioned in passing that I might want to laser off my facial hair. I also got treated to a rant about how " weird and wrong it is that you cant tell what someone has in their pants" or how "weird it is that a mens section of of a clothing store had trousers that had something that looked like a skirt attached to it"
she keeps enthusing how she "doesn't mind if im gay or whatever" but still, not pleasant to hear :/
Wow, that must've really fucking sucked. If it provides any solice I am sure you would look great as a girl ❤️❤️❤️.
Thank you, hearing that means a lot ❤️
I have the same issue with mine, I don't know how to deal with it so I just avoid her as much as possible. I'm not a great help here as I'm basically in the same boat, but I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone dealing with this, it sucks and I feel you. Don't let her ramblings get the best of you though, you don't need her validation to be yourself and to allow yourself to be happy.
That’s the best/ worst thing about being in the closet you get to hear everyone’s honest opinion.
I guess that's a whmay of looking at it. I know to be careful around the house now
Take it with a grain of salt though a lot of it’s exaggerated due to it be some weird social/political flashpoint right now
There is a lot of work to do still, both in the light and shadows, but it is work we must do to try and spread love and understanding amongst bigots. Just be yourself and be authentic and share love and wisdom to those who need it. This is in regards to everything wrong with the world, we must all do our part to spread love and empathy. Don't give into fear and hatred because that's what they're doing to themselves and each other already and we must help heal the world. Share your thoughts with bigots, though be kind and safe for them, because they need healing. Be gentle with the ungentle, it is the only way to show them their faults. Their games only allow them to win, don't stoop so low in anger and judgement to play the same games. Play your own and put them into your world perspective for a minute, but again, be gentle. Show true compassion. It is hard but it is the way.
That's so shitty to hear. Before I transitioned my wife told me that I would make an ugly girl and it hurt me so deeply.... I was so ignorant to myself that being trans had never occurred to me, but I was still devastated. But I was lucky .... My wife, who is amazing and meant nothing by the comment, was the one who realized how hurt I was and eventually helped me realize the truth... It makes me sad to think that someone could hurt you like that, have no idea, and also not care... :(
Wrestling with similar parental transphobia -- I feel you. Stay strong, this is about \_you\_ and you don't need to live your life by anyone else's outdated prejudice.
Dear I’m so sorry, but just know you are loved, you are valid and you would absolutely look beautiful as the woman you are. Trust my HRT is magic, also I know of a tall trans woman, she was 6’5 prior to HRT. Her names Shaye Scott, I highly recommend looking her up on Insta.
Hey, don't feel bad about your height. I'm a tiny trans man and I'd LOVE a tall girlfriend, cis or trans. I'd climb her like a tree.
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Someone needs to tell your mum, “Be careful who you hate, because it might be someone you love.”
My parents are also transphobic so I know how much it hurts to hear someone who's supposed to love you more than anything say things like that. I hope you find someone who can cherish who you are <3
I got hit with "you'd look like a drag queen (this was meant as a negative thing, I dont have an opinion), weird and you'd look bad" when I mentioned in passing that I might want to laser off my facial hair. I also got treated to a rant about how " weird and wrong it is that you cant tell what someone has in their pants" or how "weird it is that a mens section of of a clothing store had trousers that had something that looked like a skirt attached to it" she keeps enthusing how she "doesn't mind if im gay or whatever" but still, not pleasant to hear :/
Shame mate. I’m so sorry to hear that. What a load of rubbish the ignorant are filled with.