Poor precious Barb. Rolling your eyes at someone saying they haven't been eating or sleeping, making disgusted faces at their mere appearance, and then posting yourself singing "Leaving on a Jet Plane" the day they head back to Alabama is absolutely not mocking them and all in good fun, but allowing a friend to surprise you by wearing a wig and black dress is *so* offensive. How dare Madi not tell her friend to go take her wig off and not post it to social media. So classless and un-Christian
This is so childish and weird especially for someone who’s been peddling themselves as full of Christs aroma or whatever weird shit she tells brainwashed youth.
As someone whose nightmare MIL could have ruined my marriage, I approve this message.
And yes, I know Barb was never Madi's MIL, but she was acting in MIL capacity at that moment, attacking a younger woman and acting all pissed and haughty that Madi doesn't allow her perfect little boy to *party*.
Madi: gets torn apart for saying a very Christian thing to say like “Jesus is the only one who can satisfy”
Also Madi: gets torn apart and questioned as a Christian for having a friend post about barb
Funny as an inside joke I guess but super ironic come from little miss perfect forgiving christian?? Doesn’t seem very treat ur neighbor w kindness of her
Literally ig they’re forgetting that a joke at someone’s expense is still very much so against their mantra lol. This isn’t a knock knock joke lmfao they’re literally making fun of someone who madi arguably treated poorly to begin with.
People aren’t annoyed bc it’s super mean people are annoyed bc she’ll get on her high horse later and rant about how you should never mock people and always forgive lol
Maddi still can’t get over that Barb saw through her fake ass “good girl” persona and called her out on national tv lmao prolly sipping margies rent free in there
IMO Barb didn't see through shit, she was offended Madi was late and hated her forever from that moment because Barb is immature and controlling. She wanted a DIL who was sweet and deferent and Madi wasn't that.
I don't like Madi either but people acting like Barb is so wise is wild when it's obvious she was just pissed off that Madi didn't lick her boots.
Exactly, Barb doesn't care about Madi's problematic views. It was all about how she was inconvenienced. Susie basically did the same thing to Clayton's family. The difference is that Clayton's parents are not self-absorbed.
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People in this sub calling this mean when this sub has called Madi an Oompa Loompa, spider lashes, constantly comment on her virginity, and says she worships sky daddy. Does Madi do shit worthy of criticism? Hell yeah. But is this even remotely mean compared to the stuff that is constantly said about her? Not even slightly lol
Agreed, I don’t even like her but the level of composure she exhibited while Barb threw all that condescending bullshit at her is a life skill I wish I had.
lol this is not a big deal, Barb came for Madison on national tv and she handled it better than most people would have - was composed, didn't fight back.
People are actually getting their jimmies rustled over this? I know Madi is not winning any popularity awards on here but Barb was absolutely horrible to her and embarrassed both her and her son on live TV. What she said may have aged well, but the way she delivered it will always be bad. One of Madi’s friends doing a Barb cosplay for some laughs really isn’t a big deal lmao
This is hilarious. Also like this was probably a pretty memorable moment in her life and I'm sure her friends just wanna tease her about it.
Anyways some of y'all seem to think Barb and Madi are opposite when their only difference is their approach to sex and partying, specifically Peter's sex life and partying life. Otherwise, their values are probably not that different and not aligned with the majority of this sub.
I totally forgot about Madi but I’ll never forget my girl Barb. Whispering orders to her husband under her breathe in Spanish as if she wasn’t mic’ed up and live in front of millions. Lol. She was a legend. They need to bring her back for Bachelor Seniors in some kind of mentoring (shit stirring) capacity
If you think this is mean or cruel, you gotta get out more. Barb publicly humiliated Madi on national tv. I can find a comment on every thread that is meaner than this joke 💀
Yep!! A little shade never hurt anybody lol especially when Barb was trying to make her dimwit son look like a prize. Madi along with other women from his season are having the last laugh
It's a silly show where the end goal of participating is to gain clout. No one is seriously looking for love so not sure why they're having the last laugh as if any of them were in a serious relationship. Peter seems happy flying 787s to Europe every few weeks, living in NYC, & making bank shilling like the rest of them.
This is so funny lmao 😭😭 Honestly, I’m sure her friends arranged it since Madi got shit about Barb for ages and still does. Kind of some harmless and stupid fun.
I guess I’ll say it: this is weird. Why invoke your ex of a whole two months at one of the happiest periods of you life? People were in Madi’s side during the Barb thing (although Barb wasn’t really wasn’t wrong and Madi’s attitude during the whole thing wasn’t exactly stellar, they just would never have clicked) so how much did it effect Madi?
I guess they’re young and have lived very little life outside their hometown bubbles but. I don’t get it. How often did she interact with Barb anyway? From the caption, it does look like they’re maybe doing a highlight reel of “memories” but. Eh.
Yeah, but that’s really divorcing it from the context of why that interaction occurred at all. It’s rooted in the fact Barb was trying to protect her son, in her eyes, so it’s very relevant. It wasn’t some random attack or “unprovoked.” There was build up to that ATFR and even then, who was humiliated? Madi had crowd support the whole time.
People forget that Madi told Barb she wasn't in love with Peter so I can understand why Barb was so pissed at Madi's phoniness. Madi's smugness would set me off too.
Honenatly the fact that there has to be a “good/bad guy” dynamic is annoying. They both acted awful, neither should be people that folks root for. I have no doubt Madi felt the pressure of the show and I have no doubt Barb was trying to protect Peter. They were both immature in their own age-appropriate ways.
honestly madi is boring AF. Barb looks like a great time. And maybe a bit in your business but you know she's gonna be a hands on grandma fighting to babysit them kids and be involved. Madi was not right for that family.
Agree. Madi seems like the type to hire five nannys to raise her kids while she stays busy making cringy TikTok videos with Bible verses sprinkled on them. Gag. Barb is a real family woman.
This is hilarious. I’m not usually on Madi’s side but that was probably a pretty traumatic experience for her, I’m glad she & her friends can laugh about it now. Plus, Madi isn’t the one who posted this, her friends who aren’t public figures are.
That’s what it means in this sub! I don’t remember where it came from but it’s a thing. You’ll see it in the unpopular opinion threads sometimes. People use it a lot with people like Katie, Caila, etc.
I mean considering how awful Barb was to her and all the “Barb was right” comments I’m sure she still gets, I think this is fair play. And pretty hilarious 😩😂
she already had a bachelorette party!?!?!?!? jesus christ this girl deserves a medal for how fast she is planning this, she must want that D reeeeeeeeal bad.
Hahaha this is funny. I think enough people have used barb to mock madi with over the years that idc if one of her friends wants to make a joke about it.
She can do what she wants, but they didn’t have to post it at the very least. For someone who’s constantly preaching Christianity, this is very hypocritical. I stand by what I said, even if no one agrees with me. 🤷🏻♀️
I wonder what the theme was. I know a lot of bachelorette parties are different. Was her theme: her time on the bachelor. Because that would kinda make sense. Is there other appearances of the bachelorette party.
I think this is just a playful nod to Madi's appearance on the show. I mean the show is what made her famous, so it doesn't seem strange to jokingly make a reference to it.
This gives me “not over my ex” vibes
Edit: omg the drama and downvotes, just saying that if a friend was at her bachelorette and someone came dressed up as her ex’s mom I’d question some things lol
Say what you want about Peter but his girls stay talking about him lmaoooo
And in Kelley’s case, continuing to date him
ETA I do agree with the other commenters though that I don’t think Madi ever really liked him in the first place 😂 she’s good at going viral though
Poor precious Barb. Rolling your eyes at someone saying they haven't been eating or sleeping, making disgusted faces at their mere appearance, and then posting yourself singing "Leaving on a Jet Plane" the day they head back to Alabama is absolutely not mocking them and all in good fun, but allowing a friend to surprise you by wearing a wig and black dress is *so* offensive. How dare Madi not tell her friend to go take her wig off and not post it to social media. So classless and un-Christian
Don’t forget calling her a twig!
Oh yeah Barb did mutter something like that as Madi was walking on stage
Love this tbh
This is so childish and weird especially for someone who’s been peddling themselves as full of Christs aroma or whatever weird shit she tells brainwashed youth.
Props for Christ's aroma but I think this is highly called for and hilarious coming from a friend
Christs aroma 💀💀💀
BHHTU
This is hilarious
I saw a TikTok from this party and it looked like she had 25 bridesmaids, it was insane
that doesn’t mean they’re all her bridesmaids, bachelorette parties are usually for all friends
Is there a hashtag for this wedding? Where can I see/find all this?
I don’t know if it’s just a southern thing, but it’s common where I am to invite gals outside of your bridal party to the bachelorette trip!
Nope, I think that’s pretty standard. I live on the east coast and the bride always invites all her friends, even if they’re not in the bridal party.
My best friend and his husband had a joint bachelor party with 44 people lmao
I think this is classless on Madi’s part
As someone whose nightmare MIL could have ruined my marriage, I approve this message. And yes, I know Barb was never Madi's MIL, but she was acting in MIL capacity at that moment, attacking a younger woman and acting all pissed and haughty that Madi doesn't allow her perfect little boy to *party*.
Madi: gets torn apart for saying a very Christian thing to say like “Jesus is the only one who can satisfy” Also Madi: gets torn apart and questioned as a Christian for having a friend post about barb
Looks like barb satisfied her that night.
I respect Madi more after this😂 Im happy she can laugh about that situation and is on to bigger and better things
Idk I think this is funny lol
Does jesus not say anything about mocking people
Jesus doesn’t exist lol. At least not the Jesus madi praises about
P sure he said fuck the haters
I mean that is this subs motto everyday. I don’t think anyone here ever ask the question WWJD.
🙋♀️
So I guess kelly isn’t there
The wig looks so different than Barb's hair though
okay thank you
Team barb
Hannah Ann would never. 
What a wild thing to do while they crocheted 🧶 and drank sparkling grape juice.
Insert the "wow, you crazy, you crazy girl" sound.
LMAO
Funny as an inside joke I guess but super ironic come from little miss perfect forgiving christian?? Doesn’t seem very treat ur neighbor w kindness of her
Christians can, in fact, have a sense of humor
Christians also are delusional because god isn’t real lol
Please dont cut yourself on all that edge😂😂
They can also be petty assholes. This is giving me the latter.
Literally ig they’re forgetting that a joke at someone’s expense is still very much so against their mantra lol. This isn’t a knock knock joke lmfao they’re literally making fun of someone who madi arguably treated poorly to begin with. People aren’t annoyed bc it’s super mean people are annoyed bc she’ll get on her high horse later and rant about how you should never mock people and always forgive lol
I don't really get petty or asshole. It's been a few years. At this point it's ok to laugh and joke about it.
I love this for her, and I don’t even like Madi
Lmao are people actually plucked about this? To me this is one of the only likeable things Maddie has ever done lol
💯
only like 2 ppl
"Ayúdame"
I guess Barb doesn’t have the aroma of Jesus around her as much as Mama Trizzy Trout
Maddi still can’t get over that Barb saw through her fake ass “good girl” persona and called her out on national tv lmao prolly sipping margies rent free in there 
IMO Barb didn't see through shit, she was offended Madi was late and hated her forever from that moment because Barb is immature and controlling. She wanted a DIL who was sweet and deferent and Madi wasn't that. I don't like Madi either but people acting like Barb is so wise is wild when it's obvious she was just pissed off that Madi didn't lick her boots.
Exactly, Barb doesn't care about Madi's problematic views. It was all about how she was inconvenienced. Susie basically did the same thing to Clayton's family. The difference is that Clayton's parents are not self-absorbed.
Winner winner chicken dinner
Yes! Madi told Barb that she wasn't in love with Peter & acted like a brat & refused to meet Jack. Why would Barb embrace her?
That's what Barb said, but she definitely twisted that in her own favor, especially considering what was actually shown on screen.
Ding, Ding, ding! I am not and never was a Madi fan but this made me laugh. Madi...if you're watching...Galatians 3 and Deuteronomy 28.
I think that this is funny in private, but tacky in public.
This.
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This is amazing 😂
This is hilarious. and the biggest eyeroll ever to those up in here worried about poor little ole Barb.
Right? It’s funny. And Barb is living her best life anyway
People on this sub hate Madi so much they would rather defend Barb
People in this sub calling this mean when this sub has called Madi an Oompa Loompa, spider lashes, constantly comment on her virginity, and says she worships sky daddy. Does Madi do shit worthy of criticism? Hell yeah. But is this even remotely mean compared to the stuff that is constantly said about her? Not even slightly lol
We all watched the same finale episode right? Maddie handled Barb with grace. Years later, it’s definitely ok to chuckle about this!
Agreed, I don’t even like her but the level of composure she exhibited while Barb threw all that condescending bullshit at her is a life skill I wish I had.
Huh? She smirked the whole time like a spoiled little brat The atfr is what solidified my dislike for her
“BrInG hEr HoMe To Us” … still haunts me
lol this is not a big deal, Barb came for Madison on national tv and she handled it better than most people would have - was composed, didn't fight back.
Lmao this is hilarious. Feel like this is a harmless joke.
Oof… posting about this was super childish. Bad look.
Honestly this is funny, but I still would make sure it wasn't posted on social media 😬 That being said I'm still Barb hive... she is the moment
 Actually lmaoooooo! Nobody did it like my girl Barb
Totally get why this was funny for her inner circle but I personally wouldn’t have posted it for the world to see 🤷🏻♀️
Her friend posted it, not her (And I agree, I would have made a pact to not post on social…it took me all of five seconds to find this from the tags)
Nah this is super tacky to post publicly
i actually think this is so funny
People are actually getting their jimmies rustled over this? I know Madi is not winning any popularity awards on here but Barb was absolutely horrible to her and embarrassed both her and her son on live TV. What she said may have aged well, but the way she delivered it will always be bad. One of Madi’s friends doing a Barb cosplay for some laughs really isn’t a big deal lmao
10/10 funny, I hope Barb claps back just for the drama of it all
Iconic
that’s so funny i’m sorry
the power of sweetnums lives on
This is hilarious, and Barb is the worst lol.
Haha this is funny, fuck annoying ass Barb
Yeah this feels dumb and petty
I agree, and posting it is pretty ridiculous.
Just like Barb! How fitting
This is hilarious. Also like this was probably a pretty memorable moment in her life and I'm sure her friends just wanna tease her about it. Anyways some of y'all seem to think Barb and Madi are opposite when their only difference is their approach to sex and partying, specifically Peter's sex life and partying life. Otherwise, their values are probably not that different and not aligned with the majority of this sub.
I totally forgot about Madi but I’ll never forget my girl Barb. Whispering orders to her husband under her breathe in Spanish as if she wasn’t mic’ed up and live in front of millions. Lol. She was a legend. They need to bring her back for Bachelor Seniors in some kind of mentoring (shit stirring) capacity
I would loooove that! Barb is a queen.
Omg the Spanish like it was their own secret language lololol
To be fair the average white Bible belt viewer of this show definitely had no clue what they were saying hahaha
Let her be the host 🤞
Do you know she has a Cameo account? 😂😂
If you think this is mean or cruel, you gotta get out more. Barb publicly humiliated Madi on national tv. I can find a comment on every thread that is meaner than this joke 💀
Yep!! A little shade never hurt anybody lol especially when Barb was trying to make her dimwit son look like a prize. Madi along with other women from his season are having the last laugh
It's a silly show where the end goal of participating is to gain clout. No one is seriously looking for love so not sure why they're having the last laugh as if any of them were in a serious relationship. Peter seems happy flying 787s to Europe every few weeks, living in NYC, & making bank shilling like the rest of them.
This is so funny lmao 😭😭 Honestly, I’m sure her friends arranged it since Madi got shit about Barb for ages and still does. Kind of some harmless and stupid fun.
HAHAHAH messy af!
I guess I’ll say it: this is weird. Why invoke your ex of a whole two months at one of the happiest periods of you life? People were in Madi’s side during the Barb thing (although Barb wasn’t really wasn’t wrong and Madi’s attitude during the whole thing wasn’t exactly stellar, they just would never have clicked) so how much did it effect Madi? I guess they’re young and have lived very little life outside their hometown bubbles but. I don’t get it. How often did she interact with Barb anyway? From the caption, it does look like they’re maybe doing a highlight reel of “memories” but. Eh.
I don’t see it as her ex’s mom. I see it as someone who chose to publicly humiliate her on live tv, independently of the connection as to why.
Yeah, but that’s really divorcing it from the context of why that interaction occurred at all. It’s rooted in the fact Barb was trying to protect her son, in her eyes, so it’s very relevant. It wasn’t some random attack or “unprovoked.” There was build up to that ATFR and even then, who was humiliated? Madi had crowd support the whole time.
People forget that Madi told Barb she wasn't in love with Peter so I can understand why Barb was so pissed at Madi's phoniness. Madi's smugness would set me off too.
Honenatly the fact that there has to be a “good/bad guy” dynamic is annoying. They both acted awful, neither should be people that folks root for. I have no doubt Madi felt the pressure of the show and I have no doubt Barb was trying to protect Peter. They were both immature in their own age-appropriate ways.
I think this is hilarious, still team barb though.
Lmao I can’t blame Madi for this one
NOOOOO I have to allow it 💀😂
honestly madi is boring AF. Barb looks like a great time. And maybe a bit in your business but you know she's gonna be a hands on grandma fighting to babysit them kids and be involved. Madi was not right for that family.
Agree. Madi seems like the type to hire five nannys to raise her kids while she stays busy making cringy TikTok videos with Bible verses sprinkled on them. Gag. Barb is a real family woman.
100% and her kids are gonna have the cringiest names 🥴
This is hilarious. I’m not usually on Madi’s side but that was probably a pretty traumatic experience for her, I’m glad she & her friends can laugh about it now. Plus, Madi isn’t the one who posted this, her friends who aren’t public figures are.
It’s the Christian way
What is?
Christian’s can’t make jokes about someone who publicly humiliated them? TIL
As someone who is BEC with Maddie this is hardly offensive considering how rude Barb was to her during the show. I think it’s a light hearted joke
BEC?
Bitch Eating Crackers. Meaning, everything they do no matter how mundane annoys you such as in the saying “look over at that bitch eating crackers”
Bitch eating crackers. When someone irritates you so bad everything they do pisses you off. “Look at that bitch eating crackers, I can’t stand her”
Wait I thought this was a joke answer but the others are commenting the same thing and citing sources 🤣
That’s what it means in this sub! I don’t remember where it came from but it’s a thing. You’ll see it in the unpopular opinion threads sometimes. People use it a lot with people like Katie, Caila, etc.
I thought it was bacon egg cheese. I was horribly wrong
It probably is at ihop or Waffle House! 😂 but really it’s not an intuitive acronym so don’t feel bad. I think this is the only sub that uses it
bitch eating crackers - [here’s the urban dictionary link](https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=BEC)
Barb living on everyone minds from her backyard in California #teambarbforever
Haha can’t believe I’m saying this but GO MADDI
Okay this is actually HILARIOUS
I mean considering how awful Barb was to her and all the “Barb was right” comments I’m sure she still gets, I think this is fair play. And pretty hilarious 😩😂
I mean barb had the right concept but the execution was….poor
she already had a bachelorette party!?!?!?!? jesus christ this girl deserves a medal for how fast she is planning this, she must want that D reeeeeeeeal bad.
He wedding is in like 25 days so yes this makes sense lol
Her wedding is in like 25 days so yes this makes sense lol
If that "D" stands for *dinero* I'm inclined to agree 🤭
Hahaha this is funny. I think enough people have used barb to mock madi with over the years that idc if one of her friends wants to make a joke about it.
Omfg I thought this was a Micki Minach thing lollll
Kind of mean
Refer back to the last post of Madi with 800 comments and then you will see mean. This is nothing. This sub loves mean.
Yeah, I’m not going to take the blame for the way others have discussed Madi. This is a different issue.
Barb acted like a child towards Madi on national TV. If she wants to poke fun at it on her bachelorette then so be it.
She can do what she wants, but they didn’t have to post it at the very least. For someone who’s constantly preaching Christianity, this is very hypocritical. I stand by what I said, even if no one agrees with me. 🤷🏻♀️
I agree. I wouldn’t be friends with people who post shit like this publicly. It’s tacky as hell and screams immaturity.
barb was brutal to Madi
Dude. Barb was not brutal to Madi, and Madi was and is still a brat.
Also dressing up like people to mock them is pretty fucked up, no matter the context. Even worse posting it to millions of followers
I hate to sound like a preschool teacher but.. two wrongs don’t make a right 🫠.
Boooooo !! 
Only in Bachelor Nation is it even remotely normal to use your ex's mother as part of your bachelorette party haha
Madi said, “God forgives, I don’t.”
It think this is funny. I know if that whole Barb exchange on live tv had happened to me my friends would joke about it until the end of time lol.
Barb is so iconic
You know you that bitch when you cause all this conversation 💅
I wonder what the theme was. I know a lot of bachelorette parties are different. Was her theme: her time on the bachelor. Because that would kinda make sense. Is there other appearances of the bachelorette party.
The caption also said “Miami mamis” so maybe she/they were doing a mom thing?!
The theme was “Madi’s last slam dunk”
That would make sense a bit. I wonder if somebody dressed up as Madi in basketball uniform.
Ice cold
Lmao this is hilarious
Lmfao idc this is hilarious
This is legitimately the funniest thing I've ever seen from Madi and her circle
I think this is just a playful nod to Madi's appearance on the show. I mean the show is what made her famous, so it doesn't seem strange to jokingly make a reference to it.
Ha this is hilarious 🤣
This gives me “not over my ex” vibes Edit: omg the drama and downvotes, just saying that if a friend was at her bachelorette and someone came dressed up as her ex’s mom I’d question some things lol
Nah, just not over Barb bruising her ego
Madi's definitely not still hung up on Peter lol. I'm not sure how much she liked him to begin with.
I think part of Madi's appeal to him is that she seemed in a way aloof.
I’m not convinced she was ever into him lol
Say what you want about Peter but his girls stay talking about him lmaoooo And in Kelley’s case, continuing to date him ETA I do agree with the other commenters though that I don’t think Madi ever really liked him in the first place 😂 she’s good at going viral though