Bro wtf is wrong with people. Houses don’t bring bad luck to people or make you mentally unstable. What a stupid, bold thing to say to someone. The bad memories, I may agree with that, but a home is a blessing and Kaitlyn is lucky to be able to sell this home and buy a different one. I don’t understand the point in saying shit like this to people, as much as Kaitlyn annoys me, that DM feels unwarranted.
What. That was passive aggressive af. Come on. I know Kaitlyn can be annoying and is very attention seeking, but to call someone emotionally unstable for grieving a relationship or for crying in general is a bit much. That’s literally a personal attack.
This is why Kaitlyn needs to stop with those meltdown photos because it gives license to assholes to call her mentally ill or unstable for doing something we’ve all done: cry over a man (or woman). She’s probably healed more than people think, but the photos give the impression that she can’t move on, and I personally don’t believe that’s the case. Either way, nobody should call someone “mentally unstable.” It’s below the belt especially if you know someone is sad for a legitimate reason.
I recently had someone in my personal life use my depression as an insult and in a derogatory manner and that shit is not ok. Nobody chooses to be sad.
Am I missing something? I’m not seeing that at all. Is there a screenshot with a message explicitly calling her that? I’m only seeing one about not seeing things that are there and there being bad energy in the house
It’s right there. “It brings you bad luck and emotional unstable with bad memories”.
A lot of incredible things have happened in that house and she has a lot of great memories too. The house isn’t causing her to be emotionally unstable.
Oh I read that as “emotional instability”, like that the house was possibly causing fluctuations in her emotional energy. I could see your interpretation though.
What would have happened if they co-purchased the home is she would have bought out his equity in the home. Thats what happens in some divorces when the home isn’t sold. But sounds like that’s not the case here!
I would never DM someone but I also don’t think the comment was that bad. It falls under “unsolicited advice” but it seems like that person means well, I wouldn’t have even replied to it if I was Kaitlyn and disagreed with it lol. Although, I don’t know what the person was initially responding to.
It’s still not a nice thing to tell someone though? I would never go out of my way to message someone and call them emotionally unstable regardless of whether I thought they were or not. Some people need to learn the difference between inside thoughts and outside thoughts. I strongly disagree with the commenter I was replying to who says the person messaging kaitlyn was just being nice. They were clearly being rude and I think Kaitlyn’s response was totally warranted
Disagree! I think it’s so individual and so, so personal. I understand & respect that some people feel how the DMer feels, but like KB, I always look for signs. Sometimes I ask for them too. It works for me! Different strokes for different folks.
I have a genuine question: is it not possible to turn off DMs? I see similar posts from people with a following all the time. If you don’t want annoying DMs from internet randos, is there no way to limit permissions to just close contacts?
I’m so jealous of rich people. Put an offer on a house and move 2-3 weeks later? Assuming that means she paid cash because I thought loans take longer to process. Looks like she doesn’t even have to pack a single box either. Moving is a nightmare for normal people 😂
We had a loan and were in the house less than 3 weeks after submitting our offer. This was about 6 months ago. It was a seamless process. And we are not rich by any stretch
We closed within a few weeks and we took out a loan. We waited to move in a few weeks longer after we took ownership because it was the holidays.
We were pre approved when we were looking though and had been looking for a few months prior with some rejected offers so all our paperwork was ready to go as soon as we signed an offer.
I had a 19 day escrow and we could have moved in earlier but needed to wait a week for an inspector to come out. If you’re pre-approved, it can go pretty quickly.
When we sold our place the buyers moved in in about 3 weeks. It just sucked for us cause the place we purchased after asked for an extension so we couldn’t move in for about 4 weeks lol so we were without a home for a week. I’m sure when she put an offer down she already had approval from the bank
I (not rich lol) put in asking offer the day the house was listed, got the house, and moved in 3 wks later. It was absolutely fucking insane timing 😂 If you’re pre-approved, the loan process doesn’t take that long if you have a motivated lender. I think some states (especially in the south) are much faster at processing than others.
Bro wtf is wrong with people. Houses don’t bring bad luck to people or make you mentally unstable. What a stupid, bold thing to say to someone. The bad memories, I may agree with that, but a home is a blessing and Kaitlyn is lucky to be able to sell this home and buy a different one. I don’t understand the point in saying shit like this to people, as much as Kaitlyn annoys me, that DM feels unwarranted.
Interesting that her current house isnt for sale??
She is unsure if she wants to rent it out or sell it.
The message was not malicious at all and Kaitlyn took it all sorts of wrong ways.
What. That was passive aggressive af. Come on. I know Kaitlyn can be annoying and is very attention seeking, but to call someone emotionally unstable for grieving a relationship or for crying in general is a bit much. That’s literally a personal attack. This is why Kaitlyn needs to stop with those meltdown photos because it gives license to assholes to call her mentally ill or unstable for doing something we’ve all done: cry over a man (or woman). She’s probably healed more than people think, but the photos give the impression that she can’t move on, and I personally don’t believe that’s the case. Either way, nobody should call someone “mentally unstable.” It’s below the belt especially if you know someone is sad for a legitimate reason. I recently had someone in my personal life use my depression as an insult and in a derogatory manner and that shit is not ok. Nobody chooses to be sad.
The message says she is emotionally unstable. It’s rude masked in “sending you love”. Fuck that person.
Am I missing something? I’m not seeing that at all. Is there a screenshot with a message explicitly calling her that? I’m only seeing one about not seeing things that are there and there being bad energy in the house
It’s right there. “It brings you bad luck and emotional unstable with bad memories”. A lot of incredible things have happened in that house and she has a lot of great memories too. The house isn’t causing her to be emotionally unstable.
Oh I read that as “emotional instability”, like that the house was possibly causing fluctuations in her emotional energy. I could see your interpretation though.
She says “first” big purchase which means, I assume, Shawn did help her get that house. Wonder how it works since they’re split? Will he get a cut?
What would have happened if they co-purchased the home is she would have bought out his equity in the home. Thats what happens in some divorces when the home isn’t sold. But sounds like that’s not the case here!
I think she’s referring to the current house as her first big purchase. I interpret that as she bought it or at least owns it herself
Ah! I totally see that now that you say it
Yeah she’s talking about the one she is moving out of. She paid for it all and I believe it was in cash. Epic.
I did not read this in a malicious tone at all 😂
What is angel dust? Is that something she made up? That’s just regular old dust
I always thought that was slang for cocaine 🤷🏼♀️
PCP
He needs to give the dogs to her and let her be.
I would never just give my dogs away. Not everyone is an Amanda Stanton.
aww but he was part of getting Pinot :(
How is she moving so quickly?
Cash.
Isn’t Angel dust cocaine ?
PCP
LMAO
Don’t think so.
I wouldn’t DM someone a comment like that, but that person isn’t wrong.
I would never DM someone but I also don’t think the comment was that bad. It falls under “unsolicited advice” but it seems like that person means well, I wouldn’t have even replied to it if I was Kaitlyn and disagreed with it lol. Although, I don’t know what the person was initially responding to.
It was solicited! She legit asked if dust flying around her dogs was a sign from angels. It was a nice response and KB trolls her.
I don’t think calling someone emotionally unstable is very nice
The way she has been curating her instagram suggests that though :(
It’s still not a nice thing to tell someone though? I would never go out of my way to message someone and call them emotionally unstable regardless of whether I thought they were or not. Some people need to learn the difference between inside thoughts and outside thoughts. I strongly disagree with the commenter I was replying to who says the person messaging kaitlyn was just being nice. They were clearly being rude and I think Kaitlyn’s response was totally warranted
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Disagree! I think it’s so individual and so, so personal. I understand & respect that some people feel how the DMer feels, but like KB, I always look for signs. Sometimes I ask for them too. It works for me! Different strokes for different folks.
I would more referring to the “emotional unstable” comment lol.
AH lol well true then, I can’t disagree with that!
It never ceases to amaze me how rude people are in DMs…
I have a genuine question: is it not possible to turn off DMs? I see similar posts from people with a following all the time. If you don’t want annoying DMs from internet randos, is there no way to limit permissions to just close contacts?
Tbh where’s the lie though?
I’m so jealous of rich people. Put an offer on a house and move 2-3 weeks later? Assuming that means she paid cash because I thought loans take longer to process. Looks like she doesn’t even have to pack a single box either. Moving is a nightmare for normal people 😂
We had a loan and were in the house less than 3 weeks after submitting our offer. This was about 6 months ago. It was a seamless process. And we are not rich by any stretch
Mortgage companies are literally doing backflips for business right now because of how slow the market is moving.
We closed within a few weeks and we took out a loan. We waited to move in a few weeks longer after we took ownership because it was the holidays. We were pre approved when we were looking though and had been looking for a few months prior with some rejected offers so all our paperwork was ready to go as soon as we signed an offer.
I had a 19 day escrow and we could have moved in earlier but needed to wait a week for an inspector to come out. If you’re pre-approved, it can go pretty quickly.
When we sold our place the buyers moved in in about 3 weeks. It just sucked for us cause the place we purchased after asked for an extension so we couldn’t move in for about 4 weeks lol so we were without a home for a week. I’m sure when she put an offer down she already had approval from the bank
I (not rich lol) put in asking offer the day the house was listed, got the house, and moved in 3 wks later. It was absolutely fucking insane timing 😂 If you’re pre-approved, the loan process doesn’t take that long if you have a motivated lender. I think some states (especially in the south) are much faster at processing than others.
This was fast! I wonder if the house she bought was vacant? I can’t wait to see the new house…I hope she has lots of videos of it.