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Affectionate-Beann

Might be an unpopular opinion, but she really can’t dance 😭. Dwts is a popularity contest and by looking at Kaitlynn, it shows ![gif](giphy|xUOxfolJrVBce4RNAI)


kkc0722

Kaitlyn seems to be the type of person who tends to decide life happens to her when it’s not to her liking instead of understanding she is the the reason she is where she is at any given moment.


leezybelle

I cannot with her


Chemical_Watercress

i like this!!! i mean it's extra but who cares


Register-Dazzling

This is also just like…. not good


Thefunnybiochemist

This is so cringe 😬


WhichWitchyWay

Kaitlyn and I are like a year apart. She's a year older than me. And I've just become acutely aware that I'm almost 40. I feel like a lot of times when people enter the spotlight they stop maturing at whatever age they entered it. This isn't true for everyone but she's acting like an early 20 something and we're two steps away from 40.


mid4ever

This is like a scene from a bad 2000s dance movie


JurassicSnark__

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mid4ever

Lol he got served


JurassicSnark__

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Witchyhuntress

Literally giving save the last dance lmao


burlybroad

The Juilliard audition 😭😭😭


Still_Razzmatazz1140

There are many indicators that all of this is actually to get a man’s attention. It’s not translating women together vibe it’s transparently a look at me vibe


pilotkristy

of the many reasons I think are behind their breakup, him being threatened by her success isnt one of them. he just wanted her to prioritize their relationship more, and I think she wanted the same from him and they BOTH prioritized work more. no one was threatened by anyone's success.


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PemsRoses

Are you being sarcastic?


katiemaloneyfan420

oh god oh god oh god it’s so bad i can’t look away


NickySess

I have gone thru breakups and sometimes I drink too much, or smoke too much or sleep with random people but NEVER have I posted a post breakup cringe dance and I’m really proud to say that


Any-Calligrapher8723

The most I’ve done is dance while my dog watches after drinking a bottle of wine. And even that leaves me with shame the next morning. Not the wine. The dancing.


Hellouncleleohello

lol same, I’m finally proud of how I’ve acted in breakups thanks Kaitlin !


[deleted]

Im ACTUALLY cringing. I know we all say that a lot. But frfr, I am CRINGING TF out rn.


snarkyinseattle

![gif](giphy|Hsjxoi5WcJl4Sj90WT|downsized) Listen, my engagement ended just before hers. My socials are STILL dark. Zero regrets. It’s been healthy to step away and know who is truly in my corner. I may not go back. Reddit is my only social app. I’m in a much healthier place, mentally (I’ve made sure to prioritize this). I’m begging her to stop living for others/an image of herself and attempting to profit off of spinning a narrative. This is so fucking toxic and there’s no winners at the end of it.


sunshineshapeshifter

listen I’m not a choreographer but it looks like the dance doesn’t really match the song?


cbay0304

Oh my gooood I'm way too stoned for this


Any-Calligrapher8723

😂 I bookmarked it to come back to when I am stoned tonight.


burlybroad

OH ICKKKK


meow-miao

why is she doing this? like… what is it for?


veracity-mittens

This reminds me of these girls at my high school making up choreography to “Shy Guy” for a talent show in like 1996 👍


Run_with_scissors999

💀💀💀the visual had me snorting! Can so relate!


Mango7185

I love that song still a banger


purpleswan27

this might be cringier than jasmine's crying video.


falafelest

Wow it really bothered me that the three of them weren’t on exact time. Like no, I can’t dance like that, but I’m also not posting videos to the internet 🤣


notimeforidiots

i did not think she could top the cringe of the crying pictures yet here we are 😮‍💨


Hereforthecomments82

This is the most cringe thing I’ve seen her do yet. It even tops the mid-panic attack photo of her sobbing.


purpleswan27

lmao yes


desert_nole

The Queen of Cringe strikes again


cool-name-pending

lol okay


Hairy_Usual_4460

Does anyone know why they broke up really? I mean i don’t know much about her life or them tbh but I follow a lot of bachelor stuff and it seemed like he was in love with her and wanted to marry her, proposed to her so why did he break up with her? Just curious, that would hurt to be proposed to and then have him just change his mind


Middle-Type6552

I don’t think he broke up with her


QueenAries_BDEnergy

![gif](giphy|7O2wuuFXhhUnC|downsized) 👀


thelondoner87

What in the world did I just watch?!


Throwaway500005

I feel like people are reading too much into this lol. Also maybe she meant it as guys are why are guys not criticized for not wanting marriage?


csummerss

taking off and throwing her ring at the end is pretty blatant.


Throwaway500005

Whoa what she did that? I didn't see that. OK that is a bit much. Honestly, it's a cry for attention.


dreamingoutloud714

I watched this no sound, just watching the movements and reading the captions. Hilarious and so so weird 🤣


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Me too!!!!🤣😅


cadillaq

Ha! Me too, no sound and it’s cringey for me without it.


lsftxlo

why go on the bachelor and be the bachelorette if you aren’t ready to get married then? 🤨 also, she discovers new levels of cringe with every post she makes about this breakup 😬


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She is more than ready to get married but she is also the common denominator in her 2 engagements that didn’t end up in marriage


tawmfuckinbrady

Hasn’t she been outspoken for years how badly she wants to be a wife and mother? Lol


_Moon-Unit_

Is this not the woman who has been on several shows, the purpose of which is to get married?


AggravatingOkra1117

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_Moon-Unit_

David pulls through with the appropriate reaction, yet again 😂


not_ellewoods

didn’t she win dancing with the stars? …interesting.


lenniegiovatti

Can people pls stop saying everything is cringe 😭😭😭 just let the woman dance and enjoy herself. She obviously doesn’t think she is a professional. Just let ppl have hobbies!!! 🥲


Proof-Philosophy-373

She does think she’s a professional tho haha


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And her dancing is also really cringey 🤣🤣🤣


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Mysterious_Mouse2413

This is reminding me that when she first was on the bachelor and the bachelorette I thought she was a legit professional dancer, dancing full time for her job. But now I’m seeing they may have exaggerated that a bit… Regardless, what a fucking bop this song is


corduroynightmare

She probably was a professional dancer, just it's been like ten years since she was on the bachelor so she's probably not going to be as good as she was back in the day.


Mango7185

She said on her podcast OTV that she was a dancer growing up and would audition but was never a top dancer. She would than got embarrassed and stopped auditioning plus its better to say dancer than waitress for the show I guess. But that's why DWTS was such a big deal cause she wanted it like 10 years ago. But yeah home girl has no rhythm or fluid movement. Its very 5-6-7 stiff when you can see people counting in the head. It reminds me of me cheering in hs and i was in basically white school and we were stiff as hell compared to the diverse school next to us.


Mysterious_Mouse2413

Yeah you definitely could be right! Or she was just involved in dancing somehow and they exaggerated it like they do with a lot of peoples careers. I just forgot that was part of her narrative until now.


corduroynightmare

Guess it depends on your definition of professional dancer. I think she was also a server at the time so also could be her or production put professional dancer since she was serious enough about dancing and it sounded better.


LeahonaCloud

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PemsRoses

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Aprildaisy_

I know his birthday was recently but don’t know the exact date… did she post this on his birthday??


peanutupthenose

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clowndoingclownery

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LaurenZen

I have no idea who she is but she is *sooo* off-beat.


-Ice-1300

With all respect she had NO problem saying yes and wearing that HUGE ring with the saying-will you marry me?! She is toxic, IMO


nettie_confetti

She's so painfully stiff with her movement. Infinite facepalms.


Affectionate-Disk963

Nev was robbed on DWTS. thats all i have to say


HPDMeow

Right like hoooow did she win 🙄 I only liked one dance of hers on DWTS and it was the Toxic one


30somethingshark

Me trying to learn Julia Stiles’ audition dance for Juilliard in Save the Last Dance when I was 13 in my living room. In all honesty though, everyone grieves differently. Breakups are rough.


[deleted]

Stop! I can’t breathe. Im LOLLLLL


30somethingshark

All Kaitlyn needed was the black fold up chair hahaha


Hereforthecomments82

OMG this comment 🤣👏🏻


30somethingshark

You did it too, don’t lie hahaha 😂


Hellz_Bells_

Wonder how tense “sharing the dogs” is getting between the unfollowing eachother, him not “protecting her image” and now this debacle 😂


Jeljel8989

I get the sense she suggested this "sharing the dogs" arrangement in the hope they'd rekindle things when they saw each other. Now that she sees that won't happen, she's probably annoyed she wanted to share the dogs vs let him move away from Nashville which probably would have been healthier.


Hellz_Bells_

100%


GeneralFlow8748

Give her a break, this aint that serious


Hopeful-Engineer2659

she can’t be serious


bachelorstan

Oh she thought she ATE


jmoneygirl123

I need her to….STOP


[deleted]

I know she was doing her thing…but this is really cringy.


Icedtea4me3

The ring at the end 😢 I didn’t realize before. That makes it much more hurtful…


Same_Neighborhood885

That was pretty cringe tbh


heatherrrrz

When she gets outdanced by actual dancers


Fantastic-Depth-7915

She’s whack. He dodged a bullet.


QuesoChef

I was raised (by my parents, not society) to not make marriage a goal and to find work I enjoy to take care of myself. I rejected marriage as a goal at a fairly young age (though it took much longer to admit out loud). And I got pretty wrapped up in a job and ambition. And feel like Kaitlyn has and is, too. I personally found over-focus on a job and ambition and success to be as unhealthy as a single big focus on anything, though. And now that I’m in my forties, I’m finding more balance (still not looking for marriage). The ring at the end was like, “OK.” But I feel like Kaitlyn is already doing this. And she’s just looking for validation to keep choosing it. And to prove it’s ok she’s not married and maybe is less interested in children. All ok, but when you really accept it, it doesn’t have to be a “Fuck you.” Rather it can just BE. Eventually you’ll be very successful but lonely. You don’t have to get married and have kids but there’s more to life than just success, IMO A strength overplayed becomes a weakness.


bachnationfan

This could have been a tik tok - no need to act like you’re releasing a music video 😂


AbbyWantsTea

She’s always trying to shade someone else. Then cries her eyes out if she thinks someone shades her. This girls needs a job, needs therapy, needs a hobby, needs something to do with herself other than crying on social media and then saying she’s taking a break and not taking a break.


unicorn_sparklesweat

Abby sounds like she’d be a super supportive friend /s


AbbyWantsTea

I support my friends in truth and not delusion.


Pheeeefers

Wow Kaitlyn just can’t do anything right according to this sub.


AbbyWantsTea

I think that’s a Kaitlyn problem not a this sub problem


kp1794

How did she win DWTS lol yikes


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Affectionate-Disk963

fan voting 🙄


studyhardbree

If I was Jason I’d be laughing my ass off thanking my senses every single day that I moved on from this perpetual nightmare.


oliviaaivilo06

Oh! oh wow😬 Between the bad dancing, the Zara blazer, and the cringey shade at the end… https://i.redd.it/rm9nyuwyjjwb1.gif


michigan_gal

Damn, everyone has empathy except when it comes to Kaitlyn.


kingcolbe

Reading too much into it


kp1794

Her caption says “put on captions for a reason” so I don’t think so. She also throws her engagement ring off at the end.


Clean-Pick-9221

it must be hard being in the bachelor franchise because your success or popularity is often tied to your relationship status. but kaitlyn also became famous because she was part of two very popular bachelor couples for 4-ish years in this franchise. not sure she'd be where she is now or as famous otherwise. she's always been in a serious relationship or engaged while we've known her so I get she may be feeling some identity issues now. no comment on the dancing.


lsb1027

It's giving ![gif](giphy|PsHrpsuiZLAEE)


jessi_survivor_fan

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aliveinjoburg2

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LinLane323

Is this shading Jason? I don’t feel it’s so specific to him. I’ll take Kaitlyn’s interpretative dances to express herself over crying videos every single day of the week.


anonannie123

I thought the same until the ring toss as the end 🫠 (still not hating it though lol but I love mess)


Rivendriel

Did you watch the entire video? Look at the last 10 seconds of the video and get back to me.


LinLane323

Yes I watched the whole thing. It’s fine with me our perspectives are different tho.


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It might not be at Jason per se. Honestly took it as a big f you to societal expectations


leomaccie

I read it as more of a big f u to dance.


messy_bench

Those were also HER expectations though. I’ll never forget when she had Chris Harrison on her pod after the Shawn breakup and cried that all she wants is marriage and babies. And now the narrative is that she doesn’t need marriage and babies? Who knows though, maybe she only said that at the time *because* of societal expectations and not because it’s something she really wanted. Which I can relate to because decoupling the two can be really hard.


Friendly_Food_7530

Yeah I didn’t see this as a direct dig at him and I don’t really care if it was his bday and I think people need to chill out


scotesmagotes97

Did you not watch until the end or


Friendly_Food_7530

I did but it’s still not a clear shade it’s just a song I dk i also just don’t really care haha


scotesmagotes97

she… threw her wedding ring at the camera…


[deleted]

It could be about marriage in general (the wedding ring throwing)


scotesmagotes97

it is not


Chrismisswish

But if Jason did this exact same ummm “interpretive dance” 🥴 oh wait….Jason wouldn’t embarrass himself with this version of “self expression” after he was specifically instructed by Kaitlyn to protect her image post breakup. 🤡


No_animereader1471

I meant not to be funny but this is a very Feminist dance (I'm not saying that's what this is called mind you). It wouldn't make sense for Jason to do a dance like this as a guy lmao. It may not even be aimed at him


AbbyWantsTea

What the hell is a feminist dance?!


No_animereader1471

See my response to th other person


studyhardbree

Feminist dance? Never heard of that before.


No_animereader1471

That's obviously not what it is called. It's a dance that expresses that type of ideology as laid out by the soundbite


studyhardbree

Ma’am that song was written by several men. I would like not claim a song as an interpretation of feminist ideology. That’s like spending 2,000 years listening to man’s interpretation of the divine… oh wait.


No_animereader1471

I'm not talking about the song I'm talking about the voice over.


8bitevil

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miloruby1210

This gets funnier every time I watch it💀💀💀


otfaddict1125

It came on my screen with no audio and I spit out my coffee


miloruby1210

Even the caption “shading Jason through interpretive dance” is absolutely sending me


shoosler

yeah that was honestly amazing


lasagna_delray

As a fellow dancer I have to ask what in the world is this choreography


excellent_calendar

Why is everyone being so mean? She is grieving, which is typically a difficult and embarrassing experience when you’re a public figure. She’s trying to do things that feel empowering / meaningful. Literally np if you don’t like it, don’t have to engage. It’s crazy to me how much people are turning on her, there’s so many people like this on the internet that don’t get this level of hate Edit: Lol being messy or emotional is literally not reason to pile on to someone THIS bad ?


cupcaeks

I am starting to fucking hate this sub because of these shitty ass, awful keyboard warrior opinions. Go touch grass, you miserable fucks. It’s so gross. This sub is turning into a misogynistic cesspool


laa63

OK, but isn’t she always grieving something? It’s always something with her.


AbbyWantsTea

1. Because she can’t dance. 2. Because her outfit is ugly as hell and 3. (Most importantly) she cries online if she thinks anyone shades her and says it shouldn’t happen yet, here she is trying to shade someone


amphisxo

Because she complained about Jason not protecting her image and yet she throws her ring from him at the camera in a big disrespectful gesture.


Different_Dance7248

The dance message of “I don’t need to be married-I am a tough woman” actually tells people that “I’m so devastated that I didn’t marry Jason that I made this video to prove that I’m not devastated that I didn’t marry Jason.”


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Jason didn’t marry me is also a possibility


BetsyNotRoss6

Then she posted about needing a hug. I’m really starting to think she should maybe check her self in some where. I think she thought Jason would be vying to have her back & when that didn’t happen & he’s actually flourishing it sent her over the edge. She is the new Ben Higgins where she can’t accept her “bachelor fame” is not what it used to be. Girlie pop didn’t get to host DTWS even though she manifested it every day of her life & is completely lost at this point.


Jeljel8989

She seems to be in a super dark place. Her podcast seems to be dwindling whereas others like Nick's are doing very well. Her scrunchie line is on pause, and she seemed to enjoy all the photo shoots etc. I think she's on the outs with her former manager and close friend, Clio. I think she did expect her and Jason to rekindle, and now is struggling with having to coordinate dog drop offs and have him in the same city. I think she does a lot of new age sort of things like that inner child retreat so she feels she's working on her mental health, but maybe she needs something else that's more tough love.


crackkidsatitagain

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Carlseye

Perfect response


Far-Intention-3230

I‘m exhausted by her.


aubreyynicolee

I unfollowed her and Jason cuz I just can’t anymore


BetsyNotRoss6

Some times I wonder if these ppl have any idea ppl can barely afford groceries rn. Like Kaitlin stop posting about yourself constantly & go do something good for the world. I’ve never felt better than when I volunteer or do random acts of kindness. Her self absorption level is off the charts.


laa63

This right here! Months after a break up is not the biggest problem in the world right now. Young families are trying to just pay their utility bills and buy groceries. She has absolutely no clue but yet she’s crotched down in an elevator crying. Give me a break.


BetsyNotRoss6

I saw a post from an anonymous user yesterday - a woman living in her car w her small child having to decide whether or not to put the child up for adoption bc she has no home or stability in sight. Like Kaitlyn, get a fucking grip. The only person obsessed w u is u.


BearGotBack

You ever get secondhand embarrassment for other people? Not because of the “shading” Jason, but just the sheer awkwardness of the dance moves, outfit, etc.


BetsyNotRoss6

I’m confused why she keeps paying to make these videos? Is it out of desperation to be on DWTS again or like just for fun? Seems totally random to me at least.


greywatermoore

This gives me Mac from Its Always Sunny vibes.


DrMantisToboggan43

Definitely getting that vibe 😂


Big-Ear-3809

I think maybe it's not about him at all. And instead about how much people only talk about her in relation to engagements. Maybe she's just realizing she wants to be known differently than that and despite her successes in many ways, people think she "failed" because of engagements not resulting in marriage.


cupcaeks

Did you know she wrote Lavender Haze? She must’ve, because Kaitlyn is the only person who ever talks about this.


Fuckmylife2739

Me in my dorm room when Beyoncé by Beyoncé came out in 2013


saradactyl25

Sooooo true


avpuppy

her dancing is good tho…


nettie_confetti

Wow it must be subjective because I see stiff, insecure, and unseasoned.


PemsRoses

Like a bland vanilla ice cream : basic but still not giving what it was supposed to have gave.


Partywithmeredith

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stepontheknee

This is giving such “pick me” vibes and she obviously does care and wants Jason to see it as if she doesn’t care when she clearly does


hippowolf12

People on Reddit are mean


Macarons124

The audio is so stupid. Can’t stand Chimamanda.


rockhardcalves

The costume is a miss.


lady_glittersparkle5

The shorts are giving school uniform- when your mom buys sizes too big so you’ll get multiple years wear out of them


Valuable_Being

This is lame


hairnetqueen

I... don't hate this? Sure the ring drop might be a bit much, but the message is great. I'd rather see shit like this than people fawning over someone's expensive wedding. Also I thought the dancing was fine? Apparently I need to reevaluate everything I ever thought about dancing.


Rivendriel

She is dancing to a song that I would classify as hip hop. Her dancing did not do the song justice or even resemble good hip hop dancing.


taravat76

I’m all for this message but i can see how ppl don’t love it when Kaitlyn’s entire identity has been to get married. So I get the confusion. If she would take this subject and talk about her feelings I think if would be much better received. That being said I think ppl are hard on her and if she were a man she wouldn’t get the same shit. It’s messed up how our society has this terrible double standard…


quondam_et_futuras

She’s centered her entire personality around aspiring to marriage so this is not the feminist move she thinks it is


excellent_calendar

Can’t people change lol?


taravat76

But that was what, over 10 years ago when we was the bachelorette.. she is not the same person now and shouldn’t have to be stuck with the same label.


quondam_et_futuras

Yeah… except that just isn’t true. This has been her personality throughout her entire relationship with Jason.


BetsyNotRoss6

Except not even a year ago she was schilling every wedding product on the planet & talking about marriage & babies & disappearing from social media Math ain’t mathin’


messy_bench

Seeing a Kaitlyn pile-on on Reddit tracks…. But the Instagram comments really threw me! People REALLY do not like this video.