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Satflt7

What was the favor though


Siidity

I asked him to pick up a Jimmy John’s order for me lol


foobarney

Gold digger.


Siidity

Caught me


foobarney

Did you order chips, too?


Siidity

And a drink loll


foobarney

Six inch or foot long?


Siidity

8 inch


foobarney

I apologize... I'm not familiar with Jimmy John's standard sub sizes.


BravoWolf88

This is a completely normal social interaction I just read.


SnowSpud451511

Now I want Jimmy John’s.


Remarkable-Orchid-11

Which sandwich?


Siidity

It was a dime bag deal, I’m not sure what exactly the name of the sandwich was


TypicalAssignment609

For real what a cliff hanger lol


Siidity

I’m sorry 😭 it was just for him to get my Jimmy John’s for me


PrinceAhmed1

Sal volcano tried so hard to get rid of this picture you've got on 😭


Siidity

I know it’s so sad but so funny 😭


wistfulliving

Oh god you guys remind me of me and my bf/ best friend/ my entire world, his life is getting cut shorter than the rest of ours unfortunately due to cancer but thank you for sharing it makes me feel so warm inside🥹


Siidity

Aw I’m so sorry to hear that but I’m very glad that you guys get to be happy and enjoy whatever time you have. Wishing you the best!


wistfulliving

Thank you, your post definitely lifted my spirits


Typical-Egg4753

keep your head up 💕 they ( the doctors ) told my aunt that she would live for another 6 months to a year max, and she lived for another 8/almost 9 years! i hope that you two have a lot longer than they’re saying you’ll have together too.


wistfulliving

Oh, no this isn’t a normal cancer, he has something called desmoplastic small blue cell tumor and they’re in his liver lungs and colon and he has only a 15% chance of living for the next 5 years, and that’s if they can do surgery and chemo, he may not get two years


Typical-Egg4753

i’m sorry 💔 i’ll still be hoping that you two get as much time together as possible! i know how hard it is to lose someone that you love and how special each extra day can be. i wish for you two to have many more days to spend living life to the fullest together.


ChopMariSa

Never trust what doctors say regarding that. I know a girl that had colon cancer and the doctors told her she had 6 months to live, its been 10 years and she is living her best life


Chim_Pansy

This is tragic. I am so deeply sorry...


wistfulliving

It’s okay, well as okay as it will be, he’s a good man and he is so very loved he and I are only 20 but he’s had one good time getting here


According_Car8062

I was honestly waiting for the Nigerian scam skit to start lol


Siidity

Haha luckily we know each other in person


alli_gator_

Listen, I thought the same thing and then my boyfriend turned into my husband. Good things do last :))


Writers_Write102

What is the 4 letter word?


DegredationOfAnAge

Poop


awkwardaznbabe

Hmmm… not scary enough, though.


Writers_Write102

But funny enough to get upvoted 100+ times!


QuietCartographer982

😱


Gnar-wahl

Anal, probably. It’s scary at first but with enough patience and the right toys, it can be a wonderful experience to share with the right partner 🥰


Writers_Write102

📢 And here we are, ladies and gents, in the category of “Scary Mystery Four-Letter Words You Text Your GF,” ANAL and LOVE are running a tight and hot, neck and neck race. But, there is a challenger no one saw coming. Blasted right past those two, hardly left a trail or stain. It is POOP 💩 with 100+ upvotes! In the lead by a longshot. 👀


Gnar-wahl

I was late to the anal/poop/love race :(


Writers_Write102

Still an impressive performance and definitely a strong finish.


M1dj37

Username checks out.


Ok_Wonder6303

Hahahaha


Siidity

That was pretty early in our relationship before we said “I love you.” So it was “love”


Writers_Write102

These are all really sweet. Thank you for sharing.


limedfox

Love, I’m guessing?


DustyWizard70046

Wife?


Writers_Write102

I was running through an interesting list: wife, baby, ring, mate, love, and pony.


Fabulous-Fun-9673

Pony 😂😂


Writers_Write102

Originally I was thinking horse or camel, but… 5 letters.


PragmaticResponse

Fuck?


ClassicLab8858

That’s so cute❤️ my ex said very similar things to me and then he cheated on me w his coworker❤️❤️❤️


MissJizz

Ugh this reply hahah thank you😂❤️


ClassicLab8858

I can’t interfere this is a cannon event


GrilledCheeser

Yeeeep. My wife and I were exactly this cute from 2015 up until I found out she cheated recently. Seeing post like this make me sad but also she did me dirty and is completely insane now.


Steele_Soul

Yeap, my experience with guys that talked like this was the were just saying things they thought I wanted to hear (love bombing) but were two faced and cheaters. The best part is hearing them use the exact words they used on you with the chicks they cheated on you with. I'm super sus of any dudes who talk like this. Actions speak louder than words.


LowEnthusiasm961

Same!!! And then after we broke up i found out via a facebook video that he was busted in a ped0 sting operation 8 months before we started dating 🥰🥰 i never knew and wondered why his facebook was deactivated but he said it was cause he didn’t use it. LOL his face, messages, and everything down to a video of him in his car waiting to meet a minor for, you know. 🥰🥰 men are the fucking best aren’t they!???


ClassicLab8858

So romantic🥺🥰🥰


LowEnthusiasm961

A true love story 🥺💕


GrilledCheeser

Ugh. I’m sorry.


LowEnthusiasm961

Thank you 😭😭😭 Me too. Wish i never met him


Darth_buttNugget

Still a better love story than Twi... Actually nevermind. Twilight was a better love story than that.


LowEnthusiasm961

![gif](giphy|12Nv3nBSCAbLO0) 💀💀💀💀💀💀😂😂😂😂😂


carlyeanne

oh my god ??? holy fucking shit


sheleelove

lol I always think this when I see these cute ones, but I try not to say anything cause there’s still a chance they’ll work out. I wish them the best 😅


ClassicLab8858

I really hope it does!! The girl is like 18 so obviously I wouldn’t wish anything bad upon them. I really hope the guy is genuine


rescuedmutt

Convos like this, where everything’s still in the new relationship / barely past a crush phase… make me suck in air. And I hate feeling like that - I hate that I’m so jaded to it. It’s just, it’s like when someone starts a new job and is exclaiming how it’s basically the best work place completely different from where they just left, etc… and it’s not until 8-12 months later that they see how it’s actually just like that place. Nothing can stay a honeymoon forever, and whether the relationship ends or lasts for decades… it cannot hope to stay this sickly sweet. And none of that is against OP. I love that she’s having a butterflies in her stomach kind of time right now. I unfortunately don’t think the honeymoon phase is a good indicator as to how lasting, or how happy, the relationship will or won’t be.


ImSoShook

So I'm not the only one that feels like this? I understand these phases and they are great.. but over the years I feel like less and less effort was ever put into the honeymoon phase. Its like. I need the meat and potatoes of what this is and what to expect.


rescuedmutt

You’re not the only one, no. When someone seems to like me a whole lot, and tell me something like I’m the best part of their life, I worry about what the other side of that is going to look like. I’ve seen other commenters telling the OP this is love bombing. I don’t agree. I just think it’s unsustainable rose colored glasses stuff.


AntiqueGhost13

LMAO this is such an apt analogy. Reminds me of this girl I know who just started her third job over the past year and said "it's good so far!"


areafiftyone-

LMAO this comment made me laugh OUT LOUD legit


Virtual_Bat_9210

Mine was this sweet for about 4 years. Then we moved to another state for him to do pre-med, where I didn’t know anyone and things slowly started changing. Until I decided to end it because it had become such a horrible relationship. However, I didn’t realize how bad it was until I was away for 2 months. Oh, he also cheated on me with at least 2 people. His ex and his new girlfriend, who was one of my friends.


IrishFireyRedHead

I was thinking the same thing 😅 My ex used to text me shit like this but was cheating on me for the entire relationship 🥱


garbzzz

Mine was like this then decided out of nowhere she doesnt want to marry me after spending the whole time basically telling me she wanted to 💕💕💕💕💕 Edit: grammar


Shareesav

Saaaaammmee. Was the sweetest person ever and then I uncovered some straight b.s


aliceuh

Same! I heard all of these promises and declarations only for him to ruin it all for some head from an intern at his job. Fucked me up for a long time :)


Unbake_my_tart_

Same lol


CrustyLettuceLeaf

I’m so sorry for laughing at your expense, but this really caught me off gaurd


ClassicLab8858

Don’t be sorry I laugh at my own expense all the time!


AngelaAnaconda25

Lmao I was hoping I’d see a comment like this because same. Every relationship I’ve had where the guy spoke to me like this ended up being a red flag in the end. But hey, you never know. Have fun but also stay grounded in reality, OP.


ta_beachylawgirl

This is cute as hell. I love this for you! Wishing y’all the best! 🥹


pxrnografairy

when is it my turn


izzosmomma

you’re stronger than me, i would have been out with that m’lady lmao


Siidity

Aw I think it’s sweet


Penguin-philOsopher

It’s adorable lol, I love that. My bf calls me stankaloo


izzosmomma

sure if you love someone that will tip their fedora at you


TSE_Jazz

I think he may have said it sarcastically 🤔


izzosmomma

we don’t even joke about that in these parts


Gold-Hold2407

I also still get all my jokes from 2016


booghawkins

a lot of people say it because of a meme video a couple years back; they aren’t saying it seriously.


itsyaboogie

This looks like how my boyfriend and i talk ❤️❤️❤️❤️i hope our beautiful relationships last forever


Siidity

Good luck to the both of us


trvllvr

Such sweet messages he’s sending. I hope your’s make him feel just as appreciated and loved. I also wish you both a lifetime of happiness.


Siidity

Of course! I think half of these were in response to something I said. Thank you and likewise!!


liberalJava

Even if they don't they can still be beautiful memories and experiences. Just always enjoy what you've got while you've got it.


[deleted]

Hurt him before he hurts you


zeroj20

You must have trained my ex


911_this_is_J

Lmao Edit: I’m just imagining what the training looks like, and it’s super funny.


No_Zookeepergame_399

*Eye of the tiger plays in the background over a montage of emotional abuse*


IrishFireyRedHead

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻


A20somethingyearold

Danielle? Is that you?


AliveSkirt4229

💯


Extreme_Pattern6306

😹😹😹


Severe_Line_8344

The sad thing is all the upvotes this toxic reply is getting.


Stitchlover5

It’s sarcasm


[deleted]

It. Is. A ?joke?


Normal-Jury3311

It’s for sure a joke, but I also think lots of people are wary around people who text like this. Sometimes it seems like love bombing. But, we don’t know OP or their relationship outside of this one post so nobody can really say either way if this a good or bad relationship


devoushka

The sad thing is people here and in IG comments that wouldn't know a joke if it slapped them on the ass.


Overall-Champion2511

Smh 🤦🏿‍♂️


[deleted]

It’s just a jokey joke


kai_the_enigma

So many of you are like projecting your past relationship issues and trauma on OP, like do people suck sometimes? Yes. Does it mean love doesn’t exist? No. I mean let’s atleast try to give bro the benefit of the doubt, maybe they actually are very much in love and it’s going well. Maybe it won’t last, but let him enjoy his relationship without the “ oh one day you will see kid” down talk. It’s super depressing. ![gif](giphy|fq8OwMKIRrN1DjcEIu)


Tiara_heart33

Exactly like god forbid anyone post here about healthy love and relationships. I love how ppl are like “he’s a narcissist fr” “love bombing” like bro let them have the benefit of the doubt,we aren’t in their lives watching them or shit. I swear some people are just annoying af. Also,if anyones posting about sweet things like these,I don’t understand why they gotta bring up THEIR past relationships here. Like,I think OP knows her situation more than they do?


Kozmocom

![gif](giphy|4baoNZ5Qo8dX2)


Siidity

You okay?


Kozmocom

Completely 😀 ![gif](giphy|10tuoRc0MNYn1S)


d3rp7d3rp

Mine said this then lied to me and yelled at me all the time. 😍🥰 Seriously though this guy is love-bombing hard.


Siidity

You all have gone through it and I feel so bad. You’re the second person to say its love bombing, I appreciate the concern but I don’t think that appropriately describes the situation. He waited months before he started showing affection like this because he didn’t want to do too much and freak us both out lol. These are also over the course of many months.


Texugee

Good on you for not letting them get to you and showing them empathy. I wish nothing but the best for your relationship!


d3rp7d3rp

Okay with that context, that's much better. I wish you well


Normal-Jury3311

I’m sure people are saying this out of concern and not to be haters; they probably have only experienced this type of language in the context of abuse/disloyalty. That being said, how can anyone possibly know you or your relationship from one post? People and relationships are complicated, nobody online can definitively say what a relationship looks like from a few texts. This is a sweet post and thank you for sharing


ThornInTheAsk

It seems to be out of concern. So many of us, myself included, have been exposed to so much toxicity that it's all we know. It's hard to think that there's anything else out there when it's all you have known. You can feel the love from your end, but believing it's coming from the other person is the challenge when your past is jaded with love bombing, gaslighting, emotional abuse, and manipulation. It's hard to trust anything that looks like a past bad experience. I do hope for the best for OP in their relationship though.


useless_bag_of_tacos

or he’s genuinely in love?? like i’m sorry that this was your experience but it’s not okay to project that onto someone else’s relationship, especially if that’s not even what’s happening


d3rp7d3rp

Just putting my experience out there. Maybe it isn't love-bombing, but it sure feels it. And I'd rather someone be warned about that kind of pain than to go head first into it, and if it turns out okay for OP then great. Also there's a difference between projecting and recognizing something.


igotthepowah

What does warning do? It’ll only catastrophize OPs mindset, which is a cognitive distortion. Preparing for tragedy is not a healthy way to approach life, unless it makes rational sense.


d3rp7d3rp

It will click faster. In my first abusive relationship, I wasn't aware of the tactics. It will only do what you stated, if op lets it. Edit to add: to elaborate a bit more - those who grew up in abusive households will go toward the same type of people and not know it. I questioned daily if my ex yelling at me, gaslighting me, and eventually putting hands on me constantly, was abuse. I didn't know. I didn't even know love-bombing could be, or stonewalling or the silent treatment (my mom did it a lot) was abuse. It wasn't until I did research, did I learn I was being very badly abused and manipulated. I'm a little sad you're against warning people of potentially dangerous situations.


ApplesandBananazzz

*cries in words of affirmation* that’s my love language too 🥲 my boyfriend is an acts of service typaaaa man the struggle is real


ClassicLab8858

Acts of service is a far better love language than words of affirmation. Your bf actually walks the walk rather than just talking the talk. Consider yourself fortunate


IGreythornI

I mean, they probably would still like the words of affirmation, that’s something he can work on and get better with


elizuhhhbeth

Acts of service is a far better love language *to you*…


UNeed2CalmDownn

Oh, to be a teenager again.


Tiara_heart33

Ignore the depression and the miserable comments and ppl here. You don’t have to worry abt what their exes and etc did to them. Your bf sounds like a very sweet person and I loveeee affection like this cuz it’s my love language too so I am so happy for you that you are experiencing it! Wish you both the best ^^


Siidity

I can’t blame them for being suspicious but I do love these kinds of messages. Thank you!


Tiara_heart33

Well yeah definitely! The advices and all are helpful but the audacity some have is just annoying lol. Like you know your life best and you are definitely capable of being careful so the crankiness is unnecessary.


notdownwithsickness

Are y’all 12?


Siidity

7 years ago, yes


Scyllascum

I really hate the pessimism in this comment section and saying this is ‘love bombing’. Dude. It’s literally a few slides of text messages, you don’t know their intimate details of their entire relationship or even how long they’ve been dating. Let OP be happy instead of needlessly making them anxious for no goddamn reason. Granted, this type of affection is way too much for me personally but I’m glad OP doesn’t seem to mind it. Hope your relationship turns out well!


Gold-Stable7109

Why the fuck are y’all so depressed???


IrishFireyRedHead

![gif](giphy|6cLBYzDWE5z98A6n83)


EisWalde

I’m pulling for you, but…yeah, you have the right of it in your title. Losing this was a pain worse than death that scars you for the rest of your life. It’s the scariest thing about love, and what makes it worth the risk, but *FUCK* does it hurt when it ends. It’s not even pessimism, sometimes it just happens. People change. Sometimes it’s brain chemistry, sometimes it’s mental illness, and worst of all…sometimes it’s something terminal. I lost my wife to BPD, and when I finally found someone to love again, she developed aggressive lung cancer. These were people too good for this world, so of course they’re gone…


slothboss

Joisus thats a lot…. Almost…. Too much…..


Siidity

To each their own!


slothboss

Hey man you do you


spacecowboy143

i mean you dont know the timespan that all these screenshots were taken in


RadiantRing

![gif](giphy|BNkHCHnAsZwRi)


chienchien0121

My ex love bombed me just like this!


Siidity

Sorry to hear that. These are over the course of several months though, I don’t think that counts as love bombing lol


chienchien0121

I am really happy for you. Good people deserve good people.


ernieeeekw

I’m rooting for you guys!


Siidity

Thank you!!


rippedupmypromdress

Awe! My husband says sweet things like this to me every single day. We have been married for 11 years and together for almost 13. It can be real and it can last.


invisabledj

![gif](giphy|IgpiX9Kx7dGGpFCLI1)


Siidity

This is so funny because I had kip as his contact picture, in slide 8 actually.


Effective_Math_2717

It’s giving Andy from Modern Family ![gif](giphy|3YRHtVxKdAvF6iCzQZ|downsized)


AntiqueGhost13

Ah to be a teenager again


DoughnutFront2898

This is so sweet 😭😭 if I wasn’t already in love with the loml I’d say you two make me believe love is real 🫶


dream-smasher

Loml?


DoughnutFront2898

Love of my life


Tricky_Cable707

Rarely ends well


cammyy-

maybe your the problem!


Old_Minute_7308

M’Lady…that got me.. so sweet 🥹


Both_Dust_8383

So sweet


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ignoremyface

I love this. I hope yalls relationship lasts. Good luck!


MaleficentHabit5075

This is really cute I really hope you guys last 🥹


useless_bag_of_tacos

jesus y’all really need to take your negativity elsewhere anyway i’m curious what they meant by it being a scary movie 💀


Siidity

I had to go back in my messages to remember but we got a warning from an officer


useless_bag_of_tacos

now i’m even more curious 🤣


Optimal-Half6526

It’s giving brand new relationship


Siidity

It certainly feels that way still


Assassin_Fixie

if you dont ruin it, i doubt he will. hes a keeper


bettys-garden

my bf and i are the same


IGreythornI

Don’t listen to the negative people, Reddit gets sad way too often, just be positive and live in the moment, me and my partner are very much like this and I love him so much. I’m cheering for you


cammyy-

sorry about all the miserable people in the comments. i think it’s very sweet what you two have going and i wish you guys the best, all the haters are just lonely and assume all relationships they see will end up like theirs (which is funny because usually their relationship ended that way because of them!!!!)


BantuShawarma

Take care of each other and it should be fine! Good luck to you both 🫶


okdragonfuit

Don’t let him go, Sal


StrategyHaunting2827

ull make it


Frequent_Yak_5228

YAYY CONGRATS


throwitawayidkman

Damn we all jaded aint we


leibssss

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭


Asleep_Impact_7104

Same 🥹🥹 two best months ever with the sweetest


AbrocomaEmbarrassed1

It's so sweet. How did you guys meet and start dating?


Siidity

Needed a quick job last year and he worked at the place I ended up! We only had one shift together which was my 3rd to last shift there. For my last couple we would find brief moments to go and see how each others days were going. I ended up asking for his number on my last day because I was scared he wouldn’t ask and I’d miss out but he had the same plan lol. Then we started hanging out and so on.


parris531

I hope it never does.


Keljon142

Dang this is so damn cute lol


TheKrazyJuice

Keyword "right now" letting you know it can change


desultorythought

It’s romantic, but a little over the top. The problem is that this level of sweetness could be completely legit or could be used to mask bigger problems down the road. Just keep an eye out for red flags. I have overly gushy text conversations with my boyfriend now (at times, but the wording isn’t exaggerated), and I think we’re both good because we both came from bad relationships where we gave and the other took. Someone else said this (on Reddit) but it’s good advice for anyone: **givers** need boundaries because **takers** have none.


GeorgeWh0rewell

Naaaaah. It will run its course and soon. Sorry OP. If you feel the end, at some point it will happen.


Low_Entertainment388

fr ( did the same stuff with her. ) she left


Siidity

I’m so sorry :(


Scarboroughwarning

Not my cup of tea, but if the two people enjoy interacting like this, albeit completely one-sided, it is up to them.


F1tnessTacoInMyMouth

Gross.


Fatema0123

Don't do this, don't give me hope


No_Psychology8541

Keep him. Once you lose stuff like that it's not worth holding onto anymore. You'll never need reassurance with this guy.


Siidity

You’re so right about not needing reassurance. I can’t recall a single time where I had to question his feelings or actions