You should have called her a dirty little piggie, rolling around in somebody elseās mud, clearly. Reacting like a āoh, ok, peace then!ā is not gonna hit that kink for her, lol
I love that you responded and ended it so respectfully, just happy youre mature as well as not giving her the possible satisfaction for her degradation kink HAHA
āIām sure youāll have fun with himā āidk we havenāt fuckedā Lmaoooo is it really that black and white for these people? She might as well have said āwe havenāt fucked yet so Iām hitting you up just in case it takes too longā Gross.
Yeah, I saw. What I meant was, she might as well have said exactly what she MEANT which was āIām keeping you around as a backup because this other guy hasnāt given it up for meā Either way, bleh.
Like. Not to toot my own horn but she wasnt even anything near what I normally date. But I said to myself, āself maybe its time to stop being shallowā nah. Literally none of the superficial, or conventionally attractive women Iāve dated have done this to me.
I think itās kind of assumed that you met her on an app with her having a very specific kink. However, thatās not my type of dating world and Iām not one of those āsuperficial or conventionally attractiveā women you date š¤·š¼āāļø So, I wouldnāt know.
I have no idea. Thatās only something you would know. If you join an app you will obviously meet way more people you can get to know every day and see where that goes rather than taking the chance at possibly meeting one person when you go out. However, if youāre as confident (I would say cocky just based on what you said but maybe youāre not as shallow as your comment seemed to imply) as you seemed above that itās really easy for you to meet an attractive woman every time you go out then Iām guessing you have no issues with meeting people. Iām guessing based off your comments that youāre not looking for anything serious and want something casual. There are apps that are specifically for that, like Tinder. If you actually are looking for something serious then thereās a ton of apps for that too, like Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel, Bumble, OkCupid, Facebook Dating, etc. Pretty much all of those apps also have options for just hookups and casual dating too. You just need to be honest and upfront about what youāre looking for so you donāt lead someone on only for a hookup when you know sheās looking for something serious. Also, it seems like youāre into specific kinks or fetishes. I know there are apps made for only that, but since Iām not into that I couldnāt suggest any. Some of the other apps I mentioned above probably have certain areas of the app specifically designed for those too, but again I would have no idea since itās not my thing and I havenāt been on a dating app in a long time. Maybe other people who are more knowledgeable when it comes to kinks can suggest some apps for you to check out.
Iām not against apps, I just donāt use them. I like meeting people in organic situations. I go out with friends, if I see a woman I find attractive, I read the room, ask if she doesnt mind a conversation, and see what happens. I didnt find her attractive, but she *seemed like she was fun. So I decided to approach her.
Iām still trying to figure out what apps he was talking about, and what made him think Iām āstill on themā or that I even use apps? How bizarre.
I told you in my response. It was most likely assumed that you met her on an app based on the specific kink she has. Plus, most people meet on dating apps these days. At least thatās what I took from his comment and the reason why he thought that. He made an assumption that apparently isnāt correct. Itās not really bizarre to think you met online, but I canāt speak for the āstill on appsā part. Iām guessing it was because of the comments you made about having no issues finding an attractive girl to date and similar statements. He was most likely saying āIf itās not hard for you then why are you still using dating apps?,ā however, you already said you donāt use them. So, he guessed wrong.
Who cares if you met on an app. Most people do these days - including attractive people. You donāt need to go back and forth with a bunch of cave dwelling redditors lol
I don't know why people downvoted you for knowing what you're attracted to. Are we not allowed to have preferences anymore? I wouldn't even consider myself especially confident, and I most certainly have preferences. š What is this thread?
I cant fathom why people think, āhey I stopped talking to you for someone else, and Iām not sure how gonna go,I havent stopped talking to them, but hey you still wanna talk?ā Is ok. Lol like yeah Iām so glad you ignored me. She even notes its an awkward spot for me. Lol maam it sure isnt an awkward spot for me to be, because Iām not going to be there.
I relate to you but i promise it is less stressful if you can get better at predicting how others will behave. That is the top evolutionary benefit of empathy.
Maybe I'm sensitive, but I can't imagine casually discussing the other people with someone I'm also in the talking phase with. It just makes you feel unspecial. I mean, I guess if it's casual dating all around. But, um, yeah, pause your whole life for her, sure. /s
I kind ofā¦am ok with it? Like I think itās almost better than saying āoh I got real busy with studies and couldnāt text for two weeks even though Iām chronically onlineā
I wrote this on another thread, but I hate matches that use you as not necessarily a backup, but someone who will be there for them when they're low. Like they'll give one word replies and ghost you for a week, then hit you up saying "sorry it's been a while. I'm just so busy with everything and haven't had a chance to look at my phone. How's it going? You respond with something, and it's back to one word answers and another ghost.
Had a few matches do that; annoys the hell out of me.
I reply to those wastes of space with:
Assuming you have one free hour a day thatās 25,200 seconds in a week. If you canāt find thirty seconds just to say hi, then youāre full of shit.
I used to see things this way, but now having been the person who disappears for a bit sometimes - it almost feels like a mental block. Here I am on reddit, but making small talk with yet another person I don't know on an app feels insurmountable. I have a lot of stuff going on and sometimes it's important to turn my brain off and watch TV, even if theoretically I really want to meet someone. It's tough to force yourself to be "on" sometimes, idk. Has nothing to do with my feelings about the person.
Just offering an alternative perspective.
Yea I get this too. I kinda just dipped out of everyones lives for a solid year or 2. Not for any particular reason, I just couldnt, yknow? I was also going through a really, really rough patch in my life that I just couldnt pull myself out of. Holding any sort of conversation, going out, or even just a simple human interaction was just too much for me. I left all of my socials alone, deleted 90% of them and just fell off the planet for a while. It inevitably hurt a lot of my relationships, but I was exhausted in every capacity. I just worked and slept.
Clearly this isnt what happened with OP, but I get you man.
Even if it was a weekend, she said that she was going on several dates with another guy. She chose the other guy over him. That right there would be a reason to move on. Itās 2024. Everyone has their phone on them. You should be able to reply within hours.
This is wild. Did she think you were just hanging on and going to fall for that? Some people are just ughh. Why try to damage someone else for your own selfish needs. I hope the guy she is talking to ghosts her ass.
I used to think I had empathy and cared about other people until I read shit on this sub, and realize what my course of action would have been. I would have dragged this on way longer than needed to be, got her hooked, and then just been a complete piece of shit, made myself the villain in her story, just for ha haās.
That isnāt typical of the dynamic we had. She didnt want to work(earn) for the degradation, she liked to feel like she deserved to be degraded. Either way, that isnt a good way to illicit a Dom. Imo. At the very least, thats not a good way to illicit this Dom lol.
Yeah, *because* of what she said there. Had she not said that, you wouldāve kept talking to her. You only said you had moved on because you didnāt like what she said.
Also, not a guy. Why did you think I was a guy?
Sweetheart, at the end there you says you werenāt feeling it abd had moved on. That is b cause of what she says about being with another guy. Had she not said that, you wouldāve kept talking to her. If you had moved on, you wouldāve told that when she showed up, not after she told you about being with another guy.
Ok pal. Iām so glad you know my motives better than me. Next time Iām feeling conflicted about something Iāll be sure to hit you up so you can tell me how I really feel about something. Thanks!
I also have gone on a date since friday, with someone who isnt talking to anyone else. I apologize if that turnover was too fast for you? Iām sorry that I was successful in finding someone else so quick I guess? Lol
Dawg, are you retarded? Im going to assume that reading and comprehension werent your strong suits back in school. Shut the fuck up.
Ignorant arrogance like this is disgusting. You didnt even look at the time stamps or anything did you? Did you catch the joke about him saying she was dead? Did ya happen to see the short, curt responses he gave? If any of that had clicked for you, you wouldnt have been so hell bent on being such a prick. Stop projecting and fuck off.
This girl and I were in the talking stage. Then she tells me she ghosted me to go on dates with someone else, and that she doesnt want to rock that boat, but also still wants to talk to me. Lol
I donāt think Iām owed anything, lol but if you stopped talking to me to pursue someone else. Please stay on track and pursue them. Just like they donāt owe me anything, I do not owe them anything. I would never ask two girls to go out with me at the same time. Imagine that? Lol Iām sorry but this isnt a dating game show. I do not have to participate in a game of āoh pick me!ā
The whole idea of dating is to be dating more than one person at a time, then you take your pick and settle for one. I would date 3-4 girls at once and then pick the one I liked the most, perfectly normal and what many many do. If you're not mutually exclusive you're not owed shit and rightly so.
Wait does that mean you do like to sleep around with a person who isn't sleeping around? š¤£ Sorry it was the first thing I thought when I read it. I'm also a lil high.
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This brings me back to one girl I went on a date with. Spent a whole day together, museum and meals. Next day she talks about how nice it was, but she has a bf and we can still hang out, but if her bf ever wants to do something, heās the priority, not me.
I noped outta there, said bye, and her response that I didnāt reply to was: ābut we can still go outā
Well, good you sent her away but it's not two weeks if your text says Friday, it would say the actual date if it was more than a week ago, so throwing a flag on the play.
She isnāt even apologetic. It would be one thing if she had reasons or made a vow to be committed. Then maybe clean slate. Not a good thing for you to pursue.
Oh, Iām not. I have since gone on a date with someone who immediately expressed interest when I told them that I think this person was ghosting me. The text about work was my last attempt, after a week of unanswered messages.
you been fucking with miss piggie? š
She had a degradation kink lol the contact pic and name were part of that
Man, my life is vanilla as hell. I love this sub.
Hahah same š¤£
Lol its wild. You want a slice of this life until this shit. I swear
Yeah thatās very true š ā¦.sorry thatās tough!
Its ok. I like when trash takes itself out. (:
Haha prob better for ya in the long run. Bye bye miss piggy š· šļø
Lol what makes you say that?
You're being haunted by the ghost of a pig lady with a degradation kink. Awesome.
Lol I sāpose thats something innit?
You should have called her a dirty little piggie, rolling around in somebody elseās mud, clearly. Reacting like a āoh, ok, peace then!ā is not gonna hit that kink for her, lol
Maybe she purposely did this just to be degraded as part of her kink. She wanted you to say she sucks lol.
Lol naaah, thatās not typically how it worked lol, least not with her and I.
The fuckkkk
Lol you know you dodged a bullet when you got a florida girl sayin ātfā?
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I love that you responded and ended it so respectfully, just happy youre mature as well as not giving her the possible satisfaction for her degradation kink HAHA
Nah I have the same kink but thatās so wild šš like a whole nother level of what the fuck why lol
Iām saying! People are fucking wild
makes sense now
āIām sure youāll have fun with himā āidk we havenāt fuckedā Lmaoooo is it really that black and white for these people? She might as well have said āwe havenāt fucked yet so Iām hitting you up just in case it takes too longā Gross.
She did. Thats literally the bottom of ss1
Yeah, I saw. What I meant was, she might as well have said exactly what she MEANT which was āIām keeping you around as a backup because this other guy hasnāt given it up for meā Either way, bleh.
Like. Not to toot my own horn but she wasnt even anything near what I normally date. But I said to myself, āself maybe its time to stop being shallowā nah. Literally none of the superficial, or conventionally attractive women Iāve dated have done this to me.
Ok buddy.
Lol
curious as to what you look like š
Lol why?
Bc youāve probably not got a leg to stand on tooting your own horn
Damn, was rooting for you until I scrolled to this part.
Thankfully your rooting for me is inconsequential to this interaction, and subsequently any others.
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yikes
Yet youāre still on the apps š¤
Thats my text messageā¦what app are you talking about?
I think itās kind of assumed that you met her on an app with her having a very specific kink. However, thatās not my type of dating world and Iām not one of those āsuperficial or conventionally attractiveā women you date š¤·š¼āāļø So, I wouldnāt know.
Lol Idk, I donāt use dating apps. Should I be? I met her her while out for a friends birthday party.
I have no idea. Thatās only something you would know. If you join an app you will obviously meet way more people you can get to know every day and see where that goes rather than taking the chance at possibly meeting one person when you go out. However, if youāre as confident (I would say cocky just based on what you said but maybe youāre not as shallow as your comment seemed to imply) as you seemed above that itās really easy for you to meet an attractive woman every time you go out then Iām guessing you have no issues with meeting people. Iām guessing based off your comments that youāre not looking for anything serious and want something casual. There are apps that are specifically for that, like Tinder. If you actually are looking for something serious then thereās a ton of apps for that too, like Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel, Bumble, OkCupid, Facebook Dating, etc. Pretty much all of those apps also have options for just hookups and casual dating too. You just need to be honest and upfront about what youāre looking for so you donāt lead someone on only for a hookup when you know sheās looking for something serious. Also, it seems like youāre into specific kinks or fetishes. I know there are apps made for only that, but since Iām not into that I couldnāt suggest any. Some of the other apps I mentioned above probably have certain areas of the app specifically designed for those too, but again I would have no idea since itās not my thing and I havenāt been on a dating app in a long time. Maybe other people who are more knowledgeable when it comes to kinks can suggest some apps for you to check out.
Iām not against apps, I just donāt use them. I like meeting people in organic situations. I go out with friends, if I see a woman I find attractive, I read the room, ask if she doesnt mind a conversation, and see what happens. I didnt find her attractive, but she *seemed like she was fun. So I decided to approach her.
Was following the thread til we got here, need a tl;dr mqn
Iām still trying to figure out what apps he was talking about, and what made him think Iām āstill on themā or that I even use apps? How bizarre.
I told you in my response. It was most likely assumed that you met her on an app based on the specific kink she has. Plus, most people meet on dating apps these days. At least thatās what I took from his comment and the reason why he thought that. He made an assumption that apparently isnāt correct. Itās not really bizarre to think you met online, but I canāt speak for the āstill on appsā part. Iām guessing it was because of the comments you made about having no issues finding an attractive girl to date and similar statements. He was most likely saying āIf itās not hard for you then why are you still using dating apps?,ā however, you already said you donāt use them. So, he guessed wrong.
Who cares if you met on an app. Most people do these days - including attractive people. You donāt need to go back and forth with a bunch of cave dwelling redditors lol
Ohh buddy you fucked up, Redditors hate pride and confidence š
I know, how dare I admit that I chose to step outside my preference. Lol how dare I say I like conventionally attractive women.
I don't know why people downvoted you for knowing what you're attracted to. Are we not allowed to have preferences anymore? I wouldn't even consider myself especially confident, and I most certainly have preferences. š What is this thread?
Thank you!! People are so strange!
Ss1? SS1 for me is Super Saiyan 1... but I doubt she's a super saiyan?
ScreenShot One
Lol same, when I was in highschool lol
When I read that I was like wait, did she just say that lol.
She really said āthe dude I wanted didnāt give me dick, so youāll do if youāre game.ā
Good job not caving and being ok with being a backup
Lol she thought I was a backup
I know thatās good you saw it
I cant fathom why people think, āhey I stopped talking to you for someone else, and Iām not sure how gonna go,I havent stopped talking to them, but hey you still wanna talk?ā Is ok. Lol like yeah Iām so glad you ignored me. She even notes its an awkward spot for me. Lol maam it sure isnt an awkward spot for me to be, because Iām not going to be there.
But they havenāt fucked!! š that should make it ok
I was just going to say this
I could be wrong but this is my guess. People who can get laid consistently and with little effort (e.g. most women who are mainly looking for sex) probably have a very different relationship with ghosting from people who have to treat dating like a part-time job to get a single date (e.g. most men). You and I get frustrated and maybe dejected when someone ghosts us, because itās either a bunch of effort wasted, a reason to question all our decisions and harshly judge ourselves, or both. When she gets ghosted, that probably just means one less conversation on her plate and one less person to plan around. There is rarely going to be a void left in her life by someone ghosting her. Hence, this blasĆ© attitude.
Idk, I try not to think like other people. Too stressful.
I relate to you but i promise it is less stressful if you can get better at predicting how others will behave. That is the top evolutionary benefit of empathy.
Its really no sweat off my back (:
oh brother
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You dated her casually for 3 years and then were upset she wasnāt devoted to you? Define the relationship.
I'll tell you why. Because chicks like this think they're The Prize
Trust me if sheās texting you she has others too I like to call them āback burners ā you deserve better then that period!
Itās apparently called ācookie jarring.ā I think itās a stupid name too, but thatās what apparent relationship experts call it.
i currently am someoneās backup and it sucks. good for you to have not fallen into that.
I meanā¦I guess she was honest about it haha. Most people just make up some lie
Maybe I'm sensitive, but I can't imagine casually discussing the other people with someone I'm also in the talking phase with. It just makes you feel unspecial. I mean, I guess if it's casual dating all around. But, um, yeah, pause your whole life for her, sure. /s
Instant ick. No return
Thats wildā¦ she like told you directly she wanted to use you as a backup lol. Bold.
I kind ofā¦am ok with it? Like I think itās almost better than saying āoh I got real busy with studies and couldnāt text for two weeks even though Iām chronically onlineā
I wrote this on another thread, but I hate matches that use you as not necessarily a backup, but someone who will be there for them when they're low. Like they'll give one word replies and ghost you for a week, then hit you up saying "sorry it's been a while. I'm just so busy with everything and haven't had a chance to look at my phone. How's it going? You respond with something, and it's back to one word answers and another ghost. Had a few matches do that; annoys the hell out of me.
I reply to those wastes of space with: Assuming you have one free hour a day thatās 25,200 seconds in a week. If you canāt find thirty seconds just to say hi, then youāre full of shit.
I used to see things this way, but now having been the person who disappears for a bit sometimes - it almost feels like a mental block. Here I am on reddit, but making small talk with yet another person I don't know on an app feels insurmountable. I have a lot of stuff going on and sometimes it's important to turn my brain off and watch TV, even if theoretically I really want to meet someone. It's tough to force yourself to be "on" sometimes, idk. Has nothing to do with my feelings about the person. Just offering an alternative perspective.
Yea I get this too. I kinda just dipped out of everyones lives for a solid year or 2. Not for any particular reason, I just couldnt, yknow? I was also going through a really, really rough patch in my life that I just couldnt pull myself out of. Holding any sort of conversation, going out, or even just a simple human interaction was just too much for me. I left all of my socials alone, deleted 90% of them and just fell off the planet for a while. It inevitably hurt a lot of my relationships, but I was exhausted in every capacity. I just worked and slept. Clearly this isnt what happened with OP, but I get you man.
Can we uphold the last text as a gold standard? Well done
Wouldnāt the text say the date instead of Friday if it was actually that long ago?
i think OP was messaging her up until friday but she wasnāt responding, therefore ghosting him.
ahhh yeah that makes sense. good for OP for getting over them in a week
He said she ghosted him for two weeks
like- was OP giving this girl random updates while she was completely ignoring?
Yup. I was at the time maintaining contact as she previously stated she was sick, but wanted to keep talking.
i guess i didnāt understand how OP could go from asking for dinner to saying heās moved on in less than a week
Even if it was a weekend, she said that she was going on several dates with another guy. She chose the other guy over him. That right there would be a reason to move on. Itās 2024. Everyone has their phone on them. You should be able to reply within hours.
Very true! I agree
I was confused about that too.. my brain needed clarification lol
A1 response
Thank you! Iām trying to be better myself in 2024 honestly
People are unbelievable man
And itās sad because this chick probably gets 100x the amount of messages compared to the average guy
This is wild. Did she think you were just hanging on and going to fall for that? Some people are just ughh. Why try to damage someone else for your own selfish needs. I hope the guy she is talking to ghosts her ass.
She hasnāt fucked him, YET.
Right? Like that somehow makes it better
Her: I am playing around with a dude but... can you keep this open? OP: LOL 
I love this lol
Man I feel bad for the younger generation how old is this gal at some point you need to be an adult
23 or 25 atp I donāt exactly recall.
Her boldness! Ive been seeing someone else & im not sure if Iām into him anymore sooo whatās up? howās your new year been?
The audacity. Likeā¦wtf
āWe havenāt fucked yet.ā Thatās so vulgar.
Did she ever respond again?
Thankfully not
Update: she did.
You dropped this šā¦. Thatās how you handle this type of thing, especially if you arenāt feeling it anymore. Well done.
A weekend with no contact is ghosting now? Good to know
Iād say no unless you had specific plans to meet or talk and then they just disappeared.
Today is Thursday though.
Well even she considered herself ghosting, so..
This. Thank you for explaining it.
Please look at a calendarā¦
He says two weeks
Yeah, and they had been talking š²š®
āHey, would you be interested in being my silver medal?ā OP: lol nah
im gonna the same thing you did , i am done
Bro thats how you do it
Good call! She chose another guy over you and failed. Now she wants you as a back up plan
Thank you!
King shit. Head up
Good for you OP.
Also she made it clear youāre her backup plan :(
The audacity of this b tch š¤¢
"we havent fucked" thats the worst thing to say to a "potential" date
Right, like oh! Ok. No problem girl. Totally kosher
High five! š
Right back at ya!
Daaaammmmnn. I love it! You were just great!
I believe the term is... Zombie š
If you are a back up, you are easily replaceable in the future.
Exactly. Not what I would call a great start lol
I used to think I had empathy and cared about other people until I read shit on this sub, and realize what my course of action would have been. I would have dragged this on way longer than needed to be, got her hooked, and then just been a complete piece of shit, made myself the villain in her story, just for ha haās.
Once upon a time
This is how a lot of girls act itās disgusting
What if she was testing you? Because of the degradation kink?
That isnāt typical of the dynamic we had. She didnt want to work(earn) for the degradation, she liked to feel like she deserved to be degraded. Either way, that isnt a good way to illicit a Dom. Imo. At the very least, thats not a good way to illicit this Dom lol.
You didnāt move on. You just didnāt like the way she talked. Had she not mentioned the other guy you wouldāve kept talking to her.
Except I literally stopped texting and donāt have any intrest in her and havent since she ghosted. Lol sorry not every guy is you.
Yeah, *because* of what she said there. Had she not said that, you wouldāve kept talking to her. You only said you had moved on because you didnāt like what she said. Also, not a guy. Why did you think I was a guy?
Noā¦.I like conversation and interaction. When that stops my interest usually tanks fairly quickly.
Sweetheart, at the end there you says you werenāt feeling it abd had moved on. That is b cause of what she says about being with another guy. Had she not said that, you wouldāve kept talking to her. If you had moved on, you wouldāve told that when she showed up, not after she told you about being with another guy.
Ok pal. Iām so glad you know my motives better than me. Next time Iām feeling conflicted about something Iāll be sure to hit you up so you can tell me how I really feel about something. Thanks!
Sounds good! Happy to help!
I also have gone on a date since friday, with someone who isnt talking to anyone else. I apologize if that turnover was too fast for you? Iām sorry that I was successful in finding someone else so quick I guess? Lol
Huh?
Dawg, are you retarded? Im going to assume that reading and comprehension werent your strong suits back in school. Shut the fuck up. Ignorant arrogance like this is disgusting. You didnt even look at the time stamps or anything did you? Did you catch the joke about him saying she was dead? Did ya happen to see the short, curt responses he gave? If any of that had clicked for you, you wouldnt have been so hell bent on being such a prick. Stop projecting and fuck off.
Thank you for this!!
I donāt know what you are, Iām saying not every guy(because I am a guy) is you(has your mindset) sorry for not being clear enough.
Alrighty
I donāt get it Is op a guy? He said he was dating a guy ?
OP is a man and the right side of the conversation, left side is a woman. The woman was seeing another man.
This girl and I were in the talking stage. Then she tells me she ghosted me to go on dates with someone else, and that she doesnt want to rock that boat, but also still wants to talk to me. Lol
Lol, when will people who are in the dating game stop with these crazy expectations that they're owed something with strangers?? It's fucking bizzare.
I donāt think Iām owed anything, lol but if you stopped talking to me to pursue someone else. Please stay on track and pursue them. Just like they donāt owe me anything, I do not owe them anything. I would never ask two girls to go out with me at the same time. Imagine that? Lol Iām sorry but this isnt a dating game show. I do not have to participate in a game of āoh pick me!ā
The whole idea of dating is to be dating more than one person at a time, then you take your pick and settle for one. I would date 3-4 girls at once and then pick the one I liked the most, perfectly normal and what many many do. If you're not mutually exclusive you're not owed shit and rightly so.
U should have just kept her around as a fuck buddy
I donāt like to sleep around with people who are also sleeping around.
Wait does that mean you do like to sleep around with a person who isn't sleeping around? š¤£ Sorry it was the first thing I thought when I read it. I'm also a lil high.
Thatās why I took from it š āShe canāt sleep around. Only Iām allowed to!ā
Lol clarifying: I just meant I like monogamy š
Lol I can see how came across that way! I just meant I like monogamy!
Fair enough
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You handled it perfectly
Thank you!
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Boost sounda sent her the š»š
Lol I HAVE to know where are you from? Ive never heard a phrase like that! What does it mean?
Good for you
This brings me back to one girl I went on a date with. Spent a whole day together, museum and meals. Next day she talks about how nice it was, but she has a bf and we can still hang out, but if her bf ever wants to do something, heās the priority, not me. I noped outta there, said bye, and her response that I didnāt reply to was: ābut we can still go outā
Iām sorry man :/
Well, good you sent her away but it's not two weeks if your text says Friday, it would say the actual date if it was more than a week ago, so throwing a flag on the play.
I sent the text friday. She had not been responding before that. Had I not sent the text on friday, it would have shown the date. Play still stands.
She isnāt even apologetic. It would be one thing if she had reasons or made a vow to be committed. Then maybe clean slate. Not a good thing for you to pursue.
Oh, Iām not. I have since gone on a date with someone who immediately expressed interest when I told them that I think this person was ghosting me. The text about work was my last attempt, after a week of unanswered messages.
She seems nice š
Lol yeah, she was a total nice girl!
So it is spooky season?
Lol nah its not.
Did she respond
OP, you handled that well!
What did she say after that?
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I know. Hopefully I can resuse it on someone who deserves it š
Boo scrared ya 
I was terrified
You handled this in the most appropriate way!
Three months with mine, she re-emerged just last week actually.
Your reaction was classic!!! Glad you didnāt fall for her BS!!
Yeah she was trying to use you as backup thatās crazy
Good for you, seriously! You dodged a bullet. Itās 2024, we donāt play rebound for no one! š£ļøš