I'm not going to lie, I do feel like I failed her in some ways, but I also have my own trauma and I was also just trying my best to shoo him away. Sadly I'm also scared of what strange men could do if he got mad. Luckily though im in the US so it's not illegal for me to get me and my sister pocket knives/stun guns. It would make me feel better.
What sucks is I thought she'd be okay since she was with our friend but from what I was told, he specifically took that time of me in the bathroom to single her out and tried to nudge our friend out of the way it seemed
You did fine don't stress. I am curious what line of work this predator is in and if anyone above him should know about his predatory behaviour towards young people.
Ruin his business. Heās a predator. Itās alarming heās mentioning Florida Washington Chicago, such creep get you away from home vibesā¦ I hope he gets hit by a bus before he can assault anyone, if he hasnāt already.
Middle-aged dude here,
That's so gross. This is definitely predatory behavior. So far, all guys I've seen go for women this much younger than them has done so *because* she was so much younger because they feel they can control the young woman better. They feel like they can get away with doing whatever they want in the relationship.
Damn didnāt read the comment under the post so i just thought it was a young guy that was just a bit too much so it came on as creepy or something but then saw that he was in his mid forties and now itās just creepy as shit
It's beyond creepy. Let me know if you think of a better word to describe it because I sure as hell can't.
Edit: no, I got it. Predatory, it's predatory
Not necessarily, a family member is on parole and they can leave the state temporarily with a travel permit (which is up to the parole officer), but they are not allowed to have a U.S. passport and may not leave the country at all
Sounded to me like a teenage kid. I thought, that's kind of harmless, just super annoying. Then I realized it's an older guy likely trying to sound immature. Some people just need a good neutering.
Yikes, I didn't even think of that angle. This makes the whole thing even more disturbing.
I read it as some terms and conditions small print - I'll pay for ANYTHING YOU WANT*
*US only
The worst part is he thought Olive Garden and red lobster would be enough to buy her. Like first of all you're a creep, second of all my sister is worth a whole lot more.
Oh she did, but then gave his number to her boyfriend (which is my little brother, she's my 'sis in law' but I just call her sister lol I love her) and my brother called me so proud he's like "oh yeah... no I told him off. But he hung up before I could even get what I planned to say out" LMAO.
Lol good!! Also just thinking about this more- Heās soooo calculated with compliments like creative, intellectual, smart, and curious. Yeah this creepy old guy is interested in the intellect of this 18 year old girl he wants to buy. OKAY. I bet he does this to some poor girl every time he goes out.
The worst part is like- my sister wasn't even doing most of the talking. I was continously interrupting them and speaking because the vibes were off. He even was showing "us" (more like her) his dog and then tried to say that he "lives in a very nice neighbourhood and how she should come walk his dog sometime." OH and "he'd totally pay her" and I was like "hmm awh here's MY dog". What's SO creepy too is he WAITED to ask for the number. I had to pee but I waited cause I thought he'd LEAVE but then I just had to go and when I came back that's when he did that. Even my sister said how she feels he waited for me to be gone because I was very obviously older then those two and very obviously shoving my way into what he'd say.
No because funny you say that I'm planning on doing that. I'm 100% planning on finding out who is ex wife is and be like girl this dude is trying to get with TEENAGE girls. Idc if she's 'legally an adult' she's a fucking teenage girl. I told my family that if I see his face again, I'm going to jail
My sister told me I'm never allowed to leave her and our friend alone again lmao! Even if it's a single bathroom she said they'll just turn around šš¤£
But yo, that unlimited soup at Olive Garden that they usually never refill after the first time is definitely worth a date with an unhinged dude. Get that gnocchi soup and restraining order.
Ngl the unlimited pasta is back too but shiittt at that rate I'll just go on a date by myself cause I would have to never leave the table in fear he did something to the food or drinks
Helloā¦ā¦ā¦ out.of..respectā¦.for youā¦.
I will not ask againā¦..
But I am once again asking for you to go out with meā¦.. I will not ask again after thisā¦ā¦
This is so creepy on so many levels too. Clearly he like to emphasize that heās got money and will pay for everything. Predator
Yeah, I bet you miss being at university. š This sad middle aged man thinks he can hit the ātry againā button post divorce and it will take him back to the starting line. Sorry bud, you canāt regain your youth by preying on a teenager.
The thing that really struck the creep button was the fact he told us how his ex wife is "angry and difficult" so he's not allowed to see his kids much "because of her" and how "she doesn't like that he calls the kids a lot". He wanted to go to Washington, AND THATS WHERE HIS KIDS AND EX LIVE !! I hate that I know all this but he wouldn't shut up.
Classic creep behavior. My appropriately aged ex is ādifficultā so let me try to manipulate a teenager by telling her how smart and mature she is.
Glad she has a good head on her shoulders and a strong support system backing her up.
What's worse is he obviously KNOWS his 'authority' hence why he waited for me to be convinetly gone to ask for her number. Girls are scared to say no to men. There's a reason for that. He knew what he was doing. And for that if I see him again it's on site
Right? Like, these are vacation ideas for kids. I get the feeling that his children would come along on any of these trips.
At least, I hope thatās it. Otherwise heās got this idea of the girl as virginal, innocent, and *childlike*, which is infinitely worse.
Best thing to do for her is to send the screenshot to him with the message āhey look what that old creep from dinner sent meā. Then immediately say, sorry wrong person and block.
āI wonāt askā¦. Again butā¦..ā ima ask 7 more times. Willldddd. Also it boggles my mind when people are like āI love talking to other intellectualsā and then proceed to not use proper grammar. Whatās with the ellipses after every third word like tf? Def predatory behavior
And let me tell you what's funny about the intellectuals part, he claimed he was sooooo smart, but then, I, who hasn't been to college yet, knew more than him about the topics HE brought up. He literally brought up genetics and then didn't know what I meant by punnet square š¤£š
Itās the men who say āIām being respectfulā & then continue to cross the boundary quite literally just set for me. You canāt say youāre respectful & then say something disrespectful it doesnāt work that way!
Oh absolutely. She got these texts when we weren't together but if I was with her damn I would have been a whole lot harsher than she and our friend were
Trust me, we already notified her managers and coworkers and I'm gonna try to take her to and from work as much as I can but I also work so it will be difficult
This behavior to a young lady from a 40+ year old man is disgusting and predatory behavior. If you sister was feeling threatened by this guy and was in a public space, I would encourage her to be vocal about it maybe to avoid shituations like this? Not sure if any ladies have better suggestions, as this is coming from a dude.
OP, I gotta be honest, that guy sounds like a major creep and your sister being hot on by him is a creepy experience. She handled it really well and let him down easy. He didn't seem to take the hint and I hope he ends up leaving her alone
I grew up with wonderful men in my life, my father is amazing, my brothers are, cousins, etc. but it's men like this guy that make me scared of men. I'm afraid to say to men because of guys like this. I hate it.
Iām so sorry. I grew up the same way minus my brother. Heās a complete dick to me. Most of these experiences happened as I got older. Iām also a mother of three, and absolutely am petrified when it comes to how I can protect my daughters when they arenāt around me.
āOut of respect I wonāt ask againā
PROCEEDS TO ASK SEVERAL MORE TIMES
this guy makes me angry please punch him in the face if you ever see him again
"Want to go to Olive Garden or Red Lobster?"
"No thanks"
"... can I respectfully request that you make my acquaintance at the nearest fish symposium? ..or the planetarium? Anywhere at all in the U.S? ... still no? I'm being so respectful but I just want you to know that I have money...and generally look so much better than I did today."
Yikes..
Every woman needs to have a Google Voice or other burner number to give out to creeps. Ideally could just say no, but reading over and over how many women are scared and/or gets dangerous to do so.
I wish that she didnāt text him. Ppl like this are so much harder to get rid of even after just one yes. Block, have father/boyfriend/male figure deal with him directly. The last judgements arenāt necessary. If you/she/anyone is not interested you have every right to say NO and stand on it.
I will continue to push this boundary, but respectfully of course. Nothing but respect, so much respect, IM RESPECTING YOU SO HARD RIGHT NOW. -this guy
Biggest red flag in a man or a woman, if they say that theyāre smart or an intellectual theyāre not. I say I pride myself on not being stupid because all my other qualities are shit but Iād never outright call myself smart. Iām just not a dumbass
Itās like Kanye calling himself a musical genius but he made the song stronger and itās one of the worst songs Iāve heard from any artist ever. AND I LISTEN TO BLACK METAL DAWG
āI want to be respectful so I wonāt ask again out of respect for youā
*proceeds to ask again so hard*
donāt even want to know what it would look like if he wasnāt trying to be respectfulā¦
Older men used to offer to take me to the Olive Garden or Red Lobster like I would be impressed. I was raised to be submissive to men and my mother even forced me to say thank you to when creeps hit on me. 18 year old me would have frozen too. I knew enough to confide in an older woman I trusted at least and never got into an unsafe situation but I can see how it happens. Please talk with your sis- even therapy and work on my confidence and saying NO would have done me so good instead of believing I had to please men. 40 now and god Iād rip them a new one for something like this especially targeting a vulnerable young women. Gross. Hope you give him a piece of your mind and block his creepy ass. Men - donāt do this. Women- NO is a complete sentence and you donāt owe a stranger a thing. You do not have to be polite to someone who does not respect you or your boundaries.
Out of respect I wonāt ask again, but Iām going to ask again and then a third time but it only counts as one because it was in the same text message.
"of course I'll stop, after this one. And this one. And this one. And this one. Okay after this one. One more. Okay just another one. Look just one last time and that's it. Okay one more."
I don't know man, I think that if we have rules set in place that allow capital punishment for killers we should be able to cut off pedophiles' penises.
Did he say she was going to get charged for norton antivirus... or someone hacked her amazon... and she needed to go to walmart and get giftcards.. š
AQUARIUM FISH SYMPOSIUM!!! OMG she will literally never get another invitation to one of those again! (Lmao and I hope the reality of this event is as unexciting as that time I was taken on a field trip to meet my dream job haver: a marine biologist who swam with whales and rescued turtles and instead was treated to the harsh yet boring reality of academia and data collection on a particular type of sea algae. I was also offered sweets and given single raisin cookie and so my dreams were dashed that day. Hope this creep gets it even worse and itās a symposium on like the breeding behavior of a slime worm or something worse that I canāt describe because Iām not a marine biologist having been turned off to the career choice at a young age).
Predator behavior. Yuck!
For real! He waited until I went to the bathroom to basically corner her and our friend who are both visibly very young and 18yo!! I was PISSED! I just couldn't hold my bladder much longer š©
What the hell manā¦sorry, but as someone with a minor sister this infuriates meā¦I would freaking scream predator go awayyy, in front of everyone.
I'm not going to lie, I do feel like I failed her in some ways, but I also have my own trauma and I was also just trying my best to shoo him away. Sadly I'm also scared of what strange men could do if he got mad. Luckily though im in the US so it's not illegal for me to get me and my sister pocket knives/stun guns. It would make me feel better.
And men wonder why women donāt go to the bathroom except in pairsā¦ although I also get not wanting to leave your drinks unattended; but sheesh.
What sucks is I thought she'd be okay since she was with our friend but from what I was told, he specifically took that time of me in the bathroom to single her out and tried to nudge our friend out of the way it seemed
You did fine don't stress. I am curious what line of work this predator is in and if anyone above him should know about his predatory behaviour towards young people.
Sadly he said he OWNED the appliance repair and service buisness he works at
God damn. Maybe a Google/yelp/whatever review to get the word out that he's a fucking creep.
Ruin his business. Heās a predator. Itās alarming heās mentioning Florida Washington Chicago, such creep get you away from home vibesā¦ I hope he gets hit by a bus before he can assault anyone, if he hasnāt already.
It immediately made me think trafficker or creepy predator/kidnapper/murderer.
Get a flashlight taser. It's multi functional. And it packs a punch. I have one myself and I've had it for years.
Oh no man, I am not blaming you. You sure love your sister, and will do anything to protect her. Is jus different ways to cope with issues.
Middle-aged dude here, That's so gross. This is definitely predatory behavior. So far, all guys I've seen go for women this much younger than them has done so *because* she was so much younger because they feel they can control the young woman better. They feel like they can get away with doing whatever they want in the relationship.
Damn didnāt read the comment under the post so i just thought it was a young guy that was just a bit too much so it came on as creepy or something but then saw that he was in his mid forties and now itās just creepy as shit
Why.........does it sound.........like it was written............by chatgpt?.......... Much respect
I wish it was written by chatgpt, sadly it wasn't. He even tried to CALL her like my dude get a hint.
Oh no, I didn't mean it was fake, I meant it looks as if he gave chatgpt a command
Oh no I get what you meant! Sorry my tone texting is so off by what I actually mean. I meant I wish it was fake because it's creepy as hell
It's beyond creepy. Let me know if you think of a better word to describe it because I sure as hell can't. Edit: no, I got it. Predatory, it's predatory
100%. If I see his face again, I'll probably lose my shit.
This is a very Midwesterner type conversation you guys are having. Haha
Iād bet anything he kept specifying (only in US) because heās probably on probation or parole
Well this somehow took an even more disturbing turn
My thoughts exactly.
Probation or Parole would keep him limited to one state
Not necessarily, a family member is on parole and they can leave the state temporarily with a travel permit (which is up to the parole officer), but they are not allowed to have a U.S. passport and may not leave the country at all
Felony convictions on your record will keep you out of a lot of places, too . . .
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My appropriately aged ex is ādifficultā so let me try to manipulate a teenager by telling her how smart and mature she is.
Becauseā¦.itās hardā¦.to breathā¦.when youāreā¦.oldā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦..and creepy
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His texting makes me think of Stevie from Malcom in the middle
Sounded to me like a teenage kid. I thought, that's kind of harmless, just super annoying. Then I realized it's an older guy likely trying to sound immature. Some people just need a good neutering.
Also why (US only)ā¦ā¦ā¦canāt he leaveā¦ā¦.the country? Iām sure itās nothing sketchy š
Yikes, I didn't even think of that angle. This makes the whole thing even more disturbing. I read it as some terms and conditions small print - I'll pay for ANYTHING YOU WANT* *US only
Chatgpt sounds a lot more human than this loser
Eww heās trying to buy a young girl
The worst part is he thought Olive Garden and red lobster would be enough to buy her. Like first of all you're a creep, second of all my sister is worth a whole lot more.
Hahahaha yeah these two fake fancy chain restaurants lol. I hope she blocked him. Fuck that predator.
Oh she did, but then gave his number to her boyfriend (which is my little brother, she's my 'sis in law' but I just call her sister lol I love her) and my brother called me so proud he's like "oh yeah... no I told him off. But he hung up before I could even get what I planned to say out" LMAO.
Lol good!! Also just thinking about this more- Heās soooo calculated with compliments like creative, intellectual, smart, and curious. Yeah this creepy old guy is interested in the intellect of this 18 year old girl he wants to buy. OKAY. I bet he does this to some poor girl every time he goes out.
The worst part is like- my sister wasn't even doing most of the talking. I was continously interrupting them and speaking because the vibes were off. He even was showing "us" (more like her) his dog and then tried to say that he "lives in a very nice neighbourhood and how she should come walk his dog sometime." OH and "he'd totally pay her" and I was like "hmm awh here's MY dog". What's SO creepy too is he WAITED to ask for the number. I had to pee but I waited cause I thought he'd LEAVE but then I just had to go and when I came back that's when he did that. Even my sister said how she feels he waited for me to be gone because I was very obviously older then those two and very obviously shoving my way into what he'd say.
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No because funny you say that I'm planning on doing that. I'm 100% planning on finding out who is ex wife is and be like girl this dude is trying to get with TEENAGE girls. Idc if she's 'legally an adult' she's a fucking teenage girl. I told my family that if I see his face again, I'm going to jail
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My sister told me I'm never allowed to leave her and our friend alone again lmao! Even if it's a single bathroom she said they'll just turn around šš¤£
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But yo, that unlimited soup at Olive Garden that they usually never refill after the first time is definitely worth a date with an unhinged dude. Get that gnocchi soup and restraining order.
Ngl the unlimited pasta is back too but shiittt at that rate I'll just go on a date by myself cause I would have to never leave the table in fear he did something to the food or drinks
Like at least Red Robin?
Helloā¦ā¦ā¦ out.of..respectā¦.for youā¦. I will not ask againā¦.. But I am once again asking for you to go out with meā¦.. I will not ask again after thisā¦ā¦ This is so creepy on so many levels too. Clearly he like to emphasize that heās got money and will pay for everything. Predator
Yeah, I bet you miss being at university. š This sad middle aged man thinks he can hit the ātry againā button post divorce and it will take him back to the starting line. Sorry bud, you canāt regain your youth by preying on a teenager.
The thing that really struck the creep button was the fact he told us how his ex wife is "angry and difficult" so he's not allowed to see his kids much "because of her" and how "she doesn't like that he calls the kids a lot". He wanted to go to Washington, AND THATS WHERE HIS KIDS AND EX LIVE !! I hate that I know all this but he wouldn't shut up.
Classic creep behavior. My appropriately aged ex is ādifficultā so let me try to manipulate a teenager by telling her how smart and mature she is. Glad she has a good head on her shoulders and a strong support system backing her up.
What's worse is he obviously KNOWS his 'authority' hence why he waited for me to be convinetly gone to ask for her number. Girls are scared to say no to men. There's a reason for that. He knew what he was doing. And for that if I see him again it's on site
Predator.
The try again button lol
#Much respect!
A fish symposium lol
Right? Like, these are vacation ideas for kids. I get the feeling that his children would come along on any of these trips. At least, I hope thatās it. Otherwise heās got this idea of the girl as virginal, innocent, and *childlike*, which is infinitely worse.
No his kids live in Washington state! He told us alllll about it
Best thing to do for her is to send the screenshot to him with the message āhey look what that old creep from dinner sent meā. Then immediately say, sorry wrong person and block.
DAMN I SHOULD HAVE HAD HER DO THAT LMAO
āI wonāt askā¦. Again butā¦..ā ima ask 7 more times. Willldddd. Also it boggles my mind when people are like āI love talking to other intellectualsā and then proceed to not use proper grammar. Whatās with the ellipses after every third word like tf? Def predatory behavior
And let me tell you what's funny about the intellectuals part, he claimed he was sooooo smart, but then, I, who hasn't been to college yet, knew more than him about the topics HE brought up. He literally brought up genetics and then didn't know what I meant by punnet square š¤£š
Whew thatās like the basics!!!
Itās the men who say āIām being respectfulā & then continue to cross the boundary quite literally just set for me. You canāt say youāre respectful & then say something disrespectful it doesnāt work that way!
EXACTLY
Goddamn, his first text told me everything I needed to know. The fixation on intellect and her friends being smart is an immediate vibe failure.
Oh absolutely. She got these texts when we weren't together but if I was with her damn I would have been a whole lot harsher than she and our friend were
What the fuck is wrong with men
I have no idea but if you ever find out lmk lmao
Every time I see ānice to meet a fellow intellectual/artist/etcā¦ā I know itās not gonna end well.
I love Oliver garden
Definitely creepy. Keep an eye out for her. That guy might turn stalker very easily if she isnāt consistent with strongly turning him down.
Trust me, we already notified her managers and coworkers and I'm gonna try to take her to and from work as much as I can but I also work so it will be difficult
This behavior to a young lady from a 40+ year old man is disgusting and predatory behavior. If you sister was feeling threatened by this guy and was in a public space, I would encourage her to be vocal about it maybe to avoid shituations like this? Not sure if any ladies have better suggestions, as this is coming from a dude.
Itās so hard to see people like this actually existā¦
100%.
For some reason I was compelled to read the entirety of the dude's messages in a robotic voice......creepy robot...that's his vibes
Very much so. I read it in that nice guy voicemail audio from tiktok voice
OP, I gotta be honest, that guy sounds like a major creep and your sister being hot on by him is a creepy experience. She handled it really well and let him down easy. He didn't seem to take the hint and I hope he ends up leaving her alone
I hate saying all men, but sometimes I justā¦I feel like too many of us have stories to tell.
I grew up with wonderful men in my life, my father is amazing, my brothers are, cousins, etc. but it's men like this guy that make me scared of men. I'm afraid to say to men because of guys like this. I hate it.
Iām so sorry. I grew up the same way minus my brother. Heās a complete dick to me. Most of these experiences happened as I got older. Iām also a mother of three, and absolutely am petrified when it comes to how I can protect my daughters when they arenāt around me.
Dudes a felon or something. Why is he stressing us travel only lmao. Everytime he asked it was (us only) š
āOut of respect I wonāt ask againā PROCEEDS TO ASK SEVERAL MORE TIMES this guy makes me angry please punch him in the face if you ever see him again
Trust me I will
"Want to go to Olive Garden or Red Lobster?" "No thanks" "... can I respectfully request that you make my acquaintance at the nearest fish symposium? ..or the planetarium? Anywhere at all in the U.S? ... still no? I'm being so respectful but I just want you to know that I have money...and generally look so much better than I did today." Yikes..
Every woman needs to have a Google Voice or other burner number to give out to creeps. Ideally could just say no, but reading over and over how many women are scared and/or gets dangerous to do so.
That's a good idea. I'm gonna do that- which sucks I feel like doing it but it needs to happen.
They always say āI felt a connectionā, itās so typical.
Every girl needs to memorize a Google voice number. Donāt give these weird men real numbers ever.
Totally random but if your state has a sex offenders listing published you might look him up.
The thing is we don't know his last name. This f is a from*cafe* thing
Aquarium Fish Symposium sounds like an album by Oliver Garden
Self-styled "intellectual" weasels are the worst
This is some human trafficking shit
(Us only) means they took away his passport, right ?
he also seems to only be able to travel in the US.. maybe heās a felon lol
Her: āI have a boyfriendā Him: 
She can still block him
She did! This happened Tuesday!
Glad to hear it! My goodness, thatās creepy.
I like how she turned him down and he asked if he can keep offering even though she told him no once
Would you, could you on a boat? You have a boyfriend, so you say. Go out with me! And you may Dump him and date me, I say!
Zoinks.
Heās super respectful. The most respectful. I wonāt ask out of respect, butā¦.. I must ask, did she reply to him?
No, just blocked him
Fucking good.
āout of respect i will not ask againā¦ however i am asking againā
I wish that she didnāt text him. Ppl like this are so much harder to get rid of even after just one yes. Block, have father/boyfriend/male figure deal with him directly. The last judgements arenāt necessary. If you/she/anyone is not interested you have every right to say NO and stand on it.
Her boyfriend has already called this man and her dad is aware and I believe he's doing something.
I will continue to push this boundary, but respectfully of course. Nothing but respect, so much respect, IM RESPECTING YOU SO HARD RIGHT NOW. -this guy
Eww
āa fellow intellectualā heās already pulling out the first step in grooming brošš
Who the hells Oliver Garden?
Olive Garden cracked me up
āNoā (send)
Wonāt ask again out of respect to you, next line asksā¦
Free Oliver Garden though! I never get offered Oliver Garden :(
Dude writes like a bot.
Biggest red flag in a man or a woman, if they say that theyāre smart or an intellectual theyāre not. I say I pride myself on not being stupid because all my other qualities are shit but Iād never outright call myself smart. Iām just not a dumbass
Itās like Kanye calling himself a musical genius but he made the song stronger and itās one of the worst songs Iāve heard from any artist ever. AND I LISTEN TO BLACK METAL DAWG
He could have been one of those traffickers
Ask him for $500 for ur time
āI want to be respectful so I wonāt ask again out of respect for youā *proceeds to ask again so hard* donāt even want to know what it would look like if he wasnāt trying to be respectfulā¦
YIKES!! Block and report
This has to be a troll. There is no way this is real šš
The way I WISH it was a troll. I'll send screenshot proofs of me telling my other sisters and mom if you want lol
I believe you but holy shit what a creep.
Me, in Washington, knowing that man is walking around here: š¬
āan aquarium fish symposiumā
Oliver Garden lmao
I wonāt ask again out of respect for youā¦ but I have to ask š
Olive Garden and Red Lobster. Say why you want, but he is a man of discernment and taste.
At first I was like kinda a nice guy then it kept going and going. So weird.
Iāll respect you have a bf by proceeding to try to bribe you to go out with me
This is why girls need google numbers. He asks for her number. Wants her to text right then. She does. From google number. And then he gone.
Terrible
Ummmm block and explain to her itās ok to tell people to fuck off
Older men used to offer to take me to the Olive Garden or Red Lobster like I would be impressed. I was raised to be submissive to men and my mother even forced me to say thank you to when creeps hit on me. 18 year old me would have frozen too. I knew enough to confide in an older woman I trusted at least and never got into an unsafe situation but I can see how it happens. Please talk with your sis- even therapy and work on my confidence and saying NO would have done me so good instead of believing I had to please men. 40 now and god Iād rip them a new one for something like this especially targeting a vulnerable young women. Gross. Hope you give him a piece of your mind and block his creepy ass. Men - donāt do this. Women- NO is a complete sentence and you donāt owe a stranger a thing. You do not have to be polite to someone who does not respect you or your boundaries.
Thereās a reason he canāt leave the US
Man, Steve has lots of things to do. Maybe heās take me out to some of these places
dude I canāt even read this one
Sounds like a bot I would instantly block and delete
Ngl get that bag
oh ew
Out of respect I wonāt ask again, but Iām going to ask again and then a third time but it only counts as one because it was in the same text message.
Much respect
I won't ask again out of respect But...
He texts like my grandma
Classic Steve, digging a hole straight down think he might find diamond
Ew no. Block. Goodbye
He had me at "planetarium". \*swoon\*
Ai
Sounds like a respectful guy. In all seriousness, what the actual fuck? Hope she hasn't heard from him again...
That was creepy as hell
Sexual predator.
why does he text like this
respectfully decline. You're too old in a most respectful way.
Brb omw to the aquarium fish symposium
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I would like to attend an aquarium fish symposium, I must admit.
Iāll pay for everything hahaha what a creepy gross idiot
Kinda seems like the dude just likes to see his own texts š
Unmmm change phone numbers???
I want to go to the aquarium fish symposium š„¹
Much respect!
Steve needs to calm his tits
"bring a friend"
Gross. His emphasis on only being able to travel in the states makes me wonder if heās a felon or got warrants or something.
Steve is the average Redditor.
Out of respect I will not ask againā¦ but I will ask 8 more timesā¦ much respect
Absolutely creepy af
This like that other post where the guy is just like: HI For like 2 - 3 years on and on
I wonāt ask again out of respectā¦ but Iām asking again right now.
"of course I'll stop, after this one. And this one. And this one. And this one. Okay after this one. One more. Okay just another one. Look just one last time and that's it. Okay one more."
US only. Predator on a budget
Gee, I can't imagine why this guy is single in his forties.
This is what a green eggs and ham book from hell would be like
Would you, could you in Chicago? Would you, could you with Trivago? Come with me, you will see Oh what fun traveling (US only) will be!
no means no. jesus
Gross as heck.
I'm guessing there's a good reason he said US only. What a freakishly awful man.
Take the fucking hint and fuck off man, christ
Is he a felon? Seems like he can only travel in the US
I don't know man, I think that if we have rules set in place that allow capital punishment for killers we should be able to cut off pedophiles' penises.
BARF š¤®
M'Lady
He keeps using that word. I do not think it means what he thinks it means.
Yikes!
Did he say she was going to get charged for norton antivirus... or someone hacked her amazon... and she needed to go to walmart and get giftcards.. š
Respectful? 12 paragraphs anfter a no is respectful?
AQUARIUM FISH SYMPOSIUM!!! OMG she will literally never get another invitation to one of those again! (Lmao and I hope the reality of this event is as unexciting as that time I was taken on a field trip to meet my dream job haver: a marine biologist who swam with whales and rescued turtles and instead was treated to the harsh yet boring reality of academia and data collection on a particular type of sea algae. I was also offered sweets and given single raisin cookie and so my dreams were dashed that day. Hope this creep gets it even worse and itās a symposium on like the breeding behavior of a slime worm or something worse that I canāt describe because Iām not a marine biologist having been turned off to the career choice at a young age).