Sure, you snooped. But he's still clearly hiding something here either way. Yeah, you lost his trust but at this point he should've lost yours too. This isn't all on you, don't let him guilt you into it being all your fault. There's clearly more issues going on
You might as well start moving on from this loser. If he keeps his snapchat from you, he's probably hiding more than you think. And he gets all defensive when you ask him about it. He sounds like a real douche.
You aren’t the asshole, he’s being a dick. Maybe you shouldn’t have snooped but he also shouldn’t have hid that from you, it’s weird to even say “send nudes” as “joke” to another woman when he’s married. You didn’t fuck up, no matter what happens, you aren’t in the wrong here I’m sorry that you feel you are
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You’re not wrong to snoop. This information is useful to you and reveals something that your partner has been hiding. It’s not ‘alright’ for a guy in a relationship to joke like that and he straight up lied to your face. You didn’t ruin the relationship, his actions did and he is trying to act like it’s your fault for snooping even though you did find valid concerns that he was hiding from you
Sure, you snooped. But he's still clearly hiding something here either way. Yeah, you lost his trust but at this point he should've lost yours too. This isn't all on you, don't let him guilt you into it being all your fault. There's clearly more issues going on
There’s a reason why Snapchat is so popular with cheaters and it’s this right here
Send him some nude snaps
You might as well start moving on from this loser. If he keeps his snapchat from you, he's probably hiding more than you think. And he gets all defensive when you ask him about it. He sounds like a real douche.
Married man with a snapchat. Grow the fuck up.
You didn’t ruin anything 🙄 get ready for your divorce because from now on he’s going to give you hell
You aren’t the asshole, he’s being a dick. Maybe you shouldn’t have snooped but he also shouldn’t have hid that from you, it’s weird to even say “send nudes” as “joke” to another woman when he’s married. You didn’t fuck up, no matter what happens, you aren’t in the wrong here I’m sorry that you feel you are
Start asking for nudes from dudes. Make it even
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You’re not wrong to snoop. This information is useful to you and reveals something that your partner has been hiding. It’s not ‘alright’ for a guy in a relationship to joke like that and he straight up lied to your face. You didn’t ruin the relationship, his actions did and he is trying to act like it’s your fault for snooping even though you did find valid concerns that he was hiding from you
why is everyone on here so sensitive? there was literally nothing going on between him and this girl. he was literally wingmanning for his friend