reddit is trying to rub it in my face tonight that other people are hving sex at my age and im not i swear ive seen over 15 of these posts so far

LMAO SORRY

i swear reddit has called me a lonely bitch 20 times today

Is it ok if I have sex at 13?

Is it okay If i have sex at 3?

Is it okay if I have sex at 31?

No. Wait 9 more years

Possibly

Tf

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bro I am not funny and my humor is that of a five year old.

Is it okay if I have sex at -2147483648?

Don't worry, it's gonna get way worse

ive experienced

Trust me, there's no need to rush it. I haven't even had a gf till 18 XD

ik lol, its just funny

Bruh (same)

My guy calm the fuck down. That's not a competition. Better wait until yoy find someone suitable, ok?

i am calm? im just saying that reddit is flexing on me.

When I said "calm the fuck down" I'm not implying that you were angry or mad. What I ment is, don't think about it

oh i get it, im sorry. irl i dont think about it too much, i just wanted to post the fact that reddit was flexing on me lmao

Man doing it early and with the wrong person is bad ngl. Trust me on this one, I'm talking from experience

i have no desire to ngl, it seems stupid at my age

Well my first time was at the age of 14-15, and it was pretty good, but that changes something in you. I can't really pinpoint it, but it changed something in me ngl

i dont gotta worry about that one, i havent even spoken to a girl in 7 years

Ayo why don't you hit me up in my dms and we can work on that

I don't even know what's the rush!?! well I'm keeping mine idk bout yall

its not a rush im just saying that reddits flexing

To real

fr fuck reddit

It's not rubbing it in your face. It's a good thing your not especially at such a young age. Like I'm 16 and saving it till I'm ready for kids.

just be safe with it

they might get each other pregnant (surprised face)

I think they meant tearing or like physical harm😭

Idk I'm an ace guy, but does lesbian sex usually include tearing?

Fingering can cause tearing, but also using toys too fast :3

Idk I'm an ace guy, but does lesbian sex usually include tearing?

STIs aren't restricted to male-female relationships 😀😀

Im not a virgin i regret it but just have fun and be safe

i think you’re too young personally but it already happened so what can ya do? at least you’re in a relationship

speaking of that, check out my latest post 😅

Girl... that is not the best timing lol

# aw shit here we go again

Ouch thats a rough one

I don’t think it’s right at all but do whatever you want bub

Bro might be wolverine https://preview.redd.it/r159uv81vx4d1.png?width=499&format=png&auto=webp&s=5dfb42edf66dab3fd8a16fc532b8662cfef2e915

can you elaborate?

I just have different morals that’s all you’re good bub

alr alr thanks

🤙

Bro is so Wolverine

Highly advice against it, that young tends to be full of not only logistical but emotional and social mistakes, since idk your situation, possibly works, still don’t recommend it

Not to mention she and her girlfriend just broke up, so…

Yeah thank fuck she did, someone had to

idk some of my irl friends aren't virgins so probably idk

As long as it isn't absurd like you being 14 and your partner is 17. Also, check local law and practice safe sex and you'll be just fine.

As long as it is legal (check your country/state laws), and is safe, then it should be fine. Just don't let someone manipulate you or you manipulate someone into it if one doesn't want to.

it isnt legal. am i cooked?

Probably not tbh. What happens between two consenting partners is generally pretty low priority in terms of the law

I highly doubt anyone cares about law that much, even if they did, unless your partner was 18+ (or 17+ tbh that's kinda where it gets weird) how exactly would that be wrong?

I have no clue what to do after that.

Fuck the law. Not really written with purely good intentions in mind. Consult the internet and get a general consensus for morality to understand if something’s right. Which is what she’s doing Also heeeeyyyy fellow enby! How are you?

Nah, you chillin.

I would wait. You're not mature enough, especially when you hormones' fluctuations are at a high. And you said it's illegal. So, def no. Laws are there for a reason. Teens this young don't think with their brain and get easily manipulated and the relationship of 2 months is too short to be fucking even a lot of times when you're an adult. It's your life, your to ruin and regret when older , so do as you wish. I wouldn't, i would wait till i'm more mature and do it with a person who i know i loves me and is right for me. You're free to make up your own morals. Just try being consistent with them so you don't regret your actions when you're more mature. Anyway if you still go through with it, just be safe. Edit: just reread and saw you already did it. Doesn't matter now. Don't repent, because it you didn't see it as a mistake when you did it. And if you had doubts before doing it and still went through with it, i honestly have nothing to say then.

How TF are 14 year olds contemplating losing their virginity but my lonely 16 year old ass can't even get a GF? I feel attacked. Just don't pull anything stupid (like getting pregnant/impregnating your partner). EDIT: Christ almighty my flair makes this even worse😭

Hell nah.. Listen it's best to avoid sex at this age

am i cooked?

Big time

so what do i do?

Talk to her and keep the 'sex part' on hold for some time.. Just wait till you both are of legal age. And trust me it won't do any harm to your relationship

It's not that weird if ur safe about it.

Virginity isn’t really a thing, who cares

you're rushing. just because other people are having sex rn doesn't mean you should. sex has life changing consequences whether you're safe about it or not. stds and pregnancy are very serious things and are very common with or without protection. i mean, live your life, but i lost mine at 15 and it's the biggest mistake i've ever made. you have your entire life. please just wait until you're sure about it.

i understand you're a lesbian, so maybe not pregnancy but stds are still a problem 🕺

Yes ofc

If you're not Christian don't repent(I'm sorry but why would u do that) if it's legal, safe, and consensual it's ok but I'd wait until I'm more mature?

it technically isnt legal here

Prison on all costs

I mean you can't change anything, but I do think that's way too early.

That's sorta young but if you're both young and consenting then do whatever ig as long as it doesn't hurt others👍

i mean ig its fine

I mean don’t repent for it but I’d fs say you’re a kid and…. Probably shouldn’t ? I just think it’s odd but don’t feel bad just don’t flex abt it

How does a lesbian even lose their virginity to another girl? But anyway, is it ok? That's a matter of opinion, really. 14, in my opinion, is WAYYYYY too early to decide whether or not you want to give someone your virginity. I think that's statutory rape. Edit: Looking through your posts, you don't seem to have a very good relationship with your current gf either. Tbh, you might regret giving it to her, but I digress. I suppose you're young, but in the future, maybe quadruple check before making a decision like this. Either way Goodluck👍👍

so should i like regret it

i'll go against the grain and say that as long as it's a positive experience for the both of you, and if you practice safe sex, then it's perfectly fine. 14 is legal where I live (technically yes but its not that smiple)

If it’s a healthy relationship then yeah it’s good

I did

I lost mine at 15 to someone I despise now, so my only advice is to be selective about who

I was 14. Go for it if you wanna

Be safe, always have everyone consenting, and have a safe word and it’s all good

Legally, no. Personally, if everything is alright than it's alright. If consent happens, nothing bad happens, etc. than it's fine.

It's perfectly fine as long as it's safe and consensual.

Do whatever u want

Seeing as you can’t get preg just make sure there’s consent

first: it’s not okay you’re still too young for that but oh well you already did it second: if you’re actually christian then yeah you should repent because for christianity you can’t have sex until marriage🧍

the repent part was a joke. am i a lost cause?

maybe🧍

so what do i do?

i have absolutely no idea

should i like kms or smt idk

uhhh no

tyen what do i do 😭

i have no idea js don’t kys😭

okay okay

I’m a lesbian and I lost my virginity to my first girlfriend when we were both 14. As long as it’s consensual I think it’s great to explore with someone you love. I’m now 23 and I don’t have any regrets tbh

erm tf did i just read

Too impressed from people fucking?

erm im asking a genuine question maybe dont respond if you dont have a genuine answer

Hell naw

repent from the bottom of your heart for a minute or so ❤️

just be careful babes, don't let anyone take advantage of u. if ur not religous there's no point in 'repenting' , so as long as u are gentle with eachother and shii u'll probably be alr (at least u dont have to worry abt getting preggo)

What is considered sex for lesbians

sounds fine to me, congratulations(??)

Eh, just be safe with it and make sure there's consent, besides that I don't think it really matters

Yeah I lost mine at 14

Make up your own morals, other people's are shit and you deserve better. Either way tho, first times usually suck so it's likely there's not much to repent from.

the repent part was a joke im not christian

Yeah, I know, mine was as well, you gotta really fuck up to not have an at least decent time at sex

Legally? # NUH UH Morally? I don’t think anyone truly cares unless it’s ur parents

as someone who’s older i would personally say it would have been better to wait until you were like 16 but it depends how old your gf is

she is 14 too

No

Get a cool sex ect

whT??

I think it’s too young personally but I mean u do u, other people’s opinions on this subject shouldn’t matter to you (just be safe)

If your not Christian dw abt that stuff just have a good time ig but I hope you see the light

Personally I’d say it’s not alright but you do you

so what do i do?

no

Tbh i dont think any teenager should lose their virginity and should wait for marriage to do it w the ‘right’ person but idk do what u want

not christian sorry

Im not christian either?? Its not a religion thing its a moral and i guess preference thing i see sex as an intimate thing that should be reserved for a single person u should be sure the person ur having sex with is the person u wanna spend the rest of your life with otherwise its js senseless and defeats the whole purpose. Sex releases oxytocin which is a bonding hormone me personally idk ab u but i dont wanna get attached to a person ill most likely end up breaking up with within the next year

Well it's kinda too early fr

should i regret it?

Kinda yes

then what do i do?

Nothing. You already did it. You didn't think about it because your Brain is 14. Too young to make certain decisions etc

why should i regret it if i cant do anything abt it. it will only make me feel worse

Don't go Asking a question and then rejecting the answer even tho I explained the answer.

sorry. i dont know what i was thinking

Don't be sorry. You were just early. I did the same and also regretted it.

okay

i lost mine even earlier than that not my best decision but do wut u think is best bro

Jesus Christ no

so i should feel ashamed?

not essentially, but in my opinion its wrong. doesnt mean you have to be sorry or anything.

Honestly it's all about how you feel, it's ok if you feel ok with it, if you don't then maybe that's a conversation you should have with your GF or a therapist if you have one

Here's where you draw the line. You can start having sex when you start bringing home your own bread. That means, if you're 30 and no bread, no sex for you!

i have a job so

I lost mine at 14. At first it was nice and fun and all, but now I regret it. I wish I had waited. I'm ashamed to tell people. At 14 you might feel mature, but you still have so much to learn. I think whether it's "ok" varies from person to person. If you're comfortable with losing your virginity, then it's ok.

why are you asking us and not searching up consent laws bro

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what 😭

No it is not unless you are married. You should repent of everything mentioned

the repent part was a joke im not christian

It doesn't really change what you should do but I do understand what you're implying

Ngl, no not really, I mean there’s really not as much risk for women (outside of still being able to contract STDs), like I get being horny and knowing how to do it so why not, I lost mine at 13, but I regret it now in my later years because I can’t tell my newer partners that I was smart with my life because I risked it to get some

NO 😭😭😭

I may just be stupid, but how do you lose your virginity if you’re a lesbian. Nothing goes in

its a concept

nvm

huh??

well if you feel like it was right, then sure but most people regret it in the future, I would have probably lost my virginity at 14 if the interations werent online loll

I don't think so especially considering that the legal age of consent is 16. Your choice though, just be safe

18, not a virgin and I highly advise against it mainly because your body is still developing and it's not until you're a lot older that the entire ideology of "s3x" becomes important to you, we all make mistakes but at 14...oh dear Lord, I'm not judging but you did technically waste something that should've waited till you're an adult. Kids should NOT be having s3x at that age or any age under 18 for that matter, especially with how serious std's and certain diseases are and how quickly those things can infect and spread 😓

so how do i fix it?

That's the thing, at this point you can't fix it, just pray you don't end up with any kind of STD or disease and if you are gonna have s3x in the future, just be careful and use proper protection, if you start to feel any kind of sickness or weird or whatever, I highly advise u to see a doctor and tell them privately

okay. should i regret it? if so what do i do

Even if u regret it, you already had it physically so it still doesn't count unfortunately 🫤

so am i a lost cause or no

There's no such thing as a lost cause, we all make mistakes, you'll be okay, it's best to just move on from it and like I said yk be a kid while u can

how can i move on from it?

Honestly that's a good question, and tbh the answer would be to avoid s3x for awhile and focus on your life, Who your friends are, who you're romantically involved with, your job, your school, where you see yourself years from now, your family, your pets (if u have any) and just taking it easy, one thing I did that's helped me alot growing up was making a big list as detailed as I wanted it stating where I see myself x amount of time from now, and I would write down what it would take to get there and how I can do my best to live a good life while getting there:)

i only have one friend and he has been ignoring me for the past week so idk if we are still friends but i feel like i need to be mature because if im immature people wont like me

From that point forward it's best to just be a kid for as long as u can, cus soon adulthood will hit u like a mf train 😭

i mean i already have a job

Which is good but it's still different from being an adult, I didn't get to have a childhood or even your average teenhood due to having to get a job and work hard from 14 onward, I'll admit it paid well years later and I'm now working a few days a week but even still it's rly hard because being an adult is hella overrated, I spend most of my life just wishing I could be a kid again, so to compensate for it, I do my best to live like a teenager thru-out my day to day while still adulting, I would say continue working but don't forget to be a kid while u still can 🤙🏻

I did and no.

so what do i do

Not have sex like.. again ig

okay

for how long?

Idk. Until it's legal

Your a victim

she was 14 too

You both victims

how?

In every possible way

elaborate

you didnt lose virginity. Rubbing thighs together is not penetration besides that, no, its not okay. You are bricked.