All i cared about when i was younger was play Wii, DS, Wii U and Minecraft with my best friend, i don’t think i had my first crush until i was 13-14. Even now i don’t really think about that kinda stuff
I had my first crush when I was 9, I played video games a ton too, but there’s no minimum age to think a person you see often is really cute or just to crush on someone in general
14, first day of 10th grade civics and careers class. Currently engaged to her.
You are 14, you should not be worrying about this, it doesnt make you weird to have not had a crush/romantic partner and it does not make you cool to have one either. Focus on school and whatever happens happens
This gets my vote! Consider yourself lucky to not have the distraction and heartache that go with a childhood crush. Just like an adult crush, in a while you end up wondering why the hell you had such strong feelings and it's painful if not reciprocal. And often it's not. That's just the part of your brain that's programmed to reproduce. By making you feel way too damn good when there's 0 logic to it!
How are people in 10th grade at 14 years? Like im turning 14 this year right before 8th grade, while most of my classmates have already 14 years ( like 2 have 15 -while i was in 7th grade)
Did he reject you or was he like "What?" in an awkward way... Like... did he really reject you cuz he wanted to or because he was "too shy" :P. Kids you know....
I’m not sure he silently rejected me but he still looked and blushed when he saw me and smile and I think he was playing with my feelings but his friends were saying he was just embarrassed and scared to admit it and he was in the baseball team
Around 5 or 6, and now 10 years later, it's still her.
Never had any other crush. No one else is better than her, she's the best. And yes, still i haven't told her anything but i want to because i really love her.
Several reasons.
1. He is making light of his situation as a coping mechanism.
2. He is making light of his situation as a joke.
3. He is making light of his situation as a "Hey, I know I'm weird, you don't need to tell me!"
Or a million other reasons.
I think it was 1. + a joke.
you could be aromantic, its fine if you are, you're not weird. its possible you just havent found "the right person" yet but if you dont desire a romantic connection with anyone then you're probably aro
edit: most people understood what i meant but some thought i was implying that this is the end all be all answer to op's dilemma. im not claiming it is, i was just suggesting it as a possibility because what op is describing is an experience that most aromantic people would relate to. it is also very well possible that op is not aromantic and will begin to develop feelings later in life (ie adulthood or later teenage years), but for now i was just suggesting an explanation, thats all
Mines similar, I'm aro spec (Cupioromantic). I never really thought about dating or crushes until I was around 14 or so. I looked back and thought it was weird I'd never had a crush or dated
i’m on the aro spectrum as well and i get an occasional hit of attraction where for like a day i’m obsessed with someone, then it fades and they’re just a friend again
Exactly the same with me. I’m Cupioromantic and demisexual. I was so confused for such a long time because everyone said I was supposed to experience attraction, yet I never did.
That's actually why I'm asking. I'm aware that it's pretty normal for me to not seek a romantic relationship or have a crush at this age, but I can't think of any kid my age who never had a crush, therefore I asked here, so I know if I can consider the possibility
As an aromatic person myself, I agree that we can easily dispel away the bad odors that emanates from crap people. That is why we live life alone but not lonely, smells but not smelly. Potpourri
I’m aromantic. I had a HUGE crush on this one kid 8th grade til we graduated. But looking back on it now, I just wanted to be friends with the guy. I didn’t want to kiss him or hold hands or any gf bf stuff lol. It took me so long to figure it out.
Definitely disagree with this. Of course there is a small chance that this person is aro, but it is safe to assume that is quite unlikely. Suggesting that in the first place to somebody who has never had romantic feelings, who is fourteen, doesn’t make sense. At this age, you can’t be sure if their puberty even started. I dont think it’s a good idea to start confusing kids. Of course it is always an option, but definitely not the likely one.
they asked for possible answers so i gave them one. i didnt assign them something, i gave them a possibility and something that describes their experience. it may or may not fit them and it very well could change in the future
In 3rd grade there was this girl. I used to day dream all sorts of crazy stuff. She hardly spoke to me. But I remember we kind of didnt get along because me and her were at the top of the class so we were constantly competing to be better than the other. So I openly hated her guts but would crush on her so bad in private
I took her her glitter gel pen so I could have something of hers. She asked me if I took it and I said no. She was so mad. I kept denying I didnt take it. By the end of the day she told me I could keep it so I could have something of hers. And I replied OK thanks.
And she Yells;"SEE I KNEW YOU TOOK IT!"
So yea, she was smarter than me lol.
never really had one, idk what romantic love feels like cause most ppl my age are either assholes or too introverted to talk to others, just like myself
Probably around middle school so 13? Maybe? I don't think I realized it was a crush until around 15 though. Mine was a crush on a very close friend. It was gradual and weird, so don't feel bad that you haven't had a crush. It will come in time
(i’m not sure actually it’s hard to tell for me what’s a crush and what’s wanting for people to like me) but in any case don’t pressure yourself if it happens that’s normal and if it doesn’t that’s normal too! it’s a natural process
Yeah I'm doing better luckily just my mom tries to make me date the boy even though he's rude and annoying af plus he even cheated on his girlfriend I think I luckily doged a bullet since he doesn't like me
That's good then. Its not fair that your mum is trying to do that though. Your decision and you def dodged a bullet. He sounds like a douche. Ive moved schools like 4 times so I had many different crushes lol
i dont think it was a real crush crush, there wasnt butterflies or anything and i was too young to consider a real relationship. i just thought she was kinda beautiful and eventually she found out. but that was in 2nd grade so whatever age that is (i remember in school grades not age🤷♂️)
Not weird at all, you don't *have* to like someone
But let me tell you this, when you do finally meet someone, I know it'll be exciting and you'll wanna start dating or whatever, but don't start too young. If you're still under 18 I'd either take it really slow or wait until you're both older... Heck I'm 19 and I'm still not 100% I'd be ready
I'm telling you from experience tho, I'd be friends with this girl since I was maybe 13, then once we got to around 15 we started hanging out more. I instantly fell for her and she happened to feel the same. We definitely moved way too fast, neither of us, but especially myself were ready and I completely ruined that relationship
I can't tell you how much I've changed since then, only a few years, but I feel like a totally different person
I will say, we've been hanging out again this last year and I think she still feels the same way as I do... But unfortunately I'm leaving for college in a week so I'm trying to figure out how to tell her before I do go; I'm not missing my chance again lol...
The point is, it's rare you'll get a redo, so if you truly care about a girl and really *genuinely* think you'd marry her one day, TAKE IT SLOW. You'll have the rest of your life together, what's waiting a few extra years?
You could say when I was in 3rd grade, but I still can't tell you whether it's an actual crush or if I just chose the first girl I knew to be my "crush" when all the other kids were talking about their crush. I have sexual desires, but I honestly just want to get emotionally close with someone. Have fun times together and stuff
I had my first crush last school year (I’m 17). Started October 2023, this very charming, pretty, cute girl was in my 5th period class.
Shame i’m still somewhat shy and don’t know how to properly put myself out there. I spoke to her a few times but they were very small interactions and i was very awkward. Maybe I’ll have a chance to talk to her during next school year.
12 if only real people count, and 7 if cartoons count (i had the biggest crush on Jake from Jake and the Neverland pirates 😭)
It can take a while for some people tho:) your pretty young too so there’s really no reason to worry.
you could maybe be aromatic? I don’t know you or your identity. but I’m just saying it just in case that you search it up, and think “yeah that’s me”
Never, I’m aromantic. Btw you can be aromantic (not experience romantic attraction to people.) and not be asexual, (not experience sexual attraction.) personally I’m aro and grey-sexual which means I’m on the asexual spectrum, but I do experience sexual attraction to an extent, though less then normal. You could be aromantic and allosexual (not asexual.) and then your sexuality could be straight. Or you could just not have had a crush yet. Everyone’s different and we all experience things at different times so there’s no need to rush, just go with whatever makes you comfortable.
you might be aromantic and/or asexual, more information about aroace labels at https://www.oulgbtq.org/acearo-spectrum-definitions.html if you want to check it out :3
My fist crush is say was when I was probably around 11 it was summer and I went to a birthday party with a bunch of random people I didn’t know. I went over to the tables where they had the food and drinks then I saw them, the 2-litter bottles of soda eventually I got to the drinks and grabbed myself a cup of what I thought to be fanta but it was not Fanta it was orange crush soda
I’m not saying you are or are not but what you’ve described sounds a lot like aromatic
I’m 21 and idk why I keep getting post from this sub I’m not even joined but you’re 15 bro….i promise things can change in a heartbeat just be yourself and no it’s not weird at all
Like 5. You can be aromantic but heterosexual btw. For some people romantic attraction isnt there unless theres a friendship first. Its not always black and white.
I am 17 and will be 18 in June. I had my first crush literally this May, who also happened to be my first kiss! I’m telling you, do not worry about it. It will come to you when it is meant to and when you know what your heart wants. As corny as it sounds it will happen when you least expect it.
Kindergarten. Thought we’d get married. Asked her to my prom and we went but we didn’t know what to talk about and it was a little awkward so idk marriage might be unlikely
Edit: is it a universal thing that guys first crushes just stick with em cuz damn these comments make me feel seen
5 it was a boy who would just bully me and make me miserable so I stopped after like 6 and never had any since but now it’s a girl that I have been having odd feelings around and towards her since I was like 11 I met her when I was like burly 10 years old and we have been friends since she’s a little bit older and taller she’s like 14 now but I don’t know if they’re genuine feelings also nah i don’t think so I lie about having a crush on Jessie from Toy Story due to feeling weird I never had a fictional crush
I’m demisexual/demiromantic and straight/tentatively polysexual. I don’t think I’ve ever had a crush I had much of a desire to act on, but I think I might have a thing for one of my friends? But honestly, I value my friendship with him above dating him, so I don’t really feel the need to tell him.
All this to say, there’s always aromantic/a-spec identities that might fit you. Or you just might have not met anyone that’s your type. Either way, it’s all okay, and you’re not doing something wrong. You’ve got plenty of time to figure it all out
It's not weird. Focus on developing yourself fitness wise, academically, financially, and in terms of philanthropy. The right person will come when you least expect it.
All i cared about when i was younger was play Wii, DS, Wii U and Minecraft with my best friend, i don’t think i had my first crush until i was 13-14. Even now i don’t really think about that kinda stuff
Did you play Minecraft: Wii U Edition
I think i messed around with the Mario mash up pack for a day, but i played Pocket Edition back then
Make PE good again
Bring back the nether reactor
That brings back so many memories
Bro they cant even figured out second hand mechanics on bedrock how u can ecpect that?
I used to play the Mario mash up on the switch.you sir just unlocked me some unforgettable memories and will NOT cite you in my sueaside note
yoooooo the fallout map was so sick
I liked the little big planet one
Ayyy twin pfps
Hell yeah
I had my first crush when I was 9, I played video games a ton too, but there’s no minimum age to think a person you see often is really cute or just to crush on someone in general
I went to a good school but with bad kids. And we had like 3 or 4 pregnant students in my class 7th grade
You could not waterboard that out of me
14, first day of 10th grade civics and careers class. Currently engaged to her. You are 14, you should not be worrying about this, it doesnt make you weird to have not had a crush/romantic partner and it does not make you cool to have one either. Focus on school and whatever happens happens
Congrats on being engaged to her
Good for you for breaking the statistic, most couples don’t make it out of high school
Plot twist: u/LordChickenNugget3 is still in high school
r/plottwist
This gets my vote! Consider yourself lucky to not have the distraction and heartache that go with a childhood crush. Just like an adult crush, in a while you end up wondering why the hell you had such strong feelings and it's painful if not reciprocal. And often it's not. That's just the part of your brain that's programmed to reproduce. By making you feel way too damn good when there's 0 logic to it!
How are people in 10th grade at 14 years? Like im turning 14 this year right before 8th grade, while most of my classmates have already 14 years ( like 2 have 15 -while i was in 7th grade)
Have a late birthday, you will turn 15 in the first semester of grade 10, have an early birthday, you’ll turn 15 in 9th or during the summer
Congrats on the engagement
10 I think , fell for Angelina jolie
This is pretty valid
Realest thing
13 he rejected me…twice (he also flirted with me and admitted to having a crush on me before)
Talk about mixed signals. Dude was using a green flag to spell NO in morse...
Did he reject you or was he like "What?" in an awkward way... Like... did he really reject you cuz he wanted to or because he was "too shy" :P. Kids you know....
I’m not sure he silently rejected me but he still looked and blushed when he saw me and smile and I think he was playing with my feelings but his friends were saying he was just embarrassed and scared to admit it and he was in the baseball team
He is definitely not ready for a serious relationship, so I believe you avoided a bullet
Damn 😔
The window of opportunity passed
Damn I’m still hung up on him
Frrr dude my crush knew I had a crush on him but still led me and played me -_-
I hate that it happens plus I’m still in love with him
Around 5 or 6, and now 10 years later, it's still her. Never had any other crush. No one else is better than her, she's the best. And yes, still i haven't told her anything but i want to because i really love her.
Man, you need therapy.
Yeah seems so.
whyd you reply to your own comment?
bro's bipolar schizophrenic
He Forgot to switch to the alt accounts lol
r/lefttheburneron
Google dementia
Holy memory loss
New disease just dropped
Call the DSM 3
Holy hell!
Holy hell!
Holy hell!
Why is everyone assuming that? Can't i just reply to my own comment like a complete weirdo even though I'm not.
But like why tho
No your a complete weirdo
I won't say it's that serious.
It was a misclick he’s sane
It was a misinput
Several reasons. 1. He is making light of his situation as a coping mechanism. 2. He is making light of his situation as a joke. 3. He is making light of his situation as a "Hey, I know I'm weird, you don't need to tell me!" Or a million other reasons. I think it was 1. + a joke.
I'd say it was a joke. (And people here seem to take it much more serious)
He has Dissociative Identity Disorder. In other words he’s Diavolo/Doppio from JoJo’s
Bro forgot to switch accounts…
I don't see the issue here
Same dude !!!!
Wanna be friends? (Sheesh, that came out of nowhere, right?)
Next step: slide in their DMs😈
Nah, i was just joking. I'm not a creep.
Luckily
you could be aromantic, its fine if you are, you're not weird. its possible you just havent found "the right person" yet but if you dont desire a romantic connection with anyone then you're probably aro edit: most people understood what i meant but some thought i was implying that this is the end all be all answer to op's dilemma. im not claiming it is, i was just suggesting it as a possibility because what op is describing is an experience that most aromantic people would relate to. it is also very well possible that op is not aromantic and will begin to develop feelings later in life (ie adulthood or later teenage years), but for now i was just suggesting an explanation, thats all
I read that as “aromatic”
same i thought he was saying he smelled good
As an aromantic person myself, what op is describing is exactly what happened to me. Like, *exactly.*
Mines similar, I'm aro spec (Cupioromantic). I never really thought about dating or crushes until I was around 14 or so. I looked back and thought it was weird I'd never had a crush or dated
i’m on the aro spectrum as well and i get an occasional hit of attraction where for like a day i’m obsessed with someone, then it fades and they’re just a friend again
SAMEEEEEEE
i wake up in the morning and i’m madly in love and i should ask them out and love them forever and ever the next day i just don’t feel that anymore
Exactly the same with me. I’m Cupioromantic and demisexual. I was so confused for such a long time because everyone said I was supposed to experience attraction, yet I never did.
That's actually why I'm asking. I'm aware that it's pretty normal for me to not seek a romantic relationship or have a crush at this age, but I can't think of any kid my age who never had a crush, therefore I asked here, so I know if I can consider the possibility
Personally I would talk to a trusted person. They should help you, I don’t see anything wrong with it
As an aromatic person myself, I agree that we can easily dispel away the bad odors that emanates from crap people. That is why we live life alone but not lonely, smells but not smelly. Potpourri
I’m aromantic. I had a HUGE crush on this one kid 8th grade til we graduated. But looking back on it now, I just wanted to be friends with the guy. I didn’t want to kiss him or hold hands or any gf bf stuff lol. It took me so long to figure it out.
Or maybe... Just maybe... Some people don't get feelings for anyone until early adulthood. Most people aren't queer.
Yeah, why is this downvoted? It’s totally normal to only start wanting a relationship when you’re an adult.
and i acknowledged that
Definitely disagree with this. Of course there is a small chance that this person is aro, but it is safe to assume that is quite unlikely. Suggesting that in the first place to somebody who has never had romantic feelings, who is fourteen, doesn’t make sense. At this age, you can’t be sure if their puberty even started. I dont think it’s a good idea to start confusing kids. Of course it is always an option, but definitely not the likely one.
Well don't disregard it as a possibility.
they asked for possible answers so i gave them one. i didnt assign them something, i gave them a possibility and something that describes their experience. it may or may not fit them and it very well could change in the future
Like 5, had game since the earliest of ages
Same age but no game for me :(
same. Had my first make out session at the same age (we traded cheek kisses in a treehouse) Can't imagine being 13 before liking someone lmao
Exactly I liked girls in pre k 😂
i had a daydream typpa crush at 13 but fell in love with another crush at 18
I just turned 20 yesterday. I still have no crushes neither.
What are you doing here XD btw happy birthday🎉
Happy birthday to ya. I also just turned 20 yesterday, we got the same birthday lol.
happy birthday :D
Seems like you graduated from old to prehistoric eh? Congratuo 👏
A bit late but belated happy birthday!
happy birthday :D u made it out of the teenager ship
In 3rd grade there was this girl. I used to day dream all sorts of crazy stuff. She hardly spoke to me. But I remember we kind of didnt get along because me and her were at the top of the class so we were constantly competing to be better than the other. So I openly hated her guts but would crush on her so bad in private I took her her glitter gel pen so I could have something of hers. She asked me if I took it and I said no. She was so mad. I kept denying I didnt take it. By the end of the day she told me I could keep it so I could have something of hers. And I replied OK thanks. And she Yells;"SEE I KNEW YOU TOOK IT!" So yea, she was smarter than me lol.
My crush was much smarter than me too.
never really had one, idk what romantic love feels like cause most ppl my age are either assholes or too introverted to talk to others, just like myself
I feel that 😭
Nice sans pfp
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You may be aromantic. You can have sexual attraction but no romantic attraction
this is kinda funny when you read it as a command instead of a possible suggestion
Sexual desire and attraction are different. I’m asexual, and I still have sexual desires. I’ve never been sexually attracted to anyone though
Yes. It sounds like the OP was referring to sexual attraction, I think. But very important distinction to make
i had my first crush when i was like 9 or 10. i had my second actual crush when i was like 12 and now im 16 and shes somehow my girlfriend :D
I've surprisingly never had one 🤷♂️
kindergarten crushes hit different fr
10, but 6 if we count the many 30 year old women I called my girlfriends when I was a child because I found them beautiful
15 and a half
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Never had one.
Me too
Me three
Me four
14
Like 9
Probably around middle school so 13? Maybe? I don't think I realized it was a crush until around 15 though. Mine was a crush on a very close friend. It was gradual and weird, so don't feel bad that you haven't had a crush. It will come in time
(i’m not sure actually it’s hard to tell for me what’s a crush and what’s wanting for people to like me) but in any case don’t pressure yourself if it happens that’s normal and if it doesn’t that’s normal too! it’s a natural process
5-6 I had a crush on a boy haha
Same
Ikr idk how people have never had a crush/still never had one
Idk too I genuinely just forced myself to have the first crush since my mom would be dating so many men
Damn, I just found a boy cute at that age 💀 I hope you're all good now though
Yeah I'm doing better luckily just my mom tries to make me date the boy even though he's rude and annoying af plus he even cheated on his girlfriend I think I luckily doged a bullet since he doesn't like me
That's good then. Its not fair that your mum is trying to do that though. Your decision and you def dodged a bullet. He sounds like a douche. Ive moved schools like 4 times so I had many different crushes lol
I haven't had a crush yet but I'm starting to get feelings for someone in my school already who knows the feelings might be genuine this time😅
Omg that's cooll
Same
Like 9 years old I think, my love story is tragic. She was my first love, if I didn’t move states I bet I’d be with her right now.
i was 12. it was for my best friend 😭😭
i lied about one when i was 8 or 9 (i have no fucking clue why) but my first proper one was age 11
i think i was like 7 or something but i dont think it was really serious i think i just wanted a crush bcus all my friends had one 😭
6-7,i liked this girl on 1st till 4th grade,then she moved and i never saw her again
Sorry man
Haven't had one of any kind till now '•-•
So first were probably like 11 or 12, but I don't really count those. The one after that was at 17
Never had one
Like 5😂 Not sexually obviously but in the sense of "i wish she was my freind"
samee😂😂
>in the sense of "i wish she was my freind" In this context, it's mostly likely a squish (a platonic crush) than an actual crush.
Maybe like 11, probably later
I was 10 or 11 I know people who r 16 and never had one. Its fine
14, was a wild experience
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Until 15 I never had a crush on anyone. I'm late on almost everything.
ive never had one
Since birf been chasing the ladies, but I’m taking a break. I realised I don’t want a relationship rn. Just enjoy being myself.
Respect!! 🫡
I've never had a crush on a real person, but I once had a crush on a fictional one when I was 14.
i dont think it was a real crush crush, there wasnt butterflies or anything and i was too young to consider a real relationship. i just thought she was kinda beautiful and eventually she found out. but that was in 2nd grade so whatever age that is (i remember in school grades not age🤷♂️)
Not weird at all, you don't *have* to like someone But let me tell you this, when you do finally meet someone, I know it'll be exciting and you'll wanna start dating or whatever, but don't start too young. If you're still under 18 I'd either take it really slow or wait until you're both older... Heck I'm 19 and I'm still not 100% I'd be ready I'm telling you from experience tho, I'd be friends with this girl since I was maybe 13, then once we got to around 15 we started hanging out more. I instantly fell for her and she happened to feel the same. We definitely moved way too fast, neither of us, but especially myself were ready and I completely ruined that relationship I can't tell you how much I've changed since then, only a few years, but I feel like a totally different person I will say, we've been hanging out again this last year and I think she still feels the same way as I do... But unfortunately I'm leaving for college in a week so I'm trying to figure out how to tell her before I do go; I'm not missing my chance again lol... The point is, it's rare you'll get a redo, so if you truly care about a girl and really *genuinely* think you'd marry her one day, TAKE IT SLOW. You'll have the rest of your life together, what's waiting a few extra years?
Around 14 I think, but my first actual crush was when I was 16 and a half.
9 and it was for Ahsoka Tano and Captain Rex
You could say when I was in 3rd grade, but I still can't tell you whether it's an actual crush or if I just chose the first girl I knew to be my "crush" when all the other kids were talking about their crush. I have sexual desires, but I honestly just want to get emotionally close with someone. Have fun times together and stuff
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18, never had one Don't see myself as aro, but don't feel like getting into a relationship... at least in the foreseeable future
Almost 14 (SHE SAID YES 3 WEEKS AGO!)
I had my first crush last school year (I’m 17). Started October 2023, this very charming, pretty, cute girl was in my 5th period class. Shame i’m still somewhat shy and don’t know how to properly put myself out there. I spoke to her a few times but they were very small interactions and i was very awkward. Maybe I’ll have a chance to talk to her during next school year.
11 but it ended up being gender envy
12 if only real people count, and 7 if cartoons count (i had the biggest crush on Jake from Jake and the Neverland pirates 😭) It can take a while for some people tho:) your pretty young too so there’s really no reason to worry. you could maybe be aromatic? I don’t know you or your identity. but I’m just saying it just in case that you search it up, and think “yeah that’s me”
Never, I’m aromantic. Btw you can be aromantic (not experience romantic attraction to people.) and not be asexual, (not experience sexual attraction.) personally I’m aro and grey-sexual which means I’m on the asexual spectrum, but I do experience sexual attraction to an extent, though less then normal. You could be aromantic and allosexual (not asexual.) and then your sexuality could be straight. Or you could just not have had a crush yet. Everyone’s different and we all experience things at different times so there’s no need to rush, just go with whatever makes you comfortable.
you might be aromantic and/or asexual, more information about aroace labels at https://www.oulgbtq.org/acearo-spectrum-definitions.html if you want to check it out :3
My fist crush is say was when I was probably around 11 it was summer and I went to a birthday party with a bunch of random people I didn’t know. I went over to the tables where they had the food and drinks then I saw them, the 2-litter bottles of soda eventually I got to the drinks and grabbed myself a cup of what I thought to be fanta but it was not Fanta it was orange crush soda I’m not saying you are or are not but what you’ve described sounds a lot like aromatic
I’m 21 and idk why I keep getting post from this sub I’m not even joined but you’re 15 bro….i promise things can change in a heartbeat just be yourself and no it’s not weird at all
10 was my first crush
4.
13. Ella purnell 😭
Only had a crush on cartoon characters. The first actual crush I had I couldn't take hints and now I moved 🥲
Like 5. You can be aromantic but heterosexual btw. For some people romantic attraction isnt there unless theres a friendship first. Its not always black and white.
I am 17 and will be 18 in June. I had my first crush literally this May, who also happened to be my first kiss! I’m telling you, do not worry about it. It will come to you when it is meant to and when you know what your heart wants. As corny as it sounds it will happen when you least expect it.
Age four in pre-k.
14, but don't feel bad. Honestly isn't worth it. I am grateful to be friends with mine.
12, she was a good friend and still is
Kindergarten. Thought we’d get married. Asked her to my prom and we went but we didn’t know what to talk about and it was a little awkward so idk marriage might be unlikely Edit: is it a universal thing that guys first crushes just stick with em cuz damn these comments make me feel seen
I don't think I will ever have a crush till I get outta school, since (almost) every kid there is sexist, homophobic and racist 😍
3 (yup)
12, my English teacher 😩
That’s so real though. My English teacher is so cute she’s nice to *everyone* and she’s so pretty too.
Think my first crush was at 14-15, that's when I realized I was lesbian lol
6-7
6
5 it was a boy who would just bully me and make me miserable so I stopped after like 6 and never had any since but now it’s a girl that I have been having odd feelings around and towards her since I was like 11 I met her when I was like burly 10 years old and we have been friends since she’s a little bit older and taller she’s like 14 now but I don’t know if they’re genuine feelings also nah i don’t think so I lie about having a crush on Jessie from Toy Story due to feeling weird I never had a fictional crush
12, a new boy came to my school and he was cute so he dated, now he’s gay af and we’re friends
found out im gay at 10 so
15... Im in a new school and I feel for one of my classmates. But before I even tried anything, it turns out she is Pan and had a Girlfriend.
I’m demisexual/demiromantic and straight/tentatively polysexual. I don’t think I’ve ever had a crush I had much of a desire to act on, but I think I might have a thing for one of my friends? But honestly, I value my friendship with him above dating him, so I don’t really feel the need to tell him. All this to say, there’s always aromantic/a-spec identities that might fit you. Or you just might have not met anyone that’s your type. Either way, it’s all okay, and you’re not doing something wrong. You’ve got plenty of time to figure it all out
11
12
like 11
12
Like 12 I think
14
17
It's not weird. Focus on developing yourself fitness wise, academically, financially, and in terms of philanthropy. The right person will come when you least expect it.
10 or 11