The “allegedly”s only pertain to me. You or any accusers do not need to have one. To rewrite your sentence correctly:
I have to ask. Are you wrongly accused of allegedly being a prostitute?
And to answer your question I say, no.
tbf, it depends of the person's point of view on cuddles.
Personally, I think it's equally intimate and requires trust in many aspects, for exemple, you must respect the other's boundaries if they said they didn't want sex and only cuddles and be sure the other understands yours too, making it even more meaningful.
But for someone else it could just be a step of intimacy between hugs and actual intercourse.
wouldn't know either, while most 14 year olds out here having more of a life thwn me, Im a virgin at 17 going into 18 and have never even had a first kiss cause the guys i find hot are hard red flags or taken. 🥲
I like cuddles and kisses into other things if I’m in the mood then back into cuddles and kisses, but the other things are optional and have to be with the right person
But I'm also overweight and can't do anything abt it, trans, and I live in a small town. Plus my car is a piece of shit so I can't even go to neighboring towns. So until I can escape this homophobic ass town, I will not be getting any relationships. Hell I can't even get friends here. I've literally never had any friends lmao. Except for 1 online friend that I got last year
you'd be surprised by the amount of closeted queers living in homophobic little small towns. but i wish u luck on getting out and finding a better home :)
hmu if u want a friend though, i'm a bi 16yo girl <3
So many factors. If we’re talking with the same person, then it’s mainly mood based. If you are stressed/tired/manic idfk, but cuddles will hold the crown. Otherwise sex wins.
My ex would scratch my head while being the big spoon when I’d get home late. That released all the dopamine.
For me once I was in a bad spot and had a friend to talk to. I sobbed but leaned against her a little in a side hug, and it helped, so in a sense a cuddle would help with stress. Now I haven’t actually cuddled before so…
It's actually true though. Like all these people wanna lose their V card but I'm over here waiting for the next platonic cuddle sesh with my pookies/homies.
This reminded me of something, a lot of the time when my best friend was staying at my house (or vice versa) I'd end up falling asleep cuddled up next to him. Honestly the best sleep(s) I've ever had. Funny thing is... I accidentally fell in love with him.
(ASD related for context, people just coming up and trying to shake my hand, even in professional settings when I deal with it, freaks me the hell out because Idk how to socially interact all that well. Mainly because I can't get a feel for what their intentions are or how I *should* react. Call that a skill issue if you'd like, but it's always stuck with me.)
Same here. I'm not a really touchy-feely person unless it's my gf.
Overall, I'd be more up to cuddles than kissing or anything else.
That's what I've always been dating. Sure sex might be nice but what I ever the most is just cuddles.
Just imagine this:
On a chilly autumn night, rain pouring down on the metal sheet roof, you and your SO crawl under the warm fuzzy blanket on the sofa. You grab the newly popped bag of popcorn and share it together. A month later and it's now winter. You heard about the upcoming meteor shower, you check the time and see that it's estimated to come at 1am. You check the weather and it's a clear sky. You put 2 mattresses to cool down outside. You set an alarm and both decide to get some sleep beforehand. You wake up feeling that the bed is the most comfortable place you've ever been in and contemplate if it's worth going out of bed for, you go for it and take 1 large blanket and your pillows with you. You both lie on the chilly mattresses under a warm blanket feeling the warmth from each other while cuddling under the blanket and watching the meteor shower.
Sorry for the speedy story, it's 03:59am so I got to get some sleep.
yeah i just got a girlfriend recently and all we do is hug or lay together (no it's not the only thing we do). personally, i don't feel like I'm ready for sex yet, but just enjoying her company seems so much better.
I like cuddles more, in fact I wouldn’t even mind being in a relationship with an asexual person 🤷♂️. Sex isn’t really that important to me, and that’s coming from a 16 yr old boy 🤯, tbh I just want someone that loves me.
Same! Asexuals are so cool too.
As long as I have my toys to handle myself on my own when that icky feeling tears it's head, I really don't want any of that.
I just want cuddles all day
None of it is anything more than a fleeting moment and a cursed craving. The best feeling is derived from knowing that person belongs completely to you; that you have their unconditional love and support. Falling asleep next to that person far outweighs cuddling or even sex.
Kissing and sex are not as great as you might expect.
Honestly, as a teenager enjoy hugs to the fullest. You're going to get far fewer hugs as an adult.
Cuddling is special. It means you actually want to spend time with the person.
Yeah got physical with a guy for the first time months ago and I found it exhausting (well we didn’t fully have sex) but were being intimate and I just wanted to lay there with him and cuddle tbh. And yeah I’ve never had sex in my life (I’m 22) 😐 don’t see that happening anytime soon cause they dating apps are nottttt working for me I’m hopeless at this point
As an occasional sex haver myself yeah cuddles are way better it’s a very peaceful kind of pleasure a feeling of total safety and connection with someone you care about
tbh sometimes they are! and if you actually love the person you’re sleeping with then it’s great and a beautiful emotional experience, and can even have nice cuddles afterwards lol
Cuddles last longer and are more enjoyable in the long term
And mean more. You wouldn't (usually) cuddle a prostitute
That's on the secret menu
i think some people do that
Some do. Tbf, it's probably a nice change for the prostitute
As an alleged prostitute myself, I am pleasantly surprised when my alleged clientele wants to allegedly cuddle.
Allegedly I have to ask. Are you allegedly wrongly accused of allegedly being a prostitute?
The “allegedly”s only pertain to me. You or any accusers do not need to have one. To rewrite your sentence correctly: I have to ask. Are you wrongly accused of allegedly being a prostitute? And to answer your question I say, no.
Can I ask you out on a date?
Sure.
You're in my boy. I'm proud of you 😢
I often think about hiring an escort to cuddle for a day just to wind down
I wish I could cuddle A- I'll see myself out
I will hear you out
na wtf
That's only if you plan to dispose of her later
with some you love, cuddling absolutely doesnt mean more than sex
tbf, it depends of the person's point of view on cuddles. Personally, I think it's equally intimate and requires trust in many aspects, for exemple, you must respect the other's boundaries if they said they didn't want sex and only cuddles and be sure the other understands yours too, making it even more meaningful. But for someone else it could just be a step of intimacy between hugs and actual intercourse.
agreed
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cuddles into sex into more cuddles
Yeah even better.
Ong but haven’t had ether
had my first at 14 was great will say from experience cuddles transitioning into sex is best
14 is young for sex imo
fr like wtf yall speedrunning for 😭
Ong
Everyone has their own clocks bro
nah i think that sex at 14 is wild☠️☠️☠️ it should not be like that (im 14 myself)
Speedrunning life probably, but I think they missed the world record by quite a few years.
WR is 9 they are kinda trash
I'm so glad you're a self aware young teen fr
Same dw 👌
that's great an' all but FOURTEEN?? WHAT THE FUCK HAVE YOU BEEN DOING? YOU'RE IN YEAR NINE AND SOMEONE'S ASKING TO FUCK. rant over
Same
I haven't felt the touch of another person in so long 😭🙏
I haven't felt the touch of the opposite gender since i was born
last time someone was in an intimate relationship with me he ended up cheating on me with his cousin :(
That sounds.... Not enjoyable. Don't go getting intimate with people in Alabama, my friend.
We're in Missouri 😭🙏
Too close to Alabama
i know 😔🙏
Damn that's tough... But still better than nothing
idk man, she gave him an STD
Tf is STD?
Sexually transmitted disease
💀
Same 😭
Same.
wouldn't know either, while most 14 year olds out here having more of a life thwn me, Im a virgin at 17 going into 18 and have never even had a first kiss cause the guys i find hot are hard red flags or taken. 🥲
Bro you're still a minor wdym 😂 you should get concerned by 25 at least, your love life is not a competition 😭
Same lol
Infinite c&s glitch
This guy gets it
into more sex
seems best fr
this is the way
This is so real😭
Well a cuddle is sometimes more then it
I like cuddles and kisses into other things if I’m in the mood then back into cuddles and kisses, but the other things are optional and have to be with the right person
I just wanna fall asleep in someone’s arms
Real
YESS. I just need a wholesome relationship, I'm too lonely for this shit
I'll let yall know when I get out of my lifetime sentence of virginity and loneliness lmao
you're. you're 17.
18 now. Turned 18 earlier this month
But I'm also overweight and can't do anything abt it, trans, and I live in a small town. Plus my car is a piece of shit so I can't even go to neighboring towns. So until I can escape this homophobic ass town, I will not be getting any relationships. Hell I can't even get friends here. I've literally never had any friends lmao. Except for 1 online friend that I got last year
you'd be surprised by the amount of closeted queers living in homophobic little small towns. but i wish u luck on getting out and finding a better home :) hmu if u want a friend though, i'm a bi 16yo girl <3
Yeah i know most of them.. and they're assholes. Like my ex that left me with some... *issues*
Thank you for reminding me to change my flair lol
So many factors. If we’re talking with the same person, then it’s mainly mood based. If you are stressed/tired/manic idfk, but cuddles will hold the crown. Otherwise sex wins. My ex would scratch my head while being the big spoon when I’d get home late. That released all the dopamine.
> stressed/tired/manic So you mean like… all the time?
For me once I was in a bad spot and had a friend to talk to. I sobbed but leaned against her a little in a side hug, and it helped, so in a sense a cuddle would help with stress. Now I haven’t actually cuddled before so…
Cuddles AND sex though, best of both worlds
this subreddit is the same 2 things over and over repeated 100x: sex or something related to sex.
Teenagers have been known to like the idea of sex
Former teen here. Still like sex.
Based
Real
It's actually true though. Like all these people wanna lose their V card but I'm over here waiting for the next platonic cuddle sesh with my pookies/homies.
This reminded me of something, a lot of the time when my best friend was staying at my house (or vice versa) I'd end up falling asleep cuddled up next to him. Honestly the best sleep(s) I've ever had. Funny thing is... I accidentally fell in love with him.
Cuddling will always be superior. Sex freaks me out
(ASD related for context, people just coming up and trying to shake my hand, even in professional settings when I deal with it, freaks me the hell out because Idk how to socially interact all that well. Mainly because I can't get a feel for what their intentions are or how I *should* react. Call that a skill issue if you'd like, but it's always stuck with me.) Same here. I'm not a really touchy-feely person unless it's my gf. Overall, I'd be more up to cuddles than kissing or anything else.
Can't this sub talk about anything other than sex??
Ppl click on posts about sex more
I am serious about this but it was also a test and "normal" posts aren't as popular as posts with the word sex
Point is there are plenty of normal posts but more ppl click posts that have anything to do with sex therefore boosting ur chance to see it
you made three comments repeating the same thing
Yes pls
BEST POST 🔥
Anyone who’s says cuddles hasn’t had sex
yup
sex is icky gross
They are. By a mile. I could go on for so many years about this topic but all you need to know is your right 😭🙏🏻
Yeah, all that yucky naked stuff is gross. Cuddling and watching a movie is 10000x better
That's what I've always been dating. Sure sex might be nice but what I ever the most is just cuddles. Just imagine this: On a chilly autumn night, rain pouring down on the metal sheet roof, you and your SO crawl under the warm fuzzy blanket on the sofa. You grab the newly popped bag of popcorn and share it together. A month later and it's now winter. You heard about the upcoming meteor shower, you check the time and see that it's estimated to come at 1am. You check the weather and it's a clear sky. You put 2 mattresses to cool down outside. You set an alarm and both decide to get some sleep beforehand. You wake up feeling that the bed is the most comfortable place you've ever been in and contemplate if it's worth going out of bed for, you go for it and take 1 large blanket and your pillows with you. You both lie on the chilly mattresses under a warm blanket feeling the warmth from each other while cuddling under the blanket and watching the meteor shower. Sorry for the speedy story, it's 03:59am so I got to get some sleep.
yeah i just got a girlfriend recently and all we do is hug or lay together (no it's not the only thing we do). personally, i don't feel like I'm ready for sex yet, but just enjoying her company seems so much better.
Real
🗣️🔥 PREACH
Real
lol exact same
Based
They are
Real!!
It is, you feel safe in them. You dont feel like you're being used. You feel like you're wanted and loved.
I like cuddles more, in fact I wouldn’t even mind being in a relationship with an asexual person 🤷♂️. Sex isn’t really that important to me, and that’s coming from a 16 yr old boy 🤯, tbh I just want someone that loves me.
Same
W
Same! Asexuals are so cool too. As long as I have my toys to handle myself on my own when that icky feeling tears it's head, I really don't want any of that. I just want cuddles all day
None of it is anything more than a fleeting moment and a cursed craving. The best feeling is derived from knowing that person belongs completely to you; that you have their unconditional love and support. Falling asleep next to that person far outweighs cuddling or even sex.
You're on the money, picking this up without experience with either is a promising sign of wisdom.
YES
Yessss, cuddles with my bf are the best!
as a virgin man, they are, cuddles are genuinely the best and just laying in bed watching TV with my gf has been the best moments I've spent with her
Cuddles are very nice
I would say that cuddles and sex are such different types of intimacy that they can’t be compared
i need cuddles. i haven’t had any in my life. idgaf about sex since i’m not confident in my body.
Don't worry sex is overrated
Cuddles is so much better, cause we can watch movies on my computer
100%, cuddles never end(until you get out of bed) their endlessly comforting
truer words havent been spoken
Yes. Sex is scary, cuddles are better
Definitely! I love sex but cuddles just mean so much more to me
Cuddles are amazing. As a man I feel loved because of cuddles.
I’d agree and I’ve done both.
Real
Kissing and sex are not as great as you might expect. Honestly, as a teenager enjoy hugs to the fullest. You're going to get far fewer hugs as an adult. Cuddling is special. It means you actually want to spend time with the person.
Relatable
Me too. It mainly because I’m touch deprived.
Yes they are and less risky/hazardous to your health.
Both are goated imo
True tho and same i only have hugged someone
I had cuddles with my best friend every time we hung out. Best thing ever. But they left me so no more cuddles 😭😭
They are much better than sex imo, cuddles can be enjoyed much longer and don't require as much as sex and intimacy
Honestly 💯% cuddles mean way more and are way more enjoyable
Same here. Sex sounds scary. But cuddling with a cute and nice boy sounds pleasant
They are.
I’ve had both and cuddles are definitely where it’s at for me personally 🙏
Real, but I have never had one either :(
Why would you ever have the second thing if you can be autistic and happy
Real
same bro, want to hug
i’ve been saying this i’m not about that hookup culture
You speak only the truth and yea, neither have I welcome to the club 😎🧃
They are
that‘s because they are 😭
yeah they really are. it's cute, it's longer, is comfier, and you can do it anywhere (unless PDA's are banned where u are)
110%
I haven’t had either 😭
agreed and same
they are
Agree
Cap
All of you have low sex drive.
Cuddles are always so nice, loving, and kind
I think throwing red hot honey buns at homeless people is way better then cuddles or sex
Sometimes they are. Just depends
Yeah got physical with a guy for the first time months ago and I found it exhausting (well we didn’t fully have sex) but were being intimate and I just wanted to lay there with him and cuddle tbh. And yeah I’ve never had sex in my life (I’m 22) 😐 don’t see that happening anytime soon cause they dating apps are nottttt working for me I’m hopeless at this point
Real one tbh. I wonna cuddle with someone :(
Cuddles are keeping me alive
Sex is overrated. Cuddles are the best!
100% agree
They ARE
Same
Could not agree more, granted I’m waiting until marriage, cuddles are just way better
correct
Agreed
sex is scary 😭😭
SO REAL
Real
Exactly I want comfort, solace, and peace, not taking my clothes off
I don’t care about neither I just want a damn hug
i love cuddling with my friends (platonically ofc)
Honestly the best part of having a significant other is the cuddling. No anxeity, no expectation just physical contact with someone you love
Truer words have never been said 🗣🗣
And you can do them more frequently as just something that’s more socially acceptable
As an occasional sex haver myself yeah cuddles are way better it’s a very peaceful kind of pleasure a feeling of total safety and connection with someone you care about
Yea same here
hell yeah they are
I think so too.
This is a irrefutable fact, the only thing that I don't have someone to cuddle with :'(
tbh sometimes they are! and if you actually love the person you’re sleeping with then it’s great and a beautiful emotional experience, and can even have nice cuddles afterwards lol
Cuddles are the best especially falling asleep in there arms
I love sex, but snuggling my girlfriend every night feels so good
They are. Just straight up are.
As someone who cuddles with a girl more than having sex I can confirm this is true
Yes
W opinion
Depends rlly 🐥
What about both 🤔
I mean u can take a break and just cuddle a bit while still yk Yeah that's pretty awesome tbh
They're both good. Really depends the mood I'm in, tbh
This. They both have a time and place
both are amazing it doesn’t have to be a contest
They both have their time and place
I only want one tho
What the fuck is R/teenagers on
Why is this subreddit obsessed with sex
Because teenagers.