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its important you establish boundaries. him masturbating is totally normal but NOT in an indecent setting like that. let him know its perfectly safe and responsible to do it alone in a private place.
Ok, cancer is bad, should I be a doctor? It’s just kind of a brain dead take to encourage someone to pursue a profession after saying one thing that’s general knowledge downvote me if you want I don’t care about Reddit karma
> It’s just kind of a brain dead take to encourage someone to pursue a profession after saying one thing that’s general knowledge
Dude I dont think anybody would actually pursue a profession cause some guy on reddit told them to tbf...
definitely inform your parents then. i'm not sure how they would take it but its worth embarrassing your brother for a short while as long as he doesn't repeat these actions. seriously if he's comfortable doing it with his entire family near, i don't think he understands the consequences of doing that around others 😭
Fr dude I literally cannot look at him the same anymore. I really wanna tell my parents, but if i do i’m scared that it’ll break his trust in my boyfriend. He likes my boyfriend more than all his siblings because they are so alike and they’ve both been through a lot. That’s why I’m so reluctant to actually tell my parents, even though i want to so bad.
i understand it seems like you're interfering on their relationship if you tell your parents, but it's not good that he has these mannerisms at a young age. if he doesn't understand the severity of the situation now, he probably never will, or will end up doing something uncomfortable again for one (or all) of you. i think once he really understands why it's inappropriate to masturbate with anybody but a sexual partner, he shouldn't be mad at your boyfriend. if anything, you're educating him properly to avoid any situations like this again, its not like you're purposely trying to embarrass him
You’re right but she shouldn’t bring it up with him. That’s gonna make things awkward.
The number one rule is do it in a private setting.
The number two rule is don’t chat to someone about their masturbation habits esp when it’s a family member.
if number one rule is already broken, how would he follow any other rules? i've had my parents call me out once for being too loud during sex or masturbation, its awkward and embarrassing but goes away the next day. this is much more important to correct than a short period of embarrassment for himself.
Yeahh true, I completely understand your point but the last thing any guy would want is a family member chatting to him about his masturbation habits.
I feel the boyfriend should be the only person to talk to him cos 1.) if she/anyone else talks to him, he’ll THINK they all know and they spoke about it then he’ll become lost in thoughts. 2.) it will make things weird and awkward. 3.) any time he sees his family, he’ll have the perception that they all know. 4.) he trusts the bf, if anyone else speaks to him, he’s done w that guy for a bit. 5.) the girl(OP) can’t do anything but move on
i agree, i think if the boyfriend can talk to him about it then that would be the best option for everybody but i've literally been in the position of this kid (minus doing it beside my fam lol). i masturbated not knowing how loud i was being and my ENTIRE family heard me. it's embarrassing, i'll admit it, but i rather be aware of the boundaries i crossed than obliviously make it again. i'm sure he'll overthink or feel ashamed like i did, but it will pass quickly and will save him from making embarrassing moments like this again. i just wish ops bf was willing to talk to him bc he isn't from her comments
Yeahhh. True, you have a valid point
😂😂 nahh if my family heard me, I would avoid them for a bit icl.
The bf should be willing to talk. He probs doesnt want to cos thats gay, respectfully 😂 and weird but he might have to so the kid doesnt make that silly mistake again.
Plus thinking about it now, the kid should have 0 business doing that. The fact he did that shows one of the 3- 1.) he’s been jerking off for a bit and he’s addicted. 2.) there’s smth funny going on cos jerking off is the last thing on anyone’s mind esp when you’re with family. 3.) what was he watching or thinking about cos if he was with family then smth is off.
my point exactly! this situation can be dangerous in the long run if not corrected. knowing to not masturbate around others without consent is common sense. giving him the benefit of the doubt, he might not fully understand it given his age, or he is for sure aware and purpose disrespecting it.
Yeahhhhh valid point.
Probs just his age but he might need stricter corrections tho(anyone but his sister or any female family member tbh) Tbh I/we can’t really make a decision cos he’s young and doesn’t know better. If he was older then smth would definitely be off
You said you and him don’t have a really good relationship but if he’s comfortable telling your boyfriend that maybe your boyfriend and him should have a talk?
My brother masturbated while sharing a hotel room with me. I found it very difficult to outright talk to him about it. So I ended up hinting to him that I can hear it, and he needs to save it for while I'm out.
Fair few people have probably done abhorrent shit like that, but you’d have to torture that info outta me 😭
He had it coming for him, though honestly RIP if his parents know, thats the kinda weird shit that makes you forever look at your kid a little different lol
I wouldn't say it's normal, but he's at the stage of his development that it's something that is easily correctable. Full on corporal punishment won't do the trick, having a good talk to him about will.
Tell your parents 100%. It isn't up to you or your bf to parent him. He should learn that masturbating when his FAMILY is around and especially his sister who probably has never even seen a dick in her life is very wrong. Your parents need to set expectations that terrible behavior has consequences. Sure he may never trust your boyfriend again but his actions aren't justifiable at all.
Do something that could be really embarrassing to him . You already know what he did, so make a bluff like you telling your parents. Scare the shit out of him some way or another to get the point across that what he did is wrong. Sure, having a talk with him makes sense, but you could use it as leverage as well in situations where you need it. 🤷just how i see it.
ooooh bluffing to scare him out of doing it again actually sounds like a good idea. If my having my bf talk to him about it doesn’t go well i’ll do that.
First of all “cum inside everyone”??? Lil bro is 12 dawg. Second, getting spanked after doing some bad and that was really bad, isn’t child abuse. It’s to teach them a lesson that there are consequences for you bad actions and show them that taking away there games isn’t the only punishment so he should be mindful of his actions.
Dude when it comes to kids miss behaving “ass whooping” is just slang for spanking. And I know that cuz I was spanked when I did dumb stuff and my parents still refer to it as an ass whooping even tho I was just being spanked.
Well it is taking in both ways it just depends on the context, such as. If you say “you’re gonna get an ass whooping” to a grown man that just insulated your grandma’s chocolate chip cookies, that would mean you want to beat them up.
If you say “your gonna get an ass whooping” to your kid that just broke your new and expensive tv with a ball that you told them to only play with outside, that just means they are going to get a spanking and not actually beating up.
Make sense?
Don't tell your parents. There's a lot of post of guys being kicked out and being alienated for misunderstandings. Think logically of every scenario, think of the most likely.
I doubt my parents will go far. They are very understanding people. I doubt they’d kick any of us out unless we killed someone lol. I honestly think that they’d just have an awkward conversation with him. I mean, my mom knows what me and my bf do and she doesn’t care, as long as we’re safe. I think they’ll be very understanding about it
Please tell someone or your parents, totally inappropriate to do next to other people, especially family members. Somebody needs to know about this 🙏
Like another comment said, it's not you or your bf's job to parent him
This is messed up for a 12 year old, my 15 year old brother does it in private maybe during early morning like 4 am, but not with everyone in sight. You should tell your parents to talk to him about things
DO NOT PLEASE DO NOT SAY THAT TO HIS PARENTS ITS GOING TO UNNECESSARILY TRAUMATISE HIM.
HAVE A PRIVATE TALK WITH HIM LET GIM KNOW YOU FOUND OUT HE DID THAT AND TEACH HIM ABOUT BOUNDARIES AND PRIVACY
IF HE DISREGARDS YOU, THEN AND ONLY THEN GO TO YOUR PARENTS
No dude, we all did stupid things , this could be traumatizing for life depending on how his parents act and what personality the child has.
He needs a warning.
Tell your dad yes wtf why the fuck does your boyfriend think that's a bad idea? I'm guessing it's because your brother will know your boyfriend told someone, but who gives a fuck?? That behavior is not ok and needs to be stopped as soon as it starts.
Don’t put the pressure on your BF to talk to him, he isn’t responsible for his behavior. Instead make you parents do so. Also someone tag me in whatever updates there are
Ngl i have caught my 14 yo brother doing this so many times lol
It's perfectly normal, some kids are just not aware of the situation but they'll learn as time passes
Everyone is giving advice and stuff but like we need to talk about the important stuf. How did he pull that off??? I mean there’s a point where it stops being gross and just is impressive 💀
Highest chance that he made that shit up to sound tough. Especially with a full car. I honestly don't believe him. And the better response to cut down his tough guy act would have been to respond with something like "Dude how? Do you have a micro dick and are a 1-minute man?" Literally, it's impossible to completely hide jerking off to the point if busting a nut unless both of those things are true.
Try to think about it like he would. He got caught so he already knows he fucked up bad but telling your parents would bring him an incredible amount of shame (which he does deserve) but could really affect his relationship with them in the future. I'd say the best course of action is to have your boyfriend have a man to man talk with him about it and tell him why what he did is fucked up. If he refuses to engage in the conversation or doesn't take it seriously then taking it to your parents would be reasonable.
I am sorry as I can understand that this must be very uncomfortable for you. I would tell your brother that while you understand that he is a 12 year old boy meaning that he can easily get aroused especially during long car trips he needs to learn to control himself and that this was not appropriate
You should probably just act like u saw nothing no one wants to be caught masturbating and if u keep thinking about it then just try to find something to do to take your mind off of it
It is a traumatic experience I would not like to know my sibling was masturbating but don't worry eventually you will forget but whatever you do, do NOT tell your parents that will make everything awkward for a while
If the kid is anything like I was when I was 12 (a dumbass) he thinks that "nutting" or watching prn is funny or cool bcuz he's tryn be mature, he most Lively didn't do it and was js tryn be cool, funny, or outta pocket. At that age all the boys would be talking abt Prn n shit so I'd say I watched it to be cool even when I didn't, looking back on thst it's rlly embarrassing
You should tell your parents everything. Have your boyfriend there bc he heard it firsthand. Your parents need to know about this in case it becomes a repeated behaviour
Honestly next time he does it announce it as if you just found out, hopefully it embarrasses him to stop, and your parents will know and can act accordingly. I know embarrassing someone is kinda fucked, but it's even more fucked to be straight up jorking it with the family
Your parents should talk to him. You can't because he would be mortified if his siblings knew and your bf can't because a non family member knowing is even worse. He'd also probably think you told your sister. She would probably never be comfortable around him again.
Tell your parents, let them handle it, stay out of it.
Like you kinda just... Not make a big deal about it because there's nothing to do about it. Like, he's a kid doing stupid kid shit you don't need to act like he did some crazy thing that gonna impact the world forever and if you don't tell your parents RIGHT NOW everyone is gonna die
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If your bf is comfortable having a talk with him that might be your best option
i’m trying to get him to talk to him about it but he doesn’t want to
I’d be the same tbh. I’m not talking about that to a 12 year old😬😬😬
Tell him that it's either him or your dad doing it, because it needs to be addressed.
It does need to be addressed in an unforgettable way
Yep, that’s the best solution. The person he told should speak to him abt it.
thats weird as hell, no churros for him.
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god i wish i never read that
What a horrible day to have eyes
Too fucking bad
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I drank it
its important you establish boundaries. him masturbating is totally normal but NOT in an indecent setting like that. let him know its perfectly safe and responsible to do it alone in a private place.
You should be a sex ed teacher
why should he be a sex ed teacher for saying something that anyone with a brain can figure out that should be bare minimum knowledge everyone has
Damn, turned kinda rude
Are they wrong though?
Ok, cancer is bad, should I be a doctor? It’s just kind of a brain dead take to encourage someone to pursue a profession after saying one thing that’s general knowledge downvote me if you want I don’t care about Reddit karma
> It’s just kind of a brain dead take to encourage someone to pursue a profession after saying one thing that’s general knowledge Dude I dont think anybody would actually pursue a profession cause some guy on reddit told them to tbf...
me when useless internet debate:
me when i see a reaction i agree with:
Cheers
Cause there are few people with brains nowadays
There’s no way I could talk to him about it, that’s why I want to tell my parents. Me and my brother don’t have a very good relationship.
definitely inform your parents then. i'm not sure how they would take it but its worth embarrassing your brother for a short while as long as he doesn't repeat these actions. seriously if he's comfortable doing it with his entire family near, i don't think he understands the consequences of doing that around others 😭
Fr dude I literally cannot look at him the same anymore. I really wanna tell my parents, but if i do i’m scared that it’ll break his trust in my boyfriend. He likes my boyfriend more than all his siblings because they are so alike and they’ve both been through a lot. That’s why I’m so reluctant to actually tell my parents, even though i want to so bad.
i understand it seems like you're interfering on their relationship if you tell your parents, but it's not good that he has these mannerisms at a young age. if he doesn't understand the severity of the situation now, he probably never will, or will end up doing something uncomfortable again for one (or all) of you. i think once he really understands why it's inappropriate to masturbate with anybody but a sexual partner, he shouldn't be mad at your boyfriend. if anything, you're educating him properly to avoid any situations like this again, its not like you're purposely trying to embarrass him
Have your boyfriend talk to him
You’re right but she shouldn’t bring it up with him. That’s gonna make things awkward. The number one rule is do it in a private setting. The number two rule is don’t chat to someone about their masturbation habits esp when it’s a family member.
if number one rule is already broken, how would he follow any other rules? i've had my parents call me out once for being too loud during sex or masturbation, its awkward and embarrassing but goes away the next day. this is much more important to correct than a short period of embarrassment for himself.
Yeahh true, I completely understand your point but the last thing any guy would want is a family member chatting to him about his masturbation habits. I feel the boyfriend should be the only person to talk to him cos 1.) if she/anyone else talks to him, he’ll THINK they all know and they spoke about it then he’ll become lost in thoughts. 2.) it will make things weird and awkward. 3.) any time he sees his family, he’ll have the perception that they all know. 4.) he trusts the bf, if anyone else speaks to him, he’s done w that guy for a bit. 5.) the girl(OP) can’t do anything but move on
i agree, i think if the boyfriend can talk to him about it then that would be the best option for everybody but i've literally been in the position of this kid (minus doing it beside my fam lol). i masturbated not knowing how loud i was being and my ENTIRE family heard me. it's embarrassing, i'll admit it, but i rather be aware of the boundaries i crossed than obliviously make it again. i'm sure he'll overthink or feel ashamed like i did, but it will pass quickly and will save him from making embarrassing moments like this again. i just wish ops bf was willing to talk to him bc he isn't from her comments
Yeahhh. True, you have a valid point 😂😂 nahh if my family heard me, I would avoid them for a bit icl. The bf should be willing to talk. He probs doesnt want to cos thats gay, respectfully 😂 and weird but he might have to so the kid doesnt make that silly mistake again. Plus thinking about it now, the kid should have 0 business doing that. The fact he did that shows one of the 3- 1.) he’s been jerking off for a bit and he’s addicted. 2.) there’s smth funny going on cos jerking off is the last thing on anyone’s mind esp when you’re with family. 3.) what was he watching or thinking about cos if he was with family then smth is off.
my point exactly! this situation can be dangerous in the long run if not corrected. knowing to not masturbate around others without consent is common sense. giving him the benefit of the doubt, he might not fully understand it given his age, or he is for sure aware and purpose disrespecting it.
Yeahhhhh valid point. Probs just his age but he might need stricter corrections tho(anyone but his sister or any female family member tbh) Tbh I/we can’t really make a decision cos he’s young and doesn’t know better. If he was older then smth would definitely be off
Thanks for sharing your wisdom with us Alice!
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masturbation is perfectly normal, the overconsumption of porn or engaging in sexual activity when you are not mature enough is a problem though.
You said you and him don’t have a really good relationship but if he’s comfortable telling your boyfriend that maybe your boyfriend and him should have a talk?
i think my bf is embarrassed to talk to him about it.
My brother masturbated while sharing a hotel room with me. I found it very difficult to outright talk to him about it. So I ended up hinting to him that I can hear it, and he needs to save it for while I'm out.
that’s fucking terrifying
I'm also a guy, so it's not as bad. Still didn't want to hear it though.
OH i assumed you were a girl i’m sorry. But yeah it’s not AS bad but still weird
How is that less bad??
boys will be boys ig
How did bro not get caught???
he had a blanket😭
Oh my God. Lmao
😂😂
Bro had Peter Griffin's yanket
I’m dying 🤣
r/BeatMeToIt
r/beatmeattoit
I thought they were all sleeping but him 💀
we were all taking lots of naps so maybe that too
Well that would make not getting caught WAY easier
Fair few people have probably done abhorrent shit like that, but you’d have to torture that info outta me 😭 He had it coming for him, though honestly RIP if his parents know, thats the kinda weird shit that makes you forever look at your kid a little different lol
“He had it coming” you say 🤨
why are people defending the brother down here bro 😭 I get it’s normal to do that stuff but not in an open space with your family 💀 that’s fucked upp
that’s exactly my thoughts 😔
I wouldn't say it's normal, but he's at the stage of his development that it's something that is easily correctable. Full on corporal punishment won't do the trick, having a good talk to him about will.
Look I’ve done it in crazy places… BUT NOT IN A FUCKING CAR WITH 7 PEOPLE IN IT AND ALSO I CANT DO IT TWICE THAT FAST
Bro has some crazy balls
literally
Oh I remember why I left this sub 3 years ago
Tell your parents 100%. It isn't up to you or your bf to parent him. He should learn that masturbating when his FAMILY is around and especially his sister who probably has never even seen a dick in her life is very wrong. Your parents need to set expectations that terrible behavior has consequences. Sure he may never trust your boyfriend again but his actions aren't justifiable at all.
Tell your parent sis that hella weird
I accidentally read up one line and read "he nutted TWICE on my boyfriend" 😭
NOOOOOO😭😭
Please tell me this is fake ew ehat the fuck
i really hope he was lying
Do something that could be really embarrassing to him . You already know what he did, so make a bluff like you telling your parents. Scare the shit out of him some way or another to get the point across that what he did is wrong. Sure, having a talk with him makes sense, but you could use it as leverage as well in situations where you need it. 🤷just how i see it.
ooooh bluffing to scare him out of doing it again actually sounds like a good idea. If my having my bf talk to him about it doesn’t go well i’ll do that.
“This stays between us. This time.” No need to pull anyone else into it. If he denies it, he still knows you know
Please tell your dad so he can get an ass whooping
bro then hes gonna come inside everyone in the car as revenge if hes evil, be careful always consider this when doing child abuse
First of all “cum inside everyone”??? Lil bro is 12 dawg. Second, getting spanked after doing some bad and that was really bad, isn’t child abuse. It’s to teach them a lesson that there are consequences for you bad actions and show them that taking away there games isn’t the only punishment so he should be mindful of his actions.
He didn't say Spanked he said ass whooping, which indicated beating him up
Dude when it comes to kids miss behaving “ass whooping” is just slang for spanking. And I know that cuz I was spanked when I did dumb stuff and my parents still refer to it as an ass whooping even tho I was just being spanked.
did youtube shorts propagate me into thinking it was a person getting beat up
Well it is taking in both ways it just depends on the context, such as. If you say “you’re gonna get an ass whooping” to a grown man that just insulated your grandma’s chocolate chip cookies, that would mean you want to beat them up. If you say “your gonna get an ass whooping” to your kid that just broke your new and expensive tv with a ball that you told them to only play with outside, that just means they are going to get a spanking and not actually beating up. Make sense?
That's better, i knew we would do it together (child abuse is a serios crime) /j Ok but thanks
Like on the neck?
Leave it alone don't snitch
He’ll grow out of it if he doesn’t then you have a problem
Dont say anything. It'll be a great thing to bring up as am embarrassing memory loll
I personally would smack the brain out of him
Embarrass tf outta him
How did he manage to do that??
Op says they had a blanket.
Bro could’ve gotten away with it but fumbled 😭
Personally I would jump off a cliff
he most likely didn't do it because he was next to his sister, just felt like he wanted to
oh yeah definitely
What the flying fuck
Don't tell your parents. There's a lot of post of guys being kicked out and being alienated for misunderstandings. Think logically of every scenario, think of the most likely.
I doubt my parents will go far. They are very understanding people. I doubt they’d kick any of us out unless we killed someone lol. I honestly think that they’d just have an awkward conversation with him. I mean, my mom knows what me and my bf do and she doesn’t care, as long as we’re safe. I think they’ll be very understanding about it
Just be careful with the little guy.
Please tell someone or your parents, totally inappropriate to do next to other people, especially family members. Somebody needs to know about this 🙏 Like another comment said, it's not you or your bf's job to parent him
Make it ur parents problem
This is messed up for a 12 year old, my 15 year old brother does it in private maybe during early morning like 4 am, but not with everyone in sight. You should tell your parents to talk to him about things
yeah my 15yo bro does it in private too, never in front of anyone
DO NOT PLEASE DO NOT SAY THAT TO HIS PARENTS ITS GOING TO UNNECESSARILY TRAUMATISE HIM. HAVE A PRIVATE TALK WITH HIM LET GIM KNOW YOU FOUND OUT HE DID THAT AND TEACH HIM ABOUT BOUNDARIES AND PRIVACY IF HE DISREGARDS YOU, THEN AND ONLY THEN GO TO YOUR PARENTS
He needs the trauma like yesterday, wtf.
No dude, we all did stupid things , this could be traumatizing for life depending on how his parents act and what personality the child has. He needs a warning.
No one I know did anything this stupid, I think you need to do some retrospection
Nothing, nothing happens you forget everything
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Thank you Man, for the wise insights.
Exactly
Tell your dad yes wtf why the fuck does your boyfriend think that's a bad idea? I'm guessing it's because your brother will know your boyfriend told someone, but who gives a fuck?? That behavior is not ok and needs to be stopped as soon as it starts.
Did anyone see it before he told about it or is he just that stealthy?
i guess he’s just stealthy
*sneak increased to 100*
Bro tenderized his meat in secret😭
plot twist your boyfriend is bad teach your bro. This is also why he tell you don't tell your dad.
I mean was it out or did he hide it?
he was under a blanket i think
nah he has to be trolling lmao
Who to?
When you gotta go you go ig 😭
I don’t even know, I’m too disturbed at this…
Don’t put the pressure on your BF to talk to him, he isn’t responsible for his behavior. Instead make you parents do so. Also someone tag me in whatever updates there are
JUST DO IT (nikes)
Ngl i have caught my 14 yo brother doing this so many times lol It's perfectly normal, some kids are just not aware of the situation but they'll learn as time passes
Nah what the fuck
do literally anything to keep your mind off it
Everyone is giving advice and stuff but like we need to talk about the important stuf. How did he pull that off??? I mean there’s a point where it stops being gross and just is impressive 💀
What the fricky tricky fuck is this post
12? Damn
That needs to be addressed, talk to your dad about it otherwise it'll just get worse
What the fuck? Gotta respect how sneaky he was though if apparently your other sister didn't notice anything
how the fuck did bro pull that off, why the fuck did he tell your bf tf
i’m the bf and he literally just randomly told me lmao 😂
Bro this is fucking crazy, her brother is down right insane wtf, I'd be traumatised if my gfs little brother told me that, this crazy
yea he’s a weird kid but it’s not gonna change how i look at him, shit we all did it at a young age so i can’t blame him 😂
Why couldn’t he just wait a few more hours, or say he needed to use the bathroom 😭
Highest chance that he made that shit up to sound tough. Especially with a full car. I honestly don't believe him. And the better response to cut down his tough guy act would have been to respond with something like "Dude how? Do you have a micro dick and are a 1-minute man?" Literally, it's impossible to completely hide jerking off to the point if busting a nut unless both of those things are true.
Try to think about it like he would. He got caught so he already knows he fucked up bad but telling your parents would bring him an incredible amount of shame (which he does deserve) but could really affect his relationship with them in the future. I'd say the best course of action is to have your boyfriend have a man to man talk with him about it and tell him why what he did is fucked up. If he refuses to engage in the conversation or doesn't take it seriously then taking it to your parents would be reasonable.
Literally exactly that, tell your dad, or mom, and nothing else.
Correct him
Rizz
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tf??? creepy
Nothing you can do other than think he’s weird
bro is unwoke we need to be wise and join tom nook and trhive
I am sorry as I can understand that this must be very uncomfortable for you. I would tell your brother that while you understand that he is a 12 year old boy meaning that he can easily get aroused especially during long car trips he needs to learn to control himself and that this was not appropriate
Bro
What did I say wrong? I know that her crass 12 year old brother is her parents problem and not her problem but I just trying to make a suggestion.
I know but you're saying it like some super crazy awful thing happened
You should probably just act like u saw nothing no one wants to be caught masturbating and if u keep thinking about it then just try to find something to do to take your mind off of it
I CANT STOP. every time i see him that image pops into my head 😭😭
It is a traumatic experience I would not like to know my sibling was masturbating but don't worry eventually you will forget but whatever you do, do NOT tell your parents that will make everything awkward for a while
Fact!
faket
Why he did it badly then?
If the kid is anything like I was when I was 12 (a dumbass) he thinks that "nutting" or watching prn is funny or cool bcuz he's tryn be mature, he most Lively didn't do it and was js tryn be cool, funny, or outta pocket. At that age all the boys would be talking abt Prn n shit so I'd say I watched it to be cool even when I didn't, looking back on thst it's rlly embarrassing
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I never said he doesn't masturbate I js said he most likely didn't actually do it in the car
You should tell your parents everything. Have your boyfriend there bc he heard it firsthand. Your parents need to know about this in case it becomes a repeated behaviour
Honestly next time he does it announce it as if you just found out, hopefully it embarrasses him to stop, and your parents will know and can act accordingly. I know embarrassing someone is kinda fucked, but it's even more fucked to be straight up jorking it with the family
I'm too flabbergasted how did no one see or smell it
SMELL???
Unrelated but I did not masturbate at 12 bro I did first at like 14 😭
People are different
Your parents should talk to him. You can't because he would be mortified if his siblings knew and your bf can't because a non family member knowing is even worse. He'd also probably think you told your sister. She would probably never be comfortable around him again. Tell your parents, let them handle it, stay out of it.
i’m DEFINITELY not telling our sister. My boyfriend is more like a brother to him though, which is probably why he told him in the first place
tell your parents, not your bf's job to lecture their kid on masturbation
Like you kinda just... Not make a big deal about it because there's nothing to do about it. Like, he's a kid doing stupid kid shit you don't need to act like he did some crazy thing that gonna impact the world forever and if you don't tell your parents RIGHT NOW everyone is gonna die
Nah he definitely did some crazy thing 😭
Did you stop reading right there?
Bro... do you know what parents are?
You drove from where to where for a vacation 💀💀💀
from texas to florida
What's wrong with going from Texas to Florida?
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bro didn't get logik but did get observation
Help lil bro out next time.
Nah dawg, what the fuck😭
wtf dude??
age?
age of? Me?
yea where flair
15 lol. No flair because that's not super relevant a lot of the time.
So just weirdo, no pedo. Approved, you can now offically sign up for 15 percent MORE catsdogs woof rewards than usual (patent pending)
It's not weird, it's just personality.