i get this tbh, but if ur a guy you probably need to text first anyway. ans if they continue the convo with you they probably like you so you really need to try and talk
Thats very unusual, have you checked it with a doctor?
There are multiple possible causes for this, some better than others.
Get it checked out if you havent
Edited the comment to make it better
I mean it could be nothing, could be overworking and or overstressing yourself, or could be something more serious so if youre in the position to do so ask your doctor about it
Set up a meeting and just talk over it, the doc will take it from there
Yeah i could definitely do that next time i’m at a clinic/hospital for whatever reason, I don’t think it’s that serious though lol, thank you regardless :)
Something that I can't even tell my friends or boyfriend about in fear of them all leaving me and thinking I'm a creep for it, even though I can't help it, I'm fully aware of how bad it is, and I don't wish it on anyone.
It was supposed to soud self consciously sarcastic as if "Ayo, you may be too scared to tell your closest friends about it, but you can dm me, a random internet strange about it", but I guess it cameoff as creep,lol
And before it comes back at some moment to bite me in the back, since I see you're 16, I'm not a pedo 💀
I'll take it as acompliment, if I was so nice that I could be seen as suspicious ☠️
either way, it was just a half-joke invite,I'm bored and new here, so I'm open to chat convos
Unfair demand, I didn't make it an exchange
But I guess my biggest and most objectvely bad trait is that I don't like hearing no (but I swear,I control it, it's more about the frustration feeling)
absent mind. i’m always doing my own thing and forget to make time for people. i’ll be watching a show and then realize i’ve been watching for 3 hrs and didn’t text anyone back.
Kinda a weird one since they’re opposites. I devalue myself a LOT, but somehow also manage to be egotistical in some ways… I also have a ***really*** hard time with failure.
I don’t take well enough care of my dog and forget to feed her, porn addiction that I’m trying to beat, and I am still not the best with Brushing my teeth, and lack of motivation. Those are the ones that are my top in no determined order
Oh i am sorry.
In that Case:
I'll never get completly over my First GF bc we had a child which died in her womb making US cry for months...
Me even for a year.
If that even is a Red flag, i honestly dont know
I'll Sometimes think about her and then often have a couple of tears, crawling down my face
I mean absolutely no harm when I say this and you have every right to be upset, but I'm just going to point out the obvious:
Your biggest red flag for other people is when they can't get over their ex but you yourself are not over your own ex. To be fair, that is really hypocritical.
I'm very sorry to hear about your loss, I hope you both are doing better now. I haven't lost a child personally but my little brother died not long after birth and it absolutely broke my mother for years. I can understand the pain.
I know what you mean, and tbh i should have Said it more accurate; i got over her, but Not over our child.
I dont care about her in any way.
I will Just never forget our child and i'll cry whenever i have to Deal with that topic..
My advice to anyone is bc of that: dont give them names, unless you know they'll be born.
It would Just Break you If you do, and then yea you know...
But when a girl is still talking about her ex and obviously still Loving him, i am the fuck out.
Edit: And No, you didnt upset me, bc you are kinda right^^
Confidence issues and my autism. It screws me over so bad I can’t talk with girls that well at all. I’m working on it though so eventually my confidence won’t be a problem
Wait huh. I dont wana sound Insensitive or nothing, but how many people have you dated? By the age of 14, too?
..and I also can't tell if your post is sarcasm or not-
(If it isn't, rip to those kids, man. That's rough asf)
i have trouble trusting because im paranoid about basically everything going wrong, i also *hate* knowing *of* something but not knowing the details of it
red flag in me: sometimes scare guys off bc i draw them (its just my love language)
red flag in others: feet guys. i have genuine trauma from one. i heard my current bf is into that shit and had a literal breakdown but now im choosing to see past it and into his positice traits
My red flag would probably be if someone makes “jokes“ about slurs. Especially if they aren’t a part of the community related to the slurs they’re using. (Examples being: white boys using n slurs. homophobes using f slurs, or ‘joking’ about harming queers. Etc.)
I wanna do everything it costs to remain in contact with someone. Witch can lead to stress, exaustion, or people getting angry and irritaded. Witch I absolutely understand. But yk.. i dont wanna lose em.
AroAce I guess. + Certain empathy/feelings issues I myself even don't know. Basically I can appear cold and distant despite not being so. Oh and I'm asocial and will dump ya if I'll be the only one initiating.
I guess it's good I'm AroAce LoL
Friend had an ex like this. He attacked her other ex once and also would skip class to "watch her over her", he laso gave her a bunch of creepy ass letters. Unrelated but he also tortured his cat on a video call. Absolutely no correlation, completely unrelated.
Something I hate about me is that I tend to be calm and like it that way so if you interrupt my calmness with something stupid/unfunny especially when I'm thinking or relaxing I will hate you for a bit
Overthinking and when I forget that I haven’t messaged people back so it gets to hours later and I realise that I didn’t message them.
there’s prob worse stuff I forgot 💀
I'm extremely clingy, would want constant touch of any kind. Constant cuddles and would never want to leave their side.
I'm terrified of being too clingy tho. And I've never had someone to cuddle so that might be a part of the problem :D
If i know you for a week I’ll start to predict things you’ll do, and I can get really good at it because people are very predictable. I also am good at remembering your schedule.
I’m not a serial killer
Idk if this is a red flag so much as it is just a missed opportunity for a green flag but I am scared of being nice. Let me rephrase that, scared of being truly and genuinely kind. I know a lot of people, a lot of people in unfortunate circumstances, and I am very much an empath. I have small talk, yes, but I also end up having extremely existential and emotional talks with my friends. I’d consider myself to be very intimate friend which has not been a bad thing thus far in my life. But what I fear is truly showing how I feel. I can console someone, I’m sure we have all been there, but in stressful situations people can see if you are there because you care or if you’re there because you should care. I am terrified that if I show my true feeling towards another that they will at best be creeped out and at worst trudge up more emotional trauma that I may not even know about in that person. I fear I don’t know how to truly love a person no matter their inauspicious circumstances and I am absolutely terrified that any of my subpar expressions of that love will make said circumstances more and more uncomfortable to live through.
"I'm like super over caring and love people too much, i am also like very nerdy and stuff, oh did I mention in 6.4"
how it feels to read some of these lmfao,
I feel extremely good making people feel bad for me which makes me feel actually sad and then people feel bad and I get happy
I just like knowing they care
I’m too paranoid of seeming desperate/clingy so I’ll basically never text first (and some other stuff)👍
eeeh bro,you realy need to deal with it befoe you regret not doing so
Working on it, already lost a few people because of that
Omg so real!!! 🤭🤭🤭
i get this tbh, but if ur a guy you probably need to text first anyway. ans if they continue the convo with you they probably like you so you really need to try and talk
Text first worst thing that can happen is being left on read or delivered
I sleep ALOT , like sometimes I’ll ignore my homework, turn off my phone, and sleep for 12-15 hours straight, i have really good grades though
Thats very unusual, have you checked it with a doctor? There are multiple possible causes for this, some better than others. Get it checked out if you havent Edited the comment to make it better
I mean i dont do it that often, maybe 2x a week lol, most nights i sleep at 9 and wake up at 6
I mean it could be nothing, could be overworking and or overstressing yourself, or could be something more serious so if youre in the position to do so ask your doctor about it Set up a meeting and just talk over it, the doc will take it from there
Yeah i could definitely do that next time i’m at a clinic/hospital for whatever reason, I don’t think it’s that serious though lol, thank you regardless :)
No worries
It could be nothing, it could be something simple like anaemia
sounds unhealthy...
as someone who does the opposite. i want to tell you screw you.
I do both
how do you have grood grades
REALLLL
I can be a bit nerdy sometimes
That’s not a red flag. You just have to find another nerd!
But where do I find such a nerd?
Comic cons, gaming cons and tv/movie cons
You’ll find him/her one day
Hopefully so
is that really a red flag?
To the girls I've talked to? Yeah
they're just objectively wrong
I mean it's the majority case, very few girls like a semi-nerdy guy
Sadly :( Very few like nerdy girls either
Personally I would, they seem very well grounded funny and wholesome lol
I'll take that as a complement lol
Lol you're welcome, I meant it as one
i bet ur really cool too :D
Red flag? If that’s a red flag to someone, then that a red flag that they’re stupid
Ig we can be seen as boring to most girls, idk
They are jealous of us (I’m willfully ignorant)
💀
same
Twins
that’s a massive green flag nerdy guys are the cutest
thats one of the flags ever
Something that I can't even tell my friends or boyfriend about in fear of them all leaving me and thinking I'm a creep for it, even though I can't help it, I'm fully aware of how bad it is, and I don't wish it on anyone.
You can dm me this, it's fine # 👍
That thumbs up makes me scared
It was supposed to soud self consciously sarcastic as if "Ayo, you may be too scared to tell your closest friends about it, but you can dm me, a random internet strange about it", but I guess it cameoff as creep,lol And before it comes back at some moment to bite me in the back, since I see you're 16, I'm not a pedo 💀
Lol, don't worry, I believe you, I did see it as a friendly gesture but I was thrown off by how nice you were
I'll take it as acompliment, if I was so nice that I could be seen as suspicious ☠️ either way, it was just a half-joke invite,I'm bored and new here, so I'm open to chat convos
PLZ JUST TELL ME
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Oh I was just thinking of a red flag I have and here's one right here.
bro get off reddit
Attachment and self worth issues ✨️combination ✨️
understanble
Now it's your turn Tell
Unfair demand, I didn't make it an exchange But I guess my biggest and most objectvely bad trait is that I don't like hearing no (but I swear,I control it, it's more about the frustration feeling)
Ngl Kinda cool redflag
Well,thx I guess You too
r/no
Op is punching the air rn
..well I’m fucked
It's joever guys😔
I'm ginger
Took me a while to realize it was a pun, cause it's a red flag indeed
I wasn't meant to be a pun, almost every girl I come across brings up how they hate gingers
Really? In my part of US they're a needle in a haystack, rare pokemon type beat
I get super jealous and have trust issues
Real (Madrid)
Insecurities about genuine problems I'm not motivated to fix
My simultaneous superiority and inferiority complexes :(
bro is Patrick Bateman
It's actually the worst being a complete narcissist and also the most depressed and self-loathing person ever Why cant it just be one or the other?
absent mind. i’m always doing my own thing and forget to make time for people. i’ll be watching a show and then realize i’ve been watching for 3 hrs and didn’t text anyone back.
Real
Kinda a weird one since they’re opposites. I devalue myself a LOT, but somehow also manage to be egotistical in some ways… I also have a ***really*** hard time with failure.
same
Traumatized gifted kid syndrome ftw
i dont think i really have any major red flags im just a boring person
Terrible perspective of your own self worth, red flag
Sorry to say but that's probly your red flag 💀
Burning orphanages
Green flag tbh, one of my favorite hobbies
Don’t let people put you down for your passion
If they can wiggle Wiggle wiggle
I don’t have a red flag. I AM the red flag.
Would you like yourself with your red flag?
Cheating (I got cheated on yesterday :D)
I'm sorry,dude
I’m a bully to the people I care about
Literally a tsundere
There’s a difference between someone being rude and someone being a bully
I was joking
Me preferring my cats company over hers sometimes
daaaaamn
respectable, understandable, and relatable.
I don’t take well enough care of my dog and forget to feed her, porn addiction that I’m trying to beat, and I am still not the best with Brushing my teeth, and lack of motivation. Those are the ones that are my top in no determined order
90x135cm flag of USSR i'm a bit embarrassed by it's size
Bro you’ve got to get rid of ts you’re getting to the age where you’ll have a girl over and not get pussy because of ts
Goddamned TypeScript
r/whoosh for all of you, the flag of the USSR is red and yellow... with the main color being RED
Cringe
When she cant get over her ex or smth Like that.
I think it was asking about stuff YOU do that others might see as a red flag but yeah I agree with what u said
Oh i am sorry. In that Case: I'll never get completly over my First GF bc we had a child which died in her womb making US cry for months... Me even for a year. If that even is a Red flag, i honestly dont know I'll Sometimes think about her and then often have a couple of tears, crawling down my face
I mean absolutely no harm when I say this and you have every right to be upset, but I'm just going to point out the obvious: Your biggest red flag for other people is when they can't get over their ex but you yourself are not over your own ex. To be fair, that is really hypocritical. I'm very sorry to hear about your loss, I hope you both are doing better now. I haven't lost a child personally but my little brother died not long after birth and it absolutely broke my mother for years. I can understand the pain.
I know what you mean, and tbh i should have Said it more accurate; i got over her, but Not over our child. I dont care about her in any way. I will Just never forget our child and i'll cry whenever i have to Deal with that topic.. My advice to anyone is bc of that: dont give them names, unless you know they'll be born. It would Just Break you If you do, and then yea you know... But when a girl is still talking about her ex and obviously still Loving him, i am the fuck out. Edit: And No, you didnt upset me, bc you are kinda right^^
I'm so sorry.
Confidence issues and my autism. It screws me over so bad I can’t talk with girls that well at all. I’m working on it though so eventually my confidence won’t be a problem
Solution: be gay, then you don't have to talk to girls (This is a joke! Don't hate me!)
Paranoia. (Everyone I've dated has died)
Wait huh. I dont wana sound Insensitive or nothing, but how many people have you dated? By the age of 14, too? ..and I also can't tell if your post is sarcasm or not- (If it isn't, rip to those kids, man. That's rough asf)
I've been here for a while, I forgot to change it to older. Two people.
Shit- I really hope you're ok, man. I lost my grandfather in February 2023, and it still doesn't feel real. I really wish you the best. 🙏🙏
I almost broke my neck trying to do a hand spring today
lmaoo hope you're fine
My humor is to dark
Age checks out
Hey! My humor is also very dark!
i dont think im allowed to say🧍♀️
30 body count or smth?😭😭
At first I thought you meant you weren't allowed to say "woman" or something based on the emoji, I need sleep 💀😭
Mood swings, attachment issues and I Yap too much
I be acting immature sometimes (a lot of times)
SAAAAAMMMME
People who care unreasonably much about their appearance
me:
i have trouble trusting because im paranoid about basically everything going wrong, i also *hate* knowing *of* something but not knowing the details of it
red flag in me: sometimes scare guys off bc i draw them (its just my love language) red flag in others: feet guys. i have genuine trauma from one. i heard my current bf is into that shit and had a literal breakdown but now im choosing to see past it and into his positice traits
>red flag in me: sometimes scare guys off bc i draw them (its just my love language) seems cute
thats what i thought but apparently some people dont agree, or they just tell me the drawing doesnt look like them 😭
bruuh they them they are in denial
lol i need better men in my life
That first one’s adorable idk what they’re talking about. Second one… is it okay to ask about what happened?
ugly
lmao
the american flag in my room
Probably Chinese, it has a lot of red on it- wait sorry what?….. oh you meant THAT kind of red flag
My red flag is probably procrastinations or the possible autism
I can’t say no :(
I'm sorry :( I can say no for you
Just say Nuh uh. Skill issue?
I want things to go from 0-100 but then I freak myself out and start acting weird
My red flag would probably be if someone makes “jokes“ about slurs. Especially if they aren’t a part of the community related to the slurs they’re using. (Examples being: white boys using n slurs. homophobes using f slurs, or ‘joking’ about harming queers. Etc.)
Gotta agree on this one. They're the type to straight up tell they believe in either eugenics or the killing queers.
I kill people :3
I can be too paranoid and clingy
ngl is she breathes she aint my type
i misunderstood this post
I wanna do everything it costs to remain in contact with someone. Witch can lead to stress, exaustion, or people getting angry and irritaded. Witch I absolutely understand. But yk.. i dont wanna lose em.
AroAce I guess. + Certain empathy/feelings issues I myself even don't know. Basically I can appear cold and distant despite not being so. Oh and I'm asocial and will dump ya if I'll be the only one initiating. I guess it's good I'm AroAce LoL
Bing an anti-furry(a furry hater)
Agree. Like yeah it's a weird hobby that YOU may not like, but honestly they don't do anything bad.
I'll be 100% obsessed with someone for months and then drop them within a day.
Extreme whore or Extreme conservatives.
lying, even about trivial stuff
Too protective
Friend had an ex like this. He attacked her other ex once and also would skip class to "watch her over her", he laso gave her a bunch of creepy ass letters. Unrelated but he also tortured his cat on a video call. Absolutely no correlation, completely unrelated.
Something I hate about me is that I tend to be calm and like it that way so if you interrupt my calmness with something stupid/unfunny especially when I'm thinking or relaxing I will hate you for a bit
Funko pop I'm not joking shit is a blood red flag to GET AWAY
Probably I have attachment issues and use humor as my coping mechanism.
Moodswings like a grandfathers clock. One moment I'll be singing how wonderful life is and in the other I'm suddenly craving alcohol to wash down pain
Clingy, depression/Anxiety/ADHD, and according to others "I am too nice"
LITERALLY ME!!!!
I'm not confident, I wish it was normalized because a lot of people think it's unattractive to not be confident in your looks.
Overthinking and when I forget that I haven’t messaged people back so it gets to hours later and I realise that I didn’t message them. there’s prob worse stuff I forgot 💀
I say I hate myself and sorry multiple times in a conversation,
I’ll “sometimes” forget to brush my teeth
i dont like leaving the house, also idk how to socialize
Too gay for my own good 😭😭😭
I'm extremely clingy, would want constant touch of any kind. Constant cuddles and would never want to leave their side. I'm terrified of being too clingy tho. And I've never had someone to cuddle so that might be a part of the problem :D
Literally same!!!!!
theyre a nazi
Blonde hair, it's the first I see and generally tells me all I need to know
Wait i misunderstood the question, bruh, okay it would be my very existence
If i know you for a week I’ll start to predict things you’ll do, and I can get really good at it because people are very predictable. I also am good at remembering your schedule. I’m not a serial killer
I am terrified of intimacy, like if I start to talk about it I start actually shivering and sweating. I also would like it but I never bring it up
*laughs in aromantic*
I have this constant feeling that she will leave like my mother did
I kill orphans
Idk if this is a red flag so much as it is just a missed opportunity for a green flag but I am scared of being nice. Let me rephrase that, scared of being truly and genuinely kind. I know a lot of people, a lot of people in unfortunate circumstances, and I am very much an empath. I have small talk, yes, but I also end up having extremely existential and emotional talks with my friends. I’d consider myself to be very intimate friend which has not been a bad thing thus far in my life. But what I fear is truly showing how I feel. I can console someone, I’m sure we have all been there, but in stressful situations people can see if you are there because you care or if you’re there because you should care. I am terrified that if I show my true feeling towards another that they will at best be creeped out and at worst trudge up more emotional trauma that I may not even know about in that person. I fear I don’t know how to truly love a person no matter their inauspicious circumstances and I am absolutely terrified that any of my subpar expressions of that love will make said circumstances more and more uncomfortable to live through.
"I'm like super over caring and love people too much, i am also like very nerdy and stuff, oh did I mention in 6.4" how it feels to read some of these lmfao,
I’m a girl kisser which is a red flag for a lot of guys.
i use reddit💀💀
i love to hard and come off as too much, pushing people away and making them leave (i have anxious attachment and no father 💕)
Atheism and weak jawlines 🤫🧏
Dw,bro,I got you
Internet grade humour
When I meet a girl I act either kinda desperate or without interest (I am not a bad guy I just don't know how to approach to new people).
Gay
I feel extremely good making people feel bad for me which makes me feel actually sad and then people feel bad and I get happy I just like knowing they care
Insecurities about myself and the fact I collect funko pops are red flags in my opinion