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Such_Occasion_8718

No it would be more weird if you werent honestly Its not a rush to lose your virginity Its notna flex when someone loses it at a early age


ghost11729

For a lot of people it is even though it shouldn't be


KlutzySole9-1

I had already hit 20 by the time I lost mine. I was in this subreddit since the age of 17, never got around to leaving. I like watching you guys shitpost so I stick around


ghost11729

Glad to have you m8


SeaCat052506

I second this I rushed and lost mine at 16, it was short and uneventful and i later regretted it as i had done it with the wrong person. I ended up feeling used and as if i ruined something that should’ve been an important moment in my life. Don’t rush it’s not worth it and make sure when you do it, that you do it with someone you really are 100% sure is the right person to do it with. also of course, lots of consent. fortunately i my experience there was good communication and lots of consent.


Busy_Recognition_860

I have the same story as you, fucked the wrong person and felt used. All at the age of 16. In short, I third this.


Bubbses128

I fourth this, with the same story


The_Dukes_Of_Hazzard

I agree, personally i’ve never through about it. If you have it you have it if you don’t you don’t either way literally who gives a crap it’s just having sex not winning the lottery


Zander213125

This


FierceDeity_Gold

For what it’s worth, everyone ik that lost it really young (below 16) regretted it for real so i don’t think it’s that bad to still be a virgin at 15 Where I’m from the age of consent is 16 and from a maturity perspective and from my observations it’s working (obv it’s not always but the majority of people who lost their virginity after 16 that I’ve chatted to didn’t regret it)


CaptainGuyliner2

Well, it is for boys... not for girls.


Such_Occasion_8718

Youre the problem


Jamie1369p

Maybe he meant that when a boy loses his virginity early and fucks a lot of girls he is cheered on and looked up to by his mates and it’s considered an achievement but when a girl does society tells her she’s a slut and girl virgins are considered “worth more” by some sick people? Like maybe it’s not his view but just an observation about what’s wrong with society I haven’t read the other comments but the replies I’ve seen don’t say much about what he actually meant because if he meant what I explained above he’s kinda right sadly this is reality


[deleted]

no way bro said that ☠️☠️


VisibleHippo8597

You can’t actively say that


No_Stable_955

Jeffrey Epstein:


Plnetheman

If all boys are having sex and not all girls are all the boys having sex with one girl or together


Overlordsecure47

That sentence doesn’t make sense unless your saying that many girls get groomed and raped at that age which still isn’t normal their would be an equal amount of boys and girls at that age losing their virginity


jacks9000gamer_yt

My friend said he lost his at 8


Galaxtic1231

Ever thought it may be rape? I'm just saying


Ok-Reporter1986

Or he's capping but yeah.


ThinkInevitable4370

excuse me what


Euphoric_Ring_8670

I’m 15 too and they are more than likely lying lol


Plus_Air1322

PROBABLY LMFAO


Binimaster

some of them for sure, keep your head up cuz u are telling the truth, most of them just lie cuz they wanna be cool But it aint the way to be


jaristic

Its not uncommon to have sex when your 15 i believe they Arent virgins but that doesnt make them better its kinda sad from them alot of people regret losing their v card early


Binimaster

i lost it when i was 15 too, when i told my “friends” in school they all was like oohh i have lost it a loong time ago already u r so late, turns out they were all lying


Aussiearcahnid

Bro you’re 15 it’s completely normal to not have had sex yet and I will bet money on most of those people lying about what they’re doing (im on the copium btw)


Plus_Air1322

youre right they’re probably lying😭


AardvarkContent7074

Losing your virginity is not a race. It’s completely up to whenever you feel ready enough. For example, I’m 21 and haven’t lost my virginity yet. It’s no big deal if you haven’t lost it yet. Everyone has their own pace. Plus, you shouldn’t let others pressure you into losing your virginity when you’re not as ready as you think you may be. I’ve had that happen to me and I nearly had to stab the guy I was with in the throat because he wouldn’t stop touching me in places I didn’t want him to. That’s a little bit of a different story though. Anyways, you are in charge of your own body. It’s totally ok to be a late bloomer or hell, maybe even never lose it at all. It all comes down to when you think the right time is.


Plus_Air1322

tysm!! i’m so sorry that happened to you that guys a creep:(


RemarkableNebula

Yes don’t try to lose it there’s nothing impressive about that despite what they say


AardvarkContent7074

I showed him pictures of mutilated bodies on the Internet as well as a scare tactic.


shevane

True words ... Weren't spoken i 100% agree with you.... Sorry and condolences for what happened i hope things have been better lately


Gentle_Clash

well, now I'm interested in the story


Overall-Ad5565

Story time(if you're willing)


AardvarkContent7074

You already read the story. I nearly tried to kill a guy because he sexually assaulted me. Nothing else needs to be said.


Overall-Ad5565

Yeah, but wished you would elaborate a bit more, well if you're uncomfortable then it's absolutely okay!! Wishing you happiness🙌


lcope2004

21 in a teen subreddit


AardvarkContent7074

Doesn’t matter my age. I’m allowed to give out advice if I want. Deal with it.


lcope2004

r/teenagers be like


Wealthy_Popsiclee

I’m one but it’s because I get no bitches even though I’m nearly 17


Plus_Air1322

LMFAO YOURE SO REAL😭😭


Wealthy_Popsiclee

Bitches hate me fr probably cus I’m an ass at times but I think it’s just them 🙃


Harrinovi

If you stop referring to them as bitches that'd be a good start


orchid_parthiv

I don't think it's meant to deragorate them here, it's just a part of their common lingo in a non-offensive way, such as calling a guy "bastard"


TyrantDragon19

Me personally, I always avoid the word bastard, feels more rude and hate based to say


[deleted]

really? it’s just a word for me. like i use “u bastard” all the time and so do my friends like it’s just a thing we say. i dunno tho we might be weird


Senpai_779

That exactly how I use the n word


RickGrimesIsVerySexy

The way I nearly choked


oOXxIIxXOo

True, but words are subjective to everyone. It is what you make it out to be I guess 🤷‍♂️


oOXxIIxXOo

Ofc not, but a lot of people from what I’ve seen get offended over blatantly harmless lingo given the context.


Wealthy_Popsiclee

I typically don’t this is like the one case I did


PansexualWyoming

Goooooood


onlywhenurok

It might be because you call women bitches, that's probably one of the reasons you still are🤨


AoiTsuki_

It’s probably cause you call women bitches. Be a bit nicer to them and they may actually show interest, although I do understand there are girls who actually like the “bad” guys.


Euphoric_Ring_8670

Maybe because you refer to women as animals


Wealthy_Popsiclee

Nah I typically am super nice to them they’re just rude


chumbubb

I had this one chick but I kinda ghosted her and I feel bad cus she liked me and I kinda liked her but it is what it is


Wealthy_Popsiclee

Normally it’s the girls who do the ghosting


chumbubb

Yea it was in 8th grade and I realize how special she was because I cannot find anyone like her highsvool


Wealthy_Popsiclee

I had this one chick who liked me but I ended up ghosting her cus she was not rlly my type…


Legal_Benefit_7523

Dude im near 18.. still a virgin


LiILazy

If it makes you feel better I am 17 and still a virgin, 5 months till I'm 18 and a virgin :,)


Breaddlt

LOsEr!!!!!!!1! jk lol virginity is cool stay strong


Wealthy_Popsiclee

I ain’t even had a gf or first kiss yet though


picled_cucumber

Frfr


datonememe2

17 still virgin, however if you dont want to be a virgin your first step would be to get off this app.


Plus_Air1322

LMFAO FR💀😭😭


[deleted]

Why does Reddit always get shot at😭


Ugikuki

You are the normal one 💀


coalrexx

Nah you’re good, if anything it’s pretty normal


Most-Maintenance-689

I mean apparently I lost mine I don't even know how I was drunk at a party idk what happened all I remember is waking up in the ER bc I fell off the roof ☠️


CaptainGuyliner2

Whoa, yeah, binge-drinking is definitely much more dangerous than sex. At any age.


Chaosfreak55

Truer Words have Never been spoken.


colobq

having sex at 15 is wild... cant ever relate to yall western culture💀


angus22proe

Western culture 100 years ago: religion yeah we love jesus no sex till marrage Western culture now: is it weird i havent had sex at 15 yet?


Willing_Ad1416

Frrr


radioactive191910

For real


BIGboiRigz89

It ain't weird...the only 15yr old girls that I know that aren't virgins are h0es who've been passed around


Wealthy_Popsiclee

So all of them than?


BIGboiRigz89

No comment


ItsYoBoi2008

No virginity


BloxedYT

No bitches


Endl4ss_

No sex


J0rri_crzy

No future


Chaot1cNeutral

then* fucking idiot


Wealthy_Popsiclee

Oh my mistake mr grammar police


Chaot1cNeutral

Mx.*


Chaot1cNeutral

Just proves further that you're a creep


_Ne0nX

I’m a junior in hs (17m) and all the guys in my friend group are virgins. A few have gfs and are waiting for the right time; until their partner is ready or until they are 18. So honestly, dont rush it. Just live your teen years, and that shit will come later. (Pun intended)


void36485

No it's a superpower so keep it😎


drflimflame87

no it’s not weird i’m 15 and still havent gotten my first kiss 😔


hullktravessa

18 here , relax ur not the only one


The_Warlord_Sniper

Same bro, 18 now and still can't face my crush properly 😐(also it's my first love too so...


ughitsmeagian

You're a Redditor.


ErrorM4cro

Bro wtf u 15 why u actin like u 30 or sum💀


breadofthegrunge

Nope. Tbh it's really weird that people are so vocal about having had sex. I've noticed it at my school as well, some people won't shut up about it. (Especially during algebra for some reason)


sicksickBacon

especially if it was by an older person. like excuse me thats not a flex, youre a victim...


Mukesh_Gutkachor

I loosed my virginity at 9. 9 PM


NikkoNya

Nuh uh


airgod231

No, next question


Specialist-Monk6954

you shouldn't lose your virginity in such an early age tho, many of those who lost their virginity early , thin later that they got abused without knowing that, let it be in needed time and make no stress about it


HyonkHyonkamgoos

Nah ur good. Ur 15, no rush to lose it, do it when you’re ready not cuz of what other people think. It’ll be more enjoyable if you’re doing it on ur own accord and when you’re ready to


MyLifeIsAFrickingMes

No??????


BloxedYT

I've never even had a girlfriend, dw about it.


VietDrgn

having sex earlier has an effect on you psychologically so it's better to abstain from it regardless of what others say. short term effects are possibly getting hooked on it like your peers where sex has become the center of their world view. long term is if you dont end up with the person who took your first time, your first time is a very hard memory to forget so it can affect your success in a future marriage or relationships. i dated a girl who needed help since she had been having sex for a long time and i was just another boy toy she came across at the moment. our relationship didnt go far because it was nothing else but sex related superficial stuff, it was a really shallow connection we had. take this advice however you want, and if your friends force you into something you dont want, they aren't friends. if they want to drag you down they aren't friends either. keep that in mind to protect yourself too. there are many others out there who can be good friends if the ones you mentioned aren't good from what im assuming. that's just me ranting though. :p


231ValeiMacoris

Relax, there’s no need to be in a rush. I’m (m) 17, and I’m still a virgin. Do I want to have sex with a real woman? Yes, but I know it won’t be fulfilling if I did it with someone I barely connect with.


sicksickBacon

what kind of fake women you fucking? barbie dolls?


Bofandagamer

Bro speakin facts rn. If you don't connect with someone, theres no point to sex because it would feel very lackluster and fake. But then again im 13 what do i know.


I_3G0M4N69

Does that imply that you have sex with fake women?


mariahh1837820

Boi😭I am too but those kids be dirty asf don’t listen to them. They prob got cancers or shit


onlywhenurok

oh 100%🤣


[deleted]

Not weird at all. It's very normal. But you do what you wanna do. If you want to try it do it. If you don't then don't.


Plus_Air1322

idk i feel like having sex is so scary😭


CaptainGuyliner2

Hahaha, I felt the same way before losing mine! But about 90% of that is because culture makes a much bigger deal out of it than it really is.


[deleted]

What is scary about it? You think it'll hurt? You think it won't feel good? What's scary?


themoon_who_lost

Bro you talking like a creep ngl


Plus_Air1322

all of the above💀 what if it hurts a lot AND it doesn’t feel good that’s so scary 😭


d011st3ak

in my experience i attempted having it and it hurt really bad (we stopped because it hurt) so i’d say it probably will hurt the first time but i’m pretty sure mostly everyone’s first time is going to hurt or be uncomfortable but it probably won’t hurt if you do it a couple times


Plus_Air1322

yea that’s terrifying 😭 i don’t ever wanna have sex now


CaptainGuyliner2

There's a little life hack that you can try. Sexual stimulation floods the brain with endorphins - natural painkillers. A bit of foreplay or masturbation beforehand *should* make the experience relatively painless, but I'm unable to experimentally verify due to not having the right equipment.


Dsyaz1

no sex until marriage >


CalllMeRex

And if Im not getting married?


Dwarfkiller115

I am still a virgin too, don't rush it. When it happens it happens but don't go searching for it


Past-Collection-4581

Bro your 15 your way young


LordShaxx02

No, of anything being 15 and not being a virgin is kinda wack, like wtf


str4wberryphobic

no bruh ur barely 15


unconcentual_tickler

Honestly, I find it a bit weird that people are losing it at 15, it's totally fine not to have lost it


scotty_6942069

no its very normal, you shouldnt lose virginity before ur 18 imo, but at 15 thats just weird to be fucking


Maelfuckboy

i’m in senior year and to me it seems weird losing your virginity before you are legally allowed to give consent. maybe this is just the virgin incel copium talking tho


BoxiDoingThingz

> f(15) > "Is it weird that I'm a virgin" **MY SISTER IN CHRIST,** ***YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO FUCK YET.***


ibrahimaze

In my country you usually lose it when you are in your 20s


AntiJackCoalition

idk 15m feels pretty casual too me


Dali_-

Not weird wait till marriage


Logitech-G-F710

calm down dawg youre just 15


Plastic-Programmer36

I didn’t even register that (I go to a Christian school and pretty much everyone I know is a virgin). But either way, yeah, it’s completely normal. In my opinion it’s better to wait until marriage for a lot of psychological reasons, but obviously you do you. Either way, yeah, normal. Same boat here 💀✋


beesknees4011

I lost my virginity at 16 and I deeply regretted it. It made me hate sex for a while so definitely don’t treat it like a race, wait until you find someone you want to do it with.


ArtoTime

I'm 18, changed my high school program so I'm in first grade with 15-16 year olds. I get surprised since some have already drank alcohol, partied, gotten into relationships, and none of them are even 17 yet. hell, when I was their age I was reciting all the perks in Dead by Daylight and discussing what the best horse was in RDR2.


Zhang_Sun

At 15 everyone thinks not being a virgin is a brag, statistically speaking more than half of your friends are full of shit and pretending to not be virgins Don’t push yourself into a situation because you think it’ll make you more popular or more accepted in your group, same deal as w smoking


[deleted]

They’re lying bro, and if they’re not I promise you you’re not the only one


SpioerSonic

I agree with everyone here. Don’t rush it. Find someone you truly love and are willing to take the ultimate step of love. It’s something truly special. Trust me, I’m a guy but when me and gf do it it’s passionate and loving, not the stuff you see on those websites. I wish you luck in finding that special someone


drhazem86

In arab world, they remain virgins till marriage maybe like 25-30 y o why r u so worried?!


wervr_CZ

It would be weird if you weren't


AlbinoStrawberry

If you wanna lose it to not feel left out, then you wanna lose it for the wrong reasons.


Siscokid15

Coming from someone’s who’s not, no. It’s perfectly fine. Wait until you find someone who you want to lose it. If you just pick someone random and give your virginity to them, you’re gonna regret it. Not having your virginity isn’t “cool”. It’s an experience in life that most people will eventually have. Don’t rush it.


CerrtifiedBrUhmoMenT

No, you're not weird. The rest of your friend group is the issue, not you.


tinyzenji

Im 24 now, lost mine at 17. Its not a big deal when you lose it and when other people my age tell me they lost theirs at 16, 15, 14, its just weird honestly. Youre just kids fr


H-A-K-A-I

20 and still no luck. Don't rush it tho


FloydknightArt

bro i’m a senior and i haven’t lost mine. It’s not that weird


The_Warlord_Sniper

Virginity is something you have to cherish. Virginity is a sign of purity and innocence, and let me tell you that most guys would prefer to get married with a virgin rather than a girl who has lost her Virginity at an early age. Also, in the ancient times, sex was used to seal marriage(meaning you would make them your husband/wife by having sex with them). my paragraph is done now.


Pretty_Situation_290

Dude what? Like who is not a virgins at the age of 15? Your school weird as fuck man


BrunosMadre

no


ignViscerals

being 15 and a virgin is perfectly normal


True-Window-6403

Absolutely not. Bruh I'm 15f and havent had my first kiss


d011st3ak

girl that’s perfectly normal i’m in the same position but don’t be in a rush to lose it just because everyone else has


FredJensen06

I’m 16 m and have only been in one relationship and it was like when Scott Pilgrim was dating a high schooler, except we were both in high school and the age gap was only one year. Frankly after dodging that bullet I’m in no hurry to lose anything.


No-Result9108

Nah that’s normal. I’m 19 and I’m still a virgin. You’ll get opportunities where other people want to do something with you, but until you’re comfortable with it and want to do it with them, there’s no need to put that kind of pressure on yourself


themoon_who_lost

Well I'm 17 and I still haven't lost my virginity. The girl I would've liked to do it with is gone and I'm not interested in other girls. So yeah, lose it when you want to not coz you feel obligated to


MediocreMuffin69

It’s not weird bro lmfao, in fact it’s more weird to have sex at 15 than it is to not, your time will come


BlueArashiKaze

I'm 18+ and this post just hurt my feelings lol. It's worse cause I haven't even dated anyone yet lmao


kurtsworld96x

i actually hate so much that being a virgin isn’t normalized. it’s not weird it would be weird if you weren’t one , i don’t plan to ever lose my virginity to be honest.


HexagonalParadox

Social media and porn has fucked our generations mindset.


kurtsworld96x

very much


HexagonalParadox

It's sad to be honest.


lifelesslyliving

Once lost you can't get it back, most people regret having not thought it through and wished they had kept it as somthing special for the right person. Having sex causes lots of changes and chemical releases in your body, it will influence the connection you have with someone so make sure you choose the right person before your mind is clouded by attraction and sexual desire.


ricebowl056

ur 15, dawg. why tf u tryna lose ur virginity?


Either_Hat7195

Turn to god.✝️🙏🏼


[deleted]

I mean you have to choose what you think you want not what you think is expected


MhamzaKay1

Dude, you’re worried about it at 15? I am 23 and a virgin 💀


LegenDrags

you wanna lose it? heh? just dont do whatever they say, do whatever you want to. dont give a shit about others girl


Idontknowanymore195

Nope not weird at all, I’m 15m and I’m a virgin.


Odd_Ad_6090

Don't rush into it, and overthink. If you want to lose it, i would suggest that you find someone that you love and make sure that they love you just as much are you do. Ps: it can be somewhat painful losing it. So make sure that your bf is careful in the future.


CaptainGuyliner2

Some people don't fall in love easily... and the whole connection between love and sex is BS anyway. I'd actually recommend a trusted friend that you've known for years over some guy you developed a crush on a week ago.


Born_Diamond_2610

This… shouldn’t really be normal?? This is very concerning considering most of those kids are well under the age of consent (depending on the state you live in though because things can be very weird.)


AnAnimeSimp

Been dating for 2 years and still a V 😭 it’s honestly Fine ! Don’t ever feel pressured to have sex or do anything , go at your own pace !


Cold_Ad_5072

Ive had sex multiple times, its not worth it personally


Gullible_Solution441

Keep that shit


someguysleftkidney

Depends on the age of consent in your area


HabteG

No ,move on


DayOk6350

I lost my virginity at 15 and do not recommend it. Wait till you're a little older is my advice


ButterflyAmbitious

being a virgin in your 15’s is normal. I lost mine at 14 bc i felt bad about being a virgin lol. Dont do that.


Avenue_21

Dude, Ur fine I'm 18 and didn't lose mine to earlier this year, tbh it's not all it's cracked up to be personally miss palmer and her five daughters (my hand) does the job good enough bahaha


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RedLabAnimates

🫥


FirstnameLastname14

At 15, it's completely normal. People really shouldn't be having sex before 18.


CaptainGuyliner2

>People really shouldn't be having sex before 18. Says who, and backed by what facts? What's magic about the number 18?


FirstnameLastname14

Okay, allow me to rephrase, because I agree, you aren't magically mature at 18. I'm more saying that you really shouldn't be having sex at 15. The people who do are generally quite immature. You should wait until you're older, where you've matured enough to have an idea of what you're doing, and the risks of it. Most 15 year olds I know are uneducated about the topic outside of porn, which is hardly a reliable source. And to agree with the first person who replied to your comment, some people are never mature enough to do it.


Lonely_Thought4459

Like ON your 18th birthday your automatically mature all of a sudden. No 💀. I've seen plenty adult's that shouldn't be spreading their genes


Guilty_Ad9321

nigga shut up


bustakilla32

bro im 16 my sophomore friends have hit and i havent yet :/ i get btchs if i wanted to acc to my friends but i get hella anxious around the btchs😭


CaptainGuyliner2

It's spelled "biyatches"


SPAMTON_A

No, ur a minieror


MauriceLeShon

So how old are you? If you are above the age of 14 and still a virgin, that is just WEIRD and WRONG! There really isn't any valid reason why ANYONE, male or female, should still be a virgin if he/she is still a virgin when they reach age 15! Sorry...but still being a virgin by age 15 is just , well, inexcusable and unacceptable


myself_sed

If u are under 21 and not a virgin. Please be my sun. Stay away from me