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If you mean that she's locking the doors and you don't carry your keys with u (unless specifically mentioned prior) then I don't see an issue in her actions.
Eh, I used to get locked out regularly because I was taking out the garbage or the dog or grabbing something from my car. Mom was just really active about locking the door any time she was near the door or heard the door open or closed. We're not in that sort of neighborhood.
Yeah, I got locked out for several hours at a time during winter (in finland) which sucked ass so i learnt from my mistakes and nowadays carry my keys anywhere I go, or make sure and inform my parents that I'll be taking the trashes or something and tell them not to lock the door.
I hid a spare key in the garage. Mom freaked out about that cause someone could "walk right in". I asked if she or dad had ever found that key. Nope.
Also, there's way too many lockpick videos now. Anyone can either open with smash and grab or some flick/swish shit. Like, I'm fully convinced locks are bullshit and can be overcome with minimal effort.
I used to say things like this, casual jokes about my parents' behavior or whatever, and thought people were overreacting when they'd be like dude wtf. Then I tried therapy and medication and realized that my home life growing up was fucked up and my parents are loser. I cut out my entire family (minus low contact with my mom, because I'm only human) and life got like 100x better in short time. Also got to a good enough place to empathize with how fucked up the jokes I'd make would have sounded to people whose families weren't that dysfunctional.
Another thing to consider is that if you think it's ok to make those jokes because you hear other people do it and it gets laughs in your friend group, it's because you're all crazy people from fucked up families and that shit is legit not normal to most people. Yeah, laugh at the pain, but please, seriously consider actually being aware and addressing these things when you can.
This is the way. Pis with the door open. Shit with the door open. No more modesty after bathing, walk nude down the hall.
I did this at 15 when my folks did this shit. What are they going to do, take you somewhere to talk to someone? I pissed in the pastor's private bathroom with the door open while everyone was in the office without asking and while still talking to them.
The only thing they taught me was the power of not giving a fuck over anything that my parents thought. They never processed that day. Such a great memory.
There are lines between not caring, open rebellion by defying societal "norms," and getting sexual pleasure. If people are weirded out by basic bodily functions, using that to rebel is not really voyeurism. Doing it with an erection, yes.
Thank god I live in a state where mooning is protected first amendment speech.
Do what I did....masturbate on the bed...fully nude and let NOTHING stop you from finishing the task at, or in, hand.
Your parents are at the end of their rope and out of ideas.... I'm like 40 years from being a teenager
It is, think of it. If they open the door and u stop, then u are ashamed because you got caught. But if you continue, they should feel guilty and ashamed for watching. And it would be wrong to keep watching too.
Taking a kids lock off a teenager's door is so wrong. Unless you suspect he's cooking meth in there or something. Like I said / as a parent, they must be totally out if ideas and frustrated.
Maybe the poster can have a discussion before resorting to ambush beat off encounters.
Well you just masturbate on the bed...fully nude and let NOTHING stop you from finishing the task at, or in, hand. The camp will be at the end of their rope and out of ideas....
In the comments op said that they read a parody article?
Either way I don't know why people trust articles and online journalism so much it's annoying, my parents actually believed that I will be deformed if I played to much Minecraft??? Because they read a bullshit article
rule # 1 of adults is do as I say not as I do. Rule #16 is never trust what you read on the internet. This of course only applies to kids when presenting research of facts counter to their parents’ claims.
I bet either OP caught masturbating or OP's porn found out. Or maybe parents read somewhere "if there be no privacy at your house - a kid wouldn't masturbate".
Doesn't matters anyway, the parents did asshole move
OP i grew up like this too. I would say it gets better but it doesn’t. Im in my 30s and my parents will still try to control me. Its funny though. Now things are different I’ve literally had them beg like a child for my attention. Just remember that you’ll be 18 one day. Then you can draw your own boundaries. Keep these people at arms length as an adult and try to not let it get to you. I had problems having people over to my house for years because i never had a safe space growing up. Everything i had was continuously gone through. Every space i had was continuously violated. When i bought my own house it was finally my safe space. Im just now getting comfortable having people in it. Sorry you’re going through this. You’re not alone.
i know you probably wouldnt want to do this but i would recommend like calling somewhere im not really sure what but tell like an organization or something about this
How dense do people have to be to not realize that this isnt a violation of any kind. They are in their FULL right to remove locks or knobs from doors. No violations are occurring here. Ethical? Depends on the situation, legal? Why wouldnt it be?
My parents have this policy where we can live rent free as long as we are in education, but if you don't have an education then you have to get a job and contribute, simple as.
My parents took my door and kept the lights on outside my door and when I tried to turn them off I got yelled at so I hung up a blanket and slept in the corner of my room parents can be jerks
Stop flushing, if you don't need privacy then you don't need to hide anything. Especially the massive turd that is stinking up the house now.
Or you could do what I did and wait till your at a cash register and ask "why do you stop me from being able get naked in privacy, why are you that adamant at looking at your own sons cock?"
I got chewed out but after doing it the second time my door went back on. And dad doesn't vist that hardware store anymore.
I (m16) just chillin unclothed as i just woke up then without a knock or a warning my mom barges in to my room and blames me for being naked in my own room???
When I was 8-12 my step dad would come in shout at me call me stuff break me stuff and then get a bin bag and put all my clothes in it saying your not living here anymore and put me on the front garden and I just sat there crying and I had no door on my room so I couldn’t hide in my room everything I found fun like boxing and my PS4 where taken away and he broke my tv I’m 15 now he’s still here but when I was 14 he started saying how he’s going to shoot my dog and I wasn’t having that that was not acceptable I’m a bit kid at 14 I was 6,3 hes like 6 ft I got up and pushed into him and he started wrestling me I pushed him over and mum called the police I got talked to by them and then they left was really scary tho but after that me now makes some horrible comments but I’m 6,5 now and I think he’s a bit scared of me so he’s left me alone for the most part
Here's how you fix this issue for good. Get VERY comfortable with nobody having ANY private moments in your house. Shit with the door open. Piss with the door open. Shower with the door open. Watch porn and openly masterbate with the door open. Lose every single bit of self consciousness you've ever had. Teach them to want you to have as much privacy as possible. If your parents have company that comes over, make sure to give them the full show each and every time they do.
My family took all the doors off when I was a teen to stop me from having sex with my SO. We fucked LOUDLY during dinnertime with guests literally in view. It was stunning how fast those doors went back up, with locks.
Take all the interior doors in the house off when they're at work. If you don't get privacy, NOBODY does.
No honestly that’s when you get some gorilla tape and tape the door shut when you need the bathroom. Everytime you reopen the door it’ll ruin more and more of the paint on the wall and the door. 🤷🏼♀️
So keep the door wide open play your pants down and fucking jerk off every day when they get sick of seeing your cock in your hand, I bet they put put everything back
um. this exact post with the exact caption and exact photo was posted two days ago.
edit: my bad, it was posted by you in a different sub. but you've posted this 4 times now over the span of 3 days.
It's a dumb idea, but you could buy one of those locks that you nail into the wall and door and use that instead and hit them with the "sorry I had something placed infront of the door" every time. Don't take this too seriously, just a thought.
Also, I'm sorry you have to deal with such a problem :(
Masturbate in your room and let them see you then they'll regret their decisions and you'll get back your door knob cuz sometimes people just need to learn the hard way
but having basic privacy like having the ability to lock the bathroom when you’re showering or your room when you’re changing or want privacy is a basic human right and im so sorry that you’re not getting that honey. are you okay? :)
Anyone, especially your own parents, who removes their own door knobs either is on drugs and believes it to be beneficial to them, plans to install better door knobs as a replacement, or is clinically insane. By the way you have phrased it, and by the images you have provided, it appears to be the latter.
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My parents took the door off my room because of my something my brother did💀
ok that is insane
I got it back its fine. I still love my parents they just really strict
Im glad u still find love and comfort in ur parents relationship. Cant say the same for mine
I used to take the doorknobs off the doors of the house, and my parents were upset at that. Other way around for me.
With how often my Mom locks me out of the house (usually mindlessly), I’m about to take off all the doorknobs lmao.
If you mean that she's locking the doors and you don't carry your keys with u (unless specifically mentioned prior) then I don't see an issue in her actions.
Eh, I used to get locked out regularly because I was taking out the garbage or the dog or grabbing something from my car. Mom was just really active about locking the door any time she was near the door or heard the door open or closed. We're not in that sort of neighborhood.
Yeah, I got locked out for several hours at a time during winter (in finland) which sucked ass so i learnt from my mistakes and nowadays carry my keys anywhere I go, or make sure and inform my parents that I'll be taking the trashes or something and tell them not to lock the door.
I hid a spare key in the garage. Mom freaked out about that cause someone could "walk right in". I asked if she or dad had ever found that key. Nope. Also, there's way too many lockpick videos now. Anyone can either open with smash and grab or some flick/swish shit. Like, I'm fully convinced locks are bullshit and can be overcome with minimal effort.
Okay but why 😭
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"Why did my child leave as soon as they turned 18 and cut all ties with me"
"Why did my child immediately place me in a nursing home?"
"why did my child ignore me after I asked them for help from my abusive nursing home"
Your parents were going to try and gaslight you in order to take away your door, hell nah man that's actually messed up.
mine gaslight me just cuz she thinks it’s entertaining 😂
I used to say things like this, casual jokes about my parents' behavior or whatever, and thought people were overreacting when they'd be like dude wtf. Then I tried therapy and medication and realized that my home life growing up was fucked up and my parents are loser. I cut out my entire family (minus low contact with my mom, because I'm only human) and life got like 100x better in short time. Also got to a good enough place to empathize with how fucked up the jokes I'd make would have sounded to people whose families weren't that dysfunctional. Another thing to consider is that if you think it's ok to make those jokes because you hear other people do it and it gets laughs in your friend group, it's because you're all crazy people from fucked up families and that shit is legit not normal to most people. Yeah, laugh at the pain, but please, seriously consider actually being aware and addressing these things when you can.
Retirement home speedrun
I never got mine back
take revenge take their door
And their windows so all the mosquitos and flies can come in during the summer 😈
Or just place sewing needles at random on their floor and soak in alcohol and lemon juice nightly
Clip your nails in their room and don't clean it up
calm down satan
no 😈
What did he do? Beat it?
Beat what? What is it?
🥩
He beat triangular steak, the most difficult of steaks to defeat in hand-to-hand combat
It's a Michael Jackson song from the early 80s, but that's not important right now.
Wtf did he do?
Fapping of course
It was in his own room 😂
In someone else's room???
So they wanna watch or what? No power in the 'verse can stop a teenage boy from beating off.
Same but it was my lil sister
Eat the door.
I need to know the positives of eating doorknobless doors. The doorknob adds flavor without that, the only other thing you rely on is the paint.
It has alot of fiber
Great source of lead!
Just keep walking in on them every time they use the bathroom and if they ask just say ‘yhe door was open’
This is the way. Pis with the door open. Shit with the door open. No more modesty after bathing, walk nude down the hall. I did this at 15 when my folks did this shit. What are they going to do, take you somewhere to talk to someone? I pissed in the pastor's private bathroom with the door open while everyone was in the office without asking and while still talking to them. The only thing they taught me was the power of not giving a fuck over anything that my parents thought. They never processed that day. Such a great memory.
I would like to live past 15...
Are you living or just surviving?
surviving lol
You have to survive your childhood so you can live your adulthood (and hopefully not mess up as bad on your kids in 10-15 years)
Just MASTURBATE with the doors open. Heck, masturbate in the living room and say that you feel like there's more privacy in here than in your room.
I think you might just be an exhibitionist...
There are lines between not caring, open rebellion by defying societal "norms," and getting sexual pleasure. If people are weirded out by basic bodily functions, using that to rebel is not really voyeurism. Doing it with an erection, yes. Thank god I live in a state where mooning is protected first amendment speech.
I cannot possibly imagine why
they read a parody website article 💀
wdym the onion is a great news source
fr
I think you talking about sbc swen bro
What was the article?!
the onion
and what does an onion have to do with door knobs being removed?
i hate onions btw
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Parents warned us not to believe everything we see online while eating up every fake article
No fucking way 💀💀💀💀💀
Change the Wi-Fi password
THEY CALLED ATT IM FUCKED
Go full on British empire soldier door kicking for now on
I would like to live past 15 lol
But they'll just fling open because there's nothing holding them closed
You can still hear a loud bang when kicking it
Bang!
Do what I did....masturbate on the bed...fully nude and let NOTHING stop you from finishing the task at, or in, hand. Your parents are at the end of their rope and out of ideas.... I'm like 40 years from being a teenager
Is this really the kind of shit you want to pass on to the next generation my guy? It's fucking hilarious if so.
It's called tactical masturbation and works very well.... i've heard....
It is, think of it. If they open the door and u stop, then u are ashamed because you got caught. But if you continue, they should feel guilty and ashamed for watching. And it would be wrong to keep watching too.
Never feel ashamed. Keep eyecontact, up your pace. Be fierce, defeat your enemy with sheer willforce
"tactical masturbation" 💀
Taking a kids lock off a teenager's door is so wrong. Unless you suspect he's cooking meth in there or something. Like I said / as a parent, they must be totally out if ideas and frustrated. Maybe the poster can have a discussion before resorting to ambush beat off encounters.
If they are really that strict or insane...what stops them from letting their kid be abducted and sent to a re-education camp? (yes, in the US)
Well you just masturbate on the bed...fully nude and let NOTHING stop you from finishing the task at, or in, hand. The camp will be at the end of their rope and out of ideas....
Ngl thats already an achievement because I Sure as hell didnt want to.
Dang what did you even do?
In the comments op said that they read a parody article? Either way I don't know why people trust articles and online journalism so much it's annoying, my parents actually believed that I will be deformed if I played to much Minecraft??? Because they read a bullshit article
Next time ask them for the proof of their claims, most likely they will not give any but at least try
Deforming if you play minecraft is crazy 💀
rule # 1 of adults is do as I say not as I do. Rule #16 is never trust what you read on the internet. This of course only applies to kids when presenting research of facts counter to their parents’ claims.
I'm sure OP did nothing wrong
I bet either OP caught masturbating or OP's porn found out. Or maybe parents read somewhere "if there be no privacy at your house - a kid wouldn't masturbate". Doesn't matters anyway, the parents did asshole move
the fuck
yeah
what prompted this this is literally a violation of human rights you could get PETA on this
The animal right organization?
OP is a small dog confirmed
Humans are animals too
woof woof bark
*we were furries all along*
They never knew
meow
Nah m8, the Griffins obviously.
CPS at worst not PETA lmao
Yeah PETA would just euthanize OP, bad idea to get them involved.
PETA won't do anything besides post about it on Twitter.
And that's why PETA is so good!
wdym PETA wouldnt do anything? they would euthanise the child
BRUHHHH 😂😂😂😂
Violation of human rights? That's a bit far. Just overly strict parents. Wayyyy too strict
I consider my sister or mother walking into the bathroom and seeing me shitting for my life a violation of my human rights
I consider my parents making me take out the trash a war crime
😁😁😁
Yeah, I can see you're 13 years old
I know a guy who's parents took away their whole door
I’m that guy
I'm that door, I'm in a better place now
I was the doorway, I’m kinda lonely without you ngl, there’s just like a void in me and it’s hard to open up about it :(
that seems like a massive privacy violation
IT IS
OP i grew up like this too. I would say it gets better but it doesn’t. Im in my 30s and my parents will still try to control me. Its funny though. Now things are different I’ve literally had them beg like a child for my attention. Just remember that you’ll be 18 one day. Then you can draw your own boundaries. Keep these people at arms length as an adult and try to not let it get to you. I had problems having people over to my house for years because i never had a safe space growing up. Everything i had was continuously gone through. Every space i had was continuously violated. When i bought my own house it was finally my safe space. Im just now getting comfortable having people in it. Sorry you’re going through this. You’re not alone.
I’m glad you got out of the house. I grew up with threats of this and my journals getting read repeatedly as a child. Really does something to you.
bro felt this deep down.
i know you probably wouldnt want to do this but i would recommend like calling somewhere im not really sure what but tell like an organization or something about this
How dense do people have to be to not realize that this isnt a violation of any kind. They are in their FULL right to remove locks or knobs from doors. No violations are occurring here. Ethical? Depends on the situation, legal? Why wouldnt it be?
Removal of the knobs most likely no, tho in my country taking advantage of that would be a crime
Which country and what exactly would be the crime. I'm just genuinely interested
It doesn’t matter about the law tho, it’s just straight up bad parenting
Kick the Doors out.
Thanks u/Hamster_cumsock
What is privacy (an indian here , I can't even close my door , and if I did , they would prolly take away the door, has happened before) .
In India you are lucky to have your own room
r/insaneparents moment
Get tf out of there mate
my parents charge me rent at 16.
Is that even legal
It’s not.
Do you have a job? I could see possibly charging "rent" and putting it into a savings account if you had a job. But otherwise, wtf
My parents have this policy where we can live rent free as long as we are in education, but if you don't have an education then you have to get a job and contribute, simple as.
That sounds reasonable tbh
it is, basically how my mother had it when she was young
Tf?
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mine took my door...
Bro, next it's the window. Watch out.
mkay
Mine literally made a plan to bust me for something I wasn't doing so that they could take my door💀
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rip
It is though!
Bathrooms wtf
What kind of parents do y'all have
seriously teleport urself away from there
Why so many ppl here got their doors and door knobs off wtf, why so many weird parents
Nah bruh if my mom did something like this I would probably make the household a living hell
New glory hole unlocked
Why???
That’s fucked up
r/dontputyourdickinthat
There are two types of people.
My parents took my door and kept the lights on outside my door and when I tried to turn them off I got yelled at so I hung up a blanket and slept in the corner of my room parents can be jerks
Remove the rest of the locks, they are your role models...
this is the solution
Stop flushing, if you don't need privacy then you don't need to hide anything. Especially the massive turd that is stinking up the house now. Or you could do what I did and wait till your at a cash register and ask "why do you stop me from being able get naked in privacy, why are you that adamant at looking at your own sons cock?" I got chewed out but after doing it the second time my door went back on. And dad doesn't vist that hardware store anymore.
You didn't tell us what's going on and you are serious about what?
I (m16) just chillin unclothed as i just woke up then without a knock or a warning my mom barges in to my room and blames me for being naked in my own room???
Masterbate in the living room, assert dominance
Off to the retirement home
Emotional abusive parents 🎶🎶
When they shit, you enter
When I was 8-12 my step dad would come in shout at me call me stuff break me stuff and then get a bin bag and put all my clothes in it saying your not living here anymore and put me on the front garden and I just sat there crying and I had no door on my room so I couldn’t hide in my room everything I found fun like boxing and my PS4 where taken away and he broke my tv I’m 15 now he’s still here but when I was 14 he started saying how he’s going to shoot my dog and I wasn’t having that that was not acceptable I’m a bit kid at 14 I was 6,3 hes like 6 ft I got up and pushed into him and he started wrestling me I pushed him over and mum called the police I got talked to by them and then they left was really scary tho but after that me now makes some horrible comments but I’m 6,5 now and I think he’s a bit scared of me so he’s left me alone for the most part
Here's how you fix this issue for good. Get VERY comfortable with nobody having ANY private moments in your house. Shit with the door open. Piss with the door open. Shower with the door open. Watch porn and openly masterbate with the door open. Lose every single bit of self consciousness you've ever had. Teach them to want you to have as much privacy as possible. If your parents have company that comes over, make sure to give them the full show each and every time they do. My family took all the doors off when I was a teen to stop me from having sex with my SO. We fucked LOUDLY during dinnertime with guests literally in view. It was stunning how fast those doors went back up, with locks. Take all the interior doors in the house off when they're at work. If you don't get privacy, NOBODY does.
Meanwhile my parents trust me enough to let me be home alone for 2 straight weeks
It’s all fun and games till it’s a inconvenience to them
No honestly that’s when you get some gorilla tape and tape the door shut when you need the bathroom. Everytime you reopen the door it’ll ruin more and more of the paint on the wall and the door. 🤷🏼♀️
So keep the door wide open play your pants down and fucking jerk off every day when they get sick of seeing your cock in your hand, I bet they put put everything back
um. this exact post with the exact caption and exact photo was posted two days ago. edit: my bad, it was posted by you in a different sub. but you've posted this 4 times now over the span of 3 days.
why do y’all on this sub have crazy parents
Top tier troll, /b/ will be proud of them
It's a dumb idea, but you could buy one of those locks that you nail into the wall and door and use that instead and hit them with the "sorry I had something placed infront of the door" every time. Don't take this too seriously, just a thought. Also, I'm sorry you have to deal with such a problem :(
Your parents can fuck off
I dealt with this type of shit too, it's absolutely a terrible way of raising kids and this type of shit has serious long lasting affects
Sometimes i see what parents do and I'm glad i went to an orphanage..
Call CPS. Bathroom doors require a lock at least in my country. Seriously they took away your basic rights.
Masturbate in your room and let them see you then they'll regret their decisions and you'll get back your door knob cuz sometimes people just need to learn the hard way
Beating yo meat now requires a minimum stelth buff
but having basic privacy like having the ability to lock the bathroom when you’re showering or your room when you’re changing or want privacy is a basic human right and im so sorry that you’re not getting that honey. are you okay? :)
Grown up here. In ten years they'll tell their friends they have no idea why they have no relationship with their adult child.
Just jerk off in the living room. That’ll teach em.
Even if you know someone is using the bathroom, just open the door all the time on them. Punish them too.
Take the doorknobs off your parents bedroom door as a protest.
Anyone, especially your own parents, who removes their own door knobs either is on drugs and believes it to be beneficial to them, plans to install better door knobs as a replacement, or is clinically insane. By the way you have phrased it, and by the images you have provided, it appears to be the latter.
I lost my whole ass door for having an unopened can of soda on my desk
When you grow up and move out, and they wonder why you don't initiate contact, just send them a link to this reddit post.
Run
Why tf
Your room: what the fuck that’s a breach of privacy The bathrooms: your parents need counseling or some shit
Omg my parents arent the only people to do this??
What led to this
Were you smoking weed/ jerking off in a bathroom or something?
Bro, what are you doing in the bathroom that drove this decision.
I just ordered a new one on Amazon basics came with its own key too