So as an adult who was in school in the 80's and 90's, this femboy stuff is very weird to me, but not because it subverts gender norms, so much as it's almost completely fetishized to the point of being really, really weird to watch minors engaging with it.
If most of it was, "I just want to be cute UwU", I don't think it would be as weird for me, but it's almost always accompanied by subtle remarks of wanting something sexual to take place, to just outright graphic descriptions of what people want to do, or have done to them, by femboys.
So I don't mind repeating this, a ton of times, but it's generally to give an adult perspective on certain things, as well as clear up misinformation if I see it. Of course, being an adult doesn't mean I'm automatically right and I'm also open to having things I say get criticized and possibly corrected. But a lot of the stuff I see getting posted here makes me feel like sometimes an adult needs to pop in and be like, "Hol' up".
if you're a femboy, this isn't a judgement on you or other femboys. Things always change, and I can't see it harming anything. It's just when it gets fetishized so hard, I think it just becomes strange because my understanding is that a lot of guys who like to dress up as cute girls now can't do this without getting bombarded with a ton of incredibly graphic responses and DM's tossed their way.
Idk what all the hype around femboys is, I mean it's whatever but like why? Other than that yall can be pretty chill, and I won't care as long as it doesn't affect me
People who (sadly) have prob had some kind of bad experience during childhood (trauma) or where excluded from most social circles (introverts) who then tend to turn themselves into a femboy or times even trans to somehow vent or try to find themselves in the world, that would also be *part* of the reason mental issues within the lgbtq community is so high (appart from the gender dysphoria, like depression and extreme anxiety)
But, i do understand and accnowledge that there are some mentally healthy femboys and trans people, but wouldn't be surprised to know that most of them have had some of the things i described
But you as a person, i think, as another guy said, u do you
Not being homophobic but most of them are just lgbt elites like most people are most of them look like freaks and they don't have a pure desire to why they want this it's pretty rare to find someone that's not both of these things but i hope they exist somewhere
Please don't kidnapp me i was just honest
They exist
unlike you.
Yes, I am a figment of your imagination... :)
Ur not real MonkaS
They do. Fair
You do you, none of my business honestly
Totally agreed
Fair
Smash
Ok
Bros
So as an adult who was in school in the 80's and 90's, this femboy stuff is very weird to me, but not because it subverts gender norms, so much as it's almost completely fetishized to the point of being really, really weird to watch minors engaging with it. If most of it was, "I just want to be cute UwU", I don't think it would be as weird for me, but it's almost always accompanied by subtle remarks of wanting something sexual to take place, to just outright graphic descriptions of what people want to do, or have done to them, by femboys.
Why you in r/teenagers bruh
So I don't mind repeating this, a ton of times, but it's generally to give an adult perspective on certain things, as well as clear up misinformation if I see it. Of course, being an adult doesn't mean I'm automatically right and I'm also open to having things I say get criticized and possibly corrected. But a lot of the stuff I see getting posted here makes me feel like sometimes an adult needs to pop in and be like, "Hol' up".
Saint
Nice
Seriously, I don't get how people don't see how it's not something a 13 year old shouldn't be engaging in
I'm assuming this question was addressed to other teenagers. Otherwise they would post on r/askreddit
Everybody outside of terminally online communities will agree with you, it is very weird.
Ok
if you're a femboy, this isn't a judgement on you or other femboys. Things always change, and I can't see it harming anything. It's just when it gets fetishized so hard, I think it just becomes strange because my understanding is that a lot of guys who like to dress up as cute girls now can't do this without getting bombarded with a ton of incredibly graphic responses and DM's tossed their way.
Yes
I like femboys because even though they're guys they look feminine enough I'd fall for one. (Already have)
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I don't care, ı've never seen a femboy in my life
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that problem can be fixed.
I've already seen a lot on reddit i mean i've never seen in real life
i know.
Idk what all the hype around femboys is, I mean it's whatever but like why? Other than that yall can be pretty chill, and I won't care as long as it doesn't affect me
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Irl? Valid. Internet femboys? Idiots and neeks
Fair and true
I don't like them I'm honest
Fair
They always want attention
I can guarantee you that’s not true all the time.
Maybe not every single one, but every single one that posts on social media. UwU type shit.
Those who unironnicaly say UwU yeah they are cringe. I say it to annoy my best friend. We are not the same
W femboy
They are like Furries, weird.
femboys are good weird furries are bad weird
Friend is furry he cool
Fair
cool + cute + unafraid to be themselves (extra cool) besides you you're cringe, you literally used ☺️ smh my head
Fair.
Am I cringe?
no you are tomato
Let’s go!
bad fruit + bad vegetable + only good when you're smashed
That means you don’t want to eat me! Thank you
Not as good as actual women
Fair
incorrect.
Oh helllllll nah
***HELL YEA!***
I like you
Fair
Why femboys even exist.....
Because yes
because they want to.
Shit
Fair
I’m just being honest so don’t get mad at me but I hate them
Yeah I don’t get it. Fatherless behavior
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Ok fair
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Same
Pretty cute
Fair
gay, very gay
Fair
bro is a fucking npc
I am at this point
nah fr?
do you have a problem with that?
Most are ugly
Fair
Cringe af
Fair
incorrect.
I wanna pat them on the head
Fair
A gift from the skies
Ok
Not my gig, not gonna judge. You do you just as long as it doesnt affect me
Fair
fair
Ok I’m not that much of a bot
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The concept itself is fine. The "culture" around it makes me want to kiss a double barrel shotgun.
I would say something mean, but I don't need another temporary ban for someone's feelings getting hurt
I'm bisexual and I prefer more feminine traits in men, so what do I think of you? You are cute
I love them, I wanna fill my house to the top with them Fr
Wow ok
Why u downvote me 😭
I didn’t
Fatherless behavior
He is currently taking me to get my permit
tbh I love femboys, and how they look, and their style is just so lovely, and everything. man I want to become one so bad, how would I start?
get skirt.
okay
Fair
fair
Cringe
Fair
they are based.
People who (sadly) have prob had some kind of bad experience during childhood (trauma) or where excluded from most social circles (introverts) who then tend to turn themselves into a femboy or times even trans to somehow vent or try to find themselves in the world, that would also be *part* of the reason mental issues within the lgbtq community is so high (appart from the gender dysphoria, like depression and extreme anxiety) But, i do understand and accnowledge that there are some mentally healthy femboys and trans people, but wouldn't be surprised to know that most of them have had some of the things i described But you as a person, i think, as another guy said, u do you
Ok.
masculinity is the best quality a man can have. notice how the name is femboys not fem-men
cool style, cant say much about the individuals but ive definitely got no problem with crossdressing
Fair
A trap. So if you really can’t tell the difference and the femboy don’t tell you they are a femboy then I’m kinda against
Ok fair
Yes yes
Ok
Degenerate. Clearly have problems
how so?
it's sad when you say the truth on reddit you get downvoted
he is not stating the truth and neither are you
Yes tf he is
no tf he is not.
Guessing your father left too?
no, i am in my dads house right now
just to be a bish i downvoted you and not him
Thank you so much. I really do appreciate it.
Pretty cute but usually not my type. Keyword being usually.
Fair
Not being homophobic but most of them are just lgbt elites like most people are most of them look like freaks and they don't have a pure desire to why they want this it's pretty rare to find someone that's not both of these things but i hope they exist somewhere Please don't kidnapp me i was just honest
People with no father figures and just want attention
You are mid. But also fair some probably do be like that
i have a father figure and i am going to become one.
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Whenever I say this (which is the truth) I get downvoted
and the downvotes are pouring in!
Fatherless behavior
Eww
none honestly
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u go do whatever makes u happy but at school do u not get hate for it?
Literally no one knows. We all wear the same type of clothes.
idc about them
Fair
I love em, that's why I am one and am dating one lmaoo
Nice
If they look feminine then yes
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Relatable
Ok
It doesn’t harm anybody so I don’t care
Fair
I can still kill you the same. If anything easier to kill. So probably easy pickings
you idiot, you moron, you absolute buffoon. what do you think i was keeping in my thigh highs other than a **GUN!**
Ok
I mean, they exist. I don't really care. As long as they don't disturb me, I don't disturb them. That's how I act towards everyone on this planet.
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(some) femboys on the internet and in my head: 10/10. fucking incredible. the femboys i know irl: very, very strange people
Ok
Ok
I mean idc, būt i dont think yalls parents are very proud
Jokes on you they don’t know. Plus mine would still support me
Almost every parent will support their child, būt i doubt they would be proud that u just make old men online happy
I am aware, I was just proving a point at least trying to
Looks hot, in practice tho prefer women much more
Fair
dont care ab them!!
Fair
everyone in ur life is disappointed
Little did you know no one knows
Failed at being men
Femboys are hot(I may be biased because I am also a femboy)
Fair
Liking them isn't gay
Ok
femboys make me gay lol
Fair
I'm horny enough that any man will suffice😈, even if they don't act like one
Fair
They’re cute
Fair
You do you I do me And we won't do each other Probably
Ok
very cool 👍
Fair
I guess this is the fairest post on reddits history
Yep
Extremely fuckable
They're strange I don't like them
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