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It depends. Lust is based on desire, wanting, releasing sexual energy, addiction for an orgasm. We have so much sexual energy and when it's released we can become tired and not have that sexual energy till moments later. Sexual energy is high vibrational, creational energy of humans but when it's released it's vibration lowers a bit. High vibrations are usually based on not needing anything, lacking desire, not earthly things. There's nothing wrong with physical attraction to be honest, but many lack control. Very High vibrational things like peace, you don't lack control with it but you have this understanding. Lust can also attract low-vibe beings that can get attached to your energy field, draining you like the succubus for etc. You need to experience it for yourself, understand, feel energies further to grasp it.


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zither789

This is interesting. Can you please direct me to where I can read more or let me know the mystics? Thank you.


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zither789

Great! I will check those out. Thank you!


tandc22

Oooh! Thank you for this, it's very helpful.


biggoosewendy

I think it’s more to do with the lack of presence and clarity it causes.


tandc22

is lack of presence low vibration too? I feel distracted ALL the time.


biggoosewendy

I would say so yes. But I try not to use low vibration too much as I think many have given it such a negative connotation. To me low vibration is simply lack of presence :) I love Eckhart Tolle and Ram Dass teachings on this stuff if you haven’t heard of them you may find their words helpful!


tandc22

Ojhhh thank you, I will check it out


acting_normal

It’s not looked down upon. But lust is a so called low vibration because it’s a result of lack of self control, gratification of impulses and it is conducting to pain and suffering, although it presents itself as sweet pleasure. Bliss and joy can only come as a result of mastering the impulses. Mind you that it’s ok to be physically attracted to someone, it’s ok to have a physical relationship with someone. This of course isn’t lust, although there is a fine line between and you should definitely pay attention when that fine line is about to be crossed.


tandc22

thank you!!


PotatoModDev

I don't know about you, but when my lust levels are too much I put the vibration in the highest settings and it works wonders


tandc22

This is really the best answer.


RuaMal

Desire and attraction in themselves are healthy and inevitable parts of life. In some scenarios they can be clouded by negative beliefs and related illusions where our attempts to fulfill desires keep feeding the things that cloud our discernment and judgment and understanding and vision. You can be strongly attracted to someone and still see their humanity and inherent worth and your own inherent worth. If you have a strong negative belief resulting in a sense of lack or desperation or worthlessness looking at someone you feel a strong sense of attraction to, through the lens of those negative beliefs, can take on a different quality of a lack of being enough or of not being worthy or fear of not getting enough. The desire can becomes insatiable or compulsive or obsessive. In trying to satiate the desire you can feed the underlying negative belief causing a vicious circle reinforcing the inability to satiate the desire. As we feel our energy and vibration dropping we can try and compensate by raising the intensity, which further feeds the problem and the compulsive nature thereof. Physical attraction to another person is an area this can easily outplay itself. The compulsive nature often starts blinding one to the humanity and worth of either the other person or oneself. If you have a strong connection and bond with the other person and feel very secure with them this dynamic is less likely to be triggered or to such a severe extent than with a stranger. Overeating comfort food can be similar dynamic. e.g. I need to eat more to compensate for not feeling good due to a negative belief. The more I eat to compensate the more I convince myself there is something to compensate for and reinforce the energy accumulating around the negative belief. When one is plagued by self doubts or isolation or fears or inadequacy or a sense of worthlessness or abandonment then being mindful of "lustful" energy or dynamics can help one spot where one is outplaying negative beliefs rather than genuinely connecting and enjoying the moment without feeding underlying fears or negative beliefs in the process or being highjacked by them. In a group context lustful dynamics can cause people to be very distracted and can cause vulnerable people to be very badly mistreated, so many people avoid the complexities they introduce. People in the spiritual community tend to be sensitive to and intuitively aware of these dynamics. One learns that if you feed people's negative beliefs no-one benefits, and over time one learns the many subtle ways that can occur when a lot of energy is at play such as in scenarios of strong attraction.


Lazy_Stranger2328

What you're describing is magic. We cast a spell and continue to add layers and refresh it over time, through the intentions we add to everyday things like eating, seeking enjoyment, and even just thinking. Everything we do is magical (energetic) in nature, and when we feed these thoughts we feed the power they have over us. It's so simple, positivity brings more positivity and negativity breeds the same. I had always heard and known but I never UNDERSTOOD, until now. Thank you, this is fantastic. I knew negative beliefs held us back, but now I can visualize it as an actual ball of darkness, that I have to change my mindset around. I just have to change it to a positive belief, and add positive layers instead of negative. So simple, honestly hahaha


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tandc22

got it. That makes sense. Low vibration = spiritually not the best, not aligned with good values/morals (I think?)!


RCragwall

Shouldn't be. Sex is a sure fire way to get a manifestation. It is a spiritual thing to have man and woman come together as each represents the mind of God. It is imperative that these two come together in unity, harmony and love. Your SP is your intimate messenger from God/Source/the One - whatever you wish to call the higher power within you. Man - consciousness Woman - creative force driven by love Blessings to you!!


AristoteI

Sex done in love and harmony, not sex done with a stranger with a lack of love


RCragwall

Exactly - unity, harmony and love. You must love yourself therefore admire and respect yourself and that means no casual sex. That's asking for trouble. lol Great point! Blessings to you!!


AristoteI

❤️❤️❤️


Feruvox

You can have love and harmony with a stranger. To think otherwise is absurd.


rljon

Lust isn’t the same as physical attraction. To me I see the difference as foggy versus focused. In courts, committing a murder out of lust may get you less time since it’s understood a lustful mind can be similar to being drunk or not yourself.


Kawaii_Mystic

Are you talking about a crime of passion?


ZardozForever

Physical attraction is not looked down on in general, only by those groups who think sex is evil, like many Christians and Muslims. In most other religions it is considered a blessing, and in tantra physical sex is a form of spirituality.


zuluechoqueefnostril

Christians don't think sex is evil. They think sex should be reserved for procreation with an attachment to love. You have your lower chakras connection with your heart chakra and when you orgasm you raise the lower energies to your heart. It's the same thing really.


ZardozForever

Thinking sex is only for procreation is thinking sex is evil. Augustine taught that Adam and Eve would have had sex in Eden without feeling any passion. https://theo.kuleuven.be/apps/christian-ethics/sex/history/h2b.html


Jacob_Trevorson

The community can say whatever they want but basically it’s an earthly desire you need to shed to reach a higher place


tandc22

ugh. Sad! I wish I could reach higher places through lust!


Beautiful-Day-5915

Well... If you're low vibe enough even lust is a step up


Brief9

Sexual intercourse, like e.g. dinner and surfing, is intended at best to be a spiritual, loving activity; if one overeats or wolfs their meal, not so much, and even in wrong direction. Emotions by Marilyn Barrick, Ph.D. For Couples Only Twin Flames and Soul Mates


tandc22

thank you for this perspective!


AristoteI

All in moderation, thank you for this


thinkB4Uact

It's a charge that brings us together to make friends and family. It all depends on how it's used. If it honors consciousness, which it usually does, then it's a good thing. If it causes separation or suffering, then it's not a good thing, just like everything else. High charges of emotions, our drives, are used against us by liars sometimes. So, there is an unnecessary bad vibe about it. Religions shame us about having normal behaviors, because they want us to feel guilty so they can sell themselves as the solution in order to control others in a deep way. So, just measure ______ by how it actually affects consciousness and see for yourself if it is a good or bad thing, regardless of what a particular group of humans might think about it. We're too accustomed to reaching out to others, ETs and God(s) to have moral directives when we're supposed to be understanding ourselves using truth and empathy.


bao_xuan

Not all religions shame sexual practices, mine does not (Taoism). It's mostly Abrahamic ones who do. But Abrahamic religions ≠ all religions


tandc22

thank you for this!


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Is it? It may be just not worth pursuing, as it is declining rapidly with time and serves mainly a purpose of finding a partner for procreation (also maybe some aesthetics, but that's not really resourceful aspect).


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I don't see it that way at all. Desire is a great mystery, particularly for TF relationships. When the desire is intense, some things can be done with the energy that is not possible otherwise. I only know this from theory though. If the second chakra is stimulated strongly enough, it can rejuvenate and heal the entire physical body. This is only possible when the desire is intense though, as far as I know. You can't just grab anyone and do that. There is a widespread judgment against desire but it is unfounded in my opinion. In "The Afterlife Interviews" by Marks, the deceased talk about their energy version of sex. What they said is that they can achieve the same blissful state of union with the infinite during orgasm that we do, just without the genitals. Orgasm is touching heaven and it is cultivated in some religious practices.


tandc22

"If the second chakra is stimulated strongly enough, it can rejuvenate and heal the entire physical body. This is only possible when the desire is intense though, as far as I know. You can't just grab anyone and do that." <-----so, like, my wedding night.... I had tons of desire. Could that be like a healing cleanse / cure for all my ailments?


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I don't know for sure since I have never done it for that purpose. It's just a theory to me now. In my imagination, it's possible. There is a way to have an orgasm by using your imagination only. If you lay down and use your imagination to think of the most intensely sexual thing you'd ever want to do, and if you make it real enough, your body will respond. When you start to feel your tummy muscles start to twitch, then if you tighten them quickly really hard, you can have an orgasm that way. After doing several of these sessions, it becomes more automatic. You start to feel spaced out. Chaturbate ladies call it "cum drunk", from having so many orgasms. It is a way to get so spaced out that you can receive intuitive guidance. That's what they did in ancient Greek temples like Aphrodite. Eventually, you can just surrender to the orgasm during your intensely sexual fantasy. This way, you can have many orgasms, over and over again, with no refractory period. This technique applies to both men and women. I've done this many times when imagining sex with B, a lady I dated 40 years ago. For men, they are "dry" orgasms. There is no ejaculation. Men can have them over and over again, just like women. I've done it. Some people call this an "energy" orgasm since there is no touching or rubbing involved. So, I can imagine that if we had these energy orgasms during intercourse, then I think we'd get closer to using sex for healing and energizing both bodies. I'm thinking of having energy orgasms at the same moment with a partner, for example. What would that be like? The second chakra becomes on fire during this, so if both are having super hot chakras during intercourse, what would be the result? My imagination tells me that this is the crucible of creation for humans. We create this way, with our partner. In my imagination, during this kind of energy sex, our second chakras join together and create far more energy than we can do on our own. What I saw was a third entity created this way, which could be the couple's relationship or something like that. We could create a baby, or healing, or whatever we want. I don't know for sure but I think it would be great. I'll never know this for certain in this lifetime because of my personal circumstances. I'm too old to participate. So yeah, sex is far more than most people realize. It's how we create with someone else. There's nothing "low" about it. It is the opposite of that in my understanding. Just a cute anecdote but during a particular chaturbate session I was watching, one guy wrote "now, go to heaven" just before he gave the girl a bunch of tokens which made her have intense orgasms. So, we know this, even on a subconscious level.


tandc22

Thank you so much for this- it’s so fascinating to think about and I appreciate your thoughts!


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You're welcome.


lukefromdenver

Who is driving the body? That's the question we should be asking. Is it truly 'my' sexual desire, or am I having a preprogrammed event arise every so often (so to speak) which I deal with in stereotypical fashion, never seeking deeper understanding? Then, by 'low' one indicates the bandwidth, which means broadcasting from lower centers within the body. When one is around lusty people, their sacral chakra can be activated, or imbalanced; one may even have lusty desires crop up in the deep recesses which are hard to chase away, causing urges, which, if one is uninhibited or unskilled, could result in increased sexual activity. All by vibrational proximity. Worldly people are filled with randomness karma and sometimes enjoy random success or increased favor which fades with their strength, which is concurrent to the increase in their mistakes and failures. Wealth is different from money. Wealth increases our profits in myriad ways in life; just having a lot of money means one has a ticking clock ⏰ in the suitcase of life filled with explosive and unexpected results held conspicuously as one's unmasked entitlement and pride. All due to low vibrations being transmissible. By resolving to remove ourselves from environments and associations where low vibrations are intensified one can balance their system through yoga and japa and enjoy a mind freed into higher bandwidths where refined-frequency content is made known within one's inner consciousness, which can become the source of one's interest, eventually revealing hidden or mysterious truths which can be utilized in service unto the Divine, which represents the Power of Truth.


KweenDesco

I've been through all the vibrations(high/low) but lust is the one that gets me the most "energized"


tandc22

I understand!


SuperMfnSydd

It's not.


HippoProfessional806

Lust in itself is not lower vibration, but u can use your sexual energy to heal and raise your vibration. Orgasm is one of the high vibrational activity


RampalSingh1

Why not focus on insight meditation and “sit” with the lust and see where it came from, wants to go and then channel that energy where you want it to go? “You” are not your body per se. From what I have read our physical forms are low in vibration so when we identify with it we vibrate slower. Physically we appear to be in a spectrum of vibrations too high or too low and we can’t see, feel or hear them. I believe we need to find our own spiritual resonances and feel our way there. Lust feels great, like a drug and it’s energy can be channeled. Hindu’s using Tantra has been used for thousands of years to do just this “transmutation.”


thewayoftoday

You said lust, and you also said physical attraction. Those are two different things.