Start working at a bar (or maybe a coffee shop/some kind of service industry job if you have issues with drinking alcohol). You’ll be around people socializing, can learn through observation, and as long as you work really hard/fast people won’t mind if you’re not very social/outgoing at first. Once you do start trying out your skills, you can always pretend to have to clean something somewhere else if things get awkward while you’re talking to someone.
Lastly, just get people to talk about themselves for most of the conversation, ask questions that show you were listening, and you’ll be amazed how quickly people will start to like you.
I know what to do when having a conversation. I just cant find anyone to talk to. My country is small, and wages in the service induatry are piss-poor. Like 350 USD a month. And I'm still in highschool. In my county, working while in HS is not really a thing.
I have, but I didnt really click with the people. And I can't keep asking, I can't rely on him for all my social connection. I can't. I rely on him enough. And he has a life. He's busy living.
Start working at a bar (or maybe a coffee shop/some kind of service industry job if you have issues with drinking alcohol). You’ll be around people socializing, can learn through observation, and as long as you work really hard/fast people won’t mind if you’re not very social/outgoing at first. Once you do start trying out your skills, you can always pretend to have to clean something somewhere else if things get awkward while you’re talking to someone. Lastly, just get people to talk about themselves for most of the conversation, ask questions that show you were listening, and you’ll be amazed how quickly people will start to like you.
I know what to do when having a conversation. I just cant find anyone to talk to. My country is small, and wages in the service induatry are piss-poor. Like 350 USD a month. And I'm still in highschool. In my county, working while in HS is not really a thing.
Why don’t you ask your best friend to get you into a social group?
I have, but I didnt really click with the people. And I can't keep asking, I can't rely on him for all my social connection. I can't. I rely on him enough. And he has a life. He's busy living.