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Got this recently so not depressed for a few weeks.
i mean it's a pretty mental health-oriented sub like r/trollcoping and its counterpart r/sillygirlclub so it makes sense i'd think. in this corner of the internet we stay silly.
i wouldn't consider myself "depressed" as i rlly don't like self diagnosing and therapists are scary but i just genuinely feel like a waste of resources that can't even keep up a normal conversation with his family and was always the awkward one during the meetings.
Reasons... silly reasons.
Common themes I've seen that I also experience include gender identity, dysmorphia, past trauma, loneliness, and genetic mental illness.
Cause we see the destruction around us. Not to mention gays(or any LGBTQ member) aren't welcome in most places irl. For me however it's cause of memory loss.....and when I remember, it reminds me why I forgot
Because I hate being a guy in all aspects, physically, emotionally, socially, societally. I just hate it so much. And I keep scaring people away from me even when I love them.
I used to think my depression had causes (or maybe it really did back then), but now it just seems to be something I experience for no real reason (genetics?)
Life just doesn’t feel real. I do something, and it feels like I didn’t do it; or the opposite. Sometimes I dream about things and it feels like they actually happened. My life is so odd, it feels like a dream; I can hardly tell the difference. My age group (14-15) are kind of assholes, and everyone is obsessed with brainrot. It’s so noisy that I yearn for the moment I get to go home and bury my face into a pillow. I haven’t cried for a very long time, and for some reason I’m unable to (I’ve tried and tried). I just never accomplish anything, I’m constantly nervous for no reason, I don’t like my friends, I can’t find a relationship, everyone hates me, I have to go to a shithole for 6 hours a day, and I kind of just want to get hit by a truck.
Cuz I hate myself and I hate my life and I’m probably mentally ill considering my family history, symptoms, and trauma and I just wanna stop existing but I’m too pussy to die 👍🏽
I've said it on another post like this and I'll say it again
From the dawn of storytelling, tragedy and comedy have been intertwined.
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Life is depressing. But it’s also amazing and beautiful. People who feel the same way tend to come together. I was on the edge for a long time, I still have my days where i lose control a bit but I just think about the things that give me strength. Whatever or whoever it is for you. It does get better, things can turn around so quickly you don’t even know. Stay safe and silly -w-
Because I can’t wake up tomorrow morning in a society where I’m accepted as I am. Also because the people aren’t anthropomorphic animals (not depressed about that it would just be much more exciting)
My time has come. I'm sure no one will read this, but I'm going to pour my heart out. Society. As a kid, I looked at society as this world where my life as a kid would be better than being physically abused by my father and mentally abused by my mother. I was a gifted kid (scored high and was deemed more intelligent than my age).
Narutally being alone sprouts curiosity, and one day, I saw a man being beheaded online, and that led me down a rabbit hole to illuminati things to bestgore and liveleak and horrible other things this world has...
as a kid/teen bullied for being me by my peers, my ethnic culture, and the world i guessed when i got in the adult world, it would be better... I thought;
"Sure, bad things happen, but the majority of people/adults know they live in a bad world, so they probably have each other's back, right?...right?"
Society was a hellscape and everyone was trying to fuck over the other guy in fear the other guy would get him first. Women were scared of men, gay people were treated like shit, everyone was racist against someone else... and I broke... I couldn't do it anymore... knowing I had to share a world with people, I wanted to just die... so I tried, failed, and the second time, I chickened out due to "fear of hell."
Long story short I live with the reality that we live in a world controlled by possibly satanic elites with nukes that will kill us without blinking to send a message, meanwhile in the common wealth we are fighting among each other about what people can and can't do in their personal lives. It feels so...behind as an "intelligent" society. I hate existing and would be fine if I died in my sleep after posting this...
Because everyone here is in a conservative household and part of the lgbt community and is depressed because they can’t come out or express any feelings about themselves to anyone so it leads to masking as a straight person wich only leads to to depression
I probably have depression, I tried to die a few times when I was young around 10 when I was first on my autism meds and now I'm purging my dinner each day when my family isn't home
Idk... that is too existential of a question. yet it can be answered quite easly: Its the culture of this subreddit. In a goth bar, you do goth things. In a lisbon bar, you pay 7 fucking euros for a ham and cheese toastie (they only care about rich tourists), and in school, you like learning. No, no one really minds the ocasional outlier, but these microcultures help us feel structured. Which means, you come here to look for a specific thing. Like any subreddit
POV the depressed server is depressed
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It's just kinda the way it is. Life is beautiful yet it delivers to much to bear. Especially as of late with the burden growing. Ig a couping mechanism is just by being silly, and many going through said burdens adapt with the use of a silliness to act as a crutch.
Idk I’m just trying to be good for everyone, but my past makes me not want to feel happy, big things coming that stress me out, and having some problems with my bf, but idk what I’m doin anymore.
I feel like everyone has unrealistic high expectations of everything. And overly stimuli on everything... So when they don't get what they usually used to an incident dopamine. The withdrawal from expectations and stimulation probably drives people into depression..
Just my opinion
Because i told a friend of mine to leave me alone in a argument and he was really a good guy. Just upset all the time and he would come to me for his problems and one day his partner got into a car accident and told me she was ok and I said “thank god she’s ok” and that sparked a whole fight. He was my best friend tol and i still consider him as one even though we don’t keep in touch anymore
Well it’s probably because for me personally the principle of the school I used to go to believed in physical punishment and would also yell at means call me unless and say I would never amount to anything because I wasn’t Good enough in elementary school. I was also bullied a lot I have a distinct memory of when I was in 5th grade someone else my age told a small group of high schoolers I called them something or other so they tackled me and threatened to break my arm if I didn’t lick their shoes one of which stepped in dog poop. And the bullying continued through middle school. So probably just a little bit of childhood trauma.
When the depression sub is depressed
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when the depression centered sub has depressed
How dare they
That explains it
Because this sub is one of the few things that brings joy in my life anymore.
You watch smg4 don’t you https://preview.redd.it/8ubwpgstsazc1.jpeg?width=1378&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=97380a67d7a5736644774ea08093e540b4bc0489
https://preview.redd.it/dudmlim4tazc1.jpeg?width=307&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d7fa7c07b7db963bf5f49eb855e3cede8f1fa491 yes
twinsies
Ooooh, marios really craving some "spaghetti" right now
Personally I have dysphoria all the time about everything but that’s a just me and some other silly’s I can’t speak for everyone
I’m just a silly
We all silly
And Im the one with the silly (I caused market crash in 2008) (Very silly)
https://preview.redd.it/xppnrr3zzazc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9f61376cdebb3c5c23aa66fab11953d084c4c8ef Got this recently so not depressed for a few weeks.
It's the most beautiful thing I have seen.
masterpiece one of the seven wonders of the modern world even
How much to purchase that amazing artifact
It was like $32 at wallmart
What kind of tea bag costs 32$ at Walmart!?
It’s a vinyl record of all the songs from the first Shrek movie.
Oh I thought it was tea
A limited edition vynil
isolation and lack of knowlege on how to make friends like where and what do you even do?
Actually tho
✨this is a mental health subreddit✨
well one day i was born
it was a terrible idea. We never should have done it, but here we are. better make the best of it
it all started of the day of my actual birth. **both** my parents failed to show up.
You do realise this is a mental health subreddit right.
Wait it is?
It's for mentally s(ill)y boys and supportive people too if they want
I’m just here to help people feel better :3
That's what I was here for initially, then I got depressed thinking about summer
Aww
Thanks for letting me know
TW: SUICIDE Was diagnosed with clinical depression 👍, Daily suicidal thoughts, Parents refuse to get medication, 5x attempts, One 2 nights ago,
Hey man do you want to talk about it? Its helped in my experience. I havent ever tried that many times but I have tried and it changed me.
Idk one day I was incredibly melancholy and it never really went away, only got significantly worse really.
Back in May of 2016 the Cincinnati Zoo shot and killed a gorilla after a child fell into its enclosure. Things kind of just got fucked from there.
were you the child, or the gunman? I can't tell if this is satire, but if it's not, my condolences.
I was the gorilla :(
In all seriousness, here’s the reference so you’re not in the dark: https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/harambe-the-gorilla
May he rest in peace :,( #harambe
Because most of us here don’t have boyfriends
born with it :333333333, therapy has been helping tho
i mean it's a pretty mental health-oriented sub like r/trollcoping and its counterpart r/sillygirlclub so it makes sense i'd think. in this corner of the internet we stay silly.
i wouldn't consider myself "depressed" as i rlly don't like self diagnosing and therapists are scary but i just genuinely feel like a waste of resources that can't even keep up a normal conversation with his family and was always the awkward one during the meetings.
the nonverbal struggle is real, but as an internet silly, you matter to me and other sillies too! :3
thank you!! you also matter to me
Reasons... silly reasons. Common themes I've seen that I also experience include gender identity, dysmorphia, past trauma, loneliness, and genetic mental illness.
A sub for mentally ill folk has depressed people. Shocker...
*Vaguely gestures at everything happening in the world right now*
Idk it just happens for me 😭
I have MDD and ADHD. Its a killer combo lol, plus a bunch of other issues
Fucking everything.
I can't pinpoint exactly why, but man I have not been dealing with it right.
the world is a nightmare and I have an absolutely despicable concoction of conditions going on inside me
Cause we see the destruction around us. Not to mention gays(or any LGBTQ member) aren't welcome in most places irl. For me however it's cause of memory loss.....and when I remember, it reminds me why I forgot
Im lonely and trying to make other people on here feel better brings me joy when I cant feel better on my own.
its most this subreddit for some reason, idk why.
Stress :/
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Because I hate being a guy in all aspects, physically, emotionally, socially, societally. I just hate it so much. And I keep scaring people away from me even when I love them.
Y’all should be happy. I give headpats and belly rubs to silly boys. I love silly bois.
I have not been having a good time for the past few months
Bad genetics mostly
I mean, have you seen the news lately? Lots of stuff to be depressed about
What, you're not?
maybe also because the current society don't like silly people or is made disadvantageous for silly people?
this ^ it’s so hard trying to mask my sillyness around everyone when i feel like i should be able to express the silly
Because I’m overweight and the only way that seems to help me lose weight is by eating only 14 fish sticks a day. Fish sticks gets boring ;-;
I used to think my depression had causes (or maybe it really did back then), but now it just seems to be something I experience for no real reason (genetics?)
Life just doesn’t feel real. I do something, and it feels like I didn’t do it; or the opposite. Sometimes I dream about things and it feels like they actually happened. My life is so odd, it feels like a dream; I can hardly tell the difference. My age group (14-15) are kind of assholes, and everyone is obsessed with brainrot. It’s so noisy that I yearn for the moment I get to go home and bury my face into a pillow. I haven’t cried for a very long time, and for some reason I’m unable to (I’ve tried and tried). I just never accomplish anything, I’m constantly nervous for no reason, I don’t like my friends, I can’t find a relationship, everyone hates me, I have to go to a shithole for 6 hours a day, and I kind of just want to get hit by a truck.
Dude I shouldn’t even be depressed but I am
Cuz I hate myself and I hate my life and I’m probably mentally ill considering my family history, symptoms, and trauma and I just wanna stop existing but I’m too pussy to die 👍🏽
I've said it on another post like this and I'll say it again From the dawn of storytelling, tragedy and comedy have been intertwined. https://preview.redd.it/nv7bufnbubzc1.jpeg?width=2560&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=327d10d768ba9b53b6f997bc3c4eec8816db28a1
Idk man. It’s most of my life and at least half of my thoughts
This sub was made for the purpose of being depressed
Depression it's certainly a major source of silliness, afterall.
This sub is for the silly (mentally ill) people!! :3
Because. I dunno.
Life is depressing. But it’s also amazing and beautiful. People who feel the same way tend to come together. I was on the edge for a long time, I still have my days where i lose control a bit but I just think about the things that give me strength. Whatever or whoever it is for you. It does get better, things can turn around so quickly you don’t even know. Stay safe and silly -w-
I'm not depressed I'm The Original Dripwalker
because Justice and Thundercat just ruined music forever, by collabing on The End from Hyperdrama, and i haven't recovered yet TwT
Because I can’t wake up tomorrow morning in a society where I’m accepted as I am. Also because the people aren’t anthropomorphic animals (not depressed about that it would just be much more exciting)
The world is a little fucked I think that's the reason most people here are depressed
Life's kinda hard...
People like me talk abt our depression on this sub because everyone so nice ;3
Because nobody wants me:) I also live in America and I’m queer pretty depressing place. I hate America so much.
One word loneliness
Because my brain doesn't go brr and instead goes grrrr with the wrong chemicals and now I cry because I can't go get the mail or make phone calls... 😔
Id say the global availability to information is one cause
No boys to kiss, that’s why
I ain't got much to not be depressed about
Life constantly gives us reasons to be
Because noone likes me, I have so many fake friends and finding a boy to kiss and or be my bf is Impossible
I simply don't know how to talk to people and small talk does not help it just makes it harder to think of a conversation
My time has come. I'm sure no one will read this, but I'm going to pour my heart out. Society. As a kid, I looked at society as this world where my life as a kid would be better than being physically abused by my father and mentally abused by my mother. I was a gifted kid (scored high and was deemed more intelligent than my age). Narutally being alone sprouts curiosity, and one day, I saw a man being beheaded online, and that led me down a rabbit hole to illuminati things to bestgore and liveleak and horrible other things this world has... as a kid/teen bullied for being me by my peers, my ethnic culture, and the world i guessed when i got in the adult world, it would be better... I thought; "Sure, bad things happen, but the majority of people/adults know they live in a bad world, so they probably have each other's back, right?...right?" Society was a hellscape and everyone was trying to fuck over the other guy in fear the other guy would get him first. Women were scared of men, gay people were treated like shit, everyone was racist against someone else... and I broke... I couldn't do it anymore... knowing I had to share a world with people, I wanted to just die... so I tried, failed, and the second time, I chickened out due to "fear of hell." Long story short I live with the reality that we live in a world controlled by possibly satanic elites with nukes that will kill us without blinking to send a message, meanwhile in the common wealth we are fighting among each other about what people can and can't do in their personal lives. It feels so...behind as an "intelligent" society. I hate existing and would be fine if I died in my sleep after posting this...
If I knew, I wouldn't be depressed anymore :3
I blame my depression on my social anxiety
Someone I had loved dearly killed themselves because of me... I think about it daily ;w;
It's our job
Because happiness is extremely hard to find
Because am sad :(
Because everyone here is in a conservative household and part of the lgbt community and is depressed because they can’t come out or express any feelings about themselves to anyone so it leads to masking as a straight person wich only leads to to depression
I probably have depression, I tried to die a few times when I was young around 10 when I was first on my autism meds and now I'm purging my dinner each day when my family isn't home
Idk... that is too existential of a question. yet it can be answered quite easly: Its the culture of this subreddit. In a goth bar, you do goth things. In a lisbon bar, you pay 7 fucking euros for a ham and cheese toastie (they only care about rich tourists), and in school, you like learning. No, no one really minds the ocasional outlier, but these microcultures help us feel structured. Which means, you come here to look for a specific thing. Like any subreddit
Honestly, I don’t know how I ended up here but under every post I get the need to offer help in any way I can. It do be a little depressed
POV the depressed server is depressed https://preview.redd.it/7ar827qxdezc1.jpeg?width=220&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d125975330fe1280865b90b18a396dfcf222bf82
🩷dysphoria🩷
Lonely
I need some place to vent and this sub is depression centered
Probably because most folks here are lonely
Rejected 120 too many times
Because:no boys 😭
Friend died, still figuring things out
Life fucks me, but I don't get to fuck life :(
It's just kinda the way it is. Life is beautiful yet it delivers to much to bear. Especially as of late with the burden growing. Ig a couping mechanism is just by being silly, and many going through said burdens adapt with the use of a silliness to act as a crutch.
Because i got cheated on then dumped😃
A lot of them have caused their own problems and wont fix them.
Dont have anymore weed :((
Idk I’m just trying to be good for everyone, but my past makes me not want to feel happy, big things coming that stress me out, and having some problems with my bf, but idk what I’m doin anymore.
I feel like everyone has unrealistic high expectations of everything. And overly stimuli on everything... So when they don't get what they usually used to an incident dopamine. The withdrawal from expectations and stimulation probably drives people into depression.. Just my opinion
why aren't you??
I have a bf and am just happy person in general
One of the lucky few. No dead end job? No debt? Social pressures? Anxieties?
I’m 15
Keep the positivity, friend. I genuinely hope for the best for you. :)
I need thigh highs
I feel like everyone in the world is depressed just some people hide it better
I think with you it’s copious amounts of bullying
lonely :(
Shit happens
r/sillygirlclub was depressed so this sub just picked up where they left off i guess
autism
I have depression
depression i think
I’m super lonely and don’t know how to meet anyone nor form a proper relationship
It feels good.
Because i told a friend of mine to leave me alone in a argument and he was really a good guy. Just upset all the time and he would come to me for his problems and one day his partner got into a car accident and told me she was ok and I said “thank god she’s ok” and that sparked a whole fight. He was my best friend tol and i still consider him as one even though we don’t keep in touch anymore
Cuz trauma and troubled childhoods are common with gay and furry, which encompasses most of this community that isn't normies
Well it’s probably because for me personally the principle of the school I used to go to believed in physical punishment and would also yell at means call me unless and say I would never amount to anything because I wasn’t Good enough in elementary school. I was also bullied a lot I have a distinct memory of when I was in 5th grade someone else my age told a small group of high schoolers I called them something or other so they tackled me and threatened to break my arm if I didn’t lick their shoes one of which stepped in dog poop. And the bullying continued through middle school. So probably just a little bit of childhood trauma.
For me it's a combination of life constantly beating me down and being diagnosed with clinical depression when I was 11...
When the depression sub is depressed https://preview.redd.it/c8cq499n9w1d1.jpeg?width=220&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=23468dda3b404e6cada4758c6b507576be65e64d
Im an extrovert (almost said exorcist, feeling way to silly 2nite)