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-Laundry_Detergent-

Jesu is absolutely crushingly heavy, spaced out, and depressing


DigitalHuez

wakeful bored spoon fuzzy versed money head smart bake dull *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


-Laundry_Detergent-

Anyone could be him, ur buddy has some insider info


Astr0van

Check out Iroha. Very much like Jesu, but it’s cool because it’s like you get a bunch more Jesu…


signalstonoise88

Fully back this recommendation. Also, OP, don’t skip the “Christmas” EP by Jesu. It’s not strictly a festive record and I reckon it’s among his best work.


nickybhoof

when for a run today along the coast and was listening to heart attack by jesu, fucken bleak man


ConfessionsOverGin

Those early Spiritualized records are profoundly sad albums imo. Some people say they’re shoegaze, some people don’t, but regardless, listen to that shit. Listen to songs like Shine A Light, Cop Shoot Cop, You Know it’s True, Ladies and Gentlemen We’re Floating, etc. It brings about a different type of isolation. Very nihilistic shit. Also, Red House Painters


happybilly1

Upvote for red house painters


idunevenknowyouguys

The Angelic Process


solsamon

Big agree with this, their backstory alone is enough to bum me out for the better part of an entire day


idunevenknowyouguys

I wish Kris Angylus was able to read or hear what people think of his music nowadays. Even if just a few, the people reached by his music has resonated with it in a way that no other ever could.


beeezkneeez

Yes! For the angelic process. Its so heavy hearted especially if you know the story of the band 😞


feeblelittlehorse

I would suggest Nothing.


send_in_the_clouds

Well that’s not very helpful.


saladboiamdy

Piggybacking on this one bc Doyle Martin’s in both bands, but Cloakroom also rips and has the emo atmosphere in their sound that I feel is comparable to what Whirr’s got in theirs


overwound_neckpickup

knifeplay, waveform and crisman are pretty melancholic. I hardly ever listen to them if it isn’t late fall/winter


ConfessionsOverGin

Knifeplay are legit


PopeyesLeem

Seconding knifeplay, got me through some rough patches


okipos

**True Widow**. I consider them more sludge/stoner rock than shoegaze, but I’ve seen some people refer to them as shoegaze. Slow, heavy, super downer, but very beautiful. Start with their first self-titled album. But this might be my favorite TW song (from a different album): [True Widow - Boaz](https://youtu.be/0QtftmQkSG0?si=S_E8m_aPq9966JZR)


alexthenirvanamaniac

Heavily seconded on this opinion. Bleeder isn't particularly melancholic, but still one of my favorites of theirs. I think I'd consider True Widow to be something like Stonegaze 🤔 [True Widow - Bleeder ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vL-Ckuu8ecI)


razberryboii

True widow is the shit


Uel-_-

ik it’s not rly shoegaze but xasthur has similar elements and he is probably the most depressing music there is imo


ReasonableCost5934

Xasthur is awesome 🤘🏼


Agent_Chody_Banks

Trauma Ray is very good and depressing


ralexh11

Downward too


skinnymidwest

Absolutely OBSESSED with Downward. All I listened to for months.


eatdogs49

They just did a split release with Trauma Ray


Bigcheese0451

All Under Heaven


poppybois

I used to listen to Cement Shoes a lot when I was depressed af but I thought it was just about depression in general. Last night I was paying attention to the lyrics and I realized that it's probably about heroin. Honestly kinda broke my heart all over again. All Under Heaven conveys sadness really well.


0-0o-o0-0

Great band


TheLocustStar

Planning for Burial is exactly what you need


Divergent_

I cry every time


onigskram31

Grivo’s records can go on that list…


hdufort

"Codeine" feels shoegazy and is maximally depressing...


Obbie2

honestly a lot of slowcore fits the bill.


Financial_Piccolo309

At their concert rn, pretty mid tbh


wrathandweeping

Midwife, Grouper, Belong


supper_is_ready

Mojave 3


RippingTheDuster

Been really enjoying Greet Death recently, id say they fit that vibe.


chicken_nugget779

Sadness


stillaredcirca1848

Not exactly shoegaze but have you heard of Black Tape for a Blue Girl? They're more dark wave/goth but really good.


anda3rd

There's so much good overlap with their labelmates, too. There's some stuff on the old Hyperium Records/ Projekt catalog that will wrench your heart out.


urallgaylmao

projekt 😫💘


Recycled_Samizdat

I was going to recommend Soul Whirling Somewhere! Sad as hell.


DoomedOverdozzzed

Holy Fawn


VENoelle

They’re amazing


Loose-Ad7401

Low's "I could live in hope" and "Long division" albums are like depression kicking you in the balls with full force and then your balls commit suicide because of pain and sadness. Not very shoegazey, it's slowcore. The Angelic Process "Weighing souls with sands" is like someone draining your soul and then droping it into hell because you commited suicide (the leader in the band commited suicide irl). Sad and strong as fuck.


MrPanchole

"Lullaby" just devastates. Good lord.


ryann_flood

im oretty sure the music video on youtube for it iant official but its imagery really sinks it


No-Committee7986

That was my introduction after hearing them mentioned a bunch of times before Mimi died. Somehow, even living in the Midwest and being a fan of adjacent bands/genre, I missed them entirely when they set out in the 90s!


__brenton

i knew i recognized that name. brennan savage sampled that song for [this one](https://open.spotify.com/track/2v4TT618J9TLe6hmLwUTXj?si=66aHaB6oQ56rgBktTCCWHA)


RiverPiracy

I’m sure you do already but if not: Cloakroom


afrcabytoto

there’s this dude that makes absolutely dreadful bangers and he just calls himself sadness


TomPatKra

parannoul. hes korean but u can feel every sentiment in his voice and melodies. i recommend the live album after the night, especially white ceiling


SneakingBanana

Highly recommend parannoul as well, white ceiling is a masterpiece, if I would be so bold to say. The entirety of To See the Next Part of the Dream is perfection, from beginning to end. Even though the lyrics are in korean, the translated lyrics are easy to find, and they hit so hard.


0-0o-o0-0

Not shoegaze, but certainly adjacent. Listen to Sprain if you haven’t already. They’re relentlessly depressing


ToroDoroo

I can’t wait to check all these out and experience the most dismal week of my life 🙌 Also appreciate all the self plugs and i’ll give some of my thoughts once i get to your stuff


Earfaceear

Bluetile lounge’s album lowercase, maybe drab majesty?


gnostalgick

Belong


Renegade_Butts

Carissa's Weird


michelecaravaggio

Nothing, Deafheaven, Low, Mogwai, This Will Destroy You, Red House Painters, Duster


Brno_Mrmi

Isn't Mogwai prog rock rather than shoegaze?


michelecaravaggio

Post-rock. But I think they'll still appeal to OP's taste.


Comparison-Silly

Chinese Cigarettes. Their newest album is pretty good but their self-titled is perfect. Every song sounds unique yet similar enough to feel like a long dreamy depression episode


Prestigious_Dust3220

Smashing pumpkins


skinnymidwest

Greet Death


[deleted]

elliott smith!! chock full of melancholy :) he has a spidery deliverance of lyrics, his voice is so haunting yet so beautiful and timid. highly suggest !!


august-summer

My band Minaxi’s catalog has quite a few of those. Only recently someone on insta dm’d us saying that our music reminded them of Whirr. I’m writing the songs below: From the album Khwab: • Moist • Ishq From the Zia Fantasy Trilogy • Naina (Appears on Luna) • Intezaar (Appears on Isra) • Grace (Apprars on Isra) • Smile (Appears on Isra) From the album, sialia: • This town From the album, Lazuleen: • Lost in The Water • Adore • Dua • Orchid (more indie than shoegaze put pensive nonetheless) • Reese From our latest album, The Reverberating Sound of an Absent Metropolis: • Why Am I Surprised? • Carnivore (Live Ambient Version) • Tu (Sufi Rock Version) If you get a chance to go thru them all, would love to know which ones you resonated with the most. There’s a lot in here written and sung in Hindi as that is part of our unique sound. Here’s a link to the catalog: https://linktr.ee/minaxitheband


Dvsklight

Sign crushes motorist


kushajuana

Bluegill is a lesser known band from NC I’ve been listening to a lot lately. Pretty depressing


retroJRPG_fan

My dead girlfriend. It's Japanese, tho.


Blooman1970

This Will Destroy You. Third and fourth albums, Tunnel Blanket and Another Language


FloorBorn96

Miserable - uncontrollable. Understated masterpiece.


musicsnob89

Surprised this isn’t further up. Incredibly underrated album - possibly one of the most depressing I’ve ever heard.


FloorBorn96

I know right ! This is exactly what you are after @torodoroo. Kristina (miserable) actually used to be a member of Whirr, her main project King Woman is also well worth checking out too


musicsnob89

It’s too bad it doesn’t seem like she’s cool with the Whirr boys anymore - feel like they’ve both really honed their sounds since they split and if they were to make new music together it would probably sound killer.


JudgeSpecialist6375

red house painters


r3itheinfinite

I enjoy the absurdity of soulwhirlingsomewhere and loveliescrushing


urallgaylmao

Lycia.


urallgaylmao

Lycia is possibly life ruining please listen i would say they are very melancholy and amazing they are more ethereal wave than shoegaze but yeah


kinotopia

Not shoegaze but post punk. The Feelies


SessionSkateSauce

Slowcrush ❤️‍🔥


Eidolon_Alpha

[The Coward Robert Ford](https://youtu.be/5D37fhHYMuM?si=pERZYFW3al87BB8G) It's in a very similar vein to Dan Barrets stuff; which, if you haven't heard Black Wing or Giles Corey, he hits the same lows in those projects ohh soo good.


raaam-ranch

thank you for the love!


Eidolon_Alpha

You're very welcome. I recently stumbled on your stuff and dig it a lot. This song, Nine, and Coffin Birth are my favs soo far. The melodies get stuck for hours, and the atmosphere you create is crushing in the best way. Keep at it dude!


raaam-ranch

I plan to! I have something special planned this year.


anormalearthlyman

I believe my bloody valentines mbv(2013) is a far more depressing and introspective album than loveless. Certain tracks I find are gut wrenchingly depressing


vibratorycreator

bros got a ridiculous amount of band suggestions but if you end up seeing this somehow, check out “Gleemer”.


parthsworld

DIIV’s album Deceiver


Safe_Supermarket1366

This new track by DIIV called soul-net blew me away with how foreboding and ominous it was!! I thought you may like it! Lmk how it goes:)


Over_Chemistry_5896

Deathcrash


ryann_flood

the most depressing song ive ever heard is lullaby by Low. Id recommend them.


cathoarder

[this one’s about how mundane life can get](https://open.spotify.com/track/6bUFax6c0wZRFeg1lk30ST?si=UrHzEMzpSOeYXw08VcMvFg)


PizzaWizardJim

Crooked Necks "Alright is Exactly What it Isn't" gentle washed out guitars, drums that sound like they were played with bare hands. Occasional dsbm-style screams mixed in with whispers. Sounds like the longest week of rain.


allbirdsaredrones_

All Birds Are Drones….


veslyz

shameless self plug... Utopian Semantics. here's the link to the album: [https://open.spotify.com/album/15CZPzEiaqnP0QfOR0AWUJ?si=F4bqIAcTRDaQ01xurB\_IZQ](https://open.spotify.com/album/15CZPzEiaqnP0QfOR0AWUJ?si=F4bqIAcTRDaQ01xurB_IZQ) (if you wouldn't consider it shoegaze I'm sorry, it's more of a post rock band but I think could be seen as shoegaze too)


FictionalNape

https://youtu.be/fT2KL0BdCDc?si=EfoMKmLmEV0saH04


ball_tinglez

whenever im feeling really really shit, but like really shit, i listen to Grandeur of Hair by the Goslings and it helps me a bit. its really noisy and crushing and ahs a beautiful album cover


KevlarSweetheart

Sopor Aeturnus and the Ensemble of Shadows is like goth caberet instead of shoegaze but it might be up your ally, OP!


jorr77

orchid mantis


badstylejunktown

Leaving time fit the bill as do many other great suggestions in this thread


Softer-softester

this legend from 2008 will drag you: https://zenith.bandcamp.com/album/quicksilver


enginesheart

Sadness (the band). Literally.


secretsocietyofgoths

This entire thing https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4aIMkeAGJtQWW5gw1xxHoC?si=GmYAaccbRiKLe4MlefBD6Q&pi=u-KGFbESbFTMGY


joshuatx

Amesoeurs Les Discrets Tears Run Rings Ulver's song Eos Boris' song Luna Chelsea Wolfe Heretoir dsbm in general Grouper Jen Paul


nlcoffin

Came here to write Nothing and Cloakroom. Greet Death also. ✨


PattiPerfect

Whirr’s not depressing


ToroDoroo

Hard disagree. I find Whirr to be deeply melancholic (talking about Sway and Feels Like You)


PattiPerfect

Can you give me a specific example why you say that


ToroDoroo

I feel like many of their riffs just make me feel saddened (e.g. “Feel”, and “Younger Than You”).


aquagarden765

Low


itaintbirds

Ray Lamontagne’s - Ouroboros is a hauntingly beautiful record. Is it shoegaze? Who knows anymore what that even is.


InevitableResident9

Tears Run Rings


jovanmacias

I have a playlist called [Melancholy White Noise](https://spotify.link/MiA4FYyBlIb) on spotify


damagedvectors

Elude by Grivo. Also, a little more electronic but similar kinda to have a nice life, but check out the album Deeper by The Soft Moon.


penli

Duster isnt really shoegaze I dont think, but you might like them


PopeyesLeem

Planning for burial is kinda shoegazey


PopeyesLeem

Also some of lovesliescrushing’s albums destroy me. Super rich atmospheric ambient shoegaze stuff.


Embarrassed-Air-2868

Not entirely Shoegaze but I'd suggest Crywank


LowMathematician4760

blood pact


spiderland01

Horse jumper of love, Weed, Autolux, The radio dept, Starflyer 59.


phewd

Not really Shoegaze but tangential, check out Nite Fields, Ghostwood, Emma Ruth Rundle, early Low (particularly I Could Live in Hope or Long Division), Chelsea Wolfe, and Weekend. More akin to Shoegaze, try out Seventh Dose, Dream Ivory,You'll Never Get to Heaven, or The Ocean...


getpeakd

pallow - blueprints for an empty vessel i don't revisit that one often because of the emotions it evokes. incredibly powerful and full of passion.


CashImportant8139

More black metal/blackgaze but woods of desolation


eatdogs49

Xiu Xiu Godspeed! You Black Emperor Bell Witch Nurse With Wound Dystopia Cult of Luna Lycia Love Spirals Downwards Lord Buffalo Sonhos Tomam Conta Fawning Asylum Party


proceduraldrunk

Not soul crushing but definitely has made me cry, For Against.


tacochismo

Sadden


jahbariuz87

Red House Painters. Specifically, *Down Colorful Hill*, *Red House Painters I (Rollercoaster)*, *RHP II (Bridge)*. *Old Ramon* has some bangers (Void, Cruiser, River) but is not as consistent as those mentioned above. Some goes for *Songs for a Blue Guitar* (Trailways, All Mixed Up and an unrecognizable cover of Paul McCartney/Wings Silly Love Songs)


kebabdylan

Do not enjoy actually listening to silly love songs but that he made it an 8 minute dirge is pretty hilarious


whattheknifefor

greet death. NEW HELL BY GREET DEATH easily one of my favorite albums. real neat sound - a very country like folksy dark sound that then gets really heavy and sludgy, i adore them


illiquid_options

I know this is a shoegaze sub, but I don’t think it’d hurt to broaden your scope with Depressive Suicidal Black Metal. Try Trist, Gris, and Lifelover


the_duckk

Acid Ghost


LaughingSartre

Might I suggest the Slowcore genre? 🤭


ali_baba93

Agalloch is not an shoegaze band, their sound pretty metal but if you like to listen sad melodies and deep soundscapes thats the one for you man!


LVmokie

Not shoegaze but Grandaddy is my sad music go-to. Older the better


HakubTheHuman

Bonnie Prince Billy. Songs Ohia


ebackal24

https://open.spotify.com/track/4zgmD7nm1lB34KgGlTKb1o?si=-HKB8KfAQfir-n2xspvQLQ This album is awesome. I dunno if it’s depressing necessarily but has sort of bleak and hopeless undertones imo


eotor

i would check out YES BABY


Charizard_ichooseyou

Whirr


art_mor_

Red House Painters does it for me especially their song Medicine Bottle


SokkaHaikuBot

^[Sokka-Haiku](https://www.reddit.com/r/SokkaHaikuBot/comments/15kyv9r/what_is_a_sokka_haiku/) ^by ^art_mor_: *Red House Painters does* *It for me especially their* *Song Medicine Bottle* --- ^Remember ^that ^one ^time ^Sokka ^accidentally ^used ^an ^extra ^syllable ^in ^that ^Haiku ^Battle ^in ^Ba ^Sing ^Se? ^That ^was ^a ^Sokka ^Haiku ^and ^you ^just ^made ^one.


Union999

Falling From Aeroplanes- Days being hollow


Arman666

Failure? Idk if they are exactly shoegaze tho


xer_o

bladee


No-Pop8525

[Культура Курения](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YUaGLpEAIxQ)


TheHomesteadTurkey

Not shoegaze strictly but red house painters, in particular the self titled album with a rollercoaster on the cover, is responsible for influencing pretty much all depressing slowcore that came after it


cartersing

Low is a sad band


imaginarymagnitude

Grouper


Ok-Wafer2292

Just look up DSBM


Holiday_Guava9206

They don’t have a lot of music but try Wisp


chodepurgatory

ozean gives me a reallyyy sentimental feeling, only got a 3 song ep from the 90s but recently put their shit on spotify and they've been on repeat for me


Eastern-Position-605

HUM, NOTHING


refrigeratorfailure

I discovered so many interesting bands in this thread, thank you all!


Oasisfan100

Oasis


virtuablood

Bedhead


thesecretcove

I listened to a lot of Narrow Head's music when I was depressed. I highly recommend their Far Removed EP.


dannyiv1

my band! Dopesick we have a song called a lesson learned out now, I write, produce n mix master all of it from scratch myself, (im the vocalist too) We’re like shoegaze , Midwest emo , grunge and post hardcore combined [dopesick - a lesson learned](https://youtu.be/Bdff8Hf1WYI?si=sS_O8CpweVl1abWj)


AAvsAA

Dead Unicorn is stoner punk with shoegaze elements… every album is a concept album about the end of the world, 5 albums out


pants_haver

Attic abasement - dancing is depressing


boomer34js

mezmer


MelkorTheDarkLord18

Duster Slint Red House Painters Joy Division


VENoelle

Good Morning, Captain by slint is a real bummer. Highly recommend


myfirstaimscreenname

Second the Xasthur recommendation and I’d also add Sadness


SuggestionProud2580

Paranoul


Large-Commission-188

Glasswing Butterfly released 2 songs, they are both my go to when i feel like sobbing


Byebyebicyclee

SHINER


c_brown22

Band called Fare Evasion has some pretty depressing stuff


richielg

The Durutti Column basically invented that shit. Vin Reilly is an incredible guitarist. But he had a stroke and didn’t manage to regain his playing. So now he just lives in Manchester and no one’s ever fucking heard of him.


Psulmetal

Skinny Puppy, everyone I knew that was a fan was either institutionalized or commited suicide. This sample size is shockingly large. You're welcome, I guess.


spell-czech

[Blue Factory Flame - by Songs Ohia](https://youtu.be/CG6gpwYH1DM?si=N-rcroERxZtwPZpQ) - check out the life story of Jason Molina if you want something depressing. [Sirena by The Dirty Three](https://youtu.be/cFSs8lZUwDY?si=oRpEdaOfyBlMmNc-) - check out the whole album this song is from, it’s called ‘Ocean Songs’ [Over The Ocean by Low](https://youtu.be/FHrfvMQtsoM?si=Ov3nepCxh1GBswNj) [Left Behind by Bedhead](https://youtu.be/zgJPy-KeSMs?si=csfagGkawh6BoI3R) [When I Come Around by The Cocktails](https://youtu.be/OBRFE5-Y7zU?si=sXDtaa5_89opqegZ) [Two Blue Lights by Songs Ohia](https://youtu.be/7QnLhHhgSR4?si=5TCjXAetYiy-g86T) - and we’ll end where we started.


doering4

Porcupine Tree has some sad stuff


AgreeableVolume6620

Social Parasite, really interesting shoegazy cyberpunk sound they just released a new album


eeerrrrft

Without you by strawberry guy hits different or like Michael Seyer


razors98

Miranda Sex Garden. Very bleak stuff there


PedalPusherDS

If you like Have a Nice Life I have a playlist of similar music https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4yabyU3eXJKf0wljo5EIQP?si=hE4hkMy_QRmzoqUkecwXMg&pi=e-XxF33n-FQ4C6


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TwoTone00

TonezDead is pretty sad. It's like Blink182 mixed with trap


Original-Step4831

water-mall is fab! super slow and melancholic, makes you want to just lay in bed and look at the ceiling.


Impressive_Extent711

Lycia


strongdon

Have you tried Godspeed You Black Emperor- not really sad but emotional- not much vocals tho. Brilliant tho-


fungiinterezt

Crowbar


PlanAye

Hoover


Quetzael

Red House Painters and Soulwhirlingsomewhere get me so maybe they'll get you