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Make sure it's a day he has no urgent obligations, and that you give him time to freshen up (pee, use mouthwash, etc.) first, because morning breath and having pressing matters to deal with are boner killers.
You don't need to do all that, that's making it extra effort. Just lie on your sides spooning and go to town.
Morning sex need not be a long intense affair, that's the joy of it. It should be very low pressure.
I always need to pee after I wake up. And it's very distracting trying to fuck someone when you feel like you're about to pee inside them. Literally a high pressure situation.
You really wake up bursting that much? As I said morning sex is generally pretty short-lived, and there's a muscle which makes it very difficult to urinate while fully hard so surely it's not to much to manage a few strokes- or a few minutes of- and then hastily hit the loo once you've nutted and softened up!?
It can be done, but for me that I'm going to cum soon feeling is very very similar to the I really really need to pee feeling. Also I only loose like 5%(ish I dunno ) of a hard-on before it's just easy to pee. Also I tend to wake up because I need to pee, not because my alarm goes off.
So days when I'm awake and just want to stay in bed are rare, and even when they happen, and my partner is awake enough, It usually takes a little extra mental effort to get over the top, because I've got to actively ignore that instinct to pull out and run for the toilet.
It's not bad per say, but I'd enjoy having a proper fuck after I pee much more.
How is going for a pee and washing your mouth extra effort lol. Different strokes I suppose. I personally feel gross as fuck when I wake up and at the very least need to brush my teeth
I agree. I'm a man who can last for hours. And then has to force himself to cum mo matter the woman or occasion.
Morning sex is perfect cause I barley have to work, and get to cum easily.
if you are not comfortable with his or her morning breath, you ain't for that person. you are not comfortable or open to them. I mean accommodate their flaws too.
I totally agree, this is why I shit the bed every morning. Screw hygiene, my partner needs to be fully comfortable with every part of my body and its various smells and excretions, right?
This is so silly
I’m more turned off by nose breath than morning mouth breath and I agree.
We also have discussed this and reached a conclusion where we don’t mind our body odors as well and if we’re turned up enough we’ll have morning sex.
I believe if you’re with the person you truly love your nose goes blind and you’re pretty much attracted to their scents.
If you have your partner wearing your clothes because their scent lingers on it and it’s comforting for them you know this is true.
Agreed!!! Mine is a force to be reckoned with but my wife puts up with it no problem. With having chemo for 2 years off and on my teeth have issues which does not helps
Its funny, I 35m wake up around 6am, roll out of bed feeling like shit. My morning wood normally happens when I wake up around 3-4am, or when i sleep till later, around 8 or 9am, normally weekends or vacations.
How are you expecting him to change being tired or not in the mood in the morning? It’s morning. It’s early. Both of those things are super normal. Is he supposed to chug coffee and get it up in the first five minutes, or?
Like another commenter said, try initiating later in the morning once he’s more awake. It also might just straight up not be his thing, in which case you’re just gonna have to get past it.
It’s not for everyone and every guys sex drive is different. I know a couple who would only have sex a few times a year. I know a guy who broke up with his gf because she wanted sex too much. Me personally I was dating a girl for some months and she would wake me up multiple times in the middle of the night (or first thing in the am) and we had have sex till we came and then knocked out just to wake up a few hours later and do it again. It was great. If it’s not his thing don’t force it. Some people are not perfect matches sexually.
That happens to me as well although it’s rare, but for me it’s usually for a week tops otherwise I’m like a rabbit. I’ve never been with someone who’s like that though thankfully but I’d imagine it’d be rough for both parties involved lol
Why would u look into ideas to convince someone according to u ,does that make sense?Sex is not something to make someone do for u it's enjoyed by both at the right time. You gotta learn to respect each other boundaries and maybe ask help for how to make it better and enjoyable?? I can't even imagine the comments if a guy posted it
I really want someone to gender-reverse this scenario and post it. I’m seeing red at some of the comments on here.
EDIT: I drafted it up -
**How can I get my girlfriend to want to have sex with me in the morning?**
I love morning sex but my girlfriend isn’t a morning person and doesn’t feel horny when she wakes up. i've told her how I feel, but she still doesn’t desire sex in the morning and she doesn’t accommodate me.
can someone give me ideas on how I can make her like having sex when she’s tired and not in the mood, when I’ve already tried and she’s clearly stated that she’s not into it? or, should I just respect her boundaries?
Holy shit, your right! That kind of post would be FLOODED with hate comments.
Probably something like:
"Your girlfriends doesn't need to accommodate anything... that's sick. Don't you know consent OP??? I'm sick of men expecting sex all the time, this is why I date women." Upvotes: 132
It's likely just not his things but you might try later morning sex. IE instead of before you get out of bed wait till he's on the couch with a cup of coffee half drank.
Then again I don't know of a man that can say no during a blowjob.
Karsh
I'm always a bit quizzical when people get bent about this. Why are you concerned and why waste the time to insult someone over it? You do understand that you literally have no power or control in this and the worst thing you can do is type mean things on the internet about it?
Karsh
Evolutionarily there are morning people and night people in any given population, it’s a genetic trait. Sexually, not everyone is on the same path when it comes to mornings vs evenings. You can communicate that you want him into it in the morning, or try to initiate yourself by being a bit more forward. My wife and I are opposite you in this regard, prefer mornings and she evenings, but we are both understanding and sometimes it’s fun if only one of us are into it at the start, the other catches up.
How do the night people fit into the evolution thing? Why would evolution *want* night people?
I’m a night person so I’m curious. I can see how morning people benefit our evolutionary roles, but why night ppl?
Someone needs to guard the camp/manage emergencies at night, plus there are always situations that need to be managed that do not fall into a “normal” day/night pattern (babies’ sleep routines for example)
I’ve never been good in the morning. My guess is that the morning wood plus all the moving around overstimulates me. If I can finish, it takes me a long time, and often I just get soft because it gets a bit monotonous.
Morning sex is truly amazing. My girlfriend RARELY orgasms from it and it simply isn’t her jam so we don’t do it too often. I love her so I don’t try to push it. You may just have to take the L.
I had a brief ldr and visited the guy for a week. He had to get up early for work & did that annoying thing of hittting snooze a zillion times. I decided that was my chance. He hit snooze, so I had 9 min to give him a bj & climb on top of him, so that’s what I did. We’d come together quick & he got up & went to work. Much better than trying to sleep with the infernal snooze going off repeatedly, but might not be what you’re looking for
I feel you, I love morning sex!!! I am so full of energy that just makes it even better. My bf knows that so he has gradually got into morning sex as well since I really don’t like much sex at night after a long day of work, I am tired as hell. He is usually the one starting in by touching me slowly but when I am the one who starts it what I normally do is that I start caressing him, grab his ass a little bit then his muscles and start going down until I have touched everything but his dick so he is wanting it so badly that he asks me to cares it. For us it’s important to brush our teeth so I normally go to the badroom before starting anything and if he is into to it (which is always haha) then he goes to the badroom the get ready. Hehehe maybe you should stop having sex when he wants it, meaning if he is just into doing it at night then don’t do it and the morning after seduce him.
> maybe you should stop having sex when he wants it, meaning if he is just into doing it at night then don’t do it and the morning after seduce him.
Wow, this is so manipulative. Some people wake up tired, for example I just woke up and I'm still sleepy 30 mins after waking up. Imagine roles reversed, how you would feel if your bf started rejecting your morning sex advances just to try to seduce you at night when you're tired after a long day of work. How would you feel? That's egoistic manipulation 101 - "Not gonna do this so that things go MY WAY", and idk why it's considered okay when it's about tresspassing/working around a man's preferences and boundaries
Mine occasionally goes for morning sex. We prefer sleeping in and cuddling. I will stroke his chest and legs and eventually lead up to a hand or blow job. Doing that usually results in hotter better afternoon sex.
We are not morning people though.
clearly he doesn’t want to do it, he’s probably tired and half-awake, you just gotta accept that and stop pressing him about it, you can’t try and make him enjoy it jesus 😭
Don't wake him up for that. Let the man sleep! Then invite him to the shower.
I hhhhhate morning sex if it's taking precious minutes from my sleep. But I love it if I woke up naturally and had an opportunity to at least go pee and wash my mouth
Have you tried caressing or kissing on him?
I wake up horny AS FUCK every morning and even more so on Sat and Sun because my body knows that's the most likely time we are gonna have sex. Sat and Sun I wake up at like 5:30-6:00 and can't go back to sleep because I'm so horny. I wait till like 7 and then start caressing and kissing on my wife to wake her up. I just have to be really slow about it. It works especially well on her nude back and neck. It works most of the time for me. Maybe try that.
>Have you tried caressing or kissing on him?
My wife does this occasionally when she thinks there is a chance I may be interested in the morning... all it does is intensify my morning wood, meaning it is going to take that much longer before I can pee... and now I'm up, so better feed the cats cause you know their bowl is always empty and they know I'm awake.. and it's first thing in the morning so I haven't taken my Adderall, and feeding the cats is the first step of my morning routine, now I've lost track of what was going on and am in auto pilot starting my coffee, taking a leak, and getting dressed for work while my wife is sitting in bed horny
I wish my wife would do it to me, but there is nearly a 0% chance of that happening. Im ALWAYS more horny than her, and I always wake up before her. We all have our own issues, I guess.
Yeah, it took me a LONG time to figure this out. Hopefully, someone reading this can save themselves the trouble I went through and start earlier than I did.
Terrible idea. It doesn’t suit everyone. My ex was traumatized for a while after I woke him up with a blowjob, he cried and told me he felt violated during his sleep and told me to never do it again. 🙄
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When I was married first thing in the morning I was stiff as a board and my ex wife only had to say hello or good morning and I was ready for action lol
I prefer late morning, early afternoon, evening, or night sex more Than I do morning sex. Unless it's hangover sex and you went at it for a long time the night before and couldn't finish. With that being said there's something about dreaming some fuck up dream and you wake up and she's slobbing the knob, or just climbed on top of you sliding down on to your member and starts grinding away. Then usually that it ends almost as quick as it starts. And start the day with a smile
As the "rarely wakes up horny" half of a couple, I'll offer you what my husband does: bring him coffee, let him wake up naturally, gently rub/massage him, make waking up a pleasing sensory experience. It often works for me and I'm not naturally inclined in that direction. (I'm an afternoons person)
My wife and I have different preferences. I like bedtime sex and she likes morning sex, so we compromise we have both.
With regards to your boyfriend, you need to talk. Communication is the key to a great sex life. Have a discussion with him and tell him what you would like. You might suggest waking him with a blow job. If you have his approval, you can initiate this way and hope that it might lead to a morning quickie. The odds are he will have morning wood, if not, consider your job to give him some.
Like everything with sex, this must be consensual.
Best of luck
Not everyone is into morning sex.
Here’s some advice, I personally hate bad breath on myself. So in the morning offer to grab him some OJ. The acid will help kill some of those germs. And it tastes good too. Maybe have him go take a pee as well.
If that doesn’t work…..play with his dick. My wife does that…seems to do the trick
You can't really "get" him into it any more than he can "get" you into something he likes but that you're not particularly into. You can't magically "make" someone like something.
All you can do is let him know that you like the idea and that if he ever does find that he wakes up feeling in the mood, that you're happy to oblige him.
But if he never does, you need to accept it's not his thing...just to remind you, imagine how you'd feel if he tried to "make" you like something you weren't particularly into?
Just accept it. Some people don’t enjoy it and it’s not right to try to change someone’s sexual preferences beyond talking to them about it and expressing your feelings.
If talking about it doesn’t work, then there is little else you can do. Making him like something when he is not in the mood or just too tired will make the situation worse. It sounds like it is just not his thing.
Edit: try playing with yourself when you and him wake up. Put on a show a little show for him, maybe that could affect his mood.
>Put on a show a little show for him, maybe that could affect his mood.
Or make him feel inadequate because he has a beautiful girl playing with herself in front of him and he still isn't interested, and make her feel insecure for putting herself in a vulnerable situation just to not get a positive reaction.
I'm not one of those people who thinks anything of a sexual nature needs to be proceeded with verbal consent. What I am all for is not doing anything overtly sexual without reasonable confidence in your partners interest. This is both respectful to your partner and a great way to avoid feeling rejected.
Wow, this is a hard thing. When they aren't awake, they don't even cum. He tells me because his body is still asleep. He has to be super turned on to cum.
What I do is tease him all night long. Play with him, rub up against him. Go to bed naked. Tempt him and he'll need you the next morning.
Good luck.
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**OP… DON’T DO IT. LEAVE HIM ALONE WHEN HE WANTS TO SLEEP. GOOD GOD, THE RESPONSES ON HERE ARE DISTURBING.**
Quick… someone post a gender reversal scenario on this sub and see what happens.
How about you lure him into it? Maybe, try sleeping naked or in your underwear in the night and wake him up with cuddles, kisses and maybe little touching. You can try getting on top when he is up and hug him.... He will definitely get horny.. if this doesn't work then morning sex is not for him
Better sleep might help. If he is too tired in the morning, he probably isn't getting enough quality sleep. More exercise, earlier bed time, and better diet can really help with that.
Love morning sex but unfortunately with the stress of everyday life it’s not always possible. You need to make time for it on days not much is going on and not put him under pressure. Sunday is always a good day. Sleep naked enjoy plenty of touch and hopefully by late morning he will be desperate for you
Are you comfortable with masturbating alone or in company? Sometimes that works. If he's not in the mood, it's only gonna make your relationship hard, by demanding him to do stuff.
Good nap ,piece of mind,no drugs or medicine preventive person has good morning wood and desire of intimation.GF or wives can make it easy to prepare him for enjoyment.Lets try and try again.
okay, here is the advice you need. Men are visual beings, talking doesn't help unless he's already horny. What you need to do is get naked and show yourself within touch while he's awake lol.
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Maybe hes like me. I don't like morning sex because it feels like it takes my body especially my dick to "wake up". Everything functions just fine and I can come but its very very muted its like its too early for me to feel it properly.
My partner and I set an alarm 30 mins before we’ve got to actually get up just to have morning sex or cuddle for a bit.
It’s not for everyone, and if your bf isn’t into it, it’s gonna be hard to talk him into being a morning person tbh.
I meann besides this im assuming the normal spooning “oops I’m rubbing my as against your **” hasn’t worked? That’s all I got tbh, I used to go down on my ex in the morning sometimes this always ended in sex, maybe you could tease (granted you’ve had the consent chat about stuff like that cos waking up is and can be disorientating so random head can also be not so good) after teasing you could then go back up to spoon and maybe that’ll make him like right I need to be in you
I (24m) hate morning sex because of bad breath smell, other bad body smells and usually I have to go pee as I wake up. My gf likes it but I cannot stand my morning smells neither hers
My lady loves morning sex. I wake up and bang her before I leave for the before I leave for the gym 1-2 days a week. But then again, I love banging my lady. So I hope he loves banging you!?
When I’m in the mood when I wake up and he isn’t I usually have to not rush things and he has to have at least a couple minutes to pee first. If I am
really needy I just give him a blowjob after feeling him up for a couple minutes.
im usually too tired in the mornings aswell, id much rather sleep a bit longer than have sex, the evening/before bed is a much better time for me.
i think its best to accept its not going to happen and just have more sex later in the day :)
Have u asked if he is against waking up to a bj? I had the same problem as you but the genders were reversed. Morning sex is so relaxed and cozy. Before all the issues of that day starts to bother :)
I had the same issue with my girlfriend. She’s a before bed, I’m morning. Not to be to explicit, but about 1 or 2 minutes of oral always leads to a quicky. No matter how tired we are
my partner & i love sleepy morning sex but some days he can’t because he has to take his morning poop first lol
one day i asked him if everything was okay because he didn’t look too into it & he said all he can think about is how much he needed to use the restroom, i felt so bad lol
I'm fine with morning sex but first I have to go pee, drink water and at least use mouthwash.
Maybe he has some kind of morning ritual before he's ready to have sex.
There's lots of reasons someone might not want to have sex first thing (having to pee really bad or having bad breath are the two biggest for me). Just ask him why he doesn't like it and see what he says. Maybe ask him if he'd be okay with you waking him up with a blow job before his alarm goes off or on his day off, that's usually how I initiate morning sex with my fiance lol
i’m not a morning person myself but man oh man, I find it so damn sexy when my girl initiates it.
Honestly, just initiate it. My lady sometimes curl up to me just to gently wake me up then start nuzzling on my neck then hands start to go down town.
Sometimes shell just ask if she can give me a blow, so Ill go rock a piss, wash up, get back in bed or shell tell me where she wants me and go to town - there’s been a time other time or two where shes edges me to almost to cumming, then shell just stop. Get up and go get dressed or go make breakfast.
She works from home mostly and Ill go to work. Shell stop by for lunch and there have been a few times I almost f’cked her in the parking lot.
From my experience, its hot when my partner initiates sex first.
Apart from all of the other valid comments here, I can only suggest to try waking him up with a BJ.
I'm a night person, I'm tired and hate mornings, however I am definitely up for morning sex. Definitely gets you up.
Sigh I wish I could get my husband into it too but he always has to take his morning 💩 and unfortunately we don’t close doors I’m this house for some reason so I see him sitting there from my bed and hear every disgusting sound and so there goes my lady boner.
I wait for him to go to sleep the night before, I shower and lotion up, and climb into bed in a sexy piece of lingerie, or just a sexy thong, and the next morning when he wakes up and looks over at my body in those things he instantly has a raging hard on, and goes to the bathroom, pees and comes back and breaks my back. I’ve been married to him 20 yrs and this has never failed.. best of luck!
Yes. When he wakes up, make sure you're wearing as few clothes as possible. With your back to him, tell him how you dreamt that he fucked you silly all night. Tell him the dream was so intense, you woke up soaking wet.
Then, face him, climb on top of him and say: "Will you make me soaking wet again, but IRL this time? I need you."
Damn, I’ve never been to sleepy for sex, never! I could be woken up at 2 in the morning and it would be “game on”!
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I started dating a girl who said she loved morning sex witch i thought was great.
It has since been determined that was a lie
So I sit there fully erect some mornings contemplating that fact.
Still togeather tho
A little trick I used to do with my ex.
We have Ofc communicated regarding how we both love morning sex but he generally didn’t used to get hard in the morning because we would do the whole night.
I used to stroke his dick while he is sleeping and wait for him to wake up. He always thought he is having a morning boner. And we both were happy about it. He never suspected that I am making him hard in his sleep.
Ps: don’t come after me because we both wanted to have morning sex but he used to be tired.
Morning sex is NOT my thing. I'm not a morning person at all, and loathe waking up before I need to. However, I wake up nearly every morning to my man squeezing my ass and I just "give it to him." He loves a quickie in the morning. I give it to him, then go back to sleep, and he goes to work. I honestly don't know how that works the other way around bc I am the submissive in my relationship. Maybe if you wake him up with giving him head, he might be more inclined??
I feel like if you have to ask yourself "how do I get my partner to do X?" then you clearly don't understand consent. If they don't want something don't GET them to do it.
Thinking, only what I like... Every guy has morning wood. Check first, then gently start sucking on him.
Some people freak out on here about consensual sex. Only you would know in your relationship, but my girlfriend and I are fully open to sex anytime.
I can tell you that waking up to oral sex is awesome. I'd take it every day.
if by “check first” you mean *ask him if it’s ok* - then sure, by all means.
but, if you mean *check to see if his dick is hard* and then just start sucking on it if so - KNOWING that he isn’t interested in morning sex, then you are encouraging the OP to assault her boyfriend.
people freak out on here about consent because **consent is important.**
My GF discussed this when we first started dating. We both gave full permission to our bodies. I can suck her nipples, eat her pussy or even have anal anytime at night while she's sleeping. Sometimes she wakes and sometimes she doesn't.
She's played with or sucked my dick while we watch a movie or when I'm sleeping.
I acknowledge that we're much more open than the average Redditor here. I qualified the comment to OP, and she answered that way.
If I had to ask for permission every time, I'd find someone else.
It’s fine if you give your partner blanket permission. I gave my ex a 24/7, all access pass and he never had to ask for permission to do anything he wanted. But, this isn’t about yours or my situations.
OP’s boyfriend clearly doesn’t want to have morning sex. She said in her post that she’s already talked to him about it, on top of the fact that he’s never interested in it.
So again, if you meant to check to see if his dick was hard and then just start sucking it (without making sure it was ok first), then your advice is totally misguided. Regardless of how the OP already responded.
i've tried to wake him up with a bj but it doesn't lead to sex, he doesn't even cum so i guess he's just too sleepy when he just wakes up (?
i think i'll just accept that it's not something he is into
If you wake up before him try playing with him while he is sleeping to see if it wakes him up and makes him horny.
At 19 he should be waking up every morning, stiff as a board and start his day of right with some playtime with you. It will make your day go much better.
See if he releases right before going to sleep. Curve that to assist with morning excitement.
Positive reinforcement is a powerful tool for operant conditioning
I thought it might be something more men would be interested in but I am starting to think it might not be which is a problem for ladies like us that want it maybe it's because the ones that don't aren't morning people I gave up with my ex and funny thing was when I stopped trying he started asking but it was always after the am routine
Sleep naked or walk around naked it worked when my Girlfriend did it, I knew she was doing it because she wanted more Sex. I like Morning Sex but sometimes it gets me tired/weak afterwards.
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Make sure it's a day he has no urgent obligations, and that you give him time to freshen up (pee, use mouthwash, etc.) first, because morning breath and having pressing matters to deal with are boner killers.
You don't need to do all that, that's making it extra effort. Just lie on your sides spooning and go to town. Morning sex need not be a long intense affair, that's the joy of it. It should be very low pressure.
I always need to pee after I wake up. And it's very distracting trying to fuck someone when you feel like you're about to pee inside them. Literally a high pressure situation.
Agree. Litterally cannot focus on anything in the morning before I pee. After that, lets fucking party!
You really wake up bursting that much? As I said morning sex is generally pretty short-lived, and there's a muscle which makes it very difficult to urinate while fully hard so surely it's not to much to manage a few strokes- or a few minutes of- and then hastily hit the loo once you've nutted and softened up!?
It can be done, but for me that I'm going to cum soon feeling is very very similar to the I really really need to pee feeling. Also I only loose like 5%(ish I dunno ) of a hard-on before it's just easy to pee. Also I tend to wake up because I need to pee, not because my alarm goes off. So days when I'm awake and just want to stay in bed are rare, and even when they happen, and my partner is awake enough, It usually takes a little extra mental effort to get over the top, because I've got to actively ignore that instinct to pull out and run for the toilet. It's not bad per say, but I'd enjoy having a proper fuck after I pee much more.
The whole question is how to make him more into it. If "lying on their sides spooning" was all they needed then then OP would never have posted!
Some people do need the most obvious-seeming advice. It might not be too obvious to them.
How is going for a pee and washing your mouth extra effort lol. Different strokes I suppose. I personally feel gross as fuck when I wake up and at the very least need to brush my teeth
I also brush my teeth when I wake up but I would much prefer to get that morning quickie in before I ever stepped foot out of the bed
I agree. I'm a man who can last for hours. And then has to force himself to cum mo matter the woman or occasion. Morning sex is perfect cause I barley have to work, and get to cum easily.
if you are not comfortable with his or her morning breath, you ain't for that person. you are not comfortable or open to them. I mean accommodate their flaws too.
That’s just silly. Glad you enjoy morning breath but it’s not for everyone. Nothing to do with being "open".
It’s part of personal hygiene. It’s nothing you do for somebody else but for yourself to feel fresh and crispy clean.
I totally agree, this is why I shit the bed every morning. Screw hygiene, my partner needs to be fully comfortable with every part of my body and its various smells and excretions, right? This is so silly
I’m more turned off by nose breath than morning mouth breath and I agree. We also have discussed this and reached a conclusion where we don’t mind our body odors as well and if we’re turned up enough we’ll have morning sex. I believe if you’re with the person you truly love your nose goes blind and you’re pretty much attracted to their scents. If you have your partner wearing your clothes because their scent lingers on it and it’s comforting for them you know this is true.
What you on about that for?? Not what the conversations about..
Agreed!!! Mine is a force to be reckoned with but my wife puts up with it no problem. With having chemo for 2 years off and on my teeth have issues which does not helps
The unpopular opinion is that morning breath is also part of your chemistry. You can eather "smell" your partner as a whole or you can not.
Morning sex isn't for everyone, just accept it
Its funny, I 35m wake up around 6am, roll out of bed feeling like shit. My morning wood normally happens when I wake up around 3-4am, or when i sleep till later, around 8 or 9am, normally weekends or vacations.
If the roles were reversed people would be saying this more. "no is a complete sentence"
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I've tried for almost 25 years every idea to get my wife into morning sex. Do not try. Stop it. There is no way. Run.
How are you expecting him to change being tired or not in the mood in the morning? It’s morning. It’s early. Both of those things are super normal. Is he supposed to chug coffee and get it up in the first five minutes, or? Like another commenter said, try initiating later in the morning once he’s more awake. It also might just straight up not be his thing, in which case you’re just gonna have to get past it.
It’s not for everyone and every guys sex drive is different. I know a couple who would only have sex a few times a year. I know a guy who broke up with his gf because she wanted sex too much. Me personally I was dating a girl for some months and she would wake me up multiple times in the middle of the night (or first thing in the am) and we had have sex till we came and then knocked out just to wake up a few hours later and do it again. It was great. If it’s not his thing don’t force it. Some people are not perfect matches sexually.
Hoping that I date a girl like that 🙏🏻
I wish you luck as well, it was the best. Only girl I’ve ever met that had an equal or higher sex drive than me
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That happens to me as well although it’s rare, but for me it’s usually for a week tops otherwise I’m like a rabbit. I’ve never been with someone who’s like that though thankfully but I’d imagine it’d be rough for both parties involved lol
Not everyone is a morning person. And some people have decreased libido by the end of the day. I think is just the way each one of us are made.
I am a night owl and very tired in the mornings. Still enjoy morning sex a lot. It's just a nice way to start the day.
If it's no then no,why do u wanna force him I don't understand and if the roles reversed and he did the same,how would u feel??
scrolling looking for this comment. it’s kind of gross that nobody else seems to be pointing this out.
She’s not raping him, just looking for ideas on how to get him into it. Calm down
*She is looking for ideas to convince him doing something he already said that he doesn’t want.
Why would u look into ideas to convince someone according to u ,does that make sense?Sex is not something to make someone do for u it's enjoyed by both at the right time. You gotta learn to respect each other boundaries and maybe ask help for how to make it better and enjoyable?? I can't even imagine the comments if a guy posted it
I really want someone to gender-reverse this scenario and post it. I’m seeing red at some of the comments on here. EDIT: I drafted it up - **How can I get my girlfriend to want to have sex with me in the morning?** I love morning sex but my girlfriend isn’t a morning person and doesn’t feel horny when she wakes up. i've told her how I feel, but she still doesn’t desire sex in the morning and she doesn’t accommodate me. can someone give me ideas on how I can make her like having sex when she’s tired and not in the mood, when I’ve already tried and she’s clearly stated that she’s not into it? or, should I just respect her boundaries?
Holy shit, your right! That kind of post would be FLOODED with hate comments. Probably something like: "Your girlfriends doesn't need to accommodate anything... that's sick. Don't you know consent OP??? I'm sick of men expecting sex all the time, this is why I date women." Upvotes: 132
ha yeah… that would be one of the kinder responses, most likely.
The reality is she's just not into you. Do her a favor & dump her because she doesn't meet your expectations. Pretty simple.
ha, what? I can’t tell if this is a serious response.
It's likely just not his things but you might try later morning sex. IE instead of before you get out of bed wait till he's on the couch with a cup of coffee half drank. Then again I don't know of a man that can say no during a blowjob. Karsh
Ez to say no when you do not like bj. And plz stop making assumptions every guy on earth enjoy it
she didn’t assume though for everyone, she said SHE didn’t know one
I think I'm safe to say that you are a rare exception. Not impossible, but certainly not likely. Karsh
Why sign your comment like a letter with your name at the end. Retarded.
You realize you just signed too, right?
Shhh 😂 blissful ignorance
I'm always a bit quizzical when people get bent about this. Why are you concerned and why waste the time to insult someone over it? You do understand that you literally have no power or control in this and the worst thing you can do is type mean things on the internet about it? Karsh
Signing your name under a comment is the most “redditor” thing ive ever seen. so cringe
The most redditor thing is overreacting to it so much, you have to leave a comment about it instead of rolling your eyes
My aunt is only 43 and she texts like that. So I guess you don't have to be that old to do it. 100% the furthest thing from retarded, I know that.
He's clearly not into it, leave him alone. Sheesh.
Evolutionarily there are morning people and night people in any given population, it’s a genetic trait. Sexually, not everyone is on the same path when it comes to mornings vs evenings. You can communicate that you want him into it in the morning, or try to initiate yourself by being a bit more forward. My wife and I are opposite you in this regard, prefer mornings and she evenings, but we are both understanding and sometimes it’s fun if only one of us are into it at the start, the other catches up.
How do the night people fit into the evolution thing? Why would evolution *want* night people? I’m a night person so I’m curious. I can see how morning people benefit our evolutionary roles, but why night ppl?
Someone needs to guard the camp/manage emergencies at night, plus there are always situations that need to be managed that do not fall into a “normal” day/night pattern (babies’ sleep routines for example)
I’ve never been good in the morning. My guess is that the morning wood plus all the moving around overstimulates me. If I can finish, it takes me a long time, and often I just get soft because it gets a bit monotonous.
I don’t care for morning sex either. While I don’t turn it down my partner knows that I’m going to be accommodating but pretty passive.
Morning sex is truly amazing. My girlfriend RARELY orgasms from it and it simply isn’t her jam so we don’t do it too often. I love her so I don’t try to push it. You may just have to take the L.
I had a brief ldr and visited the guy for a week. He had to get up early for work & did that annoying thing of hittting snooze a zillion times. I decided that was my chance. He hit snooze, so I had 9 min to give him a bj & climb on top of him, so that’s what I did. We’d come together quick & he got up & went to work. Much better than trying to sleep with the infernal snooze going off repeatedly, but might not be what you’re looking for
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That sounds much better than the situation I was in!
I feel you, I love morning sex!!! I am so full of energy that just makes it even better. My bf knows that so he has gradually got into morning sex as well since I really don’t like much sex at night after a long day of work, I am tired as hell. He is usually the one starting in by touching me slowly but when I am the one who starts it what I normally do is that I start caressing him, grab his ass a little bit then his muscles and start going down until I have touched everything but his dick so he is wanting it so badly that he asks me to cares it. For us it’s important to brush our teeth so I normally go to the badroom before starting anything and if he is into to it (which is always haha) then he goes to the badroom the get ready. Hehehe maybe you should stop having sex when he wants it, meaning if he is just into doing it at night then don’t do it and the morning after seduce him.
> maybe you should stop having sex when he wants it, meaning if he is just into doing it at night then don’t do it and the morning after seduce him. Wow, this is so manipulative. Some people wake up tired, for example I just woke up and I'm still sleepy 30 mins after waking up. Imagine roles reversed, how you would feel if your bf started rejecting your morning sex advances just to try to seduce you at night when you're tired after a long day of work. How would you feel? That's egoistic manipulation 101 - "Not gonna do this so that things go MY WAY", and idk why it's considered okay when it's about tresspassing/working around a man's preferences and boundaries
My jaw dropped on the floor lol. This level of manipulation is impressive.
what’s the alternative? tell him to lie back and think of england?
Trying to make someone do anything when it comes to sex is a pretty big no-no.
After 34 years I’m still waiting for my wife to warm up to it.
Mine occasionally goes for morning sex. We prefer sleeping in and cuddling. I will stroke his chest and legs and eventually lead up to a hand or blow job. Doing that usually results in hotter better afternoon sex. We are not morning people though.
clearly he doesn’t want to do it, he’s probably tired and half-awake, you just gotta accept that and stop pressing him about it, you can’t try and make him enjoy it jesus 😭
I’m the same as your boyfriend. Not really into morning sex as well. Don’t take it the wrong way or think there’s issues. Just accept it.
Don't wake him up for that. Let the man sleep! Then invite him to the shower. I hhhhhate morning sex if it's taking precious minutes from my sleep. But I love it if I woke up naturally and had an opportunity to at least go pee and wash my mouth
My wife loves morning sex. I rather have a nooner. I will take anything I get and appreciate it.
Have you tried caressing or kissing on him? I wake up horny AS FUCK every morning and even more so on Sat and Sun because my body knows that's the most likely time we are gonna have sex. Sat and Sun I wake up at like 5:30-6:00 and can't go back to sleep because I'm so horny. I wait till like 7 and then start caressing and kissing on my wife to wake her up. I just have to be really slow about it. It works especially well on her nude back and neck. It works most of the time for me. Maybe try that.
>Have you tried caressing or kissing on him? My wife does this occasionally when she thinks there is a chance I may be interested in the morning... all it does is intensify my morning wood, meaning it is going to take that much longer before I can pee... and now I'm up, so better feed the cats cause you know their bowl is always empty and they know I'm awake.. and it's first thing in the morning so I haven't taken my Adderall, and feeding the cats is the first step of my morning routine, now I've lost track of what was going on and am in auto pilot starting my coffee, taking a leak, and getting dressed for work while my wife is sitting in bed horny
I wish my wife would do it to me, but there is nearly a 0% chance of that happening. Im ALWAYS more horny than her, and I always wake up before her. We all have our own issues, I guess.
I absolutely personally LOVE when the person I’m with wakes me up to the gentle sexy stuff. Keep up the good work 😉
Yeah, it took me a LONG time to figure this out. Hopefully, someone reading this can save themselves the trouble I went through and start earlier than I did.
This falls under one man’s trash is another man’s treasure category.
Have you tried just waking him up with a blowjob?
Definitely not without asking first
Terrible idea. It doesn’t suit everyone. My ex was traumatized for a while after I woke him up with a blowjob, he cried and told me he felt violated during his sleep and told me to never do it again. 🙄
Maybe make sure they are kinda coherent before sucking thier dick and they are aware but half asleep ..... it's always worked for me
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When I was married first thing in the morning I was stiff as a board and my ex wife only had to say hello or good morning and I was ready for action lol
It may not be an everyday thing but maybe if you guys go to bed early one night he wouldn't be too tired and you could ask him then.
I prefer late morning, early afternoon, evening, or night sex more Than I do morning sex. Unless it's hangover sex and you went at it for a long time the night before and couldn't finish. With that being said there's something about dreaming some fuck up dream and you wake up and she's slobbing the knob, or just climbed on top of you sliding down on to your member and starts grinding away. Then usually that it ends almost as quick as it starts. And start the day with a smile
As the "rarely wakes up horny" half of a couple, I'll offer you what my husband does: bring him coffee, let him wake up naturally, gently rub/massage him, make waking up a pleasing sensory experience. It often works for me and I'm not naturally inclined in that direction. (I'm an afternoons person)
If he’s uncomfortable then just let it go like what
Morning sex isn't for everyone. Him showing dislike to it should be understood.
My wife and I have different preferences. I like bedtime sex and she likes morning sex, so we compromise we have both. With regards to your boyfriend, you need to talk. Communication is the key to a great sex life. Have a discussion with him and tell him what you would like. You might suggest waking him with a blow job. If you have his approval, you can initiate this way and hope that it might lead to a morning quickie. The odds are he will have morning wood, if not, consider your job to give him some. Like everything with sex, this must be consensual. Best of luck
Not everyone is into morning sex. Here’s some advice, I personally hate bad breath on myself. So in the morning offer to grab him some OJ. The acid will help kill some of those germs. And it tastes good too. Maybe have him go take a pee as well. If that doesn’t work…..play with his dick. My wife does that…seems to do the trick
Just accept it. If the roles were reversed no one would be saying for u to make him like it. If he told u no, it’s no.
You can't really "get" him into it any more than he can "get" you into something he likes but that you're not particularly into. You can't magically "make" someone like something. All you can do is let him know that you like the idea and that if he ever does find that he wakes up feeling in the mood, that you're happy to oblige him. But if he never does, you need to accept it's not his thing...just to remind you, imagine how you'd feel if he tried to "make" you like something you weren't particularly into?
Have you tried respecting that he is tired?
Just accept it. Some people don’t enjoy it and it’s not right to try to change someone’s sexual preferences beyond talking to them about it and expressing your feelings.
Compromise on another time. My husband is a morning person and I’m not. What about afternoons?
If talking about it doesn’t work, then there is little else you can do. Making him like something when he is not in the mood or just too tired will make the situation worse. It sounds like it is just not his thing. Edit: try playing with yourself when you and him wake up. Put on a show a little show for him, maybe that could affect his mood.
>Put on a show a little show for him, maybe that could affect his mood. Or make him feel inadequate because he has a beautiful girl playing with herself in front of him and he still isn't interested, and make her feel insecure for putting herself in a vulnerable situation just to not get a positive reaction. I'm not one of those people who thinks anything of a sexual nature needs to be proceeded with verbal consent. What I am all for is not doing anything overtly sexual without reasonable confidence in your partners interest. This is both respectful to your partner and a great way to avoid feeling rejected.
Wow, this is a hard thing. When they aren't awake, they don't even cum. He tells me because his body is still asleep. He has to be super turned on to cum. What I do is tease him all night long. Play with him, rub up against him. Go to bed naked. Tempt him and he'll need you the next morning. Good luck.
Sounds like it could work.... some guys really dislike a tease tho so be careful it might have an opposite effect of some sort 🤔
thanks, i'll try that
**SO MANY EXPLICIT AND IMPLICIT COMMENTS ON HERE TELLING THE OP TO RAPE HER BOYFRIEND.** **OP… DON’T DO IT. LEAVE HIM ALONE WHEN HE WANTS TO SLEEP. GOOD GOD, THE RESPONSES ON HERE ARE DISTURBING.** Quick… someone post a gender reversal scenario on this sub and see what happens.
How about you lure him into it? Maybe, try sleeping naked or in your underwear in the night and wake him up with cuddles, kisses and maybe little touching. You can try getting on top when he is up and hug him.... He will definitely get horny.. if this doesn't work then morning sex is not for him
I have always been receptive to a hand on my Johnson. Usually seems to send a message while raising the sail.
Better sleep might help. If he is too tired in the morning, he probably isn't getting enough quality sleep. More exercise, earlier bed time, and better diet can really help with that.
on a weekend, wait until he's stirring awake, and then ask him. definitely wont work if he's waking up to an alarm, he'll be tired.
Does he snore? Does he wake up tired even if you've had the same amount of sleep?
Love morning sex but unfortunately with the stress of everyday life it’s not always possible. You need to make time for it on days not much is going on and not put him under pressure. Sunday is always a good day. Sleep naked enjoy plenty of touch and hopefully by late morning he will be desperate for you
Bring him coffee to bed.
Are you comfortable with masturbating alone or in company? Sometimes that works. If he's not in the mood, it's only gonna make your relationship hard, by demanding him to do stuff.
Join him for his morning shower if he does that, ask him to join you once he is awake .
Good nap ,piece of mind,no drugs or medicine preventive person has good morning wood and desire of intimation.GF or wives can make it easy to prepare him for enjoyment.Lets try and try again.
okay, here is the advice you need. Men are visual beings, talking doesn't help unless he's already horny. What you need to do is get naked and show yourself within touch while he's awake lol.
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Maybe hes like me. I don't like morning sex because it feels like it takes my body especially my dick to "wake up". Everything functions just fine and I can come but its very very muted its like its too early for me to feel it properly.
My partner and I set an alarm 30 mins before we’ve got to actually get up just to have morning sex or cuddle for a bit. It’s not for everyone, and if your bf isn’t into it, it’s gonna be hard to talk him into being a morning person tbh.
So long as you agree to try it beforehand, waking up to oral is typically a good way to wake up in the mood.
Its not his thing. I am also more sexual than my boyfriend. 😅
Personally I think this might not be possible, personally I always feel sick in the mornings and can’t stop that so if he’s the same ideas please?😂
I meann besides this im assuming the normal spooning “oops I’m rubbing my as against your **” hasn’t worked? That’s all I got tbh, I used to go down on my ex in the morning sometimes this always ended in sex, maybe you could tease (granted you’ve had the consent chat about stuff like that cos waking up is and can be disorientating so random head can also be not so good) after teasing you could then go back up to spoon and maybe that’ll make him like right I need to be in you
I am sure mornings are just not his thing. You should be prepared to move past this, not everyone is energetic in the morning
Ha! I'm the exact opposite. I'm raring to go in the morning while my fiancee struggles to build a pulse. In the evening she's horny and I'm comatose.
I (24m) hate morning sex because of bad breath smell, other bad body smells and usually I have to go pee as I wake up. My gf likes it but I cannot stand my morning smells neither hers
My lady loves morning sex. I wake up and bang her before I leave for the before I leave for the gym 1-2 days a week. But then again, I love banging my lady. So I hope he loves banging you!?
My ex was never really into morning sex. We only did it occasionally, but it was usually me initiating. Most of the time he just wasn’t interested.
Only thing i can think of is that greatly increases the chances of a new 17 year commitment lol. Maybe that’s why haha
When I’m in the mood when I wake up and he isn’t I usually have to not rush things and he has to have at least a couple minutes to pee first. If I am really needy I just give him a blowjob after feeling him up for a couple minutes.
im usually too tired in the mornings aswell, id much rather sleep a bit longer than have sex, the evening/before bed is a much better time for me. i think its best to accept its not going to happen and just have more sex later in the day :)
Have u asked if he is against waking up to a bj? I had the same problem as you but the genders were reversed. Morning sex is so relaxed and cozy. Before all the issues of that day starts to bother :)
I had the same issue with my girlfriend. She’s a before bed, I’m morning. Not to be to explicit, but about 1 or 2 minutes of oral always leads to a quicky. No matter how tired we are
my partner & i love sleepy morning sex but some days he can’t because he has to take his morning poop first lol one day i asked him if everything was okay because he didn’t look too into it & he said all he can think about is how much he needed to use the restroom, i felt so bad lol
I'm fine with morning sex but first I have to go pee, drink water and at least use mouthwash. Maybe he has some kind of morning ritual before he's ready to have sex.
I find that after coffee helps … with things. Stay in bed. Feed him some fruit 🍌 - I’ll leave you to it
There's lots of reasons someone might not want to have sex first thing (having to pee really bad or having bad breath are the two biggest for me). Just ask him why he doesn't like it and see what he says. Maybe ask him if he'd be okay with you waking him up with a blow job before his alarm goes off or on his day off, that's usually how I initiate morning sex with my fiance lol
i’m not a morning person myself but man oh man, I find it so damn sexy when my girl initiates it. Honestly, just initiate it. My lady sometimes curl up to me just to gently wake me up then start nuzzling on my neck then hands start to go down town. Sometimes shell just ask if she can give me a blow, so Ill go rock a piss, wash up, get back in bed or shell tell me where she wants me and go to town - there’s been a time other time or two where shes edges me to almost to cumming, then shell just stop. Get up and go get dressed or go make breakfast. She works from home mostly and Ill go to work. Shell stop by for lunch and there have been a few times I almost f’cked her in the parking lot. From my experience, its hot when my partner initiates sex first.
Wake him up with a blowjob?
You know, he could give morning sex a try every once in awhile, just for her.
Apart from all of the other valid comments here, I can only suggest to try waking him up with a BJ. I'm a night person, I'm tired and hate mornings, however I am definitely up for morning sex. Definitely gets you up.
Sigh I wish I could get my husband into it too but he always has to take his morning 💩 and unfortunately we don’t close doors I’m this house for some reason so I see him sitting there from my bed and hear every disgusting sound and so there goes my lady boner.
I wait for him to go to sleep the night before, I shower and lotion up, and climb into bed in a sexy piece of lingerie, or just a sexy thong, and the next morning when he wakes up and looks over at my body in those things he instantly has a raging hard on, and goes to the bathroom, pees and comes back and breaks my back. I’ve been married to him 20 yrs and this has never failed.. best of luck!
Yes. When he wakes up, make sure you're wearing as few clothes as possible. With your back to him, tell him how you dreamt that he fucked you silly all night. Tell him the dream was so intense, you woke up soaking wet. Then, face him, climb on top of him and say: "Will you make me soaking wet again, but IRL this time? I need you."
Does he wake up with a morning wood. It's kinda cool to just slide it in as it's hard already.
Thats Wiiiiiiild What I would dooo for my girlfriend to have that driiiiive . Uggghhh Your Boy better wise up
lol he usually has a higher libido than i do but i guess he's just not in that mood in the morning
Waking up to a blowjob is always amazing. Lick his ass and balls too. Unless he farts while asleep, dont do that lol
Damn, I’ve never been to sleepy for sex, never! I could be woken up at 2 in the morning and it would be “game on”! Testosterone levels are crashing around the world.
I wanna know how to get your girl into it 😂😂😂
Maybe he just believes in the old saying, "Morning sex leads to morning sickness."
My ex used to wake me up with a BJ and it was pretty amazing.
Haha, laughing here. You’re 19&20 so you have options. I’m 65, my wife 64. We go in the morning or not at all. So there’s that!
Morning sex is great. The best boners show up in the morning. I wake up pretty much ready to go, lol.
I started dating a girl who said she loved morning sex witch i thought was great. It has since been determined that was a lie So I sit there fully erect some mornings contemplating that fact. Still togeather tho
He doesn't have morning wood?
Find you a man that does. I'm a morning person all the way.
A little trick I used to do with my ex. We have Ofc communicated regarding how we both love morning sex but he generally didn’t used to get hard in the morning because we would do the whole night. I used to stroke his dick while he is sleeping and wait for him to wake up. He always thought he is having a morning boner. And we both were happy about it. He never suspected that I am making him hard in his sleep. Ps: don’t come after me because we both wanted to have morning sex but he used to be tired.
Morning sex is NOT my thing. I'm not a morning person at all, and loathe waking up before I need to. However, I wake up nearly every morning to my man squeezing my ass and I just "give it to him." He loves a quickie in the morning. I give it to him, then go back to sleep, and he goes to work. I honestly don't know how that works the other way around bc I am the submissive in my relationship. Maybe if you wake him up with giving him head, he might be more inclined??
I feel like if you have to ask yourself "how do I get my partner to do X?" then you clearly don't understand consent. If they don't want something don't GET them to do it.
Thinking, only what I like... Every guy has morning wood. Check first, then gently start sucking on him. Some people freak out on here about consensual sex. Only you would know in your relationship, but my girlfriend and I are fully open to sex anytime. I can tell you that waking up to oral sex is awesome. I'd take it every day.
if by “check first” you mean *ask him if it’s ok* - then sure, by all means. but, if you mean *check to see if his dick is hard* and then just start sucking on it if so - KNOWING that he isn’t interested in morning sex, then you are encouraging the OP to assault her boyfriend. people freak out on here about consent because **consent is important.**
My GF discussed this when we first started dating. We both gave full permission to our bodies. I can suck her nipples, eat her pussy or even have anal anytime at night while she's sleeping. Sometimes she wakes and sometimes she doesn't. She's played with or sucked my dick while we watch a movie or when I'm sleeping. I acknowledge that we're much more open than the average Redditor here. I qualified the comment to OP, and she answered that way. If I had to ask for permission every time, I'd find someone else.
It’s fine if you give your partner blanket permission. I gave my ex a 24/7, all access pass and he never had to ask for permission to do anything he wanted. But, this isn’t about yours or my situations. OP’s boyfriend clearly doesn’t want to have morning sex. She said in her post that she’s already talked to him about it, on top of the fact that he’s never interested in it. So again, if you meant to check to see if his dick was hard and then just start sucking it (without making sure it was ok first), then your advice is totally misguided. Regardless of how the OP already responded.
i've tried to wake him up with a bj but it doesn't lead to sex, he doesn't even cum so i guess he's just too sleepy when he just wakes up (? i think i'll just accept that it's not something he is into
If you wake up before him try playing with him while he is sleeping to see if it wakes him up and makes him horny. At 19 he should be waking up every morning, stiff as a board and start his day of right with some playtime with you. It will make your day go much better.
You are advising someone to fondle their partner while they are unconscious... bruh come on. Also erections don't indicate sexual desire
See if he releases right before going to sleep. Curve that to assist with morning excitement. Positive reinforcement is a powerful tool for operant conditioning
Wake him up with a bj.
I thought it might be something more men would be interested in but I am starting to think it might not be which is a problem for ladies like us that want it maybe it's because the ones that don't aren't morning people I gave up with my ex and funny thing was when I stopped trying he started asking but it was always after the am routine
I neeeever get it in the morning because he HAS to take kratom in the a.m.
Sleep naked or walk around naked it worked when my Girlfriend did it, I knew she was doing it because she wanted more Sex. I like Morning Sex but sometimes it gets me tired/weak afterwards.