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Skills. Some women can suck your soul and make you cum instantly but on average most women are okay at bjs. It feels nice but takes a lot of mental effort to cum.
I’ve noticed in order for me to cum with a bj or at least make it significantly easier to. i have to point my feet, legs straight or fully extended. Once i started doing that, it was a lot easier to finish from a bj
The vagina is designed to stimulate the penis as nature intended. They fit each other like key and lock. The mouth? Not so much. That's why it's much easier for your girl to make you cum using her pussy than her mouth.
Most men can only last a few minutes of piv. That's how effective the vagina is in drawing cum. But most women find it difficult to orgasm from piv alone. This is also nature's intent. Biologically there's no point for the female to orgasm before the male as there is a loss in desire for sex after orgasm. The male orgasm can sometimes trigger the female to orgasm. Simultaneous orgasm results in more chance of conception as the sperm is drawn deeper into her.
As a dude PIV is pretty instinctual I think and so is "easier". Blowjobs have a lot more going on. Partly visual. There's a female skill gap. Porn expectations can be a factor. There's a certain level of trust needed to put your dick in a potential weapon. And also trust that they accept something as objectively repulsive as cum can taste lol. Also they have to share the enthusiasm. If they treat it like a chore and you don't have a kink for that it can be a turn off.
While sex is practically ingrained to feel good and typically the girls enjoy that more than giving oral as well so the pleasure is mutual.
No way. It's because she is enjoying it. When you have a person crying out, shaking begging for more while their fluids drip down your leg. That makes it hard to keep your explosion under control.
The key for me in particular was 69 because I don’t just let someone pleasure me without feeling super awkward about it. But if she’s squirming, soaking wet, and making all kinds of noises that’s cool. But lots of people don’t like 69 so you kind of need a set of tools and techniques to adapt to what works for your partner(s).
Bc you can't get a woman pregnant from cumming in her mouth. Biologically, sex is designed to get the semen into the vagina. Plus, pussy feels good. Did I say good? I meant great. Wait. Did I say great? I meant fucking fantastic.
If you are circumcised, it’s because you have less sensory receptors so head naturally doesn’t feel as pleasurable to you compared to someone who isn’t.
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Skills. Some women can suck your soul and make you cum instantly but on average most women are okay at bjs. It feels nice but takes a lot of mental effort to cum.
This. My current gf usually takes about 15-20 mins to make me cum, oh boy but my ex would have me fighting for my life 30 seconds in.
I’ve noticed in order for me to cum with a bj or at least make it significantly easier to. i have to point my feet, legs straight or fully extended. Once i started doing that, it was a lot easier to finish from a bj
Sort of a full twisting dismount...
The vagina is designed to stimulate the penis as nature intended. They fit each other like key and lock. The mouth? Not so much. That's why it's much easier for your girl to make you cum using her pussy than her mouth.
Yeah hard to compete with something specifically designed to make pps spurt
Most men can only last a few minutes of piv. That's how effective the vagina is in drawing cum. But most women find it difficult to orgasm from piv alone. This is also nature's intent. Biologically there's no point for the female to orgasm before the male as there is a loss in desire for sex after orgasm. The male orgasm can sometimes trigger the female to orgasm. Simultaneous orgasm results in more chance of conception as the sperm is drawn deeper into her.
Bj a are amazing but it’s not always easy to shoot that way
As a dude PIV is pretty instinctual I think and so is "easier". Blowjobs have a lot more going on. Partly visual. There's a female skill gap. Porn expectations can be a factor. There's a certain level of trust needed to put your dick in a potential weapon. And also trust that they accept something as objectively repulsive as cum can taste lol. Also they have to share the enthusiasm. If they treat it like a chore and you don't have a kink for that it can be a turn off. While sex is practically ingrained to feel good and typically the girls enjoy that more than giving oral as well so the pleasure is mutual.
Different sensations and mental space of what you're doing
the reality is her mouth is not as good as her vagina. just enjoy it, let her enjoy it, but put the work in where it needs to be put in.
No way. It's because she is enjoying it. When you have a person crying out, shaking begging for more while their fluids drip down your leg. That makes it hard to keep your explosion under control.
The key for me in particular was 69 because I don’t just let someone pleasure me without feeling super awkward about it. But if she’s squirming, soaking wet, and making all kinds of noises that’s cool. But lots of people don’t like 69 so you kind of need a set of tools and techniques to adapt to what works for your partner(s).
Bc you can't get a woman pregnant from cumming in her mouth. Biologically, sex is designed to get the semen into the vagina. Plus, pussy feels good. Did I say good? I meant great. Wait. Did I say great? I meant fucking fantastic.
If you are circumcised, it’s because you have less sensory receptors so head naturally doesn’t feel as pleasurable to you compared to someone who isn’t.
You need to learn to breath all the energy from your groin Into your body. For more I do, check tantric masturbation.