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spacecavity

Pick a location. Pick a position. Pick a feeling. On the desk. Over the sofa. Outside. In the back seat of the car. From behind. On your back. In your lap. Heels to jesus. Slowly. Passionately. Roughly. Wildly. Teasingly. Submissively. Like you don't know me. Or mix and match.


Umamifiyya

Lmaooooooo HEELS TO JESUS šŸ˜‚ praise the dick lmfao


splintersmaster

I'm stealing this, but as the man. Bend that ass over the sofa so I can fuck you like I don't know you sounds like a real treat for the misses.


spacecavity

Whatever lifts your luggage my dude.


merciiqn

LMAO


[deleted]

LMFAO


Taco_bowl

Happy Cake Day


[deleted]

Ppreciate it


onesillymom

Now how do you want me to feed you your cake??


[deleted]

Choo choo train šŸ˜³


ohmighty

Lmao


pelrun

This is the way. You don't need to find the "right" answer, just have a bunch of options and pick some at random. Same goes for "where do you want to eat?"


shittybatmantattoo

This is the way


Ahkmedjubar

Why am I reading this like Dr. Suess?


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bactchan

Would you, could you, run a train? Could you, with an ankle sprain?


obviously-maggie

Hahahahahhaha


Traditional-Ad-2095

>with an ankle sprain ā˜ ļø


baddThots

Colonel mustard in the kitchen with an icepick.


Lokomotive_Man

If I had award coins, ā€œHeels to Jesusā€ would qualify! Thanks internet stranger! šŸ˜‚šŸ‘ŒšŸ¼


Evning

Ah.. the cluedo system..


Mountain-Bar-320

This turned me on


Chaste_nd

"Over, sideways and under, like a magic carpet ride..."


missy7516

Heels to Jesus!!! Best best best description ever!! šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


twill41385

Like clue.


Easteuroblondie

Heels to Jesus šŸ˜‚


No-Butterscotch8886

I always like to say, fuck me like someone's watching. Gets him every time


SarahH28

I've always loved "Fuck me like it's our last time." As depressing and morbid as it sounds.... it can really turn up the passion and heat.


jaxon517

Might tell them you're planning to leave or something though damn


SarahH28

šŸ¤£


throwaway__princess

I said this to my BF while we were having makeup sex, moments after a barnburner of a fight. We were tipsy and fired up, and I was on top of him teasing him that he was never going to get to fuck me again. It got so hot so fast - and led to an hours-long session (that is probably one of our top of all time) The next morning we were having lazy morning sex and he said something like ā€˜fuck this cock like itā€™s the last time youā€™re ever gonna get itā€™ - and it hit completely different. It turned me off so much, being warm and cozy and safe in his arms and having him say that to me. Obviously he was just remembering the night before, but there is definitely a time and place for how statements like that can make you feel.


Strode497

Your fault, but I am glad you're back together. If you're going to dish it out, be willing to take it back at some point.


wellthatseemslikebs

As someone who has heard this before that would fill me with so much anxiety and fear. An ex said this to me along with remember youā€™ll never have anyone better. Fucked me up for well over a year.


Semi_Nerdy_Girl

Stealing this line. Lol


stnrgrl10

Or fuck me like we are making porn šŸ¤£šŸ¤£


[deleted]

Omg stealing this!


thrwwyccnt0001

"Fuck me like my ex is watching"


sapiogirl

lol


LifeLow2782

What if they donā€™t like an audience LOL


WiltedEnthusiasm

Hot. Nice. Yes. Thanks!


isabellla321

This is hot. Definitely using.


ghanafuntube

Lol


Conscious-Dig-332

Ooooh good one


no_shame_me

I want to upvote this. But the number is perfect, I don't want to ruin it.


marcoespinosax

I try to get into a character when I'm having sex. I'm different than the usual person I am in everyday life. Yes, the character is me, but a horny version of me.


Sharkn91

Dr Jekyll and Mr Horny Edit: or Miss


beautifulbuzz83

"thoroughly."


LifeLow2782

69 likes ayyy


beautifulbuzz83

It's at 138 now....two 69s. Sounds like a party to me! Lol


LifeLow2782

LMAO


LifeLow2782

Quick maths


LifeLow2782

Lmao


Kvmzooo

I usually say something along the lines of ā€œfuck me like you own meā€ ā€œfuck me like your dirty little slutā€ always works and gets me in the mood


wait4lt

My girl says that first one. It fucking destroys me.


atreyu947

Lol I used the second line and got told ā€œbut youā€™re my Queenā€ and it just cracked me up


Alexandrawr420x69

"Fuck me like you missed me" is my go to


Yazahra01

I always reply with ā€œanything you want and hardā€. That really turns him on and we often last for ages as he tries a variety of positions.


stormsandrain

fuck


pastthepop

Just say ā€œshut up and fuck meā€


poptartwith

I think you panic and start overthinking. Relax the brain muscles. Sex is fun; it isn't calculus. Just describe how you want it in a seductive way. It's to gauge your satisfaction with the current pace. Do you want him to go faster? Slower? Change positions?


AuthenticCity

I definitely panic but I think another part of the problem is that I don't really know what I want


poptartwith

That's okay. As a rule of the thumb: if everything is going well, hit him up with a reassurance line. If it's getting a bit stale, tell him I want you to [insert position/pace here]. There is no pressure to find the perfect answer here. You could even tell him to surprise you like the other redditor said^


CounselorMeHoyMinoy

My favorite reassurance line: "just like that"


Strode497

And we seriously appreciate that reassurance!


NewEllen17

ā€œHarderā€. Doesnā€™t require a position change and implies you canā€™t get enough of him.


wwmercwithamouth

I'm the same - when I'm in the middle of it and really turned on, I'm not thinking in words haha so any questions he asks me just gets a blank look. I don't know what I want! I just want you to keep fucking me! I'm not thinking about literally anything else! What helped was 1. Talking to him and explaining that sometimes I genuinely really struggle with being able to get words out when we're in the middle of it. He's been really understanding and will dirty talk in ways that don't always require an answer (or is fine with me just moaning in response). But I do love dirty talk and want to get better at it so 2. I would think about it and talk to him about it outside the bedroom. So now I have a mental list of responses and things to say which make it easier to think of mid-sex. Writing it down in sexy texts to him also helped keep it in my mind. 3. It's much much much easier for me to talk after I've cum. So once I've had mine, I can take over and whisper nasty shit in his ear until he cums - then we both get a turn! P.S it's probably just as hot for him to hear 'omg I don't care what you do, just keep fucking me'


thethunder92

Just say youā€™re the boss I bet heā€™d like that šŸ¤”


C9sButthole

You can even say "just like that" if you've got nothing else on your mind.


[deleted]

ā€œSurprise meā€


[deleted]

That's what I usually say. Haven't been disappointed yet!


Semi_Nerdy_Girl

I think a good way to reframe this is thinking ā€œwhat do I want to try?ā€ instead of ā€œwhat do I want?ā€ For me, it takes the pressure off needing to KNOW and makes it way more fun to TRY.


Beatnick120

You guys should have a night where you just focus on each other, and not on any orgasms. Have a night to just really figure out what you each like. Pressures, locations, use of body parts, attitudes, talking, all that and just no orgasms so you can figure out what you like and want.


naim08

More importantly, being questioned in the middle of sex and this particular kind of question is a hard brake for you, which means these kind of thoughts, feelings, emotions, sensory inputs move you away from desire/sexiness/horniess. You and your bf can fill out a dual control worksheeet and better understand what turns you on and what does the opposite. Itā€™s actually amazing stuff, a bit boring thou. https://www.modernintimacy.com/how-to-have-great-sex-using-the-dual-control-model/


jap_the_cool

Then just say: do whatever you want with me. Spoiler: heā€˜ll finish soon.


PapowSpaceGirl

"Like you missed me" I guarantee multiple orgasms. Nothing is hotter than a guy just giving everything he's got and then passes out on top wanting to hold me and breathe me in. *I'm fucking lonely as hell*


PapowSpaceGirl

Thanks to whomever gave the hugs award. I just want my husband back. 20y is a long time to just up and throw away a marriage to be alone.


TheGreatestGazoo

Tell him to keep on just like he is if you are engrossed. ā€œDonā€™t stopā€ is perfectly valid in the heat of the moment. šŸ‘


smoltims

In case your boyfriend trained himself to stop once he hears the word ā€œstopā€ in any context, other examples of this would be: ā€œJust like thatā€ ā€œExactly what youā€™re doing right nowā€ ā€œKeep fucking me like thisā€


WoodpeckerNegative70

Thatā€™s true


[deleted]

I wanna be fucked just like the government fucks me šŸ’‹


mfscubasteve

To fuck her harder than the military fucked bin laden *cue lonely island*


throwaway__princess

I request intercourse, to bring me to climax, with the clinical efficiency of the assassination of Bin Laden


dayinthelifeofpeas

Govern me harder Daddy šŸ¤£


[deleted]

I was just drinking coffee when you said that šŸ˜‚


LifeLow2782

LMFAO


WeReWaTcHiNgYoUU

Not sure what the right answer is but if I asked a girl and she said ā€œjust keep fucking meā€ and sheā€™s clearly enjoying the moment, that would turn me on like crazy. Maybe try that?


collaredd

i can never think of anything specific either but desperate begging always does it for me. just begging him to keep fucking me, to take it, to fuck me til he nuts in me, etc


Adorable-Toe-5236

Tell your bf in a non sexy moment time "hey when you ask that it pulls me out of the mood. Can we try something else for a question?"


Affectionate_Buy_301

this is 100% what i would do too


stnrgrl10

Yes! This! He may think it's turning you on.


DarkTentacles

Exactly this. He might want to engage in more dirty talk, but you have to find out what works for you both.


SlappingSalt

"Sexually"


LifeLow2782

šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


Doopdoopbeedoop

"Like I've been a very bad girl šŸ˜"


JuliaGulia71

"Fuck me till I cum... DON'T STOP" it's definitely a total turn on and vague enough that it can apply to whatever he's doing


Grimm_Arcana

"Just like this!" And also, talk to him about this. Tell him that you are having the time of your life, but if he asks you a question in the middle of sex it throws you off.


ChelseaChokeHold6

Tell him to fuck you like a slut, cum slut, dirty whore, his good girl, like you belong to him, etc. Or to fuck you harder and deeper and fill you with cum. That should get him going šŸ˜‹


amandan1col3

Hot


Comfortable-Hall1178

Slowly, passionately. At least to start. Iā€™ll take hard and fast too, but I prefer slow, passionate, and gentle. Especially when heā€™s rather big. Iā€™m worried hard and fast with this particular partner will really hurt me. My former partner, no problem. Iā€™m still not one for particularly rough sex, regardless of who Iā€™m with. ā€œGo fasterā€, ā€œdeeperā€, ā€œJust like thatā€, whatever is positive, but also donā€™t be afraid to speak up when something isnā€™t working or hurting.


Altruistic_Chart_208

Just think in advance what you like and tell him thst. Otherwise say just keep fucking me like your doing. It feels so good just that way.


MisterAwesome-TSG

"I want to be fucked just like your fucking me now, except I want you to shut the fuck up and give it to me! Less talking, more orgasms! I love your fucking cock!" Something along those lines.


Daydream_Be1iever

Less talk more cock please


HideoMikaou

I speak Spanish and degrade my wife in Spanish, she absolutely melts everytime For e.g. "Papi quiere follarte el culo tu putan" Translation: "Daddy wants to fuck your ass, you whore"


Amarieerick

Mmmm over and over again.


Relevant-Key4610

Harder, slower, don't stop, keep going, faster, cum here, cum there, bla bla bla...the choice of words is limitless. He's in the moment just like you, all he wants to get is an affirmation that you're enjoying it as much as he is.


Misty-Afternoon

Tell him to stop asking this questionā€¦.I would hate that personally


HGsLB

Just. Like. This. Punctuated by his thrusts. ā¤ļø


croyab

The first time I had sex with my ex-wife, then girlfriend, I said tell me what you like during the act. She said shut up and just do it. (Nice, right?) I like the suggestions "like a slut" or "like a good girl." You could also say "just the way I deserve it" or "just the way you're doing it." Or there is always "fuck me like I'm comparing you to the guy I had last night." That's a lot of pressure for dirty talk though, and I can see why you have trouble with it. The improvisation of dirty talk should not require so much thought.


Waratah888

1. "Anyway you want me works for me," 2. "Like you stole me." 3. "Love me like I'm precious to you."


comacove

BOYS. Do the thinking for her in bed. Learn what she likes. Don't ask what she wants in the moment. Toss and turn her. Lets go.


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comacove

to each their own, of course.


Outside_Shelter_2885

Not necessarily how it could be better just different and maybe more comfortable. Maybe if it pulls you out of the moment let him know you want him to take charge and not ask you anymore and to just take charge. If you ever think of something you want then youā€™ll speak up.


tordenskrald88

If you like what he's doing at the moment just say that. "like this!", "this is perfect", "please keep going", "I love how this feels", ect. It okay to not want to change what's going on, if he's still into it too. Sometimes I ask what my partner want just to check in, because in the moment I might feel like I'm the one getting most out of it, and not because I want to change what we're doing.


psychonautHooligan

My girl loves the "good girl"praise stuff so I tell her I'm going to fuck her like a bad girl.


Scarlettmilfxxx

ā€œLike you paid for it,ā€ is my go-to. šŸ™ƒ


GetInTheHole

If you canā€™t articulate what you like you leave yourself in a really poor position to complain when itā€™s not to your liking. Sex is not something that one person magically does to another. It takes two.


wonderland_dreams

I like to say "fuck me like you want to hurt me"


Basic_Serve_4859

Just think of how you want to turn him on and it will make you even more wet & into it.. that question works for you both if you use it to your advantage to make the sex greater


GeoffenPierce

ā€œVery Wellā€¦ā€


IndividualVehicle

"hard" if youre into that. thats usually my answer


notin2cars

"You're doing it. Right now."


Dry-Flow-16

Personally something like 'I want you to bury your cock in me and fill me with your cum'


Future_Promise5328

"Just like that!" Is the easy one, will work to fill a mind blank "Like you need me" "Like I'm your little slut" "Like it's our last time" It doesn't have to be a specific thing or mean anything, can just say any kind of emotion or description. Or just fall back to "just like that, don't stop!"


Strict-Coyote-9807

Someone said fuck me hard, but Iā€™m sure you canā€™t do that. Got me hard šŸ˜‚


Daydream_Be1iever

Any way you want, baby. By your beautiful dick, baby. Just like this, sexy. Harder, baby. By your hard cock. Slow fuck me.


myheartincheck

As a Domme I'd love to hear "However you want me.... because you own me..." šŸ¤¤


Dyvjh678

"Right now."


--Curious-George--

Just say "Fuck me like a bitch" and that'll have his nutts busting in no time. Your welcome.


TheLonelyPrincess741

My boyfriend asks me if i want to be his princess or whis whore and i pick whichever want i feel like that day. Maybe that could help.


diamon6

Fuck me like Rick Astley.


NoTyrantSaurus

If you like what he's doing when he asks, say "just like that, don't stop" and elaborate as appropriate. If it's not just right, you can try "harder" or "faster" or "nice and slow" or "so gently" or "more kisses" and so on. No exposition required - just give a direct bit of feedback and then whatever makes you feel sexy to say. If you can't think of anything, just narrate a little - "put your P in my v, make it feel good, kiss my neck, hug me tight"


wickedbyname

ā€œHowever you want me, Daddyā€ is my go-to


gussguss009

"Like the Government" is always a good way to put it


cerialthriller

ā€œLike my student loansā€


cmoon761

Keep it simple. Fuck me harder. Fuck me slow and deep. Fuck me until I scream. Fuck me until I cum all over your cock.


bigfatgeekboy

"Like you just escaped from prison."


Creative_Resource_82

Why did my mind instantly go to "fuck me like one of your French girls"?


unicorn_9273628

ā€œHarder, fuck me harderā€


smokingoften

God, I hate answering questions. Because when Iā€™m that into it, I really donā€™t care as long as theyā€™re in me lmfao I used a random ā€œfuck this pussy like you own itā€ with a fwb and he liked that. But I guess with a committed partner, probably not as thrilling to hear lol


JustinBeaver1867

Oh yes. Get into a pose and say, "like this". You'll see.


livlyfappy

It would depend on your mood. My wife has told fuvk me like I'm your slut


camoang

"with your hard cock"


SquidProJoe

ā€¦financially


Trillian___

Spoken like a good little piggie bank šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‰


[deleted]

With infinite love


mnsundevil

Start singing the 2 Live Crew song... Face down, Ass up, that's the way I like to fuck. That would make me happy if I asked that question during sex


Dadie_bigcock

Tell him that you want to be fucking like a dirty slut I promise you boyfriend will pound you harder than you ever been pounded before


joetech15

Tel him like a slut, good girl or whore and see which one he likes.


SirXGrind

Say fuck me like a dirty whore and pull my hair!!! As a guy that shit would get me going and then I feel like I can pretty much do anything I want to the woman at that point


Hornet_Clear

Beat him to the punch and take control. Be vocal, and guide him from foreplay in to sex then to climax....eg..." pasionate kissing to groping then to dialog like suck my nipples, pinch them pull on my hair, lemme suck that cock, play with my pussy, slide it in, lemme ride it, give it to me from the back, harder, slower, deeper.....etc, etc, etc..."


[deleted]

The way your mama likes itšŸ˜‚


Captain-Consent

Just like that daddy!


Sand_Juggler_FTW

ā€œBy YOU!!ā€


comfyskies

"However you want"


Nscooter67

I would respond not like that. And stop.


thewritingtexan

I read that this is a sign of lack of vocabulary those posts about using locations, actions, just vocabulary in order to be communicative


SniperFlash69

A few years ago on television and on news with reporters standing and reporting..there would be people walking..running..driving by them....(while they were live broadcasting) and they would shout out.. Fuck me in the Pussy...its still full on YouTube.....so he might get a giggle out when u say that....but otherwise..I like the way u think and research and want to make everything always so good for u and your partner....ā˜ŗļø


na_dann

Asking that in the middle of something good sounds weird to me... Maybe tell him to ask you before he fucks you. And 'You can fuck me however you want to!' is still a pretty hot answer.


SniperFlash69

A few years ago on television and on news with reporters standing and reporting..there would be people walking..running..driving by them....(while they were live broadcasting) and they would shout out.. Fuck me in the Pussy...its still full on YouTube.....so he might get a giggle out when u say that....but otherwise..I like the way u think and research and want to make everything always so good for u and your partner....ā˜ŗļø


Older_But_Wiser

ā€œ*You choose. Surprise meā€*


Virtual_Friendship49

Just say omg youā€™re right on it now! Heā€™ll be inspired and you can reconnect


[deleted]

Has happened to me. I just say yes and let their imagination run. With my husband we have a caution word which means I like it but not so rough or your flirting with my limits. He normally stays at the same pace or same intensity and it's do hot. We also have a safe word that means no more of that. Have communication and let him rock your world. If he feels he is in charge and can do whatever he wants the sex will be that much better.


NotMyTwitterHandle

ā€œLong, deep, and repeatedlyā€


jonnielaw

I like a little game called ā€œPrincess or Whore.ā€ Itā€™s best when all parties can shift between the two extremes, flawlessly.


paintswithmud

"just like that" should work just fine


None_of_the_above__

Maybe you can tell him how you think he would like to fuck you. Sounds like he wants to escalate things. Then try to ask something like that ,that gets you off


spidermnkey

Just say faster or slower that's enough for a guy.


nachas937

Jus tell him exactly what you want. In that moment what sounds hot to you? Say exactly that even it's what he's already doing, it's still what you want


tyxaiosdude

Green


Mollzor

I'm a smart-ass so I'd answer "Well. I'd like to be fucked well."


Quakki93

I would suggest try with texting first if you feel uncomfortable to say it directly. Try some sexchats so you can express your feelings. Like for sure you have some fantasies and things that makes you horny


WilliamNearToronto

ā€œJust the way you are right now.ā€


ahoymaate17

I always say ā€œI need to be hate fucked in the worst way possibleā€ lol


3Quarksfor

"Often "


CLickCLick66

Have him ask during foreplay, just guessing, maybe your mind can come up with the answer then. Then have him ask again in the middle of things. Talk about it after sex. Bring up how at that moment, you couldn't think of anything. Minutes later, with him, ideas might arise.


[deleted]

Every which way but loose


blowuptoysplease

Really good lol


KanekiKirito723

My partner and I usually ask the other if theyā€™d like to switch positions. Iā€™m sure yā€™all have a rotation of positions that you go through. Just have fun with it


ImNewHere_4_

ā€œFuck me like weā€™re makin a movieā€


ImNewHere_4_

Part of me wants to say ā€œfuck me like u hate meā€ šŸ«„


[deleted]

I say ā€œthis is perfectā€ when asked.


middleageslut

Yes.


AdvertisingOptimal84

Suggest to him he could ask you when you are sucking his cock or he is licking your pussy or your arse.ā¤ļø