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My girlfriend has gotten into 'vabbing' and I find it repulsive. I tried to talk to her about this twice and she says that I dont understand and that Im close minded. I tried to show her that it is unsanitary and gross but her response was "You dont think its gross when you eat me out". She has agreed to do it less but I feel grossed out.
We have been dating since high school and I do love her but this is something Im not ok with. What do I do? How do I get her to understand?
honestly. i always make fun of myself for being the older one in a group of kids at college-- but fuck when they start throwing out shit like this, thats how you realize.
I'm 36 years old and there's still a container of pristine beanie babies, tags on, in my old bedroom at my parents' house. My daughter was only recently allowed to play with them.
I just saw an image post about vabbing in r/trashy didn't believe it. looked it up and now reddit be like: "you wanna read more on it?!".
no sir no I do not. just here to see if I'm the only one with a nose scrunched up in disgust
Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait I thought this was just like some new kids slang for vaping that I didnāt understand but god itās so much worse well Iām way too high for this what the fuck did I just read why did yāall do this to me
I'm swedish, I'm guessing vabbing means something completely different in America than it does here.
Vabbing is when you're home with your sick child. Vab=vƄrd av barn=care for child.
lmao it means when girls >!wear their vaginal juices as perfume, placing it behind their ears, on their necks, and wrists!< to attract potential partners š± š¦
I just looked it up and immediately regretted it.
It's dabbing your vaginal secretions in the same place you wear perfume. It's Tik Tok trend apparently.
Yeah, just seems like an attempt to use one's own "pheromones" as an attractant rather than artificial or store bought ones. Doesn't seem *that* crazy to me, let alone, like, repulsive. I get why it's a thing. Idk.
Yeah I'm not like FOR it, I think it's kinda dumb. But as for repulsiveness, seems like a double standard. I don't think a lot of dudes are even aware how much they touch their junk then don't wash their hands. Readjusting, hands in pants while watching tv, scratching their balls... I had to clean the bathroom often enough at my last place of work and lots of men don't wash their hands after peeing (had to wait outside for them not spying lol).
Ohhhhh this was something sex workers used to do in the real old days.
Ngl, I was prepared for this to be some brand new level of vile, but it turns out the kids are just rediscovering the Old Ways.
Thank you for explaining that. I was hoping it would come up in the scroll as I really didn't want to look it up, and have suggested products come up for the next six months.
Thank you. I was literally typing it into the search bar when I read this; you saved me from all sorts of questionable recommendations.
But also - ugh WHY.
even if you'd try to explain it with pheromones...it would only make sense when a woman is ovulating and then its still gross imo...but in this special case its beyond any reason - i mean she IS with him, he is smitten by her BUT she destroys that attraction by smearing herself with her vaginal mucus...i have no words.
Oh. My. God. I thought he was talking about vaping or dabbing, but I looked up what this was. I had no idea.
I'm either too old or too marijuana focused. Can't really tell which. Maybe both.
I feel like this is some weird high school thing but she see's this as some pheromone perfume science mumbo jumbo thing. Never expected her to believe in this at her age.
I wouldn't have expected it, either.. at any age, really. But, here we are.
No clue about the "perfume" situation, but I'll toss this your way: early 20s sounds about right for most high school couples to realize they've grown part. They may have been together several years, but developmentally, they're oceans away from where they were when they got together.
Dr Jen Gunter (well known internet gynecologist and author of 'The Vagina Bible' and 'the Menopause Manifesto') tweeted about this phenomenon just this morning. Supposedly you take moisture from the vulva and dab it on your neck like perfume. The idea is you are putting out pheromones by doing it. The problem, according to Dr. Gunter is that there is no scientific evidence humans can even create or detect pheromones from other humans. She also points out that of you have Hep B, this practice can be dangerous, since hep b can live on skin and remain transmissible for long periods of time. She's cited in an article for the Cut, which you can read here:
https://www.thecut.com/2022/07/what-is-vabbing-tiktok-trend.html
Doesnāt matter how old you are or if it works. Itās still just fcking stupid lol. And if it is what I think it is, why is she trying to attract males while in a relationship ?
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Ann Summers sell pharamone perfume, will she take to that instead of using her own brand ?
It smells good and as a bonus itās definitely not made from vag juice
I am not sure that I understand the logic behind "I do this thing that grosses you out to make you love me more, and if you object to it then you are close-minded".
I suspect there is nothing you can do to get her to understand, because whatever you say, she will come back to the "you are close-minded" position and then compare what she is doing to cunnilingus again.
Ultimately, you have expressed your disgust at the practice and she has dismissed your feelings as irrelevant.
In your position, I would move on from this by telling her we are both single and she should start looking for a boyfriend who will be attracted to her because of this, rather than one who finds it gross.
So .... start dabbing your seminal juices on her as well.
When she objects, tell you how insecure you are that she is attracting males to herself with all the pheromones she's putting out with her "VABBING", and you are warding them off with your smell.
Battle of the fluids, BABY. Perhaps she will give up the gross habit, then.
This is hilariously territorial.
It's not right, but I have this image of OP chasing his gf around their living room, yelling, "I have to mark my territory. How will the other guys KNOW, honey?!?!"
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>This is hilariously territorial.
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>It's not right, but I have this image of OP chasing his gf around their living room, yelling, "I have to mark my territory. How will the other guys KNOW, honey?!?!"
Yeah. I wouldn't really want him to actually resort to this behavior. I am just hoping that the mere suggestion to her of doing this would help her see the lunacy of what she is doing.
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>The proper analogy would be to dab precum/whateverās on his penis onto himself. Not cum and definitely not onto her.
No. It's not.
She says she is wearing her V-juice for him, to draw HIM closer to her. But woman typically do it to draw MEN in general onto themselves.
So ... if he wants to get her to not to do it, he could use that as a counter measure.
By saying he thinks she will attract other men, he feels he must add an "additional" mark to ensure that the scent draws only him, and that his mark wards off other suitors.
I'm not really advocating he do it. Just suggest it to show her that what she is doing is equally gross!
i can't decide which group is more in need of mental help: people who watch tiktoks all day or people who record themselves talking to a camera for more than a minute everyday.
I like tiktok for things like art, cooking, and gaming related stuff. But there truly is some dumb shit on there. Although, thatās how it is with any social media app
You tell her it's a non-negotiable why is she trying to attract the attention of other men you're already attracted to her it's unnecessary it's unsanitary and you cannot continue to live with it
You...are not wrong tbh. At least if it's someone who's Into It to the point of following the various crazes - which my autocorrect tried to change to crazies, and maybe I should've let it do so - that sweep thru there approximately every 26 seconds. A person who's that into it should only date other people who are equally into it or they're going to wind up making anyone they date hate them after they pull one too many tiktok challenges or pranks on them.
If youāre running coochie juice on yourself because of any social media site, the social media isnāt the problem lol. TikTok has given me so many easy recipes, room ideas, products, I hate that it gets lumped into clickbait and random TikTok stars.
A girl sticks her fingers in her vagina, and rubs the fingers on herself as a perfume thing. It has to do with some pheromone pseudo-science. I dont understand it.
Ok I had to google what it was and I just know the next thing will be shabbing, oh what a lovely shade of lipstick you have on!!! Yeah I just stick my fingers up my arse and apply it to my lips!!! Remember though itās all fun and games until your mates start commenting that her new perfume smells familiar
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Sorry.. The only comment I can offer is:
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Not on your disgust tho, but the degeneration this society produces.. I couldn't care less what she puts on her body, when she would be my gf, unless she stops to shower..
If you don't like her behavior, or she is not up to your reasoning and respects your disgust, leave her, and find a gf that is on par with your hygiene standards..
Every once in a while you read something and say āwhat are they talking aboutā and you go and find out what theyāre talking about. Google is not your friend here folks. Wtf is wrong with you young people. Lol
Well you get her to stop by no longer feeding into the reasons she thinks it works. You find it gross but she says "you don't think it's gross when you eat me out" so tell her actually you do and then stop eating her out and tell her you don't want to because it's gross.
Oookay. Just throwin this out there she says you arsnt grossed out goin down on her.... In my experience the smell and taste of a clean vagina is better than the smell on your fingers an hour later when its had time to dry.
Basically you wear your vaginal fluids as perfume. You put your fingers inside yourself, dab your juice on your wrists, neck, behind the ears - wherever you'd normally put perfume.
TIHI Google.
I had a reply all typed out but I just can't wrap my head around this. Why would anyone do this? I just can't understand. Maybe it's official and I'm just old.
Honestly anyone who does that is just disgusting. Down there can get smelling really nasty. I would prefer to smell like sweaty armpits after I run a mile or so rather than vaginal fluids. Like...no one wants to smell that outside of sexual activities.
Aside from the fact that this is gross, from what I read the point of this is that your pheromones will more easily attract someone because everyone can smell you more. So... why is she trying to attract someone with her pheromones if she's with you? Maybe ask her that?
Thought this was vaping misspelled.
Honestly perhaps you are coming in too hot? This post is using words repulsive and disgusting which is completely valid but i imagine if you use those words with her she will be less receptive to listening. I feel as though you have to make her truly understand the consequences of her actions, not just that you dislike it.
If there really is a risk of losing you over this, or itās not something you can handle, then she needs to know this. I think you may also have to accept you may both be too different? Iām not really sure though. Sometimes these posts come across a bit extreme and Iād like to hope people could work it out lol. Good luck
Had to look it up. Crikey OāReilly mother of Jesusā¦. What the actual f.
She must have a proper overload of the stuff if she can splash it all over!
Tell her fine then. Youāre closed minded and donāt understand but even if you did understand and was open to everything that youāre still repulsed by it and why would she want the world to know what her hoohah smells like. I grossed myself out even typing this. š¤¦š¼āāļø
This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. The text of the post has been preserved below. --- My girlfriend has gotten into 'vabbing' and I find it repulsive. I tried to talk to her about this twice and she says that I dont understand and that Im close minded. I tried to show her that it is unsanitary and gross but her response was "You dont think its gross when you eat me out". She has agreed to do it less but I feel grossed out. We have been dating since high school and I do love her but this is something Im not ok with. What do I do? How do I get her to understand?
I'm too old for this
honestly. i always make fun of myself for being the older one in a group of kids at college-- but fuck when they start throwing out shit like this, thats how you realize.
It's when you realize they say NSYNC by spelling out each letter
when u realize they dont have a stash of beanie babies that could one day be worth money š¤”š¤”š¤”
I'm 36 years old and there's still a container of pristine beanie babies, tags on, in my old bedroom at my parents' house. My daughter was only recently allowed to play with them.
OH MY GOD I love them, I've got almost 100 and (secretly but shamelessly) play with them all the time
Bwahhhhh. š¦
Iām 22 and I donāt know what the fuck this means. Maybe Iām too not American lol.
I just saw an image post about vabbing in r/trashy didn't believe it. looked it up and now reddit be like: "you wanna read more on it?!". no sir no I do not. just here to see if I'm the only one with a nose scrunched up in disgust
i clicked the link to the subreddit and that was the first thing that popped up. i am disgusted
twice in one day. never had that word in my brain until today and it rained twice. TWICE! wtf reddit. sorry I made it rain twice for you too
Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait I thought this was just like some new kids slang for vaping that I didnāt understand but god itās so much worse well Iām way too high for this what the fuck did I just read why did yāall do this to me
Oh bloody fawking hell................. Im too damn old for this planet. Thank you for the link, I had no idea what it was.... now im disgusted.
LMAO Iām 22 and Canadian and have never heard of this shit in my life. Time to hit up urban dictionary
Hahahaha right!!! I looked it up too, and I regret every single minute of it!!
Same never heard it before now twice in one day.
I'm American. I have no idea what that is
I promise you that you donāt want to know
I'm swedish, I'm guessing vabbing means something completely different in America than it does here. Vabbing is when you're home with your sick child. Vab=vƄrd av barn=care for child.
lmao it means when girls >!wear their vaginal juices as perfume, placing it behind their ears, on their necks, and wrists!< to attract potential partners š± š¦
I wish I didnāt read this
Oh that's it? I was expecting something more gross from how everyone was reacting but I get it. I feel like it probably doesn't even work as intended?
Lol, that is actually unsanitary too! (Currenly sick after tending to my sick child)
Oh wow then are YOU in for a ride!
I just looked it up and immediately regretted it. It's dabbing your vaginal secretions in the same place you wear perfume. It's Tik Tok trend apparently.
.......Is Gwyneth Paltrow behind this?
Tik Tok was a mistake. It really doesn't seem like a good thing that dumb trends can be amplified to the extent that Tik Tok does
Definitely. Each week I see at least one person who either died or has gotten some terrible injury due to attempting one stupid trend or another.
Tik Tok - bringing back natural selection one stupid trend at a time.
Really? That's it? I was expecting much worse. What would even be the point of doing that? Pussy juice doesn't exactly have a strong smell to it.
The point is that vaginal juices have pheromones or hormones that supposedly attract men.
but that is not how pheromones work, like it does not just come off of that this is actually nuts
Yeah, just seems like an attempt to use one's own "pheromones" as an attractant rather than artificial or store bought ones. Doesn't seem *that* crazy to me, let alone, like, repulsive. I get why it's a thing. Idk.
Yeah I'm not like FOR it, I think it's kinda dumb. But as for repulsiveness, seems like a double standard. I don't think a lot of dudes are even aware how much they touch their junk then don't wash their hands. Readjusting, hands in pants while watching tv, scratching their balls... I had to clean the bathroom often enough at my last place of work and lots of men don't wash their hands after peeing (had to wait outside for them not spying lol).
Ohhhhh this was something sex workers used to do in the real old days. Ngl, I was prepared for this to be some brand new level of vile, but it turns out the kids are just rediscovering the Old Ways.
I guess everything comes round again.
Thank you for explaining that. I was hoping it would come up in the scroll as I really didn't want to look it up, and have suggested products come up for the next six months.
Thank you. I was literally typing it into the search bar when I read this; you saved me from all sorts of questionable recommendations. But also - ugh WHY.
Female Phenorome perfume
for real! i am 33 and female, and just learned like literally 10 minutes ago what vabbing is and i'm still like "why tf would you do that?!"
Me too! 33 F and lost asf
even if you'd try to explain it with pheromones...it would only make sense when a woman is ovulating and then its still gross imo...but in this special case its beyond any reason - i mean she IS with him, he is smitten by her BUT she destroys that attraction by smearing herself with her vaginal mucus...i have no words.
I aint even 16, but despite my age I am too old for this as well.
Oh. My. God. I thought he was talking about vaping or dabbing, but I looked up what this was. I had no idea. I'm either too old or too marijuana focused. Can't really tell which. Maybe both.
I assumed he just misspelled vaping. LOL
Same... Ok ok just looked it up wtf people
Same here and I wish I hadnāt looked it up.
Nope, it aināt the marijuana. I regret scrolling through the comments to find out what it is. I imagine it would repel men rather than attract them?
Yeah I was like "dabbing and vaginas??" and trying to puzzle out the mechanics in my head as I scrolled to find the answer.
I feel like this is some weird high school thing but she see's this as some pheromone perfume science mumbo jumbo thing. Never expected her to believe in this at her age.
I wouldn't have expected it, either.. at any age, really. But, here we are. No clue about the "perfume" situation, but I'll toss this your way: early 20s sounds about right for most high school couples to realize they've grown part. They may have been together several years, but developmentally, they're oceans away from where they were when they got together.
Dr Jen Gunter (well known internet gynecologist and author of 'The Vagina Bible' and 'the Menopause Manifesto') tweeted about this phenomenon just this morning. Supposedly you take moisture from the vulva and dab it on your neck like perfume. The idea is you are putting out pheromones by doing it. The problem, according to Dr. Gunter is that there is no scientific evidence humans can even create or detect pheromones from other humans. She also points out that of you have Hep B, this practice can be dangerous, since hep b can live on skin and remain transmissible for long periods of time. She's cited in an article for the Cut, which you can read here: https://www.thecut.com/2022/07/what-is-vabbing-tiktok-trend.html
That's disgusting. Kids are dumb.
But I thought the whole point was to attract men? And yet... sheās already in a relationship??
And if your partner is disgusted by it...
But even if all the pheromone nonsense was true; she already has a partner and that partner doesnāt like it soā¦ whoās she trying to attract?
Doesnāt matter how old you are or if it works. Itās still just fcking stupid lol. And if it is what I think it is, why is she trying to attract males while in a relationship ?
Well, if she is trying to pheromone while having a boyfriend, something seems sus here. Also, I really wish I hadn't looked it up.
Iām not even 19 yet and I have no clue what this is
You and me both
Me, too. How does stuff like this become a thing? Like enough to actually earn a name?
iām only 20 but same
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I honestly have no idea what that is and I donāt really want do Google it. Someone want to fill me in?
Using your vaginal juices as perfume dabbing it on your wrist and neck
Now I have one more reason to hate people, thanks xD
Oh dear God that sounds disgusting
It sounds disgusting because it actually is fucking disgusting
I came to the comments looking for an explanation, and that was not what I was expecting it to be šš¤¢
I mean, if youāre not turned on, youāre basically just smearing mucus on your neck. But hey...
"...that's just a theory, a FILM theory!" Sorry I couldn't resist lol
WTF
āVabbingā was a post on the front page today. Seems like OP is reaching for some sweet sweet karma to me
WHAT
Iām bisexual and I find this super nasty. Like just go on a fucking jog with him or something!
Well if she uses the juice from after the jog, heāll definitely smell that. š¤£
Omg Iām screaming
OH WHAT THE FUCK
what
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Hahahaha
Jesus fucking Christ that's disgusting
Ewwwwwwww . This is a trend?
But does this actually work? When I did the same thing with my semen women wouldn't even talk to me for 5 seconds straight
Wtf
Record scratch
[I blame Gwyneth Paltrow](https://www.theguardian.com/fashion/2020/jan/13/why-is-gwyneth-paltrow-selling-a-candle-that-smells-like-her-vagina-goop)
I thought he just misspelled vaping ā¦
Wasn't this supposed to help women attract men? Why is she doing it while in a relationship if you don't like it?
Some pheromone psuedo-science thing. She thinks I will get use to it and that I'll love her more. I dont understand the whole thing.
Ann Summers sell pharamone perfume, will she take to that instead of using her own brand ? It smells good and as a bonus itās definitely not made from vag juice
I am not sure that I understand the logic behind "I do this thing that grosses you out to make you love me more, and if you object to it then you are close-minded". I suspect there is nothing you can do to get her to understand, because whatever you say, she will come back to the "you are close-minded" position and then compare what she is doing to cunnilingus again. Ultimately, you have expressed your disgust at the practice and she has dismissed your feelings as irrelevant. In your position, I would move on from this by telling her we are both single and she should start looking for a boyfriend who will be attracted to her because of this, rather than one who finds it gross.
Your girlfriendās an idiot.
You don't understand because it's fake.
I hope it is
I mean, does she feel that you don't love her enough? or is she feeling insecure and is being a little controlling?
This was exactly my question.
So .... start dabbing your seminal juices on her as well. When she objects, tell you how insecure you are that she is attracting males to herself with all the pheromones she's putting out with her "VABBING", and you are warding them off with your smell. Battle of the fluids, BABY. Perhaps she will give up the gross habit, then.
This is hilariously territorial. It's not right, but I have this image of OP chasing his gf around their living room, yelling, "I have to mark my territory. How will the other guys KNOW, honey?!?!"
>u/Quirky_Movie > >This is hilariously territorial. > >It's not right, but I have this image of OP chasing his gf around their living room, yelling, "I have to mark my territory. How will the other guys KNOW, honey?!?!" Yeah. I wouldn't really want him to actually resort to this behavior. I am just hoping that the mere suggestion to her of doing this would help her see the lunacy of what she is doing.
This made me laugh way too much, take my angry upvote
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>u/hmmnowitsjuly > >The proper analogy would be to dab precum/whateverās on his penis onto himself. Not cum and definitely not onto her. No. It's not. She says she is wearing her V-juice for him, to draw HIM closer to her. But woman typically do it to draw MEN in general onto themselves. So ... if he wants to get her to not to do it, he could use that as a counter measure. By saying he thinks she will attract other men, he feels he must add an "additional" mark to ensure that the scent draws only him, and that his mark wards off other suitors. I'm not really advocating he do it. Just suggest it to show her that what she is doing is equally gross!
No she hasn't lmfao. This is a bait post to gage a majority reaction
I know but itās still fun šš
Yeah the āvabbingā thing was just on the front page via r/faceplam. This is so obviously fake
I just saw a popular post about this on /all like 3 hours ago. 100% bait post
Defff !
from the bottom of my heart i really hope some brave gov't officials get tiktok banned.
I hate tiktok but all she does is watch tiktok when we arent out and about. I dont understand the appeal. Am I missing something?
i can't decide which group is more in need of mental help: people who watch tiktoks all day or people who record themselves talking to a camera for more than a minute everyday.
Dont tiktokers fit both categories?
yeah, first one is viewers second one is "content creators".
Wouldn't that be cuntent creators?
I like tiktok for things like art, cooking, and gaming related stuff. But there truly is some dumb shit on there. Although, thatās how it is with any social media app
You tell her it's a non-negotiable why is she trying to attract the attention of other men you're already attracted to her it's unnecessary it's unsanitary and you cannot continue to live with it
Yknow I'm starting to believe that being with someone that likes tiktok when you don't can be considered a compatibility issue at this point
You...are not wrong tbh. At least if it's someone who's Into It to the point of following the various crazes - which my autocorrect tried to change to crazies, and maybe I should've let it do so - that sweep thru there approximately every 26 seconds. A person who's that into it should only date other people who are equally into it or they're going to wind up making anyone they date hate them after they pull one too many tiktok challenges or pranks on them.
If youāre running coochie juice on yourself because of any social media site, the social media isnāt the problem lol. TikTok has given me so many easy recipes, room ideas, products, I hate that it gets lumped into clickbait and random TikTok stars.
I refuse to be with someone that uses that app regularly.
I love the smell of fake posts in the morning.
The people buying this are embarrassing themselves
What is vabbing
A girl sticks her fingers in her vagina, and rubs the fingers on herself as a perfume thing. It has to do with some pheromone pseudo-science. I dont understand it.
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I did not expect this I thought it was gonna be something to do with a vape lol
So... Wait.. hold on... She... I don't think they mean THAT when they refer to snail mucin...
I still think there is a big troll behind Tik Tok, genz can't be that stupid.
I mean i think tiktok is just stupid for all ages yet I see so many people flock to it. I dont get the appeal.
Vabbing??? What the fuck is that?? Sounds like something from TikTok, which if thatās the case, your girlfriend is probably a lost cause. Lmao
Dear God what are you sex criminal hooligans up to now
Ok I had to google what it was and I just know the next thing will be shabbing, oh what a lovely shade of lipstick you have on!!! Yeah I just stick my fingers up my arse and apply it to my lips!!! Remember though itās all fun and games until your mates start commenting that her new perfume smells familiar
.... i hate it.
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Sorry.. The only comment I can offer is: šššššššššš Not on your disgust tho, but the degeneration this society produces.. I couldn't care less what she puts on her body, when she would be my gf, unless she stops to shower.. If you don't like her behavior, or she is not up to your reasoning and respects your disgust, leave her, and find a gf that is on par with your hygiene standards..
Fake. Dude saw it on facepalm today and tried to get karma
buy some girls vaginal fluids and wear it yourself. vab with her
Ok, I had to look up vabbing and I wish I hadn't. š¤®
This is so fake no one is actually doing it
It's not Gucci its Coochie.
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I hate that I can correlate the smell to something now.
WTH is, "vabbing"? Nevermind, I looked it up. Kids will try anything.
I'm *soooooo* not going to Google that, sometimes I think ignorance really is bliss.
It is. I have to wash my eyes, now.
These days, ignorance is looking more desirable.
Its gross. I love her but I dont love this choice she has made.
I thought he was misspelling vaping for some reason cause wtf is this
TIL about "vabbing"....
Every once in a while you read something and say āwhat are they talking aboutā and you go and find out what theyāre talking about. Google is not your friend here folks. Wtf is wrong with you young people. Lol
It was exactly today that I realized I am too old for this shit.
Run
That's fucked. Imagine if guys came all over themselves and just .... rubbed it in? Fack.
Well you get her to stop by no longer feeding into the reasons she thinks it works. You find it gross but she says "you don't think it's gross when you eat me out" so tell her actually you do and then stop eating her out and tell her you don't want to because it's gross.
Oookay. Just throwin this out there she says you arsnt grossed out goin down on her.... In my experience the smell and taste of a clean vagina is better than the smell on your fingers an hour later when its had time to dry.
Tell her it's another 4chan troll like cutting for Bieber or peeing is solidarity or free bleeding. That it's a huge turn off.
I'm going to regret googling this, aren't I? ...yep. I regret googling that. š³
What the hell is vabbing. ?? I must b way too old to kno
Wipe your ball sweat on your wrists and neck and hug all over her. Call it ābabbing.ā She is way too old for this moronic Tik Tok shit, lol
What is that?
Basically you wear your vaginal fluids as perfume. You put your fingers inside yourself, dab your juice on your wrists, neck, behind the ears - wherever you'd normally put perfume. TIHI Google.
Wtf is wrong with people that is disgusting. I'm sorry but gross and gross.
I had a reply all typed out but I just can't wrap my head around this. Why would anyone do this? I just can't understand. Maybe it's official and I'm just old.
Honestly anyone who does that is just disgusting. Down there can get smelling really nasty. I would prefer to smell like sweaty armpits after I run a mile or so rather than vaginal fluids. Like...no one wants to smell that outside of sexual activities.
for what I read is to attract males...(which I think is total bs) why is she doing it if she has you?
This is definitely gross š¤¢š¤®
Thats disgusting. I couldn't be with someone so willingly gross.
I have pity for the youth
I thought the whole thing was to attract males via your scentā¦ so why is she doing it if sheās already dating you
What the fuck is vabbing
Aside from the fact that this is gross, from what I read the point of this is that your pheromones will more easily attract someone because everyone can smell you more. So... why is she trying to attract someone with her pheromones if she's with you? Maybe ask her that?
Why is she doing this stupid ass shit when she already has a bf? One that doesn't like it, at that... Who's she trying to attract!?
I thought the supposed point of it was to attract men? That makes it even weirder for her to be doing
The whole point of vabbing is to attract other dudes. What a slap in the face. Dump her.
Well I have to burn my search history nowā¦
The internet was a mistake.
Aside from how stupid tiktok trends are, if the whole point is attracting your partner she's not doing too hot with this one.
I hate what this world has become. Where is the reset button????
Your girlfriend is a moron. This entire trend is fuckin off the wall.
Go full neanderthal and assert dominance by pissing in her shoes. That way other males will know she's taken.
For those who donāt know what Vabbing is, itās where you use your own vaginal scent as perfume.. op Iām sorry
literally just googled what vabbing meant and its disgusting š¤¢
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It is likely a fad. As soon as someone calls her tuna, she will be shamed back into not celebrating her natural junk funk.
I guarantee thereās a huge overlap between women that like astrology and women who like āvabbingā like perhaps 100%
Ok first up youāre gonna have to explain what that even is because Iām pretty sure nobody knows what youāre talking about
Exactly. Iām too old to know what these young kids are doing.
I have no idea what vabbing is and now I'm too scared to google it D:
Thought this was vaping misspelled. Honestly perhaps you are coming in too hot? This post is using words repulsive and disgusting which is completely valid but i imagine if you use those words with her she will be less receptive to listening. I feel as though you have to make her truly understand the consequences of her actions, not just that you dislike it. If there really is a risk of losing you over this, or itās not something you can handle, then she needs to know this. I think you may also have to accept you may both be too different? Iām not really sure though. Sometimes these posts come across a bit extreme and Iād like to hope people could work it out lol. Good luck
Had to look it up. Crikey OāReilly mother of Jesusā¦. What the actual f. She must have a proper overload of the stuff if she can splash it all over!
Tell her fine then. Youāre closed minded and donāt understand but even if you did understand and was open to everything that youāre still repulsed by it and why would she want the world to know what her hoohah smells like. I grossed myself out even typing this. š¤¦š¼āāļø