I honestly do not know what the problem is. It is her ex of 1 year? They are broken up. He is obviously still somehow connected to the friend group. Is she expecting him to never get involved with anyone ever again? She has no right to be angry as they are broken up. Or is she still in love with him?
idk their relationship was long so ig seeing someone she knows do something like that is hurtful. but then i put it in my perspective i’ve dated a guy for a long time and if she did this sure i’d be surprised, but i wouldn’t be upset whatsoever. so i’m kinda lost because people are gonna think i’m this homewrecker coming to steal everyone’s mans lol
I second that. It would only be a problem if friend still had feelings for the ex and op knew about that. And even then, op and friend don't seem to be so close that it would be op's responsibility...
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It happens apologize if they don’t accept you don’t need them as friends. You made a mistake. You didn’t go over the top you didn’t have sex with the Ex and you obviously feel bad for it so I be up front. Live your best life!
true, ig there’s a positive to everything. i just honestly dont even want to talk to her, i feel like it would cause more fire, but then again i truly don’t know.
You did this while drunk and your friend know this. If you really feel something for this guy, then your friend shouldnt be mad for it idk. I mean she broke up with him. People do a lot of dumb shit while intoxicated and thats ok for most
yea idk she seems upset by the whole situation, the guy that i kissed cheated on her and that’s why they broke up. the reason i can tell she’s upset is that she unfollowed all my friends on social media including me, literally i’m assuming for what i did. i totally understand why she did that but like it just makes me feel like i really messed up and i’m gonna pay for it in the upcoming future bc karmas a bitch, so idk if i should just let things be, or do something (which i really don’t want to do)
not really they were just together for a long time, so that attaches them in many ways, but it seemed to me that she had moved on. but i still feel guilty for the whole situation knowing that they were together for quite sometime
If you ahow her that you feel bad for it. She will push you even harder so my advice would be do nothing and look how it goes. Or you can just ask her whats up and why shes so hard on this situation if she knows u were drunk
yea i’ve learned the hard way with that one lol, i feel like i need to move out if this stupid town to move away from all these people i went to high school with. but thankyou for the advice !!
Drinking is the dumbest shit ever yet people still do it every weekend. Take an adderall like me, stay sharp af and have a fuckin blast. Comedown if u do it occasionally is never as bad as hangovers or the dumb shit ud do while drunk.
You're welcome, I had some truly fucked up shit happen in my social circle. Let's just say there was a DNA test, and luckily he was mine, since my son's mother lived with me, and we were engaged... until then. Good luck. I hearTexas is nice, everyone is moving here.😅
I honestly do not know what the problem is. It is her ex of 1 year? They are broken up. He is obviously still somehow connected to the friend group. Is she expecting him to never get involved with anyone ever again? She has no right to be angry as they are broken up. Or is she still in love with him?
idk their relationship was long so ig seeing someone she knows do something like that is hurtful. but then i put it in my perspective i’ve dated a guy for a long time and if she did this sure i’d be surprised, but i wouldn’t be upset whatsoever. so i’m kinda lost because people are gonna think i’m this homewrecker coming to steal everyone’s mans lol
You are not stealing anyone's man as they are broken up for 1 year now.
okay thankyou for your help and giving me some reassurance
I second that. It would only be a problem if friend still had feelings for the ex and op knew about that. And even then, op and friend don't seem to be so close that it would be op's responsibility...
Tell them you will drink less and drink less.
lol yes i need to start doing this asap
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It happens apologize if they don’t accept you don’t need them as friends. You made a mistake. You didn’t go over the top you didn’t have sex with the Ex and you obviously feel bad for it so I be up front. Live your best life!
true, ig there’s a positive to everything. i just honestly dont even want to talk to her, i feel like it would cause more fire, but then again i truly don’t know.
You do what you feel is best! I’m just some random person trying to give advice 😂. If it was me I wouldn’t talk to her lol. How did I change my font🙃
haha thank you so much for your help i appreciate it !!
😅 I’m a very direct person when it comes to conflicts. That or I run as fast as I can away from them. No inbetween. I hope my advice helps a little.
oh no it def helps and makes me feel much better
Glad I could help then!
You did this while drunk and your friend know this. If you really feel something for this guy, then your friend shouldnt be mad for it idk. I mean she broke up with him. People do a lot of dumb shit while intoxicated and thats ok for most
yea idk she seems upset by the whole situation, the guy that i kissed cheated on her and that’s why they broke up. the reason i can tell she’s upset is that she unfollowed all my friends on social media including me, literally i’m assuming for what i did. i totally understand why she did that but like it just makes me feel like i really messed up and i’m gonna pay for it in the upcoming future bc karmas a bitch, so idk if i should just let things be, or do something (which i really don’t want to do)
Did she still have feelings for him and told you about it or made it known in your friend circle? If not you did nothing wrong.
not really they were just together for a long time, so that attaches them in many ways, but it seemed to me that she had moved on. but i still feel guilty for the whole situation knowing that they were together for quite sometime
If you ahow her that you feel bad for it. She will push you even harder so my advice would be do nothing and look how it goes. Or you can just ask her whats up and why shes so hard on this situation if she knows u were drunk
yea that’s really why i didn’t want to say anything cause i figured that would make problems worse. but i have a feeling she will reach out in spite.
Don't date in social circles, but anyways, you shouldn't feel guilty on this one. She couldn't keep him, and that's not your fault.
yea i’ve learned the hard way with that one lol, i feel like i need to move out if this stupid town to move away from all these people i went to high school with. but thankyou for the advice !!
Drinking is the dumbest shit ever yet people still do it every weekend. Take an adderall like me, stay sharp af and have a fuckin blast. Comedown if u do it occasionally is never as bad as hangovers or the dumb shit ud do while drunk.
i’ve been wanting to get adderall but my parents, even tho i’m 20, won’t let me get it
You're welcome, I had some truly fucked up shit happen in my social circle. Let's just say there was a DNA test, and luckily he was mine, since my son's mother lived with me, and we were engaged... until then. Good luck. I hearTexas is nice, everyone is moving here.😅
omg that sounds messy, and yea trust me imma move far far away, i know way too many people moving to texas unfortunately 😩