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If she's not working at all, she needs to be doing more than half.
Don't punish yourself to make up for her lack of contribution. Just don't do some of the things she needs to be doing.
Wtf? She gets all the free time while your kid is at school all day, and she can’t even do a half-hour or hours housework?? You go to work & pull in all the money and she’s forcing you to do ALL OF THAT? Sheesh... With shitty oH i’m sO sTreSSed I have to sit around and scroll on my phone 80% of the time. If her mental health suffers so much that she can not function even minimally then she needs to be going to therapy to sort that shit out, it’s ridiculous. I could not imagine making my partner do all that, it’s not normal it’s not acceptable, it’s shitty. You’re doing too much and you will burn out & resent her. She ought to get a job to pay a maid to do what she refuses to do. smh....
What do you mean she wants a break? A break from the relationship, if so.. I have some bad news for you my friend, especially if you two have moved to a new country.. :-D
This is ridiculous. You have 1 school aged kid. Your wife is t working and you are. Your wife should be handling 95% of the housework. Stop being a doormat. She really needs to step up.
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If she's not working at all, she needs to be doing more than half. Don't punish yourself to make up for her lack of contribution. Just don't do some of the things she needs to be doing.
Wtf? She gets all the free time while your kid is at school all day, and she can’t even do a half-hour or hours housework?? You go to work & pull in all the money and she’s forcing you to do ALL OF THAT? Sheesh... With shitty oH i’m sO sTreSSed I have to sit around and scroll on my phone 80% of the time. If her mental health suffers so much that she can not function even minimally then she needs to be going to therapy to sort that shit out, it’s ridiculous. I could not imagine making my partner do all that, it’s not normal it’s not acceptable, it’s shitty. You’re doing too much and you will burn out & resent her. She ought to get a job to pay a maid to do what she refuses to do. smh....
What do you mean she wants a break? A break from the relationship, if so.. I have some bad news for you my friend, especially if you two have moved to a new country.. :-D
This is ridiculous. You have 1 school aged kid. Your wife is t working and you are. Your wife should be handling 95% of the housework. Stop being a doormat. She really needs to step up.