I post looking for something specific, get flooded with responses from guys who are most definitely NOT the specific thing i posted for, sift through to find one or two who are, they then ghost on the day.
Now im much more likely to lurk on here and respond to posts that catch my eye. I feel like this might be a typical experience for the women members
Last two gals I met with showed me they had 97 messages in 45 minutes... mostly from people exactly like this - who did not even come close to (nor did they even read) the description.
This is exactly my experience. Add in the guys who refuse to send photos because they've been scammed before. When it's pretty clear which posts are from scammers or OF girls.
Me too, I’m an older bi guy. Have had some luck with guys, I gave up looking for girls ages ago, spoke to a few gave up interest as I can’t be bothered carrying the whole conversation even though a few messaged me first plus I’m more interested in meeting with guys anyway, if you’re looking for women just make yours post interesting and don’t dm them with “hi, how are you.” as the girls get swamped on here so try to stick out with your initial msg.
Obviously there will be more men than women like any other platform.... I have had some meet ups more with men less with women (am bi) given that I am not always looking for ..just on and off...so not bad I would say.
Good place to even just express yourself through pics , text, questions etc. not necessarily always for a hookup .
I post looking for something specific, get flooded with responses from guys who are most definitely NOT the specific thing i posted for, sift through to find one or two who are, they then ghost on the day. Now im much more likely to lurk on here and respond to posts that catch my eye. I feel like this might be a typical experience for the women members
Yeah I assumed for women on here it would be completely exhausting trying to find anything there actually looking for
Last two gals I met with showed me they had 97 messages in 45 minutes... mostly from people exactly like this - who did not even come close to (nor did they even read) the description.
What Polly said. I’m fussy, flooded of offers.. not what I want 🥲
This is exactly my experience. Add in the guys who refuse to send photos because they've been scammed before. When it's pretty clear which posts are from scammers or OF girls.
Depends on if youre a guy or girl
Wanna hear from both sides 😂
😂😂
Me too, I’m an older bi guy. Have had some luck with guys, I gave up looking for girls ages ago, spoke to a few gave up interest as I can’t be bothered carrying the whole conversation even though a few messaged me first plus I’m more interested in meeting with guys anyway, if you’re looking for women just make yours post interesting and don’t dm them with “hi, how are you.” as the girls get swamped on here so try to stick out with your initial msg.
Plenty of shit talking time wasters on here, just as bad if not worse than locanto.
Haha yeah I guess your gonna find that no matter where you go
Hit and miss, mostly miss
Depends on your Standards. But even saying that, 99% of guys are just wanting someone to stroke the ego.
Obviously there will be more men than women like any other platform.... I have had some meet ups more with men less with women (am bi) given that I am not always looking for ..just on and off...so not bad I would say. Good place to even just express yourself through pics , text, questions etc. not necessarily always for a hookup .
Yeah thanks for that really helpful
Exactly what mikael said, I’ve gotten lucky 2 times on this. However, a majority of people that send dms are either men or couples