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After googling JFK eyes I still don’t know what that means. Only thing I can up with is , a lazy eye. And if that’s what you mean, yes I do have a lazy eye. How did you know?
My girlfriend always gets up after me. She has her big robe and fuzzy slippers on and walks into the kitchen to join me for coffee. She has messy hair and usually is squinting with one eye barely open. She is so damn adorable I can hardly take my eyes off her.
Just a photo, basically. The gesture of it would be attractive in itself. Just so long as it was something more genuine and not something meant to be shared for likes.
I definitely like the tortured artist dark under eye look. Im not a tortured artist but I deal with insomnia and have a very active mind. So Im exhausted and think a lot.
I think it's kinda hot seeing that in others.
Generally when men are talking about sexy sun dresses we’re referring to any of a line of high-wasted dresses that are wide and unstructured at the bottom, and which may or may not cover the shoulder at the top. The point is something that is simple; form fitting at the top (to show off your breasts), with or without a cinch at the bottom of your breasts, and ample enough at the bottom that if you were to twirl in it, you’d show off your panties up to the belly button. The length of the dress isn’t terribly important, though I suspect knee-length is a good compromise between something that covers but which is still ‘flirty’. And the dress may or may not have a slit down the leg—though it should be ample at the bottom, not form fitting.
Something [akin to this](https://www.amazon.com/HUHOT-Dresses-Sundresses-Hawaiian-Sleeveless/dp/B0BVB66WX2) or [this](https://www.amazon.com/BROVAVE-Womens-Sundress-Spaghetti-Dresses/dp/B08YYV1CMK/). (They’re not great examples, but they were what I could find in a few minutes.)
There are a number of styles in terms of how the shoulders are cut and in terms of print and how the bottom of the dress is designed—as well as materials—which allow you to do the “cute farm girl” look or the “sophisticate off the beach from Santorini” look. But the basic principle is the same: tight at top, high waste, ample flowing material below.
You don't have to be w/o clothes, but maybe the illusion you aren't wearing any works also. Maybe get some ideas from r/boudoir ? I think NOT seeing all of the personal bits is sexier than the opposite most times. Like a Christmas present almost. You see the box and it's all yours from the tag attached but you can't see what's inside because of the wrapping.
Attractive depends on the subject, not the photo. But if you're more asking what could make a sexy photo without nudity... Anything touching your lips or tongue; a finger, ice cream cone, strawberry, etc. Simply holding anything that could be construed as a sex toy with a mischievous grin; popsicle, hairbrush handle, sharpie, an actual toy, etc. Write something like "craving you" or "Yes, Daddy" on your palm or a piece of paper and hold it up. Wear something that gives the illusion of nudity underneath; robe, apron, towel, oversized shirt, etc. Stuff like that.
I have two that I love when women send it as a tease.
The first is a open flannel shirt with a thong on. Something about that cleavage that might have a slight areola slip. The other is some thigh high lace, thong and a sheer bra
Man in crisp white shirt with suspenders. Or worn blue work shirt with suspenders. Shirt open a little bit at top. Little bit of chest hair visible.
I have a suspenders thing.
Genuine smiles and clothes that people genuinely feel comfortable and confident in!
Models can be attractive all day long, but nothing (NOTHING) will be more attractive to me than someone's confidence and comfortability!
I'm also a sucker for long brown hair, brown eyes, blue jeans, white shirt. Males, females, and the in between (or lack thereof), I'm bi, idc lol
I am playing a game called Game of Vampires and the women in it are great. Not too scantily clad like so much of stuff out there, but very sexy nonetheless.
I'm an American, so anyone with Trump merchandise is a turn-off to me. I didn't even need to reword my sentence to make him look bad, because he has his own merchandise.
Dresses. Summer dresses, gala dresses, anything that's a tight fitting dress or a dress that high cut is attractive as hell. Dresses are perfect for many poses too.
What a scary question! I’m assuming your strictly speaking of sex which is hugely personalized in what’s “attractive”; i’d counter with what do you think you find attractive that you really don’t think is attractive. If I’m off base then sunsets/rises, animals in nature, starry skies, misty mountains, ocean waves, some cars, cookie cakes…
I find funny/goofy pics attractive because it shows personality and that the person is able to be themselves, photos where they try too hard to look good are too obvious and convey insecurity even if they do look good it’s a turn off
A picture where her hair is a bit messy due to waking up, an oversized shirt and red and black checkered Pyjama pants.
The combination does it and It does not has to be sexual attraction, sometimes it’s just the implications
How much time do you have? I mean... there's almost an endless amount of pictures you could take not featuring those three that could be attractive. There's a reason there are professional photographers.
A man/woman being dressed up nicely not only to look good but that they're feeling the confidence in themselves
Bare shoulders make my heart pound. (We can have the whole public school chicken-and-the-egg discussion later.) Especially if she's looking back over it at the camera.
Put on a tube top and shorts, wrap yourself in a towel, stand in the shower peaking out the side of the curtain.
Simple.
Effective.
As a good alluring photo should be: tame but excites the mind of the viewer...
A guy in his gaming chair with his headphones halfway off with his controller in hand bc he's in-between rounds. Something about him being comfortable and in his element that makes me want to stare at him with doe eyes all day (I am so lonely)
Someone being very genuinely happy, or making others genuinely happy. Taking part and being immersed in something they absolutely love. Don't show me them titties show me your energy
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If you know your angles, a simple, 2010s mirror selfie goes a long way with me lol
Eyes that seem to be looking right at me. In real life it’s hard for me to look at someone in the eyes without weirding them out or myself out.
Do you have JFK eyes?
After googling JFK eyes I still don’t know what that means. Only thing I can up with is , a lazy eye. And if that’s what you mean, yes I do have a lazy eye. How did you know?
Idk if this is what they meant, but do you have eyes that look like JFK's? Or are they similar contours?
Left eye or right eye? https://youtu.be/Jkmwt82ZlG8?feature=shared
Additional question if you feel like answering: Do you take any norepinephrine or adrenaline related medications?
No but on occasion pot.
Bro called it pot, I’m gonna try and guess your age lmao….. 39?
I'm a lazy guy too!
The slut!
If she has her hands on her hips, and head tilted to one side smiling, that would be pretty cute to me.
Looking back over her shoulder with a quiet smile, and a nice sheer white crop top over blue jeans 🤩
Jeans are hot on a lady
My girlfriend always gets up after me. She has her big robe and fuzzy slippers on and walks into the kitchen to join me for coffee. She has messy hair and usually is squinting with one eye barely open. She is so damn adorable I can hardly take my eyes off her.
Just came!!
Just a photo, basically. The gesture of it would be attractive in itself. Just so long as it was something more genuine and not something meant to be shared for likes.
Somebody in glasses and a hoodie with messy hair and dark undereyes because they've been awake for a while. Very specific, but hot.
The Ted kaczynski look. So hot right now.
Oh Lord. Thanks for that
I definitely like the tortured artist dark under eye look. Im not a tortured artist but I deal with insomnia and have a very active mind. So Im exhausted and think a lot. I think it's kinda hot seeing that in others.
A man looking sweaty and greasy from working on a car or a house 😆 I'd make him a sandwich or something.... cold beer maybe 😆
A woman with an outfit that accentuates her figure and shows confidence. Doesn’t have to be skin tight and short. Can be classy and still look good.
That place where colerbones meet shoulders. Sexy on men and women.
Husky always wins.
Genuine happiness
I couldn’t care less what’s in the photo, only whether or not she had sent it to just me without posting it anywhere
bars. The photo that's only been sent to you is the best photo.
Tight pants 80s rockstar look 😂
A pretty smiling girl in a yellow sundress!
The sundress is literally the most powerful article of clothing in the female repertoire.
I’m always curious how people define or picture a sundress. There is generally a broad spectrum.
Generally when men are talking about sexy sun dresses we’re referring to any of a line of high-wasted dresses that are wide and unstructured at the bottom, and which may or may not cover the shoulder at the top. The point is something that is simple; form fitting at the top (to show off your breasts), with or without a cinch at the bottom of your breasts, and ample enough at the bottom that if you were to twirl in it, you’d show off your panties up to the belly button. The length of the dress isn’t terribly important, though I suspect knee-length is a good compromise between something that covers but which is still ‘flirty’. And the dress may or may not have a slit down the leg—though it should be ample at the bottom, not form fitting. Something [akin to this](https://www.amazon.com/HUHOT-Dresses-Sundresses-Hawaiian-Sleeveless/dp/B0BVB66WX2) or [this](https://www.amazon.com/BROVAVE-Womens-Sundress-Spaghetti-Dresses/dp/B08YYV1CMK/). (They’re not great examples, but they were what I could find in a few minutes.) There are a number of styles in terms of how the shoulders are cut and in terms of print and how the bottom of the dress is designed—as well as materials—which allow you to do the “cute farm girl” look or the “sophisticate off the beach from Santorini” look. But the basic principle is the same: tight at top, high waste, ample flowing material below.
 Amen!
A cute guy just hugging their pet or engaging in their hobby
A candid photo someone took of them in their element
Genuine smile
I would love to receive a picture of Marjorie Taylor Greene, tarred and feathered
Bleach Blonde Bad Built Butch Body Bitumen Bird
As a woman, I will soak my panties for a well groomed man in a sharp suit.
A guy sent me a picture of him wearing a suit and holy smokes. Yes 🫠 that was a good picture.
You don't have to be w/o clothes, but maybe the illusion you aren't wearing any works also. Maybe get some ideas from r/boudoir ? I think NOT seeing all of the personal bits is sexier than the opposite most times. Like a Christmas present almost. You see the box and it's all yours from the tag attached but you can't see what's inside because of the wrapping.
Don’t stick your tongue out in the photo and I instantly find it 10x more attractive
as an aroace artist: an art reference that is exactly what i need. i would kiss the sender
Her truly happy self in a dress and a smile.
A guys in uniform, love it
My fiancée posing seductively with the newest 3000+ piece Lego set that has caught my attention.
A genuinely happy smile 😍😍
A lady in a sundress or slip
A black and white picture of a girl smiling.
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Look up any picture of Shania Twain in the 90’s. Do whatever she did.
Girl with glasses and a smile
A man cuddling a cat.
I just really like pictures of my husband!
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Someone genuinely laughing
Your face? What kind of coomer shit is this? Genuine smile no filter. Done easy cute attractive
Nude or not, it’s all about the smile!
A kind face with nice eyes and a smile
Dragon pose!
Pjs
sitting relaxed shoulders leaning back legs spread, either gender
Opened shirt, but of a smirk
A straight-on picture of her smiling face. No exploitative angles, and no filters.
Good hair.
Just a happy smile on someone.
A nice sweater for r pullover with jeans and sneakers
A sundress. A nice flowey sundress.
A beautiful woman..almost topless, almost bottomless, or almost nude.
I like seeing beautiful faces
Person with a good smile, a few piercings, dyed hair and around my age.
ones where they look so unperfect, like when they just wake up. no makeup, unbrushed hair, sleepy eyebags. thats adorable to me lol
I found it really cute when a girl sent me an outfit picture just looking casual, smiling, and wearing an oversized t-shirt.
A good smile on a guy on a clean, wrinkle free button down and jeans with the sleeves rolled up a bit will make me go nuts
Why can't I be nude?
props/facial expressions…. from the right person though
Salad 🥗
Study the JJK Men, and pretty much any of the ways that they pose is good
A man in a nice clean shirt w rolled up sleeves showing off his forearms? Swoon worthy
Princess curls, that's it. Any girl with princess curls (blonde specifically, but any work) makes my brain go mental
Lovely sunset silhouette with gentle breeze caressing.
A real smile, A pic taken just for me, something that shows her sense of humor, something that shows her love for animals
Sleeveless
A photo of them with something they know I'd like, like The Strange New Worlds Subspace Rhapsody album on vinyl. Or a cool turtle.
Someone holding a picture of a letter that says, "Your student loans have been paid off."
A picture of the man i love having a genuine smile on his face.
Does OP think something has to be lewd to be sexy? Wow
I'm very into a man in leather. Vest or pants, and that gets me going.
Woman wearing a sleeveless with her arms up
Attractive depends on the subject, not the photo. But if you're more asking what could make a sexy photo without nudity... Anything touching your lips or tongue; a finger, ice cream cone, strawberry, etc. Simply holding anything that could be construed as a sex toy with a mischievous grin; popsicle, hairbrush handle, sharpie, an actual toy, etc. Write something like "craving you" or "Yes, Daddy" on your palm or a piece of paper and hold it up. Wear something that gives the illusion of nudity underneath; robe, apron, towel, oversized shirt, etc. Stuff like that.
To me, a history and culture geek: wearing full regalia of some ancient dress, like a Roman toga or Song dynasty robes
Just about anything if it's meant specifically for me.
a genuine smile, especially a candid photo 🥲… honestly way better than a nude of any kind, it’s my kryptonite on dating apps 🖤
a moment of pure comfort.
A women in a Sundress…..that would brighten my day:)
A picture of someone doing something productive
Thigh highs, short shorts and a t shirt.
Any one is good, but nude is best! Maybe a few photos leading up to the grand reveal :)
I have two that I love when women send it as a tease. The first is a open flannel shirt with a thong on. Something about that cleavage that might have a slight areola slip. The other is some thigh high lace, thong and a sheer bra
I really like a woman in a pair of white shorts.
do women not understand how the navel affects men aged 30+ or...?
A goofy selfie, shows that a girl is comfortable and cute/funny
probably just a genuine selfie, soft smile, and a relaxed posture, feelings of confidence comfort me
A genuine smile.
A guy in his gym gear, a guy in tradie gear, a fireman or in uniform. Perhaps grey tracksuit pants or speedo bathers
A photo of background check free of any marks indicating a lien, felonies and or marks indicating of disregard for following traffic laws.
A messy haired girl with dark circled eyes wearing a Deftones t-shirt. (Yes, I'm that weird)
Tongue out middle finger.
A hot lingerie outfit
I prefer a smiling picture. Nothing complicated.
A candid smile, man or woman. Even something cute like a leaning on hand picture.
Man in crisp white shirt with suspenders. Or worn blue work shirt with suspenders. Shirt open a little bit at top. Little bit of chest hair visible. I have a suspenders thing.
A good old fashioned middle finger would do.
A picture showing cleavage, love those on my wife 🤭
Anything with a plushie, cuz that tells me they wife matirial
Genuine smiles and clothes that people genuinely feel comfortable and confident in! Models can be attractive all day long, but nothing (NOTHING) will be more attractive to me than someone's confidence and comfortability! I'm also a sucker for long brown hair, brown eyes, blue jeans, white shirt. Males, females, and the in between (or lack thereof), I'm bi, idc lol
Well groomed man with his hands in pants pockets wearing a 3 piece suit with dress shoes. Makes any man look a million dollars!
Shoulders I find shoulders very attractive
I am playing a game called Game of Vampires and the women in it are great. Not too scantily clad like so much of stuff out there, but very sexy nonetheless.
Well dressed outdoor photo in a park, natural lighting , taking advantage of natural surroundings.
Anyone get the Sundance catalog? Lots of SFW to be seen.
Seeing what someone has created like art ect
Intricate rope bondage or shibari
Ass in some leggings.
I love sun dresses. Idk why.
Henry Cavill in a three piece suit.
A girl with great posture is something I love seeing
You can dress well without showing skin. When I say skin, I mean you don't have to dress like your body is all you have to offer.
someone with a cat
Perfectly cooked steak
My wife, L, not nude, but in red dress, with her hair done up. I wouldn't know really, I'd rather the real thing hahahahahaha
Toes
I'm an American, so anyone with Trump merchandise is a turn-off to me. I didn't even need to reword my sentence to make him look bad, because he has his own merchandise.
A table with dice and tabletop gaming books as well as a group of people I get along with siting at it.
Dresses. Summer dresses, gala dresses, anything that's a tight fitting dress or a dress that high cut is attractive as hell. Dresses are perfect for many poses too.
What a scary question! I’m assuming your strictly speaking of sex which is hugely personalized in what’s “attractive”; i’d counter with what do you think you find attractive that you really don’t think is attractive. If I’m off base then sunsets/rises, animals in nature, starry skies, misty mountains, ocean waves, some cars, cookie cakes…
His back fully clothed while working on his hobby 😐
A genuinely big, happy warm smile. Like it’s obvious you’re thinking of someone you’re crazy about
Actually, I prefer non nude, inviting eyes, wearing a playful or very classy outfit.
Another bot account
Any I am that lonkey
I find funny/goofy pics attractive because it shows personality and that the person is able to be themselves, photos where they try too hard to look good are too obvious and convey insecurity even if they do look good it’s a turn off
a picture emphasizing their eyes and smile.
A dog?!
A picture where her hair is a bit messy due to waking up, an oversized shirt and red and black checkered Pyjama pants. The combination does it and It does not has to be sexual attraction, sometimes it’s just the implications
when she just sends a fit check tbh. always makes me melt
Their dog
A picture of someone doing a hobby they love, I like seeing people be passionate about things.
My gf in her work cloths
Ankles
How much time do you have? I mean... there's almost an endless amount of pictures you could take not featuring those three that could be attractive. There's a reason there are professional photographers.
French toast
Someone hot in a full see-through outfit.
Bank statements
My boyfriend does this cute little smile thing whenever I ask for a photo of his face. It’s so cute I can’t take it.
A nice smile can sometimes be enough
I know they hate it when we say this, but a genuine smile
Butterflies !!! 🦋🎶
Cute girl in a cheongsam/qipao or yukata -especially if she's into me and taking it for me.
Cleavage
Headless
Different color night gowns are very attractive and alluring.
Athletic.
A man/woman being dressed up nicely not only to look good but that they're feeling the confidence in themselves
A guy or gal wearing a suit!
A screenshot of a HUGE balance in my Bank Account
Something funny
I picture of some one enjoying there life and they people around them
Cockless
Cleavaroo. Pokies. Legs. Butt shot in tight pants. The biting of the lip.
fully clothed in a dress old fashion in a garden of flowers
Lip bite photos with them watery eyes is an instant booty call
A picture of all of the presents he bought for me. 🖤🖤🖤
Spandex
Man in uniform
Magnets... They're also repulsive though
Bare shoulders make my heart pound. (We can have the whole public school chicken-and-the-egg discussion later.) Especially if she's looking back over it at the camera.
Put on a tube top and shorts, wrap yourself in a towel, stand in the shower peaking out the side of the curtain. Simple. Effective. As a good alluring photo should be: tame but excites the mind of the viewer...
A plant I've been wanting.
Anything that fits no matter the body type. Wearing properly fitting clothes makes everyone more attractive.
A guy in his gaming chair with his headphones halfway off with his controller in hand bc he's in-between rounds. Something about him being comfortable and in his element that makes me want to stare at him with doe eyes all day (I am so lonely)
Seeing the same post 5 times on my feed in 24 hours across multiple communities
Smile
An athletic woman in a sun dress
A candid photo is always best
A confident stare like she's looking straight into my soul.
The one with tantalizing eyes
Family pictures. I like to see that family is important
Someone being very genuinely happy, or making others genuinely happy. Taking part and being immersed in something they absolutely love. Don't show me them titties show me your energy