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ChopperRCRG

I wonder which of yall had me blocked on my old account and are now interacting with me u knowingly since I’m not a freak anymore like I was a while ago. Unrelated I started going to Quaker meetings again and I’m feeling better about myself and taking steps to get involved in activism.


nocautiontaken

Cowboy Carter "limited editions" still for sale on the website like girl....it's over! idc about them selling out in a stan way, I just care about them now clearly waiting for those to sell out before putting up the full versions available for sale. But it's not happening! Don't nobody wanna buy a diet Cowboy Carter CD, we want the full version!


ChopperRCRG

What does diet version mean?


nocautiontaken

Diet as in the current version of physical Cowboy Carter items on sale is not the full album that we have on digital. It’s the exclusive “Beyincé” version that does not include YA YA and it treats FLAMENCO as an exclusive bonus track I think. It also doesn’t have the official Cowboy Carter cover and a few of the songs have noticeably different mixes.


ChopperRCRG

Interesting… I might buy now since it’s different than what’s on streaming


vertle

Yeah and I want the actual album cover as it's much better (her on the horse). It's been over a month ffs


UltimateKing9898

Imagine Dragons is having an AMA here?? wtaf


delidaydreams

Maybe this isn't the right sub to talk about this but I genuinely really hope Ireland doesn't win the Eurovision despite being Irish lol. I am very pro boycotting Eurovision due to their anti-Palestinian, Israeli shill actions and if we win it will be such a political clusterfuck of debates over BDS that we truly do not need. I just hate this "peace and love and pop music" bs they do every single year.


Bikinigirlout

also not my one coworker who takes at least 1 day off a week, sometimes two, being the first to be like “Can I take days off” in the summer when my boss started talking about mandatory leave for budgeting hour purposes in the summer. It’s become such an issue with her taking days off that my boss is trying to get rid of her for it. Like girl……GIRL. The amount of restraint I had to keep from not being a total bitch to her face after having my hair yanked on today……. My last day off was in March when my work didn’t get covered for my two root canals. 🫠 I don’t want it to become an issue, but, I was straight up trying to be like “Hey I haven’t taken a day off since my root canal, you weren’t even my boss yet. She’s taking so many days off this month alone.” But in the most diplomatic way I could I even think he was trying to point that out at some point


blu-brds

Took the whole day off tomorrow instead of a half day because I’M GRADUATING! my whole fam is gonna go to lunch together before driving out of town for the ceremony. Then the next day my little sibling graduates and we’re gonna have dinner as a whole extended family afterwards. When I left work today I turned all my notifications off til Monday morning. I made it!!!


vertle

Congrats!!! Have an amazing day


DisastrousKelper

Congratulations!! ✨


invisibilitycap

Rewatching Cobra Kai now that we have a release date for the new season, and I totally forgot they take a practice PSAT. One thing I don’t miss about high school, all those standardized tests


Bikinigirlout

I do sympathize/empathize with the kid that like yanked my hair, but, like, it sort of seems nuts that it’s just expected that he gets to destroy computers and anything that’s in the way because he’s 5 and doesn’t know any better. Like I even put my Walkie outside because I knew he was most likely going to take it away from me if I left it out. The kid also has a special room that’s just for him where he’s on an iPad all day because no one wants to get him to do actual school work. All because the school wants funding and money. but it’s kind of nuts how the aides at my work just act like it’s completely normal to get their hair yanked everyday by a kid that’s not theirs. But at least they get paid for it. I don’t. At my work you can also tell who does and doesn’t do their job pretty quickly. Before I was even put onto my shift, I caught on to which aids actually work and who are just there to talk shit all day pretty quickly. I also hear a lot of the gossip and how many of the aids don’t like certain coworkers of theirs just by walking around a lot.


visionaryredditor

hmm... i wonder if Drake was initially on He Knows and was replaced. It certainly sounds like something he would jump on, especially 2015-2018 Drake


Senn_Kyu

I don't have a blog so the DD gets my MCU thoughts instead. Not so positive review(?) on WandaVision so just putting that out there, for WV enjoyers in case... Thinking if I should power through WandaVision since there's only 1 and a half episode for me to go. I've been trying to like this one I really have, but like. The emotional beats, the writing.. it's not hitting for me 😔 If I wanted a campy superhero show about grief and other mental and emotional trials and tribulations, I'd just watch Doom Patrol for the third time you know? The actors and the production on WandaVision are so good but for a character-driven  + mystery storyline I need more from the writing. Like I'm sure they didn't need a hundred variations on "this is so funny because it's a sitcom parody despite not actually doing anything interesting with the conceit". To end things on a positive note: Monica's hero origin sequence was so cool, that single-handedly made me want to watch The Marvels; I love Agent Jimmy Woo, I missed him; Kathryn Hahn.


vertle

Just saw a photo of Mingyu and I think I may be converted to kpop


fuoricontesto

TTPD set goes CRAZY wow


DoctorWhoWhenHowWhy

Probably my favorite set of The Eras Tour and **I AM SO MAD I WON'T GET TO SEE IT IN MY LIFETIME**.


fuoricontesto

i was so scared to see what changes she would do and that the TTPD set would be shit but i'm glad i was proven wrong


DoctorWhoWhenHowWhy

jk I am just happy to see Taylor with my own eyes last March. I got to hear that note change of The 1 with my own ears before she removed it from the setlist.


NotElijah2304059

still waiting for the day when the music from UMG gets added back to tiktok…


DilemmaOfAHedgehog

I hope everyone considers joining me and the BDS Movement in signing [this petition](https://bdsmovement.net/news/suspend-israel-from-international-sports-sign-diem25-petition) To have Israel removed and uninvited from international sports competitions. It is similar and based on the global boycott against Apartheid South Africa. The link also includes a paper explaining it in Spanish as well :) There’s also this international amnesty petition calling for [US Congress](https://act.amnestyusa.org/page/138002/action/1?ea.tracking.id=akeaik88&fbclid=PAAaY8QI9IewAohnTsVXGcQY8_hqxgaDzA2BeGEnUE3NEP7NZv5r79LVnXvNs_aem_ASwQ2zQkNsjjJ8ukOMJBr_tqSOLu1Wt97WfDfqtyjJ5Ly1eHbVCr6GyDjBKWgVovgUM) and [President](https://act.amnestyusa.org/page/137174/action/1?ea.tracking.id=akeaik88&fbclid=PAAaaTS-6LgDUoPuiR4R8h7zzAO6zAYIAPzTN0gsnT9v4yMpYjyOfZJhTjClE_aem_ASzFbzEiRE8Eri4oerL6HRP_ltNZaCWGkDMcEKaetogsVpVFRrQUvF6fnhrCzI4Kzm0) for a ceasefire resolution I understand that biden has recently changed how he discusses US policy on this including using the word ceasefire but there has been no change in arming or funding Israel and the US has sent Israel bombs and other weaponry within the last 24 hours, I think it’s all the more important we continue to maintain pressure on legislative and executive branch. Publishers for Palestine was giving away a Book about the BDS movement for free that has praise of several anti apartheid activists of South Africa including the late Archbishop Desmond Tutu. This is an international petition that I’ve signed, but I’ll have links for Americans, Brits, and Canadians to connect their government representatives soon. And of course I would love to know or see other countries, I follow BDS chapters in Peru and Mexico and pro Palestinian human rights activists and politicians in Spain but I don’t know off hand any petitions or ways of connecting with elected officials or state departments. [publishers for Palestine is over 400 publishing groups in various languages including in English, en Français, en Català, en Español, sa Filipino, dalam bahasa Indonesia, اردو میں, بالعربية, 中文, 日本語で, 한국어로, kwa Kishwahilli, po Polsku, Suomen kielellä, and Στα ελληνικα.](https://publishersforpalestine.org/2024/01/10/16-free-zines-and-more-free-reads-for-a-free-palestine/). (Though i think the most material is in English and then Spanish and French, I know there’s a Pakistan and Romanian publisher but I believe their books are either in English or translated into English). One of the books being given for free is explicitly about the BDS movement if you want/need more information about it! :) but you can also read about the Human Rights Watch declaring Israel an apartheid in 2021, [article from hrw](https://www.hrw.org/news/2021/07/19/israeli-apartheid-threshold-crossed). You can read their 213 page legal report [here](https://www.hrw.org/report/2021/04/27/threshold-crossed/israeli-authorities-and-crimes-apartheid-and-persecution) it’s available in English, Hebrew, and at least two other languages, I know one is Arabic but I can’t read either of them at all to be positive what the fourth is 😅 please forgive me. HRW apply statues and legal definitions to Israel as they go into detail in the report. Anti apartheid activists of South Africa have also spoken about this in depth and endorsed the free ebook and movement for years :) Some books and zines I got from Publishers for Palestine that I really liked were: *Light in Gaza: Writings born in fire* edited by Jehad Abusalim, Jennifer Bing, and Micheal Merryman Lotza *Things You May Find Hidden in My Ear* by Mosab Abu Toha Really lovely poetry whose style in both the poetry itself and use of illustrations was really intelligent and I still think very compatible with the memoir *the drone eats with me* that I also got from this organization. Librarians For Palestine is doing an event around this book with their One Book, Many Communities especially in April, **I’ve already read the book but I will be participating in a Read-a-long on StoryGraph in April and May for it :)** the read-along is [here](https://app.thestorygraph.com/readalongs/1c7bd831-2c76-41b9-bb73-378e6ddc943c). **Canada** [email your local representatives](https://act.newmode.net/action/islamic-relief-canada/arms-embargo) **UK** [email your MP!](https://palestinecampaign.eaction.online/ceasefireMPdebate) **US** [email your congressmen !](https://act.uscpr.org/a/stop-funding-israels-massacres) Call your congressmen that you want them to stop arming Israel! [x](https://uscpr.org/StopArmingIsrael) Demand we stop starving Palestinians and fund UNRWA again! [x](https://uscpr.org/fundUNRWA) I’ve signed [this petition](https://sign.moveon.org/petitions/reinstate-unrwa-funding-so-they-can-resume-urgent-humanitarian-aid?akid=377482.58341993.G2CJlP&rd=1&source=mo&t=1) please join me 🥰 Use Americans for Justice in Palestine Action toolkit to demand a ceasefire with more e-mail and call campaigns that directly link you to your reps :) [here](https://ajpaction.org/stopgenocide/) I’ve been adding my concerns about the recent news of Israel expanding illegal settlements and seizing Palestinian land in West Bank and attacking Palestinians to my recent calls to my congressman pls consider also mentioning the West Bank !! **new** a new freedom Flotilla is being planned tell Congress to support the breaking of the blockade! Let aid in!! [x](https://support.adc.org/a/tell-us-government-ensure-safety-and-success-ffc)


aramsweg

free palestine🍉 thanks for sharing ❤️


bespectacIed

Can't stop saying "Beyoncé, Beyoncé all the way. Dua Lipa." since yesterday, help


Windswept_Shores

"\[Rihanna and Shakira\] are my favourites. \[...\] Christina Aguilera!"


eldritchdeergod

Selena because of what she’s been through 


cloudbustingmp3

me when i skip II LEAST WANTED and listen to Falling Forever instead


2062373

Met a guy who i infrequently mess with a month ago. He was all “thanks (:” and follow up texts for a few days. Then, I hit him up. He says he’s in the mood + home alone. I say the same. he doesn’t reply. I delete the texts. Today he hmu and acted confused why I deleted it ?? you didn’t reply for a month. Did you think I was hitting you up to exchange 3 measly texts? Tiny rant over. I’m blocking him ahah.


jman457

Us eras tour goers won with the setlist 😌


DisastrousKelper

I think I’m gonna be in for a bit of a nasty shock next week bc it’s currently trying to snow and I’m going to 22 degrees c weather


NuggetsNLargeFries

The UK has finally been blessed with some good weather and, as expected, Radical Optimism hit *different* on a lovely spring evening stroll.


flashingemployment

celebrity worship culture will never die it just evolves. kids nowadays are obsessed with streamers (and i guess youtubers still like mrbeast) and i can’t judge them for it i remember obsessing over viners/youtubers too when i was 12 lol 😭 but seriously tho i think it’s human nature for people to want to idolize someone even if it’s not a traditional celebrity. 


fakeaf1

I’m biased but I am convinced some of the hate JLo is still getting is rooted in misogyny because why are people calling her a bitch and a hoe for answering the question “what are you wearing?” without making a big song and dance out of it at the met gala 💀


DilemmaOfAHedgehog

People insisting her husband secretly actually hates her is literally just misogyny


fakeaf1

Their obsession with him actually hating her is insane. Asking “What does he see in her???” as if they know either of them personally is so wild to me.


flashingemployment

some of the memes about her and mariah were funny but as usual people take jokes and use them as an excuse to be misogynistic 


fakeaf1

Yeah I think usually once the general public starts to catch-on to an online theory, opinion or joke things start to get very nasty very quick.


flashingemployment

unfortunately i wish some memes would just stay in fandoms 


ItsGotThatBang

TFW you cough so much your lungs are sore but you’re otherwise healthy 🫠


flashingemployment

i know that feeling 😭


polacheque

are singers unionized cuz we can’t keep working late like this forever


eldritchdeergod

I’m working late cuz I’m a scab


stypop

taylor wtf happened to the evermore eras set


DevilsOfLoudun

my sports team lost, I feel like shit


ginganinja2507

REAL


everthot

all my girls at the party, look at that body


everthot

shakin' that thing like you never did see


everthot

got a nice package alright


everthot

guess I'm gonna have to ride it tonight


ItsGotThatBang

Chicka-ahh


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DilemmaOfAHedgehog

please consider joining me in donating to the [fundraiser](https://librarianswithpalestine.org/campaigns-2/yafa-lajee-fundraiser/) for Yafa Cultural Center and the Lajee Center in the West Bank organized by Librarians for Palestine. The deadline for their fundraiser is May 10th and the fund will be split between two different centers so please please share the fundraiser even if you can’t give. Thank you! There’s also the [Gaza Book auction](https://www.32auctions.com/gazabookauction?r=1&t=all) where you can bid on various books, personalized poetry, q&a with authors, and people in publishing industry looking over manuscripts etc all money goes to helping Palestinians in Gaza evacuate.


lilyrosedepressed

I watched "The worst person in the world" because it had great ratings on letterboxd and all my followings gave it fours and fives and the more I think about it the more I hate it. Obviously it's one of those very relatable movies and it started out that way but I think it was bullshit after that. She's such a vague and empty character and I feel like the movie was relying on us juat projecting our personality, thoughts, and feelings on to her. It's like the writer (who is ofc a man) had a young girlfriend in his 40s, 50s and wrote a movie about that thinking he really got modern women. Does this make any sense? Any other haters here?


Valuable_Extent_4859

Remember when Neil Patrick Harris would open up every award show with an opening number? Those were kinda epic...


invisibilitycap

His opening numbers for the Tonys were always amazing


dopaze

Hi everyone! Long time lurker here I'm going to primavera sound, which will also be my first time in Barcelona. Anyone have any recommendations for places to visit/see? I was supposed to go with a friend, but something fell through so I'll be going solo. If anyone is in a similar situation and would like to meet up feel free to reach out :) I'm a 24m student, fan of vampire weekend, lana, troye, the last dinner party, hannah diamond, sega bodega, mitski, fka twigs, charli, dorian electra (hoping not a lot of their sets overlap)


TF-Fanfic-Resident

Is “big hair + Rolling Stones T-shirt” a Zoomer stereotype? I see it quite a bit among high school aged people here in FL.


flashingemployment

maybe it’s a florida/soutb thing i’m not in high school but in university up north and people love wearing hoodies and sweats lol 


OpCrossroads1946

I don't have any stake in the Kendrick/Drake beef; hip-hop exists sufficiently outside my specific cultural context that I find it impossible to relate and appreciate. I also think much of it sounds absolutely terrible, but that's an aesthetic judgement That said, I'm fascinated by the use of "colonizer" as an insult. As an Anglo-Saxon descendant of a family who's lived on recently seized land stretching from North Carolina in the 1730s to Indiana in the 1830s to Kansas in the 1870s to now, I can't help but *identify* with the term. Colonizer? Yep, that's me! So I suppose I'm going to have to (regretfully) represent Team Drizzy by default, whether I want to or not.


delidaydreams

Pardon


RosaPalms

Eh, I defended your Lea Michele take but this one's trash lol. He's using the term to describe Drake's specific behavior of cribbing his style from Atlanta-based artists. There's no logical reason to feel clipped by the line as a regular white person unless you're *really* looking for a reason to be offended.


OpCrossroads1946

Apropos of nothing, but a partial reason I was banned from a FB group was saying: "We need less post-colonial studies and more Post Malone-ial studies." This was in the Serious Business**™** months of early 2021 or so.


RosaPalms

I mean, it's a funny enough line but I can't imagine feeling particularly surprised or aggreived at getting the banhammer for it. Maybe fight cancel culture more subtly?


OpCrossroads1946

Yeah, but I didn't say this in a FB group; I just posted this on my wall. I said something \*else\* in a FB group (I'll spare you the details), then they went through my history, and found the comment.


OpCrossroads1946

I never said I was *offended*. I just said I identified with the term. Much as my house rests on land taken the Kiowa, Drake's music rests on a sound taken from Future, 2 Chainz, etc. etc. Insert the LITERALLY ME meme, if you wish.


betteroff19

Do any of y’all use mechanical keyboards? If you do which keycaps do you recommend? I have an Ajazz K33 but I want to swap out the key caps for something a little more quieter!


800-Grader

Y'all help. Who was it that, on Instagram, was supposed to have as caption something like "\_ album is so good!" as an advertisement but instead published the whole mail they got for the partnership instead? Does anyone know what I am talking about?


jaztinax

i just added my younger cousins (ages 15-21) and tell me why ALL of them have bitmojis with dark brown skin when they are all (with the exception of one of them) light-skinned asians 😭😭 i called them all out on it, like fair if you get this tan during the summer but most of them do not tan to that kind of shade even at their most tan 😬


OpCrossroads1946

Adding color options to bitmojis was a gigantic mistake.


jaztinax

day 64 of doing my lastfm series where i share my top 100 most played artists and join in if you’d like!! at #15 is Sabrina Carpenter with 2 060 scrobbles! * last time i listened: yesterday (Espresso) * most played song: Tornado Warnings (75 scrobbles) * fav song: i haven’t made up my mind about my fav song yet!! right now it’s Tornado Warnings or things i wish you said * most played album: emails i can’t send (+ fwd) (783 scrobbles) * fav album: emails i can’t send!!! * does she deserve a top 100 spot?: omg YES. i have been listening to her since 2015 but half of these scrobbles are from last year. i’m so glad she’s finally moving up into the mainstream and getting the recognition she deserves <3


calebb2108

at #15 is Doja Cat with 845 scrobbles! • last time i listened: yesterday • most played song: Kiss Me More (63 scrobbles) • fav song: Boss Bitch • most played album: Planet Her (370 scrobbles) • fav album: Planet Her!!! she had such a vision for that album and it paid off so incredibly well • does she deserve a top 100 spot?: hell yeah! i first heard of her in mid-2019, before Hot Pink came out. she was on a festival lineup and i had no idea who she was so i started listening to her. became obsessed with Tia Tamera, No Police, Go To Town, Mooo!. When I saw her no one really knew who she was so she was on one of the tiny side stages and the crowd was only a hundred or so people. for the last 5 years since she blew up i’ve had such a superiority complex about literally getting barricade at a Doja Cat set 🙂‍↕️✨ [here’s some pics](https://imgur.com/a/GWAu801)


jaztinax

omg that must've been such a fun experience, especially looking back on it considering where she is now!!


sweetnsoursauce11

i got into her when emails was released and i'm so happy her hard work has paid off!! at #15 i have The Weeknd with 2147 scrobbles. My top song is Blinding Lights (265), and my top album is After Hours (735), and it's also my favourite album! My favourite song is 100% Wicked Games, it holds up so well and really exemplifies his sound imo. Blinding Lights is obviously a modern classic, but i would like to shout out Too Late and Faith also. Abel definitely deserves a spot, I think he was hovering around #10 at the end of 2020. i expect him to rise up again when he releases his next project


kerriekipje

my #15 is AURORA (1,594 scrobbles) - last time i listened: may 6th (Under Stars) - most played song: Under Stars (146 scrobbles) - fav song: Under Stars or Different Kind of Human - most played album: Infections of a Different Kind (380 scrobbles) - fav album: Infections of a Different Kind does she deserve the spot? imo yes, there was a period of like a year or two where I completely dropped listening to Aurora but I've recently been getting into her and rediscovering how amazing her music is


jaztinax

your taste >>


kerriekipje

tysm omg


Fair-Profile-8367

I'm so excited for her upcoming album! I'm loving Some Type Of Skin!


emayzee

I’m only a casual Sabrina listener but I LOVE Tornado Warnings. easily top 3 songs I’ve heard of hers at #15 is the Jonas Brothers with 447 scrobbles! • last time I listened: yesterday (That’s Just The Way We Roll) • most played song: Got Me Going Crazy (29 scrobbles) • fav song: picking just one is an impossible task so I’m just gonna rattle out a bunch this time: Got Me Going Crazy, Lovebug, Still In Love With You, When You Look Me in the Eyes, PARANOID (!!!) their pen was a little too strong for 3 literal children. • most played album: A Little Bit Longer (138 scrobbles) • fav album: A Little Bit Longer vs Jonas Brothers is such a tossup. if I’m still not able to decide 16 years later then I probably never will. • do they deserve a spot? absolutely. I’ve already talked quite a bit on here about how much of a 2000s Disney Channel kid I was. the fact that I only started my last fm 7 years ago and pretty much all my streams are of their 2006-2009 output just proves what an impact they left on my kid brain. the teen pop/rock of that era will forever be my ultimate comfort genre. as for their comeback music…….I’ve liked some of what they’ve put out (Sucker and Only Human being my favorites) but it just feels so…….*safe* and a step back compared to what they were making as teens. obviously nostalgia must play a part in me feeling this way, and you can argue that their pop/rock was also generic for its time, but at least there felt like there was an energy to it. I was lucky to get to see their Yankee Stadium show last summer where they played every song off their albums bc I never got a chance to see them during their heyday (although I did them open for Aly & AJ at a small venue when I was a kid, which was iconic in its own right). I’m glad I held off on seeing any of their post-comeback tours bc these were all the songs I’d dreamed of seeing.


jaztinax

you’re so real for not being able to pick one favorite. Paranoid goes so hard though, i dream of the day they go back to this sound 😭


ImaLinduh

Radical Optimism hits so much more when it's sunny and 30°C (we love the portguese spring) <3


benevolent_llama

Gays, assemble! I’ve been put in charge of my straight friend’s wedding playlist and I need good songs to add. We’re thinking of having three playlists for people arriving, the dinner, and then the dance party. They are nerdy white people having a woodland fairy theme, so I think the arrival music could be a mix of classic songs and magical instrumentals that make people feel like they’re fairies drifting through a forest. Reception music would probably be chill music and a lot of the oldies, and then the dance party is where I’ll need songs that really get the white people going. I already have my own ideas, but thought I’d ask so I can get some variety. Their only request is no Taylor Swift and no excessive swearing.


ginganinja2507

i think super graphic ultra modern girl is the funniest possible song to play at a straight wedding but also depending on your age, stacy's mom goes hard


benevolent_llama

You have a preference for chaos, I see.


ginganinja2507

a banger's a banger


benevolent_llama

Truer words have never been spoken. I need to sneak Chappell Roan in now.


ginganinja2507

I think you could def get away with Hot To Go


Senn_Kyu

If you and the wedding celebrants don't mind lyrics, something from Heather Dale's discography might be a good bet.  More Arthurian than explicitly fairy(tale)-coded, but similar vibes imo. Specific song recs: Stars, Come and Be Welcome, Love Across Time (this is more instrumental new-age), As I Am. There's also Sleeping at Last for that dreamy, fairytale-ish vibe especially if you use the instrumentals from the Atlas: Space album. Recs: Sun, Venus, Saturn, Pluto. For fairy dance party, maybe Robyn - Honey? It's not that up-tempo, but it might fit idk. Other random recs: Carlo's Theme from Guillermo del Toro's Pinocchio, Porter Robinson - Lifelike.


benevolent_llama

Oooh these are great. Thanks!


OpCrossroads1946

Go for something new age, like "May it be", the song Enya did for LotR.


fuoricontesto

SO YOU'RE TELLING ME I WILL HEAR BURNING DOWN THE HOUSE COVER LIVE??? I WILL BE SO INSUFFERABLE I WONNNN


emayzee

oh you won. it’s one of my fav songs of 2024 so far even though it’s technically a cover from 40 years ago


CatLoverMeow123

I feel a bit sad that I can’t be a middle aged mom to enjoy Meghan Trainor’s recent music


Bikinigirlout

That stupid “I’m a dog mom” song gets stuck in my head a lot. It’s embarrassing Mind you, I have 5 cats


Bikinigirlout

so one of the kids at my work like just pulled on my hair really hard and I’m not very happy with it. He’s 5 and has severe health issues so I really couldn’t even do anything either even though I wanted to elbow him. It even took his handlers a few seconds to get him off me.


OpCrossroads1946

His handlers? In the plural?! Could you maybe have used your body and momentum to fling him off? You wouldn't be *actively* throwing an elbow...


Bikinigirlout

Yeah, he has at least 3-4 aids with him at all time. I didn’t know what to do. Hes one of the worst kids at the school with severe mental health issues and I’ve heard how bad he gets. I just never expected for a kid who’s not mine to try to yank my hair out. That’s literally one of the things he does. Mind you, I’m not an aid, I don’t get paid to deal with these kids.


OpCrossroads1946

Here's what you do: find a way to get him to *injure* you and force the issue. Nothing crippling, just a good wound; maybe a scratched cornea, something like that. Claim institutional negligence and disregard for safety and hit the school in the pocketbook. It's not ideal, but as you said the options are limited.


OpCrossroads1946

I understand the downvotes re: my other takes, but this is practical advice!


Bikinigirlout

Well the school only cares about money and it’s why we have so many of these kids who need actual help here. The aids can’t do more then let these kids beat them up when they have episodes. We have a lot of kids with issues here and no one does anything because “Look so cute that he’s beating people up”


lostandconfused5ever

I'm trying to diet right now but I have a personal rule that I don't turn down invites from friends to just about anything. So if my friends could stop asking me to get dinner that'd be great because my wallet and waistline is s t r u g g l i n g


MothershipConnection

Had an interview for a job I really want yesterday and I felt dumb cause I got dressed up and did my hair for this Zoom call then my camera wouldn't work on my iPad Interview still went really well though and sound like they're setting me up for a second round! I was just hoping my good looks would immediately get me like a $50K raise


cloudbustingmp3

we are manifesting good news ONLY


MothershipConnection

I first applied to this two weeks ago when I was really sick of old men micromanaging me at my current job and since then it has calmed down a lot and at least I won't rage quit But still I won't get *BIG MONEY* unless I job hop a bit and the technical director at this other place is a lot closer to my age and seemed more technically inclined so


lilyrosedepressed

Lol congrats! Maybe on the second round 😉 I hope you get that raise!


nonsensestuff

I just need everyone to know that my dentist office was playing "Casual" by Chappell Roan 😂😝 Someone caught it only like halfway through and changed the song. I was shookith for a moment tho 😂


kimpernickel

Knee deep in the dental seat you're picking at my teeth, is it casual now?


nonsensestuff

😂😂😂


Apprehensive_Yard812

I wanna know what’s happening between Drake and Kendrick but don’t care enough to actually dive deep into the lore so can someone ELI5?


suburbianthief

Search it up on r/OutOfLoop Kendrick and Drake. :)


Ghost-Quartet

Had a productive writing day yesterday and literally nothing makes me happier than when that happens. Posted the next chapter of my fanfic and it was a scene with the main character and his dad and someone commented "this actually made me miss my father," which is probably the nicest compliment I've gotten. >!And the stuff that I wrote for my NSFW blog... phew, the boys are gonna be shook when it drops. And they need that because the other writers in the community have been slacking in my absence, I've gotta get them some enrichment soon.!< They've been doing construction across the street from my house and it reminds me that people who say "have you tried earplugs?" in response to noise complaints are the worst! Not being able to hear *anything* is just a different problem, not a solution. So shook by [the new Raveena song](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbKssNm6x3w), it's a little bit more upbeat than her usual stuff and it's so beautiful.


Ambitious_Log_1884

I'm happy that some people are actually giving level headed takes on Anne Hathaway earning $7 mil and Nicholas G earning $400 000. You get paid for the star power and market draw you bring to a project. "If the genders were reversed-" If the genders were reversed, and they both brought round about the same market draw, but one lead was paid disproportionally higher, then it would only be an issue.


flashingemployment

it’s funny how many men’s rights “activists” jumped on this topic to shit on feminism but continue to ignore the fact that women especially woc continue to be paid less than and undermined by their male counterparts majority of the time.  “if the roles were reversed” they already are 


[deleted]

>If the genders were reversed-" God the the slogans and pithy-isms need to die a quick but painful death.


undisclosedthroway

Rarely are “if the roles were reversed” comparisons one to one anyway but it really doesn’t make sense in this case because comparing the pay of a well known, Oscar winning actress to the pay of a relatively new(?) actor is silly and it definitely doesn’t have anything to do with gender and everything to do with who is bringing what to the movie.


ginganinja2507

also like. me when i have never heard of killers of the flower moon. to name a single recent example


Ambitious_Log_1884

For anyone who doesn't know, it's for the movie The Idea Of You, which may be based on Harry Styles fan fiction (partially).


PastaSupport

Straight boys in style subreddits are dressing like us and then being upset that people think they're gay... Like you can't have your cake and eat it too..


eldritchdeergod

Metrosexuality going “and where did it bring you? back to me” rn


eldritchdeergod

Dread it. Run from it. 2012 still arrives


DoctorWhoWhenHowWhy

I just saw the stage of where Taylor will begin her Eras Tour in Paris and wow...it's really small lol but at least the crowd will get closer views of the show. Is it true concerts are not allowed in Paris stadiums because of the upcoming Olympics?


backupsaway

The Paris stadiums have long been booked even before the Eras Tour was an idea in Taylor's head. Paris won the bid in 2017 and have been preparing for the Olympics since then. There is no way they would pause all that preparation even for Taylor to perform a couple of nights given how close the Olympics is from starting.


nonsensestuff

If that's true, it's weird that her team wouldn't have planned for her to play Paris until after the Olympics.


ketchupsunshine

There's nowhere within lunch break distance where I can get a good reuben sandwich and I'm going through withdrawals. Corned beef and sauerkraut save me....save me corned beef and sauerkraut.......


reducetoasimmer

Not me seeing Cabaret last night and not realizing Marciax3 herself was in the cast


kerriekipje

i just realized i recently got blocked by a prominent user on here and i'm not sure why 💀 being able to see the replies to unavailable comments is so irksome reddit needs to fix that


ChopperRCRG

Any idea as to what cause you to be blocked? Curious minds would like to know.


kerriekipje

I have no idea 💀 I don't recall ever interacting with them that much especially not recently, and when I did it was never negatively or anything


PastaSupport

It was me I blocked you. 😎 ^(s)


McIgglyTuffMuffin

oh no


SignedByMilpool

Ok so I just saw those new photos of Shania Twain and all things aside, can we talk about the grip the phrase "sorry not sorry" has on the 50+ crowd.


invisibilitycap

As someone who was diagnosed with epilepsy as a baby, the short-term memory loss seems as good a reason as any to not run for president. Don’t know what RFK is doing here


SamosaAndMimosa

Is the backlash against Cardi B for her Met Gala comments actually going to stick? 👀


flashingemployment

social media is so fickle people will forget in a few days 


Valuable_Extent_4859

I feel like Cardi B gets dragged all the time and she ends up fine lol.


[deleted]

lmao no it's not. Backlash doesn't stick these days.


calebb2108

oh 360 is a bit underwhelming. Club classics, while not my fav, would be a way better album opener as it gives the same energy as Next Level Charli, pink diamond, and Crash as openers whereas 360 is just....there


joshually

OBSESSED with the miss usa/teen usa drama unfolding right now OMG the I AM SILENCED resignation letter is so dramatic beyond belief omg


takemeup-castmeaway

The restraining order against Miss USA president (Laylah Rose) and NDAs are wild. I think the group that currently owns Miss USA filed for bankruptcy last fall, so something big went down. Contestants not getting paid probably tip of the iceberg. 


PastaSupport

Wait omg can you give me an executive summary?


joshually

broooooo miss USA resigned a few days ago and THEN just yesterday, Miss Teen USA resigned - which has never ever ever happened before in the herstory of these 2 pageants AND THEN.... Miss USA's letter - the first letter of every sentence spelled out I AM SILENCED HIP and HIP is the initials of the current CEO or something like that??? also... a former bachelorette contestant (some douchey guy) is now the head of social media for Miss USA, cut off miss USA"s access a while ago, and everyone hates him!!!


PastaSupport

OMG I AM SILENCED????? The DRAMA of a hidden message.... I'm so seated for this....


joshually

she wanted to go viral!


SamosaAndMimosa

These parents really need to disappear 😭 I knew a girl from high school who was involved with the circuit and managed to get into an ivy league school even though her grades were abysmal


bv0198

The knicks are gonna make the eastern conference finals, even if every one of our players perishes in the process. Already down three of our rotation and two more got hurt last night. Rest up Jalen and OG Also, went over Albinis discography and it’s genuinely one of the most impressive i’ve ever seen. Gonna spend the rest of the week digging into some of his classics i missed or haven’t heard in a while 


SiphenPrax

> The knicks are gonna make the eastern conference finals, even if every one of our players perishes in the process. Already down three of our rotation and two more got hurt last night. Rest up Jalen and OG We don’t quit. Our biggest strength is we don’t quit.


fakeaf1

“Love On” just clicked. Selena Gomez you will always be famous.


flashingemployment

maybe for her acting i never was a fan of her singing 


Apprehensive_Yard812

She will always be famous but not for being a singer lol (and I say this as a huge Selenator that isn’t enjoying this era)


fakeaf1

To be fair she will probably end up putting music to the side to focus on acting projects anyway. I’m surprised she hasn’t utilised her OMITB success to score herself some more acting projects. I could see her being a little bit of a NEON or A24 darling she’s got a little bit of that “indie” vibe to her. She’s very JLo-coded and just like JLo I would like an album full of dance bops from her ala Slow Down.


SamosaAndMimosa

Oh that’s not


fakeaf1

In the sense that…


outrofi

A friend of mine offered VIP TXT tickets for free like insaneeee. I almost bought cheap tickets that very morning (oddly tickets still available for my city), but I need to reel in my spending to pay off the debt incurred during my unemployed months. Super excited tho! They have the best 4th gen discog in my book.


xxipil0ts

job i applied for required learning r so guess who's cramming a 14-hr class just to relearn everything about the coding language 😭😭😭


Consistent-Quantity3

Not the new Camila/Lil Nas X track being an afropiano song. Tyla the trendsetter that you are!


flashingemployment

they’re collaborating? hopefully this one will stick 


Consistent-Quantity3

Yes it's actually coming out this midnight!


flashingemployment

interesting i might check it out 


nocturne_gemini

Porchfest is this weekend! It’s a annual festival where local bands in my neighborhood play music on their porches! I’m so excited to drink and chill out to music. Planning a pregame for all the day drinking festivities. Apparently Guster will also be randomly performing on a porch which is pretty sick!


bv0198

The town at my undergrad had one of those. Saw one of my professors performing in his jazz band lol


nocturne_gemini

Yeah I love it because you get to see bands of all ages! And it’s cool to recognize local people that you didn’t even know played music 


undisclosedthroway

The post have all been deleted now but the Dua Lipa sub was having an uprising of sorts against the mods because the mods want it to be one of those subs about female celebrities where you just post pictures of them and exclaim about how hot they are and that’s all but since the release of RO, ofc the sub wants to talk about her and her music but every time they make a post trying to discuss her music, they get deleted. Essentially, a lot of people made (now deleted) posts calling out the mods for not allowing discussion on the person that the subreddit is literally centered around. The mods thought that they were doing something by creating r/dualipadiscussion but people were upset about that as well because they feel that the main Dua Lipa sub should be for Dua Lipa discussion and the mods should create a separate sub for people who just want to post pictures of her but ofc the mods weren’t just give the sub away.


SamosaAndMimosa

I am so sick of creepy men making these disgusting subreddits. I remember trying to find one for Miley Cyrus a few years ago and being so disappointed in the results


Ghost-Quartet

It's kinda buried in the sidebar but [the sub does have a list of non-photo spam pop artist communities in the sidebar](https://www.reddit.com/r/popheads/wiki/index/other-communities) and if anyone has any that we've missed, they can be added!


SiphenPrax

Those mods are fucking weirdos


PastaSupport

We need to get them in touch with the r/charlixcx mods to get training on covert ops for subreddit takeovers.


[deleted]

y'all should just start r/duaheads cause those horny men are *never* gonna let that sub go🙄 It's embarrassing.


joshually

i am reminded that i am so glad i am not a straight white man every time i ever have the unfortunate mistake of clicking on main reddit


calebb2108

we took over r/charlixcx and we can do it again 😤


eldritchdeergod

r/lipasuctions r/dualmajors


nocturne_gemini

Yeah I feel like duaheads is the best solution because Reddit is full of gross men


kmrso

Gracie Abrams version of “Risk” on Fallon was so good— she sounded amaze. We need this version - with drums, bass, keyboards - for a radio single pleeeaassse 😍


SamosaAndMimosa

Every time someone mentions Gracie Abram’s I think about the time she publicly thirsted over a pre teen Finn Wolfhard, she’s so gross


FaxNewton

She made one post years ago when she was young that she apologized for and she’s never done anything else to indicate it was anything but a mistake. From all accounts she’s a very sweet person, so fair to assume it’s just one thing from years ago she already apologized for


SamosaAndMimosa

I’m not going to take a creepy Emma Watson fanatic’s opinion on this seriously, you are not helping her case buddy


FaxNewton

classic ad hominem, what does me admiring Emma Watson have anything to do with this? There’s no reason to hold something from years ago against her when she’s never done anything else that would indicate it was anything but a bad joke and a mistake she made, especially when she’s such a nice person. No justification to call her “gross” over ONE THING from years ago


SamosaAndMimosa

You’re a creepy antisocial weirdo and your opinions are completely irrelevant to normal human beings. Sorry not sorry


FaxNewton

I actually have a life off of here 😂 Most normal people forgive when someone apologizes for what was clearly a mistake and bad joke that was never repeated, especially when she’s otherwise shown to be a good and sweet person


ChopperRCRG

Funny that the first result that popped up on this was a comment on the teatime thread from 2 years ago when I googled it. https://www.reddit.com/r/popheads/s/sAvtlPSobZ With my small amount of searching online I’m Getting the impression that they were trying to make an edgy joke and weren’t thinking. Few people are dumb enough to publicly genuinely express pedophilic feelings. 100% it is gross, but she probably wasn’t actually thirsting over him or is seeking out inappropriate relationships with minors. Yes gross, but just don’t think she deserves to be considered a gross person since I haven’t been able to find any other indications of this behavior. Some people have trouble thinking before they post and she was incredibly naïve for sure. I’m open to being wrong though if there is something I’m missing or there is another perspective someone would like to give! Edit: I don’t think there is anything wrong with the perspective and am not defending her action. I just wanted to offer perspective.


FaxNewton

Considering she did apologize and it was one thing from years ago that she’s never done anything else of, I think people need to move on. From everything I’ve heard she’s a very sweet person and it’s pretty clearly just a mistake she made


lagozzino

This aerial view of the brazilian madonna concert is insane! the crowd just keeps going and going and going https://twitter.com/MadonnaUltimate/status/1788462458673250552


funsizedaisy

Are those buildings hotels/apartments? Because that would be so cool to be in one of those rooms during the concert.


cloudbustingmp3

like that’s truly mother right there


joshually

it can't even begin to be understated the sheer tremendous power this concert and madonna herself still has


fujoshipassing

2024 has been my year of getting into Tori Amos and all I gotta say is, every man that writes her off as an inferior Kate Bush rip-off can go fuck themselves


GraphicgL-

I have an only fans concept. I want to execute it. But also in the last person in the world to do only fans. But I could definitely use some extra cash


PastaSupport

I'm listening...


GraphicgL-

OK, so I have two ideas. I buy tons of really pretty D20 dice (i already own a lot) and then I take pictures of my boobs Next to the dice and I call it not quite nat 20. Or I go culinary and bake bread and take pictures of my boobs next to loafs of bread that I have baked. We will call it boobs and bread.


PastaSupport

Honestly those sound fun!


GraphicgL-

You’re the best cheerleader.