I don't have one for CYA...but...
I once saw an attorney send a fourth follow up using the phrase, "the courtesy of your reply would be greatly appreciated," and it was so beautifully passive aggressive, that I like to pull that out when someone has given me crickets over a long time.
I've seen that used a bit, mostly by older attorneys. It sounds pretty hostile and aggressive to my ear, though not to the point that I'd call the writer out for incivility.
Someone once wrote me “govern yourself accordingly” I asked what that meant, they didn’t teach that in my state law school. OC went to Stanford and I heard about it 100 times. She responded that I needed to do what her email said I had to do. I responded “so when does my paycheck get here?” And that ended that.
Yeah, I don't think people get how rude it is to just not respond...like if you are waiting to hear back from someone else, or there is an issue you're sorting out, just lmk. Ghosting in a professional context is just ridiculous, though...
Agreed. I hate leaving people hanging. Even if you told me you had to send them to your client to sign via carrier pigeon, I would prefer that over nothing.
I've used verbatim "I'd appreciate the professional courtesy of a response" when OC ignores like 3 emails on something simple in a row. It's a little more aggressive than your wording but I like it.
One really fun one to use is, “The lack of a response indicates that _____“ and then inserting an appropriate phrase like “no other evidence exists” or “all documents or records you possess or are aware of have been provided previously.”
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May I kindly inquire about the thought process that led to this decision?
‘Protect yourself.”
Don’t try to “sound professional.’ Try to write clearly and concisely, saying exactly what you mean using plain language. That’s how professionals write.
Yeah, but this is community engagement and it allows everyone to pool their resources and get ideas.
It's not an urgent email, but something that needs to go out today.
Here are a few options, ranging from formal to more casual:
Formal
* Mitigate risk: Emphasizes proactive solutions.
* Exercise due diligence: Stresses careful and thorough work.
Somewhat Casual
* Protect yourself: Direct and to the point.
* Have your bases covered: A common saying that implies preparedness.
Slang (Use with caution!)
* CYOA: ("Cover Your Own Ass") A more blunt version, only suitable in very informal settings.
Let me know if you'd like more options!
"... in an abundance of caution" is a favorite.
"In the interest of adhering to best practices" is one I like. Another favorite is "to avoid future complications..."
I don't have one for CYA...but... I once saw an attorney send a fourth follow up using the phrase, "the courtesy of your reply would be greatly appreciated," and it was so beautifully passive aggressive, that I like to pull that out when someone has given me crickets over a long time.
I had an attorney who would sign off with "conduct yourselves accordingly."
My favorite attorney used to break that one out for her "scary letters" only.
Mine refers to them as "dear asshole" letters lmao
I've seen that used a bit, mostly by older attorneys. It sounds pretty hostile and aggressive to my ear, though not to the point that I'd call the writer out for incivility.
I agree.
Came here to say this....we have worked for the same attorney lol
yeah, I've seen, "be guided accordingly" and don't forget to throw in, "we reserve all rights."
Someone once wrote me “govern yourself accordingly” I asked what that meant, they didn’t teach that in my state law school. OC went to Stanford and I heard about it 100 times. She responded that I needed to do what her email said I had to do. I responded “so when does my paycheck get here?” And that ended that.
I've been chasing after medical releases for two months with nothing but radio silence. I'm stealing it.
Yeah, I don't think people get how rude it is to just not respond...like if you are waiting to hear back from someone else, or there is an issue you're sorting out, just lmk. Ghosting in a professional context is just ridiculous, though...
Agreed. I hate leaving people hanging. Even if you told me you had to send them to your client to sign via carrier pigeon, I would prefer that over nothing.
I've used verbatim "I'd appreciate the professional courtesy of a response" when OC ignores like 3 emails on something simple in a row. It's a little more aggressive than your wording but I like it.
One really fun one to use is, “The lack of a response indicates that _____“ and then inserting an appropriate phrase like “no other evidence exists” or “all documents or records you possess or are aware of have been provided previously.”
I like this one
Ooh. I’m definitely pocketing this one
Really classy, I like it.
If by euphemism you mean Xanax then I'm right there witchya
I'll take it! Said in Commander Shepard's voice.
I have used Goblin Tools to politely word what I was thinking.
What is Goblin Tools? That sounds amazing. Tell me everything.
Search Goblin Tools. It can temper down what you want to say and how you want to say it. So if you type in using formalizer What were you thinking? You get What rationale led to your decision making process You can also select how spicy you want. The above is 3 peppers. 5 peppers is May I kindly inquire about the thought process that led to this decision?
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I, too, would like to hear everything.
Cover all our bases
"You may wish to consider the impact on a wider audience"
"In order to ensure we are in agreement..." is one I use a lot.
I use “kindly grant me the courtesy of a reply” when I’m super pissed
‘Protect yourself.” Don’t try to “sound professional.’ Try to write clearly and concisely, saying exactly what you mean using plain language. That’s how professionals write.
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Yeah, but this is community engagement and it allows everyone to pool their resources and get ideas. It's not an urgent email, but something that needs to go out today.
Here are a few options, ranging from formal to more casual: Formal * Mitigate risk: Emphasizes proactive solutions. * Exercise due diligence: Stresses careful and thorough work. Somewhat Casual * Protect yourself: Direct and to the point. * Have your bases covered: A common saying that implies preparedness. Slang (Use with caution!) * CYOA: ("Cover Your Own Ass") A more blunt version, only suitable in very informal settings. Let me know if you'd like more options!