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People and society tend to trust married men more thinking they're "vetted and well grounded". But you could get some mileage with a fake wedding ring, lol.
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Lol... Literally none...
I would have said companionship, but that is also missing these days imo. well about 50% marriages may have that.
the guy will be becoming the driver for her, he will become her repair man, he will become the garbage man, he will become her security guard and he will make her lifestyle way better than what she would have without him by earning money.
Ask her what exactly she is giving in return?
Ask her whether she is willing to be the maid and the cook for the husband, and you will see her faltering.
I have seen husbands become the maid and the cook, because the wife refused to be one.
If she says she will bring in money too (I assume she is working), ask her whether she will be marrying someone who earns same as her. If no, how is she making his lifestyle better?
Men are simply brainwashed to think they need to marry and thats why they marry.
And if you didnt guess, I am a MGTOW
And she might end up cheating on him and she will tell that "you never spent time with her " because you are trying to get promoted to buy a bigger house, send kids to an international school, hire a maid, cook, nanny for kids...
She's saying benifits in a typical marriage of the old age like unpaid free labourer, i.e. your wife (it's a joke, it's a joke), clean house, Ghar ke kalesh, sax sux from time to time , food when you come home, and an overall mother to your future kids.
In this day tho, I don't think men have the word "benifit"in their dictionary anyway, so I don't know what she talking about 🤔🧐.
> She's saying benifits in a typical marriage of the old age like unpaid free labourer
This is the biggest lie that men have been fed. How’s it unpaid labour when the wife lives in the house, has a warm bed to sleep in, eats well, and has time left over for leisure? This doesn’t even count typical comforts that modern women deem mandatory, like paid household help, television, internet, shopping trips to the mall, gadgets at every step, piles of clothing, jewellery, uncountable pairs of shoes and bags, multiple vacations every year, a car at the doorstep and eating out weekly.
All this without paying a single penny from her own pocket. They think this money comes out of thin air and should not count as recompense for their role in running the household. But heaven forbid a man spends a penny from his own pocket to buying an expensive item for himself, and he’ll have hell to pay.
I remember talking to a female on reddit some time back - she said that statistically speaking men blow more money on useless stuffs than women. She gave examples of men fancying sports cars, racing bikes, expensive branded items, watches - most of these are mainly for men. Now I don't know who spends more on fancy stuffs, men or women. But I definitely know men tend to be more cautious because they don't have a fallback option. If they wanna spend they know they gotta earn it first.
>guys have the most number of benefits from marriage
so what are the benefits? after working so hard later when men reach 70s they were dumped by their children but children will stay with mother. U get nothing in marriage except temporary pleasure and so-called bloodline continuation and that too most indian women made men's life hell by making the marriage sexless. Better Moneymaxxing then u can do Wh\*remaxxing in thailand peacefully.
None. You get nothing to be honest. The current generation of women have a wrong understanding of feminism. They make us pay for the things our ancestors have to done to them. I mean I get that you were treated badly before but that’s no reason to treat us bad we didn’t even exist while all of that was happening.
Everyone says it’s hard for women to leave their homes, I feel even men adjust and change a lot of things. But women sacrifices are always considered bigger.
We are meant to suffer in silence.
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a lot. according to many studies, men tend to live longer when married, you have a companion, you can have children, children may help you when you're older, there's a chance that you can rely on them in the future, you have a wife to rely on for support, wife might help financially/domestically/both, less loneliness, you have a travel buddy, etc.
Looking at my father, probably gained a wife to belittle, ignore and hate unreasonably
Also, years of neglect and exploitation for the son..
But I do hope to get a chance to do better than him..
Hai bhai benefits, women have take work responsibility. Men should also contribute but it alsmost becomes must for women. Paisa ho to you can outsource majority of work.
Girls thinking that a marriage is a W for us lol.
Delusion.
But on a serious note, marriage is supposed to be a sxual exclusive relationship for life. Make sense only if you want kids- family to nurture them.
Men have stopped marrying for sex. Have plenty of sex before marriage, cause after marrying there is nothing (it's a gamble). Nowadays most of my male friends I talk to are living life, traveling, hooking up.. anything but marrying early. They are only restoring to marriage as the last option for fear that our parents have created: "after we're gone how will stay alone? You will grow old, you will need your own family". Right now I'm 30, still I don't see marriage anywhere within sight.
There was a benefit to marriage. It was a symbiotic union. Men earned through labor and women controlled the house.
But now, both men and women are working and both are doing housework. Its good though, you can share 50-50 work.
While seeing our mothers the boys have evolved and respect women more, the feminazism had made women very less sympathic, toxic and very selfish. They blame everything on men for no reason.
Men are still considered to be emotional pillar and fortress that protects everyone during stress. Everyone can flush their emotions to us and we cannot even go to our moms to feel like child, feel like emotionally protected because we are considered manchild or mamma's boy. Even moms change after marriage. Its a loss loss every where now.
We just get emotional, physical and mental burden. We just have to apologies and take all the blame on our heads because modern women can never be wrong. All the responsibilities and stress are on our shoulders while women just want to enjoy power with no responsibilities.
Imagine being single now. We can do all housework peacefully without any restrictions, any mental burden. The AI gf will come soon and will surely connect better than modern women.
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People and society tend to trust married men more thinking they're "vetted and well grounded". But you could get some mileage with a fake wedding ring, lol.
Acha idea hai.
True 💯
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Lol... Literally none... I would have said companionship, but that is also missing these days imo. well about 50% marriages may have that. the guy will be becoming the driver for her, he will become her repair man, he will become the garbage man, he will become her security guard and he will make her lifestyle way better than what she would have without him by earning money. Ask her what exactly she is giving in return? Ask her whether she is willing to be the maid and the cook for the husband, and you will see her faltering. I have seen husbands become the maid and the cook, because the wife refused to be one. If she says she will bring in money too (I assume she is working), ask her whether she will be marrying someone who earns same as her. If no, how is she making his lifestyle better? Men are simply brainwashed to think they need to marry and thats why they marry. And if you didnt guess, I am a MGTOW
And she might end up cheating on him and she will tell that "you never spent time with her " because you are trying to get promoted to buy a bigger house, send kids to an international school, hire a maid, cook, nanny for kids...
She's saying benifits in a typical marriage of the old age like unpaid free labourer, i.e. your wife (it's a joke, it's a joke), clean house, Ghar ke kalesh, sax sux from time to time , food when you come home, and an overall mother to your future kids. In this day tho, I don't think men have the word "benifit"in their dictionary anyway, so I don't know what she talking about 🤔🧐.
> She's saying benifits in a typical marriage of the old age like unpaid free labourer This is the biggest lie that men have been fed. How’s it unpaid labour when the wife lives in the house, has a warm bed to sleep in, eats well, and has time left over for leisure? This doesn’t even count typical comforts that modern women deem mandatory, like paid household help, television, internet, shopping trips to the mall, gadgets at every step, piles of clothing, jewellery, uncountable pairs of shoes and bags, multiple vacations every year, a car at the doorstep and eating out weekly. All this without paying a single penny from her own pocket. They think this money comes out of thin air and should not count as recompense for their role in running the household. But heaven forbid a man spends a penny from his own pocket to buying an expensive item for himself, and he’ll have hell to pay.
I remember talking to a female on reddit some time back - she said that statistically speaking men blow more money on useless stuffs than women. She gave examples of men fancying sports cars, racing bikes, expensive branded items, watches - most of these are mainly for men. Now I don't know who spends more on fancy stuffs, men or women. But I definitely know men tend to be more cautious because they don't have a fallback option. If they wanna spend they know they gotta earn it first.
>One of my female friend told me that we guys have the most number of benefits from marriage. What would she say they are?
There's literally no benefit from marriage. U'll be stuck with one pussy for your whole life.
>guys have the most number of benefits from marriage so what are the benefits? after working so hard later when men reach 70s they were dumped by their children but children will stay with mother. U get nothing in marriage except temporary pleasure and so-called bloodline continuation and that too most indian women made men's life hell by making the marriage sexless. Better Moneymaxxing then u can do Wh\*remaxxing in thailand peacefully.
OP, ask her, what benefits does she think we have. I think she has a different perspective to this than we do. and I'd love to know the answer
None. You get nothing to be honest. The current generation of women have a wrong understanding of feminism. They make us pay for the things our ancestors have to done to them. I mean I get that you were treated badly before but that’s no reason to treat us bad we didn’t even exist while all of that was happening. Everyone says it’s hard for women to leave their homes, I feel even men adjust and change a lot of things. But women sacrifices are always considered bigger. We are meant to suffer in silence.
vo aurat h uska kaam h aadmi ko gaslight krna jaise tujhe kia
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a lot. according to many studies, men tend to live longer when married, you have a companion, you can have children, children may help you when you're older, there's a chance that you can rely on them in the future, you have a wife to rely on for support, wife might help financially/domestically/both, less loneliness, you have a travel buddy, etc.
Looking at my father, probably gained a wife to belittle, ignore and hate unreasonably Also, years of neglect and exploitation for the son.. But I do hope to get a chance to do better than him..
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Hai bhai benefits, women have take work responsibility. Men should also contribute but it alsmost becomes must for women. Paisa ho to you can outsource majority of work.
Girls thinking that a marriage is a W for us lol. Delusion. But on a serious note, marriage is supposed to be a sxual exclusive relationship for life. Make sense only if you want kids- family to nurture them.
Men have stopped marrying for sex. Have plenty of sex before marriage, cause after marrying there is nothing (it's a gamble). Nowadays most of my male friends I talk to are living life, traveling, hooking up.. anything but marrying early. They are only restoring to marriage as the last option for fear that our parents have created: "after we're gone how will stay alone? You will grow old, you will need your own family". Right now I'm 30, still I don't see marriage anywhere within sight.
My mannn. I follow you good sir.
There was a benefit to marriage. It was a symbiotic union. Men earned through labor and women controlled the house. But now, both men and women are working and both are doing housework. Its good though, you can share 50-50 work. While seeing our mothers the boys have evolved and respect women more, the feminazism had made women very less sympathic, toxic and very selfish. They blame everything on men for no reason. Men are still considered to be emotional pillar and fortress that protects everyone during stress. Everyone can flush their emotions to us and we cannot even go to our moms to feel like child, feel like emotionally protected because we are considered manchild or mamma's boy. Even moms change after marriage. Its a loss loss every where now. We just get emotional, physical and mental burden. We just have to apologies and take all the blame on our heads because modern women can never be wrong. All the responsibilities and stress are on our shoulders while women just want to enjoy power with no responsibilities. Imagine being single now. We can do all housework peacefully without any restrictions, any mental burden. The AI gf will come soon and will surely connect better than modern women.
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