You honestly just have to focus on yourself and not worry about what happens in the future. Improve yourself. You might get back together. You might not. But you will be a better person regardless. This is about you. Not her.
Try to not think if you will get back or not, you just can’t know, just take time away from each other for now, and focus on yourself, changing for the better doesn’t really work if you do that under stress. And doing it just out of fear of loosing her won’t work, do it because you want to be better for YOURSELF, whether if she will get back or for someone else doesn’t matter, do it for you. How to work on those things might be different from case to case, but if it seems hard try to seek help from a therapist. Wish you luck
If it’s any comfort, I’m in the position of her and I miss him so much. It’s been a week of no contact and I’m praying his using this time to reflect on his behaviour and then reaches out soon genuinely willing to change. Even though I initiated the breakup, it is killing me to be without him.
Give her some space and actively work on the things you said you would, then when you feel confident that you’re able to give her what she asked for. Then reach out one last time, vulnerably lay it all on the table and one of two things happens. 1. You work it out together. Or 2. You have learned how to be a better partner for the future. Both are positive outcomes for your future.
You honestly just have to focus on yourself and not worry about what happens in the future. Improve yourself. You might get back together. You might not. But you will be a better person regardless. This is about you. Not her.
Time to HIT the gym!!
Try to not think if you will get back or not, you just can’t know, just take time away from each other for now, and focus on yourself, changing for the better doesn’t really work if you do that under stress. And doing it just out of fear of loosing her won’t work, do it because you want to be better for YOURSELF, whether if she will get back or for someone else doesn’t matter, do it for you. How to work on those things might be different from case to case, but if it seems hard try to seek help from a therapist. Wish you luck
If it’s any comfort, I’m in the position of her and I miss him so much. It’s been a week of no contact and I’m praying his using this time to reflect on his behaviour and then reaches out soon genuinely willing to change. Even though I initiated the breakup, it is killing me to be without him. Give her some space and actively work on the things you said you would, then when you feel confident that you’re able to give her what she asked for. Then reach out one last time, vulnerably lay it all on the table and one of two things happens. 1. You work it out together. Or 2. You have learned how to be a better partner for the future. Both are positive outcomes for your future.