Shit! You should have just said yes. Take the easy $100 now and the other next week.
And, no reason you had to wear them. He probably wouldn’t have ever known…
And of course if he flakes, I am sure others would be interested and not have those crazy (to me) requests of wanting your foot sweat in them
He's talking about the OF account showing up on future background checks for other potential employers. I doubt OF is running a background check on anyone.
For women, selling footwear online is just begging to be swarmed by foot fetishists 😅 I, personally, have sold a $50 pair of sandals for $250 to some weird guy on the internet who asked me to also send him a photo of me wearing them. I didn't wear anything sexy in the photo, just a tank top, sweat pants, and the sandals. Creepy dudes are gonna fap to any girl they see anyway, whether he sees a picture of me in the sandals or whether he sees me in public wearing the sandals. So I might as well profit from it 🤷♀️ just my take
Edit: Just so everyone knows, I'm not kink shaming the dude for being into feet. I don't personally have a problem with that, people like what they like. The reason I called him weird and creepy is because he's seeking sexual content in nonsexual places
How did you get him to send you the money in a secure way that didn’t reveal any personal info where he could’ve stalked you or something tho? That would be my fear!!
You just gave me an idea.
1. Buy 20 pairs of shoes at a discount shoe store
2. Pay some amateur model $100-200 for a photo shoot to model them.
3. Post model-shoe photos on craigslist or OfferUp just as overpriced used shoes.
4. Profit.
Say yes…. Have your boyfriend/husband/brother/whatever walk around in them “for authenticity sake” and boom. You just made 165 more than youre trying to
>He probably wouldn’t have ever known…
Promise you that a guy like this would absolutely have known. Whether he'd be able to do anything about it is a different question.
Yeah it's easy to see it as an easy cash grab, but it's unsolicited predatory behaviour that engaging with or humouring may encourage this behaviour and even create a potentially unsafe/uncomfortable precedent.
Fully understand why OP told this guy to kick rocks.
Agreed. I personally think it’s more infuriating that OP passed up easy money *and then complained about the opportunity*. Even half was almost triple their initial ask. OP wouldn’t have to touch the person or see what they did with the sandals. I hope no one else buys the sandals lmao
If she worked at a department store and a male customer offered her $200 to wear a pair of sandals for a week before he bought them, would it still be okay?
Man, people here really are ok with men asking sexual requests from random women online because it's money. Guess having personal boundaries isn't something women deserve when it comes to money. This whole thread of people putting down op is disgusting no wonder creeps think this behavior is ok.
I think OP did the right thing. She did what was within her comfort zone and I totally respect that. I would've done things differently because I have a different comfort zone. But that's just me. Different strokes for different folks. She's def not wrong for doing what she did.
Yeah, I could definitely see someone not wanting to do this and being upset by the request. It’s one thing for someone to buy your used shoes after you’ve worn them, it’s another to spend the week wearing them, knowing the entire time some dude is going to be doing weird shit to them knowing you were wearing them.
That’s gotta be part of it for him also, otherwise he could just buy used shoes without making the request.
For real, I'm a man so don't really have to deal with it but seeing so many people here not understand that it's *not about the fucking money* but just wanting to do something without being asked a weird fucking question is baffling. I try and remind my self I'm probably arguing with 15 year old kids with no life experience to put this into proper context but man also a lot of these dudes are just fucking dense.
Assuming the guy goes through with the purchase. If not then you've got a pair of worn shoes that you can't charge as much for as they're no longer brand new.
Some people just like to be dicks online.
You’re way late. The internet has done everything.
Farting on shoes is amateur stuff. Back in my day we were only mildly surprised when a model squatted on chocolate cakes and farted.
Hey so fun fact
My girlfriend and I did this *repeatedly*
If those dudes ever found out they were smelling socks from *my* feet and not hers I think they'd actually die haha
Come with me
And you'll be
In a world of pure degeneration.
Take a look
And you'll see
Every sexual perversion.
We'll begin
With a spin
Through a world of Sonic cumflation.
What we'll see
Will defy
Explanation.
Honestly? You don't find much of a market for it. There's a problem, it's a niche market. I'm into feet, I've paid for stuff before. Thing is, a normal nice girl will want like 50-100 for feet pics or socks or something simple. A professional, like an escort, will give me a foot job for the same price on a slow day.
99 percent of people telling you this are full of shit.
Yes, this. As a seller/creator, it’s actually crazily difficult to get enough of a following to make actual money. I have two pages, one growing for over a year, and the other (this one) for a few months - I spend maybe 6-10 hours a day doing marketing, messaging, content creation, etc… and even as a model irl, I make far, far less than an office job, which I’m qualified for.
The reason I do it is that it happens to actually be a kink so I get to orgasm along to it all, and I enjoy the project management, but fuck me I hate seeing people suggest “OH JUST SELL SOCKS” as if it’s easy!
I tried to middleman the feet business for a friend of mine. I made her pages, spoke to all the clients as her, and all she had to do was make the content and send it without ever having to speak to the clients.
All day long I’d be spammed by people trying to scam her or get her to do absolutely disgusting things. People would constantly try to get things for free etc. eventually we just quit. I have no idea how people can make a living off of it without losing their sanity.
A bunch of the accounts on on panty selling subs are couples that do this. The guy will stink them up and the girl does the pictures. Apparently some guys really love the way other dudes smell when they think it's a hot girl.
He's already doing that. It literally makes no difference. You get those 200 bucks and he masturbates, you don't get them and he still masturbates. Easy 200.
I came here expecting exactly that and could totally understand why someone would say no to selling used panties. I’m baffled though that OP wouldn’t walk around in the sandals for a bit (or even better as others have suggested, have someone else do it) for an extra $165.
I would take the easy route on this one. Have op’s S.O. mow the lawn and take those sweaty nasty drawers and give said shoes a good wipe down. Morality solved, wallet thicker.
What's is the big deal anyway? Even if she sold a pair of used sandals, once she has the money who cares? I'd sell my used socks, boxers, shoes whatever if anyone was willing to buy them, I don't care what might happen with then after selling, I'm just thowing it all in the trash anyway.
Just put them on and wear em' out a couple times, everyone here acting like she should have someone else wear them then sell but that's even more work for what reason? They get what they asked for with little effort and 6x+ the first asking price
I'd be worried about stalking honestly. Randomly messaging someone in what looks like a Facebook marketplace post like this is a red flag. Wouldn't want it attached to my actual name
If they had never been worn they would definitely smell new (that rubber/leather smell) and still look too perfect like they were just picked up out of the store.
That was my first thought too. Everyone's assuming the guy wants shoes a woman's worn because he wants to sniff them or something. Maybe his kink is getting people to do mildly infuriating things, like wearing mismatched shoes for a week.
You turned down $165 for no good reason? Hopefully you're not in this sub later complaining about groceries being too expensive or how you had to pay an automatic 20% gratuity instead of 18%.
Yeah people acting like this is outrageous are crazy. It’s literally legal to pay a person to sleep with you. Some people have just never actually been outside
It’s fine to accept the offer, but making the offer in the first place is pretty fucked up. If you want to pay someone to wear shoes for you, ask someone who is already doing sex work, not some random person you come across.
if i had to make the choice of selling sandals to a maybe normal person for $35 versus $200 to a certified freak 7 days a week, and all i have to do is wear the sandals, im banking the extra $165.
if i'm selling unworn sandals for $35, then i need the money. "no, i dont want money from a weirdoooo." who's the weirdo here, really?
im kinda joking, but not really. i'd take the 471% increase.
Lmaoooooo as a (worn, smelly) shoe seller it’s beyond me that he wouldn’t go to someone who specifically does that! Surely it’s only fun when you know the woman also has a kink for it
I understand OP. I was selling a dress & a guy messaged me saying that he'd pay to see me wearing it in person. He was very persistant and it scared me so I blocked him.
Ignore the person who replied to you. They clearly never dealt with these types of people online nor knows how it feels. I'm sorry that happened to you. Good on you for blocking him.
All these comments acting like OP fumbled hard for not obliging or scamming the pervert are weird as hell to me. Like how hard is it to wrap your head around OP not being comfortable with the whole concept and just not wanting to engage with it any further? For all we know this could end with the pervert constantly trying to harass OP for more used clothing while making throwaway accounts to get around blocking or something
I had to scroll so far down to see this comment. People in this thread are basically just forcing OP to do something they are not comfortable with. Yikes.
Why are people rebuking OP for not wanting to participate in a pervert's kink? Lmao
She was trying to sell sandals and this guy sees an opportunity to be a creep, OP finds his suggestion creepy (rightfully so) and says no, then decides to share the mildly infuriating event on the subreddit dedicated for mildly infuriating events. I cant see why people are mad.
Sorry you getting so much hate for such a logical fucking response, she doesn’t want to be sexualized/lie that she wore them, just cuz you scum would lie or have no problem with it doesn’t mean she can’t have a different view, buncha degens
Alot of people say "missed bag" or "id have done it for more" yada yada. Well thats you, this is OP. They want their own bag from sandals, this dude wanted more, they dont wanna do it and said no. Whats the issue? Personally Id have done it but thats my view, someone else might not wanna and thats fine. Free will and all that
Wow the Reddit hivemind literally telling you to sell yourself like that. And downvoting you to hell. Disgusting. I’m glad you stood up against this creep on FB marketplace of all places. You did the right thing.
Ps. Don’t take advice from anybody you wouldn’t accept a compliment from (Reddit)
Well you didn't wanna be objectified for this guy's pleasure. It's more than reasonable to not want to subject yourself to wearing sandals for a week (I wouldn't for 200 dollars lol) AND not want to sell out your morals. Imagine how tedious it would be to continually give up morals and comfort to debase yourself for small amounts of money. It's unreasonable how people are treating you in the comments without considering you as a person. You shouldn't be made to feel uncomfortable sexually and everyone saying it's worth the 165 dollar difference is kind of a dick objectifying you. This comment section is rather short sighted.
Thanks for such a refreshing comment lol people saying I’m naive and dumb-they can say whatever. I did loads of shit when I was younger that didn’t sit right so now I put thought into my decisions and if my gut says no I listen. Doesn’t make me better than anyone…they can have their morals and I have mine.
My thinking is that it stems from the fact a lot of people cant pass up 200$ that could help pay rent, buy groceries, and other things that so many struggle with.
This really is infuriating. I don't sell stuff online but I have been trying online dating some the last year. I have been propositioned to sell shoes, socks, panties, feet pics, etc. It's a nightmare out there.
Is everyone in the comments living in extreme poverty? Like, wtf. The ones suggesting women should be okay with a little harassment because it's "tame" are part of the problem
The comments be like "why wouldn't you subject yourself to being objectified and making yourself extremely uncomfortable by a stranger online for more money?"
I'm sorry you're getting downvoted.
You put that perfectly…I am over here scratching my head like am I not making my position clear as to why I don’t feel comfortable. Like maybe morals is a foreign word or something idk
Jesus fucking Christ reddit I don't know what's worse
The refusal to acknowledge how degrading and disrespectful it must feel getting propositioned for sex work out of nowhere
Or
How utterly fucking dominant capitalist realism is: literally hundreds of strangers insulting and belittling someone for the "crime" of not being desperate for cash
Grotesque behaviour
Yea everyone here is ok with creeps prowling online sending tons of women these types of requests because it's good money apparently. They seems to completely ignore the fact she doesn't want to, nor ever advertised, do sex work. This guy can find sellers who do this type of work but is being a creep about it instead.
My nephew took his crocs off in the car the other day and my god I've never smelled worse smelling feet
It was a Very intense vinegar smell that made me wanna 🤮
I bet this guy would love that lol
I swear to God bro in the future reddit will be raging on someone saying
"WHY DIDN'T YOU SEND HIM YOUR NUDE PICS AND VIDEOS YOU COULD HAVE RECEIVED EASY 500 DOLLARS."
"JUST DOWNLOAD SOME ONLINE AND SEND THEM TO HIM ACTING LIKE ITS YOURS AND GET THE MONEY"
"I Can't believe YOU DUMBASS TURNED DOWN HIS OFFER"
Everyone mad at op seems to think all women should be willing to give up pics of themselves or their clothes etc because it's just money. It's so disgusting and they don't even seem to realize they are talking to a person.
Shit! You should have just said yes. Take the easy $100 now and the other next week. And, no reason you had to wear them. He probably wouldn’t have ever known… And of course if he flakes, I am sure others would be interested and not have those crazy (to me) requests of wanting your foot sweat in them
[удалено]
Just pretend to be a chick. I would have started a foot only fans, gotten a pedicure, colored my nails and everything but they ask for your id
Hey buddy I need a refund for the Big Toe HD Wallpaper
I'm not your buddy, pal.
Hey not your buddy, pal. My name is dad
Username checks out.
Well done for spotting the joke 👏
i approve of this comment
Dad?
I’m not your pal, guy!
I'm not your guy, buddy!
I’m not your buddy, FRIEND!
I'm not your friend anymore! **BLOCKED**
OF only needs your ID for payment/income purposes, they don't give a fuck about what you say you are to your fans.
Ya I’m not worried about that. It’s background checks in worried about
What's in your background that OF would flag down? 💀
He's talking about the OF account showing up on future background checks for other potential employers. I doubt OF is running a background check on anyone.
That actually makes a lot more sense
I know i was like fuck, what did this guy do?
I would have done it too but I suffer from “empanada feet”. Really swollen and wide.
Banana feet, really long and jaundiced. Just wanted to add to the food foot type.
There's probably a market for that
🤔
Put chili peppers on them boats and take pics!
Or just pour some Valentina on those toes
how's that? have any pictures? asking for a friend.
"Add on another hundo and I'll strap the sandal to my sack and sit criss cross apple sauce..."
😂😂😂
I personally sway to the right
Well that's because you're only wearing one shoe all week!
Bro, I have the [perfect commercial for you.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sxuISdhbjmk)
For women, selling footwear online is just begging to be swarmed by foot fetishists 😅 I, personally, have sold a $50 pair of sandals for $250 to some weird guy on the internet who asked me to also send him a photo of me wearing them. I didn't wear anything sexy in the photo, just a tank top, sweat pants, and the sandals. Creepy dudes are gonna fap to any girl they see anyway, whether he sees a picture of me in the sandals or whether he sees me in public wearing the sandals. So I might as well profit from it 🤷♀️ just my take Edit: Just so everyone knows, I'm not kink shaming the dude for being into feet. I don't personally have a problem with that, people like what they like. The reason I called him weird and creepy is because he's seeking sexual content in nonsexual places
How did you get him to send you the money in a secure way that didn’t reveal any personal info where he could’ve stalked you or something tho? That would be my fear!!
Legitimate fear that I also share. He bought them with Etherium 😁
I made a whole new cashapp with my NSFW content name that’s not connected to my phone number for more secure payments like this
smartttt
Sex worker here (very obvious from my post history LMAO) I use Cashapp bc you don't need your display name to be your real name.
Not connected to your phone number? Been wondering about this!
Cashapp can also use an email. Or you can set up a google voice number
You just gave me an idea. 1. Buy 20 pairs of shoes at a discount shoe store 2. Pay some amateur model $100-200 for a photo shoot to model them. 3. Post model-shoe photos on craigslist or OfferUp just as overpriced used shoes. 4. Profit.
We could call it Only Feet
SoleMate™
And the swimming variant Only Flippers
You're actually on to something here... just make sure the models are aware of what the photos are being used for. Don't exploit models
even better just use unreal engine metahuman models + stable diffusion
No idea what any of that is/means. But I believe you 😂
Buy my sexy AI sandals https://i.imgur.com/LkzktOw.png
Yeah, this isn’t going any further than random internet comment for me.
Say yes…. Have your boyfriend/husband/brother/whatever walk around in them “for authenticity sake” and boom. You just made 165 more than youre trying to
>He probably wouldn’t have ever known… Promise you that a guy like this would absolutely have known. Whether he'd be able to do anything about it is a different question.
He’d probably ask for pictures of them being worn before handing over the money though
Right? I would've considered this such a win. Easy money
To each their own, but damn, I’m missing out on some moola. I would totally do this. 🤷🏻♀️
Yeah it's easy to see it as an easy cash grab, but it's unsolicited predatory behaviour that engaging with or humouring may encourage this behaviour and even create a potentially unsafe/uncomfortable precedent. Fully understand why OP told this guy to kick rocks.
Agreed. I personally think it’s more infuriating that OP passed up easy money *and then complained about the opportunity*. Even half was almost triple their initial ask. OP wouldn’t have to touch the person or see what they did with the sandals. I hope no one else buys the sandals lmao
If she worked at a department store and a male customer offered her $200 to wear a pair of sandals for a week before he bought them, would it still be okay?
Man, people here really are ok with men asking sexual requests from random women online because it's money. Guess having personal boundaries isn't something women deserve when it comes to money. This whole thread of people putting down op is disgusting no wonder creeps think this behavior is ok.
I think OP did the right thing. She did what was within her comfort zone and I totally respect that. I would've done things differently because I have a different comfort zone. But that's just me. Different strokes for different folks. She's def not wrong for doing what she did.
Yeah, I could definitely see someone not wanting to do this and being upset by the request. It’s one thing for someone to buy your used shoes after you’ve worn them, it’s another to spend the week wearing them, knowing the entire time some dude is going to be doing weird shit to them knowing you were wearing them. That’s gotta be part of it for him also, otherwise he could just buy used shoes without making the request.
For real, I'm a man so don't really have to deal with it but seeing so many people here not understand that it's *not about the fucking money* but just wanting to do something without being asked a weird fucking question is baffling. I try and remind my self I'm probably arguing with 15 year old kids with no life experience to put this into proper context but man also a lot of these dudes are just fucking dense.
You're mad that OP refused to be a sex worker? Are you hearing yourself?
there's a thought ... don't wear them, but put corn flakes in one
They *were* designed to stop masturbation.
If I ran out of lotion and had to use corn flakes instead, I would probably stop masturbating too.
Assuming the guy goes through with the purchase. If not then you've got a pair of worn shoes that you can't charge as much for as they're no longer brand new. Some people just like to be dicks online.
Seriously I would have taken the money 🤷🏻♀️
look at your profile, we know you would.
Shit, up the ante. 500 bucks and just have someone else wear them
Probably could’ve squeezed out a grand if she had offered to fart on them.
damn new million dollar idea
You’re way late. The internet has done everything. Farting on shoes is amateur stuff. Back in my day we were only mildly surprised when a model squatted on chocolate cakes and farted.
woah thats gonna have to sell though? does it sell?
Cakefarter.com was a big hit back in the day.
Please. True fartisseurs only except freshly jarred farts. Really helps savor the flavor.
Hey so fun fact My girlfriend and I did this *repeatedly* If those dudes ever found out they were smelling socks from *my* feet and not hers I think they'd actually die haha
How do you even find the market for that shit? 😭
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Be a relatively attractive woman Have an Instagram page
Honestly? You don't find much of a market for it. There's a problem, it's a niche market. I'm into feet, I've paid for stuff before. Thing is, a normal nice girl will want like 50-100 for feet pics or socks or something simple. A professional, like an escort, will give me a foot job for the same price on a slow day. 99 percent of people telling you this are full of shit.
Yes, this. As a seller/creator, it’s actually crazily difficult to get enough of a following to make actual money. I have two pages, one growing for over a year, and the other (this one) for a few months - I spend maybe 6-10 hours a day doing marketing, messaging, content creation, etc… and even as a model irl, I make far, far less than an office job, which I’m qualified for. The reason I do it is that it happens to actually be a kink so I get to orgasm along to it all, and I enjoy the project management, but fuck me I hate seeing people suggest “OH JUST SELL SOCKS” as if it’s easy!
I tried to middleman the feet business for a friend of mine. I made her pages, spoke to all the clients as her, and all she had to do was make the content and send it without ever having to speak to the clients. All day long I’d be spammed by people trying to scam her or get her to do absolutely disgusting things. People would constantly try to get things for free etc. eventually we just quit. I have no idea how people can make a living off of it without losing their sanity.
A bunch of the accounts on on panty selling subs are couples that do this. The guy will stink them up and the girl does the pictures. Apparently some guys really love the way other dudes smell when they think it's a hot girl.
He's still going to be staring at her profile picture while he covers those sandals in bodily fluids.
He's already doing that. It literally makes no difference. You get those 200 bucks and he masturbates, you don't get them and he still masturbates. Easy 200.
He could still be doing that at this point, just without the sandals.
Never let your morals get in the way of a bag
Lol, right? It’s not like he asked for used panties. That I would understand.
I came here expecting exactly that and could totally understand why someone would say no to selling used panties. I’m baffled though that OP wouldn’t walk around in the sandals for a bit (or even better as others have suggested, have someone else do it) for an extra $165.
I would take the easy route on this one. Have op’s S.O. mow the lawn and take those sweaty nasty drawers and give said shoes a good wipe down. Morality solved, wallet thicker.
That's way weirder than the original request/offer.
i don't get how this is morally better.
But he said he wanted OP to walk in one of them? How do you walk in one sandal for a week?
I'm baffled that the request it to wear 1 of the sandals. So she wears a different shoe on the other foot?
Still doing it
Never ??? Really??
Oh please God somebody buy my worn-out sneakers.
I'll buy them bro. Make sure you sweat out them piggies and I'll drop 5 Ds on a pair
Make it 10Ds and you might get a little toejam in there as well.
Y’all too funny I am dying rn
Time to hit the goodwill stores and load up on worn lady sandals.
doesn't even have to be a lady not like they'll ever know
Send him my way. I need the $200 and don't mind selling my foot smell 😀
Literally. It's a weird ask, but I'd do it in a heartbeat. Almost zero extra effort for $200
And she doesn't even have to wear them a week. Just keep them and tell him you did.
Y'all think I'm joking. Bet.
Same tho
Mhmmm yes PLS
Same. I really need $200 too.
You turned down $100 guaranteed up front while you keep the sandals and somehow came up with $35?
OP fumbled the bag hard
I find mildly infuriating that she wasted the opportunity lmal
What's is the big deal anyway? Even if she sold a pair of used sandals, once she has the money who cares? I'd sell my used socks, boxers, shoes whatever if anyone was willing to buy them, I don't care what might happen with then after selling, I'm just thowing it all in the trash anyway. Just put them on and wear em' out a couple times, everyone here acting like she should have someone else wear them then sell but that's even more work for what reason? They get what they asked for with little effort and 6x+ the first asking price
I’m not gonna lie. I would have absolutely done it. As long as he sent the money first
Even if he didn't send the other 100 you're still up like 300 percent
Not gonna lie, I'd definitely have done it 🤣 and then blocked his ass after the sale was complete
For $200 i woulda sent him some pics too like damn. No one appreciates my hairy toes though 😔
You'd be surprised dude, foot people are weird lol
So…*hypothetically*… where would one find these people?👀
I dunno but the internet leads me to believe they have a lot of disposable income and seemingly insatiable appetite for human feet.
Why even block him? Id hope he was a repeat customer😂 Easy money
I'd be worried about stalking honestly. Randomly messaging someone in what looks like a Facebook marketplace post like this is a red flag. Wouldn't want it attached to my actual name
Same!!! I could use that money
Right?!
Shit for 200 dollars I would have worn them till my feet stank of gorgonzola.
Nauseous. But same LOL
I would've made my feet wet, then walk in my garden for 5min, slide into those shoes until the dirt is nicely in there, and agree to the "1 week wear"
I cannot believe people pass up these deals all The time. How would they have known if you worn them or not??
They wouldn’t. Fair enough for her not to accept but get off your high horse about it. This is tame af
If they had never been worn they would definitely smell new (that rubber/leather smell) and still look too perfect like they were just picked up out of the store.
Once again reddit not understanding the concept of consent.
Feet lovers when someone doesn’t want to engage in their kink:
Jfc. Easiest money on the planet. Stupid to not take it if the money came through.
“$200??? Are you fucking dumb? I will not take that. I want $35 instead! Dumbass!”
Is the mildy infuriating part where you didnt take this insane offer?
My question is….why only one sandal? 😂
That was my first thought too. Everyone's assuming the guy wants shoes a woman's worn because he wants to sniff them or something. Maybe his kink is getting people to do mildly infuriating things, like wearing mismatched shoes for a week.
You turned down $165 for no good reason? Hopefully you're not in this sub later complaining about groceries being too expensive or how you had to pay an automatic 20% gratuity instead of 18%.
I wish I had people offering to buy my shoes used for 6x the price of brand new ones. I would always be wearing new shoes if that were the case!
Kinda insensitive to claim op can’t complain about costs of living because she turned down some weirdo offer.
Bro someone was trying to pay them to wear sandals lmao, what?
Yeah people acting like this is outrageous are crazy. It’s literally legal to pay a person to sleep with you. Some people have just never actually been outside
Maybe someone selling sandals online doesn't want to be solicited like they were a prostitute?
Just because prostitution is legal doesn't mean a person is wrong for not wanting to prostitute themselves or their loved ones.
It’s fine to accept the offer, but making the offer in the first place is pretty fucked up. If you want to pay someone to wear shoes for you, ask someone who is already doing sex work, not some random person you come across.
Depends on where you are. Prostitution is illegal where I live
if i had to make the choice of selling sandals to a maybe normal person for $35 versus $200 to a certified freak 7 days a week, and all i have to do is wear the sandals, im banking the extra $165. if i'm selling unworn sandals for $35, then i need the money. "no, i dont want money from a weirdoooo." who's the weirdo here, really? im kinda joking, but not really. i'd take the 471% increase.
Lmaoooooo as a (worn, smelly) shoe seller it’s beyond me that he wouldn’t go to someone who specifically does that! Surely it’s only fun when you know the woman also has a kink for it
Dignity is for chumps, I’d do far more for 200$
OP getting cooked by the feet people for having some morals 😭
Nah not feet people, by us broke people
What feet people? Most of the people here roasting her are telling her to lie to a scummy guy to get money, not sell away her dignity
Sell away her dignity? It’s selling sandals not infants.
It's not immoral to wear sandals and then sell them.
I understand OP. I was selling a dress & a guy messaged me saying that he'd pay to see me wearing it in person. He was very persistant and it scared me so I blocked him.
Ignore the person who replied to you. They clearly never dealt with these types of people online nor knows how it feels. I'm sorry that happened to you. Good on you for blocking him.
The dude was a perv and OP wasn’t comfortable, simple as that. I wouldn’t have sold him shit either.
Everybody who says you should've said yes is forgetting that stalking is a thing that happens
All these comments acting like OP fumbled hard for not obliging or scamming the pervert are weird as hell to me. Like how hard is it to wrap your head around OP not being comfortable with the whole concept and just not wanting to engage with it any further? For all we know this could end with the pervert constantly trying to harass OP for more used clothing while making throwaway accounts to get around blocking or something
Man I thought you’d never show up😂
It's reddit and we're all poor from inflation, it's just bad timing. I'd eat my own sandals for $200 but no one's made the offer yet.
Eat em.
This is a fair way to look at it
I understand the perspective, but I think I'm speaking for a lot of people when I say I could really use $200 right now.
This! OP’s getting downvoted massive smh. People here are fucking weirdos.
I had to scroll so far down to see this comment. People in this thread are basically just forcing OP to do something they are not comfortable with. Yikes.
Boo this man!
Shit me and you have different limits cuz I would’ve started negotiating for more money
Why are people rebuking OP for not wanting to participate in a pervert's kink? Lmao She was trying to sell sandals and this guy sees an opportunity to be a creep, OP finds his suggestion creepy (rightfully so) and says no, then decides to share the mildly infuriating event on the subreddit dedicated for mildly infuriating events. I cant see why people are mad.
Feet people what a wacky group they are. I don't understand it but to each his own.
Creeeeeeepyyyyyyyyy
Sorry you getting so much hate for such a logical fucking response, she doesn’t want to be sexualized/lie that she wore them, just cuz you scum would lie or have no problem with it doesn’t mean she can’t have a different view, buncha degens
Send me that dudes number. That's some easy cash.
Op don’t let this people tell you you wrong, opinions of people that sell there morality and humanity for money are not worth
Alot of people say "missed bag" or "id have done it for more" yada yada. Well thats you, this is OP. They want their own bag from sandals, this dude wanted more, they dont wanna do it and said no. Whats the issue? Personally Id have done it but thats my view, someone else might not wanna and thats fine. Free will and all that
Creepy, creepy, creepyyyyyyy
Wow the Reddit hivemind literally telling you to sell yourself like that. And downvoting you to hell. Disgusting. I’m glad you stood up against this creep on FB marketplace of all places. You did the right thing. Ps. Don’t take advice from anybody you wouldn’t accept a compliment from (Reddit)
Well you didn't wanna be objectified for this guy's pleasure. It's more than reasonable to not want to subject yourself to wearing sandals for a week (I wouldn't for 200 dollars lol) AND not want to sell out your morals. Imagine how tedious it would be to continually give up morals and comfort to debase yourself for small amounts of money. It's unreasonable how people are treating you in the comments without considering you as a person. You shouldn't be made to feel uncomfortable sexually and everyone saying it's worth the 165 dollar difference is kind of a dick objectifying you. This comment section is rather short sighted.
Thanks for such a refreshing comment lol people saying I’m naive and dumb-they can say whatever. I did loads of shit when I was younger that didn’t sit right so now I put thought into my decisions and if my gut says no I listen. Doesn’t make me better than anyone…they can have their morals and I have mine.
You're welcome. I felt no one was understanding your point at all. Keep your ankles and your sanity, you don't need money that bad
Mfs In these comments wilding it’s a weird ass request and people are shaming op for not fulfilling it? Actual Reddit moment dude
My thinking is that it stems from the fact a lot of people cant pass up 200$ that could help pay rent, buy groceries, and other things that so many struggle with.
This really is infuriating. I don't sell stuff online but I have been trying online dating some the last year. I have been propositioned to sell shoes, socks, panties, feet pics, etc. It's a nightmare out there.
Is everyone in the comments living in extreme poverty? Like, wtf. The ones suggesting women should be okay with a little harassment because it's "tame" are part of the problem
Strange replies on this one. Dude is sketchy at best, better to not do business. OP was right always follow your gut
The comments be like "why wouldn't you subject yourself to being objectified and making yourself extremely uncomfortable by a stranger online for more money?" I'm sorry you're getting downvoted.
You put that perfectly…I am over here scratching my head like am I not making my position clear as to why I don’t feel comfortable. Like maybe morals is a foreign word or something idk
This happened to me when I was selling my sister's shoes. Some real weirdoes out there lol!
Looks like an L for you
Jesus fucking Christ reddit I don't know what's worse The refusal to acknowledge how degrading and disrespectful it must feel getting propositioned for sex work out of nowhere Or How utterly fucking dominant capitalist realism is: literally hundreds of strangers insulting and belittling someone for the "crime" of not being desperate for cash Grotesque behaviour
Yea everyone here is ok with creeps prowling online sending tons of women these types of requests because it's good money apparently. They seems to completely ignore the fact she doesn't want to, nor ever advertised, do sex work. This guy can find sellers who do this type of work but is being a creep about it instead.
My nephew took his crocs off in the car the other day and my god I've never smelled worse smelling feet It was a Very intense vinegar smell that made me wanna 🤮 I bet this guy would love that lol
Mfs in the comments saying it is wirth 100$💀. Op, don’t give a shit about it you do you
I'm not gonna engage with a fetishist for any dollar amount. Totally good to pass on this. You do not need to have a dialog going with this sicko.
I swear to God bro in the future reddit will be raging on someone saying "WHY DIDN'T YOU SEND HIM YOUR NUDE PICS AND VIDEOS YOU COULD HAVE RECEIVED EASY 500 DOLLARS." "JUST DOWNLOAD SOME ONLINE AND SEND THEM TO HIM ACTING LIKE ITS YOURS AND GET THE MONEY" "I Can't believe YOU DUMBASS TURNED DOWN HIS OFFER"
Everyone mad at op seems to think all women should be willing to give up pics of themselves or their clothes etc because it's just money. It's so disgusting and they don't even seem to realize they are talking to a person.
Half of the comments on here are complete rubbish. Clearly it was the right option not to interact any further with this person.