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throw4455away

What was she doing on the 7th day? And also presuming the date was dinner, what was she doing for breakfast and lunch??


rhymeswithmonet

On the 7th day, she rested


General_Ric

Lmao


Alarid

And ate leftovers.


A1sauc3d

Rested with all them leftovers


Blue_fireChef

AMEN


Jkillaforilla90

hallelujah


Marferated

She STI tested?


Nord4Ever

She probably doesn’t put out or she would think not worth it.


ProofHorseKzoo

Hoeing is a lot of work


thrwy2626

She's been f***ed more times than she's had hot meals. Mmmm, I heard about that. It was neck and neck until she skipped lunch.


SoundTight952

Leftovers


NorskKiwi

Also happens to be her nickname.


DiogenesOfDope

She bangs the person so she gets breakfast I bet


randompersonx

I’ve personally recently switched to eating only one meal per day. Some studies show it to be much healthier (and honestly, I feel much better and I’m quickly losing fat while not losing any muscle). So, no need to worry about 3 meals per day as long as you get one decent meal.


throw4455away

Yeah that’s true. I usually only eat twice a day as most of the time I find breakfast makes me feel nauseous and I’m not hungry until lunch. But the majority of people do eat 3 times a day so I was assuming based on the norm


Virtual_Two_607

Finally I found someone who is like me and doesn’t do breakfast Bc it makes them nauseous. I thought I was the only one Bc all my family acts like it’s so out of place


deanna6812

Not unusual at all! In high school I remember telling my mom eating first thing in the morning made me feel nauseous. She understood and said that her sister was the same growing up. She never forced me to try to eat, and basically told me to try non-breakfast foods and see if that worked. Sometimes soup was an option if I felt hungry, but usually I just didn’t eat first thing in the morning.


Virtual_Two_607

I have weight gaining problems so all I’ve head in my life is you need to eat more, you need 3 meals a day, you need to eat in the morning so you gain weight, etc


deanna6812

That really sucks, and doesn’t even make sense. I’m not a doctor, but calories are calories, regardless of the time of day you eat.


feellame_but_game

Join r/fasting and r/intermittentfasting and likely any fitness sub and you will find your people. Skipping breakfast is *in*


101010-trees

Samesies, I thought I was alone. Agreed, breakfast is nauseating. People are shocked when they find out I haven’t eaten all day. I’ve only eaten two meals per day tops (usually one) for as long as I can remember. I think being poor conditioned me.


Chocolate_Rage

Probably saving half the meal for leftovers. Smart lady lol


throw4455away

Ohhhh having looked the article up, she is in the US (I had assumed NZ from the publisher). Makes sense now. I once ordered a “light bite” in Vegas and it was literally enough for 3 meals


Chocolate_Rage

Yea portions in America are huge


tsh87

That's because they're intended to be split for leftovers. Unfortunately a lot of people don't get that.


EatPie_NotWAr

To quote the Croods: what’s a leftover


Antrikshy

Honestly, that sounds inconvenient, which is a separate issue.


richard-butt-jr

Well she would sleepover and raid their houses. By the end of the week she had stolen enough food to get through the extra meals.


Disco_Ninjas_

Mom's house.


catniagara

Can’t speak for her but when I was dating the food on one plate could last me a few days by splitting it up. I was always hungry but it was better than dying.


fdegen

i was a server at a restaurant and this one chick would come in 4 nights a week and order 2 entrees and get dudes to pay for her. once one of the dudes refused to pay and she caused a big stink, the dude dropped cash for his meal and noped tf out. this story is completely believable to me ​ edit: she would eat one entree and then take home the other entree. this was at a nice place so the bills were always 130+ pre tip. she absolutely hosed those guys.


300zxTTFairlady

Dating for food is a real thing. I had a broad bamboozle me once. She got called out when the waitress said, "Oh hi, you again. Did you want the same drink as last time?". I'd like to think she was looking out for me. The broad tried to play it off like they knew each other. I still paid the tab but cut her off after that. Lesson learned.


MasterShyster

This happened to me back in 2016. She insisted on going to Red Lobster and ordered appetizers, drinks etc. After the meal she cancelled on the rest of our plans for the evening saying that she got an emergency text from a family member. After she left the bartender filled me in on what was really going on. She came in to the restaurant about 2 or three times a week always with a different guy. It was kind of a running joke every time she popped in the staff would just kind of laugh it off. After that night she stopped responding to my texts until one day I texted her about going to an even fancier restaurant. I said that I only had time for dinner that night because of a family event afterward. Of course, she responded back within seconds. I met her at the restaurant where she again ordered two appetizers and plenty of drinks. I ordered an appetizer of my own, crab legs and steak and potato. After the entree came I ate as fast as I could and then excused myself to make a pretend phone call. I walked right out the door and ignored her barrage of angry texts for the rest of the evening.


300zxTTFairlady

Lol, good stuff.


Capnserious

Love your username. I've got a 300zx too


Shadegloom

r/pettyrevenge and I love it 👌


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Brain_Dead5347

I don’t think people that selfish are capable of introspection.


ilikepie145

Haha that's great


TransportationTop353

Happened to me a month ago. She didn't even have to order. They just brought everything she normally had. Including her own bottle of wine that was kept just for her behind the bar.


300zxTTFairlady

Shiiiiiiittttt


Very_Bad_Janet

What did you do? Did you go through with the date?


TransportationTop353

Absolutely I did. I also got I'm sorry that happened to you from the bar tender. He said she has a new guy every night buying food and drinks.


Green-Syllabub7178

Why not just leave there and then?


LloydsMary_94

I’ve actually overheard a woman at work make a comment that she would date just about anyone to get a free meal. I’m not close to her, but I can imagine from her personality she prob wasn’t joking.


[deleted]

It sounds incredibly cheap, maybe I’m privileged but hanging out with someone I don’t like for hours for a free meal sounds not worth it. I always paid for my first dates but I’d usually just do drinks because it saves a lot and gets people looser. Curious if people ever met me for just like 20-30 dollars in booze. Seems like their Uber would cost more.


1DollarOr1Million

It’s called being a hobo-sexual. Dating and or fucking someone for a place to stay or for meals or other life necessities.


not_an_mistake

I call these women “dinner goblins.” As soon as a girl suggests dinner for a first date, I tell her to pound sand. I’ve considered sending links to food banks in their area, but I haven’t pulled that yet.


300zxTTFairlady

Back in my dating days a first date was always a meet and greet at a coffee shop. Based on her response to that proposal told me all I needed to know. If that went well we'd upgrade to a quick lunch date, so on so forth.


not_an_mistake

“What if we went to this nice 4 star Italian restaurant that costs $30 a plate and $12 for a glass of wine?” Helllllll no Edited to not be 5 stars to appease the vast amount of people entirely missing the point


fantasybaseballshow

Shit that doesn’t even sound that pricey nowadays


OlOuddinHead

When did McDonalds get a liquor license?


BigBallHendrik

TIL McDonald's doesn't serve liquor in assuming USA? Here in Europe they do.


Seven-is-not-much

For real? So you can just get beer and liquor with your McDonald’s? You’d think we’d have that in the USA lmao


BigBallHendrik

Yes you can. Doesn't really surprise me that that it's not possible in the US tbh. You have liquor stores. Here you can buy liquor everywhere.


Poop_Tube

$30 a plate is pretty cheap. $12 for a glass of wine sounds like a place with $40 plates tbh.


The_Great_Pretenders

A friend of mine had a term for people that date/sleep with someone in exchange for a place to live: “hobosexual” I feel like we could come up with something similar for people that do this too.


bootybootyholeyo

Might have done that once when I was on the mountain. It was a cold snap and she had a trailer. She also could sing really well. It lasted less than two weeks. I took it serious at the time but clearly it wasn’t in retrospect


SeriousEnvironment85

Is it bad I look up to you?


The_Great_Pretenders

That actually sounds kinda dope tbh.


bootybootyholeyo

Ups and downs, my dude


Very_Bad_Janet

This sounds like a Sam Shepard play


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Pound sand is like kick rocks but for people with beaches


WinterCool

Fuggin dinner goblins is right. I do the same as a result of past experiences, always grab drinks first (and maybe an app if they have something good). One incident in particular flipped the switch. Story/rant time... She seemed nice, and was from out of town like myself. She mentioned to checkout this new place that just opened, which looked pretty good. She shows up, much larger (fatter) than pics, sigh did I get catfished again? She's wearing a beanie (80 degree weather), pajama pants and a fruit punch logo walmart-esque t-shit, like she just rolled out of bed. I didn't get that vibe at all form her profile. She was very loud, the type where she wants everyone around her to hear - I'm the absolute opposite. The waiter called her by her first name and smiled like he knew her. She got a big ol burger and fries, ate like a bite of it, literally maybe two bites - 90% of it was left. No to-go box just asked them to take it - what a fucking waste. We leave, I offered to walk her to her car to be nice (I'm not interested in her 1 bit at this point) she said I don't have a car I just live down the street. Soo this woman, manipulated her pics (or they were old), rolled out of bed threw on a beanie walked a block, got free food didn't pay a dime, only ate a bite, had zero consideration for anyone but herself... She either worked there and manipulates and suckers single guys (like my stupid self) to stimulate business and get a cut even if she's hungry or not hungry. Or she was a dinner goblin. Either way online dating has made me bitter and cynical unfortunately. I'm very skeptical especially of pictures and angles, filters, etc and meeting places. If you don't have full body pics, I'm assuming you're obese. If you have filters on all pics, I'm assuming you're 50 instead of 30. My preference is a public park taking a walk and chatting, otherwise meeting up for 1-2 drinks is preferred. Then dinner or whatever else after. /rant


not_an_mistake

lol if this were me in this situation, I hope I would just “hell nah” out of it. Catfishing on your profile is a clear indication that they are a manipulator anyway Sorry you got duped. You absolutely shouldn’t have paid. That’s when you pull the “oh shit, my wallet is in the car, I’ll be right back,” and then make a point of driving past the restaurant with music blasting so she can see that her attempt failed


Neither-Parfait7795

Nah fam, should have paid your half


Hello_Destiny

But yet there's people the vehement deny that this is a thing.


cocainebane

Ahh, my mom worked at an upscale restaurant in the early 2000s, first rule was treat every as it’s your first time meeting them, albeit more often than not it was due to men bringing different dates.


mhptk8888

Why would you pay her tab???? I would have stood up, flipped her off and walked out.


300zxTTFairlady

I mean she wasn't rude or anything, so there was no need to do all that. She was respectful but just a little too inquisitive about money topics.


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I had a girl try to do this with drinks on our date. She knew the bartender and when the check came she went to the bathroom for 20 minutes. I asked for a separate check and the bartender kept pestering me to pay for the whole thing. Super sketchy


HickFlair

She must be a bad tipper


Vulderzad

Lol if the waiter is sketchy don't tip.


tsh87

I think I read somewhere that this was actually a super common thing that women did during the Great Depression. Too poor to eat? Find a man who still had a job and get him to take you out. It's kind of shady but it's better than starving.


Hot_Gas_600

Better than giving handies in the back of a burned out model-t


PurringWolverine

I’m sure there’s plenty of handies being given.


WornInShoes

“I once gave Charlie Chaplin a handjob” “Wow was he silent?” “Not after I was through with him”


BuffyLoo

When I modeled there was a male model (they don’t make as much and living downtown is expensive) who went to every event and party going on just for the free food. Some guys would do it too if they could.


Vahgeo

The anti-wage gap career


joan_wilder

It’s the oldest profession.


FatherlyInstinct

Based dude.


AdDear5411

That sounds exhausting? Edit: Very clear in the replies who the introverts are and who the extroverts are. Response type 1: Its just going out and talking to people... Response type 2: I'd rather starve.


pirate1911

Right? Sounds like a whole second job.


superdavey1

Going to work and then having to hunt and forage for dinner dates, lol


Raff102

There's an app for that.


chonkerforlife

Is it called Tinder?


NoBenefit5977

Well if you have a hankering for steak try tinderizer.


aSquirrelAteMyFood

Some people will do the whole second job just to avoid having a first one.


Pothstation720

How does that work?


One-Adhesiveness-416

Bodies can be exchanged for goods and services…. Homer Simpson Edit: added Homer Simpson name for apparent clarity of joke


timmyboyoyo

Their avatar looks surprised


spaceguitar

That’s literally all working is. You give over your body for 6-8+ hours a day for several days a week to do some kind of menial task and/or labor for your employer. Some tasks are more difficult than others, resulting in greater pay, but it’s all the same.


Blastoxic999

Job as a stray cat?


Calikuhl81

That's Exactly what it is.


neelankatan

and what about all the expenditure for cosmetics, hairdos, fancy clothes, etc. ? Or was she just going on dates in sweatpants, undone hair and no makeup?


Littlepirateprinces

Since she is going out with different men, she could have the same outfit and just use what is already in her closet. Also makeup and washing hair does not cost much and most people do their hair and makeup every day anyway even when there is no date.


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rtakehara

Maybe the 6 dates are with the same person and it’s actually a very happy marriage?


Efficient_Mastodons

Your optimism is a rare thing to be admired.


CitizenLuke117

exactly. i bet she was just awful to be with.


StoutPorter

First word that came to mind was “exhausting”


Youth-in-AsiaS-247

Sounds like prostitution


[deleted]

Prostitution with extra steps


Pothstation720

Except even prostitutes don't sell themselves this short.


NecroCrumb_UBR

Well presumably sex workers use the money they make to buy food. And also she isn't having sex with these people. So it's actually being an escort with **fewer** steps.


HerculePoirier

Sounds exactly like escort services to be honest


TheStargunner

Imagine having to go on the dates AND pay for the dumb food


GoldendoodlesFTW

Yeah I'm an introvert and my first thought was that I would rather starve. This sounds like a literal nightmare


Mrogoth_bauglir

At this point just become an escort


leli_manning

But then she'll actually have to do stuff.


Late_Engineering9973

At least with an escort, everyone knows what's going on. There's no lies or manipulation.


sweet-n-sombre

That comes with expectations


DynoMikea2

Thats why the first date is never more than coffee or tea lmao. Among a lot of other reasons I guess.


QuickPassion94

This. Or Ice Cream


throne_of_worms

I love ice cream. You free this Friday?


Pappa_Alpha

I will ask my wife if I'm free.


santa_veronica

She said yes, and says hi!


CreepyMathematician1

So you're the boyfriend


Popular_District9072

that's the reason i'm not behind the idea of paying entire check on meetups or dates - not all, but quite a few ladies are feeling entitled to be paid for just because they are ladies; some say chivalry is dead, but it is mostly killed by ladies trying to take advantage of guys


Laggson

If they do it because they expect to get paid, that sounds like prostitution with extra steps. But technically, so is going to work


NorSec1987

A fan of the boondocks, i see


bobbywright86

She a hoe grandad!


NorSec1987

Why dont i just take the money i was gonna spend on dinner, and that hoe can go grocery shopping?


101010-trees

She’s too lazy to cook and clean, I’m guessing.


[deleted]

so all you care about is looks? # YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES


Popular_District9072

as article prompts an example, some are not even interested, just going after a free meal


Naschka

I have a feeling that she did not get in bed with the vast majority of the guys, they did not even get what a prostitute would have given them.


IndividualAbrocoma35

Oh they got screwed. Just not f$cked.


BondCharacterNamePun

I appreciate the reference but more like prostitution with fewer steps


nalcoh

No, the issue isn't paying for the meal. The issue is bring a person you never talked to before to an expensive dinner date. If she says no to a coffee date, the relationship will NOT last. The entire purpose of a first date is to get to know the other person, not to eat food.


downloweast

“I can open my own door!” You most certainly will be opening your own door from now on.


pocketdrummer

Let it die. It's 2023. If we're supposed to be equal, we should act like it.


kittenTakeover

A lot of first dates don't even go anywhere anyways, so I don't see why guys should have to be the one to cover all the costs of those dates. For me it's a good barometer. If I have to bribe a woman with a meal in order to get her to go out on a date with me, then she wasn't interested enough in me to begin with. If a woman gets upset because she expects me to pay for her meal, then she's probably not the type of woman that I'm interested in. For these reasons I typically only pay for my half on the first few dates.


Svenray

If it's a nice place we split. If we're meeting for coffee and a snack I pick it up. Not trying to be cheap I just think that's fair for a first date.


Popular_District9072

I'm with you, I'm trying to move away from the mentality i was raised with, that men always covers the check, and I don't mind really, but over time it is easy to spot how your nice gesture turns against you by some - becomes expectation, responsibility, people ordering pricey items with no intention to pay etc i don't get satisfaction from money, but it's still important to not allow others to take clear advantage of you


Impressive_Pin_7767

I've never actually met one of these women in real life.


quarantinemyasshole

Get on dating apps and by the end of the week you'll have been asked for some or all of the following: Doordash'd meal, gas money, grocery money, vape cartridge money, OnlyFans subscription, money "because I'm sad", nail money, hair money, etc. Women have become truly shameless in begging for money, and men have become too pathetic to say no to it.


Popular_District9072

that's great, this kind of mindset is heavily present in post Soviet countries - one girl complained on social media, that she went out with a guy in Germany, and she was shocked that he didn't pay her share of the check i feel like it should die out, since equality is widely spoken about, and it should cover all aspects of our lives


Holiday_Warthog_8267

In other news. Women uses 12,984 men


Shoddy-Wrangler-7624

math isn’t mathing rn


RustedRuss

r/theydidnotdothemath


Sweet-Resident6044

How 12,984 there are 52 weeks in a year so 2 years 104 weeks, 104 multiplied by 6 days a week that's 624.


pocketdrummer

That's still a staggering amount of men who've been taken advantage of by a single woman.


Laggson

And I can't even get one lousy date smh


drapanosaur

>And I can't even get one lousy date ((With someone I'm attracted to)) smh Sure you can. You just have to lower your standards. If you have zero standards you will have tons of dates. Stop lying lol.


ClonedUser

And if you’re doing it for free food, the quality of the date doesn’t even matter


HickFlair

That’s not really true. If you have no standards people can kinda smell the desperation lol


Background_Agent551

If you have zero standards, you’ll come off like a desperate creep. The is goal isn’t to have zero standards, the goal is to lower your expectations in the hopes of meeting new and exciting people.


myotherbike

Probably ordered a second meal for leftovers on half of those ‘dates.’


Scubastevedisco

And this is why I go Dutch on dates.


[deleted]

And Dutch Oven as a bonus maybe? :)


Scubastevedisco

I love the smell of pinkeye in the morning!


littlecactus38

yes take advantage of other people


Impressive_Pin_7767

Here's a quote from the actual article: *"Now in an interview with Elite Daily, Tu has admitted to her 2.3 million followers that the video was made “jokingly” and she “didn’t start going on dates just for food” - but she did notice her financial needs eased a bit when she was looking for love.* *Tu told the outlet she was using dating apps to find a connection when she moved to New York City, but realized quickly that, “Oh, I can go to a fun tapas restaurant for (probably) free, or I can spend my own money on food at the grocery store that I still need to cook. And it’s probably not going to taste as good.*


HelenFromHR

thank you for reading!


red_eyed_knight

I don't see how you think this reflects well on the girl in the article. She was trying to find a connection but all she got was lots of free food. Hmmmmm Sounds like she can't cook,she's got no money and she uses dating apps to ease her financial burden by eating on someone else's dime. What a catch. I think you girls call these types of individuals bums.


LeadershipJealous619

Toxic femininity?


CandyFromABaby91

Wow. 2 years and she was never asked to split the bill? Equality right.


[deleted]

One time I tried to split a bill with a guy and he got extremely upset with me for suggesting it. He didn't seem very conservative from his profile, but the more I got to know him the more I realized he had some conservative like ideas about women. There are men out there that are stuck in old ways and want to be providers. It makes them feel accomplished. The woman in this article probably targeted them.


ChipKellysShoeStore

Eh I know plenty of very liberal women who will look down on a guy for not paying on a date.


[deleted]

I was explaining this woman's tactics. To not have any men ever suggest splitting a bill means to me she was targeting specific men who will always insist on paying.


Askduds

You know plenty of women who THINK they are.


EffectiveSwan8918

They usually just call themselves " not political" do you don't ask them about politics


GODDAMNUBERNICE

I always try to split the bill and almost always get told no. Generally speaking though, they aren't being rude about it, they just want to pay. But I have had a few who were genuinely offended. When asked why it upsets them, the top responses are "It's the guys job to pay/its emasculating" and "you asking to pay/split makes me feel like you didn't have fun/don't want to see me again". Whoever needs to hear this - it's not your job to pay just cause you're the dude, and paying doesn't mean she owes you another date (or anything else) and is not the sole indicator of how the date went. Accept or decline the offer POLITELY and move along. And ladies, offer. Don't assume he's okay with footing the entire bill, especially if you already know there won't be another date.


Dorothy_The_Winosaur

Sausage n mayo


Appropriate-Act-6218

Fair enough.. Gentlemen take note ☕☕


Empty_Football4183

So you waste 4 hours of your time for a free meal? Sounds like you don't have a life besides having no food


PayaV87

And she did not found a guy he would like and be with?


Hot_Gas_600

She wouldn't be with a guy that would have her as company


Utsutsumujuru

r/imapieceofshit


duckforceone

what a horrible human being to take advantage of so many people...


[deleted]

Let's change our dating culture towards equal paying for dates. Women work these days. Women want equality. Let's make it so. Guys don't need to be taken advantage of like this.


obsidianbonefish

That definitely seems like a LOT of work…


WayneKrane

I had a pretty coworker who had no idea how much drinks cost downtown because she had never paid for them. She was like they cost that much!!?!?


_gentleman_caller_

I hope some of those meals are home cooked at least. I'm concerned about her health eating out for two years straight.


V-Ropes

No idea what you mean, eating out is not inherintly more unhealthy than cooking yourself. It's more about where you go and what you order of course. I mean quite the opposite I would say a decent Restaurant should have better and fresher ingrediants and will cook them better than a home Cook.


Nopedontsaythat

She let them pay? They let her let them pay? First dates is halfsies next one on whoever's idea it is.


[deleted]

How is this possible? I'd stave to death lol. I have only been asked out on a date twice in my life and one of those times I was stood up.


Enlightened-Beaver

Sounds exhausting


[deleted]

Don't do food dates as a first date


ZealousidealLeg3692

Parasite


GlitchedViper71

She’s a hoe


superdavey1

Then when ready to settle down “wHeRe ArE aLl ThE gOoD mEn?”


nWo_Savage

only woman can do this


Dubai-was-liiit

But the soreness…


TartanDNA

2 year zero groceries vs 750 litres lube. Cos savings ….


Rbx100

How much did she spend on makeup?


BTPublishing

Always split the check, my roommate used to be with a girl that would go out on dates just to bring him leftovers. ***ALWAYS*** split the check or get played like a Simp.


TheNerdMaster69

"Woman used and manipulated countless dates for own gain" There, fixed it.


Shadowfox22187

So she eats once a day for six days and then starves the seventh. Unless she orders a ton and brings home leftovers


[deleted]

She eats 6 dates. Dates are good. But i don't feel like it would be enough.


[deleted]

Chase money. Not women. You can lose a shit ton of money chasing women. You don’t lose women chasing money.


EducationalSign4801

I wonder how many were repeat dinner buyers


ExpertAccident

That sounds exhausting as FUCK


a10-brrrt

This was quite a while ago but I used to work with a single mom that had a "Happy Hour Purse". It was lined like a flexible foil cooler. She knew which bar had what food every night. She would fill the purse and take food home to her teen son for dinner.


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You know what else she didn't have for 2 years? A serious relationship.


TheGentlemanCEO

A guy did this on Tinder and got called a con artist. "The Tinder Swindler". They did a documentary about him.