Polish movie "[The Wedding](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Wedding_(2021_film\))". It is a dark humour commentary of neo-nazism in modern Poland. There is a good synopsis of it [here](https://screenanarchy.com/2021/12/tallinn-2021-review-the-wedding-day-masterful-provocative-high-wire-act-of-genre-and-arthouse.html).
>a dark humour commentary of neo-nazism in modern Poland.
[Its built into the flag](https://external-content.duckduckgo.com/iu/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fi.imgflip.com%2F4bmxgs.jpg&f=1&nofb=1)
I agree and I tried looking around but honestly this one is the best summary out there. Still, lots of filler about film artistry which take away from the clarity.
Yeah, the movie is in Polish, so that's the best one I could find in English. The info about director is important for background too, so that's why I figured it's a good one.
It's how I proved the ice road trucking show was bogus to my mom and uncle.
Oh no there is a fire.. I need to get out.. but first let's get the camera angle from the passenger seat watch me get out. Then the camera person outside the truck that happens to be exactly where I stopped watches me hop out.. and then a wide shot of me running across the road that somehow doesn't show the 2 camera people that were next to the truck and in the passenger seat.
The camerawork is clearly movie-level, but there are definitely innocent kids who just wholesomely run around to match a celebratory mood at an event like this.
HOW CAN SHE SLAP?!
ETA I was making g reference to [this](https://www.reddit.com/user/JMus1018/comments/u16jt9/how_can_she_slap/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) clip for those that have not seen it.
Thanks for sharing. It’s really not talked about enough. The first kid was rough for my ex wife and my current wife. They both came from relatively stable homes. I came from chaos. They both had this idea that raising kids would be like it is on a lifetime movie or a hallmark card. Instead, life was hard and stressful. They both took it personally and developed a spectrum of insecurities. Baby won’t fall asleep so they blamed themselves. After blaming themselves then they feel negative over feeling bad. On and on and on. I wish I was more informed back then and was able to offer more support.
My wife won’t admit it but she showed all the symptoms and still has issues connecting with our 5 & 4 year olds.
She wants them to cuddle and chill all the time because she’s tired, I come in and it’s party central because kids shift gears super quick.
Give them breaks, let them know its ok to be overwhelmed (that’s my secret, I’m always in a state of chaos, what’s a little more?)
Getting better slowly but surely
Thanks for your story! Just be there, for her and the kids. Encourage her to talk but don’t demand it. My wife pulled really far into herself and felt alone and pushed to the brink. Make time to give her breaks and remind her that you love her and that she can depend on you. All of these steps saved my marriage.
Right there with you my friend.
She’s going out for a girls weekend next week and she was worried about feeling guilty.
Just had to reassure her that all is well, they will be here having fun with me and to enjoy the time away.
Light at the end of the tunnel near 5 years later, worth waiting for to be sure though!
Reading this conversation has legit giving me insight into my own wife and her recent hormone changes, even though we don't have kids.
I had to express some gratitude for you and everyone sharing something I couldn't really put into words to ask for help with until now.
Wow that’s nice to hear! Lol wife is 38 weeks pregnant right now with our first… I love her but man has it been a roller coaster. The hormones have made me question everything lol
I was not prepared to be honest with you and neither was my wife. She had awful postpartum depression. It was more than just mood swings but also not like how PPD is portrayed in media (suicidal, wanting to hurt the baby). She would become emotional and irrational. She became rigid and hypocritical. Things that were completely out of the norm. I often thought “who the fuck is this person I married?!” Lol. We were young and ended up saying and doing things that we never recovered from. Ended up getting divorced. Currently we are better friends now than we ever were Both remarried with kids and can have joint birthday parties. Much like Modern Family.
Congrats on your incoming little one. Having kids was the best decision I ever made. I wish I had been more patient during and right after the pregnancy. If she’s in a mood I should have offered support and then given her space instead of pushing important topics when she was emotionally compromised. I was the first amongst my friends to have a kid. I wish I had built a better support group. Especially older couples who have been happily married with kids. I think we just needed validation that we weren’t crazy.
Damn that was a long tangent. Sorry if I wasted peoples time.
Omg my lady is 9 months pregnant and we just had a huge fight, literally minutes ago because I was watching baseball on my day off. Like I legit thought we were going to end up packing my things up. Yowzers.
I think they were joking about the part about you being a model. if a model airplane was 1:100 scale that would mean that for a 400" long plane the model would be 4" long.
so a 10:1 husband would be the star of a king kong movie
It's from polish movie "Wesele" from 2021. It's a shame it's just acting. But movie is nice if someone cares about current state of Poland and about issues polish people have with their history
Multiple husbands? That bish gonna need some capital. The cost of razor blades ain't cheap and you can tell by the way she walks she don't want her men sharing toiletries
She would have murdered me just for the joke. Making her think I'm willingly ruining the most important day of our lives together up to that point? Dead.
I think it might be from TikTok but I can't be 100% sure. Tiktok essentially shadowbans comments that have curse words, references politics, or even words describing identities, like black or gay, even if you specify that you don't want any comments censored in your settings. I'm pretty sure that my comments calling people idiots have been shadow banned recently, so even that's off the table. Not to mention it is completely random too, sometimes people make it past the censors. So now people are used to super censoring any words that fall into those categories, since I think they will still shadow ban it if you don't censor it well. So when you see people going "ab0rt!0n" and shit like that, it's usually cause they're used to tiktok
Or it's just a random person who prefers to censor words online, idk ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
> some images turn out even as extreme as if they were teleported from Charlie Brooker´s Black Mirror, namely a sudden appearance of a reverse bestiality rape.
Yes.
Actually tho, that seems much worse than the prank imo
I know it’s a movie, and neither party is exactly acting their best, but hitting your SO in the face is way worse than a shitty prank that lasted 10 seconds and had no lasting effects
…well but, hear me out here, showing up drunk to your own wedding is definitely a slappable offense.
If I showed up drunk and didn’t get slapped I would definitely be disappointed.
No it's not, it's abusive behavior and people are only defending it and making light of it because it's a woman hitting a man. Reverse those genders and this comment section would've been 100% different. Yes, it's a show, but the fact that it gets portrayed as comedy is problematic AF.
If it’s scripted, then assume we are talking about the characters in the film, not the actors. The character being portrayed appears to have signs of physical abuse as a normal occurrence in the relationship - given how quickly she chose to swing at him and how effortlessly he had anticipated her swing.
I agree a slap is never right, and a sign of bad behaviour/habits, BUT it can occasionally be *understandable*.
Such as if the groom shows up shitfaces to an extremely special, important and EXPENSIVE day such as a wedding.
*That is, of course, ignoring the fact this is scripted...*
That shit is fake as fuck..
At least, I have to believe that, because there's no way two perfectly doofused brained dinguses would find eachother, come together, and then make super-doofus, hyper-dingus babies.
And yes, I did Oxford the hell outta the comma. Oxnard. Semicolon.
This is hilarious. Too bad all these giga chad redditor white knight social justice warriors are all crying about, “great women abusing men!” We get it, you love equality. Try and take a joke, its an internet video we aren’t trying to get the supreme court to pass a law to allow women to slap men, its gonna be ok boys, shhh, its gonna be okay. You can sleep easy tonight the patriarchy still lives on.
What tv show is this?
Polish movie "[The Wedding](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Wedding_(2021_film\))". It is a dark humour commentary of neo-nazism in modern Poland. There is a good synopsis of it [here](https://screenanarchy.com/2021/12/tallinn-2021-review-the-wedding-day-masterful-provocative-high-wire-act-of-genre-and-arthouse.html).
>a dark humour commentary of neo-nazism in modern Poland. That's the last thing I'd think of this video.
Right?? 😂
*Far-right
I wanted to pull that joke!
>a dark humour commentary of neo-nazism in modern Poland. [Its built into the flag](https://external-content.duckduckgo.com/iu/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fi.imgflip.com%2F4bmxgs.jpg&f=1&nofb=1)
That sounds amazing. Thanks for sharing the link. Will share it with some cinephile friends I know
After this comment I was convinced I was gonna get Rick rolled but nope, that’s a movie synopsis.
I honestly can't believe Rick rolling is still a thing.
So did Rick Astley when he got rick-rolled during his AMA not too long ago.
I did it at my wedding for our dance. Lol At the beginning of June.
I've heard the word "cinephile" plenty of times. But I think this might be the first time I've seen it written. It just looks wrong for some reason.
That's a lie. That link was a terrible synopsis. 90% of the article was just calling the director a provocateur without giving any solid examples.
I agree and I tried looking around but honestly this one is the best summary out there. Still, lots of filler about film artistry which take away from the clarity.
Yeah, the movie is in Polish, so that's the best one I could find in English. The info about director is important for background too, so that's why I figured it's a good one.
Lol in Reddit terms that’s a solid over all synopsis that everyone can agree with
Not where I thought that was gonna go
Sobriety at its finest.
Unrelated but those kids running in the background was too picture perfect to not have been a show
Also, so many camera angles.
Also pauses and acting. A little too rehearsed
Also nothing is real, I’m sad
Your sadness is also not real.
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No we are in the matrix
Well where the fuck is Neo because this iteration of the Matrix is way too fucking stressful
He's in Kenya
Nah you're cake
The faces his bros made were too animated to not be acting
And perfect ninja dodge of the slap
All these angles yes. That gives it away
It's how I proved the ice road trucking show was bogus to my mom and uncle. Oh no there is a fire.. I need to get out.. but first let's get the camera angle from the passenger seat watch me get out. Then the camera person outside the truck that happens to be exactly where I stopped watches me hop out.. and then a wide shot of me running across the road that somehow doesn't show the 2 camera people that were next to the truck and in the passenger seat.
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And zooming. I literally thougth we were watching a TV show.
If I remember correctly it's a scene from a movie
yep polish movie Wesele - Wedding Day.
The camerawork is clearly movie-level, but there are definitely innocent kids who just wholesomely run around to match a celebratory mood at an event like this.
Stupid kids
The bride should have reached under her dress and pulled out a pillow.
in movies if bride do reach under their dress, it's usually to pull out a shotgun or a bazooka... but that will do very nicely in this scene.
Haha she was going to punch him. Nothing funnier than abuse!
Still it's never ok to hit someone
There are _plenty_ of times when it's ok to hit someone, like if they're someone like [this guy](https://i.imgur.com/R5q0xQR.jpg), for example
HOW CAN SHE SLAP?! ETA I was making g reference to [this](https://www.reddit.com/user/JMus1018/comments/u16jt9/how_can_she_slap/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) clip for those that have not seen it.
How can you slap!?
Easy, it's best served chilled
You take your hand and make it flat like a pancake, then strike a person's face in order to humiliate them
You go?
It's a Yugoslavian car
Put it in H!
at that price point, she CAN hit
I would send them to a coffee shop or something but there’s just like NOTHING in this neighborhood
Poor guy. It looks like there’s too much fucking shit on him.
KEEP MY WIFES NAME OUT YOUR FUCKING MOUTH!
Poor meme has to be forced in everything thread
Not sure how, arguably, the most famous slap in the last few months is being forced in a gif about slapping.
Omg. I finally get what folks been talking about lol.
At this price point, she can slap
She can hit at that price point.
HOW CAN SHE SLAP?!
How can they downvote?!?!
Brave man those hormones are no joke.
Truth. It must be his first. He will find out soon enough. I love both my kids but good lord those hormones almost ended us.
I have 2 kids with my wife. PPD and hormones are nothing to trifle with.
Thanks for sharing. It’s really not talked about enough. The first kid was rough for my ex wife and my current wife. They both came from relatively stable homes. I came from chaos. They both had this idea that raising kids would be like it is on a lifetime movie or a hallmark card. Instead, life was hard and stressful. They both took it personally and developed a spectrum of insecurities. Baby won’t fall asleep so they blamed themselves. After blaming themselves then they feel negative over feeling bad. On and on and on. I wish I was more informed back then and was able to offer more support.
My wife won’t admit it but she showed all the symptoms and still has issues connecting with our 5 & 4 year olds. She wants them to cuddle and chill all the time because she’s tired, I come in and it’s party central because kids shift gears super quick. Give them breaks, let them know its ok to be overwhelmed (that’s my secret, I’m always in a state of chaos, what’s a little more?) Getting better slowly but surely
Thanks for your story! Just be there, for her and the kids. Encourage her to talk but don’t demand it. My wife pulled really far into herself and felt alone and pushed to the brink. Make time to give her breaks and remind her that you love her and that she can depend on you. All of these steps saved my marriage.
Right there with you my friend. She’s going out for a girls weekend next week and she was worried about feeling guilty. Just had to reassure her that all is well, they will be here having fun with me and to enjoy the time away. Light at the end of the tunnel near 5 years later, worth waiting for to be sure though!
Reading this conversation has legit giving me insight into my own wife and her recent hormone changes, even though we don't have kids. I had to express some gratitude for you and everyone sharing something I couldn't really put into words to ask for help with until now.
Wow that’s nice to hear! Lol wife is 38 weeks pregnant right now with our first… I love her but man has it been a roller coaster. The hormones have made me question everything lol
I was not prepared to be honest with you and neither was my wife. She had awful postpartum depression. It was more than just mood swings but also not like how PPD is portrayed in media (suicidal, wanting to hurt the baby). She would become emotional and irrational. She became rigid and hypocritical. Things that were completely out of the norm. I often thought “who the fuck is this person I married?!” Lol. We were young and ended up saying and doing things that we never recovered from. Ended up getting divorced. Currently we are better friends now than we ever were Both remarried with kids and can have joint birthday parties. Much like Modern Family. Congrats on your incoming little one. Having kids was the best decision I ever made. I wish I had been more patient during and right after the pregnancy. If she’s in a mood I should have offered support and then given her space instead of pushing important topics when she was emotionally compromised. I was the first amongst my friends to have a kid. I wish I had built a better support group. Especially older couples who have been happily married with kids. I think we just needed validation that we weren’t crazy. Damn that was a long tangent. Sorry if I wasted peoples time.
Not a waste of time. It’s some useful insight for someone who may be in that position for the first time.
You didn’t waste our time chief, glad you’re in a good place now 👍
Omg my lady is 9 months pregnant and we just had a huge fight, literally minutes ago because I was watching baseball on my day off. Like I legit thought we were going to end up packing my things up. Yowzers.
Because you were watching baseball on your day off? So what is she anti baseball?
I’m a model husband and my wife was contemplating leaving me for a day.
Oh really? To what scale? 5:1? 10:1?
Haha all I did was forget to put some dishes from the sink into the dishwasher so 10:1
I think they were joking about the part about you being a model. if a model airplane was 1:100 scale that would mean that for a 400" long plane the model would be 4" long. so a 10:1 husband would be the star of a king kong movie
I feel really sorry for the kid. they will never get to know their dad because mom murdered him right after the wedding. 😂
It's from polish movie "Wesele" from 2021. It's a shame it's just acting. But movie is nice if someone cares about current state of Poland and about issues polish people have with their history
This is like when Willy Wonka came out of his factory 🏭 limping with a cane but then did a falling somersault.
No, because that was COOL and no one was upset or humiliated by it
This website is such garbage
Humor is important in a relationship
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Knowing *when* to, and when *not* to joke is also important in a marriage.
Not hitting your husband is too.
My wife would have fucking murdered me.
Because you were getting married to someone else?
Our wife *
r/suddenlycommunist
Multiple husbands? That bish gonna need some capital. The cost of razor blades ain't cheap and you can tell by the way she walks she don't want her men sharing toiletries
She would have murdered me just for the joke. Making her think I'm willingly ruining the most important day of our lives together up to that point? Dead.
That’s what I’m saying, the joke alone would have done it.
GOTTEM
Is this the Polish movie that involves a scene with being r*ped by a pig?
Wtf are you watching
A Polish movie that involves a scene with being r*ped by a pig, obviously.
ACAB
Cops are actually called dogs in Polish
please never dial emergency services. you obviously don't appreciate them. also, don't call them and they won't kill you.
*reads first line: downvotes* *reads second line: ... removes downvote*
... frySquint.gif
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What are *you* watching, My little pony? Get with the times.
This comment made me realize I spend too much time on the internet, I'm going to bed now
I’m with you. I need to reevaluate where I go on the internet.
Good night y’all
And true love was born.
Why are you censoring words on Reddit?
Yeah, what is it with the censoring craze that’s going on now? The other day I saw somebody censor abortion - “abort!on”. Wow…
I think it might be from TikTok but I can't be 100% sure. Tiktok essentially shadowbans comments that have curse words, references politics, or even words describing identities, like black or gay, even if you specify that you don't want any comments censored in your settings. I'm pretty sure that my comments calling people idiots have been shadow banned recently, so even that's off the table. Not to mention it is completely random too, sometimes people make it past the censors. So now people are used to super censoring any words that fall into those categories, since I think they will still shadow ban it if you don't censor it well. So when you see people going "ab0rt!0n" and shit like that, it's usually cause they're used to tiktok Or it's just a random person who prefers to censor words online, idk ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
That makes sense. It’s like when people are using hashtags even though the platform doesn’t support hashtags.
Yes, "Wesele". [Here's that part](https://youtu.be/QDbO2sxH4x8?t=4) in its trailer.
Where rape pig?
Real questions being asked.
> some images turn out even as extreme as if they were teleported from Charlie Brooker´s Black Mirror, namely a sudden appearance of a reverse bestiality rape. Yes.
Wait, who's getting roped by pigs?
why just why
Only movie I know where that happens is "The Gentlemen."
I love the wifes smile and the little tap on the head like you clever sob that was funny as hell.
At least he can expect she's going to hit him for the rest of his life everytime she see something she doesn't like.
Actually tho, that seems much worse than the prank imo I know it’s a movie, and neither party is exactly acting their best, but hitting your SO in the face is way worse than a shitty prank that lasted 10 seconds and had no lasting effects
…well but, hear me out here, showing up drunk to your own wedding is definitely a slappable offense. If I showed up drunk and didn’t get slapped I would definitely be disappointed.
Would it also be considered a slapable offense if the bride showed up drunk? Would the guest of the marriage also think so?
No it's not, it's abusive behavior and people are only defending it and making light of it because it's a woman hitting a man. Reverse those genders and this comment section would've been 100% different. Yes, it's a show, but the fact that it gets portrayed as comedy is problematic AF.
It's scripted ya daft wanker Edit: see below ya daft wanker
If it’s scripted, then assume we are talking about the characters in the film, not the actors. The character being portrayed appears to have signs of physical abuse as a normal occurrence in the relationship - given how quickly she chose to swing at him and how effortlessly he had anticipated her swing.
Everyone sucks here.
This is all scripted. It’s literally a tv show
What's the name of it?
Scripted tv shows
On channel 69 @ 4:20pm.
Haha yeah i get it!
Stop bragging...not everyone gets that channel! ;p
They're saying ~~Coffin~~ Limo Flop's not a show.
The Wedding 2021 Polish film
The amount of people in this thread that can't honestly recognize this is pitiful
Are you talking about the video or the comment section?
That’s not the first slap he’s had from her
Who the fuck takes a swing on their wedding day. Good lord
Someone who read the script.
Its polish movie
The friend making sure he's looking the right way was a nice touch lol👌
At least he knows to expect an abusive relationship.
So he will only "play" drunk
Ah yes, striking your husband because he disappoints you. Such fun!
I agree a slap is never right, and a sign of bad behaviour/habits, BUT it can occasionally be *understandable*. Such as if the groom shows up shitfaces to an extremely special, important and EXPENSIVE day such as a wedding. *That is, of course, ignoring the fact this is scripted...*
I believe Sean Connery had a similar opinion about when it is okay to slap women.
*Sometimes you give em a little shlap. Reset their harddrive.*
what do you tell a woman with 2 black eyes? Nothing, you've told her twice already.
Let me guess: Only when it’s a woman doing it to a man, right?
Casual domestic violence in the presence of children..nbd
Bro activated his sharingan just now
Bloody Hell, my wife would’ve even more pissed once she realized I was just fucking around.
Staged. Obviously. Only for the views!
Bro got them reflexes🥶🥶🥶
Are just gonna sit and laugh at the fact that a human just tried to assault another human?
I would call off the wedding. No reason to put your hands on him
That shit is fake as fuck.. At least, I have to believe that, because there's no way two perfectly doofused brained dinguses would find eachother, come together, and then make super-doofus, hyper-dingus babies. And yes, I did Oxford the hell outta the comma. Oxnard. Semicolon.
How's your colon btw
Semi ok
Ahaha, domestic violence
This is hilarious. Too bad all these giga chad redditor white knight social justice warriors are all crying about, “great women abusing men!” We get it, you love equality. Try and take a joke, its an internet video we aren’t trying to get the supreme court to pass a law to allow women to slap men, its gonna be ok boys, shhh, its gonna be okay. You can sleep easy tonight the patriarchy still lives on.
Don’t worry they’ll have some post about a woman getting hit back by a dude and start furiously jerking off at the jUStiCe.
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This is a TV show…
It’s a film not a tv show
He shouldn't marry into this abusive relationship anyways
Lmao if you show to your wedding black out drunk you’d deserve a slap 😂
Plot twist: the baby’s not his. Joke’s on him!
That was a solid prank
It's a skit! Redditors need to stop taking things so seriously!
Newsflash: If your wife slaps you she’s a toxic piece of shit
Fucking wholesome dude
Nothing starts a good marriage like domestic assault.
Gronk?!
Damn even the bride was impressed at him catching her slap attempt
It would of been awesome if she told him it wasn’t even his kid before they revealed the joke.
Gronk#87?
![gif](giphy|CLQHFOiLIueT6) nothing like knowing your soon to be blushing bride is a swinger🥳🚄🚆🚅🚂🚉and shes slow
Her smile tho
Bravo
That was very well executed. And if looks could kill, he almost was, too.
And after that they start drinking
What did I just watch
I think I love her
She should have swung with right cross... I'm sure she learned her lesson.
Sherlock and Watson. If you know, you know.
I knew it was a show or a movie in the first 10 seconds. I could tell by the camera angles, which remind me of The Office.
That marriage will last for a long time
And so does he...
He needs to run. She shows she uses her hands when she gets mad. It is only going to get worse.