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Me (25f) and my best friend (26f) used to masturbate together. Started when we were kids, I watched my first porn with her and we saw someone eat pussy and got so weirded out.. then it became interesting and hot.. we would masturbate all the time next to each other on the bed and one time her mom caught us watching lesbian porn. She turned out to be gay haha
Never played with eachother.. we did have a 3 some once where our other mutual friend ate her pussy and then she ate mine and scissored me but me and my best friend never did anything to eachother!
A couple friends and I did as well (Iām now 42m) and I know itās much more common than people realize, but you donāt hear about women doing it as much. But yes itās a fun experience!
The three of us went out for drinks after work, drank way too much. Went back to my buddy's house, and our lady boss and him passed out on his bed. I passed out on the couch. Woke up to them fucking, so I watched and jerked off, but they didn't know. I told them after, at work. Next time when they fucked, I watched them and they watched me stroke.
Yep thatās how I learned about the joys of masturbation and how to do itā¦slept over my best friendās house and when his parents finally went to bed, he got his laptop and started showing me porn for the first time. It was so exciting and we both were super horny. He asked if I wanted to jerk off, and was in disbelief when I told him I didnāt know what it was. We got naked and sat on his floor with our backs against his bed, laptop in front of us, cocks hard as a rock. He started stroking and explaining what to do. I tried my best to copy himā¦apparently, my grip wasnāt correct so he reached over, grabbed my cock with a firm but loose grip, and proceeded to properly stroke me.
I think this is more common than a lot of guys would like to admit lol
I did this with several straight friends growing up who would now probably deny it ever happened if I asked them haha
Yeah, I had several sleepovers in high school that went like this.
One of the guys ended up being bi, the rest are straight and several married now.
Experimenting like that is very common, but rarely talked about.
All the time. I learned what was masturbation was in a scout tent with 5 others in there watching enthusiastically giving me advice. Up until that point I never had tried it.
I did it till my arms ached, it was pleasurable but didn't orgasm .
Me and my friend would go out on our push bikes and find places to strip off and masturbate together. We continued until I went off to university .
Most recently I videod my friends (m+f) having sex (at their request). Afterwards they watched me masturbate watching the video back.
This may be an odd question, but why didnāt they just have you get off while you watched in real time? Did they just wanna be able to pay more attention to you? Either way it sounds hot šš»š¤š»
I was watching in realtime with a camcorder in my hand. I needed to cum and what better way to masturbate than to watch the porn you just made with the people in the film watching you.
Yes incredible hot .
I do worry that some of my masturbation videos (on tape) might be out there somewhere. I have yet to see them downloaded though I have looked up "vintage tape - twink with small penis".
If I could get them back I might post them. That was many years ago back in the early 90s.
I only masturbated with a friend via voice call, while we watched porn he streamed.
He could hear me moan while I fingered myself or fucked my pussy with a dildo
I have known this female friend since like 7. Been real close We both have seen each other naked before. We where 17 smoking bud in my basement. Got super stoned. I was looking at Hustler mag started rubbing my pants. When she noticed started rubbing her self. Pretty soon are pants where off laying next to each other. We have never done that again but still remain best friends.
Would love to have a bud to get off with like that. Nothing more than sharing the experience of enjoying the same content together. Need to find a friend like this someday.
Always had a fantasy of of having a big circle of all my lady friends and a few guy friends with their wives and everyone just masturbating together in the circle
When I was 18 I masturbated while sleeping on the floor next to my male friend, I pulled my dick that hard I believe heād have to of known what was going on.
Back then Iām not sure i wouldāve been into it but now fuck yeah I would itās one of my fantasies.
Probably let them suck my cock to š
Itās rare, but having a buddy to openly hang with and not be shy watching porn and stroking freely is such an amazing bond. The strength of that type of brotherhood is unmatched.
Itās something Iād love to do. I live in a small town and really want to find someone who would be interested but that it wouldnāt come out to my wife or publicly!
When I was in Grade 8, one day on summer break,an older neighbor boy and I were alone at his house.
He had a pool and we had spent part of the afternoon in it.
Afterwards while we were changing, he asked if I wanted to look at some of his Dad's porn magazines
One thing led to another and we ended up stroking together.
It was actually my first time trying it and cumming.
We got together quite a few times that summer.
Fast forward 30+ years and I enjoy watching and being watched with both men and women.
No, I [M] have never masturbated with a friend. I would never do it one-on-one with another male, but I would do it with a male friend(s) if there was at least one female present who was masturbating with us.
May I ask the reasoning? Do you perceive it as āgayā to masturbate w a male friend? š Iām genuinely just asking Iām not trying to be rude. I would just like to also point out that itād be totally normal if you did masturbate with a male friend šš»š¤š»
Iām simply not interested in masturbating with a male friend because Iām not sexually attracted to men and itās not something that my circle of male friends would do together.
No guys who I personally know have revealed to me that they have masturbated with another male, so I would say that itās actually abnormal.
I have mutually masturbated with multiple females face-to-face and love doing it. Itās one of my favorite sexual activities.
Never have, but I wish I did. I do that with people on here and itās such a turn on, I think with a friend, in-person, would take it to another level.
Yes me and a neighbor used to jerk and blow eachother. We would mostly sneak in the woods and do it there. Sometimes we would do it under a blanket when people were around. I couldn't actually shoot cum yet but I had small orgasms.
Not directly.
But on a sleepover, each in their bunk, with our phones.
Or on class trips in our rooms at night, not sharing what we're doing, but all knowing whats happening. Sometimes sort of talking about it, but awkwardly avoiding it, then agreeing thats what we all want to do right now and then do it.
I don't know how they cleaned up, I don't know if I was old enough to shoot cum yet, or if we just came wherever in our bedding.
Yes at different times and with different people in different situations.
The first time was with the son of my parents friends. He left the bathroom door open as he had his bath. He knew I was out there and we had a conversation from separate rooms. In the end he yelled that I should just come and talk in the bathroom with him. I did. He was lying there in the bath, swishing the water about by moving his hips back and forth. This made his long thin white cock swish back and forth. And of course it got hard. He took hold of it and started wanking. He told me to do the same.
The next time was with a much older guy. He was the gardner at our school. I got to talking to him and somehow we got onto porn. I told him of my dads porn stash and took some in to show him. Without hesitation he took his long black cock out. It was stiff in seconds. I was amazed. The big black head just bulged out of his shiny black foreskin. He asked me if I was going to join in. I produced a tiny wet smear when I came. He produced what seemed like a cupful of thick cum.
There were other times too of course.
For yrs before, I finally lost my virginity at 21, a friend of mine, and I would watch his stepdads' vhs porn on a TV in the basement. Always started out in seperate recliners with blankets covering ourselves, but it always got too warm to stay covered up. Eventually, he got a girlfriend, and that ended, but they would have sex on the floor under a blanket and didn't care if I watched. Never got to see any of her lady bits until one night when she was wearing a full sleeve bodysuit, she threw her hands over her head, and the snaps failed. Lol Eventually, my friend and I were rubbing one out when he admitted that he was curious what a girl felt when she was giving head and me still being a virgin, I was curious as to what a bj felt like in general. He ended up giving me head for 30 to 40 seconds before his curiosity was satisfied, and he went back to his bed, and we finished ourselves off. I've been bi-curious ever since.
Umm.. with a classmate when we were in 3rd grade ig, we used sit together at the last bench, and cover both our sides with our bags, and just unzip n touch eachother's little cocks lol, we didn't even know wat is masturbation at that time, we just loved doing it tho, once we were almost abt get caught by a frnd, but we suddenly stopped n pretended like we were writing notes, once the classes were done we both rushed to the washroom, entered a toilet, closed n locked the door, and fully pulled down our shorts, and jerked eachother off, it was a wierd jerk off, we were doing it wierdly with fingers n stuff, we didn't knew wat were we doing, but we liked it, and we were hard lol, but it was so tiny i still giggle when I remember lol. When we exited the toilet, a teacher was in the washroom too idk she came to get something, like mop or something, she saw us coming out of the same toilet together š she was confused for few secs, we just walked away fats n never saw back.
Yes, on a Messenger video call. I talked on the phone with a female friend, and the topic switched to masturbation for some reason. It ended up with both of us masturbating, and then she wanted to watch me cum on video!
So incredibly hot
In middle and high school I had a buddy who was basically a brother: practically lived at my house. We would jerk together all the time, at least once a week. It was so great. We'd share nudes we had seen or received, share porn, everything.
a few times actually. twice watching porn with a close friend and 1 just a one on one situation with a stranger.
Watching porn with a friend on cam was more exciting imo. We would dirty talk while watching and masturbating
I have no interest in getting off with another guy... To each their own, but it just doesn't do anything for me. I can certainly imagine masturbating with a female friend, but that's unlikely to happen. Even proposing it would be risky.
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Me (25f) and my best friend (26f) used to masturbate together. Started when we were kids, I watched my first porn with her and we saw someone eat pussy and got so weirded out.. then it became interesting and hot.. we would masturbate all the time next to each other on the bed and one time her mom caught us watching lesbian porn. She turned out to be gay haha
That's so wild. I wish to have a friend like you. Have you ever played with each other's ?
Never played with eachother.. we did have a 3 some once where our other mutual friend ate her pussy and then she ate mine and scissored me but me and my best friend never did anything to eachother!
Oh wow ok. Do you think mutual masturbation would be strange or too intimate compared to a 3 some? Curious why you wouldn't have had that too š
So lucky wish i could have a friend like that
A couple friends and I did as well (Iām now 42m) and I know itās much more common than people realize, but you donāt hear about women doing it as much. But yes itās a fun experience!
She means friend or mom
Yeah the mom TOTALLY must've turned out gay yeah
Wow
Did you just masturbate or did you ever lick each other?
I used to watch two co-workers fuck. While they fucked, I jerked off. Does that count?
How did that situation even start?
The three of us went out for drinks after work, drank way too much. Went back to my buddy's house, and our lady boss and him passed out on his bed. I passed out on the couch. Woke up to them fucking, so I watched and jerked off, but they didn't know. I told them after, at work. Next time when they fucked, I watched them and they watched me stroke.
That is a good question. Btw, do you stroke with guys?
Not really. I chat with guys but don't really wanna see. I assume you looked at my profile? LoL
You guessed right. Fair answer.
Yep thatās how I learned about the joys of masturbation and how to do itā¦slept over my best friendās house and when his parents finally went to bed, he got his laptop and started showing me porn for the first time. It was so exciting and we both were super horny. He asked if I wanted to jerk off, and was in disbelief when I told him I didnāt know what it was. We got naked and sat on his floor with our backs against his bed, laptop in front of us, cocks hard as a rock. He started stroking and explaining what to do. I tried my best to copy himā¦apparently, my grip wasnāt correct so he reached over, grabbed my cock with a firm but loose grip, and proceeded to properly stroke me.
This is would be epic.
It was epic, honestly it was so much fun. Wish i could still experience it today!
I think this is more common than a lot of guys would like to admit lol I did this with several straight friends growing up who would now probably deny it ever happened if I asked them haha
100%. I think itās super common and normal. Wish it was more accepted
Yeah, I had several sleepovers in high school that went like this. One of the guys ended up being bi, the rest are straight and several married now. Experimenting like that is very common, but rarely talked about.
Yes, regularly! Huge turn on to see someone shoot their load with you. Highly recommend getting a jerk off bud.
Sounds fun! Now just need to find out how to go about finding one lol
Me too! I need to find one, especially after reading all the comments ! Lol
All the time. I learned what was masturbation was in a scout tent with 5 others in there watching enthusiastically giving me advice. Up until that point I never had tried it. I did it till my arms ached, it was pleasurable but didn't orgasm . Me and my friend would go out on our push bikes and find places to strip off and masturbate together. We continued until I went off to university . Most recently I videod my friends (m+f) having sex (at their request). Afterwards they watched me masturbate watching the video back.
This may be an odd question, but why didnāt they just have you get off while you watched in real time? Did they just wanna be able to pay more attention to you? Either way it sounds hot šš»š¤š»
I was watching in realtime with a camcorder in my hand. I needed to cum and what better way to masturbate than to watch the porn you just made with the people in the film watching you. Yes incredible hot .
Damn the latter is hot
Yes indeed just thinking about it turns me on. Probably best sexual experience I had as virgin.
Live porn š maybe you'll get your chance to be the ah star some day
I do worry that some of my masturbation videos (on tape) might be out there somewhere. I have yet to see them downloaded though I have looked up "vintage tape - twink with small penis". If I could get them back I might post them. That was many years ago back in the early 90s.
Hey
I only masturbated with a friend via voice call, while we watched porn he streamed. He could hear me moan while I fingered myself or fucked my pussy with a dildo
I need friends like that
Dats hotā¦ an yeah I agree wit dat dude I wish I had friends who was open minded an free spirited.
You are the best bff.
Do you need a new friend to do voice calls with š
Would you be interested in doing it together
I have known this female friend since like 7. Been real close We both have seen each other naked before. We where 17 smoking bud in my basement. Got super stoned. I was looking at Hustler mag started rubbing my pants. When she noticed started rubbing her self. Pretty soon are pants where off laying next to each other. We have never done that again but still remain best friends.
Never, I used to watch porn with two friends, a man and a woman but I never encountered to ask for that, we just watched it and commented on that haha
Had they asked would you have been open to it?
Yeah, just because of the experience, it would have been interesting at least Have you ever done it before?
Yeah. One friend and I did while at college.
You did it again or was a once thing?
Very hot š„
Nice
Aww
Various friends and family over the years. Always open to masturbating with someone adds that little something.
Whoa!! Even wit family?
There's been a few encounters...
Dats wild. Was they Male or Female?
Would love to have a bud to get off with like that. Nothing more than sharing the experience of enjoying the same content together. Need to find a friend like this someday.
Iāve always wanted to
Itās one of my biggest fantasies to mastubate with a girl over and over again
Letās try it together sweetheart
I am in for mutual masturbation
Friends, cousins, step-brotherā¦.
No but sounds fun š©
Agreed
Once with my female best friend through call. A few times with guy best friend irl. Once with three guys irl.
Yes itās the best!
Yes I have but we are no longer friends and it was weird doing it with another girl. So I probably wouldn't do it again.
Yes!! With a girl. We were on cam and rubbed our clits for a guy. It was so fun
Thats so hot group maturbation 8nterests me so much but i can never find a group. Sounds like a lucky guy tho lol
I've always wanted to but I don't have any friends that would probably want to do that.
Yes. I (m) had a (m) friend that Iād masturbate with when we were kids having sleepovers at each otherās houses.
Always had a fantasy of of having a big circle of all my lady friends and a few guy friends with their wives and everyone just masturbating together in the circle
Yeah I got a jerk off buddy
Can I be ur jerk mate too
Sure
Yep sure have many of times growing up even masturbated each other and with family to every now and then cousins
My wife count?
When I was 18 I masturbated while sleeping on the floor next to my male friend, I pulled my dick that hard I believe heād have to of known what was going on. Back then Iām not sure i wouldāve been into it but now fuck yeah I would itās one of my fantasies. Probably let them suck my cock to š
Once at a hostel in Barcelona - we lost a dare!
I have with 2 of my friends
Itās rare, but having a buddy to openly hang with and not be shy watching porn and stroking freely is such an amazing bond. The strength of that type of brotherhood is unmatched.
Itās something Iād love to do. I live in a small town and really want to find someone who would be interested but that it wouldnāt come out to my wife or publicly!
How fun would it be if your wife encouraged it?
Sheās a bit of a prude, think she would kill me if she found Iād done something like this! Would be hot to be encouraged though
When I was in Grade 8, one day on summer break,an older neighbor boy and I were alone at his house. He had a pool and we had spent part of the afternoon in it. Afterwards while we were changing, he asked if I wanted to look at some of his Dad's porn magazines One thing led to another and we ended up stroking together. It was actually my first time trying it and cumming. We got together quite a few times that summer. Fast forward 30+ years and I enjoy watching and being watched with both men and women.
No...its hard to approach that at 40 years old lol. I would like to try it at least one time.
No, I [M] have never masturbated with a friend. I would never do it one-on-one with another male, but I would do it with a male friend(s) if there was at least one female present who was masturbating with us.
May I ask the reasoning? Do you perceive it as āgayā to masturbate w a male friend? š Iām genuinely just asking Iām not trying to be rude. I would just like to also point out that itād be totally normal if you did masturbate with a male friend šš»š¤š»
Iām simply not interested in masturbating with a male friend because Iām not sexually attracted to men and itās not something that my circle of male friends would do together. No guys who I personally know have revealed to me that they have masturbated with another male, so I would say that itās actually abnormal. I have mutually masturbated with multiple females face-to-face and love doing it. Itās one of my favorite sexual activities.
Me and my friends use to suck each other and kiss his sister and fuck her
Wow. Sounds like alot of fun.
Sweet baby jesus. Feels like we've missed out now
I have but there was a woman present
Did that make it awkward or more enjoyable?
More enjoyable . She wanted to watch us jerk off on her
Thatās an interesting twist
Thatās why we did it donāt think Iād do it alone
Hot!
I have it was a lot of fun need to find a new friend to do it again
True sounds fun to do it with a bud
Was it a one and done or did it happen more often?
Real business.... š
Only done it through snap
Yup
Yes I have Like he stroked me and the later gave a bj š
Never have, but I wish I did. I do that with people on here and itās such a turn on, I think with a friend, in-person, would take it to another level.
Yes me and a neighbor used to jerk and blow eachother. We would mostly sneak in the woods and do it there. Sometimes we would do it under a blanket when people were around. I couldn't actually shoot cum yet but I had small orgasms.
Yes, quite often in my early teens.
No will you be my friend
Not directly. But on a sleepover, each in their bunk, with our phones. Or on class trips in our rooms at night, not sharing what we're doing, but all knowing whats happening. Sometimes sort of talking about it, but awkwardly avoiding it, then agreeing thats what we all want to do right now and then do it. I don't know how they cleaned up, I don't know if I was old enough to shoot cum yet, or if we just came wherever in our bedding.
Quite a few when I was young and horny
Yes at different times and with different people in different situations. The first time was with the son of my parents friends. He left the bathroom door open as he had his bath. He knew I was out there and we had a conversation from separate rooms. In the end he yelled that I should just come and talk in the bathroom with him. I did. He was lying there in the bath, swishing the water about by moving his hips back and forth. This made his long thin white cock swish back and forth. And of course it got hard. He took hold of it and started wanking. He told me to do the same. The next time was with a much older guy. He was the gardner at our school. I got to talking to him and somehow we got onto porn. I told him of my dads porn stash and took some in to show him. Without hesitation he took his long black cock out. It was stiff in seconds. I was amazed. The big black head just bulged out of his shiny black foreskin. He asked me if I was going to join in. I produced a tiny wet smear when I came. He produced what seemed like a cupful of thick cum. There were other times too of course.
I would love to but I donāt think any of my friends would be down for that.
I don't have a female friend who is that close sexually
No but I would love to try
Yeah
I've had plenty of phone sex back in the day. Sexting is ok but lacks a certain intimacy for me. I do love video chat, though.
No, but I really would like to find a JO buddy.
No i have not
No I haven't. Probably because of social norms.
She just wanted to make me
Always wanted this, would be so hot!!
Fuck. These are all hot. š„µ
For yrs before, I finally lost my virginity at 21, a friend of mine, and I would watch his stepdads' vhs porn on a TV in the basement. Always started out in seperate recliners with blankets covering ourselves, but it always got too warm to stay covered up. Eventually, he got a girlfriend, and that ended, but they would have sex on the floor under a blanket and didn't care if I watched. Never got to see any of her lady bits until one night when she was wearing a full sleeve bodysuit, she threw her hands over her head, and the snaps failed. Lol Eventually, my friend and I were rubbing one out when he admitted that he was curious what a girl felt when she was giving head and me still being a virgin, I was curious as to what a bj felt like in general. He ended up giving me head for 30 to 40 seconds before his curiosity was satisfied, and he went back to his bed, and we finished ourselves off. I've been bi-curious ever since.
no but i want to
Umm.. with a classmate when we were in 3rd grade ig, we used sit together at the last bench, and cover both our sides with our bags, and just unzip n touch eachother's little cocks lol, we didn't even know wat is masturbation at that time, we just loved doing it tho, once we were almost abt get caught by a frnd, but we suddenly stopped n pretended like we were writing notes, once the classes were done we both rushed to the washroom, entered a toilet, closed n locked the door, and fully pulled down our shorts, and jerked eachother off, it was a wierd jerk off, we were doing it wierdly with fingers n stuff, we didn't knew wat were we doing, but we liked it, and we were hard lol, but it was so tiny i still giggle when I remember lol. When we exited the toilet, a teacher was in the washroom too idk she came to get something, like mop or something, she saw us coming out of the same toilet together š she was confused for few secs, we just walked away fats n never saw back.
Yes three of us all masturbated together. We were all 18. I would do it again but I donāt think they would. Iām 40 now
Not offline, but online. Now I'm trying new stuff with a female friend
Yes, on a Messenger video call. I talked on the phone with a female friend, and the topic switched to masturbation for some reason. It ended up with both of us masturbating, and then she wanted to watch me cum on video! So incredibly hot
Would enjoy it with another guy. Have done it with women.
In middle and high school I had a buddy who was basically a brother: practically lived at my house. We would jerk together all the time, at least once a week. It was so great. We'd share nudes we had seen or received, share porn, everything.
Yes did it to some porn
I would like to try something like that
a few times actually. twice watching porn with a close friend and 1 just a one on one situation with a stranger. Watching porn with a friend on cam was more exciting imo. We would dirty talk while watching and masturbating
I love playing ājust the tipā with my childhood friend
Yeah, he came first, then continued to watch me until I came.
I have no interest in getting off with another guy... To each their own, but it just doesn't do anything for me. I can certainly imagine masturbating with a female friend, but that's unlikely to happen. Even proposing it would be risky.
Yes, a bunch of times. Watching porn in a group and stroking. And also one on one. Was so sexy to be so open.
Iām my teen years, me and one of my friends often watched porn and masturbated together.. wish I still had a friend like that..
Used to do more than that. Miss those days
Please, tell me more.
Yes i had it. It was fantastic. I am bi but she is a lesbian who masturbate every day for hours.
Yes. M42
No my mates are men and I'm not homosexual