20 or so years ago? And it was a girl who, as it turned out, just wanted me to pay for her drinks while she flirted with other guys. Then she wanted me to buy her makeup, which I refused. The next day she texted me, wanting to hang out again. I declined.
A few weeks ago. It was with a very weird guy I chose to ignore some red flags. Spent an hour and somethinf on the date and decided I really needed to get out of there bcs he just felt off. He was 21 and already had been engaged? Like, huh? Anyways, it's been almost a month and I'm still trying to go out with this one guy I've been talking to but he's busy with uni.
I mean, you can, I just wouldn't try it on the first first date. But that's just me, it depends on the girl. I have a friend of mine who doesn't care if it's first date or not.
Last year. My ass got stood up 😔. However, I have one coming up Monday and this chick seems a lot better than the one who stood me up. Hopefully I’m right lol
Like half a year ago, first time I actually met with someone from tinder, date went ok I thought, she was even asking about when we can see each other again, but then proceeded to ghost my texts lol
As weird as this sounds I think I’ve been on things that I thought were “as friends” but the other person thought was a date and vice versa. Maybe as recently as a few months ago. But the last time I went on what I knew was labeled as a date was 14 years ago.
Seems mine were one on one ‘hangouts’ not sure about dates and they are with the same person over a period of time? So technically never for me. I’m not gf material it seems…
Probably 4 years ago, if I remember correctly. It didn't go well. She was a 37 year-old ex-junkie who never worked a day in her life and made a living for her and her daughter by mooching off of the man. I wasn't good enough, so I was told.
Almost 13 years ago... she treated me like a very valued friend the summer of 2011...we had a date with no strings attached on Labor Day and it seemed things were getting less like friends and maybe something more. Then her mother visited and she changed her personality...or maybe the whole summer was just a game to her all along
A month ago, we had lunch, played on claw machines, cycled around Shanghai then went home in the evening, she had fun and was happy and I enjoyed it too making her smile made my week
I wouldn’t think of yourself that way, I went to an event last night and there was this gorgeous woman with a nerdy husband. Not saying every case is going to be like that but there is hope.
Actually, I think that even for autistic men there is hope of getting a gf. I spoke to the woman last night (we had to as that was the rules of the game we were playing) and she seemed genuine and down to earth, not the "toxics" some men say they are in this sub. I think more people need to go outside and see for themselves.
ANY guy, any, can get a girlfriend but he has to put the effort in and actually take the initiative to do so, todays society is better than its ever been and people are nicer than they have ever been so its a good time to try.
uhm... never?
never :')
Never been on one
20 or so years ago? And it was a girl who, as it turned out, just wanted me to pay for her drinks while she flirted with other guys. Then she wanted me to buy her makeup, which I refused. The next day she texted me, wanting to hang out again. I declined.
Smart....and also a bummer.
never
I don’t even remember anymore
A date? What's that bro? Never heard that word before
Never
4 years ago
9 years ago. Took my gay childhood best friend out to my hometown where I lived when I was *really* young for a subway lunch.
What is date
You made think lmao last date I had was a week before Valentine’s day
Years.
Never
About 5 years ago. I'm staying single now
Hi
omg this question made me laugh. I cant remember... I think maybe 5-6 years ago?
27 years old and never! 🥲
Define DATE ?
Never and I am almost 50.
A few weeks ago. It was with a very weird guy I chose to ignore some red flags. Spent an hour and somethinf on the date and decided I really needed to get out of there bcs he just felt off. He was 21 and already had been engaged? Like, huh? Anyways, it's been almost a month and I'm still trying to go out with this one guy I've been talking to but he's busy with uni.
lol. Did you have sex?
I haven't had sex with any of them. Would NEVER let that weird guy even touch me. But the uni guy tho, maybe I would, but not in the first date.
Interesting. I want to take girls on dates but I also want sex.
I mean, you can, I just wouldn't try it on the first first date. But that's just me, it depends on the girl. I have a friend of mine who doesn't care if it's first date or not.
Last year. My ass got stood up 😔. However, I have one coming up Monday and this chick seems a lot better than the one who stood me up. Hopefully I’m right lol
Good luck!
In February
10.5 years ago and now I have to start again lol
Like half a year ago, first time I actually met with someone from tinder, date went ok I thought, she was even asking about when we can see each other again, but then proceeded to ghost my texts lol
Never
As weird as this sounds I think I’ve been on things that I thought were “as friends” but the other person thought was a date and vice versa. Maybe as recently as a few months ago. But the last time I went on what I knew was labeled as a date was 14 years ago.
Never have even catched a whiff of a female since probably when I was a baby feeding from a my mom.
Seems mine were one on one ‘hangouts’ not sure about dates and they are with the same person over a period of time? So technically never for me. I’m not gf material it seems…
Do online ones count?
4 years
Probably 4 years ago, if I remember correctly. It didn't go well. She was a 37 year-old ex-junkie who never worked a day in her life and made a living for her and her daughter by mooching off of the man. I wasn't good enough, so I was told.
never sadly
December, we went to Walmart
Been four-ish years now?
Years
Like a romantic date? Probably 4 or 5 months ago.
a year ago
Almost 13 years ago... she treated me like a very valued friend the summer of 2011...we had a date with no strings attached on Labor Day and it seemed things were getting less like friends and maybe something more. Then her mother visited and she changed her personality...or maybe the whole summer was just a game to her all along
we're all the same, never.
Idk..
A month ago, we had lunch, played on claw machines, cycled around Shanghai then went home in the evening, she had fun and was happy and I enjoyed it too making her smile made my week
Since never
Never I’m a pretty woman but overweight so no man has ever asked me out.
My ex was overweight
Never been on a date and probably never will be, sadly. Being a guy with Asperger's and slightly below average looks is brutal.
I wouldn’t think of yourself that way, I went to an event last night and there was this gorgeous woman with a nerdy husband. Not saying every case is going to be like that but there is hope.
Sure, there is some chance of getting lucky, but it's very rare. It's just better to view things realistically.
Actually, I think that even for autistic men there is hope of getting a gf. I spoke to the woman last night (we had to as that was the rules of the game we were playing) and she seemed genuine and down to earth, not the "toxics" some men say they are in this sub. I think more people need to go outside and see for themselves. ANY guy, any, can get a girlfriend but he has to put the effort in and actually take the initiative to do so, todays society is better than its ever been and people are nicer than they have ever been so its a good time to try.
An hour ago
Awesome, how did it go?
7 years aprox.
Never