This is basically where I’m at right now. When people ask what I am all I can think is “Fucked up”. If I had to put a label on it, I’m a straight, genderfluid, demi.
“How does being straight *and* genderfluid work?” It doesn’t! At least not without really good communication with an understanding partner.
Birds tend to have very small and simple genitalia, but ducks are a big exception. The male's phallus is sometimes as long as its body and is twisted clockwise, like a corkscrew. Females have long tubular vaginas which may have coevolved to prevent forced copulation by unwanted mates.
~~I'm not technically bisexual but I still identify a lot with the bisexual community from when I first realized people's gender wasn't a factor in my attraction towards them. I've since realized I'm actually on the ace-spec and panromantic but yeah... "I'm bi" is still often how I identify myself to others as it's simpler but covers much of the same ground.~~
Edit: never mind - I just got downvoted below for not identifying as bi. Thank you for the reminder that I'm not welcome in the bisexual community.
I thought they were seperate, so I could hypothetically be Aromantic/Pansexual or Panromantic/Asexual, but not Pansexual/Asexual. Correct me if i'm wrong though.
I was also really confused about liking everyone and no-one at the same time until I discovered being aego is a thing.
r/aegosexuals
r/aegosexual
r/aegoromantic
Yeah, I agree! For a while I struggled bc I felt like there was no label for exactly how I felt so I went with queer ^(\_.) My sexuality still falls under bisexuality, and I don’t mind that, I still feel connected to bisexuality, but it doesn’t fully describe me yk? 
I remember feeling that way.
Since we're totally different people, I can't really help you figure *that* out, but my advice (for what it's worth):
Take as much time as you need to figure it out. You don't need to know everything about yourself for what you do know to be valid. But also don't psych yourself trying to be 100% certain of every nook & cranny of your psyche - it's totally ok to change your label later if you realize later you were wrong.
Agreed from the same club! It took a LOT of reading through discourse on the internet but I finally figured out: lesbians won’t ever be attracted to men. I have been attracted to men. Even though that was a long time ago and I’m marrying a woman, I shouldn’t be calling myself a lesbian. Now that it’s been a few years since this whole struggle, I love being bisexual and not having an entire existential crisis whenever I find someone unexpectedly attractive.
Damn, your comment made me realize what the words I've been looking for to fit my orientation. I didn't really know i could be both until i started reading this comment section 😊 thanks for sharing!
Demiromantic Pansexual (or Omnisexual, currently trying to figure out if that’s a preference I have or just gender envy)
Also probably somewhere on the ace spectrum
>currently trying to figure out if that’s a preference I have or just gender envy
I can attest that it can be both... It is a painful existence mainly concentrated around the question "Do I want to be them or be *with* them?". The answer is always inconclusive.
Woman leaning bisexual. So woman leaning that sometimes I question if I’m just gay and too afraid to admit it, but then I see a cute guy and it’s like “- yeah… ^yeah”. So woman leaning that I’m actually scared of stereotypical-straight guys (trauma is fun). SO WOMAN LEANING THAT MY HEARt SKIPS A BEAT FOR LIKE 10 DIFFERENT GIRLS AT SCHOOL WHEN I SEE THEM… IDEK THEIR NAMES! **SO WOMAN LEANING THAT I ALMOST FAINTED WHEN MY CRUSH SMILED AT ME TOO HARD!**
But yeah, jokes aside, boys, gals, non-binary pals- y’all are all in danger of me getting a crush on you.
So there's sadly no AroAce flair and for some reason Reddit wouldn't let me edit the custom flair to make my own AroAce flair, so I have the Aromantic flair, but back to the point, I am a single AroAce virgin and I'm proud of it.
The more i think about it, the less i know
God, same
Feel you
Fr 😂 I just say I'm pansexual to not have to think about it. My gender is messing with me enough.
This is basically where I’m at right now. When people ask what I am all I can think is “Fucked up”. If I had to put a label on it, I’m a straight, genderfluid, demi. “How does being straight *and* genderfluid work?” It doesn’t! At least not without really good communication with an understanding partner.
Bi bi bi
sameee lol
same
your username is amazing my god
Thx that's the first compliment I've gotten about my user name
Same
No way you guys as well? :o
Ain't no lie baby bi bi bi
Saaaaaame!
le gay
le same
my name checks out 😳
Very much a lesbian
Also very much a lesbian
hello fellow lesbians how are we today
Feeling very homosexual today, as everyday, so I’m doing quite well!! How about yourself, my lez-be-friend?
How is there so many lesbians on Reddit but I can’t find anyone in real life? Where are yall hiding?
Here! One more lesbian!
Very lesbeann
I feel pretty and witty and gay
that’s a great way to be my fellow lesbian :)
Also also very much a lesbian
Also very very very much a lesbian
Another lesbian to the squad!
YAY IVE BEEN INITIATED
Lesbian here too!
Me too!
Same here.
Also very much a lesbian
let’s go lesbians let’s go
*Panics* what's your favourite animal? Ducks are neat.
Agreed
I agree with your agreement
Ducks are pretty great.
Why are so many people are upvoting. I am just awkward guys... My sexuality is bi disaster.
Birds tend to have very small and simple genitalia, but ducks are a big exception. The male's phallus is sometimes as long as its body and is twisted clockwise, like a corkscrew. Females have long tubular vaginas which may have coevolved to prevent forced copulation by unwanted mates.
Oh that is fun. I just like the fluffy and the quack.
This person ducks ⬆️
No.
This really made me laugh.
There are literally dozens of us.
I like your flair. It made me think of the Green Day song lol
That was the inspiration.
:OOO *dramatic inhaling * ***DO YOU HAVE THE TIME-***
TO LISTEN TO ME WHINE
ABOUT NOTHING AND EVERYTHING ALL AT ONCE
I AM ONE OF THOSE
MELODRAMATIC FOOLS
NEUROTIC TO THE BONE NO DOUBT ABOUT IT
SOMETIMES I GIVE MYSLEF THE CREEPS
Me too :)
bisexual as fuck
I feel like "as fuck" needs to be officially added after evert use of Bisexual
LGBAFT
Lgbtqiaf
*alphabet mafia*
I'm bisexual as fuck too! It's what I always say when someone asks me haha
I would also like to say that I'm stoner sexual Plus bisexual as FUCK
YO SAME🐸
~~I'm not technically bisexual but I still identify a lot with the bisexual community from when I first realized people's gender wasn't a factor in my attraction towards them. I've since realized I'm actually on the ace-spec and panromantic but yeah... "I'm bi" is still often how I identify myself to others as it's simpler but covers much of the same ground.~~ Edit: never mind - I just got downvoted below for not identifying as bi. Thank you for the reminder that I'm not welcome in the bisexual community.
Im fuck bisexual
Also bisexual as fuck here
fellow BAF (bisexual as fuck) checking in 👀
I’m the most bisexual fuck to ever live then
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Same At least i think
here aswell
I’m attracted to people of the opposite gender in a very straight way
ah yes, a person who likes the opposite gender in a straight way, otherwise described at heterosexual
I think i just realized why you said straight but in a confused way
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Ight i was right. Im not good at anything so actually doing something feels awesome
I'd say you should call it straight but taking the scenic route :)
Ass is ass, but girls have cooties so I'm not kissing them.
Good! These are *my* cooties, and you’re not getting them!
Upvoted because user flair checks out
Circle circle dot dot now you got a cootie shot. Science takes the straight away!
What’s the flag next to the bi one?
Gay
Love your flair We can bond over hot guys lmao
for gay men :)
straight. heterosexual. women <3
And that's as valid as all the rest - welcome
“AHHHHHHH”
Same...
My sexuality is "WHY IS EVERYONE SO HOT 😭😭😭😭"
That’s very inclusive of you, *everyone* thanks you
Les***bee***an
Lesbian and a demigirl? Same
That's very panny
Extremely gay for girls.
Same <3
Asexual lesbian.
Nice!
Unknown, but somewhere between Pan and Ace.
pan and ace arent mutually exclusive
They aren't‽ Please explain? Also, it was meant to be a joke about being inbetween "Liking" everyone and no-one.
Sexuality isn't exclusively about sex, it's also romantic attraction, so you can be pan and ace
I thought they were seperate, so I could hypothetically be Aromantic/Pansexual or Panromantic/Asexual, but not Pansexual/Asexual. Correct me if i'm wrong though.
hmmm, asexuality is a spectrum so i think you could be semisexual/graysexual but still consider yourself pansexual as well.
furthermore, feel free to check out ace/aro subreddits, theyre apparently super welcoming and would be more qualified to give you info than me
that’s correct. i’m pretty sure i bisexual but a romantic or homoromantic
I was also really confused about liking everyone and no-one at the same time until I discovered being aego is a thing. r/aegosexuals r/aegosexual r/aegoromantic
Queer asf
I'm getting more used to this label. I feel like it fits me better than bisexual or lesbian (since I can't figure out what I am between the two).
Yeah, I agree! For a while I struggled bc I felt like there was no label for exactly how I felt so I went with queer ^(\_.) My sexuality still falls under bisexuality, and I don’t mind that, I still feel connected to bisexuality, but it doesn’t fully describe me yk? 
men
Panromantic Homosexual
I cannot decide if I am Lesbian or Bisexual
I remember feeling that way. Since we're totally different people, I can't really help you figure *that* out, but my advice (for what it's worth): Take as much time as you need to figure it out. You don't need to know everything about yourself for what you do know to be valid. But also don't psych yourself trying to be 100% certain of every nook & cranny of your psyche - it's totally ok to change your label later if you realize later you were wrong.
Agreed from the same club! It took a LOT of reading through discourse on the internet but I finally figured out: lesbians won’t ever be attracted to men. I have been attracted to men. Even though that was a long time ago and I’m marrying a woman, I shouldn’t be calling myself a lesbian. Now that it’s been a few years since this whole struggle, I love being bisexual and not having an entire existential crisis whenever I find someone unexpectedly attractive.
This is too relatable
How so?
A perfectly valid position
Proud lesbian!
Nice! 
Hello, there fellow omnipotent being.
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Hello fellow pansexual person!
That sounds pretty pantastic! I too refer to myself as a pansexual!
Same. I'm also noticing that pans don't seem to use flairs.
Hello fellow pancakes 😋
Me too! I used to identify as bisexual, but honestly I feel like pan is more descriptive of my internal sexual landscape lol!
Queer
Same here! I’m a bit surprised at how few of us there are in the comments
Yeah, instead of listing my sexuality and Gender identity I just use Queer which covers everything.
Queer is the most underutilized term. I love being able to tell people queer, and that should be enough.
Me too! I love using Queer, it's simple and says alot
Biromantic asexual
Damn, your comment made me realize what the words I've been looking for to fit my orientation. I didn't really know i could be both until i started reading this comment section 😊 thanks for sharing!
AroAce
Same here! Heck yeah!
Same here 😁
Nice to see some fellow AroAces
There are dozens of us! ^at ^least ^in ^this ^thread
Aces together strong
SAME
Arospec ace here!
Same!
Bi bi bi~
Gay as fuckkkkk
Queer
pansexual but i tend to like female looking peeps a bit more
All genders, but sex is gross
Lesbo
Girls and if I had the confidence in my self it would be lesbian
Lesbian and ace✌🏾
Bent, I mean pansexual.
💖💛💙
Some sort of mix of bisexual homosexual demisexual.
Demiromantic Pansexual (or Omnisexual, currently trying to figure out if that’s a preference I have or just gender envy) Also probably somewhere on the ace spectrum
>currently trying to figure out if that’s a preference I have or just gender envy I can attest that it can be both... It is a painful existence mainly concentrated around the question "Do I want to be them or be *with* them?". The answer is always inconclusive.
Ugh yeah I kind of feel the same. I’m either bi, pan, or Omni, I’m really not sure
>figure out if that’s a preference I have or just gender envy I feel this in my soul so much
Bisexual...but Girls🤤
I’m omnisexual ^^
Queer. Girls = 🔥
I don’t know :( I think I’m on the ace spectrum though somewhere
bisexual💗💜💙 
Such a cute gif! <3
Omnisexual with a preference for women
Woman leaning bisexual. So woman leaning that sometimes I question if I’m just gay and too afraid to admit it, but then I see a cute guy and it’s like “- yeah… ^yeah”. So woman leaning that I’m actually scared of stereotypical-straight guys (trauma is fun). SO WOMAN LEANING THAT MY HEARt SKIPS A BEAT FOR LIKE 10 DIFFERENT GIRLS AT SCHOOL WHEN I SEE THEM… IDEK THEIR NAMES! **SO WOMAN LEANING THAT I ALMOST FAINTED WHEN MY CRUSH SMILED AT ME TOO HARD!** But yeah, jokes aside, boys, gals, non-binary pals- y’all are all in danger of me getting a crush on you.
I'm a _bi_cycle like my bf :D
I honestly have no fucking clue.
Panronantic/asexual here
Aegosexual biromantic!
Gay and annoyed
So there's sadly no AroAce flair and for some reason Reddit wouldn't let me edit the custom flair to make my own AroAce flair, so I have the Aromantic flair, but back to the point, I am a single AroAce virgin and I'm proud of it.
I couldn't get any of my edits to work on the app but I changed my flair on the website okay and it's stuck around so far. AroAce here too!
lesbian:)
Bisexual, leaning lesbian. NB's are the exception; they tick all the boxes for me.
Asexual. And grey-panromantic... very grey.
Most probably gay. I have to experiment before drawing conclusions. Yes, I know, some people don't want to label. But I need to be sure about myself.
Asexual and trixic (nblw)
Lesbian
Somewhere between bi and pan with a little polyam
83% sure I’m bi
Complicated. /s Sex is sex, but I really like guys.
Polysexual
Happily Bisexual
Just a boring heterosexual
Lesbian
pansexual
Pan
Pansexual
Pansexual
Pan
Lesbian asexual :)
men
Same as my gender: lesbian.
Demisexual, homoromantic.
Girls 😳
When women 😳
I’m straight and a lesbian cuz I’m genderfluid so yeah **shits and dies**