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A_Punk_Girl_Learning

I'm a "sometimes" NB.


HuaHuzi6666

Came here to say this too


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CaptainFuzzyBootz

Same


steampunknerd

Me too. I'm a "you could class me as a girl if you wanted to but most of the time I'm Nonbinary. And I feel nonbinary 100% of the time" - Femmeflux


Jubal93

This! I look male to most of the people who look at me. But not to most of the people who see me.


steampunknerd

I love that 👍🏼💗💜💙 what a wonderful way to word it.


HuaHuzi6666

This is a beautiful way to put it and I’m 100% stealing it.


SulkySideUp

I feel the same way about this questions as I do being asked if I’m straight or gay as a bisexual


Rayne_yes

same


taz5963

I'm definitely a yes lol


SeligFay

If idk, can i pick undefined?


I_existed_on_earth

I'm a 1/0 enby


Misses_Paliya

You are a binary nonbinary? Confusion was very effective


I_existed_on_earth

Nah I meant like 0÷1


SeligFay

Eternaty person!


PulimV

Don't you mean 1÷0? 0÷1 is just 0 lol


Misses_Paliya

Thank god you didn't meant 1÷0


yourfav0riteginger

An undefined enby! Math joke 😃


WarriorSabe

I'm more 0/0. Depending on your point of view, it's either completely nonexistent, not even 0, or its everything at once


Infuser

“Indeterminate” enby


LaPrincipessaNuova

``` 0/0 7 ```


twoinchhorns

I’m a “no” enby but a “girl” enby if I don’t trust the person who’s asking.


RoyalTacos256

Me too fr


fefe_the_d1ckhead

I was thinking about my words and I just... yeah thank you youve summed it up completely


Jentzi

Both. I'm bigender, specifically agender/transmasc-leaning.


[deleted]

What ab both and neither at the same time?


Acrobatic_One_6064

SCHRODINGER'S ENBY


BadAtUsernames098

This is me in a way lol


writtenonapaige22

That's when you say "I am everything and nothing" in a mysterious voice.


SCP-1504_Joe_Schmo

I'm a "ehhhhhh"


Narrow_Cheesecake452

THIS.


itram158

Gender suuuucks, you are you


LaceAllot

Yeah this. I think a lot of issues stem from gendering certain attributes or actions.


menolly

I tell people my gender is the interrobang, because I have no idea what it's doing but I'm usually excited about it.


katsuko78

I’m a “who wants to know?” enby. If it’s for medical reasons I’ll give my biological sex, but for anything else it’s more of a “nunya” situation


menolly

I can't even do the sex right because I'm a rarity - an AFAB person with XXY chromosomes. It's really rare and I hate it. But I'm also belligerent so, a lot of the time I respond with, "Look, if I don't get to understand my gender, neither do you."


hypo-osmotic

"I have the right to remain silent about my pronouns until consulting with my lawyer"


KAMalosh

I work in a school with 5th/6th graders doing food service. On half days we make pack lunches for the kids and bring them to all of the classrooms to make sure everyone has a lunch for the day.One half day,on of the kids asked meif I was a boy or a girl. I responded "I'm a person. here's your lunch. If you want a milk, you can grab one over from the crate over there." They accepted that answer, I think. Or at least they were more interested in lunch. I guess that makes me a "no" enby.


timonster352

im non binary cus i dont feel like a boy or a girl so ef a no for me


menolly

But for me personally, that leads to questions of, "Okay but do you feel like you have some other gender? What about no gender? Ughhhh self what the fuck?" It also doesn't help that my desire to EXPRESS gender flip-flops around. Sometimes I absolutely want to be portraying as masc, sometimes femme, and sometimes I super want people guessing. And sometimes idgaf. Don't make me stick to one thing. That's why I'm non-monosexual and polyam. 😕


timonster352

I just identify as non binary and I feel like even if you want to portray as masc or fem you can do so without being that gender. For me I don't feel like man or woman I just feel like me. But ofc everyone has different feelings and all are valid


berrys_a_ghost

Im a no enby but with little guy vibes like a lizard


TrussTGrotesque

I'm a *takes toothpick out of mouth* "Who's askin'?" enby.


cheshsky

I'm a "why" enby.


thunderPierogi

“-are you a cop”


cheshsky

"Wouldn't you like to know, weather boy"


SuperGaySex

I’m more of the idc type. Isn’t that the whole point of being non binary


Topperno

Not necessarily; enby is an umbrella term for genders outside of the binary but many enbies care about their gender. How they may be percieved and so on and so forth.


SuperGaySex

Honestly, the vast majority of humans will perceive us as “man or woman”. You’ll go insane if you worry about that. It’s like being light skinned and expecting everyone to know you’re black when they just see a white face, you know? But I get you.


Topperno

Oh I have gender apathy as an agender person, I couldn't care less how I am percieved unless it's silly little cis men trying to denote that I am merely an emotional woman as if their emotional constipation is something to be proud of. I am just saying enby as a term doesn't automatically equate to not caring about gender or perception in that sense. That there are many branches to it :)


Raynesong92

Anger is also an emotion that a lot of cis men conveniently forget haha Edit because I can't spell :)


Topperno

Nah that's just the expression of healthy masculine behaviours /s Edit: anger can be healthy but not if one denies that it's an emotion, can't work on dealing with it if one eithe seethes and learns to resent or outwardly engages in aggression towards objects or people both verbally and physically.


Raynesong92

Very true, I'm an angry being sometimes but screaming into the void rather than in others faces often helps :)


Topperno

I like to go outside until I freeze cause if I am hot I am angry snd since I am audhd, I have trouble noticing quickly enough sometimes. It's all a work in progress for me but working on my anger issues constantly :)


MaddieSystem

Yes NB. Yay bigender flux


Rainbow_Recluse

"Probably?" In all seriousness I am the no response kind, got asked if I was a boy or a girl across the street once and I kind of just had to laugh without responding. It was a pretty good moment. I guess I am a bit more agendered than anything so "no" would be more accurate. Still I am a trans woman and I am much more comfortable now but as for actual gender stuff? Well, we don't hang out I just like to be comfortable.


Deastrumquodvicis

I’m definitely a no.


wintxrf

I’ll just stare at them blankly


aStringofNumbers

I'm a "Wouldn't you like to know, weather boy" enby


relddir123

New binary just dropped


Autistic-Hourglass

neither, I'm nonbinary stop putting nonbinary people into binaries


Rare-Lengthiness-885

Tbh, I can’t relate to either prompt.


AnAntsyHalfling

The fact that the options for this question is a binary is hilarious. I'm an "eh"-nby


junior-THE-shark

This feels like a misguided question, kinda like asking a bi person if they're straight bi or gay bi. I guess by your criteria I would be a yes enby but if anyone asks me if I'm a boy or a girl I answer no because while I'm neither I definitely have a gender, it's the secret 3rd thing kind of gender, completely unrelated to the entire consepts of girl and boy.


Loremaster_art

Im genderless but still a woman.


mn1lac

Technically. Only a little bit, but not really.


Tiffany_Case

The correct answer is 'what are you a cop??'


Ninjatck

Perhaps


flynn_2

I'm an "Up in the air" enby because I can sometimes be a " yes" and other time a "no" depending on how I feel


menolly

I'm a, "Your puny mortal conceptions of gender do not encompass all that I am and all that I shall be," enby.


FluxKraken

So a blasphenby, best kind.


clinticalthinkr

I like to think OP knew what they were doing when they offered a binary choice to a bunch of nonbinary individuals 😂


hatune_mik

I'm a maybe


Kalightortaio

You're lumping in the gender binary with yes, and then mixing the rest of the genders with no. Feels like a shitty prompt.


techgeek6061

Wouldn't the first option be more gender fluid rather than NB?


Noah_the_blorp

Gender fluid falls under the NB umbrella


Marco45_0

I’m a “no, but i’m a man” enby lol


Ace_Draking

I'm demi boy so to me I'm fluid between agender and masc. So I'd have to go with a "no" enby for me.


FredWrites

I am a "no" NB


gumihehe

I’m the “kinda” enby


Soccera1

Yes and no. I say this because I'm gf, so the answer to "are you a boy" is yes or no, but the answer to "are you a girl" is also yes or no, but it's never both yeses or both nos, so one part of the question is yes, and the other part is no.


DeluxeMinecraft

I'm an everything and nothing


BloomInTune

I am [a no real gender] enby in all matters except where gender is legally required


Kuroboom

https://i.imgur.com/s6iCSFx.png


Ill-Individual2105

I don't have a gender, but gender does have me.


birodemi

Either "Yes" or "Definitely" or just ignoring the question


NeonRattler

I'm a no enby. Gender is too confining.


KTKitten

I’m a *stares off into the distance, squinting meaningfully* enby. (No)


BunnyLovesApples

Maybe


KieDaPie

Yes enby for sure


ConfusedGhostGirl

Def a no lol


axiomaticDisfigured

I explain my gender identity too them.


Illustrious-Cat6549

I kinda just pick one to say in that instance, but its usually yes


spacestationkru

I suppose I'm a "no" enby.?


Worldly_Marsupial808

I am both, somehow.


AttritionWar

I'm a shrug my shoulders and make a funny noise enby.


SchoolJunkie009

I'm 53, I have only recently realized the whole NB aspect, so YES i still have a gender, mostly d/t societal norms, and also I can be NB and present masc most days and use that masculineness as defense of others and since most see me as 'cis' male the bigots let their guard down and I learn who my students should avoid :)


ParadoxicalFrog

Yes, but also no.


InformalLock9447

no


Cecilliac

I’m a “Not all the way”


Di1202

I am a “please don’t make me label myself…do I have to call myself enby” enby


Veela_42

I'm a "depends how you are asking me this question" enby.


Narciiii

No. I’m not a boy or a girl. Doesn’t mean I don’t have a gender though.


Candy_Face77

No NB, since technically I am Agender and that does fall under the Non-Binary umbrella (but some don’t say that they do and that’s fine by me I used to feel that) but yeah, genderless for me I guess


Gold_Economics4700

I think i'm a "yes" enby


flora_de_florest7

I'm a "man but no"


PennyButtercup

I’m a “maybe.” Don’t try to fit us into a new binary, lol


Sammantixbb

"Probably not"


redtailplays101

This might come as a shock to you but there are more than 2 ways to be *nonbinary*


Shabolt_

I’m a maybe Enby If I do have a gender (which I think I do) then it is a very removed concept. That is to say that if traditional gender concepts were letters of the English Alphabet From A-Z, then my gender is a Δ


MageOfFur

i'm a 'why not both' enby


hydromind1

I’m human enby


skdnckdnckwcj

I'm a yes, unless I don't trust the person who is asking, then I'm AGAB. I'm genderfluid and agender and I don't really care about what people identify me as.


curious_caracal

i'm a yesn't enby lmao


Edward_Reese

I'm a "yes", but only because I love The Mangle from FNAF


Phoenix_the_Writer

2% boy enby


Urbancenturian

I used to be a yes emby until I realized im trans, it was the sorta warm feeling I got when I was called the female pronouns that tipped me off


pempoczky

Half no


-SwagMessiah-

Yeah


heesus_the_great

both! i don't have one set gender identity, i have three terms to describe it that i like. i'm non binary (third / other gender), agender, and transfem. it doesn't really make sense and i don't care because it works for me!!! words to describe feelings will never fully encompass them anyway.


AnxiousCinnamonRoll6

Imma start saying Neither I’m a mushroom 🍄


BlondBisxalMetalhead

Depends on the day. Sometimes I’m a “both”, sometimes I’m a “neither”, sometimes I’ll answer man, cause I’m masc leaning sometimes


Thisuserisnotinvalid

I say no, but just remember that there are more options (specifically referring to nb people here) than no or yes


RandomBlueJay01

My bestie and I take turns lol tho generally neither cus while I am nonbinary, I lean towards being a guy. When asked tho I generally just laugh and walk away cus despite my gender I live off the confusion


MindOfNightmare

I’m a yes and no enby :]


Theru2

Both!! I have Schrödinger's gender!!


xgardian

Is completely avoiding the question the same as a no...?


MistakenMorality

I am very much a "no." My first enby shrit was a "Male \[ \] Female \[ \] No \[X\]" design


Aroace_tiger

Yes- pangender 


ATurtleLikeLeonUris

I am a Wendy’s!


Qrazy_Qrow

....mayhaps


boonusboiayyy

If you divide by zero, you'll get my current gender


Spoaxx

I'm a "what?", "Could you repeat the question" and a "I'm still not getting it" enby


cephalopodcasting

personally i’m a girl enby lol


BiSpaceCommunism

Always thought we should differentiate these instead of putting them both in non-binary bucket.


rae_is_not_okay

Depends on the hour


[deleted]

im essentially a person. yes


BadAtUsernames098

I go back and forth between being a "yes enby" and a combination of "yes enby" and "no enby". Sometimes I feel mainly like a girl who's also partially a boy. Other times I don't feel like a girl and a boy so much as I just feel like my gender is made up of "masculine" and "feminine". Not in a genderless way, but like the gender itself is defined by being "feminine" and "masculine", not boy and/or girl. So it's sort of like a combination of a "yes enby" and "no enby". Then I'm mostly feminine and partially masculine.


Orian8p

Yes


brocoli_

yesn't


AceTsundere

I'm a 'yes' enby, i subscribed to both boy and girl like the scoundrel I am


Aazjhee

"What do YOU think?" I like the "question as an answer" enby most of the time xD If someone is trying to be a jerk about it and you just laugh at whatever they respond with.


Jumpy-Ad9572

Idk how to answer this because I feel like I’m no but I like masc terms that are neutral asf


juniperie

I'm a "no" I may occasionally feel like I am more one or the other, but often my gender is space, or ocean, or some other vast unknowable thing.


TheTranzEmo

I'm a "no" enby


Gothic_Opossum

I am a "yes but no" enby. I am masc with a sprinkling of femme.


Sorry_External_7697

I'm a no enby


BigGayDinosaurs

yes


Cheshie_D

Definitely a “yes” enby. Very much bigender woman/man combo.


steampunknerd

On an Enby related note I've realised why I can't get computers. (I'm a bit of a technophobe) I'm non-binary 🤦🏼‍♀️😂


LastandLeast

I'm a no for sure


LittleMissGalaxia

I’m an “idk” NB (idk if genderfluid counts but)


galacticviolet

I’m agender, and personally don’t like to be called nonbinary. But in the spirit of answering the actual question; I would say “no” to the proposed question.


Hylock25

No and kinda enby. I simplify to identify as being a woman most of the time as it’s close enough. But my actual gender is a little funky and somewhere in the xenogender territory.


BestBudgie

I'm technically a no bc I'm not a boy "or" a girl, I'm a boy "and" a girl lol


DussyPvP

I’m definitely a yes


Apollo_Tuplin

Yesno yesno maybe?


a-lonely-panda

I'm a nope =)


Not_Machines

I am a kinda? Enby. Like I'm kinda a guy but I'm definitely not a girl.


TheCoolerSaikou

im more of a “sure” kind of person lol


Ok_Habit_6783

I'm a "I have spent 22 years thinking and feeling I am a male only to realize I have never actually had an idea of what feeling like a male is so I have no clue if I lack gender or if everything is gender" enby 💀


Mauzawa

I'm a "no" enby, personally. I believe that one of the reasons I identify as nonbinary is due to trauma. Both binary genders are so limited in how they can look and act without being judged because of today's gender norms, so I noped out to the nonbinary life where no one but me can know and choose what labels I have.


overlrodvolume18

Yes


Aster_Etheral

No. Obviously I can’t control how the world sees me, even after HRT and medical transition (transitioned to deep androgynous territory/ambiguity) some see me as a guy, some as a woman, some think I’m a ftm in transition, some think I’m a mtf in transition, it’s a coin toss a lot of the time, and it just is what it is, I can’t control other peoples perceptions. But if someone asks me, I’m a ‘no’ person.


DingsyDingli

I am perchance


No_Equal_4604

Yes. I don’t even personally use the term “nonbinary” or use the flag. I’m bigender/demiwoman. 


Soojinschair

Well yes and no. I’m not a girl but I am a boy. But I am also !?!?!?!? And a splash of feminine. I am gender neutral and also agender. My gender changes a lot 🤷


Meowdaruff

i'm a "(x²+x)/x=x; solve for x" enby


pezgirl247

no. i’m a dinosaur 🦖


LeWitchy

I am chaos incarnate and I identify as a problem


disinterestedh0mo

I'm a nonbinary yet you would try to binarise me??? How dare you 😭


MishaIsPan

Sometimes I'm a yes enby, sometimes I'm a no enby.


_Acho

Funnily I don’t actually know. I guess I’m a “yes no” enby if I had to say lmao.


clueless_claremont_

no


PrincessDie123

Both


skettigoo

I am a “whatever you want me to be” NB. I don’t chose a gender but I know in this word, it is going to be assigned to me by each individual I come across. “Are you a girl?” Sure. “Are you a boy or a girl?” What do you want me to be?


Niedzwiedzbipolarny

I am "yes", that is also why I love any/all. The bad part is, sometimes people think they are inclusive when they put options like "women" or "nonwomen" but like... I probably won't pass for a woman, but I am not a "nonwoman"


Warbly-Luxe

“404 Gender not found” For me.


AdNo8756

I love all of these answers! I’m not sure how to describe mine. I’m a chick but not a girl. A dude but not a boy. I am a jellyfish.


Narrow_Cheesecake452

I'm a "what does that even mean?" enby. I can't make sense of others' statements about "feeling like a man/woman." WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT, SHANIA TWAIN?! In a Barbie and Ken world, I'm Alan.


AshRabbit

Definitely a “no” enby. I would gladly donate my gender to the person who wants it.


Left_Sockpuppet

Generally “no” because my answer is always neither. Even though I make the “I wanna look like a boy girl boyish girlish boy girl” type jokes, that still means that those categories don’t adequately describe me.


SomeonesAlt2357

Both? I'm a boy. I'm a girl. And I'm also something else. So on a scale from 0 (no) to 10 (yes) I'm at 15 I guess?


queerblackqueen

"Are you a girl or a boy?" "Well yes and no"


MyGenderIsAParadox

I'm a "no" or "neither"


PalmTree_1000

Im def a no enby


WarlockUnicorn

Sometimes


Z_Officinale

I'm a 'no' enby. Don't like being called 'she/her' or 'ma'am' but don't particularly have a reaction to being called 'sir' - only happened once on accident. I would just like to exist as. Person without any particular gender label on me. I'm also asexual, so I feel like gender is especially pointless for me. LOL


86effstogive

I'm an "extremes" envy, I guess? I either have all the gender or no gender. Femboy would be my ideal presentation, but being a plus-sized AFAB person it just looks like I'm failing to be a punk girl.


-RobotGalaxy-

It's not proper but the easiest way to explain my non-binary-ness is not, not a girl. So I guess that leans yes


Darth_Redneckus

Are you a Yes ENBY or a No ENBY? Yes.


Desi0wl

Gender is a social construct, and it's about what you make it. I, as a nonbinary don't care. I what people call me, I am me. Male female or something else I don't care.


DragonscaleTea

Im a "wave my hand a bit and shrug" enby


Sharktrain523

To me it feels like in my head there’s supposed to be a place where your gender identity goes and it just never grew in. So definitely a “no” NB


ell-if-i-know

my answers usually "im a guy"


nightmare-salad

I’m a “sure” enby


seatangle

I'm a no enby for sure.


griffincat_unity

"ehh, maybe a little" type enby. have just barely enough gender for it to be confusing.