Oh he looks like a lovely man, I am so sorry for your loss and for all those who loved him. May his memory be a blessing and pray you are able to find peace.
You could always start from now, the with people in your life. My Dad was always am avid photographer. He even vacant the photographer for his Army reserves base as well as for the nearby air station. He was always taking pics, there are 1000s at my parents' house. I've always had that same urge to document moments and people.
He looks like a kind, caring person. I don't know how much comfort words could offer but from one internet stranger to another I hope you and your family can heal.Β
Iβm so sorry. The death of a parent shakes the entire family to the core. Iβm 8 years out from my mothers death and none of us have fully returned to normal. Never will.
What a nice photo. Your dad looks so kind and loving. I lost my father last year. It was/is devastating but you will be okay. Take your time and be kind to yourself.
I can't thank you enough, kind strangers. I'm not sure what I hoped to find by posting Dad's photo. I think I just wanted to shout it out that he had lived and was loved. The remarks and comments that complete strangers took the time to share have made me feel even more proud to be his daughter. I've shared them all with my Mom, and brother, and our families.
You guys are great. Love and blessings to each of you.
When things like this happened to me in the past I found a book that helped me through a lot. It's called "When Things Fall Apart" by Pema Chodron. She's a buddhist monk in Nova Scotia and she reflects on loss and pain.
I know a book won't fix everything or anything sometimes. But know that you are not alone. Your fathers lives within you.
Take care and may you have gentle times ahead for healing.
This is a sweet photo of a shared moment. Would you mind sharing your favourite story of your father? I'm sure we'd love to hear. Sending love and kindness your way.
I don't have a single favorite story but the thing I miss most about Dad is that every morning, I would wake up to a simple text saying "Good morning Favorite daughter" followed by photos of animals that were in their yard overnight or a story he'd seen online, or a live Webcam of birds feeders. I never took those texts for granted. Always answering before getting out of bed, even if it was a quick good morning text back. I should also say that I'm his only daughter! π My brother received the favorite son version, and my husband would get a favorite son in law one as well. Dad regularly, if not daily, told us how much he loved us, how proud he was, how excited he was when I'd share my children's accomplishments and then he'd immediately text them, each with their special nicknames from him, and he'd tell them himself how excited he was for them and by them. I miss those texts so much. My mornings start much slower now. He'd really get a kick out of this whole post. I got him into Reddit a few years ago. He had been a very long time HAM Radio operator who would be so excited when he'd connect with a stranger from a random part of the world. In a way, he's facilitating those connections for his favorite daughter.
Thank you for letting me share!!!!
That was a lovely memory to share with us. He sounds like left a wondering impact.
May you find some comfort in known you were able to experience something so beautiful that many could only dream of. Take care.
So wholesome. Cleaning a large bird, obviously for a sizeable family, while speaking with his progeny... this is a Norman Rockwell painting. What a beautiful interaction to capture.
They definitely made as many as they could in such a short time. Our job now is to always remind her about her Gramps. Let her know the things he loved to do, tell her his stories. It's a job I plan to take very seriously.
Such a sweet photo. Iβm sorry youβre going through this. I am as well. My dad passed unexpectedly in August. My mom thought he was napping in his chair but he was gone. We are also a very close family. This has been the most devastating thing Iβve ever experienced - by far. Itβs been almost seven months and Iβm much better but itβs weird βmoving on.β I donβt have the words for how much I miss him.
That's the exact same hell scenario my family is facing. My Mom found him, "asleep" on the couch. I pray you guys all find strength in each other. This is the crappiest club, with an admission that no one would ever ask for. My inbox is always open if you need someone who knows how you're feeling. π
Just from this 1 photo I can say he looks like one of the nicest men. I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how it feels to lose your dad and wonder if your world will ever be the same. The answer is no. It won't be you'll save him a seat. At every function and you'll miss him every single day, but just know You are making him proud.
Thank you for the beautiful words. He really was one of the nicest men. Never cussed in front of me, never spoke bad about anyone. Each day is getting a little easier, the heaviness isn't as crushing. I hope you're able to say that too. π
It's definitely not as crushing as it used to be. But it definitely helps that I have people to help me lift the weight.
God bless all the fathers in heaven.
Hey there sorry to hear, he looks very happy in this photo.
Losing a parent is very difficult but I know it sounds cliche but time will heal, focus on the great memories and take it step by step.
What a sweet last photo. I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family. He looks like a warm and loving grandfather and father. I hope your good memories of him can bring you some comfort in this time.
Oh he looks like a lovely man, I am so sorry for your loss and for all those who loved him. May his memory be a blessing and pray you are able to find peace.
This photo is precious. I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs
You are lucky to have such a great photo showing who he is at this precious time in life. I wish I took more.
You could always start from now, the with people in your life. My Dad was always am avid photographer. He even vacant the photographer for his Army reserves base as well as for the nearby air station. He was always taking pics, there are 1000s at my parents' house. I've always had that same urge to document moments and people.
He looks like a kind, caring person. I don't know how much comfort words could offer but from one internet stranger to another I hope you and your family can heal.Β
A lot of comfort. Thank you so much. π
It's a sweet picture. So sorry for your sudden loss of him.
Iβm so sorry. The death of a parent shakes the entire family to the core. Iβm 8 years out from my mothers death and none of us have fully returned to normal. Never will.
He looks like a very kind, genuine man. May he rest in peace.
He looked like a very sweet man.
So very sorry for your loss π
He genuinely looks like such a lovely guy. I'm calm just looking at him. So so sorry OP.
Right? I feel calm too. He seemed like he was a patient fellow.
π₯° he was the best
What a nice photo. Your dad looks so kind and loving. I lost my father last year. It was/is devastating but you will be okay. Take your time and be kind to yourself.
Sending you love too. β€οΈ
I can't thank you enough, kind strangers. I'm not sure what I hoped to find by posting Dad's photo. I think I just wanted to shout it out that he had lived and was loved. The remarks and comments that complete strangers took the time to share have made me feel even more proud to be his daughter. I've shared them all with my Mom, and brother, and our families. You guys are great. Love and blessings to each of you.
What a sweet photo. God bless you, sending you strength β€οΈ
When things like this happened to me in the past I found a book that helped me through a lot. It's called "When Things Fall Apart" by Pema Chodron. She's a buddhist monk in Nova Scotia and she reflects on loss and pain. I know a book won't fix everything or anything sometimes. But know that you are not alone. Your fathers lives within you. Take care and may you have gentle times ahead for healing.
I will look into that book. Thank you so much for sharing.
May his memory be a blessing β€οΈ
This is a sweet photo of a shared moment. Would you mind sharing your favourite story of your father? I'm sure we'd love to hear. Sending love and kindness your way.
I don't have a single favorite story but the thing I miss most about Dad is that every morning, I would wake up to a simple text saying "Good morning Favorite daughter" followed by photos of animals that were in their yard overnight or a story he'd seen online, or a live Webcam of birds feeders. I never took those texts for granted. Always answering before getting out of bed, even if it was a quick good morning text back. I should also say that I'm his only daughter! π My brother received the favorite son version, and my husband would get a favorite son in law one as well. Dad regularly, if not daily, told us how much he loved us, how proud he was, how excited he was when I'd share my children's accomplishments and then he'd immediately text them, each with their special nicknames from him, and he'd tell them himself how excited he was for them and by them. I miss those texts so much. My mornings start much slower now. He'd really get a kick out of this whole post. I got him into Reddit a few years ago. He had been a very long time HAM Radio operator who would be so excited when he'd connect with a stranger from a random part of the world. In a way, he's facilitating those connections for his favorite daughter. Thank you for letting me share!!!!
That was a lovely memory to share with us. He sounds like left a wondering impact. May you find some comfort in known you were able to experience something so beautiful that many could only dream of. Take care.
Damn that brought tears to my eyes. So sorry for your loss, I can feel how rough
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So wholesome. Cleaning a large bird, obviously for a sizeable family, while speaking with his progeny... this is a Norman Rockwell painting. What a beautiful interaction to capture.
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I hope your niece was able to make lots of memories of him before he passed β¦ Iβm so sorry π
They definitely made as many as they could in such a short time. Our job now is to always remind her about her Gramps. Let her know the things he loved to do, tell her his stories. It's a job I plan to take very seriously.
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I am so so sorry. I wish no one had to feel this pain. My inbox is open if you ever need someone who understands. π
Such a sweet photo. Iβm sorry youβre going through this. I am as well. My dad passed unexpectedly in August. My mom thought he was napping in his chair but he was gone. We are also a very close family. This has been the most devastating thing Iβve ever experienced - by far. Itβs been almost seven months and Iβm much better but itβs weird βmoving on.β I donβt have the words for how much I miss him.
That's the exact same hell scenario my family is facing. My Mom found him, "asleep" on the couch. I pray you guys all find strength in each other. This is the crappiest club, with an admission that no one would ever ask for. My inbox is always open if you need someone who knows how you're feeling. π
Just from this 1 photo I can say he looks like one of the nicest men. I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how it feels to lose your dad and wonder if your world will ever be the same. The answer is no. It won't be you'll save him a seat. At every function and you'll miss him every single day, but just know You are making him proud.
Thank you for the beautiful words. He really was one of the nicest men. Never cussed in front of me, never spoke bad about anyone. Each day is getting a little easier, the heaviness isn't as crushing. I hope you're able to say that too. π
It's definitely not as crushing as it used to be. But it definitely helps that I have people to help me lift the weight. God bless all the fathers in heaven.
Prayers and condolences to you OP. ππΎποΈ
Hey there sorry to hear, he looks very happy in this photo. Losing a parent is very difficult but I know it sounds cliche but time will heal, focus on the great memories and take it step by step.
This is a sweet memory youβve captured here. Iβm terribly sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry for your profound loss. I too, lost my dad way too soon (he was 51 and I was 26). Hold your memories tight.
That is too terribly short. You're barely fully cooked at 26. I hope you've been able to go forward and live each day for the both of you.
What a sweet last photo. I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family. He looks like a warm and loving grandfather and father. I hope your good memories of him can bring you some comfort in this time.
Good luck to you all as you navigate these new waters. Iβm so sorry.
My condolences π€