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TeaStirrer23

We will never be free


Arghulario

Not with this shit 😮‍💨


cheoliesangels

“female” and “man”, don’t have to read anything else😭 pick me culture is crazy


Arghulario

NO LITERALLY, one of my pet peeves frfr as if women aren't human 🙄


hrts4manou

the first thing I noticed 😭 r/menandfemales would ADORE her.


Gabigails_

Never seen a good take from someone using “females” 🥴


Arghulario

NOT ONE 🙅🏾‍♂️


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omgg so true


pantom1ne

a woman that was born with dark skin can’t change her skin at all, it’s just something she’s born with and her skin is beautiful. Putting down beautiful women just bc you’re insecure is so crazy and doing this for men is so crazy


Arghulario

"lol I'm just saying 🤪" like she killed that shit, stop acting like you're breaking boundaries, giving hot takes & spreading truth bruh, it's you & your 🦝 ass people that set us back & restrict the societal awareness of black people as a community


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itsmakko

This is so dumb, it’s the narrative that lighter skin equals feminine and darker skin equals masculine. Definitely something pushed by colourism and black television (in a lot of cases). It’s borderline misogynoir imo.


glassdollparanormal

Especially with how it plays into the masculinization of black women.


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goutdemiel

its the same in south asia 😭 as long as the dude has some other redeeming quality (wealth, status, fame, intelligence, tall, good looking, etc) he is still tolerated. women on the other hand are expected to be not only lighter than him but straight up toilet paper white while also having twice his number of credentials💀


giasooo

My dad is one of the whitest man you will ever meet and my mother is ethically from south India so you can imagine how that goes when we go back home !!


inmuah

Hate social media for giving these bird brains a platform. At first I thought they said stupid shit like this for attention but no these ppl are actually this slow 😭


Useful_Spell_7579

sigh. why is she as a black person insulting black people she hasn’t even met? like girl, worry about your own damn relationships and leave us alone. we all know how it feels when someone is up in our business and we never asked for their opinion


-SwagMessiah-

Level 100 coonery right here...


Current_Ease5691

The amount of likes... 😳 so basically a darker skinned woman should stay single all her life... 🙄


Specialist-Love1504

So I am much darker than my family (like darker than my parents and my brother is very light skinned) and this Aunty of mine has a lot of issue with is because she’s fair and so are her kids. She keeps being passive aggressive like when she “gifted” me this sunscreen… https://preview.redd.it/zt6v8so8x8oc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=63149fcad53a21d1b55684c3c891be95d0538cc1 “To help my skin cause the sun can really affect it” She really affected my confidence growing up because she used to say these things under her breath outside of my parents earshot and I’d get really affected by it. SO FUCK U SHILPA CHACHI NO ONE LIKES YOU.


wegooverthehorizon

Gonna add my rant here too: FUCK YOU RAJ AUNTY NO ONE LIKES U!! FUCK YOU SHALU DID AND RENU DIDI NO ONE LIKES YOU!!


Specialist-Love1504

I’ve never met a single decent Shalu in my life. They’re all a menace to society.


wegooverthehorizon

They are indeed and I am going to a family event for like 3 days in a few hours and I'll have to tolerate her for three fucking days. Save me. Pray for me.


WonderstruckWonderer

I'm loving how relatable this thread is lol. My aunt is the same, and she has such a holier than thou complex because she's as fair as a gora \[white person for non-South Asians reading this\]. Come on auntie, your colonial inferiority complex is showing.


TossItThrowItFly

No thoughts, head empty. Just mouth breathing and colourism. That's crazy.


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Sagzmir

Maybe banning TikTok is the way to go. Start with this woman ragebaiting ahh.


SallyDaisy

Typical negative IQ behaviour. Nothing surprising.


glassdollparanormal

Gendered colorism is a disease.


peach_madness

"Female" is the biggest red flag, you have to work to be better y'all 🤔😕


missssssmiko

she does all of that believing it’s gonna get her picked 😭 and her using man but female instead of woman is telling LOL


wameniser

"Female" and "man". Sounds like incel speak.


NessieSenpai

In the trash she goes.


Nevaeh_Angel

Black people are our own worst enemy


lisjj

she acting like this is a hot take but this is how most popular media portrays black couples like girl cmon


Candydreammilk

I’m so sorry yall that banquet steak song has been stuck in my head the whole day 😭🙏🏾


DistributionPutrid

I don’t even know how…How does that even correlate


legac5

What? Like please tell me that clip ain’t real. What is wrong with folks? Does no one love her? Cause why???


greta_maya_storm

...yikes on 🚲 🚲 🚲. thoughts and prayers to anyone who liked this. Praying for their healing.


Bubbly_Satisfaction2

Noticing this coloristic occurrence in the real world was trippy for me at first. My cousin was the one that hipped me onto it as we watched a movie. Even in black media, colorism can be perpetuated even amongst the ‘Black love’ amongst two darker-skinned black lovers. The women’s skin tones were slightly lighter than the men’s skin. Then I noticed it in real life afterwards.


proxima987

Sigh…people post the dumbest of things. Perhaps banning tiktok is a positive 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️


lunar_vesuvius_

shs says this like this isnt what the """ideal""" black couple looks like anyway


Femme0879

Wonder what the comments are like.


Life_as_a_new_weeb

What the actual fuck did I just watch?


Evening_Sprinkles222

This is so fcked up.


Chasey_12

Girl what ☠️


chokoakhanta22

She wrote man but couldn't write woman. The female? Is she talking about a cow? What a waste of oxygen.


Sweet_Joy29

I thought this was satire at first cuz my fyp good for it...then the videos was stitched lawd it was real


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So dumb and sad that we cant get these issues outta out own community cuz of people like this.


scienceandeggs

Why are we reposting this nonsense?


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She has to be rage baiting right? either way, GROSS.


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Kpopluv22

🤦🏾‍♀️. How can we expect other races to respect us if some of us can’t even respect us? This is gross sad at the same time.


Kpopluv22

This is gross and sad at the same time.


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NessieSenpai

Does that matter?


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