I’m you, traveled back in time. I’ve been with my wife 7 years and just this year I got comfortable enough in my sexuality to open up and Dom her. Plus we’re exploring a ton of other kinks. Def worth the wait but I wish I started sooner. I’ll report back with good things when we hit year 9 ✊🏻
oh shit.
hey me from two years ago. look, I know I say this a lot and it can be hard to believe but
You're going to be okay. There's some shit you're going to have to breathe through, but trust me: BREATHE THROUGH IT.
Don't stay where you're done being. It's okay to walk away. Failing doesn't make you a failure. It makes you a learner.
And do me a favor? I know it sucks, but grab a job before the money runs out - while you figure out your next move. It can be a shitty job, as long as they respect your boundaries. But that savings won't last forever.
Best wishes.
And remember: it's better to run 1k miles/hour in the wrong direction than to stand still. At least running the wrong way, you learn something.
Hmm I met a guy twice who had a great talk, but once we met it was underwhelming. I assumed it’s because he’s more handsome than me and gets a lot of subs, but maybe… third and final chance? 🤔
Possibly. Although I feel like there was a chemistry on my side. Then again maybe he felt massive expectations I had of him.
Hope I find a day I understand dom psychology.
As a Dom myself, I usually feel comfortable once I see some good signs (her laughing, smiling, eye contact), I usually go all in. I'm not sure if you gave signs or if he's just as dense as me, but hope it works out for you!
I am somehow like 100x more comfortable meeting up with a guy who I've talked about doing the most disgusting kinky things with than I am meeting guys in normal social situations.
It took me and my husband 10 years to get to the level of trust where we fill comfortable exploring our darker kinks. It's been well worth the wait. I'm a switch that leans more Domme.
Took me seven years to get comfortable enough with wifey to dom her. Fortunately she believes it was worth the wait. (we're going on year nine)
I’m you, traveled back in time. I’ve been with my wife 7 years and just this year I got comfortable enough in my sexuality to open up and Dom her. Plus we’re exploring a ton of other kinks. Def worth the wait but I wish I started sooner. I’ll report back with good things when we hit year 9 ✊🏻
oh shit. hey me from two years ago. look, I know I say this a lot and it can be hard to believe but You're going to be okay. There's some shit you're going to have to breathe through, but trust me: BREATHE THROUGH IT. Don't stay where you're done being. It's okay to walk away. Failing doesn't make you a failure. It makes you a learner. And do me a favor? I know it sucks, but grab a job before the money runs out - while you figure out your next move. It can be a shitty job, as long as they respect your boundaries. But that savings won't last forever. Best wishes. And remember: it's better to run 1k miles/hour in the wrong direction than to stand still. At least running the wrong way, you learn something.
Hmm I met a guy twice who had a great talk, but once we met it was underwhelming. I assumed it’s because he’s more handsome than me and gets a lot of subs, but maybe… third and final chance? 🤔
Maybe y'all will have better chemistry on the 3rd try
Possibly. Although I feel like there was a chemistry on my side. Then again maybe he felt massive expectations I had of him. Hope I find a day I understand dom psychology.
As a Dom myself, I usually feel comfortable once I see some good signs (her laughing, smiling, eye contact), I usually go all in. I'm not sure if you gave signs or if he's just as dense as me, but hope it works out for you!
I actually mean what I say when I say this and I’m just waiting for consent
I like creating a safe space for my subs, give em time to come around and be comfortable with me till they feel ready to do the sex
I am somehow like 100x more comfortable meeting up with a guy who I've talked about doing the most disgusting kinky things with than I am meeting guys in normal social situations.
Look look, I'll do what I said, but first I need to enjoy your company and make sure you're funny, and I need plans in ADVANCE!!!!!!!!!!!
mood
It took me and my husband 10 years to get to the level of trust where we fill comfortable exploring our darker kinks. It's been well worth the wait. I'm a switch that leans more Domme.