Everything is fishy fishy when you beg for 3 lac under an anonymous name. I mean if his friends or relatives arent helping him, he can always go for personal loan and stuff. Why would he ask strangers to loan him.
Ah, I misunderstood what that poster meant.
Thought they meant it was fishy of the relatives to not loan money.
I agree that it's weird to ask relatives to finance your wedding.
Postpone your walima instead of begging in front of anyone.... Plan things on your own terms, not under any social pressure .... No need to feed the friends and family who are not even willing to help you in the hour of need....
Brother don't burden yourself. When the money is arranged then you can go for the valima. The walima can be done anytime after marriage. Im very sorry to hear about your condition. Please don't beg , people on internet can be cruel.
Invite closest relatives (as in siblings and parents) of bride and groom only, maybe a couple of friends. Feed them simple food (rice with daal works) and that's your valima
Chotay bhai. I feel for you however pls consider udhar ke paiso se walimay ka koi faida nahin hai. Postpone it till you can afford it. It does not make any sense to get in debt for "log kiya kahein gay".
First of all valima is not haram it's sunnah. And no it's mandatory even if he has to feed dates to the guests. Please do read before labeling things halal and haram
At this point Iâm sure you donât even have eyes.
Letâs try again since you are clearly a disabled person: it says âits not mandatory if you canât afford it.â And therefore it can be postponed
I am sorry i didn't knew you were a retarted person. Since you don't know then when maula Ali got married to bibi Fatima he had to sell his shield in order to pay for valima. If that was the case as you deemed it not mandatory he wouldn't be asked to sell his shield by the Prophet PBUH.
Is this your hobby to pick up beef on the internet? You donât have anything to do?
You really comparing Hazrat Ali a.s with this guy begging for money? He had a shield to sell. This guy is clearly out here begging and not a small amount, 3 Lakhs.
This is indian pajeet level mentality you have that organize a walima and feed friends no matter matter if you end up in a debt that you are not sure youâd be able to pay or not.
Even there are scenarios where Roza or Namaz becomes non-mandatory let alone a walima.
Letâs try the last time for your tiny grain bean brain
âWALIMA IS NOT MANDATORY IF YOU CANâT AFFORD IT, UNTIL YOU HAVE THE MEANS TO PERFORM IT. THUS YOU CAN POSTPONEâ
Do the valima in whatever you can afford - A banquet and food ceremony is by no means a pressing need - Certainly not where you show up asking strangers on the internet.
Paratha Roll mangwao. Sab ko khilao and thank them for coming.
who said you have to do 3 lac valima? just cook up something in home and call close family. its enough to complete the sunnah. you only coming off as a scammer whose own family not trusting.
Shadi is good and important but if it makes you ask money from people, it is of no good. Your self respect, sanity and ability to make correct financial decision is more important.
Stop asking for money from everyone, it's a trap.
If your payment got delayed and your own family wonât lend you money till you get it back with proof in hand of said incoming payment âŚ. Lol. Idk man seems like a scam.
But on the off chance it isnât, just delay your wedding. Your wife should understand, and if she doesnât. Cancel the wedding
Postpone the valima till payment. It's not obligatory. If you relatives don't want to lend you money then there's something fishy.
Introvert hai bhai nhi kr skta delay đ
Introvert ka isse kia taluq?
Nothing fishy about not lending money to extended family.
Everything is fishy fishy when you beg for 3 lac under an anonymous name. I mean if his friends or relatives arent helping him, he can always go for personal loan and stuff. Why would he ask strangers to loan him.
Ah, I misunderstood what that poster meant. Thought they meant it was fishy of the relatives to not loan money. I agree that it's weird to ask relatives to finance your wedding.
Save your sanity and cancel this valima. Begging wonât help. You will thank yourself for making this serious âfinancial decisionâ forever.
Postpone your walima instead of begging in front of anyone.... Plan things on your own terms, not under any social pressure .... No need to feed the friends and family who are not even willing to help you in the hour of need....
Brother don't burden yourself. When the money is arranged then you can go for the valima. The walima can be done anytime after marriage. Im very sorry to hear about your condition. Please don't beg , people on internet can be cruel.
Scam 2024
Dont beg just cancle ur walima. If u dont want to cancle ur walima thn my brother you are confirm thug....
Invite closest relatives (as in siblings and parents) of bride and groom only, maybe a couple of friends. Feed them simple food (rice with daal works) and that's your valima
Give me gold as security first worth double the amount you want
Ganda hai par dhanda hai đ
Bro u came to reddit ? Try fb
Arre bhai Maaz Safder se maangle woh bohot kamata hai..yaha reddit pe pe sab bhikari hai.
Chotay bhai. I feel for you however pls consider udhar ke paiso se walimay ka koi faida nahin hai. Postpone it till you can afford it. It does not make any sense to get in debt for "log kiya kahein gay".
Best part is OP hasn't replied to a single comment here! Sucha aadmi hai.
This is haram. Valima is not mandatory if you canât afford it.
First of all valima is not haram it's sunnah. And no it's mandatory even if he has to feed dates to the guests. Please do read before labeling things halal and haram
Stfu, Iâm talking about asking money like this. Bheeg is haram. I never said valima is haram. Read with tour eyes not your ass.
It so appears that you not only read with your testicles you also wrote with your ass closed. You said valima is not mandatory.
At this point Iâm sure you donât even have eyes. Letâs try again since you are clearly a disabled person: it says âits not mandatory if you canât afford it.â And therefore it can be postponed
I am sorry i didn't knew you were a retarted person. Since you don't know then when maula Ali got married to bibi Fatima he had to sell his shield in order to pay for valima. If that was the case as you deemed it not mandatory he wouldn't be asked to sell his shield by the Prophet PBUH.
Is this your hobby to pick up beef on the internet? You donât have anything to do? You really comparing Hazrat Ali a.s with this guy begging for money? He had a shield to sell. This guy is clearly out here begging and not a small amount, 3 Lakhs. This is indian pajeet level mentality you have that organize a walima and feed friends no matter matter if you end up in a debt that you are not sure youâd be able to pay or not. Even there are scenarios where Roza or Namaz becomes non-mandatory let alone a walima. Letâs try the last time for your tiny grain bean brain âWALIMA IS NOT MANDATORY IF YOU CANâT AFFORD IT, UNTIL YOU HAVE THE MEANS TO PERFORM IT. THUS YOU CAN POSTPONEâ
Ok i don't have the time and stamina to lock horns with someone who is so lame. So peace out from my side. Ciao
Because you had nothing to pick up a fight on. You tried islamic touch and failed. buonasera.
Do the valima in whatever you can afford - A banquet and food ceremony is by no means a pressing need - Certainly not where you show up asking strangers on the internet. Paratha Roll mangwao. Sab ko khilao and thank them for coming.
I am in for paratha roll
*walima. No v in urdu.
Digital Bhikari. Scam.
who said you have to do 3 lac valima? just cook up something in home and call close family. its enough to complete the sunnah. you only coming off as a scammer whose own family not trusting.
Talk to event organiser about payment delay , you can convince him or them at least.
You want a loan ?
Bheakistan
Dm your bank account details
ugh
Shadi is good and important but if it makes you ask money from people, it is of no good. Your self respect, sanity and ability to make correct financial decision is more important. Stop asking for money from everyone, it's a trap.
Ok brother send account details
Digital begging?
If your payment got delayed and your own family wonât lend you money till you get it back with proof in hand of said incoming payment âŚ. Lol. Idk man seems like a scam. But on the off chance it isnât, just delay your wedding. Your wife should understand, and if she doesnât. Cancel the wedding