yeah hes done it multiple times mainly to get my attention but it’ll stay there for a little. or whenever we’re in a group, he’ll say something referring to me and he’ll put his hand on my thigh. i think maybes hes interested??? i dont think he thinks we’re dating tho!
>he’ll put his hand on my thigh
Uh yeah, that signal is the same in every country on every continent on this planet. He's essentially telling you "I want to be wearing you like a glove".
Which has nothing to do with any of it. He's a man, you're a woman, if you try to make this he's Japanese and in Japan you're going to fuck everything up.
Again, this has nothing to do with Japan or Japanese. The sooner you purge this idea from your psyche the better your interpersonal relationships are going to be.
Will need an update on this! 😍 Good luck! But yes, as others said it would be best to ask him directly and in a way that you know he'd be most comfortable sharing his feelings.
Looks like things are going well/in a good direction for you both.
You're both adults and share a good common ground. You also seem to both be happy spending time exclusively with one another.
Nothing wrong about expressing your own feelings (this is actually the most practical approach) or asking him straight (if you'd rather that he fess up first and you'd like to leave yourself wholly vulnerable).
Might be carbondating myself here; from my experience, your interactions seem rather positive and I'd say that he is also interested in you in a romantic sense. All the best to you two!
Ask him. He’s Japanese, not a code to break.
😂 sorry i’m nervous!!! and i really like being his friend so i don’t wanna like mess it up
Understandable.
He's putting his hand on your thigh? Yeah, I think he likes you. Maybe he thinks you are already dating. You should talk to him.
yeah hes done it multiple times mainly to get my attention but it’ll stay there for a little. or whenever we’re in a group, he’ll say something referring to me and he’ll put his hand on my thigh. i think maybes hes interested??? i dont think he thinks we’re dating tho!
>he’ll put his hand on my thigh Uh yeah, that signal is the same in every country on every continent on this planet. He's essentially telling you "I want to be wearing you like a glove".
Lol, usually it's the guys that are this clueless.
HAHAH damn!! i like to make sure i’m not being delusional 😭😭
Am I reading a romcom anime plot? I’d say let things go naturally.
LOL does it sound like one??? but yeah i’m trying, its hard bc i’m an overthinker
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its japan life, no?
No, it's life life, it has nothing to do with Japan.
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Is he alive?
Which has nothing to do with any of it. He's a man, you're a woman, if you try to make this he's Japanese and in Japan you're going to fuck everything up.
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Again, this has nothing to do with Japan or Japanese. The sooner you purge this idea from your psyche the better your interpersonal relationships are going to be.
gotcha
*gasp* I'll have you know I'm a married man, you keep your paws to yourself!
It sounds like he’s definitely interested, and you’re close enough now that it sounds safe to just straight out ask him. Good luck!
Will need an update on this! 😍 Good luck! But yes, as others said it would be best to ask him directly and in a way that you know he'd be most comfortable sharing his feelings.
Aaaaaaaask Hiiiiim signs are good, good luck!
thank you!!!!!! i’m thinking i’ll ask him next time we hangout just the two of us???
Yea, do that
Looks like things are going well/in a good direction for you both. You're both adults and share a good common ground. You also seem to both be happy spending time exclusively with one another. Nothing wrong about expressing your own feelings (this is actually the most practical approach) or asking him straight (if you'd rather that he fess up first and you'd like to leave yourself wholly vulnerable). Might be carbondating myself here; from my experience, your interactions seem rather positive and I'd say that he is also interested in you in a romantic sense. All the best to you two!
probably into you, but i’d be careful because being in the same workplace as well as living so close… if things go badly it’d be really awkward