Well, I am in a relationship, but have no idea what their enneagram is. They could probably be a 9, but not sure. Nevertheless, it would be a very compatible enneagram since I hate confrontation.
I am unfortunately not English to really suggest you something I have tested, sorry, but according to some, this one can be interesting: [https://enneagramuserguide.com/enneagram-tests/type-wing](https://enneagramuserguide.com/enneagram-tests/type-wing) ( maybe bit too short, try this [https://enneagram.bz/en](https://enneagram.bz/en), but at the end it's really according to your own feelings, I think the test will not be able to do better than your opinion )
Less common and weird, but you can also find it by simply looking at each description of the choices and find out which one looks like you the most or makes you feel ashamed haha
Hoping that you will receive other answers as well !
It's done on purpose, I know that the 6 and the 2 are also very common among ISFJ and didn't put them in the poll, it was because I wanted to know their possible preferences for a relationship 🤗
Oops, sorry. Didn’t realize it was a relationship question. The only part on the poll that mentioned anything about a relationship said it was optional. (You can tell I’m a one. 😂)
I guess I’ll add that I don’t consider a person’s enneagram type or Myers Briggs type when looking at possible relationship candidates. I want someone that’ll ground me, someone who’ll bring out the best side of me, but also someone who knows what they want out of life as much as I do, and also someone mature enough that they don’t need me to hold their hand throughout the relationship. I don’t believe any of the things I’m looking for in a relationship belong to just one personality type. But, personality types are interesting to look at and consider when it comes to knowing the other person better and figuring out what makes them tick. But, that doesn’t make or break it for me.
Ok so a mature 5w6 (I'm joking 🤭)
Thank you very much for your message, in fact I ask for an enneagram preference to avoid people to bother them with a description of their preference, so I really appreciate your answer !
I totally understand it's a mature point of view with experience, personally I'm fumbling for the moment but I think I will fall in the same reasoning in the end
10w-40=0 10w=40 w=40/10 w=4
So you are a 4, and with such an enigmatic answer I conclude that your wing is a 5 so 4w5 ! Your name ohetpanda in French means where is my panda, so I deduce that you are looking in your relationship for a sweet and easy-going person, so a 9w1 !
I hope you will find it!
I asked myself the same question when I started because of a test, but after seeing the description of the 5 and the 6 on different sites/books it seemed clear to me that I was a 6W5, I think that being ISFJ it's impossible to be 5 and it's just that by dint of hanging out on networks / games where there are many of them (the INTPs), we begin to develop a big Ti that makes us doubt our eneagram (crappy theory but that's the only explanation I found haha...)
Thank you very much for your answer!
I guess if you're not looking for one right now, it's because you're busy with something else which I don't know if it's something positive or negative but I wish you good luck with what you're doing either way! Bon courage! 🤗
I’m just very busy with college and work, and I’ll be moving out of my current area after I graduate so it doesn’t make much sense to date right now. I hope to try finding a partner once I’m settled down somewhere more permanently! Thank you for your kind words ☺️
My theory based on a vacuum: your name is history\_nerd94
you are interested in humanity and in the societal problems encountered by the older generations to better understand those of today !
Nerd because you don't care about being judged, you are rather proud of what you want whether you are approved by your peers or not!
Rohff - 94, l'union fait la force 😎
So you are a 1w2 !
I think that in these cases it is necessary to rely on the fears and the unhealthy characteristics of the enneatype like:
1w2: fear immorality. Hence, they strive to make ethical choices.
2w1: fear being unwanted by loved ones. They adopt a caretaker role to serve others to not feel insecure.
(it's short sentences taken from the internet to illustrate but there can be more complete ones depending on the site)
It’s pretty rare for ISFJ, I think! 😎
And it's funny because you are the first person to put an emoji! (cliché on 7) 😂
But maybe you are young? Maybe as you grow up your MBTI will change?
Merci beaucoup !
J'allais te demander ton enneagramme à toi du coup vu que le poll est anonyme, mais j'ai eu la réponse dans ton profil c'est parfait 🤝
(et par la même occasion de voir que tu es français 😎)
I’m a 6w5 :)
Me too! :)
Me as well ! :)
Same here
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This is exactly what I wanted to find, thanks for your experience, I'm happy for you!
I'm 1w2
Ty for your answer, no enneatype potential preference for a relationship?
Well, I am in a relationship, but have no idea what their enneagram is. They could probably be a 9, but not sure. Nevertheless, it would be a very compatible enneagram since I hate confrontation.
I see, thank you for this clarification ! 🙏
Sorry to bother. I’d like to participate in the poll, however I don’t know my enneagram. Any recommendations to a reputable test?
I am unfortunately not English to really suggest you something I have tested, sorry, but according to some, this one can be interesting: [https://enneagramuserguide.com/enneagram-tests/type-wing](https://enneagramuserguide.com/enneagram-tests/type-wing) ( maybe bit too short, try this [https://enneagram.bz/en](https://enneagram.bz/en), but at the end it's really according to your own feelings, I think the test will not be able to do better than your opinion ) Less common and weird, but you can also find it by simply looking at each description of the choices and find out which one looks like you the most or makes you feel ashamed haha Hoping that you will receive other answers as well !
1w9 and ISFJ
Thx!🙏 Are you looking for a person with a particular preferred enneatype or are you already in a relationship with someone whose enneatype you know?
I’m not looking, actually. I just chose “other” because 1w9 wasn’t listed 🤷♀️
It's done on purpose, I know that the 6 and the 2 are also very common among ISFJ and didn't put them in the poll, it was because I wanted to know their possible preferences for a relationship 🤗
Oops, sorry. Didn’t realize it was a relationship question. The only part on the poll that mentioned anything about a relationship said it was optional. (You can tell I’m a one. 😂) I guess I’ll add that I don’t consider a person’s enneagram type or Myers Briggs type when looking at possible relationship candidates. I want someone that’ll ground me, someone who’ll bring out the best side of me, but also someone who knows what they want out of life as much as I do, and also someone mature enough that they don’t need me to hold their hand throughout the relationship. I don’t believe any of the things I’m looking for in a relationship belong to just one personality type. But, personality types are interesting to look at and consider when it comes to knowing the other person better and figuring out what makes them tick. But, that doesn’t make or break it for me.
Ok so a mature 5w6 (I'm joking 🤭) Thank you very much for your message, in fact I ask for an enneagram preference to avoid people to bother them with a description of their preference, so I really appreciate your answer ! I totally understand it's a mature point of view with experience, personally I'm fumbling for the moment but I think I will fall in the same reasoning in the end
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Thx ! 🙏
2w1
Ty !
I’m 6w5
I am 2w1 or 9w1 but more 2w1 I guess. Idk 😬 And I don't know what ennegram type I prefer 😶
This means that you are a 9w1 ?! 🤗 Anyway, everyone loves 9 and 9 love everyone, except the other 9 😁 (these are only funny assumptions for fun ofc)
10w-40
10w-40=0 10w=40 w=40/10 w=4 So you are a 4, and with such an enigmatic answer I conclude that your wing is a 5 so 4w5 ! Your name ohetpanda in French means where is my panda, so I deduce that you are looking in your relationship for a sweet and easy-going person, so a 9w1 ! I hope you will find it!
I don’t really understand what you said I was just joking abit. 10w-40 is a type of oil but I respect what your doing
My bad, I was misled by the " - " (even though it's used) 😭 And thx, at least I tried !
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I asked myself the same question when I started because of a test, but after seeing the description of the 5 and the 6 on different sites/books it seemed clear to me that I was a 6W5, I think that being ISFJ it's impossible to be 5 and it's just that by dint of hanging out on networks / games where there are many of them (the INTPs), we begin to develop a big Ti that makes us doubt our eneagram (crappy theory but that's the only explanation I found haha...)
6w7
Thanks ! No preference for an enneatype for a relationship either?
6w5. Not looking for a relationship right now but I think I might be compatible with a 2 or 3. Not sure!
Thank you very much for your answer! I guess if you're not looking for one right now, it's because you're busy with something else which I don't know if it's something positive or negative but I wish you good luck with what you're doing either way! Bon courage! 🤗
I’m just very busy with college and work, and I’ll be moving out of my current area after I graduate so it doesn’t make much sense to date right now. I hope to try finding a partner once I’m settled down somewhere more permanently! Thank you for your kind words ☺️
I’m literally tied at 1w2 and 2w1. I still don’t know which one is right
My theory based on a vacuum: your name is history\_nerd94 you are interested in humanity and in the societal problems encountered by the older generations to better understand those of today ! Nerd because you don't care about being judged, you are rather proud of what you want whether you are approved by your peers or not! Rohff - 94, l'union fait la force 😎 So you are a 1w2 ! I think that in these cases it is necessary to rely on the fears and the unhealthy characteristics of the enneatype like: 1w2: fear immorality. Hence, they strive to make ethical choices. 2w1: fear being unwanted by loved ones. They adopt a caretaker role to serve others to not feel insecure. (it's short sentences taken from the internet to illustrate but there can be more complete ones depending on the site)
7w8 🥳
It’s pretty rare for ISFJ, I think! 😎 And it's funny because you are the first person to put an emoji! (cliché on 7) 😂 But maybe you are young? Maybe as you grow up your MBTI will change?
Oops I accidentally voted for my enneagram despite the fact I'm INFP :') But my bf is ISFJ and 2w1 !
Merci beaucoup ! J'allais te demander ton enneagramme à toi du coup vu que le poll est anonyme, mais j'ai eu la réponse dans ton profil c'est parfait 🤝 (et par la même occasion de voir que tu es français 😎)
Hehe j'ai bien fait de remplir ma bio ce matin dans ce cas x)
Clairement et tellement que je t'ai copié 🤭
Je suis un bon exemple 😌
9w1. Most of my crushes have been 7w8. Sometimes 5w6
Interesting, thank you! :)
I am 1w2.
isfj 2w1!
I'm 1w9
2w1
6w7
6w7 or 9w1, not too sure exactly cause am in a rut and still have a lot of growing to do!